If you a person is not scared to come out and be who they are then they are extremely strong and probably the best person out in the world. I admire everyone who's not afraid to be who they are and come out. It's very inspiring and I'm greatful there is strong and great people like that out there.
Todo mundo é bonito, magro e bem vestido nesse clipe, deveria ter mais abrangências, como pessoas acima do peso, feias, que sofrem bullying com deficiências... faltou muita coisa pra falar sobre "igualdade" não só sobre ser homossexual...
why this song isn't so populars as should be? this is great song. I'm listening it all the time like 10 times per day ;] Ricki great job, and I can't wait on next hit!
Gee!!! I just can't believe what kind of discussion we have here! Ppl, don't you hear the song?!? What's the matter of everything else?!!? I just don't get it! As long as someone there is what to show everything else is bullshit. And surely everyone has something to protrude with! Please, just enjoy the song!
Who cares what his sexual orientation is? Why is it a factor? He's a talented artist, and he can do whatever in the fuck he wants to do with said talent. Enabling the haters only gives them a voice, so just ignore the uneducated, judging idiots and enjoy the music.
Mucho amor de Ricky... ustedes son una inspiración.
Stop Trolling banananut, there's actually MORE PROOF the other way. Look at the celebs coming out now & admitting that they chose the gay lifestyle. Actress Cinthia Nixon is the latest, but there's a long list of famous people flip-flopping Elton John, Anne Heche, Lindsay Lohan, Michael Stipe, & now Ricky (who's had several hetero relationships).
I agree it doesn't make him any less of a person, but let's stick to the facts, there's virtually NO agreed upon scientific evidence that ur born gay
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@timjdong I'm not trolling, you are. No one would choose to be mocked every day of their life. It's who they're attracted to. That's it. And if it's a choice then you choose to be gay right now. Do it. You can't? That's because it isn't a choice, dumbass.
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Me being a gay male, I do not find it to be a choice. Why would we in the homosexual community make the CHOICE to live a lifestyle that is CONSTANTLY ran down by close minded people of the hetero community? I was raised in a very religious family so my life has not been easy at all! Plus on top of that I live in TN. I have tried so many times to be sexually attracted to a woman! But I could never do it! People take their life because they are probably being bullied or something in that category!
Hey, why you care about his personal life, about his sexual orientation? He is opened about it, but you are kinda mean. I see him and I enjoy his voice and look. And most of you see him and are like: I see a GAY! I hear a GAY! I really don´t like the way you are thinking... !
sorry, left a bit of Cinthia Nixon's quote out, should read "A certain section of our community IS VERY CONCERNED it (gayness) not be seen as a choice..."
Quote from LESBIAN actress Cinthia Nixon (from Sex & the City), "For me its a choice & u don't get to define my gayness 4 me. A certain section of our community that it NOT BE SEEN AS a CHOICE, b/c if it's a choice we could opt out. I say it doesn't matter if we flew here or swam here, it matters that we r here..."
Looks like ur not born gay after all, by yet another lesbian's own admission. She happens 2 be divorces & has 2 kids, before choosing 2 b gay.
@garyconditjr In the very same interview she said that she still loves men, and she just goes to women when she's "bored" of men. She isn't gay. She's bisexual. She's deluded and it's not fair that she's speaking for the entire gay community.
Wow, I had no idea ppl get SO upset about this. This is my own take guys, not trying to codemn anyone. Neither myself or any of my closest friends were truly at peace living the gay lifestyle. Since giving it up, I'd say I have found my true self. I still struggle at times sexually, like anybody, but I have found satisfaction & peace in a healthier way 2 live.
If anyone else it at the same place of despair & self-loathing that I was, there's HoPe! Believe in yourself & do what u know is right.
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@bradjrhenstrom Alright, fair enough. So, are you saying that you've accepted yourself and comfortable with your sexuality? Personally, I do not wish to struggle sexually and I will be at peace with my lifestyle, because God made me the way I am and I can't really change whom I am attracted to. And we do not question God's creation.
@Arshavin23rd I'm no Bible scholar, & totally think it's Ricky decision if he wants to be gay & I don't judge him 4 it; but wouldn't it be contradicting 4 God to say don't be gay (which is both in the Old Test. in Deut., & New Test. Corinthians) & then MADE certain people gay. And wouldn't we assume God, who is good & loving, wouldn't do such a cruel thing. I don't know, I'm not gay so don't have any personal experience but, most ppl take the Bible 2 b God's word.
if you're not happy with the way you live, then its okay; personally, I don't think people should deny their feelings, but if those feelings don't bring peace to you, then don't act on them I guess
@bradjrhenstrom There would be no despair and self-loathing, if religions and society didnt hate on innocent people simply because of who they love. And btw if you still "struggle at times sexually," I have news for you. You are still a homosexual.
@bradjrhenstrom Lets face it: you still like men, that's why you're struggling sexually with women; therefore you didn't find your true self, you are living a lie. You weren't living at peace living the gay lifestyle because you let other people get into your head get you to hate yourself so you changed to satisfy them. Are you sure you have found satisfaction and peace when you're living a lie? Your true self is gay, accept it and love yourself as you are which is unconditional love.
@bradjrhenstrom you cant just give it up you are born gay you didnt choose to it isnt like oh today im gay hmmm and tomorow im straight i myself am lesbian and the first time i came out of the closet i wasnt happier yeah there where people who hate it but i dont care and im out and proud dont hide yourself be happy and it isnt healhty to keep it inside but look i you are happy than its okay i just wanted to let you read this so you maybe understand no hard feelings:) srry for the bad english
@bradjrhenstrom I am not here to condemn you either and say your sexuality is wrong, it's yours to make, but saying being gay is unhealthy and wrong is NOT true. Not all gay's self-loath, and if they do it might be because of the hell they're put through because unfortunately people think like you do, that it's wrong or unhealthy. There is no right or wrong when it comes to sexuality; it just is there, and it's up to themselves to find it, not you or anyone else.
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A gay man makes a song about how everyone is equal and that love is always beautiful thing, no matter your race, gender or social status. The two highest ranking comments on youtube are about how gayness is wrong and that apparently there is a "gay agenda"? That's the saddest thing ever. Still, people like Ricky Martin makes me believe there is hope for this world.
Na verdade ele nasceu na Ilha de Porto Rico que pertence aos Estados Unidos, e lá, fala-se os dois idiomas. Curto Ricky Martin desde minha adolescência, vi minha filha crescer escutando ele, e até ja nos falamos, uma vez, por telefone. Considero seu trabalho de muito bom gosto, e me inspiro nele pra fazer o meu. Quanto a suas escolhas, cabe a Deus julgar, e como na propria música, somos iguais do ponto de vista dele. O clipe foi bem produzido, e a musica é muito boa, leve, e já estou baixando.
noosa outra musica espiiradora que merece a um cantor Americano e canta em espanhol,nós não podemos jungar o livro pela a capa qual vai ser a diferença se ele é gay ou não??
how come songs like this get only almost 7mil views while Beaver's crap got 700mil views? this song is 100 times better than those.... seriously, what is wrong with everyone's music taste? :<
@LasLatinidades Btw you have to audition for these roles in these music video(s), fat people are fat... most of them are lazy and some are mean, i dont think they would get up and audition for this.
Yes, but, in the world, there are many persons: beautiful, skinny, fat, short, tall. We need to give space for all of them. Most part of real persons don´t have a face and/or body of model.
@Bigbillpipps Gay agenda? -.-.Do you think about what your saying or doing? anyway..if you don't like the song that does not make it "sucks" because others do..and if you are respecting the others and the equality between people despite all the differences you wont be writing such a stupid comment..anyway he have the absolute right to sing and say anything he want as long as he is not harming anyone..as you had the right to write that comment and i have to reply. just try to be little bit nicer.
No understand why some people talk too much....And get so stressful and negative about everything,if is not insults about race,then is insults of being gay,insults about religion,insults about sports,insults about the way you look,critizice and more then this then that,bla blabla.....Get better,no get BITTER!!!
THE SONG HAVE A NICE LYRICS AND IS ENJOYABLE FOR SOME OF US !!!! I JUST SIMPLY LOVE MUSIC!!!! ~Peace and Love Everybody!!!!
Ok why come up here to talk shit?? If you are not gay you have no idea what it's like so please just shut the fuck up already i mean really.GET A LIFE
h this makes me so sad that people would judge and treat other people like this... dont judge a path before you walk a journey. My mom hated gays untill she realised she was one and it hurt her so badly when people like treated her this way. What youre saying is hurtful and rude. I'm in 8th grade and I'm more mature than all of you. I can't wait to share this with GSA. I can't believe this, never in my life have I seen such bullying and harrasment by grown ups this is terryfying.
@SwingSideStory Wow! Sounds like my family's not the only 1 that's messed up. A couple things I wish u'd consider though:
1) Everyone makes judgments. Was Hitler evil to do what he did? Of course. If someone kills ur pet on purpose, is that wrong? Of course. Those r both judgments that no one would dispute. In fact, we make judgments every day about what's right & wrong.
2) Homosexuality is a self-loathesome prison for many. While pleasurable, it's also a trap that's hard to get out of.
@bradjrhenstrom It's actually a very serious issue. While politically incorrect to say homosex. isn't natural - 2 many youths caught up in the gay lifestyle, @ the same time detest it (take my story 4 example). In spite of everyone around u & the media saying it's alright 2 b gay, it was never satisfying & always left me empty.
I have several friends who've taken their own lives or attempted 2 do so, even when everyone around them was supporting their choice, b/c inside they knew it 2 b wrong.
Bullying is wrong whether striaght or gay, so is harrasment. This is a comments board though, by the way. No one's getting knocked around, threatened or acosted here, regardless of their views. YouTube does promote free speech correct?!
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@bradjrhenstrom What you say about being gay is what I believe about Christians. They seem empty and unhappy, angry and judgmental. And virgin births and people getting up from the dead is FAR FROM NATURAL! Love being a gay man commiited to my husband for nearly 25 years. PEACE OUT!
@bradjrhenstrom and it looks like youre trying to satisfy yourself in all the wrong ways (sorry i didnt read the beging of the comment last time, ooops!) try moving up here, find some one you really love weather it be a guy or a girl, and just be happy!
This is obviously a pathetic attempt to sound authentic. When in fact, its merely a person who is motivated by a political agenda. You have to remember that there are lots of evangelical (so-called) christians who push their anti-gay agenda by typing on blogs on Yahoo, YouTube, etc. Their purpose is to influence public opinion. But this blogging-for-politics method only works for the naive, the stupid, and the uneducated.
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@bradjrhenstrom I'd love to take a minute and comment on how delusional you are. First off, just because it was not satisfying for you and that you felt empty does not mean it was the same for everyone. Most gays I've met were happy and accepting toward themselves. So your weak argument is supported by only a single testimony. Homosexuality is not wrong, nor is it a disorder. Take a few psychology classes and then we can talk. On another note, it's quite a sad life you have, mate. I pity you.
one day you will see that you cant change who you are.
its not being gay that leaves you empty... its not accepting who you are and worrying about how society sees you. I may not have the perfect life (own a house, and have someone that loves me and i love in return) but im happy with who I am. Amen Ricky... Also one thing that also leaves you feeling empty is comparing your life to others... you can be as happy and have the same future. love is love!
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@bradjrhenstrom You feel its a wrong choice because you are used to the idea that its wrong :) I used to feel that way with my size.Yes people can tell me,its ok to be a plus size women. But my surrounding?Stores only sale normal size clothing,Waitress ALWAYS ask me in disbelieve when I only order salad and water.That make me always feels not okay. But then, I ask my self..Do I want to change?Is it so uncomfortable,that I need to change?Who am I? Its a long process,but finally I find my peace :)
So r Pedophiles BORN PEDOPHILES?! Of course NOT u loon! They get into child porn, often were abused themselves & then begin 2 b the abusers. Take a criminal case history class some time, u may find some enlightening clarity & fact, instead of just emotionalism & wishful thinking.
Homosexuality is no different - definitely conditioned BEHAVIORAL CHOICES - often the result of sexual abuse, gay porn, a bad hetero exp., hetero rejection or homo experimentation leading 2 pleasurable experiences.
@garyconditjr You make no fucking sense.... First of all, you wouldn't know how gays feel unless you were one. Second, so straight people CHOOSE to be straight? So right if you wanted to, you can go suck a dick? FYI: straight culture is has porn, pedofiles, sexual abuse,and criminal as well, fucker. Apparently you flunked in your criminal history cus they NEVER discussed the reason for homosexuality. Wrong class, shitdick. No one higher than the other. It's just one has rights & the other don't.
Hetero culture has MANY perversions, but it doesn't make them right just b/c I demand a 'right' 2 practice them.
No one is higher than any1 else, ur also right there - but there r behaviors that shouldn't b applauded anymore, namely perversions in sexuality.
As 4 my class, I was referring 2 cases of pedofilia- my link to homos. was my claim ur not born gay- u become gay from social cond. placed upon u & then choices made by u.
@garyconditjr how do you draw the connection between pedophilia and homosexuality? and actually there are studies going on proposing pedophilia as a sexual orientation..so ya how about you research all sides of an argument and not discount the ones that are damning?
@garyconditjr So if you are exposed to gay porn, you turn gay? Is that's what you're saying? Because it's hard to keep up with your grammar... Now, for someone who can't even take their time to type an argument, I don't think you take your time researching about what you're talking about, so therefore, your argument makes no sense. Check your facts before saying shit on the internet.
Ricky is an amazing man, great singer with beautiful and emotional songs, wonderful voice and sexy dance moves... He has a great personality, very charismatic and adorable... What's most important, he's a good man, and that's what counts. Thank you Ricky for your music, you'll always have many fans all over the world. Being a celebrity isn't easy, without any privacy in your life, but you are a brave man and I believe in you. ♥ Love & Respect ♥ Max
Ricky, love most of ur music but This song Sucks! Please get back to ur slammin' 'Vida Loca,' 'She Bangs,' style songs & stop trying to push on all of us ur Gay agenda. We get enough of that already thank u very much!
@Bigbillpipps It's not a Gay agenda he's portraying. He just showing how we are all equal. Simple. Yeah the song is not catchy but it has a beautiful message.
Excuse me, but if it´s about bullying, the videoclip was not that perfect. There are only persons with body of model. Fat persons suffer bullying. If it´s against bullying, why can´t we see fat actors, only very beautiful persons? It´s not fair.
@Bigbillpipps What is this "gay agenda" that you speak of? Sorry for being impolite, but.. are you fucking retarded? He is saying how we should all be treated equally regardless of the orientation, race, gender, etc. He is trying to eliminate hate and homophobia that seems to be the reason for today's teen suicides and depression. This music video in no way encourages anyone to switch to homosexuality. Way to misinterpret the song.
OMG! Stop talking about sexuality!! and listen to the goddamn song!! If you do and do what the lyrics says, the world will be a better place!! <3 Ricky Marin rocks btw!!
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What is wrong with everyone today. No one can do ANYTHING without being rudely commented on or people criticizing them in public. Ricky Martin is a homosexual, yes, but so are just about a billion people across the globe. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but for now, shut your traps and watch the music video.
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GOD doesn't make mistakes .... and plz don't talk to homosexual ppl in bad way coz that's not there problem they born and have this feelings what they should do ??? that's not there choice they born in this way and they can't change it so plz be nicer
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@TheCoolBoy325 You can't control this world of sexual what it must be or they must follow your negative opinions. What I think is "love is beautiful" whether they are straight or gay. This is a new century, everyone can choose their life. My brother is gay too but only thing i know is that he is a good guy, good biz man. He is the one who we can lean on when we are down and we proud to have him apart of our family. TheCoolBoy, please must be cool like your user name! Boy!
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I love how @Nighttrainstapp talks as if he or she truly knows what happens inside of us. People dont change over night its because of people like you that that they live closeted lives so that they are not judged but want to be love and accepted. Nothing is in black and white YOU should know that. and PLEASE LIST ME THE FACTS YOU HAVE. WHAT PROOF? Im sure its whats in your head...someone coming out IS a choice but its not the reason their gay.
I can't believe how stupid some comments here are. Why does it bother you so much if someone is gay? So you liked Ricky a few years ago but you're disgusted now? He seems happier than ever and I am happy for him. If you hate someone based on their sexual orientation, you're the one with the problem.
hhhh das a bit stupid for the muslim girl coz none condemn love bt its all abt marring her and dnt play with her as a basted lol dats what the rest dnt understand
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GAY IS JUST human like you! They have feelings and some people are idiots, when they just say, " Gays are disgusting and its un-natural like guy" FUCK YOU! I love ricky even his gay. All of you "gay haters" can go to the hell! It is just my opinion.
I want out of your ass for you tasty I am also gay
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MrIluvpeace 8 hours ago
Doesn't mean I don't dream about him liking women again. Oh me Ricky??? =P
mclellantierra 12 hours ago
i agree with everything in this video except the idea of being gay its completely wrong people shouldnt be gay
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sAlainVideos 1 day ago
1334 preconceituosas ñ gostam
Rafaela3866 2 days ago
1334 pessoa(s) não gosta(m) = Pessoas preconceituosas, Homofóbicas, idiot !
ThePitchulaaH 2 days ago
The one in Spanish is so much better.
GreciaENS 3 days ago 4
@GreciaENS so true, thumbs up bro
1992crimsonnoble 2 days ago
i love u ricky martin
dmarioperez15 4 days ago
esta cancion la amo,es lindisima porque nos habla que todos debemos amarnos sin importar las diferencias entre cada persona :O)'
LETICIA70471 4 days ago
Never seen Ricky Martin as happy as he is while singing this. He deserves it, great guy. Igualdade já!
Fernandamarkus 4 days ago 3
I Love Ricky Martin! Definitly!
MarcusSam10001 5 days ago
I love Rickyyyy!!
NYCvee 5 days ago
If you a person is not scared to come out and be who they are then they are extremely strong and probably the best person out in the world. I admire everyone who's not afraid to be who they are and come out. It's very inspiring and I'm greatful there is strong and great people like that out there.
AlmostAry 5 days ago
Ricky Martin is just an amazing human being!
DelpyPicchi 6 days ago 2
пидары извращенцы мужик должен ебать баб
sheffa4ka 6 days ago
FAGS=FREEEKS STOP PROPOGANDA OF HOMOSEC MEN SHUOLD FUCKS WHITH WOMEN
sheffa4ka 6 days ago
@sheffa4ka Shut up and take your homophobia some place else, nobody cares.
EQUALITY FTW.
1235532155 6 days ago 2
A lovely song and a reminder that Martin has a very fine voice.
TheSolaris810 6 days ago
Congratulations!
rubensrosas 1 week ago
spanish version is wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy better
irlenadflower 1 week ago 3
THIS Song is underrated
23LAWILL 1 week ago 3
Wooo hoo que Viva Ricky
dungeounmaster 1 week ago
lanaa cada um aborda o que quizer para de tu ser troxa e vai se fude com seu dedinho...
marcosramosx3 1 week ago
Todo mundo é bonito, magro e bem vestido nesse clipe, deveria ter mais abrangências, como pessoas acima do peso, feias, que sofrem bullying com deficiências... faltou muita coisa pra falar sobre "igualdade" não só sobre ser homossexual...
lanaa94 1 week ago
Barack Obama #PresidentialPlaylist
BBM007 1 week ago
The best guys are taken or gay... a well known fact :(
lanaspiler7 1 week ago 3
why this song isn't so populars as should be? this is great song. I'm listening it all the time like 10 times per day ;] Ricki great job, and I can't wait on next hit!
KingStarVip 1 week ago 6
best part 1:24
awuita4 1 week ago
J'adooooooooooooooooooooooooooooree! Une Si belle chanson avec un si simple et magnifique cilp, ne peut converger que vers la reussite!
youzarssif91 2 weeks ago
TE QUIERO RICKY !! ♥
Mary32822 2 weeks ago
better in spanish
Hernandez101010 2 weeks ago
BELLISSIMA!! MI PIACE DA MORIRE :THE BEST sei tu Rickyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!
musetta44 2 weeks ago
Классная песня....очень милая
Knopkat77 2 weeks ago
like if obama brought you here! ;0)
RMESB 2 weeks ago 6
This song is on President Obama's Official 2012 Campaign Playlist!!! Congratulations Ricky :)
BBM007 2 weeks ago 7
me encanta todo lo de ricky
sapunteta 2 weeks ago
This sounds like a Hakuna Matata song ...
camii8729 2 weeks ago
I prefer the Spanish version
claserebelde2011 2 weeks ago in playlist Más videos de RickyMartinVEVO 3
you know its to take keep it simple, let's take a chance and hope for the best!
ryanmadox 2 weeks ago
I really like this song!!! just listen and understand the meaning.
MJACKIEAZ 2 weeks ago 2
spanish version is still better ;)
CastaCasto 2 weeks ago
@CastaCasto whats the name of the spanish version of the song
irrmakb 2 weeks ago
@irrmakb the name in spanish is "Lo mejor de mi vida eres tú"
camii8729 2 weeks ago
JUST ENJOY THE DAMN SONG.
God, people are so judgemental.. ?
NvrShoutNvr93 2 weeks ago 3
lindoooooo......
manuelsnooker 2 weeks ago
Gee!!! I just can't believe what kind of discussion we have here! Ppl, don't you hear the song?!? What's the matter of everything else?!!? I just don't get it! As long as someone there is what to show everything else is bullshit. And surely everyone has something to protrude with! Please, just enjoy the song!
SuperThrillkiller 2 weeks ago
Who cares what his sexual orientation is? Why is it a factor? He's a talented artist, and he can do whatever in the fuck he wants to do with said talent. Enabling the haters only gives them a voice, so just ignore the uneducated, judging idiots and enjoy the music.
Mucho amor de Ricky... ustedes son una inspiración.
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Being gay is scientifically proven not to be a choice. Now shut the fuck up, grow a brain, and do some damn research.
banananutmuffin24 3 weeks ago 2
Stop Trolling banananut, there's actually MORE PROOF the other way. Look at the celebs coming out now & admitting that they chose the gay lifestyle. Actress Cinthia Nixon is the latest, but there's a long list of famous people flip-flopping Elton John, Anne Heche, Lindsay Lohan, Michael Stipe, & now Ricky (who's had several hetero relationships).
I agree it doesn't make him any less of a person, but let's stick to the facts, there's virtually NO agreed upon scientific evidence that ur born gay
timjdong 2 weeks ago 4
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@timjdong I'm not trolling, you are. No one would choose to be mocked every day of their life. It's who they're attracted to. That's it. And if it's a choice then you choose to be gay right now. Do it. You can't? That's because it isn't a choice, dumbass.
banananutmuffin24 2 weeks ago
amuh essa musica biel a melhor coisa em mim e vc <3
kedinagomes 3 weeks ago
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Me being a gay male, I do not find it to be a choice. Why would we in the homosexual community make the CHOICE to live a lifestyle that is CONSTANTLY ran down by close minded people of the hetero community? I was raised in a very religious family so my life has not been easy at all! Plus on top of that I live in TN. I have tried so many times to be sexually attracted to a woman! But I could never do it! People take their life because they are probably being bullied or something in that category!
IZICMORGAN 3 weeks ago
How did they ever convince xerxes to play a part in this video?
blackbelt1123 3 weeks ago
Felicidades,
tu eres un artista... y como artistas sabes que es natural q tus obras gusten a unos y disgunten a otros...
A mi me gusta tu musica y me agradan tus videos (no me hace especial frente a nadie) ...sigue adelante!!!
MrZheta100 3 weeks ago
Hey, why you care about his personal life, about his sexual orientation? He is opened about it, but you are kinda mean. I see him and I enjoy his voice and look. And most of you see him and are like: I see a GAY! I hear a GAY! I really don´t like the way you are thinking... !
MissSerialFan 3 weeks ago
sorry, left a bit of Cinthia Nixon's quote out, should read "A certain section of our community IS VERY CONCERNED it (gayness) not be seen as a choice..."
please forgive the typo!
garyconditjr 3 weeks ago 2
Quote from LESBIAN actress Cinthia Nixon (from Sex & the City), "For me its a choice & u don't get to define my gayness 4 me. A certain section of our community that it NOT BE SEEN AS a CHOICE, b/c if it's a choice we could opt out. I say it doesn't matter if we flew here or swam here, it matters that we r here..."
Looks like ur not born gay after all, by yet another lesbian's own admission. She happens 2 be divorces & has 2 kids, before choosing 2 b gay.
garyconditjr 3 weeks ago 8
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@garyconditjr In that case, she is not 'Lesbian'. She is bisexual, who happens to have sorted her priority right, after a long time.
Have you heard about a certain Ellen DeGeneres?
Forget Ellen, I am a young GAY MAN from India, who is proud to be who he is, but I did NOT choose to be GAY.
Now I can only hope that my argument will hold the same weight as Ms. Cinthia Nixon.
Stop trying to prove a point about which you yourself clearly don't have a clear idea.
MrBetterlivetoday 3 weeks ago
@garyconditjr In the very same interview she said that she still loves men, and she just goes to women when she's "bored" of men. She isn't gay. She's bisexual. She's deluded and it's not fair that she's speaking for the entire gay community.
IndiscreetNinja 5 days ago
Wow, I had no idea ppl get SO upset about this. This is my own take guys, not trying to codemn anyone. Neither myself or any of my closest friends were truly at peace living the gay lifestyle. Since giving it up, I'd say I have found my true self. I still struggle at times sexually, like anybody, but I have found satisfaction & peace in a healthier way 2 live.
If anyone else it at the same place of despair & self-loathing that I was, there's HoPe! Believe in yourself & do what u know is right.
bradjrhenstrom 3 weeks ago 27
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@bradjrhenstrom Alright, fair enough. So, are you saying that you've accepted yourself and comfortable with your sexuality? Personally, I do not wish to struggle sexually and I will be at peace with my lifestyle, because God made me the way I am and I can't really change whom I am attracted to. And we do not question God's creation.
Arshavin23rd 3 weeks ago
@Arshavin23rd I'm no Bible scholar, & totally think it's Ricky decision if he wants to be gay & I don't judge him 4 it; but wouldn't it be contradicting 4 God to say don't be gay (which is both in the Old Test. in Deut., & New Test. Corinthians) & then MADE certain people gay. And wouldn't we assume God, who is good & loving, wouldn't do such a cruel thing. I don't know, I'm not gay so don't have any personal experience but, most ppl take the Bible 2 b God's word.
Hollywoodtoole 3 weeks ago
@bradjrhenstrom
I respect your take on this ;)
if you're not happy with the way you live, then its okay; personally, I don't think people should deny their feelings, but if those feelings don't bring peace to you, then don't act on them I guess
Quinton111100 2 weeks ago
@bradjrhenstrom There would be no despair and self-loathing, if religions and society didnt hate on innocent people simply because of who they love. And btw if you still "struggle at times sexually," I have news for you. You are still a homosexual.
darkwolfx333 2 weeks ago 4
@darkwolfx333 AGREE 100 % !!!
valikk1984 2 weeks ago
@bradjrhenstrom Lets face it: you still like men, that's why you're struggling sexually with women; therefore you didn't find your true self, you are living a lie. You weren't living at peace living the gay lifestyle because you let other people get into your head get you to hate yourself so you changed to satisfy them. Are you sure you have found satisfaction and peace when you're living a lie? Your true self is gay, accept it and love yourself as you are which is unconditional love.
joseg1787 1 week ago 20
@bradjrhenstrom you cant just give it up you are born gay you didnt choose to it isnt like oh today im gay hmmm and tomorow im straight i myself am lesbian and the first time i came out of the closet i wasnt happier yeah there where people who hate it but i dont care and im out and proud dont hide yourself be happy and it isnt healhty to keep it inside but look i you are happy than its okay i just wanted to let you read this so you maybe understand no hard feelings:) srry for the bad english
Missmetall1 1 week ago 4
@bradjrhenstrom condemn*
zizaa93 1 week ago
@bradjrhenstrom I am not here to condemn you either and say your sexuality is wrong, it's yours to make, but saying being gay is unhealthy and wrong is NOT true. Not all gay's self-loath, and if they do it might be because of the hell they're put through because unfortunately people think like you do, that it's wrong or unhealthy. There is no right or wrong when it comes to sexuality; it just is there, and it's up to themselves to find it, not you or anyone else.
iksagor 2 days ago
Do-do-do-dooh, do- do do do do!
...Smile on my face has no remedy
Hollywoodtoole 4 weeks ago
I don't care he's gay, he's damn hot!
09EEEEEEEEEeeeeeeeee 4 weeks ago 2
spanish ver. sounds better :/
XxkloudxX354 4 weeks ago
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A gay man makes a song about how everyone is equal and that love is always beautiful thing, no matter your race, gender or social status. The two highest ranking comments on youtube are about how gayness is wrong and that apparently there is a "gay agenda"? That's the saddest thing ever. Still, people like Ricky Martin makes me believe there is hope for this world.
InComfortableShoes 4 weeks ago
from WHERE I remember : I am as happy as I can be 0:41 please help cuz' I am freakin' out... Besides that - best song ever...!!!
MISSSOFSI 4 weeks ago
Ricky Martin loves it in the ass...lol
jokerfrown 1 month ago
Na verdade ele nasceu na Ilha de Porto Rico que pertence aos Estados Unidos, e lá, fala-se os dois idiomas. Curto Ricky Martin desde minha adolescência, vi minha filha crescer escutando ele, e até ja nos falamos, uma vez, por telefone. Considero seu trabalho de muito bom gosto, e me inspiro nele pra fazer o meu. Quanto a suas escolhas, cabe a Deus julgar, e como na propria música, somos iguais do ponto de vista dele. O clipe foi bem produzido, e a musica é muito boa, leve, e já estou baixando.
Adayyane 1 month ago
noosa outra musica espiiradora que merece a um cantor Americano e canta em espanhol,nós não podemos jungar o livro pela a capa qual vai ser a diferença se ele é gay ou não??
MegaLeandro5000 1 month ago
THE BEST:::::una canzone deliziosa!! una canzone felice!Ricky ..la tua musica scalda il mio cuore e la mia casa ...tvtb..
musetta44 1 month ago
how come songs like this get only almost 7mil views while Beaver's crap got 700mil views? this song is 100 times better than those.... seriously, what is wrong with everyone's music taste? :<
Bee131134 1 month ago
Hmm...are those twins single???? Cuz my twin and I are like "yumma-yumma!" ...twice!! :D
kattwin1 1 month ago
The very interesting fact is everyone has a body of model here.
I didn´t like it. If it´s about something against prejudice, it should have fat actors, not only persons with style of model.
LasLatinidades 1 month ago 45
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MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM33 2 weeks ago
@LasLatinidades Kalòs kai agathòs. ;)
MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM33 2 weeks ago
@LasLatinidades well all gay people (usually guys more than girls) are hotter than straight people.. sooo..
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@LasLatinidades Btw you have to audition for these roles in these music video(s), fat people are fat... most of them are lazy and some are mean, i dont think they would get up and audition for this.
hockey632 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from RickyMartinVEVO
@LasLatinidades coz ppl don't like look at fat ppl :/ and they ppl don't have a model body. they just normal ;]
KingStarVip 1 week ago
Spanish version's so much better. Sorry Ricky, but I only lsiten to this version so I can pretend I don't only listen to Lo Mejor De Mi Vida Eres Tú.
Ketsumaye 1 month ago
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BlackSwan2701 1 month ago
Ricky Martin - The Best Thing About Me Is You | Imagem é tudo!
BRHeliomSouza 1 month ago
the best thing about Ricky is Joss
Atheistbloggerville 1 month ago
All the people in this video are so pretty *_*!!!
SkyKingEX 1 month ago
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Yes. Yes. When I see this videoclip, I think: I would like to see real persons, with real bodies. Not only beautiful persons with bodies of models.
LasLatinidades 1 month ago
@LasLatinidades lol but beautiful people are real too...
SkyKingEX 1 month ago
@SkyKingEX
Yes, but, in the world, there are many persons: beautiful, skinny, fat, short, tall. We need to give space for all of them. Most part of real persons don´t have a face and/or body of model.
LasLatinidades 1 month ago
OMG DID ANY1 JUST NOTICE HIS BEAUTIFULLLLLLL SMILE!!!!!!!!!! <3 <3 =D
abigailbbyx3 1 month ago
my gay mens chorus jsut did this song! so excited!!
11Kray 1 month ago
One of the hotest men in the world and his singing is amazing
truelove664 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
the only agenda I see on this video is the Love Agenda. And yes I am part of that agenda as I want Love to take over the World.
hlg1767 1 month ago 2
Really, if you got anything against the message this music video is trying to send, you're failing at humanity.
MyImaginationSucks 1 month ago
@Bigbillpipps Gay agenda? -.-.Do you think about what your saying or doing? anyway..if you don't like the song that does not make it "sucks" because others do..and if you are respecting the others and the equality between people despite all the differences you wont be writing such a stupid comment..anyway he have the absolute right to sing and say anything he want as long as he is not harming anyone..as you had the right to write that comment and i have to reply. just try to be little bit nicer.
stopscreaming100 1 month ago
No understand why some people talk too much....And get so stressful and negative about everything,if is not insults about race,then is insults of being gay,insults about religion,insults about sports,insults about the way you look,critizice and more then this then that,bla blabla.....Get better,no get BITTER!!!
THE SONG HAVE A NICE LYRICS AND IS ENJOYABLE FOR SOME OF US !!!! I JUST SIMPLY LOVE MUSIC!!!! ~Peace and Love Everybody!!!!
lovelygirlj 1 month ago
Love this song!!!
anakoreta85 1 month ago 2
Ok why come up here to talk shit?? If you are not gay you have no idea what it's like so please just shut the fuck up already i mean really.GET A LIFE
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rdn91 1 month ago
DONT JUDGE! Some people are gay. Get over it. :)
11Kray 1 month ago
h this makes me so sad that people would judge and treat other people like this... dont judge a path before you walk a journey. My mom hated gays untill she realised she was one and it hurt her so badly when people like treated her this way. What youre saying is hurtful and rude. I'm in 8th grade and I'm more mature than all of you. I can't wait to share this with GSA. I can't believe this, never in my life have I seen such bullying and harrasment by grown ups this is terryfying.
SwingSideStory 1 month ago
@SwingSideStory Wow! Sounds like my family's not the only 1 that's messed up. A couple things I wish u'd consider though:
1) Everyone makes judgments. Was Hitler evil to do what he did? Of course. If someone kills ur pet on purpose, is that wrong? Of course. Those r both judgments that no one would dispute. In fact, we make judgments every day about what's right & wrong.
2) Homosexuality is a self-loathesome prison for many. While pleasurable, it's also a trap that's hard to get out of.
bradjrhenstrom 1 month ago
@bradjrhenstrom It's actually a very serious issue. While politically incorrect to say homosex. isn't natural - 2 many youths caught up in the gay lifestyle, @ the same time detest it (take my story 4 example). In spite of everyone around u & the media saying it's alright 2 b gay, it was never satisfying & always left me empty.
I have several friends who've taken their own lives or attempted 2 do so, even when everyone around them was supporting their choice, b/c inside they knew it 2 b wrong.
bradjrhenstrom 1 month ago 76
Bullying is wrong whether striaght or gay, so is harrasment. This is a comments board though, by the way. No one's getting knocked around, threatened or acosted here, regardless of their views. YouTube does promote free speech correct?!
bradjrhenstrom 1 month ago 2
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@bradjrhenstrom What you say about being gay is what I believe about Christians. They seem empty and unhappy, angry and judgmental. And virgin births and people getting up from the dead is FAR FROM NATURAL! Love being a gay man commiited to my husband for nearly 25 years. PEACE OUT!
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11Kray 1 month ago
@bradjrhenstrom and it looks like youre trying to satisfy yourself in all the wrong ways (sorry i didnt read the beging of the comment last time, ooops!) try moving up here, find some one you really love weather it be a guy or a girl, and just be happy!
Good luck to yah
11Kray 1 month ago
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This is obviously a pathetic attempt to sound authentic. When in fact, its merely a person who is motivated by a political agenda. You have to remember that there are lots of evangelical (so-called) christians who push their anti-gay agenda by typing on blogs on Yahoo, YouTube, etc. Their purpose is to influence public opinion. But this blogging-for-politics method only works for the naive, the stupid, and the uneducated.
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roxamine 4 weeks ago
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@bradjrhenstrom I'd love to take a minute and comment on how delusional you are. First off, just because it was not satisfying for you and that you felt empty does not mean it was the same for everyone. Most gays I've met were happy and accepting toward themselves. So your weak argument is supported by only a single testimony. Homosexuality is not wrong, nor is it a disorder. Take a few psychology classes and then we can talk. On another note, it's quite a sad life you have, mate. I pity you.
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@bradjrhenstrom sorry you feel like that.
one day you will see that you cant change who you are.
its not being gay that leaves you empty... its not accepting who you are and worrying about how society sees you. I may not have the perfect life (own a house, and have someone that loves me and i love in return) but im happy with who I am. Amen Ricky... Also one thing that also leaves you feeling empty is comparing your life to others... you can be as happy and have the same future. love is love!
leokade22 4 weeks ago
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@bradjrhenstrom You feel its a wrong choice because you are used to the idea that its wrong :) I used to feel that way with my size.Yes people can tell me,its ok to be a plus size women. But my surrounding?Stores only sale normal size clothing,Waitress ALWAYS ask me in disbelieve when I only order salad and water.That make me always feels not okay. But then, I ask my self..Do I want to change?Is it so uncomfortable,that I need to change?Who am I? Its a long process,but finally I find my peace :)
FablousyCratz 3 weeks ago
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So r Pedophiles BORN PEDOPHILES?! Of course NOT u loon! They get into child porn, often were abused themselves & then begin 2 b the abusers. Take a criminal case history class some time, u may find some enlightening clarity & fact, instead of just emotionalism & wishful thinking.
Homosexuality is no different - definitely conditioned BEHAVIORAL CHOICES - often the result of sexual abuse, gay porn, a bad hetero exp., hetero rejection or homo experimentation leading 2 pleasurable experiences.
garyconditjr 1 month ago 26
@garyconditj....not true. Christianity is a behavioral choice.
billyboylb 1 month ago
@garyconditjr You make no fucking sense.... First of all, you wouldn't know how gays feel unless you were one. Second, so straight people CHOOSE to be straight? So right if you wanted to, you can go suck a dick? FYI: straight culture is has porn, pedofiles, sexual abuse,and criminal as well, fucker. Apparently you flunked in your criminal history cus they NEVER discussed the reason for homosexuality. Wrong class, shitdick. No one higher than the other. It's just one has rights & the other don't.
TheCaliforniaboy1 1 month ago
@CB1 Never claimed 2 'know how gays feel.'
& BTW ur dead right!
Hetero culture has MANY perversions, but it doesn't make them right just b/c I demand a 'right' 2 practice them.
No one is higher than any1 else, ur also right there - but there r behaviors that shouldn't b applauded anymore, namely perversions in sexuality.
As 4 my class, I was referring 2 cases of pedofilia- my link to homos. was my claim ur not born gay- u become gay from social cond. placed upon u & then choices made by u.
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MrBetterlivetoday 1 month ago
@garyconditjr Do some thorough research before commenting.
"There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay, or lesbian orientation.
People can be celibate and still know their sexual orientation-–be it lesbian, gay, bisexual, or heterosexual.
Most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation.
Both heterosexual behavior and homosexual behavior are normal aspects of human sexuality."
- APA
MrBetterlivetoday 1 month ago
@garyconditjr how do you draw the connection between pedophilia and homosexuality? and actually there are studies going on proposing pedophilia as a sexual orientation..so ya how about you research all sides of an argument and not discount the ones that are damning?
Brendynnn16 1 month ago
@garyconditjr So if you are exposed to gay porn, you turn gay? Is that's what you're saying? Because it's hard to keep up with your grammar... Now, for someone who can't even take their time to type an argument, I don't think you take your time researching about what you're talking about, so therefore, your argument makes no sense. Check your facts before saying shit on the internet.
MyImaginationSucks 1 month ago
yes we just make our life SIMPLE
bharat143vip4 1 month ago
take chance (8) simplesmente amei! *-*
daphnekarolinaa 1 month ago
Bieber in 30 years. lolol
johngreat1000 1 month ago
Thanks Ricky for all your great music. Thank you for all your great work as well.
EARLMARX3 1 month ago in playlist More videos from RickyMartinVEVO 2
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EARLMARX3 1 month ago in playlist More videos from RickyMartinVEVO
spanish version is WAY better >.<
version en español se oye mucho mejor :)
TheMusikPanda 1 month ago
NO ! definitivamente se oye mejor en Español !!!
kmixue90 1 month ago
This is my happy song :D
JayyCee47 1 month ago 2
Whats funny, is the Spanish version of this song. Is completely different.
Natural8o9Reborn 1 month ago in playlist More videos from RickyMartinVEVO
Ricky is an amazing man, great singer with beautiful and emotional songs, wonderful voice and sexy dance moves... He has a great personality, very charismatic and adorable... What's most important, he's a good man, and that's what counts. Thank you Ricky for your music, you'll always have many fans all over the world. Being a celebrity isn't easy, without any privacy in your life, but you are a brave man and I believe in you. ♥ Love & Respect ♥ Max
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Ricky, love most of ur music but This song Sucks! Please get back to ur slammin' 'Vida Loca,' 'She Bangs,' style songs & stop trying to push on all of us ur Gay agenda. We get enough of that already thank u very much!
Bigbillpipps 1 month ago 12
@Bigbillpipps It's not a Gay agenda he's portraying. He just showing how we are all equal. Simple. Yeah the song is not catchy but it has a beautiful message.
TheCaliforniaboy1 1 month ago 4
@TheCaliforniaboy1 omg finally someone with some sense <3
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aPerson1901 1 month ago
@Bigbillpipps I don't think it's all about him being gay. I think it's about all of the social issues like bullying. I like it.
aPerson1901 1 month ago 3
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Excuse me, but if it´s about bullying, the videoclip was not that perfect. There are only persons with body of model. Fat persons suffer bullying. If it´s against bullying, why can´t we see fat actors, only very beautiful persons? It´s not fair.
LasLatinidades 1 month ago
@Bigbillpipps and suddenly everyone hates gay ''propaganda''
ikindahateu 1 month ago
@Bigbillpipps What is this "gay agenda" that you speak of? Sorry for being impolite, but.. are you fucking retarded? He is saying how we should all be treated equally regardless of the orientation, race, gender, etc. He is trying to eliminate hate and homophobia that seems to be the reason for today's teen suicides and depression. This music video in no way encourages anyone to switch to homosexuality. Way to misinterpret the song.
TL;DR: You're a complete, and an utter fuckhead.
Arshavin23rd 4 weeks ago
The best thing about me is you! <3
nettan011197 1 month ago 2
exepcially since it docent matter what sex, race, sexuality we are!! We should all really stop judging and love each-other no matter what! <3
rebeckacool 1 month ago
OMG! Stop talking about sexuality!! and listen to the goddamn song!! If you do and do what the lyrics says, the world will be a better place!! <3 Ricky Marin rocks btw!!
rebeckacool 1 month ago
very good..:))
ivona00bonestaj 1 month ago
Well anyways.. I really love this song :D Ricky Martin is amazing<3
PatricioSoto1 1 month ago
Anybody know the chord progression for this song?
jbell0385 1 month ago
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What is wrong with everyone today. No one can do ANYTHING without being rudely commented on or people criticizing them in public. Ricky Martin is a homosexual, yes, but so are just about a billion people across the globe. Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but for now, shut your traps and watch the music video.
rainbowwheel 1 month ago
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GOD doesn't make mistakes .... and plz don't talk to homosexual ppl in bad way coz that's not there problem they born and have this feelings what they should do ??? that's not there choice they born in this way and they can't change it so plz be nicer
the5555man 1 month ago
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the5555man 1 month ago
Shut up an enjoy the music!!!
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@TheCoolBoy325 You can't control this world of sexual what it must be or they must follow your negative opinions. What I think is "love is beautiful" whether they are straight or gay. This is a new century, everyone can choose their life. My brother is gay too but only thing i know is that he is a good guy, good biz man. He is the one who we can lean on when we are down and we proud to have him apart of our family. TheCoolBoy, please must be cool like your user name! Boy!
GunnyMeiners 1 month ago
@GunnyMeiners I did it when I was like 11. Smh. When youtube allows username change, I'll change it for your happiness. THERE.
TheCoolBoy325 1 month ago
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I love how @Nighttrainstapp talks as if he or she truly knows what happens inside of us. People dont change over night its because of people like you that that they live closeted lives so that they are not judged but want to be love and accepted. Nothing is in black and white YOU should know that. and PLEASE LIST ME THE FACTS YOU HAVE. WHAT PROOF? Im sure its whats in your head...someone coming out IS a choice but its not the reason their gay.
gjrm20 1 month ago
love this song keep it up Ricky Martin
MayraP8433 1 month ago
I can't believe how stupid some comments here are. Why does it bother you so much if someone is gay? So you liked Ricky a few years ago but you're disgusted now? He seems happier than ever and I am happy for him. If you hate someone based on their sexual orientation, you're the one with the problem.
0valle0 1 month ago
hhhh das a bit stupid for the muslim girl coz none condemn love bt its all abt marring her and dnt play with her as a basted lol dats what the rest dnt understand
missfinino 1 month ago
Still not as gay as Twilight :D
Shaku89 1 month ago 5
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GAY IS JUST human like you! They have feelings and some people are idiots, when they just say, " Gays are disgusting and its un-natural like guy" FUCK YOU! I love ricky even his gay. All of you "gay haters" can go to the hell! It is just my opinion.
Icewolfs97 1 month ago
How Come All The people In This Video Are Skinny?
morisempai09 1 month ago in playlist Favorite videos
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Excellent answer!
LasLatinidades 1 month ago