I have the EXACT same experience with how I feel about vagina sex (and since I only have male partners, for the that is PIV= penis in vagina). I have very real physical pain now if I try to have PIV and that slowly developed over time (starting before I transitioned). And psychologically I can't stand it any more. But I too remember a time when I thought it was nice. I think that I have since discovered different ways of having sex that I REALLY truly enjoy has lowered my tolerance of PIV.
Hay m8t i think you so brave to talk about your lower dysphoria.
Im have a lot of the same issuses and finding it hard with dysphoria alround, i to find i have i imagen my body the way i think i should look during sex thank god im not the only one many of the subject you have raised hit home with me thank you for being so open as for vaginal sex i to have questioned myself but i keep coming back to the fact that as much as it was at times pleasent it never felt right
I can't cum unless I envision the body and self I identify with, ever. I like this video a lot, you are so honest and add humor there with the break, i like it. that's interesting about the time before when you were "comfortable" with it, it was "good enough at the time" ... I identify with that too because i too have questioned this. it's strange that this is true, but it scares me because that is really the only enjoyment i have ever had out of sex with another person.
my lower dysphoria is mostly about urinating. i'll hopefully have a meta just so i can pee out of my anatomy. my wife + i have been together for 15 years. basically doing the same kind of sexual stuff for 15 years. when i started T i imposed these strict expectations on me + sex thinking it should be + feel totally different now that i'm male. i'm coming to terms w/ the fact that sex is sex for us + will not change much. and that's okay. oral sex is oral sex. also, i need to stop watching porn!
I have the same thing and I believe it is called Dyspareunia. A. Recurrent or persistent genital pain in either a male or female before, during, or after sexual intercourse. B. The disturbance is not caused exclusively by lack of lubrication or by Vaginismus.
I have the EXACT same experience with how I feel about vagina sex (and since I only have male partners, for the that is PIV= penis in vagina). I have very real physical pain now if I try to have PIV and that slowly developed over time (starting before I transitioned). And psychologically I can't stand it any more. But I too remember a time when I thought it was nice. I think that I have since discovered different ways of having sex that I REALLY truly enjoy has lowered my tolerance of PIV.
sillyyetsuccinct 7 months ago
Hay m8t i think you so brave to talk about your lower dysphoria.
Im have a lot of the same issuses and finding it hard with dysphoria alround, i to find i have i imagen my body the way i think i should look during sex thank god im not the only one many of the subject you have raised hit home with me thank you for being so open as for vaginal sex i to have questioned myself but i keep coming back to the fact that as much as it was at times pleasent it never felt right
1Billy1980 1 year ago
I can't cum unless I envision the body and self I identify with, ever. I like this video a lot, you are so honest and add humor there with the break, i like it. that's interesting about the time before when you were "comfortable" with it, it was "good enough at the time" ... I identify with that too because i too have questioned this. it's strange that this is true, but it scares me because that is really the only enjoyment i have ever had out of sex with another person.
vrock913 1 year ago
@vrock913 and by enjoyment i mean settling
vrock913 1 year ago
my lower dysphoria is mostly about urinating. i'll hopefully have a meta just so i can pee out of my anatomy. my wife + i have been together for 15 years. basically doing the same kind of sexual stuff for 15 years. when i started T i imposed these strict expectations on me + sex thinking it should be + feel totally different now that i'm male. i'm coming to terms w/ the fact that sex is sex for us + will not change much. and that's okay. oral sex is oral sex. also, i need to stop watching porn!
Zedie36 1 year ago
I have the same thing and I believe it is called Dyspareunia. A. Recurrent or persistent genital pain in either a male or female before, during, or after sexual intercourse. B. The disturbance is not caused exclusively by lack of lubrication or by Vaginismus.
MrAdalaide 1 year ago
HEY ! I cant hear you lol.....why me..lol..hope you are feeling better!
loverboycali911 1 year ago