How to deal with jealousy and insecurity - FOR WOMEN

[jokersbitch]

is helpiiiiiiiing :D slowly but is really effective :) you were right about doing on yourself..i feel much better and i have less and less time to think about jelousy too.. prrrrrrrrrrr :D

[vitalcoaching]

@jokersbitch glad to hear that - well done! - stay focused - let me know how it evolves

[jokersbitch]

thoughts about what he doing, where he is..and is driving me crazy and putiing disaster in my relationship, cuz i start nagging and being needy and ask him questions all time even though he say he loves me.How can i start trust him? how can i remove this insecurity? i love him so much, we get along good but when it comes to jelousie is all reaking up :S

[jokersbitch]

damnit please help me i think i have both types of jelousie..the justified is becouse he still have contacts with his ex girlfriend. They have same friend circle and they are friends for 12 years. he said he got over her bt i hate that they still friends and they all go make partys together and go on sea. as he saw i not trust and was nt agree, he ivited me to come with them on sea but i was decline.i didnt wanna just kick in cuz idunno his friends yet,we date only 4 months..i have this crazy

[vitalcoaching]

@jokersbitch whaou! Look, you have to go to my site and get my full "jealousy for women" program - it's just $19 with detailed tactics to deal with the exact challenges you face right now - It would be too long to rewrite everything here just for you - do it! - It will save you tons of time and trouble and show you how to strengthen your relationship instead of destroying it with your insecurities

[jokersbitch]

@vitalcoaching ok i will buy it but i really hope it will help..i will let u know what happened

[vitalcoaching]

@jokersbitch yes, go for it

[jokersbitch]

ok i bought it..when will i get the book?

[jokersbitch]

lol ok i already got it thanks

[Nanceify]

Thanks for posting this, you seem to understand women.

[wclac]

Shit! Insecure and jealous women make me sick to the stomach!

[vitalcoaching]

@wclac I know... challenging for both genders actually... you had a bad experience with a girlfriend? tell me more

[wclac]

@vitalcoaching Yeah. She was a crazy ass bitch. Thinking I'm flirting with other girls. Because of her, I'm having a lower opinion of most women.

[vitalcoaching]

@wclac oh... I see! thanks for sharing...

[aiahaya]

@tonigustini - I give you high five to jealousy!! Rofl

[Interview1998]

I have a policy of not accepting advice from people with

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[spuddy83]

@Interview1998 What a thumbwhore FAIL!! XD

[honeyflash1]

Thank you for this video and all your other videos! I'm going through a rough time dealing with this within myself and it's ruining the best relationship I've ever had. This hopefully will help me!

[XxLostSkyChildxX]

my ex bf sorta, broke up with me cause he told me he was fed up with me being so jealous. <.< he talks with this girl and tells her shes beautiful her shirts always too low, and he gives her ;D smiley faces like that, he says hes just having fun and she has bf that she rlly loves, and that i am with him. <.< but he talks and has more fun with her than me. everytime i call to tell him i love him, he answers with uh, im busy. then i see he was online when she was. boke up cause too jealous. wtf?!

[sinigangnabakaa]

@XxLostSkyChildxX no. I do not believe so.:| from ur story. he just used it as an excuse. -_- if he has a gf! he shouldnt be spending much time with her

[Jestir66]

@XxLostSkyChildxX omg same situation. my ex dumped me cause i was "too jealous" well, he spent 90 percent of his time going to clubs and bars with Kat and Beth then actually spending time with me. When we did hang it "wasnt fun to just sit here and play vid games and chat all day" cause his mind was on thenext even he was doing with kandb. he comes back from a weekend of having a huge party with them "best night ive ever had" and im the jealous bitch right? now it tagged itself to my new

[Jestir66]

@XxLostSkyChildxX relationship and i actually like this guy but i cant stand him going on his cellphone to text (which he does constantly 80p of the time to an ex gf..) but im not aloud to know who hes talking to, what about, why his phone is out cause "im aloud to have friends" okay? and youre girlfriend should know if youre talking to youre ex girlfriend all day. and when his phone is out he tunes out of everything. ill tell him i made a wicked dinner after cleaning the house and he wont hear.

[XxLostSkyChildxX]

@Jestir66 Well, after a couple months I realized, why do I bother?

Don't waste time with someone thats causing you misery, or stress, or w/e it is thats negative.

Break up, get away from that person, what good is a person to keep around like that, or to stick around? There are like so many other guys or girls w.e, you might say I want him to change and crap well screw that, leave. And if he really loves you or even cared he will come back but if he doesnt change..then just remove all ties.

[XxLostSkyChildxX]

@Jestir66 We women are much better, lol nothing wrong with raising standards, but not too high or you will definatley have a hard time with ppl. Live your life full and happy, fill yourself with love, LEARN to love yourself and everyone, dont hold grudges but dont stay with ppl that cause you misery...if you can learn that, love will come your way, and it will stay if you are yourself full of love.

[Jestir66]

@XxLostSkyChildxX lol. i take it you broke up with your boyfriend too :P Honestly i feel so much better. i dont know why i didnt do it from before. if he wanted to talk all day, take advantage of my credit.. the odd strike when we fought. Fuck him. he can do whatever he wants. im better then him and i dont need to justify myself constantly for him. Plus its been a few months and ive found someone new. and apparently he actually appreciates me, plus he says sorry. awah? boys can do that..?bonus.

[Jayskiallthewayski]

Jealousy is never a weapon, no weapons should be needed in a relationship, because weapons means war.

You either have a good relationship, or you don't and you deal with the problem at hand. But the one with the least jealousy is the one left standing the best in the end, it doesn't mean you don't care, cause if you really care, than you would deny jealousy.

Some think that jealousy is loving, but it's the opposite.

[aoitakarai]

Very interesting facts, thankyou! I love your accent

[SweetxGuilt]

it sucks when ur boyfriend's best (girl) friend made him happy when he was rlly down.. while u couldnt =\ it hurts a lot...

[Jayskiallthewayski]

I had the same thing, but in my case my girlfriend sucked at giving comfort so my best (gril)friend gave it to me.

My girlfriend got all pissed but I just said, I wont cheat on you, you're the one I love, but if there are things we cannot give each other go and get them somewhere else, as long as you are my bed tonight, you're free to do so, see all anyone needs in this world to solve anything is a mirror, thats where all the answers are, always.

[tonygustini]

hows this, my ex got jealous i got my haircut by a woman hairdresser??? i got a haircut,not a headjob!!!!

[8v71buses]

Insecure are the main reason why some of us men don't want to be in relationships. Better to be single with no drama than to be in a relationship with women who have insecurity issues

[jaydeybugz]

@8v71buses i agree

because im really insecure and i can see how i dont make him happy

[TshaFromTWest]

Thanks for this oh-so-helpful information!

[HeartBreakHigh]

There is nothing scarier than a jealous woman! Aaaaargh! lol

If a partner starts flirting with another person, its not jealousy that comes up, it's his P45 and he is sent on his marching orders! If a person can disrepectt you in such a way, then why waste energy getting jealous, just get rid. I can understand a concern in certain situations, but not jealousy. Jealousy is a weakness that can't lead to anything good relationshipwise surely?

[vitalcoaching]

thanks for sharing ;)

[hyperbunnymuffin]

But most of us cant help being jealous...

...especially me AAAGH XD