Heather Headley - I Wish I Wasn't

[cheekygold]

this song is so real . i hate men . this song makes me think about the two guys i wasted love and time on. i am cryin right now cause this song is so real.

[mardale92]

she has a great voice wish she made i longer

[Ladyykiara]

damnn this song speaks the truth , its true I wish I wasnt in love with many people I mean y couldn't you tell me @ fisrt u were gona do me wrong, AND the funny thing is that  Im not hurting becus i lost him but most of the time Im hurt becus I believed in what he said !

[chocopologie]

and its sad because it makes it hard for us to love the next one because we put that shield up....

[Ladyykiara]

Yes! My gurl say it agen , and it do suck cus while we putting that shield up , that man could be the one who's willing to committ and love u unconditionally! yet we punishing him 4 the "past"

[queenann65]

Hi Heather girl love this song, great song.

[prettyladyt28]

dis song is awesome

[marion88able]

i LuV DiZ SoNg☺☻♥

[Sassybaby1]

awesome song <3

[SoDaygoinLA]

i wish i could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret

[jaz21p]

missing last verse

[iminyjo]

yeah where's the rest. This video is slightly different too. The way it ends she takes him back, which IMO is why this song is so sad but true. "Hear you knockin' at the door again/ I'm wonderin' should I let you in/ I open up the door and see/ The flowers for me/So beautiful in your hand/ Please stop begging me to take you back/ I've always been a sucker for romance /And before you know

it I concede/You're all over me

Oh no here I go again"

[jaz21p]

absolutely!! lol glad someone else noticed too

[mznorthend]

at the end she dont take him baqk she close the door in his face

[TrueIndio]

good

[FatBeauty01]

thats my bish...mmy fucking song ♥♥♥

[jakayla206]

this song helped me leave my ex then i took him back like a dumb girl , this song is so deep , i still feel bad and its been over for a year now , i was with him for 6 years , now im in another fucked relationship

[pandaexoh]

im sorry to hear that :(

[disshitrighthurni99a]

wow i'm sorry to hear dat, i have a few friends that are in de same place.. hope it gets better for u!!

[Mike213]

She is so true b/c I fall for a girl @ 23 my 1st love its so hard to let ur heart heal went u love some1 with all of it

[pandaexoh]

thats so true :(

[chuckchizzle]

she is sexy.

[TheMzprada]

i luv this song....it makes me cry sometimes...but it also gave me the strength 2 end a dead end relationship .

[YOariellaa]

LOVE her music ; so soulful & i cant always relate .

[EgyptianQueenK]

Heather is killing most of these so called R&B divas!! Her lyrics are SICK!

[KaunisSuicide]

I agree 100%!!

[dar3al3stgirl]

I love her... she have such a beautiful voice. I think they should play her musics more in the radio, I don't really hear much about her

[1LuvEvery1]

That's cuz she's singing gospel these days.

[nikki51572]

My girl!

[shermanford67]

she got me loosin my mind.... and that's a damn good thing :-) LOVE YOU HEATHER

[truplaya2560]

old school voice not like today r&b

[leezymleezy]

love this...

[1617princess]

i feel wat she's say in dis song

[roshara19]

this song is so real. i don't understand why men take women feelings for granted. a woman with feelings is = to being crazy and mentally insane in a guy's eyes. i don't understand it. love from a woman for a man can be so powerful, and men, well at least THE MAJORITY of men don't see it.

[cheyennenbruce]

WY IS SHE NOT FAMOUS??? its kind of a shame for real! she is AMAZING!

[bevan768]

i hve been hurt befor and i didnt get over it and then this man came over to me i feel in love with him and then he goes and breaks me heart and i can understand it :( :( :(

[Idrisa301]

I wish the same thing..I love this song when will people understand opening your heart takes so much trust

[princesalammy1977]

I dedicated this to my bf, he never cared about how I felt all those times he broke up with me for dumb reasons...

[SEXYLILBADASS]

wow my ex did the same thing

[MIZZFABULOS1996]

i understnd this song i felt how she feels i love this song

[StylistecS]

Real Fuckin R&B that got alot of play a mere four years ago even on radio stations.

[4theLoveOfMuzikk]

ain't this song the truth...

[mrxsexiicece]

i feel her.. i kno wat she mean.. i feel dat way 2..

[Loyalty4life904]

can anybody relate to not wishin you were n love with sumone who you know is going to hurt you ? I can , listen to heater headly i wish i wasnt n love wit you

[kris852007]

I cant really understand this song and where its coming from.

[nle4lyfe]

*hint*... the lyrics...

"im home alone again & ur out hangin with ur friends, so u say, somehow i know its not quiet that way"

apparently she was in a relationship that went sour & she was really let down

thats a story that i can relate to too often, great song tho, aint it?

[kris852007]

Yeah it is

[HiddenPassion1]

This song is basically about a woman who is in love with a man that does not love her and/ or treats her bad.

[blackcherryLSM]

sounds like she is regrettin being with this guy and wish she could do it all over because she feels like she is waisting her time

[sammijo25]

if it wasnt for love we would feel heart ache.

once you open your heart you open it to good and bad, but please remember the pain wont last forever.

[Sylman87]

I LOVE THIS SONG I PLAY EVERYTIME

[badiana30]

Love this tune..

[nemicouture]

she is the definition of a beautiful, classy, strong black woman, wat i strive to be

[udithedon]

I have a crush on this woman.

[soniadlay79]

very classy lady

[negrobastardo82]

she's better than all that bitches in the game

[orrkhari]

this song remind sme of the old days

[juniorthug1]

underrated song and singer.

[monroechick229]

omq i so lovee disx sonq man it explains alot it has meh thinkinq!

[yusoshady]

some still nineteen goin on twenty

[stopsayingmileyaslut]

i love diz song

i been thinkin bout it all dayy

[123moiqueLH123]

i love dis song

[hip2thabone]

Beautiful!

[lysee35]

i tell my boyfriend this alot lately...

[LORAINETUCKER]

fav

[StyleofNoStyle]

I'm a man and hell I can relate to this song. You go bend over backwards for these ungrateful ass women and they take you for granted.

[lonta219]

i feel you,im always in that position,but you no what...we as men can bounce back you feel me......

[TheTrinaca]

wow this is how i feel....

[jimscorcher]

god she remind me of a girl i use to date in jamaica slim alike with the high cheek bone maybe thats why i am hook on her songs

[allanjamal]

this song heals me coz am in the same situation. heather i luv u girl thx for the song and the good lyrics

[JessicaBooskie]

omg aint heard this in a long time wow dis da bomb diggity LOL

[Hardwaykru]

Heather Headly now is the time to give it that push

[myasiaaaa]

i always thought this was whitney houston's song i guess not lOl.

[speedoflite1]

The song is sad and slow, reminiscent of a New Orleans jazz funeral march (Side 1).

She's melancholy, reflective and mornful. Suddenly single and alone in a messy apt., singing a sad and slow song. Your basic pity party.

[CoeMia]

Part 2-She doesn't just whine the blues about the pain. She's making him get away from her because she's determined to not continue going through this. Not only that, but the video even ends happily when she closes the door in his face.

I think of this song as "I'm sorry that I care about you since you're a jerkface. But, I'm kicking you to the curb despite my feelings of love for you." ROFL

Sounds happy...and puts you at a place to move on and find your next love. =)

[speedoflite1]

what did i say 6 days ago!? restated.

lol. That's why a lot of these drama queens ain't got no man. Notice, she never once mentions anything she mightta done wrong. There's no "I"

in TEAM, Miss Thang.

[CoeMia]

Agreed. But there's also no "Jackass" in TEAM either. But a lot of females & males act like one towards their loved ones. LOL

The hubs & I definitely understand team. We're looking forward to celebrating our 20th anniversary next month.

One of the fantastic things about art is that it can be interpreted in many different ways. That was my point in replying to you in the first place.

Thanks for a great convo. Have a good one!

[lonta219]

that good,i bet god put yall together....

[CoeMia]

@lonta219

Thanks! We thank God that we're together. But we actually started going out in 1989 when I was 15 and he was 17...back before either one of us started serving God. Our relationship with Him is what inspired us to get married 4years later.

[lonta219]

so from 1989 to 2009..how old are ya'll??????

[CoeMia]

I'll be 35 next month and he is 37. Our dating anniversary is Oct 27th-20yrs together. Our wedding anniversary is Oct 29th-16yrs married.

[lonta219]

ok,that good,but it funny cause i thought yall was older.

[ggdotcomdotuk]

Well Done!!!

[coldhearted4life]

good 4 u how do you do it do tell ur secrets

[CoeMia]

@coldhearted4life

The 2 greatest things we ever did for our relationship: accept the faults the other person has. Marriage is not a promise that the other person will become perfect. You have to let them be themselves.

Life happens. Do the best you can to get through it TOGETHER. We share everything: good, bad, and ugly. There is no "his" and "mine." Materials, money, victories, defeats, etc... they all belong to us.

[speedoflite1]

A good song, if you're in the mood to wallow in pain that is.

Being "happy" isn't everything, but its where i choose to be. It's also very likely where you'll find your next love.

[CoeMia]

@speedoflite1-I beg to differ. Listening to this song doesn't mean you're wallowing in pain. It could mean that you've decided to listen to a song that addresses and expresses an unpleasant situation and how you plan on dealing with it.

[treaboo22]

LOVE THIS SONG........<3.........

[liltee76134]

Is Heather Headley coming out with a ablum

[justTHICKK]

THE ULTIMATE STALKER SONG...

[MZBENSON09]

i love this song it gets me through many things

[ravensherae]

im feeling this sonnggg ssooo much right now because even though im not dealing with a cheater or anything my dude is just so uncomprimising and not willing to listen to any good points im making... i know it sounds little but if yu've ever had to have the same arguement day after day night after night it gets tireing and im sooo sick of it maneee... i dont know what i wanna do ) :

[justinbig9]

I hear you raven!

[babyxhil]

waisted my time thinkkinn bout him when he wasnt ever gonee change! :( lovee thiss songg. i wishh i never fell in lovee withh himm so he couldn hurt mee likee thiss.

[oniuss12]

I like this song too and I agree it can go for a woman too. I have had a few that have hurt me beyond repair it seems at times. Kind of turns you into a man you don't want to be. Just listening to the song reminds me of my worth and to stay true to myself no matter what some clown@## woman has done to hurt me. Even men needs that kind of message and I am a single dad of 14,16 yr old daughters.

[quaaal]

I feel this song so much right now. Cause trust me if I could go back i woul have avoided meeting mine so that I wouldn't feel like this now. Trifling, cheating, bitch ass n****. Hate all men right now.

[vineshia94]

I think a lot of people can relate to this song. :-)

[GOSHIN19]

If you really look at it ladies , you meet a man and you give up your Holy parts in about a week we loose respect for a woman like you ,slow down build a relationship first ! help us and teach us to learn how to love and not lust and put some clothes on!!!!!

[BreiandKids]

Goshin, even though I agree with u.....but there are some guys who are not going to respect u no matter what!

There are some who will leave u BECAUSE ur NOT givin in to what they want..and/or they think the grass is greener on the other side

While what u said applies....this song doesnt specifically say, what he did wrong...even though its obvious! This song goes out to ANY WOMAN OR MAN who has been hurt regardless of what happened!

[GOSHIN19]

This male and female thing will never stop untill we understand each other.

When I see abrother who dosen't know how to treat a woman I wonder who really is at fault? I hate typing because you know email always come across wrong lol

[BreiandKids]

Goshin, I understand where ur coming from totally! And it really does depend on the situation!

If a man/woman is doing u wrong then thats their fault bc most of the time, ppl know when their not doing right....BUT.....when it becomes the other persons "fault" is when they STAY and continue to deal with it! I believe giving ppl the benefit of the doubt, tellin them what u dont like and seein if theyll change, but theres a time to walk away after that!

[GOSHIN19]

whats up and how are you doing ?

[BreiandKids]

Goshin, Im fine! How R U?

[bobert325]

where this at

[TenaStarsky]

lover her shes amazing now this is singing.

her new song with smokie norful is so good. she never gets old. we need more like Heather headley

[marie41789]

she sound like yolanda adams a little

[MsAries84]

Its sad men's don't know, how to preciate shit don't matter how hard you try. They good only for 1 thing.

[love70000]

Love this song. I wish I could go back, feeling this song.

[Thanubian1]

There are also many men that can relate to this song. Men that these words fit perfectly what women have done to them. We've all been there and that so sad.

[MillerChristine]

perfect...She was talking about my life

[LaDyMiNeS23]

this is exactly the way i felt with my x

[0101evelyn]

this song is soooo inspirational and i mean this song is exactly how my fiancees acting now wow!!!!

[plopinoy]

this song brings back memories

[shairyp]

realest shit ever me n my bd going thru the same thing its even hard listenig to the song ):

best song ever!!

[Drea3176]

This explains me and my babby daddys relationship, when this song came out...

[Lovelyladyluck84]

Its so crazy Im going though this same shit right now!!!

[marsha2451]

I love all your songs heather

Marsha Headley

[jayriri]

i love this song.. when it came out i was really feeling it i was going through the same shit with my baby daddy... hahahaha

[goofymea]

i love love love me some Heather Headley...Gosh she needs to come out with something new already....

[hhbgffhfbgf]

she did come out with something new.She switched to Gospel.She has a CD out

[goofymea]

Thanks. i will be checking it out

[brownhoneysugar]

I was 12 when this song came out now I'm 19 damn years go by fast...I love this video and the song!!!

[princesscc03]

i wish i could go back to the day before we meet and skip my regrets

[Da6xy4ever]

oh damn this brings me back! sh!t Heather always comes through!!!!!!!

[treymyd]

Ladies u are not the only ones who feel ths song. I was great 2 my ex and she did me wrong! Trust and believe it was her loss!!!

[sodamnreal2009]

Ladies, love yourself first, and that way, what she says in the song will never happen...because you will love yourself too much to allow yourself to be mistreated by any man, or person for that matter....jap

[VeronicasPlace]

I love this song.

[madiaeb]

she has vocals so so talented!!!! love this song...

[cuttabrown11]

i love this song

[Onnie609]

ieye mey b yung buy ieye can relate 2

dis sng dha boy just comes n my life

den b/comes ghost nd ieye o so hate ut

ieye love dis sng

[songsoulgirl]

i love this song

[UhhYEAhSHEbAd]

...ii kAN RELATE.... ANdd DAT RElATi0NShiiP 0NLy MAdE MEEh STR0NGER..ii L0VE DiSS S0NG!!

[notroxing]

i went through that! i loved him and he never loved me.

xoxo katiee<33

[Kandykanekandy]

Trinidadian she is

[kayla123456marie]

I Love This Song..And Its True You Love Somebody SOo Much You Sticc Around N Let Them Hurt You!!

[dagville1]

On tha real ladies sum bruthas go thru this also...cuz alot of women are just az foul and shystee....however az a man we keep it quiet from fam and r boyz...pride i guess...but yea sum fellas are feeling tha same thang....& nuthn soft, or weak about them either....

[DetroitPrincessney09]

yea your rite

[hotmulata76]

I love this song, yes if for a love that is never going to ever happen, is best to move on and try again.

[oduro88]

Right, it's best to move on. Believe me I tried to hang in there with my husband and keep a teo parent home for the children, after 23 years of off and on cheating I could not take it anymore. I released him and now I live in California having the time of my life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!

The benefit is ALL of my children are grown and very successfull!!! I am free to fly!!!

[DaWrita]

Like everyone..IT'S ALWAYS THAT ONE..JUST THAT ONE..THAT WE WILL NEVER STOP LOVING THEM MORE THEN THEY EVER LOVED US...BUT YEARS LATER WHEN I HEAR THE SONG I STILL THINK OF THAT ONE....JUST THAT ONE...DAMN...BUT HEY ITS BETTER TO LOVE AND LOST THEN TO NEVER HAD LOVED IN ALL

[buttlikewat]

I can all so relate to thsi song. I was dealing with a guy that made me feel this way around the time this song came out. It open my eyes up. I love music!

[judymainegirl]

My husband has been cheating on me even before we got married. I didn't find out until after we were married. This is my song. I just can't seem to leave him.

[favour1234]

You should run. Whoever u are, u deserve better.

[roshane2]

Gurl, get your shit together.

[lady4u2n]

Ohhh this song is an anthem for every woman who loved a man more than they loved them. I wish I could go back to the day before we met and skip my regret!!!!!

[lakeshia85]

wow this song is so amazing. This is what i am going through right now. It hurts when you give youre all in a relationship and that person want to fuck up and try to come back......... I WISH WASNT IN LOVE IT WOULD HAVE HURTED SO DAM BAD

[KARAMELBEYBEE]

i KNO EXACTLY HOW SHE FEELS SOME OF THEM PROB. WONT REALiZE TiL iYTS GONE!iM TRYiNG TO HOLD ON BUT Y DO THEY PUT US THROUGH SO MUCH!GiRLS LOVE HARDER THEN BOYS!

[ImJustSandy]

I know this feeling.. I know what she's talking about... it hurts... GREAT SONG...

[akoyab]

grrreeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaat

[prdime26]

SMDH... totally in this song right now.

[Lipglos91]

niCE s0nG..

xx

[MsJolieKaren]

Girl i know what you are talking about.

I Love this song.

[Nikka3303]

i love this song!!

[MissJulistar]

Oh my goodness. I finally found this song!!! Took me forever.

[1wEsTAFRICANprincess]

I never been through anything like this but I love this song, I just appreciate good music

[playgirl246]

omg every single word of this song is the realtionship im in RIGHT NOW...U TREAT ME...LIKE UR ENEMY

[bootiefulbri197]

damn && you still in it?

[91Baraka]

I really connect to this song sometimes!! Thumbs up Heather!!

[lousiecc93]

im in the same situation

[purpleladii123]

this song is so nice ....i cry so many times when i hear this song and look back at what he did to me ...

[TashaG16]

My sis need to listen to this about her no good baby daddy..

[u2jelus]

NO GOOD BABY DADDY=SPERM DONOR!

i wish men would MAN UP and take responsibility

for every action there is a reaction....

[crossmover70]

This song obviously ministers to alot of women and their hurtful relationships. She truly has a heaven-sent voice, in which gives her an unction to function. Heather keeps it real and soulful!!

[ballabby01]

this makess me wanna cryy

[sethgod23]

with all my soul Thiz Iz My Love Zong :,,D

[gorbell68]

You never deserved this......

[kcheer13]

i seriously loveeeeeeeeeee this song!