I kind of see that as gender equality(going in, not holding the door, ordering by themselves etc.), in a way. I don't think guys should do anything for a girl just for being a guy and vice versa. I just don't like the bit of men being "superior," I couldn't deal with that sort of sexism.
you don't know most girls. just because most girls you've seen hit on guys who you think are jerks, doesn't mean they're actually jerks, or that most girls hit on guys who they think are jerks. :)
I'm mean, people who are in love take joy in spending as much time as they can with each other.
This video kinda makes it sound like japanese people don't fall in love. that they just want to be in relationships just.. well, just because they wanna.
I absolutely agree with everything you say in this video. I think it can apply to Korean culture also. I have a Korean boyfriend; I consider him as a wonderful person and really love him, but I know the culture difference is just so big, and it will be an issue in the future if things develop (which I do actually hope!). Cultural difference is what attracts me, but it is also the main source of troubles and misunderstandings. But in the end, we wanna think we are the one exception to the rule^^
Dogs are ALWAYS affectionate with you. They ALWAYS want to do everything with you, they are ALWAYS by your side, they do what you want
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Housecats are aloof. They think they're better than you, they don't feel you deserve their attention. They do what THEY want, they don't do many things for you. They rarely ever spend time with you. It takes them a LONG time to show affection with you.
@APuppyNamedSkip Now of course these are all generalities, and not this extreme in real life, but I'd say generally or at least sterotypically, this is the perfect example!!
excuse me why are you bagging cats.Random much ...I love kitties so if japanese guys are like cats.. HELL YEAH. I have a house cat who is very affectionate and he has always been nice from when i first got him. I don't get why fricking dog lovers take every opp to insult cats (btw i love dogs too). If you are going to compare an aloof person don't compare to cats, they are beautiful animals. Compare them to a shark, a shark actually wants to rip your head off. Thx
oh haha sorry i get carried away when it comes to fav animal. You see my kitty is sick at the moment and i kinda try to strangle any one who says anything... i don't know, lol i'm sorry. And i agree that stereotype is a perfect example. Sorry for being a creep. :P
i think it's disturbing how japanese people are embarrassed about affection. i saw a movie where there was a couple and their daughter. you see that the mom and dad have separate beds and when the dad said ai shiteru to his wife, everybody in the family was ashamed and embarrassed. to tell you the truth i found that really sad and depressing.
@jodelle6 Japan is more emotionally reserved, it has nothing to do with being sad or any of that rather "Not the right place or time". Because they emotionally reserve things, what they say and do has more meaning. Saying "You're beautiful" here is no big deal. She may blush but that's it, nothing else. If you said it in japan, you're being personal to that person and they might not want to be near you, or will not understand how you came to say such a thing.
@jodelle6 It has nothing to do with shame, i don't know where you got the idea just because they're not as expressive, they're ashamed.. but it isn't true. Japanese people just take things more seriously, so words and actions of romance aren't said on the fly. They carry a deep value to them, showing your love in public is more like showing off. They don't show off, or at least don't like to. It's just how their society works, it's has nothing to do with shame though.
From experience, I would say that girls (and guys) in Japan who are interested in Japan are almost bound to be different from the norm. The fact they even have any interest in foreigners is going against the norms so I would say rather than look at stereotypes, one could say that your ideas only apply to japanese people who don't normally go for foreigners.
Well DUUR cause in america you gotta kiss some serious ass to get a girlfriend and being desperate is a biproduct of "OMFG i have one finally!" tell me something would it be easy to convert to their way after being desperate for quite some time?
Yeah, it's like that in general with guys in Japan. Even if you're not dating them. There is rarely any guys and girls mix groups of friends....
But when I went there a guy did just cut me off at the door...I was fuming. I mean I'm not American, but it's a sense of respect to wait for the person to go through the door then go themselves. Or the cell phone thing...I hated the constant cell phone texting....
i cant remember which video it was but i believe it was this on or maybe #21 but you said that you think the guy walks infront of the girl because he thinks "hes head honcho" or something like that lol But i did some research out of boredom and i found out they do that more like an escort. So they can Escort the female to a destination. :) keep up the great vids!
I`m from Sweden and wants to work in Japan whit hotels (maby stand in the lobby and help the guests out whit things like hotelrooms and other stuff) but im worried to falling in love whit a japanese guy haha! Im freaking scared xD LOL. maby cuz they are so cute!!!! i just cant stop looking at them xD haha. But If i meet "mister right"......I cant live whitout my family. ÄÄÄ go for it! :D hehe.
I enjoy all of your videos very much, but I REALLY enjoy the ones where you are driving around. I get to look out the window and enjoy the scenery! :D
So, if all of this is true then why IS IT that way in animes? I really think that's an interesting point you pointed out. I personally think that it's kind of a secret desire they may have to be lovey dovey, but don't because society is too obsessed with being "cool." And if that's not it then maybe they just wanted to display japan relationships from another spectrum. who knows...????
American women are always crying out for their equality, I think letting the door shut in the girls face should be just fine for an American girl, nothing more equal than that "open it yourself woman, yer equal!"
People who are saying that Japanese guys are jerks are wrong. This is just a different culture. If you don't like it, don't come to Japan. If you're not prepared to adapt to another culture in another country, then there's no point going to that other country.
@SamGlover25 Well, some might be jerks. You can't just say it's the culture because sometimes it isn't. I won't do things just because it's normal in a culture, I will be polite, but if someone is what I consider not good company I won't hang around them.
An interesting point, but I know a few Japanese women, most of whom live in Tokyo, and they are not too crazy about how they are treated by men and women's role in Japanese society in general.
The "it's their culture" notion should not excuse people within that culture being treated as lesser citizens. The role of women has been an issue in many cultures.
It is not unreasonable for Japanese women to expect to be seen as equals and "culture" should not prevent that.
@gillianorley - I agree with this. If it's just "the culture" and we should accept it as simply being fine because of that, then why did women in the US gain rights? Why did the blacks have a civil rights movement? It was "the culture" back then, no? So that should have been perfectly fine right? See....how that argument is flawed?
Since you mention the Civil Rights Movement, it's worth noting that even slavery was defended as being part of Southern "culture."
Southern slaveholders referred to slavery as their "peculiar institution" and even claimed that their slaves were better off because, as valuable property, they were well taken care of and liked having their "masters" providing food, shelter, etc.
I'm not saying this is equivalent to slavery, but it shows how far the concept can go.
@SamGlover25 Considering that Japan has some of the worst sexism in the world with women comprising of very little in governmental representation (Pakistan has more!!), it's understandable why some would conclude that Japanese men are jerks. Obviously over-generalizations aren't 100%, but it's understandable why women would not want to date a Japanese man. They won't be loved, or at least they won't be loved in a familiar way. BTW I pray to God that never end up in Japan, even on a layover.
@Divinecovenant0012 Have you ever been to Japan? We have one of the lowest crime rates and have a 2% divorce rate. Quit being a racist, it's disgusting
@goe5 How can I be racist if I have Japanese friends AND I have counseled Japanese people? Your critique is rather hollow. More importantly, Japan's "low crime rate" has more to do with the reporting that with actuality (especially considering their definition of rape), but even taking that into consideration Japan does have a low crime rate compared to say Latin America or USA, but not much difference from Western Europe.
@Divinecovenant0012 you still didn't answer my question. Women are respected highly in Japan, THE ONLY FUCKING REASON everyone thinks Japan is horrible is because only the bad stories are reported. Every news station is like that, take into consideration of what goes on in a daily basis in Japan. It is very peaceful, and you honestly think no one reports the crimes? Look up no looting, Japan is the first to come up
@goe5 ..is the best society in the world. In fact I would say it's on the upper half but not the best. However, when you speak about "best societies" you are treading puritanically difficult waters, and it's hard to avoid pejoratives when commenting on such things. However, you need to look at another video by JapanChannelDcom that talks about how bad sexism is in Japan. I think it's called "Japan sux #16." BTW wikipedia is not the best resource for everything.
@goe5 Look bud, I'm NOT interested in a flaming war with you, most especially since I don't know who you are and it's distracting to the video here. I would be very hesitant to deride someone's erudition, because you do not have the perspicacity to know the full extend of their learning. If you like to emulate Japanese culture so much, you need to emulate their modesty. But more importantly, I'm aware of the low crime in Japan and (virually) no looting in Japan. But that does not mean that...
ummm.. you think letting a door slam in someone's face is being respected?
it's not. lol. and i've heard of women being beaten for hours who called the police, and they didn't absolutely nothing because she wasn't bleeding, and when they left, she got beaten for hours more, and thrown around. Japan has it's bad shit, too.
@310BPM MY GOD YOU PEOPLE ARE PATHETIC!!! I LIVE IN JAPAN!!!!!! This stuff doesn't happen on a daily basis! We respect women! We always have!!! In fact, most Japanese women choose to get married to Japanese men cause white men were too rude around other people. Don't believe me??? Go to my country and we'll see who's wrong. QUIT saying Japan hates women, it's disgusting.
@goe5 Also when you speak of divorce rate, I'm wondering if you wikipediaed that statistic. In any case divorce DEMOGRAPHIC and divorce RATE are vastly different because they are calculated differently. Japan's 2.2 is not that much different from the USA's 3.4.
@Divinecovenant0012 Look up sexism on wikipedia, you won't find a single trace of Japan unless it's from world war II. Time for an upgrade to your education don't you think? ;)
@goe5 If you want to continue to believe that Japan is without it's problems, then go right ahead. Perception does not change reality. But it's best to hold your emotions because more often than not you will fire bullets from your mouth only to completely miss your target.
@goe5 Lastly, send me an inbox message if you want some more evidence of sexism in Japan or you want to troll/flame further as we have already crowded up the comment section too much. But I highly recommend JapanChannelDcom's videos #16 Japan Sux and #72 Discrimination in Japan.
@SamGlover25 Basically your comment amounted to "Japanese guys aren't jerks! You are wrong! Don't come here if you don't like it!" No culture in the world is incontrovertible, and every place on earth has things that are wrong with it. Japanese treatment of women is one of those things.
Yeah, the narrator is right. I spent a year in japan and noticed the same thing.
I found that most of the foreigners are more attractive for varies reason.
Most hot? japanese guys look gay.
The thing that annoyed me the most about japan was how people didn't open the door for anyone! I did it a few times old people but it felt really weird.
Also, I hate that you can't really joke around with most of your teachers, compared to western teachers.
Sooo Um Mr. Japan are the guys in Japan like douchebags? This is what Im geting a real Douche vibe like its normal there I understand but mmm idk thats kinda sad. <=(
This is almost the opposite in Hong Kong! Most, if not all, hong kong couples are beyond lovey-dovey... almost clingy with respect to western standards.
Maybe it's the way relationships work are a little different in Japan.
Because, originally, marriage used to be an arrangement; practically a business proposal.
So, that probably leads to relationships being more about future security more then romance. Though romance has obviously slipped into the culture through manga, romance, and western influences.
I'm not saying what they do is wrong but in my opinion, the guys in japan are total jerks. I'm asian, i know what type of guy i am and me myself don't even like how i treat my girlfriend but what japanese guys are doing is just too much. I would make time to spend with her at least 3 or 4 days a week. If a girl makes food for me, i would totally love it even if its not the best tasting food in the world cause i know she cares for me and that's all i need to treat her with respect and kindness.
Here theres a few japanese-quebecois couple but except mine I'm aware of only male quebecois with femal japanese. This combinaison work not too bad if the guy is serious about it. Quebec men put a lot of attention in there girlfriend usually and the relation man-woman is quite open, it possible for men or women to stay home take care of the kie, work, cook, clean.. So Japanese girl I know like that they can be independant women who can work and not take a to traditionnal woman's role.
I'm a girl in dating a Japanese guy. And I'm going to meet his family this August. But I do agree with you. In my case the bf like other culture a lot and he want to live in another country later on because there is thing he likes less about japense culture. But we do have some missunderstand, I'm lucky though he will explain thing and I will explain and with a bit of effort we will understand eachother. But you need 2 partner who can adapt to the other easily. Not everybody can do that.
@Shantube11 The person named "TheJapanChannelDcom" is a pervert, who allows his ugly Japanese wife named to spread his ass cheeks & push a strap-on dildo inside him. When TheJapanChannelDcom is about to cum, he & his Japanese friends Bukkake all over his wife’s face. Such is the way of the Japanese. To see videos of this, visit TheJapaneseChannelDcom's other channel "TheSillyOldDude". May God help these sinners, or at least shave his wife’s hairy yellow pussy.
Japanese guys can be REALLY great as friends, although when I went to Japan 2 years ago, I found 3 assholes that discriminated the women at a cafe, including the customers! I'm not sure if it was just their personality, but please remember if you are a girl, Men WILL think less of you. For example: Girls aren't the ones to start a conversation...
u know u brought up the anime gig..they must desire it or they wouldnt make so many romantic manga and animes where the girl or the boy wants to be with their partner so much..so i guess its hard for them huh.
Most guys have nice butts so of course women might want to walk behind to look at the butt. :p I'm currently dating a Japanese guy, and yes I may get to do something with him on a Sat evening with the rest of the time he's either working, studying, or doing whatever with his friends. I will say he's a lot nicer than the Americans I've dated.
2 words feminist constituency. u make a vid about how men shouldnt come here to hurt women and then make a video dedicated to how bad men are to women in japan and how you suggest they shouldnt even go out with them? sexist? nah, men in japan get used all the time financially you said it yourself Japanese people confirm so you wont hear them complain about it... its sad that US women are corrupting even the females in japan now they unlike Japanese men can have their cake and eat it too
I just went on a date with a Japanese guy today. I had the time of my life, he was such a sweet heart! The only downside was this major earthquake that came and ruined it for me...and as i was typing this I felt another after shock...
ehh....culture is culture, and maybe its just the southern gentleman in me coming out, but the way Japanese man apparently act with there women, just..irks me...I mean i know its the culture but it kind of irks me. But that's how they do it so i cant knock it.
All of this sounds quite contrary to the shojo I've read. The girls always fantasize about spending time with their lovers and want to spend a lot of their time with them. The guys can be aloof but they seem to desire closeness too. Not sayin' I know more than this guy because I've read manga, lol. I'm just a tad confused. Do the Japanese fantasize about having closer relationships or something?
@whiteclaudia9 You have to realize that manga and anime isn't real my friend. It's much like soap operas and comic books here in the americas. Not a real portrayal of how the society interacts. You definitely can't base your beliefs on just those things. As said, it's mainly because even though they're interesting to read/watch, they're not accurate portrayals of society as a whole.
@HopefulMonster23 You're right. I should be pretty emberased that I didn't come to that conclusion myself. Heh. I guess I thought that eventhough it isn't real, it would reflect their society in small ways. I'm glad I came across your vids. I didn't know how off my image of Japanese society was until now.
i always wanted to date a japanese guy but hearing this sound really bad >~<.....I can't say is true or not cause I'm not from there and I never dated a japanese guy thanx for the info but if I go to japan and date japanese guy first ask question get to know him and see if we in the same level that like the first rule in all dating get to know your partner before making fast move another thing you point out is losing your country rights that something to think about. pretty much that it^^
I'm Scottish and my boyfriend is Japanese. We've been dating for 2 years but in the early days it was very difficult due to the cultural differences. Exactly what you said, in Japan the guy leads and the girl follows and being a western girl my first reaction was **** that! but in he's also very affectionate (even in public) and extremely caring and always wants to spend time together and although cultural differences are still hard I feel very lucky to have found him <3
that's true in most of the cases! i've dated japanese guys and only one was awsome, the rest ... well ;D but I think it's worth trying because japanese guys can be really cool!
@AisuErufu congrats! well, you know you deserve a wonderful man like that. i wish the best for you because i wish that will happen to me when i study abroad!! :D
my friend from europe lives in japan with her bf now. shes always complaining that her bf is always with his friends or at work than with her. and they don't got out together.
This is the first time I watched your video and I just want to say thank you for posting. I am a girl who is completely in love with Japan. I think you are extremely lucky to live there because I want to live there soo much it's not even funny.. So thank you for posting something like this(:
these insights. Now I understand him more. Now I know that it's "cultural" and he's not really an ass LOL. Maybe I'll talk to him about these things too. Although I know that japanese men don't like being on the hot seat but oh well, he has no choice LOL
i've been dating a guy for months now and you are spot on with the things that bothered (and sometimes still bothers me). the not holding the door for me, always leading the way, being bossy and not showing emotions were my major gripe. i was used to guys making me feel special and he is just so different. Which is probably why i like him. I guess I'm a masochist and in my head I know I like it when someone makes me feel unimportant (LOL!). Kidding aside, I just wanted to thank you for sharing
That almost seems kind of abusive, I've noticed this with other cultures and I've taken it personal and brought it up, and the individual from that kind of culture doesn't seem to get it.
Western girls don't be stupid. Date the western guy your attracted to. You'll have a more emotionally rewarding experience and considering the Japanese women he is probably lonely anyway. LOL
I apologize as I normally don't double post but I feel this is worth talking about a bit further. Japanese women in the workplace is becoming more and more common. The time which is spent at home many women are expecting men to hold a more even responsibility that normally is associated with women. So yes relationships in many aspects are quite different in Japan. Although in this case how much of that responsibility is shared between partners seems to be a different story.
I would agree with this but there is one aspect which doesn't get talked about alot. This is in regards to Japanese women who choose to stay single! This is becoming somewhat of an issue in Japan. While what is said here is completely true. I know of many Japanese women who don't like it. They mentioned men who expect their wives to cheerfully surrender their jobs or juggle a career while single-handily serving their husbands & caring for the kids. It seems not all are accepting of these roles.
@TheJapanChannelDcom It's also entirely possible that a Japanese visitor to the US has done their research on US customs, so maybe he wouldn't even do that at home.
I kind of see that as gender equality(going in, not holding the door, ordering by themselves etc.), in a way. I don't think guys should do anything for a girl just for being a guy and vice versa. I just don't like the bit of men being "superior," I couldn't deal with that sort of sexism.
Camilaniggz 3 days ago
who pays for food when a guy and girl in japan go on a date to a restraunt?
KustomFu 1 week ago
@KustomFu Depends a lot, but splitting the bill is not uncommon at all.
If there is an age difference the older party usually pays.
But if were talking about which gender treats more often I think the guy is paying way more often than the girl.
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@goe5
you don't know most girls. just because most girls you've seen hit on guys who you think are jerks, doesn't mean they're actually jerks, or that most girls hit on guys who they think are jerks. :)
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310BPM 2 weeks ago
but i saw a documentary that the birth rate is low in japanese...the more time you get to spend with your woman is MORE SEX!!!
TimeManInJail 2 weeks ago
@goe5
Well that goes for 99% of the women of the world i know ;(
Dtrollmancan 2 weeks ago
are you driving a jaguar by any chance. I swear i know the sound of those indicators...? o.o
LOLcaNoGaNgSTa 3 weeks ago
*His Shirt* or Nothing.
SplashOfRedandYellow 3 weeks ago
That's just sad =/
I'm mean, people who are in love take joy in spending as much time as they can with each other.
This video kinda makes it sound like japanese people don't fall in love. that they just want to be in relationships just.. well, just because they wanna.
It's not "cool" at all. It's just cold =(
It just made me kinda sad that's all =/
TheStefanime 3 weeks ago in playlist How to do stuff in Japan!
my God that was interesting
So would a sort of western idea of chivalry be looked upon as weakness or being desperate? something like opening a door for a girl or something.
srhalnon 1 month ago
I absolutely agree with everything you say in this video. I think it can apply to Korean culture also. I have a Korean boyfriend; I consider him as a wonderful person and really love him, but I know the culture difference is just so big, and it will be an issue in the future if things develop (which I do actually hope!). Cultural difference is what attracts me, but it is also the main source of troubles and misunderstandings. But in the end, we wanna think we are the one exception to the rule^^
jebi1 1 month ago in playlist How to do stuff in Japan!
is that why in the animes there is always that one popular guy in school that seems a little arogant but all the girls fancy?
to be honest, i think it would be quite nice to play the female role in society, i'm not sure if i would like being looked down on though
DollFacePookie 1 month ago in playlist How to do stuff in Japan!
OK I have figured it ALL OUT!!!
Western men are like pet dogs.
Japanese men are like housecats.
Dogs are ALWAYS affectionate with you. They ALWAYS want to do everything with you, they are ALWAYS by your side, they do what you want
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Housecats are aloof. They think they're better than you, they don't feel you deserve their attention. They do what THEY want, they don't do many things for you. They rarely ever spend time with you. It takes them a LONG time to show affection with you.
APuppyNamedSkip 1 month ago 3
@APuppyNamedSkip Now of course these are all generalities, and not this extreme in real life, but I'd say generally or at least sterotypically, this is the perfect example!!
APuppyNamedSkip 1 month ago in playlist How to do stuff in Japan!
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excuse me why are you bagging cats.Random much ...I love kitties so if japanese guys are like cats.. HELL YEAH. I have a house cat who is very affectionate and he has always been nice from when i first got him. I don't get why fricking dog lovers take every opp to insult cats (btw i love dogs too). If you are going to compare an aloof person don't compare to cats, they are beautiful animals. Compare them to a shark, a shark actually wants to rip your head off. Thx
LOLcaNoGaNgSTa 3 weeks ago
@LOLcaNoGaNgSTa Actually I was just comparing the STEREOTYPE I have two housecats too that I love a lot.
APuppyNamedSkip 3 weeks ago
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oh haha sorry i get carried away when it comes to fav animal. You see my kitty is sick at the moment and i kinda try to strangle any one who says anything... i don't know, lol i'm sorry. And i agree that stereotype is a perfect example. Sorry for being a creep. :P
LOLcaNoGaNgSTa 3 weeks ago
@LOLcaNoGaNgSTa Oh it's okay, I get carried away a LOT too, and I love cats!!
I really hope your kitty gets better soon =^.^=
APuppyNamedSkip 3 weeks ago
bros before ho's
chicks before dicks
lol
TheJazuma 1 month ago
i think it's disturbing how japanese people are embarrassed about affection. i saw a movie where there was a couple and their daughter. you see that the mom and dad have separate beds and when the dad said ai shiteru to his wife, everybody in the family was ashamed and embarrassed. to tell you the truth i found that really sad and depressing.
jodelle6 1 month ago in playlist How to do stuff in Japan! 2
@jodelle6 Japan is more emotionally reserved, it has nothing to do with being sad or any of that rather "Not the right place or time". Because they emotionally reserve things, what they say and do has more meaning. Saying "You're beautiful" here is no big deal. She may blush but that's it, nothing else. If you said it in japan, you're being personal to that person and they might not want to be near you, or will not understand how you came to say such a thing.
narutardtedr 1 month ago
@narutardtedr i see your point, but i still think it is sad that parents are ashamed of their love in front of their own kids.
jodelle6 1 month ago
@jodelle6 It has nothing to do with shame, i don't know where you got the idea just because they're not as expressive, they're ashamed.. but it isn't true. Japanese people just take things more seriously, so words and actions of romance aren't said on the fly. They carry a deep value to them, showing your love in public is more like showing off. They don't show off, or at least don't like to. It's just how their society works, it's has nothing to do with shame though.
narutardtedr 1 month ago 2
@narutardtedr i didn't mean to offend you i'm sorry. i'm glad it is not shame.
jodelle6 1 month ago
@jodelle6 You didn't offend me o.o...did i give off that feel?
narutardtedr 1 month ago in playlist How to do stuff in Japan!
@narutardtedr i wasn't sure. in any case i just wanted to make sure you didn't take it as an insult or criticism of japanese people. =)
jodelle6 1 month ago
From experience, I would say that girls (and guys) in Japan who are interested in Japan are almost bound to be different from the norm. The fact they even have any interest in foreigners is going against the norms so I would say rather than look at stereotypes, one could say that your ideas only apply to japanese people who don't normally go for foreigners.
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taliffen 2 months ago
i saw a McDonald's in the background around 4:00. have you tried the chicken tatsuta? was a temporary thing, i think. pretty awesome!
Goat5611 3 months ago
Well DUUR cause in america you gotta kiss some serious ass to get a girlfriend and being desperate is a biproduct of "OMFG i have one finally!" tell me something would it be easy to convert to their way after being desperate for quite some time?
MrSyntheticDesign 4 months ago
I love pretty much every single thing about japan so im born in the wroung blace XD
foxpuff333 4 months ago
yeah, I live in switzerland but my boyfriend in Japan wants to marry me, and its really hard not to know what to do.
zaelmieze 4 months ago
You didn's say anyting about ... well ... sex.
What about that?
Juchan09 5 months ago
@Juchan09 okay, I really doubt this guy has any experience having sex with japanese men... XD
Also, I bet it's a little too awkward for him to ask japanese women about it :P
TheReasonWhyGuy 4 months ago
@TheReasonWhyGuy Hahahaha!!! Ok, now that I think about it you might be right. XD
Juchan09 4 months ago
I hate it, when people kiss in public.
I think that’s so disgusting and impolite.
I also couldn’t imagine seeing my boyfriend every day. O.o
The last one I had I saw 2 – 3 weeks in the year. (We were 5 years together btw – official together)
Juchan09 5 months ago
so if you are polite and stuff to your girl like hold open doors etc. .. do they see that as bad?
ogbkballa 5 months ago
Hours of videos on this eh lol. I would love more videos on this type of topic!
BlondeRedheadislove 6 months ago
Kobayashi Kamui!
renClain 6 months ago in playlist How to do stuff in Japan!
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i couldnt focus on what your saying
the view outside your car caught my eyes. <3
PRISSONERSS 6 months ago
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Judging by the comments... I'm not sure people got the message :D.
TheAle89515 6 months ago
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Yeah, it's like that in general with guys in Japan. Even if you're not dating them. There is rarely any guys and girls mix groups of friends....
But when I went there a guy did just cut me off at the door...I was fuming. I mean I'm not American, but it's a sense of respect to wait for the person to go through the door then go themselves. Or the cell phone thing...I hated the constant cell phone texting....
midnull 6 months ago
i cant remember which video it was but i believe it was this on or maybe #21 but you said that you think the guy walks infront of the girl because he thinks "hes head honcho" or something like that lol But i did some research out of boredom and i found out they do that more like an escort. So they can Escort the female to a destination. :) keep up the great vids!
Spazzosity 6 months ago
I love how you said, "I have really dated any guys" WELL DUH xDDD
but thanks for reassuring us ahahah
chirawra 6 months ago
Sorry about my really BAD english but...yeah :D
I`m from Sweden and wants to work in Japan whit hotels (maby stand in the lobby and help the guests out whit things like hotelrooms and other stuff) but im worried to falling in love whit a japanese guy haha! Im freaking scared xD LOL. maby cuz they are so cute!!!! i just cant stop looking at them xD haha. But If i meet "mister right"......I cant live whitout my family. ÄÄÄ go for it! :D hehe.
TillaPettersson 6 months ago
I enjoy all of your videos very much, but I REALLY enjoy the ones where you are driving around. I get to look out the window and enjoy the scenery! :D
cinemageek 7 months ago
Is your fiance Japanese?
Sophie0257 7 months ago
So, if all of this is true then why IS IT that way in animes? I really think that's an interesting point you pointed out. I personally think that it's kind of a secret desire they may have to be lovey dovey, but don't because society is too obsessed with being "cool." And if that's not it then maybe they just wanted to display japan relationships from another spectrum. who knows...????
candiigurl7893 7 months ago
Lol thats what my girlfreinds complained about me didnt spend alot of time with them
mincishhimself 7 months ago
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American women are always crying out for their equality, I think letting the door shut in the girls face should be just fine for an American girl, nothing more equal than that "open it yourself woman, yer equal!"
VictorRattle 8 months ago
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SupsShady 7 months ago
People who are saying that Japanese guys are jerks are wrong. This is just a different culture. If you don't like it, don't come to Japan. If you're not prepared to adapt to another culture in another country, then there's no point going to that other country.
SamGlover25 8 months ago 41
@SamGlover25 Well, some might be jerks. You can't just say it's the culture because sometimes it isn't. I won't do things just because it's normal in a culture, I will be polite, but if someone is what I consider not good company I won't hang around them.
Igm3rdart 3 months ago in playlist How to do stuff in Japan!
@SamGlover25
An interesting point, but I know a few Japanese women, most of whom live in Tokyo, and they are not too crazy about how they are treated by men and women's role in Japanese society in general.
The "it's their culture" notion should not excuse people within that culture being treated as lesser citizens. The role of women has been an issue in many cultures.
It is not unreasonable for Japanese women to expect to be seen as equals and "culture" should not prevent that.
gillianorley 3 months ago 22
@gillianorley - I agree with this. If it's just "the culture" and we should accept it as simply being fine because of that, then why did women in the US gain rights? Why did the blacks have a civil rights movement? It was "the culture" back then, no? So that should have been perfectly fine right? See....how that argument is flawed?
AkumaXKami 2 months ago in playlist TheJapanChannelDcom How to do things in japan videos
@AkumaXKami Thanks.
Since you mention the Civil Rights Movement, it's worth noting that even slavery was defended as being part of Southern "culture."
Southern slaveholders referred to slavery as their "peculiar institution" and even claimed that their slaves were better off because, as valuable property, they were well taken care of and liked having their "masters" providing food, shelter, etc.
I'm not saying this is equivalent to slavery, but it shows how far the concept can go.
gillianorley 2 months ago
@SamGlover25 Considering that Japan has some of the worst sexism in the world with women comprising of very little in governmental representation (Pakistan has more!!), it's understandable why some would conclude that Japanese men are jerks. Obviously over-generalizations aren't 100%, but it's understandable why women would not want to date a Japanese man. They won't be loved, or at least they won't be loved in a familiar way. BTW I pray to God that never end up in Japan, even on a layover.
Divinecovenant0012 2 weeks ago in playlist Liked videos
@Divinecovenant0012 Have you ever been to Japan? We have one of the lowest crime rates and have a 2% divorce rate. Quit being a racist, it's disgusting
goe5 2 weeks ago
@goe5 How can I be racist if I have Japanese friends AND I have counseled Japanese people? Your critique is rather hollow. More importantly, Japan's "low crime rate" has more to do with the reporting that with actuality (especially considering their definition of rape), but even taking that into consideration Japan does have a low crime rate compared to say Latin America or USA, but not much difference from Western Europe.
Divinecovenant0012 2 weeks ago
@Divinecovenant0012 you still didn't answer my question. Women are respected highly in Japan, THE ONLY FUCKING REASON everyone thinks Japan is horrible is because only the bad stories are reported. Every news station is like that, take into consideration of what goes on in a daily basis in Japan. It is very peaceful, and you honestly think no one reports the crimes? Look up no looting, Japan is the first to come up
goe5 2 weeks ago
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Divinecovenant0012 2 weeks ago
@goe5 ..is the best society in the world. In fact I would say it's on the upper half but not the best. However, when you speak about "best societies" you are treading puritanically difficult waters, and it's hard to avoid pejoratives when commenting on such things. However, you need to look at another video by JapanChannelDcom that talks about how bad sexism is in Japan. I think it's called "Japan sux #16." BTW wikipedia is not the best resource for everything.
Divinecovenant0012 2 weeks ago
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@goe5 Look bud, I'm NOT interested in a flaming war with you, most especially since I don't know who you are and it's distracting to the video here. I would be very hesitant to deride someone's erudition, because you do not have the perspicacity to know the full extend of their learning. If you like to emulate Japanese culture so much, you need to emulate their modesty. But more importantly, I'm aware of the low crime in Japan and (virually) no looting in Japan. But that does not mean that...
Divinecovenant0012 2 weeks ago
@goe5
ummm.. you think letting a door slam in someone's face is being respected?
it's not. lol. and i've heard of women being beaten for hours who called the police, and they didn't absolutely nothing because she wasn't bleeding, and when they left, she got beaten for hours more, and thrown around. Japan has it's bad shit, too.
310BPM 2 weeks ago
@310BPM MY GOD YOU PEOPLE ARE PATHETIC!!! I LIVE IN JAPAN!!!!!! This stuff doesn't happen on a daily basis! We respect women! We always have!!! In fact, most Japanese women choose to get married to Japanese men cause white men were too rude around other people. Don't believe me??? Go to my country and we'll see who's wrong. QUIT saying Japan hates women, it's disgusting.
goe5 2 weeks ago
@goe5 Also when you speak of divorce rate, I'm wondering if you wikipediaed that statistic. In any case divorce DEMOGRAPHIC and divorce RATE are vastly different because they are calculated differently. Japan's 2.2 is not that much different from the USA's 3.4.
Divinecovenant0012 2 weeks ago
@Divinecovenant0012 Look up sexism on wikipedia, you won't find a single trace of Japan unless it's from world war II. Time for an upgrade to your education don't you think? ;)
goe5 2 weeks ago
@goe5 If you want to continue to believe that Japan is without it's problems, then go right ahead. Perception does not change reality. But it's best to hold your emotions because more often than not you will fire bullets from your mouth only to completely miss your target.
Divinecovenant0012 2 weeks ago
@goe5 Lastly, send me an inbox message if you want some more evidence of sexism in Japan or you want to troll/flame further as we have already crowded up the comment section too much. But I highly recommend JapanChannelDcom's videos #16 Japan Sux and #72 Discrimination in Japan.
Divinecovenant0012 2 weeks ago
@goe5
uhhhhh.. he was just talking about how sexist Japan is in the video.
310BPM 2 weeks ago
@SamGlover25 Basically your comment amounted to "Japanese guys aren't jerks! You are wrong! Don't come here if you don't like it!" No culture in the world is incontrovertible, and every place on earth has things that are wrong with it. Japanese treatment of women is one of those things.
Divinecovenant0012 2 weeks ago in playlist Liked videos
@SamGlover25
thank you very much. I totally agree!
Thofte100 1 week ago in playlist How to do stuff in Japan!
how are chinese guys perceived in japan?
MaxieBar 8 months ago
what does japanese think about a foreigner couple?
Nnovata 8 months ago
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Yeah, the narrator is right. I spent a year in japan and noticed the same thing.
I found that most of the foreigners are more attractive for varies reason.
Most hot? japanese guys look gay.
The thing that annoyed me the most about japan was how people didn't open the door for anyone! I did it a few times old people but it felt really weird.
Also, I hate that you can't really joke around with most of your teachers, compared to western teachers.
With all that said, I still had fun in japan.
cLarryBattle 9 months ago
what do you do in Japan? are you a teacher or work there? or maybe a student ? :)
swallow231 9 months ago
Do they drive on the left side in Japan?
karfeegu123 9 months ago
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yes
Marron222 8 months ago
Hmm...Now I see a difference between me and japanese girls.. that's like the only thing I won't tolerate from any guy...o.o
FromTheHourglass 9 months ago
Sooo Um Mr. Japan are the guys in Japan like douchebags? This is what Im geting a real Douche vibe like its normal there I understand but mmm idk thats kinda sad. <=(
SNOOKIBUNNII17 9 months ago
This is almost the opposite in Hong Kong! Most, if not all, hong kong couples are beyond lovey-dovey... almost clingy with respect to western standards.
chica476 9 months ago
you can still be a bit chivalrous in public though right?
also if you were to act very nice and affectionate to your japanese girlfriend in your own home how would SHE see that?
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dasunikaamindanika 9 months ago
Just had a thought~
Maybe it's the way relationships work are a little different in Japan.
Because, originally, marriage used to be an arrangement; practically a business proposal.
So, that probably leads to relationships being more about future security more then romance. Though romance has obviously slipped into the culture through manga, romance, and western influences.
mega17 9 months ago
Hmm... I think you should do more videos on Japanese relationships. I dunno like what exactly but maybe something random and interesting. XD Haha.
RoadKamel0t 9 months ago
r u from new zealand?
applesarah4 9 months ago
I'm not saying what they do is wrong but in my opinion, the guys in japan are total jerks. I'm asian, i know what type of guy i am and me myself don't even like how i treat my girlfriend but what japanese guys are doing is just too much. I would make time to spend with her at least 3 or 4 days a week. If a girl makes food for me, i would totally love it even if its not the best tasting food in the world cause i know she cares for me and that's all i need to treat her with respect and kindness.
AndyDude1412 10 months ago 3
@AndyDude1412 that's very sweet. Stay that way and I'm sure your girlfriend will love you more each day. ^-^.
candiigurl7893 7 months ago
it's common in the usa also..sounds normal to me!
Midnightryder7 10 months ago
so do you treat your wife in this way or do you treat her relatively like a western guy?? or a bit of both?? =/
rebitar12 10 months ago 3
Here theres a few japanese-quebecois couple but except mine I'm aware of only male quebecois with femal japanese. This combinaison work not too bad if the guy is serious about it. Quebec men put a lot of attention in there girlfriend usually and the relation man-woman is quite open, it possible for men or women to stay home take care of the kie, work, cook, clean.. So Japanese girl I know like that they can be independant women who can work and not take a to traditionnal woman's role.
fullmetalclo 10 months ago
I'm a girl in dating a Japanese guy. And I'm going to meet his family this August. But I do agree with you. In my case the bf like other culture a lot and he want to live in another country later on because there is thing he likes less about japense culture. But we do have some missunderstand, I'm lucky though he will explain thing and I will explain and with a bit of effort we will understand eachother. But you need 2 partner who can adapt to the other easily. Not everybody can do that.
fullmetalclo 10 months ago
Paw waves at the other girls!
It sounds like their independant of each other but together, which can work really well for some.
Sounds like my kind of place - although I would probably be to heastrong for a Japanese Guy.
PurdyBear1 10 months ago 2
I like your Bridgestone shirt, guy.
oftherebellion 10 months ago
But what if one of the guys that are japanese i see there actually would open the door for me.
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MicheIIeMcGee 10 months ago
I want to date Japanese guys too!!!
traxougg 11 months ago 28
At least you don't lose your friends when they are in a relationship
hosweetim89 11 months ago 3
Japanese guys can be REALLY great as friends, although when I went to Japan 2 years ago, I found 3 assholes that discriminated the women at a cafe, including the customers! I'm not sure if it was just their personality, but please remember if you are a girl, Men WILL think less of you. For example: Girls aren't the ones to start a conversation...
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u know u brought up the anime gig..they must desire it or they wouldnt make so many romantic manga and animes where the girl or the boy wants to be with their partner so much..so i guess its hard for them huh.
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Justiricasey2 11 months ago
Real Talk: I prefer Japanese guy friends over my American guy friends, no homo
SomethingWong 11 months ago 5
Most guys have nice butts so of course women might want to walk behind to look at the butt. :p I'm currently dating a Japanese guy, and yes I may get to do something with him on a Sat evening with the rest of the time he's either working, studying, or doing whatever with his friends. I will say he's a lot nicer than the Americans I've dated.
untmdsprt 11 months ago 10
2 words feminist constituency. u make a vid about how men shouldnt come here to hurt women and then make a video dedicated to how bad men are to women in japan and how you suggest they shouldnt even go out with them? sexist? nah, men in japan get used all the time financially you said it yourself Japanese people confirm so you wont hear them complain about it... its sad that US women are corrupting even the females in japan now they unlike Japanese men can have their cake and eat it too
themaniusedtob 11 months ago
@themaniusedtob ...do WHAT?
healie 11 months ago
I love Japan boys they are so HOT
roumaiicp 1 year ago 13
I just went on a date with a Japanese guy today. I had the time of my life, he was such a sweet heart! The only downside was this major earthquake that came and ruined it for me...and as i was typing this I felt another after shock...
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Every time i hear him talk, i keep thinking about Dr. Chase from House
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@princesachilanga Thats a relief! I was hoping to date a Japanese guy one day.
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glad to see an honest and realistic opinion on japanese/westerner dating ^-^ its kind of a reality check "its not like in the animes"
annabellemee 1 year ago
I LOVE JAPAN BUT AM NOT FROM THERE
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ehh....culture is culture, and maybe its just the southern gentleman in me coming out, but the way Japanese man apparently act with there women, just..irks me...I mean i know its the culture but it kind of irks me. But that's how they do it so i cant knock it.
MrRush629 1 year ago
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All of this sounds quite contrary to the shojo I've read. The girls always fantasize about spending time with their lovers and want to spend a lot of their time with them. The guys can be aloof but they seem to desire closeness too. Not sayin' I know more than this guy because I've read manga, lol. I'm just a tad confused. Do the Japanese fantasize about having closer relationships or something?
whiteclaudia9 1 year ago
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@whiteclaudia9 You have to realize that manga and anime isn't real my friend. It's much like soap operas and comic books here in the americas. Not a real portrayal of how the society interacts. You definitely can't base your beliefs on just those things. As said, it's mainly because even though they're interesting to read/watch, they're not accurate portrayals of society as a whole.
HopefulMonster23 1 year ago
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@HopefulMonster23 You're right. I should be pretty emberased that I didn't come to that conclusion myself. Heh. I guess I thought that eventhough it isn't real, it would reflect their society in small ways. I'm glad I came across your vids. I didn't know how off my image of Japanese society was until now.
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I want to read some manga that depicts the guys like they actually are.
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siththee 1 year ago
japan is so me...i was born in the wrong place
kyryacos 1 year ago 184
@kyryacos me too !
roumaiicp 1 year ago
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@kyryacos Are you serious do you live in the wrong place u think?
That's called transhabital and you can get operated for that, it's great!
198CharlesMartel198 1 year ago
haha american men are the same. they might even be worse actually....
spreegrl98 1 year ago
i always wanted to date a japanese guy but hearing this sound really bad >~<.....I can't say is true or not cause I'm not from there and I never dated a japanese guy thanx for the info but if I go to japan and date japanese guy first ask question get to know him and see if we in the same level that like the first rule in all dating get to know your partner before making fast move another thing you point out is losing your country rights that something to think about. pretty much that it^^
PrincessKiller1 1 year ago
Sounds like all men.
MalonEisaiMalakas 1 year ago 9
I am addicted to your channel, keep the good stuff coming you YOUTUBE junky!
SRT480 1 year ago
I heard that japan that a mans job comes first then his family comes next...is that true?
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lalaneification 1 year ago
I'm Scottish and my boyfriend is Japanese. We've been dating for 2 years but in the early days it was very difficult due to the cultural differences. Exactly what you said, in Japan the guy leads and the girl follows and being a western girl my first reaction was **** that! but in he's also very affectionate (even in public) and extremely caring and always wants to spend time together and although cultural differences are still hard I feel very lucky to have found him <3
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that's true in most of the cases! i've dated japanese guys and only one was awsome, the rest ... well ;D but I think it's worth trying because japanese guys can be really cool!
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H0tkebab 1 year ago
hmmmm, guess my experiences are a little different ;)
Sephiroth21682 1 year ago 5
@AisuErufu I am glad you two are happy! :)
TeHGoodReverend 1 year ago 5
I swear I'm seeing the same cars swooshing past in the background. =P
DuskishWolf 1 year ago
Lol, love how you're recording this while driving around. XD
"Hmm... it's gonna be a bit of a drive... Let's film another 'How To!'"
DuskishWolf 1 year ago
@AisuErufu congrats! well, you know you deserve a wonderful man like that. i wish the best for you because i wish that will happen to me when i study abroad!! :D
emikashii 1 year ago 5
my friend from europe lives in japan with her bf now. shes always complaining that her bf is always with his friends or at work than with her. and they don't got out together.
emikashii 1 year ago
@AisuErufu I envy you! Congrats :D
Deee45 1 year ago 15
What about Guys dating guys?
ISBERIK 1 year ago
@ISBERIK
"how to #23"
TheJapanChannelDcom 1 year ago
@ISBERIK ROFL.
japan isnt about being little bitches.
they have standards.
RobCardIV 1 year ago
I love Japanese guys. They are so gorgeous <3
NeptunePrincess04 1 year ago 168
This is the first time I watched your video and I just want to say thank you for posting. I am a girl who is completely in love with Japan. I think you are extremely lucky to live there because I want to live there soo much it's not even funny.. So thank you for posting something like this(:
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these insights. Now I understand him more. Now I know that it's "cultural" and he's not really an ass LOL. Maybe I'll talk to him about these things too. Although I know that japanese men don't like being on the hot seat but oh well, he has no choice LOL
WhackedOutWax 1 year ago
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i've been dating a guy for months now and you are spot on with the things that bothered (and sometimes still bothers me). the not holding the door for me, always leading the way, being bossy and not showing emotions were my major gripe. i was used to guys making me feel special and he is just so different. Which is probably why i like him. I guess I'm a masochist and in my head I know I like it when someone makes me feel unimportant (LOL!). Kidding aside, I just wanted to thank you for sharing
WhackedOutWax 1 year ago
@AisuErufu he is very cute for u
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Did you have to give up your country for your wife? D=
ppy 1 year ago
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That almost seems kind of abusive, I've noticed this with other cultures and I've taken it personal and brought it up, and the individual from that kind of culture doesn't seem to get it.
HEIBAOSHEN 1 year ago
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In summation:
Western girls don't be stupid. Date the western guy your attracted to. You'll have a more emotionally rewarding experience and considering the Japanese women he is probably lonely anyway. LOL
biped19 1 year ago
I apologize as I normally don't double post but I feel this is worth talking about a bit further. Japanese women in the workplace is becoming more and more common. The time which is spent at home many women are expecting men to hold a more even responsibility that normally is associated with women. So yes relationships in many aspects are quite different in Japan. Although in this case how much of that responsibility is shared between partners seems to be a different story.
BlazinNSoul 1 year ago
I would agree with this but there is one aspect which doesn't get talked about alot. This is in regards to Japanese women who choose to stay single! This is becoming somewhat of an issue in Japan. While what is said here is completely true. I know of many Japanese women who don't like it. They mentioned men who expect their wives to cheerfully surrender their jobs or juggle a career while single-handily serving their husbands & caring for the kids. It seems not all are accepting of these roles.
BlazinNSoul 1 year ago
@Chibua Of course not! :D
jp10IamMeNotU 1 year ago
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This is such an interesting topic for a Japanese guy. Thank you for sharing this idea.
jp10IamMeNotU 1 year ago
I desperately wish I can have a western girlfriend/wife, but are they enough western women for me to get married to?? lol
Someone please!
jp10IamMeNotU 1 year ago
@jp10IamMeNotU bless your little cotton socks. XD
emROARS 1 year ago
@emROARS Thank you~.
jp10IamMeNotU 1 year ago
@jp10IamMeNotU I can be your friend :)
hanakofuyumi 1 year ago
@hanakofuyumi Sounds nice! Thank you!
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@Chibua
Yes, I did say not all - right at the start.
(You may also find that some Japanese guys who live outside Japan are different.)
TheJapanChannelDcom 1 year ago
@TheJapanChannelDcom It's also entirely possible that a Japanese visitor to the US has done their research on US customs, so maybe he wouldn't even do that at home.
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