So sad and so beautiful. I can see that you have brought peace and tranquillity to those that have experienced a similar discomfort. Good to see that you have triumphed through. over and beyond a harrowing time in your life.
You have the voice of an Angel, the song is beautiful. Let the Holy Spirit continue to bathe you with its peace and comfort in trying times. God Bless you for the song, and the spirit in which you have set out to right many of the wrongs in thus world that has so often not been just to so many.
Through the darkness of tribulations you have been raised to the heights of great power in your voice. Gosh, so many emotions running through my mind, sorrowful, brilliant and beautiful. Glad to see that you have overcome the greatest hurdle in life imaginable and with that you now have the wisdom and strength to act in defence of future victims. Brilliant work.
Is it possible to get a copy of the lyrics somewhere? I told my story public for the 1st time yesterday and this would have been a good leadin to the discussion.
@BOOGEEBUZ You sure can! I can send you the lyrics to an email address or I also have them on a instrumental version video. I'll copy and paste that to your channel! I'm so glad that you were able to share your story. I know how hard it was for you but you are now stronger because of it! :)
Sometimes God chooses special Angels, and gives them the gift of singing. Your are one of those Guardian Angels for all the children, who can't speak up.
Be a voice for all those who can not speak up. Many parents don't care that their child was abused because they are most likely the ones doing it!!!! Stand up and do what is right!!! Be a voice for the unheard, be a voice for those who have passed, be a voice for youself and the ones you love!!!! Speaking up can save a life or many.....Be a voice like me. I saved my cousins by speaking for what happened to me! Just by speaking up you can prevent it from happening again to someone else.
@AdamCourtneyOfficial Thank U Adam. My song came from alot of pain, but I believe music is healing...and I hope that my song does that for others they way that you music does so beautifully. I will listen to your channel daily. Thank U for finding me. :)
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR COMMENT and Yep, I would love to audition for it with my song as well. I want everyone to know what being a "silent child" of abuse is all about. We had to be silent our entire lives and now that I actually have a voice, I want to use it to shout this message to the whole world!!!! I'm so sorry for what you had to endure and I understand how hard it is to forgive the ones who didnt protect us. :(
BE A VOICE..FOR THE SILENT AND FORGOTTEN ONES OF SEXUAL ABUSE!
This is the X factor. Would love you to audition for it with this song. I, too, among hundreds of thousands of others, was neglected, sexually molested by my mother's boyfriends, and was too ashamed to talk about it when I was a child. The rage inside of me built and built and I let it all out when I was an adult to my mother. Never got any "I'm sorry...I didn't know..just a "oh that's a crock of shit." I've tried to forgive her many times for not protecting me, but it's really hard.
@hollystallings --- holly depending on your view of forgiveness, for some it is easier and more emotionally healthy, not to use the word forgive, but to acknowledge your does not have the capacity to have protected her own children. Maybe she put her own comfort and life first, maybe sexual abuse was to be accepted -- but for whatever her reason, there was something in her where she would let her children suffer. We don't chose our parents and at times it is necessary to see them as people
hi this is dicusting how someone can do this to a child people try to do everything to protect children from people like that i hope they keep on doing it and can someone do me a favor and write how to make a video like this one so i can try to make one about abuse to to try to make even more aware
I dont understand how this song hasnt been globalised yet... its an amazing song with a powerful message and i know every decent human being would back it.. i congratulate the person who wrote it and sings it... for many people stuck in the situation where they feel alone and scared as we all have done this is a song that could free many children scared into silence...... i see great benefits from this song none monetary but more aiding and strengthening for the child.
@shez09uk You do not know how much it means to read this from you. MY song came as a result of years of me being silent and I truly do hope that it helps others like me. It was so very hard for me to record it, but I know that good will come from it and thats all that matters to me. I wish I had heard it when I was little. Please, do everything that you can do to share my song, and BE A VOICE...FOR THE SILENT AND FORGOTTEN ONES OF SEXUAL ABUSE....like me.
@newvision4him I can't believe that I have never heard this! It is awesome!!! You sing it so beautifully... I will never be silenced again or made to feel shame for the pain & terror I lived through at the hands of my own father for so many years! So sad that there are so many of us now... But our numbers are now so many that we can make a difference! Thank you so much for this song! I try to help other survivors every day. This song will touch many lives. I will continue to share. Hugs
my dad abused me sexaully and physically...and even though i went to rehab i still wanna be back with him...im used to that shit...and even though i cant i turn to other guys that hurt meh :[ most people dont understand what im talking about but idknow its hard to explain...and also social serveses is SHIT!! they dident belive me for sooo long and kept sending me back to my dads house till i almost died with him....so i think they needa step up there game...andd im only 13
Traumatic Bonding: Traumatic bonding occurs in abused children, battered women, prisoners of war and other situations in which people find themselves in a state of captivity. An abuser may also be the source of intermittent rewards and comfort – and torturers recognize this as a powerful means of asserting control. The abused feel love, gratitude, empathy and loyalty towards the abuser (Herman, 1992 p. 72).
@xxbabehxkatiexx If hostages who had no prior favourable bond with their captors, bond traumatically, how much easier is it for a child to do so with a parent, who is seen as the source of their very lives? An unhealed survivor carries this into adulthood too. See pandys.org. continuing relationships with abusive family.
I am a survivor of child molestation and verbal/mental abuse that went on for years. I used to think I was the only one. Now I realize by reading body language in others, that most people have been through it too. What I really want is for people to STOP DENYING and OPEN UP about what they have been through!!!! That is all I am asking!!!! For others not to be afraid to talk about their abuses and to support me when I talk about mine!!!!!
my mother was sexually abused by my grandfather,it took many years for her to be okay. she had an emotional breakdown when i was 7 and for years she was never the same.on her 40th birthday he sent her a camera and lingere and told her to take pic of herself and send them to him he was a sick sick man.i feel the day he died is the day she was finally released from her hell.there is always hope.no one has to suffer alone.if anyone needs an ear im here.jesus is always watching over his children.
I made a video wich discusses sexual child abuse in japan . In the more info part I have my research paper attached as well. If you guys are interested in learning more about this topic please visit the youtube link and watch the video or and read the paper.
Please look up Sexual child abuse in japan . It is the first video in the search in youtube
songs like this is what helps people when these happens to them even after many years has past for the girls and the boys its something i dont like talking about but its been almost 9 years since my cousin malested me and everyday i deal wih it and now i found out that my friend the one that i love got raped this summer and the man got away just makes me wana go and catch the guy and rip him ..... off and shuve it up his ... but all i can do is confront her y is our world these cruel
speak out against abuse... dont turn the other way. sexual abuse is permanently damaging, it hurts, it gives u self hate. i am a sexual abuse survior and i thinks this horrible crime needs to be stopped! so to all u fucked up pervs who abuse children, STOP! ITS SOOO WRONG!!!
I was 12, I'm starting to try and get help now, 4 years later, my abusers soon due in court and I have a lot of voices speaking for me, but good to all being voices for other children, I love this song btw, really very very nice!! Xx
I was molested as a child 30+ years ago. Thanks to friend, I just recently started to face and deal with this issue. Thankfully, I don't have to see my abuser's face ever again. Thank you for this song, it really makes a person stop and think. God put our children in our hands to love and protect. This type of behavior gets swept under the rug and forgotten about. NO MORE!!!! Speak up, do it for the children, There is more harm in keeping quite than there is in speaking up!!
I am a 20 year old man dealing with the effects from when I was sexually abused by a friend of the family back when I was in elementary school. How I wish I had a voice! :.(
I was 12 when my stepfather started raping me and it lasted for 3 years until i couldnt take it anymore and when i finally told they believed me for a while but then i was the liar and the evil one and the sick one he never paid for what he did to me but me im still paying if i could ever see all them again id kill the mother fuckers
My family was affected my this terrible crime, although we are healing, and he is in prison the memories will remain. Love the song, I wish more people would believe children, it is more common than people think.
This song made me cry so much. I wish someone had been able to speak for me. I wish I had been able to speak for myself. I don't know how to be a voice though.
The system is ironic, I spent 12 years living with my abusive father, yet when my mother gained custody of us finally, DHS took us, claiming she was incapable of raising us and my mother was NEVER abusive.....I dont understand how the system is THAT corrupt but it is and each kid I meant in foster care had a worse story to tell than the last.....You have a wonderful voice! And this was a great song! One that needs to be sung more to the world! :)
Thank u so much 4 not only writing this song, but making it available for all of us to hear. Is there a way that i could download it?? I would really like 2 b able 2 play it more often, when the internet is not necessarily available.
I hav also been affected by the subject raised in this video, and trying to live through the consequences of what 1 man decided to do to me for so many yrs. But slowly i am getting stronger, it is possible, Be a voice to others, i am here if any 1 needs to talk.
@jesusloveshecg Thank You so much and I'm so very sorry that we share this common bond. I will gladly send you the mp3 to your email address if give it to me. And you are right. To all those reading this, we cannot change what happend to us, but we can BE A VOICE and possibly help others. It was when my sisters and I prosecuted our father that I wrote this song, and I will sing it and share it until the day I die. :)
I have to see those who sexual abused me when I was young everyday, and it's so hard to face them. They look at me and smile that tares me apart inside knowing that they did that to me ( little girl ) and never suffered one minute for what they've done. It doesn't get easy as you get older but the older you are the more ways you can deal with the pain.
i urge anyone to come forward who has been abused i know its hard but its harder to keep it all inside. i know how you feel i was abused from the age of 6 till 11 and im 14 now and i have only just come forward, now the weight is of my shoulders, now im trying to recover, your friends will be there for you, and helpp you through it but you got to let them. just like you have to let someone else know what some one is doing, otherewise it'll tear you up! trust me! :)
i can remember when i told my best friend i remember it so well, it was horrible, i pulled her aside and i burst into tears, at this point i didnt want to tell her but i had to, when i did she screamed and cried, it was at school when i told her and everyone looked at us and saw us both crying, it happened from the age of 6 till about 11 or 12 im 14 now, and only just come forward, i urge anyone who is sitting here reading this if you have been abused in any way to come forward!!
I was sexually abused by one of my so-called "best friends". Apparently he didn't take me seriously when I said that I wanted to remain a virgin for Jesus. Thus, he sexually assaulted me. Unfortunately, my little sister of 8 years was there to view almost everything. I remember perfectly..I had to hold myself together...I didn't cry, kick, scream, or struggle...because then my sister would have been traumatized. However,
i went to court last month and it failed he got away i feel like i am a failure there is not enough justice i am only 14 its not fair especially the guy has two children =(
@kirstyana how did you get through it like how long did it take you to think it wasnt your fault i feel like i cant get out of it and i am sorry to hear that your case got lost too people like that dont deserve a second chance
I live in hope. It is taking over a big part of my life.
It is a daily battle but I can not imagine going through the rest of my life like this. I am determined to get responses from people who have not only experienced these terrible experiences but who have also found ways to cope and even recover.
I really want these people to share their experiences.
I have just started a blog and hope that it could achieve this objective.
i was abused as a child, its not okay, i was sexually and physically, i have nightmares that still haunt me till this day. im afraid of almost everything and everybody. its not okay!
The sucidle thoughts were recently same with the ED but im getting better and im going to my old highschool next year and i am going to talk to classes just to let them know that they arnt the only ones and that i understand and im going to try to help...Thanks for the video...
I geuss my story isnt as bruttle as half of these but ill share anyway...i was sexually abused since i think 3 or 4 grade by my older brother who was 7 grade...um the hardest thing was that i told my parents my freshmen year...they conferemed that we were just exploring...he made me put my hand on what he told me was the holy bible and swear to god that i would never tell anyone or id go to hell...everywhere i turned for help i got questioned and judged...i had thoughts of suicied and an ED...
i have been abused since i was 7 my dad came home and hit my mum and i was standing in the doorway staring i couldnt say a thing i was to shocked and he noticed me and started hitting me i am 11 now and my mum died when i was 9 because of my dad
it doesent hurt anymore i have gotten used to it it was my birthday yesterday i am now 12 i will be out of this house in 6 years i cant wait i am counting the days although it might take me a while but ther is only 2190 days to go i think but its okay i might go to the police but i might not it is up to me maybe i will maybe i wont only time will tell
you are special mbmbmbtortoise and never ever let any body tell you any different. i know it is a daily battle with these feelings but pray. it helps beleive me. just hang in there i know it is hard
i dont wan to pray there is no use, i dont care if no one comes anymore, it doesnt matter, i'm not special i am just like anyone else in this world, i may be hurt i may be scared but i have to keep on living my life...because life goes on
i was raped and molested by my biological brother. and by my grandpa and my biological moms boyfriends. i suffered for many years. im 18 now. and engaged. im doin alot better seeing as a few years ago i tried killing myself and was cutting alot. i still have really bad flashbacks and nightmares but not as often. abuse has to stop!!!!!!
I was sexually assaulted when 11 yrs old by a guy who should've been in high school.He assaulted me for 2 weeks before I told our bus driver that he was bothering me and i wanted to move. I was too scared to let anyone know.I was scared to even tell my dad. I had depression sometimes so I chose to go to counseling this summer and am still dealing with it 6 yrs after the fact. So I am a supporter of the end of child/sexual/domestic abuse.
Thankfully, I don't have to see my abuser. However, I never said anything, and I hate that he may never be caught because I said nothing. I always wonder how many victims he had after me.
I'm so glad that you dont have to see him. But you are right though, my father had many victims after he was finished with us. I felt guilt for many years not only for my younger sister, but for all the ones that came after me.That all stopped though when he went to prison.
You can't blame yourself though about not being able to say anything. If and when you are able to tell someone, I know you will. I set that silent little girl inside of me free when my sisters and I told. Thank U so much for commenting. :)
I'm so sorry sweetie. My sisters and I didnt prosecute our father until we were adults and as hard as the whole process was...I feel like he finally had to answer for what he did to use growing up. And I"m sure he never thought he would have to. I hope one day that you will be able to have that same closure and be vendicate4d for what that pig did to you.
I truly believe that if EVERYTHING in my life, good, bad or indifferent wouldn't have happened exactly the way that it did then I wouldn't be who I am and "Who I Am Makes A Difference today!!!"
beautiful song i think the words are so compelling Iwant to aim to speak up to encourage children to not be afraid to speak up to not feel ashamed i know how the abuse stays as you get older i am a sexual abuse survivor it' been so hard to overcome i dont think i will ever be completly the same but GOD gives me strength each and every day
Thank U so much for the comment. And you are right. What we went through will never completely leave us but it does make us stronger and hopefully able to help others and more importantly, prevent it from happening to others. BE A VOICE..FOR THE SILENT AND FORGOTTEN ONES OF SEXUAL ABUSE!!! :)
My BESTFRIENDS step dad rape and sexually abused us. She trieed to face him in court, and ended up killlin herself when she was just 13, im now 16 and i still havent faced him in court yet. Hes a free man rigth now! This happend to us when we were 9, we must all come together and stop child abuse. We hvae to catch sick people who like to take lil girls innosence!
=**( it hurt soo bad to read this my best friend n gf was sexually abused and it took us soo long to get better i just wanted to stop and remind you that even though he may not be convicted he's gonna have to face god n believe me god has plans for all of us and as for your 13 year old friend maybe god needed another angel in heaven stay strong and dont you EVER think that your alone your NEVER alone may god bless you and everyone who's ever had to endure such a horrible thing god bless <3 <3 =)
I'm so very sorry that you had to go through that. We prosecuted our father for what he did to us growing up, and he died in prison, but it still didn't take away what he did to us. You stay strong ok? And remember that what happened to you does NOT make you who you are. It only makes you stronger, and more determined to fight against it. GOD BLESS YOU TOO! :)
I truly believe that if EVERYTHING in my life, good, bad or indifferent didn't happened exactly the way that it did then I wouldn't be who I am today and "Who I Am Makes A Difference!!!" May God Bless you and your families...
My story is being made into a motion picture. We are also starting a national Abuse Recovery Center in Wichita Kansas and hopefully at some point in Johnson City Tennessee, you can contact me Mike Furches for more information, contact is available across the nation and information about the recovery center which provides services free of charge through Mosaic ARC which starts in October of 2009
for many years i was sexually and physically abused by my father. now i get to face him in court on the 7th of july. i get to tell my story. and watch him suffer how i did. not the same way but in a way. and this video is true.
OH I'm so glad you will get the opportunity to face him and put him where he belongs!!! My sisters and I did the same thing with our father, but because we let him plea bargain he didnt get as much time as he should have. The anger I felt when we was to be released from prision is what led me to write Be A Voice. Don't let him plea bargain k? STAND STRONG AND REGAIN THE CONTROL BACK THAT HE HAS STOLEN FROM YOU ALL THOSE YEARS!!!! YOU ARE GOING TO FEEL SO MUCH BETTER AFTERWARD I PROMISE YOU!
I was sexually abused and the cops wouldnt beleive me and they closed the case saying there was insufficient evidence SEXUAL ABUSE LEAVES SCARS AND SOME ARE ON THE INSIDE.
Break the Silence. At age 14, I was abducted, beaten and sexually assaulted by a previously convicted pedophile. He never went to trial because he was brutally beaten to death in the streets of Providence, RI in 1975. No one has been charged with his murder. For 34 years, less than a dozen people knew my story. Now the story of my abduction, beating and sexual assault followed by the unsolved brutal murder of my assailant is a novel. Men in My Town by Keith Smith available now at Amazon
This is worthy cause but I can't help but think, how many cases go unreported? It's a crying shame (yea, understatement) but so many child abuse cases go unreported that we can't do much with the precious few that get reported
i agree all thoughs little kids that been abused need a chance to hold on to there life and they didn't do any thing to deserve this they need help and god will take there hand and heal them....
YOU NEED HELP No one deserves to be abused in any shape or form you need to grow up and take a stand against it and be a real human being for once. I will pray for your soul. Or else you say what you did because you yourself are an abuser feeling shame either way I pray for you
Omg Matt ..... how would you feel if someone you trusted deeply was touching you and raping you ...omfg its people like you who should experiance that.... iv never been sexually abbused but i feel deeply for those who have ...it just isnt right at all ....tbh all the pervs in the world should die x
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fuck that...fucking kids is the best thing that ever happened to me!Where would i be if i didnt molest little boys>??whats wrong with people putting this shit on youtube??
Hey Matt. No one gives a fuck about ur opinion. Shut de fuck up and get on with ur life. No one wants ur pitty u stupid fuck. No one asked 4 it. So think before u talk fag.
if i had the law in my hand i would give the pelanty of turcher( or however it spells) till death to those sick basterds... poor kids =*( i so want to find one of these fuckers under my hands just to show the hole world how fucken filthy they r ........
SO FUCKEN WHAT? we need to show them that these filthy basterds wont get away with it.these kids desirve justic and we r the ones that r spose to give it back to them. ur saying laws wont do anything if they get tougher it will atleast keep those freaks out of our lives.
abuse stays with us for a life time. it doesn't go away. its painful to deal with. its a traumatic experience of course i remember it like it was yesterday.
I remember 9/11 and VA tech shooting like it was yesterday. there are just some things in life you just don't forget, period. no matter how hard you try.
your a fucking ass hole! i hope you burn in hell! and your the one who's the bitch, douche bag!
I can remember it like it was yesterday! It was heartless and cruel! Im 30 and I still havent healed completly! I was only 7 and my ant did not beleive me!! Apart of me still hates her!
STRMXR u are a sick twised bastard you Dont Know How This Scars A Person i Do And now i cant trust any one i cant go to sleep at night without fear in my heart or laugh without a lump in my throat....So thanks Alot.....The rest of You Hey its okay u will get Throo it....x
I would just like to say to that I feel for all those that have left comments here (even
strmxr who obviously has some serious issues too!).
I was abused by a local clergyman. He died years later without anyone ever knowing what he had done. I still suffer from depression.
I describe it as like being in a dark tunnel, you can see the whole of life happening at the end of the tunnel, but you cant reach it and are never quite part of it.
My song, running for the light describes this feeling.
this video was recommended by my counselor i am going thro post traumatic depression and anxiety cause of my abuse i had endured from a very early age by my mothers father i turned him finally when i was 12 but they didn't do anything to him i got sent away cause my family did not want me i am filled with alll this pain disgust guilt and most of all i feel like i paid for his crime he did to me i have had alot of trouble never had a childhood or teenage life cause one person took it all from me
i was abused when i was younger. i dont live at home anymore. i can still feel the pain when i see my mom. my step dad did it to me and my mom didnt believe me!
this is so sad, cause i went through it a few years ago. my step father couldnt keep his hands off of me and my mom didnt believe me:( i ran away. i dont live at home amymore.
that is so stupid that you would say that gay people molest little kids? Maybe some people that are gay do... but it doesn't mean that they are the people that do that kind of sick shit!!! it is people that are sick in the mind and heart. maybe you just don't understand it.
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lolol u fucks make me laugh, "victims"...lol o brother, do something useful and stop leaving ur kids alone at parks or wherever the fuck it is they get molested.
If you somehow got this on iTunes I would buy it! :)
ILoveCarolBurnett 1 week ago
@ILoveCarolBurnett That is so nice of you to say. If you give me an email address, I will gladly send you an mp3 of it! :)
newvision4him 1 week ago
So sad and so beautiful. I can see that you have brought peace and tranquillity to those that have experienced a similar discomfort. Good to see that you have triumphed through. over and beyond a harrowing time in your life.
UnionofHumanity 2 months ago
You have the voice of an Angel, the song is beautiful. Let the Holy Spirit continue to bathe you with its peace and comfort in trying times. God Bless you for the song, and the spirit in which you have set out to right many of the wrongs in thus world that has so often not been just to so many.
unionof666666 2 months ago
Through the darkness of tribulations you have been raised to the heights of great power in your voice. Gosh, so many emotions running through my mind, sorrowful, brilliant and beautiful. Glad to see that you have overcome the greatest hurdle in life imaginable and with that you now have the wisdom and strength to act in defence of future victims. Brilliant work.
JusticeinUnity 2 months ago
One word..........BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!
kcleadsister5083 2 months ago
Is it possible to get a copy of the lyrics somewhere? I told my story public for the 1st time yesterday and this would have been a good leadin to the discussion.
BOOGEEBUZ 2 months ago 2
@BOOGEEBUZ You sure can! I can send you the lyrics to an email address or I also have them on a instrumental version video. I'll copy and paste that to your channel! I'm so glad that you were able to share your story. I know how hard it was for you but you are now stronger because of it! :)
newvision4him 2 months ago
What if a child tells a person from harmony house, but that person doesn't listen to the child?
tazluvpizza 2 months ago
FANTASTIC! And you have a beautiful voice, this must go viral xx
realzoomy 3 months ago
Sometimes God chooses special Angels, and gives them the gift of singing. Your are one of those Guardian Angels for all the children, who can't speak up.
God bless you,
Heidi McGahan and Mike Spencer ( TUKAPA )
TUKAPA 4 months ago
I am a voice for my baby cousin
bieberfever54120 4 months ago
I'm a voice for a young boy named John
LOVE97471 6 months ago
Be a voice for all those who can not speak up. Many parents don't care that their child was abused because they are most likely the ones doing it!!!! Stand up and do what is right!!! Be a voice for the unheard, be a voice for those who have passed, be a voice for youself and the ones you love!!!! Speaking up can save a life or many.....Be a voice like me. I saved my cousins by speaking for what happened to me! Just by speaking up you can prevent it from happening again to someone else.
LightPureLove 6 months ago
"Physical abuse leaves visible scars...
Sexual abuse leaves permanent scars."
Painfully true...and the permanent scars are on the inside where most never see.
BlueroseCandlelight 7 months ago 2
Thank you so much for writing this song and putting it together. May it reach many more people and make a real difference.
GHWP 8 months ago
amazing, very nice
jamescartachannel 8 months ago
Absolutely Brilliant ! love it :)
AdamCourtneyOfficial 10 months ago 2
@AdamCourtneyOfficial Thank U Adam. My song came from alot of pain, but I believe music is healing...and I hope that my song does that for others they way that you music does so beautifully. I will listen to your channel daily. Thank U for finding me. :)
newvision4him 10 months ago
God Bless You!! I love this song.
You have a beautifful testimony and story to share to help bring awareness and Stop Child Sexual Abuse!!
EvangelistOsborne 10 months ago
@EvangelistOsborne Thank U so much! :) It is my prayer.
newvision4him 10 months ago
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR COMMENT and Yep, I would love to audition for it with my song as well. I want everyone to know what being a "silent child" of abuse is all about. We had to be silent our entire lives and now that I actually have a voice, I want to use it to shout this message to the whole world!!!! I'm so sorry for what you had to endure and I understand how hard it is to forgive the ones who didnt protect us. :(
BE A VOICE..FOR THE SILENT AND FORGOTTEN ONES OF SEXUAL ABUSE!
newvision4him 10 months ago
This is the X factor. Would love you to audition for it with this song. I, too, among hundreds of thousands of others, was neglected, sexually molested by my mother's boyfriends, and was too ashamed to talk about it when I was a child. The rage inside of me built and built and I let it all out when I was an adult to my mother. Never got any "I'm sorry...I didn't know..just a "oh that's a crock of shit." I've tried to forgive her many times for not protecting me, but it's really hard.
hollystallings 10 months ago
@hollystallings --- holly depending on your view of forgiveness, for some it is easier and more emotionally healthy, not to use the word forgive, but to acknowledge your does not have the capacity to have protected her own children. Maybe she put her own comfort and life first, maybe sexual abuse was to be accepted -- but for whatever her reason, there was something in her where she would let her children suffer. We don't chose our parents and at times it is necessary to see them as people
RichardTheEdwin 7 months ago
beautiful song and message..i have responded to your private message :D
MRSKG2009 11 months ago
hi this is dicusting how someone can do this to a child people try to do everything to protect children from people like that i hope they keep on doing it and can someone do me a favor and write how to make a video like this one so i can try to make one about abuse to to try to make even more aware
sassy09sasha06 1 year ago
That's beautiful.
admike01 1 year ago
This song is just fantastic. I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
edshear72 1 year ago
It's a beautiful song! Truly touching and I really loved your voice.
AnaShadowWolf 1 year ago
I dont understand how this song hasnt been globalised yet... its an amazing song with a powerful message and i know every decent human being would back it.. i congratulate the person who wrote it and sings it... for many people stuck in the situation where they feel alone and scared as we all have done this is a song that could free many children scared into silence...... i see great benefits from this song none monetary but more aiding and strengthening for the child.
shez09uk 1 year ago 5
@shez09uk You do not know how much it means to read this from you. MY song came as a result of years of me being silent and I truly do hope that it helps others like me. It was so very hard for me to record it, but I know that good will come from it and thats all that matters to me. I wish I had heard it when I was little. Please, do everything that you can do to share my song, and BE A VOICE...FOR THE SILENT AND FORGOTTEN ONES OF SEXUAL ABUSE....like me.
newvision4him 1 year ago 3
@newvision4him I can't believe that I have never heard this! It is awesome!!! You sing it so beautifully... I will never be silenced again or made to feel shame for the pain & terror I lived through at the hands of my own father for so many years! So sad that there are so many of us now... But our numbers are now so many that we can make a difference! Thank you so much for this song! I try to help other survivors every day. This song will touch many lives. I will continue to share. Hugs
gabrown1986 1 year ago
@maktorri9 I am here to support u
TheLordKnox 1 year ago
my dad abused me sexaully and physically...and even though i went to rehab i still wanna be back with him...im used to that shit...and even though i cant i turn to other guys that hurt meh :[ most people dont understand what im talking about but idknow its hard to explain...and also social serveses is SHIT!! they dident belive me for sooo long and kept sending me back to my dads house till i almost died with him....so i think they needa step up there game...andd im only 13
xxbabehxkatiexx 1 year ago
@xxbabehxkatiexx
Traumatic Bonding: Traumatic bonding occurs in abused children, battered women, prisoners of war and other situations in which people find themselves in a state of captivity. An abuser may also be the source of intermittent rewards and comfort – and torturers recognize this as a powerful means of asserting control. The abused feel love, gratitude, empathy and loyalty towards the abuser (Herman, 1992 p. 72).
RichardTheEdwin 1 year ago
@xxbabehxkatiexx If hostages who had no prior favourable bond with their captors, bond traumatically, how much easier is it for a child to do so with a parent, who is seen as the source of their very lives? An unhealed survivor carries this into adulthood too. See pandys.org. continuing relationships with abusive family.
RichardTheEdwin 1 year ago
@xxbabehxkatiexx Davis, L. Allies in Healing: When the Person you love was sexually abused as a child, HarperCollins, New York, 1991
Forward, S. Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life, Bantam, New York, 2002
Herman, J. Trauma And Recovery: From Domestic Abuse To Political Terror, Basic Books, USA, 1990
Martinez-Lewi, L. Freeing Yourself from the Narcissist in Your Life, Tarcher/Penguin, New York, 2008
RichardTheEdwin 1 year ago
@xxbabehxkatiexx
Roland, P. In The Minds of Murderers: The inside story of criminal profiling, Arcturus Publishing Limited, London, 2007
Adult Survivors Continuing Relationships with
Abusive Family
© 2010 Pandora's Project
By: Louise
I hope these resource help you. Hugs to you in healing.
RichardTheEdwin 1 year ago
I am a survivor of child molestation and verbal/mental abuse that went on for years. I used to think I was the only one. Now I realize by reading body language in others, that most people have been through it too. What I really want is for people to STOP DENYING and OPEN UP about what they have been through!!!! That is all I am asking!!!! For others not to be afraid to talk about their abuses and to support me when I talk about mine!!!!!
maktorri9 1 year ago
my mother was sexually abused by my grandfather,it took many years for her to be okay. she had an emotional breakdown when i was 7 and for years she was never the same.on her 40th birthday he sent her a camera and lingere and told her to take pic of herself and send them to him he was a sick sick man.i feel the day he died is the day she was finally released from her hell.there is always hope.no one has to suffer alone.if anyone needs an ear im here.jesus is always watching over his children.
suzannenoto1982 1 year ago
I made a video wich discusses sexual child abuse in japan . In the more info part I have my research paper attached as well. If you guys are interested in learning more about this topic please visit the youtube link and watch the video or and read the paper.
Please look up Sexual child abuse in japan . It is the first video in the search in youtube
5sagark 1 year ago
To begin to prevent child abuse we need to stop the fraud of CPS please
google: American Family Rights Association CPS is the major perpetrator of maltreatment to children...
not4playn 1 year ago
Thank you for posting this video for all to see, not all wounds heal, not all scars are seen, recovery is long in coming, but it is coming
narleypig 1 year ago
Please help to stop child abuse in all forms, wonderful song and video...
SuperMother000 1 year ago
songs like this is what helps people when these happens to them even after many years has past for the girls and the boys its something i dont like talking about but its been almost 9 years since my cousin malested me and everyday i deal wih it and now i found out that my friend the one that i love got raped this summer and the man got away just makes me wana go and catch the guy and rip him ..... off and shuve it up his ... but all i can do is confront her y is our world these cruel
applesauce730 1 year ago
speak out against abuse... dont turn the other way. sexual abuse is permanently damaging, it hurts, it gives u self hate. i am a sexual abuse survior and i thinks this horrible crime needs to be stopped! so to all u fucked up pervs who abuse children, STOP! ITS SOOO WRONG!!!
Fxckedxandxcut 1 year ago
IF WE DONT SPEAK FOR THEM WHO WILL?
Bill89ification 1 year ago
I was 12, I'm starting to try and get help now, 4 years later, my abusers soon due in court and I have a lot of voices speaking for me, but good to all being voices for other children, I love this song btw, really very very nice!! Xx
cloconandaimees2k8 1 year ago
Beautiful , caring video..
Much Love to you & all ..
imafishgod 1 year ago
I was molested as a child 30+ years ago. Thanks to friend, I just recently started to face and deal with this issue. Thankfully, I don't have to see my abuser's face ever again. Thank you for this song, it really makes a person stop and think. God put our children in our hands to love and protect. This type of behavior gets swept under the rug and forgotten about. NO MORE!!!! Speak up, do it for the children, There is more harm in keeping quite than there is in speaking up!!
devotedkacfan 1 year ago
I am a 20 year old man dealing with the effects from when I was sexually abused by a friend of the family back when I was in elementary school. How I wish I had a voice! :.(
TheLordKnox 1 year ago
hugs to all of you we will survive and heal x
lizzielipstick1 1 year ago
I was 12 when my stepfather started raping me and it lasted for 3 years until i couldnt take it anymore and when i finally told they believed me for a while but then i was the liar and the evil one and the sick one he never paid for what he did to me but me im still paying if i could ever see all them again id kill the mother fuckers
MegaBrneyes 1 year ago
I know how you all feel and I am truly sorry
Cindy1991H 1 year ago
My family was affected my this terrible crime, although we are healing, and he is in prison the memories will remain. Love the song, I wish more people would believe children, it is more common than people think.
nurseangel44 1 year ago
This song made me cry so much. I wish someone had been able to speak for me. I wish I had been able to speak for myself. I don't know how to be a voice though.
I feel powerless. It terrifies me.
kasiapixie 1 year ago
The system is ironic, I spent 12 years living with my abusive father, yet when my mother gained custody of us finally, DHS took us, claiming she was incapable of raising us and my mother was NEVER abusive.....I dont understand how the system is THAT corrupt but it is and each kid I meant in foster care had a worse story to tell than the last.....You have a wonderful voice! And this was a great song! One that needs to be sung more to the world! :)
psychicbum 1 year ago
Thanks so much for this video, im ready to make a change, to stand up for my own abuser.
We can make the diffrence for tomorows children.
Thanks so much :)
SauryGirl1 1 year ago
Thank you so much for this :-)
Its good to know some people do care and understand...
SadieTheSadist 1 year ago
what song is this??
konay72 1 year ago
@konay72 IBe A Voice is one that I wrote about sexual abuse after prosecuting my father for abusing my sisters and me growing up.
newvision4him 1 year ago 3
Thank u so much 4 not only writing this song, but making it available for all of us to hear. Is there a way that i could download it?? I would really like 2 b able 2 play it more often, when the internet is not necessarily available.
I hav also been affected by the subject raised in this video, and trying to live through the consequences of what 1 man decided to do to me for so many yrs. But slowly i am getting stronger, it is possible, Be a voice to others, i am here if any 1 needs to talk.
jesusloveshecg 1 year ago 3
@jesusloveshecg Thank You so much and I'm so very sorry that we share this common bond. I will gladly send you the mp3 to your email address if give it to me. And you are right. To all those reading this, we cannot change what happend to us, but we can BE A VOICE and possibly help others. It was when my sisters and I prosecuted our father that I wrote this song, and I will sing it and share it until the day I die. :)
newvision4him 1 year ago 2
I have to see those who sexual abused me when I was young everyday, and it's so hard to face them. They look at me and smile that tares me apart inside knowing that they did that to me ( little girl ) and never suffered one minute for what they've done. It doesn't get easy as you get older but the older you are the more ways you can deal with the pain.
Hotness10102 1 year ago
thank you for this
clairjay 1 year ago
i urge anyone to come forward who has been abused i know its hard but its harder to keep it all inside. i know how you feel i was abused from the age of 6 till 11 and im 14 now and i have only just come forward, now the weight is of my shoulders, now im trying to recover, your friends will be there for you, and helpp you through it but you got to let them. just like you have to let someone else know what some one is doing, otherewise it'll tear you up! trust me! :)
princesslotty123 1 year ago
i can remember when i told my best friend i remember it so well, it was horrible, i pulled her aside and i burst into tears, at this point i didnt want to tell her but i had to, when i did she screamed and cried, it was at school when i told her and everyone looked at us and saw us both crying, it happened from the age of 6 till about 11 or 12 im 14 now, and only just come forward, i urge anyone who is sitting here reading this if you have been abused in any way to come forward!!
princesslotty123 1 year ago
However, if it wasn't for her, I would probably have been knocked up by now.
Thank GOD for family.
Kaqome 1 year ago
I was sexually abused by one of my so-called "best friends". Apparently he didn't take me seriously when I said that I wanted to remain a virgin for Jesus. Thus, he sexually assaulted me. Unfortunately, my little sister of 8 years was there to view almost everything. I remember perfectly..I had to hold myself together...I didn't cry, kick, scream, or struggle...because then my sister would have been traumatized. However,
Kaqome 1 year ago
ABUSE IS WRONG
HANNYU101 1 year ago
i went to court last month and it failed he got away i feel like i am a failure there is not enough justice i am only 14 its not fair especially the guy has two children =(
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kirstyana 1 year ago
@kirstyana how did you get through it like how long did it take you to think it wasnt your fault i feel like i cant get out of it and i am sorry to hear that your case got lost too people like that dont deserve a second chance
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kirstyana 1 year ago
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kirstyana 1 year ago
i was abused when i was 14yo it sick all he got was 12 month in jail thats justise for ya makes me sick
wigger2003uk 1 year ago
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kirstyana 2 years ago
so many stories on here. im so sorry 2 every1. trust me i kno wat ur going thru. sexual abuse never goes away no matter how much u wish it to
blahimavampire6 2 years ago
I live in hope. It is taking over a big part of my life.
It is a daily battle but I can not imagine going through the rest of my life like this. I am determined to get responses from people who have not only experienced these terrible experiences but who have also found ways to cope and even recover.
I really want these people to share their experiences.
I have just started a blog and hope that it could achieve this objective.
HigherGlobal 2 years ago
i was abused as a child, its not okay, i was sexually and physically, i have nightmares that still haunt me till this day. im afraid of almost everything and everybody. its not okay!
XImaVAMPIREX 2 years ago
The sucidle thoughts were recently same with the ED but im getting better and im going to my old highschool next year and i am going to talk to classes just to let them know that they arnt the only ones and that i understand and im going to try to help...Thanks for the video...
ugotaloveme19 2 years ago
I geuss my story isnt as bruttle as half of these but ill share anyway...i was sexually abused since i think 3 or 4 grade by my older brother who was 7 grade...um the hardest thing was that i told my parents my freshmen year...they conferemed that we were just exploring...he made me put my hand on what he told me was the holy bible and swear to god that i would never tell anyone or id go to hell...everywhere i turned for help i got questioned and judged...i had thoughts of suicied and an ED...
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kirstyana 2 years ago
Thanks same too you...I think the ED makes me feel even more alone,,,even worse...so i hope the best for you!
ugotaloveme19 2 years ago
arrr it doesnt batter how bruttal things are thats still not right i feel sorry for u x
bethandillon1 2 years ago
i have been abused since i was 7 my dad came home and hit my mum and i was standing in the doorway staring i couldnt say a thing i was to shocked and he noticed me and started hitting me i am 11 now and my mum died when i was 9 because of my dad
mbmbmbtortoise 2 years ago
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kirstyana 2 years ago
i dont have any friends i dnt go to school and i dnt have a phone my dad has one but i am to scared to use it<its ok ill live with it
mbmbmbtortoise 2 years ago
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kirstyana 2 years ago
its okay i have learned to live with it
it doesent hurt anymore i have gotten used to it it was my birthday yesterday i am now 12 i will be out of this house in 6 years i cant wait i am counting the days although it might take me a while but ther is only 2190 days to go i think but its okay i might go to the police but i might not it is up to me maybe i will maybe i wont only time will tell
mbmbmbtortoise 2 years ago
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kirstyana 2 years ago 2
@kirstyana but i aint special
mbmbmbtortoise 2 years ago
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kirstyana 2 years ago 2
you are special mbmbmbtortoise and never ever let any body tell you any different. i know it is a daily battle with these feelings but pray. it helps beleive me. just hang in there i know it is hard
poemmiami 2 years ago
i dont wan to pray there is no use, i dont care if no one comes anymore, it doesnt matter, i'm not special i am just like anyone else in this world, i may be hurt i may be scared but i have to keep on living my life...because life goes on
mbmbmbtortoise 2 years ago
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kirstyana 2 years ago
@kirstyana who am i loved by
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kirstyana 2 years ago
i was raped and molested by my biological brother. and by my grandpa and my biological moms boyfriends. i suffered for many years. im 18 now. and engaged. im doin alot better seeing as a few years ago i tried killing myself and was cutting alot. i still have really bad flashbacks and nightmares but not as often. abuse has to stop!!!!!!
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kirstyana 2 years ago
I was sexually assaulted when 11 yrs old by a guy who should've been in high school.He assaulted me for 2 weeks before I told our bus driver that he was bothering me and i wanted to move. I was too scared to let anyone know.I was scared to even tell my dad. I had depression sometimes so I chose to go to counseling this summer and am still dealing with it 6 yrs after the fact. So I am a supporter of the end of child/sexual/domestic abuse.
MariskaHargiteam 2 years ago
Thankfully, I don't have to see my abuser. However, I never said anything, and I hate that he may never be caught because I said nothing. I always wonder how many victims he had after me.
MrsStarSpooky 2 years ago
I'm so glad that you dont have to see him. But you are right though, my father had many victims after he was finished with us. I felt guilt for many years not only for my younger sister, but for all the ones that came after me.That all stopped though when he went to prison.
newvision4him 2 years ago
You can't blame yourself though about not being able to say anything. If and when you are able to tell someone, I know you will. I set that silent little girl inside of me free when my sisters and I told. Thank U so much for commenting. :)
newvision4him 2 years ago
I was sexually abused at 5 by I thought I trusted.... I never did anything about it and it kills me when I see him out in town :(
SomebodysFreak88 2 years ago
I'm so sorry sweetie. My sisters and I didnt prosecute our father until we were adults and as hard as the whole process was...I feel like he finally had to answer for what he did to use growing up. And I"m sure he never thought he would have to. I hope one day that you will be able to have that same closure and be vendicate4d for what that pig did to you.
newvision4him 2 years ago
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kirstyana 2 years ago
I truly believe that if EVERYTHING in my life, good, bad or indifferent wouldn't have happened exactly the way that it did then I wouldn't be who I am and "Who I Am Makes A Difference today!!!"
ADVOCATESFORCHANGE 2 years ago
omg child abuse is the worst thing. STOP CHILD ABUSE! U can always write 2 me if u want any1 2 talk 2:)
RayaannnC00leycutey 2 years ago
beautiful song i think the words are so compelling Iwant to aim to speak up to encourage children to not be afraid to speak up to not feel ashamed i know how the abuse stays as you get older i am a sexual abuse survivor it' been so hard to overcome i dont think i will ever be completly the same but GOD gives me strength each and every day
elvisfan1978 2 years ago
Thank U so much for the comment. And you are right. What we went through will never completely leave us but it does make us stronger and hopefully able to help others and more importantly, prevent it from happening to others. BE A VOICE..FOR THE SILENT AND FORGOTTEN ONES OF SEXUAL ABUSE!!! :)
newvision4him 2 years ago
My BESTFRIENDS step dad rape and sexually abused us. She trieed to face him in court, and ended up killlin herself when she was just 13, im now 16 and i still havent faced him in court yet. Hes a free man rigth now! This happend to us when we were 9, we must all come together and stop child abuse. We hvae to catch sick people who like to take lil girls innosence!
missprisss101 2 years ago 2
=**( it hurt soo bad to read this my best friend n gf was sexually abused and it took us soo long to get better i just wanted to stop and remind you that even though he may not be convicted he's gonna have to face god n believe me god has plans for all of us and as for your 13 year old friend maybe god needed another angel in heaven stay strong and dont you EVER think that your alone your NEVER alone may god bless you and everyone who's ever had to endure such a horrible thing god bless <3 <3 =)
ehljrtree8112 2 years ago
I'm so very sorry that you had to go through that. We prosecuted our father for what he did to us growing up, and he died in prison, but it still didn't take away what he did to us. You stay strong ok? And remember that what happened to you does NOT make you who you are. It only makes you stronger, and more determined to fight against it. GOD BLESS YOU TOO! :)
newvision4him 2 years ago
I truly believe that if EVERYTHING in my life, good, bad or indifferent didn't happened exactly the way that it did then I wouldn't be who I am today and "Who I Am Makes A Difference!!!" May God Bless you and your families...
ADVOCATESFORCHANGE 2 years ago
My story is being made into a motion picture. We are also starting a national Abuse Recovery Center in Wichita Kansas and hopefully at some point in Johnson City Tennessee, you can contact me Mike Furches for more information, contact is available across the nation and information about the recovery center which provides services free of charge through Mosaic ARC which starts in October of 2009
TheVirtualPew 2 years ago
i belive in what ur saying we need to have one voice and lets stand to stop child abuse raise ur hands and shout WE WILL STOP CHILD ABUSE!!!!!
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TheMunzurlu 2 years ago
I haven't gone into court for myself for what my step father did to me. . . but i can relate! I wish you thee best! ♥ All my blessings! Madison
MadisonBabeee 2 years ago
for many years i was sexually and physically abused by my father. now i get to face him in court on the 7th of july. i get to tell my story. and watch him suffer how i did. not the same way but in a way. and this video is true.
KMSHOTT 2 years ago 4
OH I'm so glad you will get the opportunity to face him and put him where he belongs!!! My sisters and I did the same thing with our father, but because we let him plea bargain he didnt get as much time as he should have. The anger I felt when we was to be released from prision is what led me to write Be A Voice. Don't let him plea bargain k? STAND STRONG AND REGAIN THE CONTROL BACK THAT HE HAS STOLEN FROM YOU ALL THOSE YEARS!!!! YOU ARE GOING TO FEEL SO MUCH BETTER AFTERWARD I PROMISE YOU!
newvision4him 2 years ago
I was sexually abused and the cops wouldnt beleive me and they closed the case saying there was insufficient evidence SEXUAL ABUSE LEAVES SCARS AND SOME ARE ON THE INSIDE.
Zappers12345 2 years ago 3
this is serioulsy beyond terrible
Cutiepiesforever12 2 years ago 2
How could anyone hurt or do that to a child
madpugs123 2 years ago 2
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Break the Silence. At age 14, I was abducted, beaten and sexually assaulted by a previously convicted pedophile. He never went to trial because he was brutally beaten to death in the streets of Providence, RI in 1975. No one has been charged with his murder. For 34 years, less than a dozen people knew my story. Now the story of my abduction, beating and sexual assault followed by the unsolved brutal murder of my assailant is a novel. Men in My Town by Keith Smith available now at Amazon
keithsmithnj 2 years ago
This is worthy cause but I can't help but think, how many cases go unreported? It's a crying shame (yea, understatement) but so many child abuse cases go unreported that we can't do much with the precious few that get reported
efatarocks 2 years ago 6
i agree all thoughs little kids that been abused need a chance to hold on to there life and they didn't do any thing to deserve this they need help and god will take there hand and heal them....
kyky87154 2 years ago
Amen yes we must be a voice
BrightLySinging4GOD 2 years ago
Thank-you mankillingtank
BrightLySinging4GOD 2 years ago
I was abused virbally by my mom.. people should stop doing this
Chryssiex 2 years ago
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lol you derserved it
iceshaver 2 years ago
YOU NEED HELP No one deserves to be abused in any shape or form you need to grow up and take a stand against it and be a real human being for once. I will pray for your soul. Or else you say what you did because you yourself are an abuser feeling shame either way I pray for you
BrightLySinging4GOD 2 years ago
I agree.
ManKillingTank09 2 years ago
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You are an immature bastard.
ManKillingTank09 2 years ago
How cud ppl do this? This stupid fuckers. How could u urt a child like that. I could never do that 2 my daughter.
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thefatimalapuzworld 2 years ago
im sooo sad.....i want to kill my father for hurting me like this
swimminliz 2 years ago
yeah thats some sick shit these nasty fuckers need to stop
bogusmcdonald 2 years ago
Wut Did ur father do 2 U????
ShaniaBe 2 years ago
Omg Matt ..... how would you feel if someone you trusted deeply was touching you and raping you ...omfg its people like you who should experiance that.... iv never been sexually abbused but i feel deeply for those who have ...it just isnt right at all ....tbh all the pervs in the world should die x
AdorableMuchly 2 years ago
i felt really bad about those kids who were abused ahaaaaa fuck thos who think fuckin kids is pleasure, ass***** go burn in hell.........
devilsfart 2 years ago
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fuck that...fucking kids is the best thing that ever happened to me!Where would i be if i didnt molest little boys>??whats wrong with people putting this shit on youtube??
m0nsters0fthedeep 2 years ago
OMG! does anyone see this comment?!!?!
briannabibie 2 years ago
yes, give him a medal, now!
iceshaver 2 years ago
thanks alot, all that theropy wasted thankyou, jerk...
Ryanxclarke 2 years ago
this is makeing my have flash backs i hate and makes me hate my daddy even more fowhat he did
lilsadeyez4real 2 years ago 2
Hey Matt. No one gives a fuck about ur opinion. Shut de fuck up and get on with ur life. No one wants ur pitty u stupid fuck. No one asked 4 it. So think before u talk fag.
sammahdi1994 2 years ago
1. Hit puberty, Matty boy. =)
2. Quit feeling sorry for yourself.
3. Fuck...learn how to spell if you're going to try to insult someone.
4. While you're at it, go tell your English teacher what a miserable failure you are.
5. See you in Hell, darling. =)
avenger0507013 2 years ago 2
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hahah oooh lol! HEY YOU GUYS ARE FAILURES AT SPELLING TO LOLZ!!! haha LOL RAPE! O WAIT AHAHAHAHA
10matt56 2 years ago
Yeah. Except we're probably all young. Twenty-four's a bit old to type like a dumbfuck.
You sound sexually frusterated. Maybe you should take a walk out of your mothers basement and get that checked out. =]
You need some sunshine. You should probably stop stuffing it in your ass.
avenger0507013 2 years ago
if i had the law in my hand i would give the pelanty of turcher( or however it spells) till death to those sick basterds... poor kids =*( i so want to find one of these fuckers under my hands just to show the hole world how fucken filthy they r ........
waytohell2 2 years ago
tougher laws wont do jack shit ok kids are going to be abused
for a long time theres nothing! NOTHING u can do about it
10matt56 2 years ago
SO FUCKEN WHAT? we need to show them that these filthy basterds wont get away with it.these kids desirve justic and we r the ones that r spose to give it back to them. ur saying laws wont do anything if they get tougher it will atleast keep those freaks out of our lives.
waytohell2 2 years ago 3
That's right. I know it will never change. But the least we can do is hunt these sick people down and give them the punishment they deserve. >:(
SasuSaku129 2 years ago
guys the reason u feel worse is becuz of these bs videos
ok?
10matt56 2 years ago
abuse stays with us for a life time. it doesn't go away. its painful to deal with. its a traumatic experience of course i remember it like it was yesterday.
I remember 9/11 and VA tech shooting like it was yesterday. there are just some things in life you just don't forget, period. no matter how hard you try.
your a fucking ass hole! i hope you burn in hell! and your the one who's the bitch, douche bag!
BlueBird0606 2 years ago
I can remember it like it was yesterday! It was heartless and cruel! Im 30 and I still havent healed completly! I was only 7 and my ant did not beleive me!! Apart of me still hates her!
YoBabyxox13 2 years ago
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kyle67766 2 years ago
I am really lucky, I have never been abused or anything of the sort I am seriously sorry for all of you who have been abused
blehman1216 2 years ago
ok ur a filthy bitch i was abused at 11 and im 20 and I remember like it was yesterday so thats so not ok
xoitsbritneybabexo 2 years ago
STRMXR u are a sick twised bastard you Dont Know How This Scars A Person i Do And now i cant trust any one i cant go to sleep at night without fear in my heart or laugh without a lump in my throat....So thanks Alot.....The rest of You Hey its okay u will get Throo it....x
iiLOVEYHOO123 2 years ago
I would just like to say to that I feel for all those that have left comments here (even
strmxr who obviously has some serious issues too!).
I was abused by a local clergyman. He died years later without anyone ever knowing what he had done. I still suffer from depression.
I describe it as like being in a dark tunnel, you can see the whole of life happening at the end of the tunnel, but you cant reach it and are never quite part of it.
My song, running for the light describes this feeling.
p12owe 2 years ago
this video was recommended by my counselor i am going thro post traumatic depression and anxiety cause of my abuse i had endured from a very early age by my mothers father i turned him finally when i was 12 but they didn't do anything to him i got sent away cause my family did not want me i am filled with alll this pain disgust guilt and most of all i feel like i paid for his crime he did to me i have had alot of trouble never had a childhood or teenage life cause one person took it all from me
autumncarter86 2 years ago
i was sexually molested by a friend of the family. I was 5 or 6 years old and i remember it like it was yesterday.
i am 19 years old now and i'm as fucked up as can be. i don't trust people not even my family.
i have anger, control, and trust issues.
everyday i go to sleep praying that God will have mercy and let me just die so the pain will go away.
the shame, anger, and depression.
i'm just tired of it all!
I just want the pain and memories to go away!
BlueBird0606 2 years ago
i was abused when i was younger. i dont live at home anymore. i can still feel the pain when i see my mom. my step dad did it to me and my mom didnt believe me!
butterflyinthesky01 2 years ago
this is so sad, cause i went through it a few years ago. my step father couldnt keep his hands off of me and my mom didnt believe me:( i ran away. i dont live at home amymore.
butterflyinthesky01 2 years ago
hey gays and others DO NOT SEXUAL ABUSE KIDS!!!
makik25 2 years ago
omg how can you say that??!?!!!
how can someone even give that a "thumbs up"??
that is so stupid that you would say that gay people molest little kids? Maybe some people that are gay do... but it doesn't mean that they are the people that do that kind of sick shit!!! it is people that are sick in the mind and heart. maybe you just don't understand it.
briannabibie 2 years ago
indeed they all do, those disgusting fags
iceshaver 2 years ago
Well my best mate was childed aboused an she didnt tell me an then she dies :( im cryin while im writeing this
Flowerluvgirl 2 years ago
Being an adult suffering from child abuse this video was most touching
ednastv 2 years ago
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lolol u fucks make me laugh, "victims"...lol o brother, do something useful and stop leaving ur kids alone at parks or wherever the fuck it is they get molested.
strmxr 2 years ago