Confidence vs Cockyness

[Sumfera]

Agreed.

[officedepot91]

Very well stated

[chinesewriting]

@officedepot91 thanks ;) 

[karmbaby]

it is a very thin line between the two..when people first meet me they think im cocky until they converse with me..some people can mistake confidence for cockyness...people need to know how to distinguish between the two though...im far from cocky...and im not cocky for talkin about myself lol jp but 4real though =}}

[chinesewriting]

@karmbaby lol ok ok karm! But i sorta look at it as the same thing when somebody plays music out loud when ppl are tryin to study when they could jus easily plug their headphones in. ;) It's a folkway, everyone's greatful if u dnt obsessively tlk about ur self but nobody trips. feel me?

[NaturalHealthyMe]

nice

[chinesewriting]

@NaturalHealthyMe thank u. ;)

[NaijaAmericana]

Lately I've noticed that if one doesn't act cocky, ppl take it as having low self esteem. I mean I'm a confident dude that likes to just go about my biz w/o sayin much, but when it comes to the opposite sex, I've noticed that I get more play when I'm acting cocky. Perhaps there's a time and place for both?

[chinesewriting]

@NaijaAmericana yea i could definitely see it in that light. but i couldn't see me tryin to change myself in anyway to please someone else. from experience i can say that bein yourself pulls the best & sometimes the hottest kind.

[PrettiBoiShai]

great video!...this topic can be easily misconstrued. but we all tend to be both cocky and confident at times lol...its when people be extra with bein cocky that gets outta hand smh.

[chinesewriting]

@PrettiBoiShai heck yea. thanks shai!

[one800gymnast]

diggin the shirt... n i feel u on this whole thing, im finally getn to the point where personality traits like cockiness really make a persons attractiveness hella weak to me. confidence has a degree of integrity and humility, whereas cocky ppl just aint humble n they gotta bag on other ppl to build themselves up

[chinesewriting]

@one800gymnast heyy thanks Justin. but yes cockyness is so annoyin. and the funny thing is when ppl give off the vibe of confidence if you are not confident in your own self it could make u some what afraid to approach the individual. crazy right?

[one800gymnast]

@chinesewriting thaz where all the peer pressure comes from in high schools cuz ppl's 'confidence' is intimidating. im the same way tho, its easy to mistake cockiness and insecurity for self-assurance

[marktastic0]

LOL i <3 you jazz!!

[chinesewriting]

@marktastic0 love you 2 mark! 

[chinesewriting]

@nobby481 exactly! i really dnt get the point of flaunting yourself you kno?

[greyrenee2007]

I agree with ya!

[chinesewriting]

@greyrenee2007 yayy! thanks.

[twun24]

sounds good to me lol thank u for kinda of clearing that up

[chinesewriting]

@twun24 lol you're very welcome twun!

[Fromfat2phat843]

OMG! I CANT STAND COCKY PPL! Especially men! Cockiness to me is say u see a dude at the club n u try 2 talk to him and u he be like yeah girl i knw i look good let me take u home and u be like...damn i dont get no convo or a drink? then he b like girl, u see hw i look i dnt need to buy u knw drink u coming wit me or not shittt i can get any bitch in here! u see dis chain 1,000dollars I dnt have to beg u to cum wit me etc thats COCKY HATE THAT SHIT!!

[chinesewriting]

@Fromfat2phat843 lol true true. i honestly think ppl do that as a reassurance to their self. cuz i've seen some extremely cocky ppl that look a hot freaken mess.

[TrulyMeSJC]

Speak!! great vid im so glad you are making vids again

[chinesewriting]

@TrulyMeSJC X) i'm wrkn on it boo!

[lockedlesbian]

I say CONFIDENCE is sexy....COCKY...turn off

[chinesewriting]

@lockedlesbian PREACH! exactly how i feel fam.

[TazzLPN]

Yup Yup!! Hit the nail right on the head!!

[chinesewriting]

@TazzLPN thanks buddy.

[LeslieMoniqueTV]

You spelled cockiness wrong... Just saying, not trying to make fun.

But omg! I say the same thing!!! Confidence is having hope and having positives of yourself and cockiness is "overly-confident" but yes!! I agree!

[chinesewriting]

@LeslieMoniqueTV yeaaaa.