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  • I love watching your videos. You are so similar to my older sister, whom i rarely get to see, so i always watch these so i can hear "my sister" give me advise :)

  • aww jar you and your guy broke up!:((( you're an inspiration

  • Your videos help so much, i love it <3

  • happiness is the best revenge

  • hi jarmaine, i would like to ask (if its not a big deal) if you're still in a relationship with that guy who's with you on your 1st videos's? (sorry, just curious) thanks

  • @jammy1234568 in one of her videos she said she was no longer with him

  • i just went through a break up myself and this video really helped me

    but still have feelings for the guy but moving on

  • i went from a serious relationship dumped him and cried over the first guy i've ever cried over then 3 weeks later got with my bf and we have so much history and are so in love im going to marry him<33333333333333333333

  • 4:14

    NO AND THEN.

  • He just broke up with me...

  • @1paytonlee he did to me too .... :,(

  • @nadialsdx yeah, dang guys!!!

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  • "if one outgrows the other"......I'm 5'3 :(

    I date girls who are still growing x)

  • LMAO! This girl makes my day everyday :)

  • Your so wise:) love you Jar-3

  • OMG!!!!!!!!! okay well my bf broke up with me well i dont give a shit cuz i got hurt so manytimes!!! but i just hope he sucks big dick and lives with no one with him:)

  • You're 21??? holy crap I thought you were like 25-27

  • how guys break up?? grab a bottle of jack daniels and screw the sluttiest girl they know

  • lul I feel you, crazy filipino mums

  • you look young, but your mature. and i can easily tell. i absolutely love your videos and im a BIG fan <3

  • U the best ..n all u said was true ..

  • IS THAT YOUR CLOSET? :| its as big as my living room.

  • @AJBDaR it looks like a room she made into a closet.

  • OMG i laughed so hard at that phone conversation xDDDD

    Loved the video, you are beautiful and amazing woman! Love you!

  • You look so much older than 21, young, but older than 21..

  • please check out my tutorial on how to fix a broken heart? it also helps with break ups

  • The thumbnail looks a makeup tutorial

  • In break-ups. One half always wants to stay friends. I personally think that is a BAD idea.. some people generally like to forget and move on from that person. But, i broke up from someone and im trying hard to build a friendship with them.. i can truly say its not going so well seeing as they found someone else with in a week of us breaking up... but i'm giving it a shot. It may or may not work out, if it doesn't then, its not the end of the world. They aren't the person you thought they were.

  • @iKellyannee the "lets still be friends"crap is a desperate typical way for the one rejected NOT wanting to let go.It's a means to keep their dependence on the person rejecting them intact.If they see you ( as a friend) they feel that they havent lost you.And as well, it keeps alive the hope that the person might change their mind and revert back to being with the one rejected.Simple solution is to GET OVER IT.I personally ALWAYS tell my women"i DONT do the friends afterwards thing"

  • @strangecluesinfriday I totally agree with what you've said. I don't really see the whole "lets only be friends" part working out... the person i broke up with wanted to do the whole friends situation.. but its been a year and all we do is really argue. I've said already about a million times that its pointless us just "lets be friends" because... at the end of the day, one of us will just move on..

    meh, i'm just bored of him anyway. not the person i thought he was, but then again, no one is. :)

  • @iKellyannee of course.Fuck IF everyone could see into the future, NO ONE would even get into relationships OR get married.. would they ?.. LOL

  • @strangecluesinfriday HAHA, true point.. but i guess everyone has got to have that special someone in their life somewhen... it just takes time to find "the one" but along the way, you WILL encounter complete A-holes.

  • @iKellyannee yup. Assholes are a-PLENTY out there.And truth be told, women are NO better than men at acquiring that distinguished title.I have ta tell ya, its been my experience and observations that men are as single minded and stupid as a twig. BUT women seem no better in their ongoing to have the market cornered on being confused,uncertain about what they want,wanting what they CANT have,and being as changeable as the weather in March.BUT,BOTH are a real hoot to observe.LMAO xo

  • @strangecluesinfriday Hahaha, yep, for sure guys and girls are the same. Theres no 'one has it bigger then the other'

  • i like your tips they made me break up before i fall in love haha

  • im a big fan of u hahahha

  • You actually make me laugh so much :) Them voices and faces you do, I'm going through a break up atm as well, and I watch your videos to make myself laugh and get in a good mood! :) So thank you :)

  • Where's your desk from ? :o

  • ME I AM ALONE AND NOT ALONE AT THE SAME TIME. AND DIFFERENT WHEN MY HUSBAND IS AROUND. WE DONT TALK.LOL

  • haha 0:14 

  • I don't see why people make like a biggish deal with break ups I've been in relationships I've ended up hurt & all but i mean i don't see the point in crying over someone that left you because he doesn't want to be with you while you'r crying over this guy he's probably fucking another girl or with another girl . Not meaning to be a hater or anything like that it's just the truth .

  • @xXxjellyxXx3 I totally agree with u... but remember not all girls are the same.. u seem to have a very strong personality... but that doesn't mean all girls are like you. some are very sentimental... Just saying.

  • @sandobalvanessa Well yeah thats true but i think girls should be stronger yeah i've been hurt by a guy to it ruined my world but it doesn't mean one guy should ruine your whole life you knoe wat i mean like girls over react to the fact that they lost the person when like they don't realize there is waay more people in the world & they havent met most of the world & well i mean guys move on easy why shouldent girls do the same they could do better then some guy that makes her cry .

  • y didnt u upload this vid 2 years ago when i needed it!

  • really ur other one looked different]

  • how many houses do u hav grl??

  • @cutebunny1061 its not like some owns 15 different houses.....

  • @Klaudia4Ever1 ah ya it is

  • @cutebunny1061 she moved

  • I wish you were related to me!

  • I wishh we could talk maybe you could help me to deal with my break up...

  • Hmmm!..... I take it her and sean broke up? ughhh im so far behind ):

  • 4:05 and on like almost made my life X3 , Made me laugh so much.

  • do you live in a studio apt?

  • I was in a relationship for 3 yrs and I broke up with him on New Yrs day.... thanks for this vid!

  • I'm going through a breakup right now too And this video really helped! Thanks jarmaine! Love ur videos!!

  • I love watching your videos, also because of the great background. :P

  • i wonder if he still watch your videos.

  • omg your only 1 year older than me but it feels like your so much more mature and independant....ohhhh :(

  • @shazxxxxxxx16786 Same thing I sometimes think about other people in my age. :( But we will be independent too someday, just gotta work on it! :)

  • how i get over breakup: u and ur best friend eat chocolate ice cream and cry your eyes out to a chick flick. next day you go to the mall get sexy outfots and flirt the guys up. boom done

  • i'm totally gonna seduce him and then and then and then and then... exactly dumb ass!! lmao

  • Hi Jarmaine, i know this is not related to this video but i liked the make-up that you had for this video,so could you please tell me what you used? Thank you

  • Hey Becky, I hope you're fricken ready, have that blanket ready and have that gag-ball ready in your hand, because, ugh, I'm totally gonna seduce him... and then... and then... AND THEN!"

    LMFAO! That was thee bestest bit!

    LOVE this woman! <3 :D xx

  • That's exactly like my parents... They want me to wait until I finish university/college!!!! -.-

  • Haha. My mom is filipino and she talks JUST LIKE THAT lol

  • ive never laughed so much in my life with all your impressions :)

  • 2:15 :)

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  • Dear Jar,

    Idk if you've done it before buttt LIKE FOH REAL, tell us how you work out/stay so skinny/your workout shindig.

    thanks gurllll!

    p.s.-

    lol i love your videos. especially this one!! so true.

  • please, ROOM TOUR

  • well i am 19 and just got married my hubby is really rude some times... i love him and i would die for him anyday .. but out of nowhere he tells menhe hates ma and to eat shit .. he tells me if i call him we are done his been doing this from a montph after we got married in july ... what should i do i love him i dont went to leave him his doing this just cuz i go on computer.. witch all i do is look Y vids on youtube

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  • @xxsibar make sure to sit down and talk about it, you shouldn't live life like this.

  • Dear Jarmaine, how to stop being jealous? :S

  • your 21?

  • those weren't really tips but my advice would be throw away your ex's things that remind you of them and change your number. But people refuse to do those things, they'd rather sulk and feel sorry for themselves.

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  • Jarmaine, marry me and have my babies. God bless you.

  • Thank you! <3 Btw: you sometimes sound like Naomi from 90210!

  • Dear Jarmaine, how to be confident?

  • LMFAO! exactly you dumb *cuts off*

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  • well said! :)

  • I got dumped through an OFFLINE MESSAGE!!! ((msn))! WOW how amazing I'm!

  • you're so smart and funny! like.. perfect!

  • -3*

  • HAHAHA,

    "exactly you dumb-a!"

    -3 you Jarmaine'

  • i would have to say the best way you can deal with a break up is now that i have more time on my hands i can do more thing that benefits me and i my opinion its not a good idea to be like on to the next one and like as soon as your out of a relationship your in another because to me thats like your afraid to be alone and thats not health so take a break from relationships because it going to let you see alot and eventually your going to find someone you like or they might find you i hope i help

  • This video is probably my favourite from you. You just seems so real here.

  • I love that you can hear her voice change, it gets softer, when she talks about needs and wants. You can tell it means a lot to her.

  • even in a breakup video u make me smile n laugh looooool LOVE U XD <3

  • how are you so freaking rich when you're at uni! my gawddd! i had to work 3 jobs just to afford food and stuff. haha love you jarmaine. <3

  • My Way Of Dealing With a Break Up Is To Not Show My Weak Side..ANd Say WHATEVER! ONE TO THE NEXT..Then Start Talking To A Better Looking Dude..Its Like This..Out With The Old In WithThe New..I Feel Alot Better But..I Got Dumped Last Week Sunday Lol So Im Like WHATEVER I GOT THIS Lol..Im SMiling Alot More And Talking To Like 5 Guys Lol

  • @MzSnowBird Wrong way to deal with a breakup . SLUT MUCH ?

  • @MzSnowBird Hellll yeaaaah :)

  • @MzSnowBird You're making yourself sound kinda slutty which sucks because you're probably not.

  • @3ImmaMonster Same hereeee! :o

  • is that your CLOSET??

  • @chinesecat3064 she probably used a room for it.

  • for your shoe vid

    

  • cheetah

  • I concur, revenge mode gets you no where. Take that time and energy and heal yourself...I'm a psych student and so for me getting over a breakup was akin to getting over an addiction. Associate the old hurtful triggers with new memories...but the only way that's going to happen is if you face it head on. Thanks for putting this up Jarmaine. xx

  • boyfriend and i broke up back in august but still kept in contact to this day. Hes in the army so it was difficult. we still said ily and imy. put me through hell till yesterday when I woke up one morning and decided his ass is out my life. changed my #, blocked him on fb. I miss him dearly but I think about a lot of what hes done to me. aka cheated on me. Thats what helps me move on. I surround myself w/positive ppl to and i keep myself busy. Im done w/that A hole ;]

  • My boyfriend broke up with me today. Our 4 year anniversary was supposed to me tomorrow. :(

  • :@rosiecheeks92 : Oh wow, I'm really sorry. My boyfriend broke up with me, ehh... two weeks ago today and we'd been together two years. I wish you the best of healing.

  • @rosiecheeks92 omg wow, same thing happen to me!!! cept sunday is suppose to be our 3rdyr anniversity:(

  • @rosiecheeks92 i feel so sorry

  • You are hilarious. <3

  • yeah me and my ex..i mean sure i miss him.. but were actually still like best friends i still tell him everything and he does the same..but ya know i dont like helping him with his girl problems in my head im like DUMP HER DUMP HER(:< but haha i still have to help q:

  • Great video :) I love your nails!

  • 2:44-2:47

    ¨She had a better ass than I did but hey, my ass could work it¨!!

    XD

  • Waiting for your new vid today

  • i love this video

  • I just went through a break-up. He dumped me through text. He told me he'd NEVER leave me, and he loved me. Then it was bye-bye. He told me so much stuff like I was too young, and I'm more mature then him believe it or not. Now he asked my friend out. HECK YEAH I WAS PISSED!! I don't eat AT ALL when I'm upset. When I think of food I wanna throw up. I'm the type to go to my gf's, and tell her everything. Good thing is that she loves hearing my stories, but he'll be back. He ALWAYS comes back.

  • LOL. THIS IS GREAT!

  • LOL da phone convo!

  • This is true. I was the type who just wanted to get revenge on the other person but experience does eventually triumph all. Now, I am just so zenned out whenever breakups do happen. Thank you Jarmaine for all your help! This really helped with my 'breakup' with a guy friend of mine.

  • "you have to experience the hurt to feel the joy" my favorite part..

  • since you said we can ask you ANYTHING about boys n stuff ... im gonna ask you, are you a virgin? ... and if your not then like talk about it.. safety, morals, just everything about it!

  • just 1 word for u-- Best..

  • Scary voice**"I will seduced him, and then, and then" lmao

  • I've never even had a boyfriend, now I'm probably gonna worry too much about a break up...

  • me and my boy brokeup today . we just celebrated our 6 month two days ago, blah :/

  • Hahaha i love the impression you do of your mom lol

  • @theshellyheree I knw I was thinking ... Heyyy are u in dulce's closet... Lol

  • hahaha I loved the ending (':

    thanks Jarmaine

    this really helped xx

  • Dear Jer, can u do a video on long distance relationships!!??

  • hahaa !! im phillippino annnd my parents areee jusst the saame xD smh..

  • My best friend is my crush. I think he likes me but I don't know what to do now. Help?!

  • Can you do a closet/room video?!?!

  • Dear,jarmaine my friend n I keep having fights over stupid things but in a hour we always forgive each other but we just had fight n she said she's not my frend anymore n she is mad cuZz she had my fb password n she was reading my msg with a guy n I told him (I didn't realize I told him) that she was some guys ex n I'm relly good friends with her ex but the guy that I told said he woodnt tell anyone n he is trustworthy then I texted her asking not to read my msg with him cuZz he told me someth

  • i really liked this video, you're acting normal on this one :p

  • you're so calm in this video -3 -3 I love you !

  • loved this, jst what i needed to hear<3 thank you!

  • Hurt me with the truth but never comfort me with a lie..

  • DEAR JARMAINE,

    I found out that i've been two-timed. UGHHH. So pissed, but I decided to be the mature one and stay friends with him. We both live on campus. So it's kinda hard to avoid him. I haven't had "revenge" or anything. Did I do the right thing? WHAT IS THE RIGHT THING TO DO?

  • @chanelbabe716 I would be really mad, i would probably not speak to him for like 2 days and see how it goes.

  • @chanelbabe716 IF you want my advice i say that you should talk to him and just straight things out , cause what he did was not right , ignoring him wont be an option trusstt me.. i tried it , did not work at all :/// so that's my advice from me to u :) hope it helps!

  • "because ill totally seduce him, and then .. and then .. and then .." haahahahah!

  • Some people will pistal whip you with an AK 47 x)

  • i love thisss

  • I love your videos they always get me in a good mood when im sad lol

  • The room your in look's like dulce's closet!

  • ohhh my gooodness, my mother sounds exactly like that hahaha. oohh filipino mothers.

  • i love love love your black hair on you! please don't dye it, it's perfect (:

  • HOUSE TOUR. NOW.

  • House tour PLEASE !

  • ROOM TOUR PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Ugh....Breakups are so awkward. I only feel bad about them because I'm so happy when Its over. I feel trapped whenever i'm in a relationship.

  • @3ImmaMonster u aint supposed to b trapped...either u with tha wrong person or you dunno how to have a gooood balanced relationship <3

  • @3ImmaMonster Me too!!!! Ugh, THANK U, someone other than me feels that way!

  • LMAOO! "for what? -_-" haha! made my day xD

  • Dear jermain how about getting a bf :(

  • in this video we got to see the real jarmaine! i love it!

  • whens ur nxt vid!

  • 1:50 - 2:05 is my fave part! :D

  • always when u have some nails done, u are doing your hand every possible move and u make sure that EEEEVERYBODY can see your nails :DDd

  • @TheSoffeliini i didnt even notice her hands until you pointed it out lol

  • you talk too much

  • Breaking up is really hard... I'm already going through this situation since over a month. And it was a horrible time... I used to wake up in the middle of the night with crying and I couldn't find out why. Besides... I had many hard days during this time. And what I did, I was talking, talking and talking with my best friend. She helped me a lot in understanding this whole situation from her's side. So girls... spend time with your best friends and it'll be better. It'll take some time, but...

  • ugh thank you, I remembered seeing this video a couple days ago. well guess what just happened to me! yay...so thank you very much:)

  • is that your closet area or room i really like it, the way its set up and all!!!! where did you buy the closet/storage materials from, love where the shoes go!

  • great video thanks love u girl!!

  • Even when your heart broken your still funny :) interesting advice, i don't think iv'e heard of putting that way before. My mom always says that your going to remember your first love and your first break up but hardly anything between that and your current or recent relationship. I feel like she's yoda sometimes lol

  • youre so young! but who tf breaks up with someone via texts?! :/

  • JAR JAR i looooove you and ur advice girlfraann, awesome its almost so much advice its hard for me to absorb it all so i watch it a few times lol but thanks it helps me in my situation :)