prince said it best in the song {when doves cry) maybe your like my mother she's never satisfied.The more you get the more you want.Look inside your self.......
It's called the Wizard of Oz syndrome. You want the white man to give you WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE!!! Most black women have this problem. You think you are ugly, so the white man can sell you fake hair, nails, piss yellow weave, etc. Yet, we black men gave you the afro and we declared to the world: BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!
Yet, instead of telling us thanks, you black women joined white Feminism. AND THEN THOSE SAME WHITE FEMINISTS STOLE YOUR MAN! LOL!
Well I think everyone suffers from that,because we are all human. So I think you need to pray and ask god ( if you believe) to help you in that area. You need to reflect on what's making you feel like that and try to talk about it more to get a solution.
I think people that are never satisfied really don't know what they want. Take some time and get to know yourself and find what is really important to YOU. After you do that, work towards those things, and things that you don't want, won't distract you. I used to be just like that until I got to know myself.. getting to know yourself takes time, patience and honesty.
I was going to say the same thing! Amen....I used to be this way too or should I say I'm learning not to be this way and now I'm doing some soul searching. Getting to know me.
LAWD!!! I think we all have to just deal with ish.. I was miserable in a relationship now I'm kinda bored single.. Spoiled? Yeah u are.. I think OUR moms ruined us by spoiling us..
LOL...I'm spoiled huh? ok, I know..LOL MY mom only had one ME so she gave me everything. Now look at me...I want more and more and more....a damn shame
It's life. We're not supposed to be satisfied until it's over. Happy yes, but until you actually accomplish what you wanna accomplish your not gonna be fulfilled or content.
People on the outside looking at may think you have it all, but they never see that pieces that you have to hold together for dear life.
You gotta chase what ya want, just make sure you keep sight of it, and don't get wrapped up in the setbacks.
(((((HUGGIN YA BACK)))))) Thanks T. You always give such great advice. I appreciate that. I want to be content...settled in my position in life. Sometimes it's tiring always looking for something different. And yes, setbacks are the worse.
OH WOW I was the only child also!! (We have to much in common ..lol) I know I'm spoiled.... but I'm patient and nice and have put wat I wanted on hold especially when me and my hubby were just starting off 5 yrs ago!
OMG!!OMG!OMG!! I'm the exact same way my mom says i'm just spoiled and need to go to church! But I really can't put my finger on wats going on! THE ONLY time I didn't feel this way was when I had my son! Its really been bothering me!!!
I'm with ya girl!!!! I was raised an only child so I know I have spoiled tendencies..LOL My mother tells me to go to church too..WOW!!! Sad thing is I always felt like this... Thanks so much for watching and commenting.
I feel you. My sis said the same thing on facebook. We need to strive to be content with the blessings that we have before us. Thanks so much for watching and commenting.
Well my sis you said it all right here. I am the same way though so I know exactly how you feel. Although going through some things have allowed me to be humble i still lack the patience that I should have and i'm always reaching for things that are not yet in my grasp. We are also always so focused on the downside of what's going on in our lives not realizing that those too are blessings in disguise. But you know i will continue to keep you lifted in prayer. Much love and blessings
I'm neither a pessimist or an optimist BE so the glass isn't half empty or half full to me. Sometimes it's just a glass with plain ol water and often i want some kool-aid or some wine in my glass. That's why i say im never satisfied. Because i'm tired of the same ol water lol.
Thats human nature I think. You're not alone, many of us are the same way..... I've been and probably am guilty of that right now. On the other hand..... U may be spoiled, lol--- just keep on living cause in about 30 minutes you're gonna want something else....just wait and see, lol. You look very pretty.
I'm glad I'm not alone in this. I'm constantly chasing something that's not in the cards for me right now. And yep, I'm a little spoiled so that doesn't help. I'm just looking for that feeling when you are just content with life. I hope I get there soon. And thank you. I got this make up look idea from makeupsqure. I love it!
prince said it best in the song {when doves cry) maybe your like my mother she's never satisfied.The more you get the more you want.Look inside your self.......
tiapan7 1 year ago
It's called the Wizard of Oz syndrome. You want the white man to give you WHAT YOU ALREADY HAVE!!! Most black women have this problem. You think you are ugly, so the white man can sell you fake hair, nails, piss yellow weave, etc. Yet, we black men gave you the afro and we declared to the world: BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL!
Yet, instead of telling us thanks, you black women joined white Feminism. AND THEN THOSE SAME WHITE FEMINISTS STOLE YOUR MAN! LOL!
mayorofblacktown2 1 year ago
@mayorofblacktown2 Nice! That comment just put a smile on my face. Thanks :)
Lauriette31 1 year ago
Well I think everyone suffers from that,because we are all human. So I think you need to pray and ask god ( if you believe) to help you in that area. You need to reflect on what's making you feel like that and try to talk about it more to get a solution.
KKCami 2 years ago
Well, actually its the guilt that your upbringing and the world tries to put on you to make you think feeling that way is a bad thing.
kevinferere 2 years ago
Girl I am the same way. Are u talking to me?
lisajoycole 2 years ago
I think people that are never satisfied really don't know what they want. Take some time and get to know yourself and find what is really important to YOU. After you do that, work towards those things, and things that you don't want, won't distract you. I used to be just like that until I got to know myself.. getting to know yourself takes time, patience and honesty.
IMINTOMAKEUPNOW 2 years ago
I was going to say the same thing! Amen....I used to be this way too or should I say I'm learning not to be this way and now I'm doing some soul searching. Getting to know me.
dulcecaramelo23 2 years ago
OMG...my man is like that! What's really good? I do not know.
anotharemix 2 years ago
The jury says we are spoiled brats, bored or just chasing that content feeling. LOL Something like that...
Lauriette31 2 years ago
He actually admitted to being spoiled one day. He may not remember, but I'll remind him. I'm saving it for "one of those days" lol.
anotharemix 2 years ago
Good for you...
You gotta bring out that type of stuff when you up against the wall..LOL
Lauriette31 2 years ago
So true. Right now in my life i want to go back to school but I don't have the means to do so. And I'm being very impatient.
Lauriette31 2 years ago
LAWD!!! I think we all have to just deal with ish.. I was miserable in a relationship now I'm kinda bored single.. Spoiled? Yeah u are.. I think OUR moms ruined us by spoiling us..
LionessR 2 years ago
LOL...I'm spoiled huh? ok, I know..LOL MY mom only had one ME so she gave me everything. Now look at me...I want more and more and more....a damn shame
Lauriette31 2 years ago
HUUUG,
It's life. We're not supposed to be satisfied until it's over. Happy yes, but until you actually accomplish what you wanna accomplish your not gonna be fulfilled or content.
People on the outside looking at may think you have it all, but they never see that pieces that you have to hold together for dear life.
You gotta chase what ya want, just make sure you keep sight of it, and don't get wrapped up in the setbacks.
primaldata 2 years ago
(((((HUGGIN YA BACK)))))) Thanks T. You always give such great advice. I appreciate that. I want to be content...settled in my position in life. Sometimes it's tiring always looking for something different. And yes, setbacks are the worse.
Lauriette31 2 years ago
OH WOW I was the only child also!! (We have to much in common ..lol) I know I'm spoiled.... but I'm patient and nice and have put wat I wanted on hold especially when me and my hubby were just starting off 5 yrs ago!
PrettyWoman1208 2 years ago
YEP!! I am my mother's only child. I try to be patient and I'm definitely nice. I guess I'm meeting a dull point in my life.
Lauriette31 2 years ago
OMG!!OMG!OMG!! I'm the exact same way my mom says i'm just spoiled and need to go to church! But I really can't put my finger on wats going on! THE ONLY time I didn't feel this way was when I had my son! Its really been bothering me!!!
PrettyWoman1208 2 years ago
I'm with ya girl!!!! I was raised an only child so I know I have spoiled tendencies..LOL My mother tells me to go to church too..WOW!!! Sad thing is I always felt like this... Thanks so much for watching and commenting.
Lauriette31 2 years ago
I feel you. My sis said the same thing on facebook. We need to strive to be content with the blessings that we have before us. Thanks so much for watching and commenting.
Lauriette31 2 years ago
Well my sis you said it all right here. I am the same way though so I know exactly how you feel. Although going through some things have allowed me to be humble i still lack the patience that I should have and i'm always reaching for things that are not yet in my grasp. We are also always so focused on the downside of what's going on in our lives not realizing that those too are blessings in disguise. But you know i will continue to keep you lifted in prayer. Much love and blessings
AmourInfinity 2 years ago
Thanks Amoure. You already know I'm a glass half empty kind of girl. I'm trying to change that. Love you sis!
Lauriette31 2 years ago
I'm neither a pessimist or an optimist BE so the glass isn't half empty or half full to me. Sometimes it's just a glass with plain ol water and often i want some kool-aid or some wine in my glass. That's why i say im never satisfied. Because i'm tired of the same ol water lol.
AmourInfinity 2 years ago
Thats human nature I think. You're not alone, many of us are the same way..... I've been and probably am guilty of that right now. On the other hand..... U may be spoiled, lol--- just keep on living cause in about 30 minutes you're gonna want something else....just wait and see, lol. You look very pretty.
tobemeis2bfree 2 years ago
I'm glad I'm not alone in this. I'm constantly chasing something that's not in the cards for me right now. And yep, I'm a little spoiled so that doesn't help. I'm just looking for that feeling when you are just content with life. I hope I get there soon. And thank you. I got this make up look idea from makeupsqure. I love it!
Lauriette31 2 years ago