Girls like having there space and when you text her. she prob, gets annoyed if you text over and over girls want to know you trust them so dont text her as much give her space but let her know you still care
Not all people like texting. But, if she normally texts you back, and doesnt every now and again, its usually because 1 there's nothing she can really say to the text because its just not a conversation starter and 2 she's busy. I know when I'm watching tv, or reading, or cleaning, or cooking or anything that requires two hands, I may read the text, but I won't text back, because I'm busy having a life.
Not all girls txt back right away. I know its kinda lame, but just give her a sec. and if your feeling obsessive, just call and leave a msg if all else fails. Just try not to send more than 7 txts, it may get annoying to her. :)
Don't get mad if she can't reply right away. If you are feeling to obsessive, then cool it with the texts, but instead call her and talk about meeting up later, studying later, or just how her day was. But stop the back and forth texts, cuz that could be annoying her.
Don't harass her, or become more obsessive. Tell her how not having ur mssgs answered makes you feel. If she is not willing to put in the effort to talk to you, then she might not really like you. Let her know that answering your mssgs is a way of her showing you that she cares about you.
If she isn't standing by the phone to answer you. You should get near her house or wherever she is. Ask her what she is doing or where she is. If she is LYING- then you have a Good reason NOT to trust her. Test her at least 3 times then confront her with the truth after.She shoudlnt be made cause you tested her. In fact she should be happy you care enough to do so. Unless shes doing something wrong?!
I know you love your G.F. but you can't live with a cell phone permanently attached to you. Maybe she's taking a shower or busy doing something, like preparing dinner and has greasy hands or maybe she's sleeping or in a theatre or at work and can't txt at that time. Relax and have a great day...She'll get right back with you...
You should be worried, because you should always be looking to improve your relationship. There's nothing wrong with getting upset about not being texted back by your girlfriend--however, forcing HER to deal with YOUR feelings of that is wrong. Your emotions about the situation are something that you have a responsibility to explore and deal with, not her. She will text you back--But would you like it if you were busy with something and someone got angry at you for taking too long to text them?
as a girl myself i have had an obsessed boyfriend and thats what he did moaned when i missed a call or if i dnt wanna talk same with texts and i craved space so much i broke up with him, Give her some space and dont freak if she doesn't text back be strong things will work out :)
Give her some time. Girls will just ignore you when you text them every other minute if they don't text you back. If she doesn't want to text, just leave her alone. Just try texting her later.
Give her some space thats what freaked me out about my ex and made me leave him it was too much to handle and put to much pressure on me to text him to the point that i just didnt want to do it anymore.
if someone is pressuring you too talk to them or pressuring you to sext them and u don't want to make them hate you how do u tell them politely to stop without them feeling bad.
People have lives outside of romance. Working lives, that involve school and families and trying to survive. Give her a break... Unless shes a lazy bum and does nothing, then you are being too obsessive. Cell phones aren't glue to our hands, it just seems that way sometimes.
You are right that when you text someone, you would expect them to reply to you. But, ypu never happen to know what they could be doing that might get in the way of that! If she is not texting you back, it could mean that she is doing something important, or she forgets her phone, whatever the case, talk it out. And you're not obsessed, it is a classical case of worried BF.
you are completly right that when you text someone, you expect a response.However, you never know what the situation may be as to the reason she is not texting you back.it could be something serious or something going or, or she may just be busy. Communication is the key part in a relationship so before you assume anything, maybe you should talk to her about it and ask, why she doesnt respond.
agreed^ my brothers gf is constantly texting & calling him through out the day. it drives him insane sometimes it drives me insane. yes you are controlling. give her & yourself some space or you'll end up pushing her away & she'll be history
Thats more being controlling than anything. Think of it as if it were one of your guy friends, you probably wouldn't trip if they didn't answer your texts occasionally, so why should you treat it any differently with your girl. Shes still a person and people don't like to be asked questions sometimes or just don't feel like talking.
Girls like having there space and when you text her. she prob, gets annoyed if you text over and over girls want to know you trust them so dont text her as much give her space but let her know you still care
DestinyMoMariah 2 months ago
Not all people like texting. But, if she normally texts you back, and doesnt every now and again, its usually because 1 there's nothing she can really say to the text because its just not a conversation starter and 2 she's busy. I know when I'm watching tv, or reading, or cleaning, or cooking or anything that requires two hands, I may read the text, but I won't text back, because I'm busy having a life.
eb91893 2 months ago
Not all girls txt back right away. I know its kinda lame, but just give her a sec. and if your feeling obsessive, just call and leave a msg if all else fails. Just try not to send more than 7 txts, it may get annoying to her. :)
NinjaSoxXo 3 months ago
Don't get mad if she can't reply right away. If you are feeling to obsessive, then cool it with the texts, but instead call her and talk about meeting up later, studying later, or just how her day was. But stop the back and forth texts, cuz that could be annoying her.
ushiel16 3 months ago
Don't harass her, or become more obsessive. Tell her how not having ur mssgs answered makes you feel. If she is not willing to put in the effort to talk to you, then she might not really like you. Let her know that answering your mssgs is a way of her showing you that she cares about you.
ushiel16 3 months ago
If she isn't standing by the phone to answer you. You should get near her house or wherever she is. Ask her what she is doing or where she is. If she is LYING- then you have a Good reason NOT to trust her. Test her at least 3 times then confront her with the truth after.She shoudlnt be made cause you tested her. In fact she should be happy you care enough to do so. Unless shes doing something wrong?!
UZI9MMAUTO 4 months ago
I know you love your G.F. but you can't live with a cell phone permanently attached to you. Maybe she's taking a shower or busy doing something, like preparing dinner and has greasy hands or maybe she's sleeping or in a theatre or at work and can't txt at that time. Relax and have a great day...She'll get right back with you...
TheKarenality 5 months ago
You should be worried, because you should always be looking to improve your relationship. There's nothing wrong with getting upset about not being texted back by your girlfriend--however, forcing HER to deal with YOUR feelings of that is wrong. Your emotions about the situation are something that you have a responsibility to explore and deal with, not her. She will text you back--But would you like it if you were busy with something and someone got angry at you for taking too long to text them?
SakorroNatasha 6 months ago
as a girl myself i have had an obsessed boyfriend and thats what he did moaned when i missed a call or if i dnt wanna talk same with texts and i craved space so much i broke up with him, Give her some space and dont freak if she doesn't text back be strong things will work out :)
ALISHAthevampie 6 months ago
Give her some time. Girls will just ignore you when you text them every other minute if they don't text you back. If she doesn't want to text, just leave her alone. Just try texting her later.
Hehireece 6 months ago
Give her some space thats what freaked me out about my ex and made me leave him it was too much to handle and put to much pressure on me to text him to the point that i just didnt want to do it anymore.
aziab95 6 months ago
if someone is pressuring you too talk to them or pressuring you to sext them and u don't want to make them hate you how do u tell them politely to stop without them feeling bad.
BBPDCLover 7 months ago
People have lives outside of romance. Working lives, that involve school and families and trying to survive. Give her a break... Unless shes a lazy bum and does nothing, then you are being too obsessive. Cell phones aren't glue to our hands, it just seems that way sometimes.
marevid 7 months ago
You are right that when you text someone, you would expect them to reply to you. But, ypu never happen to know what they could be doing that might get in the way of that! If she is not texting you back, it could mean that she is doing something important, or she forgets her phone, whatever the case, talk it out. And you're not obsessed, it is a classical case of worried BF.
AngelPearProduction 8 months ago
you are completly right that when you text someone, you expect a response.However, you never know what the situation may be as to the reason she is not texting you back.it could be something serious or something going or, or she may just be busy. Communication is the key part in a relationship so before you assume anything, maybe you should talk to her about it and ask, why she doesnt respond.
nichellelatasha 8 months ago
agreed^ my brothers gf is constantly texting & calling him through out the day. it drives him insane sometimes it drives me insane. yes you are controlling. give her & yourself some space or you'll end up pushing her away & she'll be history
angeldust550 8 months ago
Thats more being controlling than anything. Think of it as if it were one of your guy friends, you probably wouldn't trip if they didn't answer your texts occasionally, so why should you treat it any differently with your girl. Shes still a person and people don't like to be asked questions sometimes or just don't feel like talking.
amismiles2 9 months ago
im sure your girlfriend hates it because i hate it to my boyfriend does it to me and ive broke up with him a couplee times because of it.
MsSrh420 9 months ago