Mary J Blige- Your child [+lyrics]

[MrSmokie1]

I LOVE THIS VIDEO AND SONG !!!!!!!!

[BombshellMorena]

lmao , damn the first top comment tho !!that is absolutely terrible

[kissy710]

now that i am older i understand why my mother was listening to this song.

[priitty1984]

well me and my ex soon to be husband had a talk about a child that is his but he talking like it aint HE IS A DOG FORREAL

[wr513]

Sing girl!!!

[RyanKeith08]

@MzLonelyy Wow Look Like You Just Another One On The List

[KgK0]

my nigga Z-Ro - No Help

[MerdTheTurd93]

this was the shit way back when. me and my mama would roll down the street in our new car and sing this shit word for word....

[cutiebates03]

Ladies please do not have sex until you can FINANCIALLY, EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY AND PHYSICALLY handle ALL the RESPONSIBILITIES!

[yemonja100]

@cutiebates03 And Gentlemen as well. Word. Drop that science on the real.

[MizzTrinieFyre]

@22hahame Im going thru it. I look at it like this, I get all the love for myself and dont have to share.

[litwestlovinchiq]

similar experience ... :\

[RaeElzie]

How in the hell can you dislike this?

[wr513]

1999 was a great year for music period...

[17Tazia]

@MzLonelyy Damn I'm so sorry about that hun. You're right tho, we gotta keep pushing.

[n1nar0ss]

MJB was on point vocally on this track! Heartfelt....."she wasn't disrespectful..in fact she's 100% SURE"....

[MrKevin619ism]

This joint was all that. The album "Mary" from 1999 is my second best album from her. "My Life" is # 1.

[diamondrose320]

I loved this song so much and now after being in the same situation as the girl she speaks about its crazy now she was disrespectful but she will get whats coming to her because he's a cheater and he claim he still loves me but i'm too smart for this

[shatwybadd05]

love dis song it mke mr think of alot of thing i cant lisen to it witout cryin

[skeheens1]

sadly this song is more relevant than ever. Until the brothers realise that being a parent isn't optional ,things won't change. Me & my girl are bringing up her daughter together as her father didn't want the responsibility. Thankfully we're very happy and i regard her as my own and feel blessed that she feels happy to have me in her life. This beautiful song just hits home how you can't treat children as asomething to be disregarded. Time for the men to act like real men and not players.

[kiwicutie7415]

i love this song

[RAV52]

It's probably not even difficult for MJB to write and perform songs this dope because she actually LIVED it before she ever put pen to paper!

[cece1245williams]

love tha song dont be crazy listen to tha song

[DoomCity202]

But at the end of the day yall bitches do make some fucked up ass choices.

Ever since high school i have study the choices and the outcome

I always fucked with the smart nerdy girls these other bitches dont

do shit but hair and nails anyways.

[DoomCity202]

These bitch ass niggas would rather buy some Nike foam posite joints than pay for a baby

them shits ugly as hell if you axe me. but then bitch ass niggas cant really dress anyway

they just where what other bitch ass niggas be wearing.

[DoomCity202]

@MzLonelyy dont feel bad its something about these bitch type niggas that women love

the kind of niggas that are good fathers & good men are usually looked @ as lames

@ weak etc. I never understood how that shit worked so i just wore condoms. Make

sure u tell your friends how rough it is as a single mother so they stay on the pill cause

these bitch ass niggas are out 4self all day 24/7 & dont give a fuck about these girls

or these babies & cry when they have 2pay an easy $300mo CS B.A.Ns

[DoomCity202]

This shit here is Heroin

This was the last great era of great RNB slow songs

production performance and lyrically excellent

[10251991JRH]

Which one came first? This one or Z-ro's "No Help"?

[PoppaDon317]

@10251991JRH this did

[10251991JRH]

@PoppaDon317 Oh ok.

[alexis2cute19]

MARY DELIVERS STRONG,MEANINGFUL,AND REALISTIC MUSIC THAT HITS UR SOUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LUV U MARY UR SUCH POWERFUL WOMAN!<3

[Daimetra1]

Mary been thru hella shitt from drugs, to being abused wowww she's a POWERFUL, IDEPENDENT,TALENTED, women with an amazingg voiceee and i LOVEEE her she's like my 2nd mother ! =) Nomatter what life bringss u, u gotta push thru it !

[BabyCheecksMeez]

I Have A Baby Boy And My Weak Ass Baby Daddy Played Me Telling Me He Loves Me But 1 Month After My Baby Was Born 2 Girls With Babies In There Hands That Looked Like Him Came To My House And Told Me That He Played Us All And Those His Kids I Cried For Hours Now I'm Own My On And I'm Happy But Still Wish My Baby Had A Family Like Didn't But I Am Friends With Those Girls I Keep Up Hope For The Future And For A Better Father Figure For Him.

[TopShotta10904]

@MzLonelyy I hope u keep it pushing and don't settle for less than u and ur son deserve ma.... A man can leave, education doesn't, make a way 4 u & ur child

[butterflii08]

"Won't deny it's hurting me. Yet so precious." Thanks for the lyrics! This song is the truth.

[Thedarksecret1]

@MzLonelyy You should be mad that he's a cradle robber. You're 16 and he's an adult? Hmmm....

[majoracts]

i love this song



[MarieCurry251]

@MzLonelyy Good Luck, Girl; I Hope All Works Out Good 4 U Nd Ur Son!!



[ItalianGreenEyez28]

Why do people ALWAYS have to say things like "a strong black woman/man"? Why do we have to acknowledge the obvious? Can't we just leave race out of shit and just say that she's a strong woman? She's not the first WOMAN to know struggle, to know addiction, to know prejudice, to know hate. EVERYONE of EVERY race is subjected to the same. She is a beautiful, amazing, soulful singer and she's strong with an amazing talent! I didn't have to acknowledge her ethnicity in order to justify her strength.

[strippersandhomework]

@MzLonelyy that sucks...not for you but for all of those kids who are being born into shitty situations, and they are the only ones who need any kind of sympathy. if you weren't ready for a baby, then you shouldn't have done what it takes to create one. What's done is done but I really hope you get your shit together for the sake of your kid so the cycle doesn't continue. ever heard of a condom?

[cookiecrusher1]

ithink this is awonderful sonqq icant relate to it cuss im only15......but iunderstands what she qoinn thru mary the best she make you fell like it you**&oneday it mite...but men needah step up`

[pretibrowniss]

This is an utter tragic...that man could such a thing....who did that???? mmh smh

[moneak1000]

omg cant relate... but dis my shit... mary is a legend

[MissFinn275]

I love this song! It reminds me of the Mojave. :D

[YourPlace2Play]

I Love You Mary :)

[marlenem85]

@MzLonelyy JUST do right by u and ur baby ,, hopefully u will find someone to treat u and ur baby right and move past this.. dont give into him and his bs cuz it seems he has a smooth mouth.. no disrescept idk know him .. but thats wrong,,, i wish u and the baby much luck im a single mom also and had my son at 15 but I AM NOW 25 and live on my own with my 2 kids and im doing good,, u can too :] mucho amor mija...

[yyaham]

love love love this ong

[chalimon77]

i love mary she's tha best

[datsexiigurl14rmROSE]

my daughter's father needed this song.......during my early stages of pregnancy///bkuz he steadily dined her//the reality soon came when she was born Spet 2010 n her said I'll neva forget when u had me listen to this song

[str8OuttaNaptown30]

WHAT KINDA MAN ARE YOU!!!

[SuperCortezia]

lovee thiiss videoo thiiss usseedd too bee thee sonqq onn thee highhway ! ahah =)

[Kpobrek]

Yes!!!!

[ItsMista]

im a thirty year old male and i like this song, this is when she was going through all her problems and was still making good music

[MzLuscIousTay]

ahh found this song love it

[hrhm2008]

This is my life right now. I swear its a song for every situation in life.

[pretibrowniss]

yeap its ur child...hey 2:51 looks like Eve a lil bit

[MsSnookie10]

@pretibrowniss uhhh no it didnt :|

[MegaPoohgurl]

@MsSnookie10

sho'll dnt u blind.

[pretibrowniss]

yeap its ur child

[ccgurl101]

To 1010betty I did not mean to be I would know how to spell secerecy because it is my name

[ccgurl101]

you spelled secerecys worng that is how you spell it i would know

[10108betty]

@ccgurl101 you spelled wrong wrong ha ha (:

[mzjoaquinhenderson09]

It takes a real woman 2 put up with a man n his b/s

[theTONGUEinCHEEK]

YESSS.!! Mary J. Blige's vocals give me my LIFE.! lol.

[VenniDatStud]

i <3 mary

[taliakissme1]

i love diz sng

[PinkWizdom7]

i totally agree with xoxoALLiE1oxox...omg i used 2 cry at the age of 14 to My Life... u can hear that her soul was hurt and it was expressed so well thru song..mmm mm mmm... maty is in a whole nother class them these new broads ..she is a legend now she put it down... real issues mmm mm mmmmmmm that alot of us can relate 2....

[Lazzygyrl]

It's easy to tell someone what you think they should do, but unless you have been in that situation and have experienced that intensity of pain, you will never really understand. I don't knock no woman for not accepting a child that her man has had during a their relationship. This ish just doesn't happen on Maury Povich. It happens for real, and you will never know it till it hits close to your home.

[anointedalan]

PRAISE THE LORD...FOR THIS...MARY...JANE...BLIGE...F­YI FROM THE ALAN ALFRED LIDDELL GAZETTE!!!

[Lazzygyrl]

Wow I thought I was the only woman going through something like this. But my husband is suffering and paying for it everyday. Nothing against the child, but that adulterous seed will never be welcomed to my house hold. That's my husband problem as long as I'm concerned. I'm not leaving my household for no fly by night...

[kellymingram]

@Lazzygyrl how is u man suffering.the child is the one thats going to suffer and ur man must be weak.

[Lazzygyrl]

@kellymingram 

[Lazzygyrl]

Respond to this video, You only know part of what I told you, not the whole story. What I'm saying is my husband is suffering due to me forgiving but never forgetting how he violated our marriage. Everyone of us has done something at one point or another that we truly regret. Some situations are more damaging than others. I don't care who agree's or doesn't. I was here before that child, I don't hold any hate towards the innocent child, but I won't be fake about it and welcome him.

[CityHigh15]

in love with this song!! :D

[bitchimray]

she qot it in in this sonq..i feel dat. real shit

[pathorne1]

her and keshia cole sing to some of the tightest beats!

[shakidaj]

wow....im goping through sumn like this now!!!

[TheMichelle49]

Ladies isn't this how this shit goes down messing around with low down lying ass men.

[Meka2able]

I went threw this my husband and i learn to forgive but i wont forget

[MsPickles9]

@Meka2able Sum advice...if he did it once....he'll probably do it again..next time with a condom!...watch ur back.

[Meka2able]

@Meka2able Thank for the advice I got my eyes on ms pickles9

[MsPickles9]

It's a shame MOST guys do deny there children...knowin damn well they fucked up!

[fameonline01]

omg i love this song i swear it just make you wanna cry just listening to it or maybe im just to emotional!

[MrLsands18]

this is so cool omg i luv her

[angiew3110]

good song ,, tell the truth ,,,humm

[modelNactress]

this is the best song ever!! ppl go thru this situation all the time! i love mary

[KayCeya]

Omg This Is My Song !!!!

[LouisianaMac]

So this is where trae and Z-ro sampled no help from, i feeling this.

[blksophisticado1]

i just dont understand how people listen to her NEW music and are impressed with it . this is where mary comes from.  SOUL MUSIC. which seems to be missing these days.

she's not singing soul no more.

just electronic hip hop with simple lyrics, weak hooks etc.

[sin7182003]

@blksophisticado1

Couldn't agree more...

[pathorne1]

Pretty music and a very pretty voice equates to a very special combination.

[xoxoALLiE1oxox]

mary j is the appity of a strong black woman. after all the drugs

back in the 80's and in the 90's she had some of the most strongest deepest music with meaning. And today she still doin the damn thing; fuck a beyonce fuck a rihanna mary j is where its at wheres its always been.

[deshante2009]

@xoxoALLiE1oxox she came out in the 90s not 80s i agree she do have the most strongest deepest music with meaning..

[pathorne1]

@xoxoALLiE1oxox

She makes me proud to be black......very beautiful person!

[27Shamezzey27]

@xoxoALLiE1oxox u rite on for tht one the women got it still 2 this day

[NicNic704]

@xoxoALLiE1oxox I kno rite Mary is the best I dnt care what nobody say!!!!!!

[Thedarksecret1]

@xoxoALLiE1oxox What the hell is "appity"? Do you mean epitome?

[yemonja100]

@Thedarksecret1 LOL.



[blakboi4321]

@xoxoALLiE1oxox You say "fuck Beyonce" and yet you can't spell EPITOME. Guess you said "fuck education" too, huh?

[TheRoyaleQueen]

And i wouldnt even call them "men"

[CleveJones2010]

this mug jam mann

[shawtygotteeth]

this is her best song ever

[cookie335]

i luv dis song ut's to bad baby but i gotta face reality mary is one of the best in singing

[thurlyungbuck1]

This happened 2 mhe :-(

[Kingravens1]

dis song iz deep!!

[phazeurite]

its 2 bad, its 2 bad, its 2 bad, i gooooota face reality!!!!!

[thewifeysince06]

yes mary...aint it the truth.....i put dis on MY LIFE the same shit happened to me in 2006

[MGLOV21]

This song is a classic ! Mary keep doin your thing ! May God continue to bless you !

[MariahhhXOX]

i like thiss songg. :)

[WestUnit1]

I Love This Song

[keimaria1125]

my song

[tatababe95]

i was born in da year 95 but i still know abt dat old school musiq

[DESHAWNaaatrugbc]

Haha this song is so great.....I just picked up the official celltone for it 2 at TheSickestTones. com if u want it x

[barreralthdj]

If u like this song rock it on your phone I got it at DownloadEveryTone . com --------

[lonman80]

NICE pix of Mary @ 2:08 & 2:33

[RealHipHopSucks93]

I WONDER IS THIS SONG About ki-ci

[ghanboy]

It's about Akon.

[RealHipHopSucks93]

It's about ki-c

[ghanboy]

Yeah, I was just being silly. I know Mary J. Blige ain't never been in no relationship with Akon.

[ALL0UT0FL0VE]

i REMEMBER WHEN i WAS iN A SiMiLAR SiTUTATiON....

[Dhollywood]

the producer of this song got this instrumental fom the song "Fucking You Tonight" by The Notorius B.I.G f/ R. Kelly on biggie's life after death album..the producer just remade it.

[coreyray18]

classic

[Shutitdown5]

Some of the lyrics that were typed was wrong!!!!!

[ls74lif3]

this song is sikkkkkk!!!

[inuyasha98fan]

u said sick????if u did your an jackass

[TheRoyaleQueen]

he didnt mean that literally! it's slang it means really really good basically.

[Mayamook567]

l0v3 dis s0ng!!!!!!!!!!

[sparkledust121]

A PURE EXCELLENT CLASSIC!!!!!!

gimme thumbs up!

[Laura325]

LOVE this song!

[Raynester1]

i love this song so much

[whitegurlgotmoves]

i heart dis song 100%

[kymmirox]

THIS IS THE SONG

[breegotti011]

U Right