If your man is cheating on you most likely its YOUR fault!

[carmen3205]

u atrractive get your own man

[BlaziinBeautii]

i Really Agree.!! IF YOU DONT DO IT ANOTHER BITCH WILL.!

[MyTeshia]

I feel ya, you and me have the same mentality

[melanin12345]

Maiya- I get your point and I understand the purpose of your video. I appreciate that, however, what is your opinion on this. Men are driven by their innate tendencies but don't you think that they should allow themselves to be refined and try to resist other women; are they that weak? Maybe so. While in a relationship, we women are not always given what we want, but we don't cheat....I guess we are different?

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@melanin12345 i believe men and women are completly different and need to be treated accordingly....we cannot say because a woman wont cheat even if she hates him men will...Its completly different

[pershingslim]

sup ladys wanna stop your man from cheating how about some surprise head while he watching da game followed by a nice shot of ass he wont even want 2 leave da house dat night

[downtownchicagobarbi]

I totally agree with everything you said. I'm so tired of women talking about I don't know why my man is cheating on me. I want to say I do. You look like shit, gained weight, don't spend any time with him. Your man is staying in shape and you looking sloppy. You have to keep things spicy and alive like when you first got together. Usually if your man is cheating it is your fault. Maiya i like your real talks and the ones that are offended can click the X button. New subbie right here!

[makeupbykandyraye]

BUt i hold it down for my man ill keep it pg but when he brags ab me his boys cant compete with his stories lol but i never bitch a ALWAYS cook a MEAL not heat and eat shit, i had two kids and still got a bangin body and he never sees me without makeup for long so if he ever did cheat hes a fool lol

[carmelcode]

ok let me see.... 2 each they own... do what you do but a man can be str8 up and say he wana leave versus cheating. Thats a coward cuz i would be damned if i stay where i aint happy life is to short the other person will get over it in time. But that cheatin shit thats the quickes way to get fucked up on both parties (no disrepect) and at the end of the day the half the time the husbands dont leave. Now i believe in keepin yo shit tight and together but that aint for no man thats for myself.

[xoErinMcFAllxo]

So basically men are animals and can't control themselves so women have to go through hell and back to "keep their men" I don't think so. I agree that some women will let themselves go and stop caring about their husbands and stop caring about the physical and emotional needs of their husbands, but it's a two sided street. The husband and wife should care about each other enough to respect each others needs and desires Men should have enough decency to divorce their wives before cheating on them

[2browneyez2c]

I can agree with you for the most part. On the flip side I have seen friends of mine that bend over backwards, cook, clean, keep themselves up and STILL get cheated on. I guess nothing is totally fool proof but you do have some valid points. Some men are just dogs regardless of how good of a thing they have at home.

[leelahB1]

My 80 year old grandmother tells every woman this...lol. If you don't take care of your man, there is ALWAYS someone that will. No matter what anyone says, men are visual creatures, they are always looking. So if they're at home with some sloppy chick who let herself go, doesn't cook, clean, fuck, and complains all day. You best believe he is going to cheat lol. Women have to keep their man occupied, if not.....IT'S A WRAP!

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@leelahB1 Your 80 year old grandmother is a very wise woman!

[CHAQUI11]

I am on point for me not he husband BUT you are young 23 is still young (alot to learn) im married Im the one that other men come to as well and i will tell you like i tell them looks (although i am girly girl) superficial cause if you end up in a accident and are disfigured (see it at work all day i work in trauma hospital) you want somone who will love you anyway men are greedy like john edwards his wife was dying of cancer he still couldnot keep it in his pants

[renee304]

Honey I wanted to hear what you had to say so bad but I just could not get past you smacking the gum.  I love your hair:-)

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@renee304 Oh my god, I am so sorry, That is tacky.. I have to learn that people arent into that. I chew gum all day everyday..Ima try and cut that down. Thanks abt my hair though :)

[MSMONNIEE42]

AND TRUST IF HE CHEATIN WIT U HE IS ALSO CHEATIN WIT SUMBODY ELSE U ARE NOT THA ONLY ONE HE CHEATIN WIT AND WHY WOULD THE OTHA WOMAN WANT TO SIT UP AND LISTEN TO HIM TALK ABOUT HIS WIFE ANY WAY HAHAHAHA LOL JUST A SIGN THAT HE LOVES HIS WIFE AND AINT GONE LEAVE HA !!!!

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@MSMONNIEE42 Girl are you high or just not listening to the entire video? This is not a video praising women that sleep with married men. This video is Putting the idiots out that drive thier men to cheat. I wish you ladies were listening, you could learn something. And I dont sleep with married med I know how to treat a man right and when he sees that he leaves his woman....lol! Doesnt mean I get with them. Im just the person they come and talk to. Whatever they do from there is on them.

[sweetma4life]

ok... i cant knock u for this at all... normally i would go off n start to debate, but i feel u. I havent even watch the whole vid yet and i had 2 comment half way thru. My question 2 u is... What about the gorgeous women who do everything and more 4 they man and keep themselves up and they man still cheat, how is it her fault? ive been the girl u say u have been and it felt good at the time but uts a complete waste of time cuz the dude will never be 100% urs. Tell me ur views on my ? pls thnx

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@sweetma4life Thanks for watching, So to address your question I cannot speak for 100% of men and 100% of situiations and I guess I should have made that more clear but that would just be urealistic. Every man Is not good at heart . If a man has woman that does everything for him, takes care of him and is a barbie doll it may be that he is not a one woman type of guy, or that he feels he can walk all over her. Or simply "he wanted to hit something else" So it not her fault ....

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@sweetma4life But then again Its about understanding a man that you have been with for a certain amount of time. The "Men are from Mars and Women are From Venus" theories to me are true "in my opinion" Just like I said If I was in this situiation and I had any inclination that this fucked up scenario was happening to me I would be out quick!But I just want to make it clearwhat this video was intending to be about. . Women who knowingly have men and know they are unhappy, women who let themselves

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@sweetma4life 3/3 cont...go. Women who bitch, nag and complain all the time. Women who do not take the time out to understand their men, and his needs. And women that become so comfortable in their situiation that they feel they dont even need to try anymore, those are specifically the women I am talking to and that I should have pointed out so I will make the correction in an annotation or something. .I hope I addresed you question, Sorry so long but yours was actually a really good one :)

[makeupbykandyraye]

@MaiyaCasiano1 i AGREE 100% like i said i make damn sure i hold in down in the bedroom and everywhere else for my man girl let me tell you, we have two kids i STILL got abs i STILL give him the goods hell if i can find time to cooke naked for my man so he walks in from work and sees it SO CAN EVERY OTHER woman hell our kids are 3 and one month if i can get back into shape SO CAN SHE bitches be stupid its just that simple!

[79rican]

Well i tell you what i was fly when i ment my papi i'm fly now and keep getting flyer so it is what it is i don't give disrespect so i don't get disrespect ad i have been cheatd on to ,but i tell you what they ran right back after two weeks beggin to come back huh and the anwser was no ,but she is rigt men do have feeling they get hurt just like us they mite not show them the way we do but there ,there .all i can say is love your men love your woman what life without love .

[Sabriyah21]

Girl if you get with that man that's complaining about his wife to you, next he will be complaining about you to another pretty girl. Don't go for the sad story man, because all he wants is pitty sex...He don't really want you, and he'll still be with that same women after he finished with you. As for the other stuff that's true you gotta keep your self up, and tend to your man, but most men naturally want more than one women, but mostly he wants to use you as his dirty dish rag

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@Sabriyah21 And that is what this whole video is about! People tend to always look at men as trying to scam , trying to get P*ssy . But when are the mens real feelings put into play? Thats the problem, People forget about thse, people dont't care abot those and they in the long run are losing, Like I said since I KNOW both sides of the fence Its more likely that I wont go for this shit that these wmen are going through. Thats a huge problem, Men are misunderstood but they have feelings too.

[Sabriyah21]

@Sabriyah21 What you are saying maybe true, but as long as he CHOOSES to stay with that women, you should not entertain him don't even give him a tentative ear, all he is doing is running away from his problems,and burdening you. Because trust he is keeping that women around for a reason, other than kids, and mostly likely once he gets what he wants, he will still keep her around. You see, instead of him solving his problem, he is running around complaining to pretty young girls like yourself.

[tom11zz884]

Preach it woman..lol

She is speaking the truth, it isn't the guy's fault all of the time..mostly it is the woman's fault. And she sexy too..lol

[79rican]

Now for a woman who does not take care of her man this is true very true ,but keep in mind there's alot of them who take care of themself make there own money and do them ,but show me a beautiful woman and i'll show you a man who's sick of fucking her point blank .And if your man is like that all the make up and hair do's in the world will not stop him if that's how he is real talk .And when it's time to leave his wife he won't do it and ask's the other one why you fucking my fam up

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@79rican That scenario is new to me, I have always been in the situiation where he will drop everything 4 me. Thats how it goes... And its not abt only hair and makeup, Its the constant nagging, the neverending complaing, the "letting herself gain massive weight" And expecting him to be the same..You changed, so why do you think he will remain the same?

[lilchicoj]

I feel u 100%.....and its vice versa...nukkas take care of ur females.....who eva it is...take care of ur partner!!! Luv u ma!!!

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@lilchicoj love you too :)

[bigballamike88]

werd. glad someone said it! keep yourself up or dont be mad if you get left for something better. *anyone who took this as an attack should be lookin at themselves (or inside) because this advise is ~PRICELESS~

[BDivaAlways]

You speak nothn but the truth. Thank you for bein honest and real. This video has struck a cord with me and I think its time to do me and get it right get it tight.

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@BDivaAlways Im glad you agree, "Alot" of women wont but its because the truth hurts

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@BDivaAlways Thank you for listening, looks like Ima have to change up my videos because I just want women to understand, Im not attacking, Im trying to show you what you always wanted to know about your man. What hes thinking, why he is acting the way he does, WellI I know.

[SinfulyBeautiful]

Bottom line is,there is NO reason to cheat. If your not happy then leave, PERIOD!! . The only reason why this Ni99a is complaining to the next chick about how bad his marriage is, is to get in the panties. And the naive chick that he's telling this to and gassing her head up to think that he's going to be with her when he FINALLY decides to leave the marriage is, STUPID. There are men who have beautiful wives that work and take care of home, and yet STILL find a reason to cheat. Dont be a whore

[MaiyaCasiano1]

@SinfulyBeautiful NICELY PUT! BUT THE TOTAL MESSAGE IS NOT ABOUT CHEATING ITS ABOUT KEEPING YOUR SELF TOGETHER WHICH IN TURN KEEPS YOUR HOME TOGETHER. CHEATING WAS IN THE TITLE BUT GOES WAY DEEPER THAN THAT

[musicbylate]

preach , preach on sista..lol