this is sooo stupid! if you spoiled him, then he will throw tantrums. i'm amazed at how many dumb parents allow their children to disrespect them and think they are doing the brat a favor. what idiotic parenting. you deserve all of the frustration that monster brings you.
@spreads11 Uhh... she didn't spoil him?! She made him say please to get what he wanted. She didn't just give in and give him what he wanted. Gosh, think before you type. -_-
@EvanescenceVampire95 you got to be kidding me! she tolerated that brat screaming while antagonizing him with that stupid camara, and then you come along and stand behind this nonsense. i did think before i wrote. why dont you try taking your own advice, or do you too support kids running around the house acting stupid like that one was?
@spreads11 She was teaching him manners. And I happen to know that kid because he's my COUSIN. Believe me or not,. But now he is years older and happens to be polite and not like this AT ALL.
What in you whole country gives this power to this children?
Inki Pinkis cereals? McDump?In my opinion is your country overload of bad braindownbruning materials in the TV o.O
I remember when i was as old as this kid and my freakouts but it was never so extrem like this here seen on youtube (youre not the only one all others to -.-)
So please find this ugly shit and ban it from your child it makes them crazy!!
This is not a tantrum. It is normal 2 year old behavior. Not to mention your son asked to see himself on the camera at the beginning of the video. He even said "I want to see" then he said "I want to see me".
I'm so glad u handled it well.see, u must have the patience and love in order to be a mother.if u can't handle it then send to adoption by please please do not send abortion.wat if ur mom did an abortion on u? U wouldn't b living.that is the reason teens shouldn't have kids.:)
Simply scrumptious. The more you keep your cool, the madder they get, but the less often they have the tantrums. A little discipline goes a long way...too bad many parents give in just to shut them up nowadays, making excuses like it's a phase. Sorry, but it's your kid testing their boundaries. Give in now, and you will forever
Family therapist guy. You should relax a bit and leave people alone, stay in your little world of make believe theories and out of our world of reality. Save your opinions for your so called job. Thanks, no reply from you is needed or wanted. Go talk or type to the people that for some reason pay you?
Please enlighten us with you own home videos and show us how it's done Sir Family Therapy Guy. Furthermore, you're still operating predominately from THEORY. You do realize that is what you paid to learn right!? That's why they call a professional career in medicine, dentistry, law, etc., a PRACTICE. You are forever "practicing" what you thought you learned.
Directed to BRDCHGO (as well as the comment above): WAKE-UP CALL HERE! Real life... real kids... real parenting isn't what you were taught it is. You'll find out soon enough for yourself and then you can email me and tell me how right I was. Deal? Take care champ!
You have a lot to say about my comments and who I am. It might seem strange I comment on these videos. I find it strange that people share family videos where a child is obviously upset about something. It just seems kind of exploitative to me. If a spouse had a really bad meeting with a boss, and was crying about it, would you videotape the spouse, try to rationalize why it obviously is not THAT big of a deal, and then continue to film the crying spouse? Why is it okay to do this to kids?
The other thing is that I am very happy you took the time to write so many comments. It shows me, even though you might be angry with me, that I did cause you to think a little bit around your motivation to post a video of an unhappy child.
You are so anxious to find fault you have missed the point entirely. Watch the video again and you will find yourself watching a little boy (without tears) in a manipulative moment trying to get his way without saying "Please." Mom is simply encouraging the magic word to be spoken before giving in to his antics.
At the very end (just as the video shuts off) you hear him say the magic word... "PLEASE." Ahhhh, and there it is! Parents watching this relate because these are developmental steps we have all gone through. This is why the video is so interesting and why you wouldn't vid your spouse crying over a fight with their boss. In fact, this same little boy is several years older now and gets such a kick out of watching this video himself.
See-- I am having this difficulty again with the idea that you are already labelling your own child as being manipulative because he is not saying "the magic word" when you want him to. Do you really think that making him say "please" this way is turning him into a thoughtful person? In many ways, it is no different than making my cat screech before I put down its bowl of food at night. I must ask-- who is the manipulative one?
I watched and re-watched the video, and now I find the most disturbing thing to be is your line about "oh no-- here comes a tantrum, here comes a tantrum" which is, just as I pointed out in the begining, a taunt of sorts, or at least a real "mockery" of the situation.
(Yawn) If you were a police officer you'd actually write someone a ticket for going 56mph in a 55mph zone. Get a life... go fix REAL problems somewhere.
Kids are manipulative. Adults are manipulative. We are born with it and work on tendencies the rest of our lives. And yes "making" him say please is going to help turn him into a thoughtful person. It is called "T E A C H I N G."
Please and thank you are learned by example - children will see that you are pleased and thankful, and they, too will be thankful - to make someone say please and thank you or even sorry, when they are not pleased, thankful, or sorry is "TEACHING" them to lie! Isn't that interesting? Make sure you are not enabling them to lie or reduce the meaning of these words.
As a family-focused therapist, I just wonder-- have parents ever realized that the word "Tantrum" contains the letters to "T A U N T" which is exactly what many parents do to keep a tantrum going...
If you are indeed a "family-focused therapist," then I think you're a little creepy and unnatural the way you choose to engage in such a random way. You've engaged others like me. I know 'cause I checked out your site. Wierd.
But for kicks and giggles I'll continue the dialog briefly. IF you are what you say you are I highly doubt you even have a "family" of your own yet. Afterall, you are only 35 and I didn't see any "family" videos on you YOUTUBE account. Again... wierd!
yes, I agree - The reason children have a "tantrum" as some people call it, is because they have authentic emotions, just like us. Most caregivers don't know how to help a child learn more appropriate ways of dealing with emotions - they would rather punish them or threaten or mock the child, who obviously does not feel well. This only creates agression in the child.
he is hungry
fubrygirl1998 2 weeks ago
i love his name!!^^
MsTinkerbelle87 2 months ago
He is....... Naughty for putting stickers on the table!
Haileyistheone 10 months ago
wait is this kids name river..?!? Thats my name too!!!
Rivermaee 11 months ago
Drive the baby crazy... just for a "please"? Is this kind of education that provoques a tantrum.
NiceOrion 1 year ago
this is sooo stupid! if you spoiled him, then he will throw tantrums. i'm amazed at how many dumb parents allow their children to disrespect them and think they are doing the brat a favor. what idiotic parenting. you deserve all of the frustration that monster brings you.
spreads11 1 year ago
@spreads11 Uhh... she didn't spoil him?! She made him say please to get what he wanted. She didn't just give in and give him what he wanted. Gosh, think before you type. -_-
EvanescenceVampire95 1 year ago
@EvanescenceVampire95 you got to be kidding me! she tolerated that brat screaming while antagonizing him with that stupid camara, and then you come along and stand behind this nonsense. i did think before i wrote. why dont you try taking your own advice, or do you too support kids running around the house acting stupid like that one was?
spreads11 1 year ago
@spreads11 She was teaching him manners. And I happen to know that kid because he's my COUSIN. Believe me or not,. But now he is years older and happens to be polite and not like this AT ALL.
EvanescenceVampire95 1 year ago
@EvanescenceVampire95 well good for you! that politeness could have occurred a lot sooner with one good smack! just kidding, im happy for the kid.
spreads11 1 year ago
is a tantrum kinda syndrom????
it looks dangerous and a bit psychodelic oO
What in you whole country gives this power to this children?
Inki Pinkis cereals? McDump?In my opinion is your country overload of bad braindownbruning materials in the TV o.O
I remember when i was as old as this kid and my freakouts but it was never so extrem like this here seen on youtube (youre not the only one all others to -.-)
So please find this ugly shit and ban it from your child it makes them crazy!!
Katalist1 1 year ago
aww poor him
hiilakin11 1 year ago
Hehe, such an adorable little "please" at the end. You won! >.<
WuHa105 1 year ago
that is os funny he is so cute
amberwelborn14 1 year ago
This is not a tantrum. It is normal 2 year old behavior. Not to mention your son asked to see himself on the camera at the beginning of the video. He even said "I want to see" then he said "I want to see me".
Saguaro24 1 year ago
You should have ignored this behaviour, it is only occuring because you are giving it SO MUCH attention
MsLadygroove 2 years ago
@MsLadygroove excuse me... it?
are you always this disrespectfull to people?
gamiezion 2 years ago
When she said "It" she meant the tantrum not the child, dig a little deeper next time before you make a quick snap judgement.
MiSzManDyPanDy 1 year ago
I'm so glad u handled it well.see, u must have the patience and love in order to be a mother.if u can't handle it then send to adoption by please please do not send abortion.wat if ur mom did an abortion on u? U wouldn't b living.that is the reason teens shouldn't have kids.:)
XxChrissetteWuvsUxX 2 years ago
Ad this is why all women should have abortions
thatgirlkelly1 2 years ago
You have a pretty cool fishtank.
gdwrumble12 2 years ago
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This would make the best condom commercial ever.
alexshawalexshaw 2 years ago
@alexshawalexshaw no, you would actually be the best commercial for condoms.
gamiezion 2 years ago
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if i were that kid i would take the camera, crack it over my head,then light it on fire, and eat the ashes. just kidding,cool video though!
michkurtblake 2 years ago
From the thumbnail it looked like she was being strangled, lol.
Acid2Rider 2 years ago
I have seen worse tantrums at Blockbuster.
spartagirl78 2 years ago
LOL
brandon10175 2 years ago
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what a stupid little cunt, shave the mullet
Bloodfather 3 years ago
wow.....ur violient..
brandon10175 2 years ago
Sounds like he said 'please' at the end...good job not giving into the tantrum.
curlytoes79 3 years ago 3
he's like speaking german you can't even understand him he should be able to talk
notinbutimprov 3 years ago
y is he throwing a tantrum for wut dose he have to say plz for? i dont get it plz help me and no im not a retard! im only 11!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
cakeyi 3 years ago
She's having him say please cause he wants to see what's on the camera.
quayfriend 3 years ago
he's only a toddler, his mum didnt have to force him to say that
catlovers928 3 years ago
yes she does.. thats were respect begins ..
MalteaserMilly 2 years ago
,mn,mbhkj
Hornet569 3 years ago
People.. please use condoms... hahaha
algom9 3 years ago 3
Damn, he sure is pissed off!
anonymusbob101 3 years ago
He is absolutely adorable...and I love the name River.
candicemariahj 3 years ago
lol noooo he suppose to be playin wit cars and boy stuff not flower stickers its not his fault he playin with em its who ever baught em's fault
seymaria01 3 years ago
well actuly when u think about it god wouldnt creatate gay ppl if he diddnt like them? so its a funny thing to think about
koooooooooooooooop 3 years ago
The bible said foolishness is bound in the heart of a child.
35ams 3 years ago 4
*sigh* the bible says alot of things.
kezzaguy 3 years ago
Yea but it's all true I'm afraid.
BayumGirl123 3 years ago
oh so gays are all going to hell yeah?
maaaaad book.
kezzaguy 3 years ago
Yeah the bible is weird, it constantly contradicts itself
mutanthillbillies17 3 years ago
WELL... I wouldn't say it was a maaaaad book..
BayumGirl123 3 years ago
she need a nap
kklloyd12345 3 years ago
River need his butt busted hell then he wont be actin like that
niecieboo 4 years ago
Lol, adorable. Funny and adorable.
LilDarkCareBear 4 years ago
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if he's a boy then y is he playin with flower stickers!!!!!!!!!!
seymaria01 4 years ago
who cares if its flowers gosh its a kid... he dosent care about the freaking flowers!
tastemyrainbow666 4 years ago 9
should he be playing with gun and knife stickers instead? geesh, talk about gender stereotypes - gimme a break.
finch6789 4 years ago 6
haha i love how he looks like it pains him to say please lol thats so cute. hes adorable haha
you're a good mama :)
leanlikeacholo234 4 years ago 2
Simply scrumptious. The more you keep your cool, the madder they get, but the less often they have the tantrums. A little discipline goes a long way...too bad many parents give in just to shut them up nowadays, making excuses like it's a phase. Sorry, but it's your kid testing their boundaries. Give in now, and you will forever
FireBusterEudial 4 years ago 2
What a cute little boy. He was decorating. So cute.
Jassie26 4 years ago
Family therapist guy. You should relax a bit and leave people alone, stay in your little world of make believe theories and out of our world of reality. Save your opinions for your so called job. Thanks, no reply from you is needed or wanted. Go talk or type to the people that for some reason pay you?
chadwwwick 4 years ago
Please enlighten us with you own home videos and show us how it's done Sir Family Therapy Guy. Furthermore, you're still operating predominately from THEORY. You do realize that is what you paid to learn right!? That's why they call a professional career in medicine, dentistry, law, etc., a PRACTICE. You are forever "practicing" what you thought you learned.
jjordan07d 4 years ago
Directed to BRDCHGO (as well as the comment above): WAKE-UP CALL HERE! Real life... real kids... real parenting isn't what you were taught it is. You'll find out soon enough for yourself and then you can email me and tell me how right I was. Deal? Take care champ!
jjordan07d 4 years ago
You have a lot to say about my comments and who I am. It might seem strange I comment on these videos. I find it strange that people share family videos where a child is obviously upset about something. It just seems kind of exploitative to me. If a spouse had a really bad meeting with a boss, and was crying about it, would you videotape the spouse, try to rationalize why it obviously is not THAT big of a deal, and then continue to film the crying spouse? Why is it okay to do this to kids?
BRDCHGO 4 years ago
The other thing is that I am very happy you took the time to write so many comments. It shows me, even though you might be angry with me, that I did cause you to think a little bit around your motivation to post a video of an unhappy child.
BRDCHGO 4 years ago
You are so anxious to find fault you have missed the point entirely. Watch the video again and you will find yourself watching a little boy (without tears) in a manipulative moment trying to get his way without saying "Please." Mom is simply encouraging the magic word to be spoken before giving in to his antics.
jjordan07d 4 years ago
At the very end (just as the video shuts off) you hear him say the magic word... "PLEASE." Ahhhh, and there it is! Parents watching this relate because these are developmental steps we have all gone through. This is why the video is so interesting and why you wouldn't vid your spouse crying over a fight with their boss. In fact, this same little boy is several years older now and gets such a kick out of watching this video himself.
jjordan07d 4 years ago 2
See-- I am having this difficulty again with the idea that you are already labelling your own child as being manipulative because he is not saying "the magic word" when you want him to. Do you really think that making him say "please" this way is turning him into a thoughtful person? In many ways, it is no different than making my cat screech before I put down its bowl of food at night. I must ask-- who is the manipulative one?
BRDCHGO 4 years ago
I watched and re-watched the video, and now I find the most disturbing thing to be is your line about "oh no-- here comes a tantrum, here comes a tantrum" which is, just as I pointed out in the begining, a taunt of sorts, or at least a real "mockery" of the situation.
BRDCHGO 4 years ago
(Yawn) If you were a police officer you'd actually write someone a ticket for going 56mph in a 55mph zone. Get a life... go fix REAL problems somewhere.
jjordan07d 4 years ago 4
Kids are manipulative. Adults are manipulative. We are born with it and work on tendencies the rest of our lives. And yes "making" him say please is going to help turn him into a thoughtful person. It is called "T E A C H I N G."
jjordan07d 4 years ago
Bravo!
FireBusterEudial 4 years ago 3
Please and thank you are learned by example - children will see that you are pleased and thankful, and they, too will be thankful - to make someone say please and thank you or even sorry, when they are not pleased, thankful, or sorry is "TEACHING" them to lie! Isn't that interesting? Make sure you are not enabling them to lie or reduce the meaning of these words.
ForeverIsland8078 4 years ago
well, this is an example. she's teaching him that he should say please to get what he wants. (within reason)
and you don't say please when you're pleased. that's totally different. you say please to add politeness when you ask for something.
happykitty11 4 years ago 6
As a family-focused therapist, I just wonder-- have parents ever realized that the word "Tantrum" contains the letters to "T A U N T" which is exactly what many parents do to keep a tantrum going...
BRDCHGO 4 years ago
If you are indeed a "family-focused therapist," then I think you're a little creepy and unnatural the way you choose to engage in such a random way. You've engaged others like me. I know 'cause I checked out your site. Wierd.
jjordan07d 4 years ago
But for kicks and giggles I'll continue the dialog briefly. IF you are what you say you are I highly doubt you even have a "family" of your own yet. Afterall, you are only 35 and I didn't see any "family" videos on you YOUTUBE account. Again... wierd!
jjordan07d 4 years ago
yes, I agree - The reason children have a "tantrum" as some people call it, is because they have authentic emotions, just like us. Most caregivers don't know how to help a child learn more appropriate ways of dealing with emotions - they would rather punish them or threaten or mock the child, who obviously does not feel well. This only creates agression in the child.
ForeverIsland8078 4 years ago
lol he's got stickers all over himself too
everlastingchill 4 years ago
very well handled
mumandtwins 4 years ago
tooo funny
chadwwwick 5 years ago
I heard him say Please right at the last second. too funny
Wickit333 5 years ago
Hilarious!
wackydog07 5 years ago
is it Damien ? :-))
garylex 5 years ago