I have ADHD,Major depression,distymia,ocd,ocpd,socailanxiety disorder and addiction.I live in Canada and psychologists are no0t covered here.Only psychiatrists.Meds don't work forme.Make me afraid I'll hurt myself or someone else.It's why I don't take them.
damn i need to see a shrink,my finals are in like a week, today is thursday by monday i must have 13 report finished total pages are about 130 maybe, i had the entire easter break didnt get out. played football once and jogged once, went to a party once and camping once, other than that i done jack shit, and as the DR says im not enjoying the activities that i used to enjoy anymore. maybe i'am depressed . oh and i dont feel like studying for my finals (so good bye degree in engineering wooo)
I've been feeling like this for almost 3 years and I've tried to kill myself 3 times...Now that I watched this video I'm ready to tell someone. Thank you so much!
sooo... im 13 and maybe 9 months ago i started getting sad, and i love to play soccer ive been playing it for 7 years. but then i didnt want to play it anymore. and i also was on swimteam, and ive been on it for 3 years and i quit because i.... i dont really know why. and now it takes me 2o mins. to get up to go to school and i love to eat, but lately im not hungryas much and when i do eat i get sick to my stomache. Do i have depreesion, cause im pretty sure i do. please right back.
i always feel down because someone is always greater than me.. and the people around me says she is greater and they dont even think that they could hurt me when they say that
Does anyone ever get times where there's loads of stuff to keep you entertained but you lack enthusiasm to actually do anything? I've been like this for a few weeks now and it's really starting to bug me. =(
Well basically I've 1, had a very decreased apetite especially for a teenager 2, all the games and activities I usually do have lost appeal, and finally I have been having what kindod is described as chest pains/ heartburn
So much negativity in the comments. I guess it's true: "No good deed goes unpunished." I'm really not concerned enough to check weather Adam is a real doctor or not. The main thing here is that you're trying to good things. I think having guest speakers is something you should do more often, and yes, broaden the topic range to important life issues beyond dating. Just don't go inviting some quack like, ooooh, Kent Hovind, LOL!!!
man your talking about my life x3r9g6, you and me should get together, because i did the same crap too!!!!!!!! and now no euphoria, plus all the responsibility of adult life
holy shit, according to this I'm depressed. I've been feeling it recently, but honestly I just push through it and be alone. I do this because I don't want my parents or friends to find out that I'm having trouble with my life. I don't want to burden them, so I'll fix and get through this myself. But yea, this vid made me feel more proactive about dealing w/my depression. Tomorrow I'm writing a plan out to conquer this.
what if u have no trust with anyone ?? after this video I realised I had all those symthomps...
I still think im not depressed but watching this made me realise I might be depressed but im not...or yes or ....well right now I have like 40 hours of college per week and spend around 12-15 hours per day on the computer doing 3d projects and I can barely sleep and stuff...and I started to have a eating prob bec im eating like once per day bec im a hurry doing my homework
I don't have a fantastic social life. I get depressed if I don't do all these things: 1. Eat healthy. 2. Exercise regularly and 3. Smoke weed regularly. Thanks to these gifts of nature I can keep most of my sanity in an insane world.
I Dont Get Depressed, i get homocidal... but then i just laugh like amaniac and repress, repress, repress... that is the key to happiness. live in denial... wait until your 20 to live like anything means anything to you. im Loving living in denial... nothing ever gets me down longer thatn 5 or 10 minutes...
yeah you know your deppresed if your step mom commits suicide because you told her that my dad was cheating on her and that i dont consider her my mother and now your dad is an alcoholic and rapes me every night and makes me have sex with my brother 4 his pleasure yeah im deppresed
you love your boyfriend and your friends are black mailing you to break up with him, and when you did he ends up in the hostipital from cutting, and you get back together with him and your friends hate you for it, and then you find out that his dad beats him and he drinks, and that he has a kid... and that you are willing to be in emotional pain for the one guy i ever loved...
ur bro is addicted to xanax and has an alcohol abuse problem and while everybody is out havin a good time ur stuck at home watchin ur mom cry cuz the bro is severely effed up and the dad doesn't give a sh** and makes things worse and all u can do is just watch as the family world burns.
it's not easy talking about depression and you may not have someone close enough to confide in, trust me i understand. i'm going through a few things, but i noticed that when i go to the gym my mind isn't focused on all the dark, crazy, and complicated thoughts running through my head. my mind is just concentrating on the next set. i find it kinda therapeutic. so i strongly agree to do something proactive.
Thanks for that. I've been depressed for like 2years now. I have to see a psych. I don't feel like doing anything when I get home from anywhere. Appetite is not good either. Ughh.
But I try to pump myself up somehow. Thnks Vanae.
To me, depression is conquerable. It takes patience and belief. I also think there is a difference between physical depression and mental or emotional depression. They can both be bad, but one is definitely more painful than the other.
I think if someone is feeling depressed for no reason then they need to seek counseling of some sort....If the reason is known to the person say loss of loved one break up or something then that is normal and I wouldn't say it's unhealthy as long as the person grieves and moves on. Ofcoarse knowingly feeding dwelling on negative emotions is always bad.
Thank you, Vanae. Once again you give me a quick look at what I couldn't see myself. And finally a solution! (This isn't just for teens, just like they said, this can go on. And on.)
live love laugh! haha. Tell yourself your "feeling great" and you will.. just think of all the people that have it worse than you. Suck it up .. and tell yourself everything is GREAT!!!
it's pronounced like lekka lee :) (think i made it harder, but search for any interwievs with her in swedish and you'll hear the real pronounciation ;) )
If Vanae were just posting vids about health awareness, I might be inclinced to agree. But V goes out and coaches people, has an open line for advice (within America, dammit), and clearly practices what she preaches. (keep it up!)
So, you know - gotta give the woman props. Even if her "mhm"s and nods in this vid are *definitely* cliché. Grin-worthy, though :)
I have to sympathise with the good doctor as well, though. When you've read the DSM-IV (the cookbook of symptoms he's using) and case studies about depression treatments, you realise that there is very little non-cliched advice that can be given to *all* people with depression. I thought the exercise angle was kind of fresh, actually.
It's a bit complicated...I don't have a job, and I woun't get one if i'm so fucking depressed all the time....i screw every interview up... no money + no job = depression..
No Money = No professional = depression goes on.... what should i do? ;)
I know this is a little off-topic but I'm looking forward to part three, Vanae. ^_^ Just the title has me intrigued (and, in my opinion as a male, should females initiate? Yes! Most definitely. Being male and not having a single woman interested you in a bar of two dozen can be depressing and would personally cause me to develop an aversion to it).
But more of that next video! Good to see Dr Adam again.
As a psych student myself, I probably encounter those major depression periods once through my undergrad years. Other than that, I normally follow Barney Stinson's motton:
When I get sad I stop being sad and be AWESOME instead. True story
depression isnt treatable in my eyes. been depressed all my life. thanks for the great video.
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andrewevear 2 months ago
I have ADHD,Major depression,distymia,ocd,ocpd,socailanxiety disorder and addiction.I live in Canada and psychologists are no0t covered here.Only psychiatrists.Meds don't work forme.Make me afraid I'll hurt myself or someone else.It's why I don't take them.
mikelmunny 7 months ago
damn i need to see a shrink,my finals are in like a week, today is thursday by monday i must have 13 report finished total pages are about 130 maybe, i had the entire easter break didnt get out. played football once and jogged once, went to a party once and camping once, other than that i done jack shit, and as the DR says im not enjoying the activities that i used to enjoy anymore. maybe i'am depressed . oh and i dont feel like studying for my finals (so good bye degree in engineering wooo)
cool2t 9 months ago
I guess Im depressed then
CoronaMage 10 months ago
dumb bitch just sits there and goes "hmmm..yeaa...hmmm...uhhuh....yeaaa"
KiDFRANKKK 11 months ago
Okay, here's a question. How do you know if you have depression or it's just teenage hormones?
xoFadingStarox 11 months ago
I've been feeling like this for almost 3 years and I've tried to kill myself 3 times...Now that I watched this video I'm ready to tell someone. Thank you so much!
MsMurderxoxo 1 year ago
sooo... im 13 and maybe 9 months ago i started getting sad, and i love to play soccer ive been playing it for 7 years. but then i didnt want to play it anymore. and i also was on swimteam, and ive been on it for 3 years and i quit because i.... i dont really know why. and now it takes me 2o mins. to get up to go to school and i love to eat, but lately im not hungryas much and when i do eat i get sick to my stomache. Do i have depreesion, cause im pretty sure i do. please right back.
Asra1997 1 year ago
when Ever I'm down I listen to Nike ardilla,
and open a bottle of Black label and smoke a pack of Ji Sam Soe
Sungkawa 1 year ago
i always feel down because someone is always greater than me.. and the people around me says she is greater and they dont even think that they could hurt me when they say that
sinichiechizen 1 year ago
@sinichiechizen i feel your pain.. i'm there too.
HaloAsReligion 1 year ago
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sinichiechizen 1 year ago
@HaloAsReligion thank you.. haaahhh... the worst is.. one told me that is my friend...
sinichiechizen 1 year ago
@sinichiechizen yeah sucks been there..
HaloAsReligion 1 year ago
@HaloAsReligion yeahh...
sinichiechizen 1 year ago
I dont have activities i enjoy....o.o.....finding a hobby is so much harder than it sounds
satbir129 1 year ago 2
Does anyone ever get times where there's loads of stuff to keep you entertained but you lack enthusiasm to actually do anything? I've been like this for a few weeks now and it's really starting to bug me. =(
KauniRaine 1 year ago 3
i feel very depressed almost 24/7 but there is nothing that i hate more than having to talk about w\my self and why i am feeling down
bomerman104 1 year ago
i need you to destroy the internet for ever it needs to go its wasting life im serious
THEFALLEN093 2 years ago
Well basically I've 1, had a very decreased apetite especially for a teenager 2, all the games and activities I usually do have lost appeal, and finally I have been having what kindod is described as chest pains/ heartburn
Idk what to do
hardcoremetroid158 2 years ago
So much negativity in the comments. I guess it's true: "No good deed goes unpunished." I'm really not concerned enough to check weather Adam is a real doctor or not. The main thing here is that you're trying to good things. I think having guest speakers is something you should do more often, and yes, broaden the topic range to important life issues beyond dating. Just don't go inviting some quack like, ooooh, Kent Hovind, LOL!!!
TheArt0fReaz0n 2 years ago
doctor my ass
MegaPMetal 2 years ago
are you fucking the dr. who by the way isnt a real doctor, and doesnt even have a phd, cuz of that gay ass ninja tatoo!
psychologist my ass.. wheres your creditnitals asshole
sh2000ca 2 years ago
I have all those symptoms but i blame it on 2 things:
1. I used drugs in highschool and it's hard to feel that same euphoria when you're clean.
2. Adults have so many responsibilities......life isn't supposed to be this stressful.
x3r9g6 2 years ago 8
man your talking about my life x3r9g6, you and me should get together, because i did the same crap too!!!!!!!! and now no euphoria, plus all the responsibility of adult life
sh2000ca 2 years ago 2
i know, man......but I found a solution:
Call of Duty: Modern Warfare 2
I've been playing that all week and i feel fuckin great!
x3r9g6 2 years ago 2
haha, i have the same problems, i tried playing some games but it just wont help.
13oogie 2 years ago
i think adrenaline is a good replacement......get an adrenaline rush and you'll feel way better for the next couple days or so.
x3r9g6 2 years ago
LOL
jimmaayyyyy 2 years ago
holy shit, according to this I'm depressed. I've been feeling it recently, but honestly I just push through it and be alone. I do this because I don't want my parents or friends to find out that I'm having trouble with my life. I don't want to burden them, so I'll fix and get through this myself. But yea, this vid made me feel more proactive about dealing w/my depression. Tomorrow I'm writing a plan out to conquer this.
mudphud8 2 years ago
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lennartRe 2 years ago
:DD VAnae! For those who feel depressed they should look up TD jakes and Joel Osteen.
really great people who help me cast down depression.
MrPinoy91 2 years ago
wow.. i like when you say get into hobbies ..but why are there only 110 ratings?? is there something broken on youtube? ^^
FeelSweet7 2 years ago
this girl is wonderful.she needs to think about writing a book one day on all the great advice she gives out to the world.2 thumbs up!
johnnydemonic1313 2 years ago
what if u have no trust with anyone ?? after this video I realised I had all those symthomps...
I still think im not depressed but watching this made me realise I might be depressed but im not...or yes or ....well right now I have like 40 hours of college per week and spend around 12-15 hours per day on the computer doing 3d projects and I can barely sleep and stuff...and I started to have a eating prob bec im eating like once per day bec im a hurry doing my homework
probounderxxx 2 years ago
thought this was very helpful addvise, love watching this channel :)
kiwigirl087 2 years ago
I don't have a fantastic social life. I get depressed if I don't do all these things: 1. Eat healthy. 2. Exercise regularly and 3. Smoke weed regularly. Thanks to these gifts of nature I can keep most of my sanity in an insane world.
Arejek 2 years ago 12
smoking weed isnt a gift,its basicly something that can kill you.stop smoking!
buzzy0016 2 years ago
:/ ok
AnnaLouiseAdams 2 years ago
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jimmiexiong 2 years ago
You know you are depressed when your life has lost it's meaning and you don't remember the last time when you laughed from the bottom of your heart.
samikalastaja 2 years ago
I Dont Get Depressed, i get homocidal... but then i just laugh like amaniac and repress, repress, repress... that is the key to happiness. live in denial... wait until your 20 to live like anything means anything to you. im Loving living in denial... nothing ever gets me down longer thatn 5 or 10 minutes...
CoppersTV 2 years ago
yeah you know your deppresed if your step mom commits suicide because you told her that my dad was cheating on her and that i dont consider her my mother and now your dad is an alcoholic and rapes me every night and makes me have sex with my brother 4 his pleasure yeah im deppresed
sinr100 2 years ago
tell me thats made up or im callin the fuckin CPS aite?
CoppersTV 2 years ago
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ShaneRaweewon 2 years ago
you're always hideing your right eye...
i don't know why...
i'm gonna try to find out why cuz u don't wanna tell me why r u hideing your right eye
slimyoshady 2 years ago
you know your depressed if...
you love your boyfriend and your friends are black mailing you to break up with him, and when you did he ends up in the hostipital from cutting, and you get back together with him and your friends hate you for it, and then you find out that his dad beats him and he drinks, and that he has a kid... and that you are willing to be in emotional pain for the one guy i ever loved...
ya i am depressed
0oTixxiTo0 2 years ago
your "friends" arent friends if they dont want to see you happy
your the one dating him not them
amarilisbaby1 2 years ago
Do you need a hug? cuz ill send you a hug. (fake but still counts kinda) :)
CoppersTV 2 years ago 2
you may be depressed if..
ur bro is addicted to xanax and has an alcohol abuse problem and while everybody is out havin a good time ur stuck at home watchin ur mom cry cuz the bro is severely effed up and the dad doesn't give a sh** and makes things worse and all u can do is just watch as the family world burns.
yeah, im effin depressed.
bqureshi390 2 years ago
well, hes obviously depressed too which led to that, but certainly brought me down with him and this whole idea of existence is just obsolete.
bqureshi390 2 years ago
thanks vanae
youre a sweety =3
Hoodyrulez 2 years ago
Crazy
I'm not bandit
But i bang clips and leave your forehead in a bandage
Standard
ctfc92 2 years ago
:) }{
eazybihi11 2 years ago
thank you for this.
gfunk449 2 years ago
haha
vanae,
ur cute, but ur head is pretty big 'relatively'
cute in a cartoon charactor way
=]
hsk8787 2 years ago
it's not easy talking about depression and you may not have someone close enough to confide in, trust me i understand. i'm going through a few things, but i noticed that when i go to the gym my mind isn't focused on all the dark, crazy, and complicated thoughts running through my head. my mind is just concentrating on the next set. i find it kinda therapeutic. so i strongly agree to do something proactive.
hheeyy 2 years ago
Vanae can you say "ice cream" =D i love the way you say it =)
SHADOWS113 2 years ago 2
I prefer the way she says "upfrank". =) Definitely my favourite Vanae-ism.
Guest1001 2 years ago
Thanks for that. I've been depressed for like 2years now. I have to see a psych. I don't feel like doing anything when I get home from anywhere. Appetite is not good either. Ughh.
But I try to pump myself up somehow. Thnks Vanae.
handsumangel 2 years ago
I actually went through depression for a while, i saw a psychologist and it really helped. my father had depression for years though
dougaholic 2 years ago
My god, that smile on that guy is so fucking creepy.
Holy shit.
lnstrumentalist 2 years ago
how do you see out of your other eye when you hairs covering it
pianist231 2 years ago
just as simple as how i see the future.
clearly.
vanae12 2 years ago 4
@vanae12 .. u sound like a jedi there.. lol
seansiewsarran 11 months ago
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jimmiexiong 2 years ago
Tell that to the ones that can't even talk to girls. What vanae suggested was fine. Please think before posting, thanks! :)
xdarkkilllrx 2 years ago
AGREED!!!!!
ShreddingSoobs 2 years ago
already emailed, didnt get response, too bad.
sanchopanza123 2 years ago
To me, depression is conquerable. It takes patience and belief. I also think there is a difference between physical depression and mental or emotional depression. They can both be bad, but one is definitely more painful than the other.
anthonycorral 2 years ago
I think if someone is feeling depressed for no reason then they need to seek counseling of some sort....If the reason is known to the person say loss of loved one break up or something then that is normal and I wouldn't say it's unhealthy as long as the person grieves and moves on. Ofcoarse knowingly feeding dwelling on negative emotions is always bad.
soni408 2 years ago
Vanae12 why can't there be more nice girls like you these days? :(
xdarkkilllrx 2 years ago 2
Thank you, Vanae. Once again you give me a quick look at what I couldn't see myself. And finally a solution! (This isn't just for teens, just like they said, this can go on. And on.)
Cavetroll100 2 years ago
everything is cliché
xxxprincessforlifexx 2 years ago
live love laugh! haha. Tell yourself your "feeling great" and you will.. just think of all the people that have it worse than you. Suck it up .. and tell yourself everything is GREAT!!!
gigicat21 2 years ago
omg i think i am suffering frm depression ...
junhaoblurshit 2 years ago 3
it's pronounced like lekka lee :) (think i made it harder, but search for any interwievs with her in swedish and you'll hear the real pronounciation ;) )
Karakuma 2 years ago
sorry, but this is so cliché
th3inquisitiv31 2 years ago 2
Uhh . . . advice is cliché?
Guest1001 2 years ago
If Vanae were just posting vids about health awareness, I might be inclinced to agree. But V goes out and coaches people, has an open line for advice (within America, dammit), and clearly practices what she preaches. (keep it up!)
So, you know - gotta give the woman props. Even if her "mhm"s and nods in this vid are *definitely* cliché. Grin-worthy, though :)
Futumch 2 years ago
my comment was only in regards to the typical advice given for/ about depression and wasn't necessarily a comment about Vanae herself.
And I know Vanae is the shit, that's why I subscribed. . . .
th3inquisitiv31 2 years ago
Fair enough.
I have to sympathise with the good doctor as well, though. When you've read the DSM-IV (the cookbook of symptoms he's using) and case studies about depression treatments, you realise that there is very little non-cliched advice that can be given to *all* people with depression. I thought the exercise angle was kind of fresh, actually.
Futumch 2 years ago
The solution for the Problem is medication, right?
Mardolin 2 years ago
depends on the level of it i guess
AyeJreem 2 years ago
no. the solution for depression is:
- talking about it
- exercising
- make the decision to not be depressed anymore
- seeing a professional (therapist)
- hang out w/ good friends
vanae12 2 years ago 7
ye vanae, but what if you don't like exercising
and what if you don't have good friends? ;)
It's a bit complicated...I don't have a job, and I woun't get one if i'm so fucking depressed all the time....i screw every interview up... no money + no job = depression..
No Money = No professional = depression goes on.... what should i do? ;)
Mardolin 2 years ago
I hope I don't sound sarcastic when I type this but,in other words,
get a life!
get motivated
thats what my mum told me?
streetyang99 2 years ago
@vanae12 and eating the right foods!
xsarahgallagherx 11 months ago
I know this is a little off-topic but I'm looking forward to part three, Vanae. ^_^ Just the title has me intrigued (and, in my opinion as a male, should females initiate? Yes! Most definitely. Being male and not having a single woman interested you in a bar of two dozen can be depressing and would personally cause me to develop an aversion to it).
But more of that next video! Good to see Dr Adam again.
Guest1001 2 years ago
As a psych student myself, I probably encounter those major depression periods once through my undergrad years. Other than that, I normally follow Barney Stinson's motton:
When I get sad I stop being sad and be AWESOME instead. True story
chauchau 2 years ago 2
Barney Stinson's got the best advice.
CraftingaDillinger 2 years ago
i dont know if im really horny or if im inlove.
and no i never feel sad
aante9111 2 years ago
what is the song that plays for your intro right before it says "Lets do this!"?
surfbum482 2 years ago
Long term relationships make me depress, anything longer than a month makes me so sad.
gorillabang79 2 years ago
Nice, seems that I am depressed =O. Almost all symptoms apply to me..
Oh and I think females should initiate, for the shy guys out there.
XilenceSR 2 years ago 2
who dosent have depression at times???
penutwi 2 years ago
I find that if I don't work out, I get depressed
benzjamin13 2 years ago 2
omg! me too!!
communityschannel 2 years ago
I like listening to you :) Thank you
twinklestarr2 2 years ago