I'm w/ you on the whole not putting up w/ the BS. I'm not going sit there & get cursed out in public. I had a girlfriend like that; always wanting to play me. She was a fine too. When I broke up w/ her, everyone in my family w/ the exception of my dad criticized me; saying I messed up a good thing. Seriously?! I don't care how fine she was. She took pride in disrespecting on a regular basis, so that was it. I refuse to be the shell of a man we're use to seeing in Tyler Perry's movies.
nice perspective, and i value ur opinion bruh. well said, its not about being a "good" man, its about being a "strong" man along the same lines u talked about in this vid.......peace!
My mother always told me to never take shit from no one but to be a good caring man. It looks like your mother or whoever taught you these viewpoints believed in the same things that my mother did. Props to you ghost2101!
i think society is trying to assassinate black men by culturing a submissive outlook while falsely empowering black women who use brutishness to dominate them. stand up for yourself, if a woman does not respect you for holding your own when you think your right then she's not mature enough to be having an argument in the first place. and on the flipside, its up to men to realize when they are dealing with a mature woman or a little girl and act accordingly.
This sounds like echoes from my own life and experiences with women. You have my full empathy and agreement. We're now in a climate where so-called Feminism has manipulated our society to the level where you cannot give constructive criticism of genuine problems with women because you'll be denounced as a woman hater. In this case, a black woman hater or a self loathing black man who's "intimidated by a strong black woman". It's another way of calling you a coward for rejecting bad behaviour.
I really enjoyed your video, good food for thought and I feel ya.
I think a good black man first starts with a man who has a real relationship with God. Without God you can't be a good black man or woman. And as a black woman I don't think I should allow myself to be disrespected as you stated nor should you the black man allow yourself to be disrespected either. But me I just want to love and be loved and be happy. And it greives my heart that it's so hard to find.
I agree with you bruh. You do have some bruhs who are on that gay type ish and don't tell women the truth about themselves. I used to be like that when I was HS kid but when I sat down and look at the ish I was like HOLD ON. We all got problems why is it that its black men fault for everything and I'ma good black man who get dawged by black women.
A good black man is someone who stands their ground and does not back down. Women want that characteristic in a guy they want to fuck, but when it comes to marriage they want a simp.
They just want a good black simp. Not a man as they want the man to follow them. A man leads. Problem is if you aren't a good black female, you won't follow. That is the truth. A good black man won't lead her the wrong way. They don't want to follow a man that will lead them the right way. They find him boring until their old and used up.
@SolShinobi I agree. Many of them chew up and ruin the good Black man and then accuse him of being no-good. They create/perpetuate the situation that they complain about.
However, some BM like me are falsely accused sometimes of being a captain-save-a-hoe, mangina, or simp by other black men who don't differentiate between good BW and bad BW
i been telling brothers and sisters to cut off the sistahs with attitudes, feminazis etc and focus only on good quality black women.
Im against feminism, hood rats, etc! But when I stand up for a true bw, I get attacked! I despise those who think a good bm suppose accept and ANY bs from bw.
Because these stupid females are living in a dream world. Media tv and books ahve given them this sense of entitlement .. Its really very sad... But most females are in a dream world and make myth into reality.. But myth isnt reality and these women dont understand it
The moderators who kicked you off that message board by doing so inadvertently admitted that you were right. The reason why they would be upset by what you said is that they know if good men only focused on the true good black women, a lot of them would be cut out of the picture. The majority of the women who get upset about comments like the one you made not only don't want to change but DON'T EVEN SEE A PROBLEM. Because of this, they can't be saved and trying to is a waste of time.
u r the man
SymphonyTV 6 months ago
I'm w/ you on the whole not putting up w/ the BS. I'm not going sit there & get cursed out in public. I had a girlfriend like that; always wanting to play me. She was a fine too. When I broke up w/ her, everyone in my family w/ the exception of my dad criticized me; saying I messed up a good thing. Seriously?! I don't care how fine she was. She took pride in disrespecting on a regular basis, so that was it. I refuse to be the shell of a man we're use to seeing in Tyler Perry's movies.
tonyGjr2 6 months ago
nice perspective, and i value ur opinion bruh. well said, its not about being a "good" man, its about being a "strong" man along the same lines u talked about in this vid.......peace!
Dwnsoufboi870 9 months ago
@ghost2101
My mother always told me to never take shit from no one but to be a good caring man. It looks like your mother or whoever taught you these viewpoints believed in the same things that my mother did. Props to you ghost2101!
MrMidnightSpecialist 10 months ago
i think society is trying to assassinate black men by culturing a submissive outlook while falsely empowering black women who use brutishness to dominate them. stand up for yourself, if a woman does not respect you for holding your own when you think your right then she's not mature enough to be having an argument in the first place. and on the flipside, its up to men to realize when they are dealing with a mature woman or a little girl and act accordingly.
NyRamsey 1 year ago
This sounds like echoes from my own life and experiences with women. You have my full empathy and agreement. We're now in a climate where so-called Feminism has manipulated our society to the level where you cannot give constructive criticism of genuine problems with women because you'll be denounced as a woman hater. In this case, a black woman hater or a self loathing black man who's "intimidated by a strong black woman". It's another way of calling you a coward for rejecting bad behaviour.
JayArgonaut 1 year ago
6:55 7:01 i have experience..lol
TheLou28 1 year ago
I really enjoyed your video, good food for thought and I feel ya.
I think a good black man first starts with a man who has a real relationship with God. Without God you can't be a good black man or woman. And as a black woman I don't think I should allow myself to be disrespected as you stated nor should you the black man allow yourself to be disrespected either. But me I just want to love and be loved and be happy. And it greives my heart that it's so hard to find.
yetistillrise 1 year ago 3
he said "fuckery"! i like this brother,willie pete,but not as angry,lol
RADIO1990 1 year ago
I agree with you bruh. You do have some bruhs who are on that gay type ish and don't tell women the truth about themselves. I used to be like that when I was HS kid but when I sat down and look at the ish I was like HOLD ON. We all got problems why is it that its black men fault for everything and I'ma good black man who get dawged by black women.
mistanderson 2 years ago
A bm who gets released from a 7-year sentence gets a shitload of respect compared to a bm who graduates w/ a master's or PhD. Sad
BlackHeartMetal666 2 years ago 14
Only with hood rats.
trickpoppy 1 year ago
A good black man is someone who stands their ground and does not back down. Women want that characteristic in a guy they want to fuck, but when it comes to marriage they want a simp.
revemupman 2 years ago 4
what is that picture in the background? It looks familiar but I can't put my finger on it.
3rdEYEbeHolder 2 years ago
100
jop003 2 years ago
Good vid Ghost!!!
BruhMan09 2 years ago
"Diva Complexes" Exactamundo!!!!!!
Women who characterize themselves as that are a problem for me.
fjones1914 2 years ago
great vid i m not letting a women emasculate and disrespect me. these women can t dont want to change. forget them. as a man deserve better
jmidwest 2 years ago 5
hey use this one one them -
Q: Do you know what you've got in common with a tampon?
Her: What?
A: Your both stuck up c****
:)
ALshow1989 1 year ago
They just want a good black simp. Not a man as they want the man to follow them. A man leads. Problem is if you aren't a good black female, you won't follow. That is the truth. A good black man won't lead her the wrong way. They don't want to follow a man that will lead them the right way. They find him boring until their old and used up.
SolShinobi 2 years ago 25
@SolShinobi These BW look at us a Sampson fools because we treat them with respect & they take advantage of if.
gemini19662007 1 year ago
@SolShinobi I agree. Many of them chew up and ruin the good Black man and then accuse him of being no-good. They create/perpetuate the situation that they complain about.
phileotruth 8 months ago
A good black man is a man that has the 'goods".
whitebitchnigga 2 years ago
co - sign!
Allen8131 2 years ago
Kicked in the nutts is excaxtly what it is!
100% right buddy
blaque2theseed 2 years ago
You are so much the truth, bro!
blaque2theseed 2 years ago
Good vid and points bro. It's silly for a man to just allow himself to be abused like that w/o speaking up.
marcdaddy33 2 years ago
EXCELLENT VID
klept0brainac 2 years ago
LiIart said that a
' I'm not a real/good man & very proud of it if we're going off their standards of a good man'
COSIGN
klept0brainac 2 years ago
Good video! I co-sign it 100%
However, some BM like me are falsely accused sometimes of being a captain-save-a-hoe, mangina, or simp by other black men who don't differentiate between good BW and bad BW
i been telling brothers and sisters to cut off the sistahs with attitudes, feminazis etc and focus only on good quality black women.
Im against feminism, hood rats, etc! But when I stand up for a true bw, I get attacked! I despise those who think a good bm suppose accept and ANY bs from bw.
rydar1978 2 years ago 7
Because these stupid females are living in a dream world. Media tv and books ahve given them this sense of entitlement .. Its really very sad... But most females are in a dream world and make myth into reality.. But myth isnt reality and these women dont understand it
artbunker 2 years ago 2
good video
187Pacman 2 years ago
The moderators who kicked you off that message board by doing so inadvertently admitted that you were right. The reason why they would be upset by what you said is that they know if good men only focused on the true good black women, a lot of them would be cut out of the picture. The majority of the women who get upset about comments like the one you made not only don't want to change but DON'T EVEN SEE A PROBLEM. Because of this, they can't be saved and trying to is a waste of time.
kuunami 2 years ago 3
I love that shit. You took the words right out of my mouth.
I said that a while back that I'm not a real/good man & very proud of it if we're going off their standards of a good man!
It must be "Good black man Day" because I just uploaded the same video bout an hour ago... That's crazy
Check me out if you get some time!
Good job with the vid brotha...
Lilart1981 2 years ago 2
1st to see video, 1st to rate 5 stars, and 1st to comment! I RULE! LOL
DionLaurent1 2 years ago