Mystery Method (Mystery PUA) and Matador Pickup Debrief

[DaNewLeder]

Matador is INDIAN! Ha! Take that. Indian men are playaas.

[mansitopinta]

@DaNewLeder Yeah! To bad he had to kick pradeep out!

[SwampyGlacier]

Matador is not fake. Out of Mystery's two wings on his VH1 show, I would have identified with Matador the most.

[TheAlk2000]

Matador seems so fake!To me, it's obvious that he is pretending.He is a weak person pretending to be tough.

[mrjedidja]

@TheAlk2000 They all fake.

[ChErRyaVe20pK]

lol if youvs seen the women matadors been with ur gonna fuckin kill yourself

[ilovenick1234567890]

@ChErRyaVe20pK im confused, why?

[sickmik19]

@ChErRyaVe20pK the girls are that bad????

[lutzzze]

@ChErRyaVe20pK If you seen the girls mystery´s been with you are gonna wake up again!

[ludvign11]

@ChErRyaVe20pK I got him on facebook they dont seem bad

[binotouts]

they're getting cocky

[uklondon10]

they have reason to be

[miXn]

Acutally, this vid is old. Matador isn't fat anymore, actually, he's hot as hell ^^ *no homo^^*

[fireball4593]

boringgggggggggggggggggggg

[fireball4593]

matador is hot your the fag

[bludika]

i love tall women too!

[rsaini1]

Mike Long seems annoying.

[lamrof]

Wings can build up or build down a friend.

[rsaini1]

i wish to get a good wing soon.

[knullabulla]

BTW, Mystery does not need to peacock as much as he does. He could just dress like Matador, which is already high-level, and do just as well.

[vrchacho]

He shoots two rabbits with one bullet this way. For one thing, his clothing attracts women's attention. On the other hand, he likes this type of clothes, it's just who he is. So he wears what he likes and this complements his game. Cool, huh?

[knullabulla]

The fishing analogy is excellent, since I have had much success at angling, though I am not a fisherman by trade or sport.

I do not even know if Mystery actually trained Matador. Matador just seems to know what to do anyway, and so they make natural wingmen for each other.

[knullabulla]

It does work.

I would choose Matador's peacocking style over Mystery's, because this style is closer to my own personality.

[chrizz123456]

Too bad all this stuff doesn't work.

They are all about the money and sell hope to the hopeless.

People believe they can stay geeks and spit some routines and will get laid like rockstars.

Poor people that buy into this stuff..

[martymccloud]

well a geek that has a style and knows how to behave.

[rob2011r]

you're so narrow-minded. die

[83king]

vh1 needs to do another pickup artist show, season 2. i wonder if they'll do it. if they can do flavor of love they should do season 2.

[motownkrazy]

they are having another season they just started doing the online casting.... as far as i knoe they still havent set a date for whem they want it to premier

[srninjastar]

they are its allready been announced

[dynamicsdy]

I'm a huge fan of Mystery. I feel it's a shame he is being marketed so poorly by Area51. All this looks amateur. I see Mehow INFIELD vids! Style has Rules of the game on mysepace using ex-'bud bundy', of ACTUAL sarging. I'd buy new products if you had them. Mystery, man, you're a genius. You aren't being looked after. Whoever is handling your marketing is destroying it. VH1 Pickup Artist. That was awesome ;o)

[TheArthen]

Man u're such a grateful person. lol. Mr. DLV.

[srninjastar]

hahahah...Mr.DLV.

[darkbyke]

bad filming, straight into the sun....

[bagdadexposure]

Mystery Marador Kings among Kings!!!

[guerriktrakkt1]

big daddy method is flawless.

[TheManBassoon]

lol

[TheManBassoon]

Sweet

[rsaini1]

dude, why don't you post some sarging videos using your big daddy method? you keep on talking about this method "they pick you up".. let us see what you got.

[WeezyBaby117]

big daddy... you are a lying faggot, you don't have a program, or any women. You go on all of the mystery posts online and post comment after comment all day. get a life, get a job, and grow some fuckin balls. oh, and kill yourself

[bigfella1111112]

Yeh i agree, kill yourself, annoying shit.

The Big Daddy Method, yeh, ha ha, great, go away

[BigDaddy1968]

"Idiot !! , Non brain person.."

Notice how ALL they can respond with is junior high school personal attacks?

I guess that's an IOD, huh?

LOL!!!

Big Daddy

The Big Daddy Method

No wonder I get all the hotties...

[BigDaddy1968]

Here...let me save you "PUA's" ten grand (plus shipping) on DVD's (lol!)

The fact is that the more physically attractive (or wealthy, or powerful, or pre-selected) you are, the easier it is to succeed.

Read that again...very slowly.

If you don't believe me....

Ask Tom Brady!

Whooooo!!!

The Big Daddy Method

We start there and move forward...

[Markhus88]

Idiot !! , Non brain person.. Mystery is tha Man , who has paved the way for destination manhood

[OdinofWei]

Some of the worse recording of video I have ever seen is from these guys.

You have to deal with crazy shaking of camera and random shots of the floor.

Mike, in this case you should know if you put someone behind a broad light source they will silhouette.

Oy Vey...

[konikor]

do you think he has multiple copies of that hat? or does he take really good care of that one?

[Doogp75]

3.All of the 'be yourself' stuff that people say im afraid is pure b.s for some people. Its because chronically shy, socially inept, people of a percieved sense of low value/esteem are being themselves is often the problem in the first place! Anything that helps someone (not neccessarily a man I might add) realise they are worthy and have something to offer regardless of looks/status to someone else is a good thing.

[Doogp75]

2. Just because I was able to 'game' a woman, does this make her a woman of less self esteem, value, stupid, all/any of the above? Does it make me an asshole because I used 'secret techniques' to initiate a conversation with a woman I may never have spoken to before? Of course not. Like it or not, men are now getting the help they need to get what they want, albeit expensively packaged and hyped.

[Doogp75]

SO lets recap here: some people (mostly women) find this pick up stuff retarded. Fair enough, everyone has an opinion. Just bear in mind;

1.Women have had advice from magazines for years like 'get your ideal man/how to keep your man/get the sex you want right now, etc. Does anyone complain that this is demeaning to men? It seems to be ok for women to get info to play their own 'game' .

[Doogp75]

IMO, the smart people will see through the marketing gloss etc and take from this the good stuff; yes, there is some! I dont think PUAS are 'god' anymore than i think someone highly experienced in any field is. But if this helps someone lacking in social skills initiate a relationship with anyone, that cant be bad right?

[Gurare2]

I undertand why you feel like you feel btw, your're intention is good and that's funny, cuz the same thing goes for the so called pua community, the real intention actually is good. But people will probably fuck things up like they always do anyway.

Check out the VH1 show of Mystery to get what I mean by, good intention and look at the kind of people we are talking about and what this really is about.

[Gurare2]

But you know what, let's just pretend that assholes who are totally confident and ARE real players and DO lie and cheat don't get most of the girls attention just because they know how to atract women by showing them for example they are not intimidated by beauty.

[Gurare2]

It will however create more tension than saying, hi.. you have beautifull eyes.

I'm against negging in a not playfull way, if you study psychology and what it means to comunicate on a subconsious level, you see negging for what it is, there are various ways to succesfully create tension and 'negging' is one of them that sometimes works.

[Gurare2]

And so they do test men to see if she is interesting or not, long before the guy even get a chance of showing who he is.

Negging anyone doesn't create trust in the way that you are implying the word trust, do something she doesn't like in the beginning and it's down to zero, that goes for both.

[Gurare2]

Funny thing is, I have known quite alot of girls who just wanted to be entertained for a night, wether it is real or not.

Girls who are sick of the same routine of guys asking them if they wanted a drink, yay a drink, than what is he gonna do? (not that they minded the free drink:p).

The idea is not that women don't trust men, they just can't be bothered with all the men that are interested in them.

[Gurare2]

This brings asociations like women beeing a test subject, and I really don't blame you if you can't see through that, but women do the same thing, it's called the game.

Seeing the same thing working over and over again for yourself, is what makes people believe.

[TruthIsSexier]

And a woman who plays games is just as useless as a guy who does the same. Learn to select with higher standards.

[IWArdias]

*Ahem* Games=Fun. Games are not serious. But just because you play them does not mean you are not capable of being serious too. I'm sorry but, having sat through Sociology classes you sound very much like the leader of a feminist movement...

[Gurare2]

Btw, I understand what your trying to compare but your kind of off there, that's how it works for people who believe in a god and then go on living happily ever after.

Although some may aproach people like mystery like that, succes in any field is atained by trial, error and perfection, thus experience.

[TruthIsSexier]

This is not a "field" any more than talking to your friend is a "field".  It's different than talking to your friend, but it's not a "field". The only "field" here is learning to develop your confidence and lose your neediness, THAT is what must be learned.

[Gurare2]

I am by no means a disciple of any Guru or believe that women are robot's that have buttons that just have to be pushed the right way. I agree with some haters that some of the things spilled out there by others in this "community" really are pathetic. But I just took out what was good and made it my own, now I have a nice girl for a year and two months now while before that I couldn't keep a girl for longer than those 2 months.

[TruthIsSexier]

Taking what "was good" from the "community" is like mining gold from feces.

[Gurare2]

Wll the ironic part is that giving negs is one of the strongest tactics to show you ARE an individual.

You show, that your not another guy drooling over her and actually have the guts to stand up to her were others would have been intimidated. That's not faking anything, that's knowing how things work and than use it to not make the same mistakes again.

[TruthIsSexier]

If you think giving negs and insults is a sign of being an individual, you are more brainwashed than you realize. You don't have to insult a girl to not be drooling over her. I should charge for this stuff, seeing how badly guys need it here.

[IWArdias]

Why should we charge? I have never been with a woman of low self esteem since I learned this stuff. I actually feel happier. And Truth, get real! I have had women neg me too. There are proper negs, which are playful, and bad ones, which are insulting. And at the end of being negged, I liked the girl a lot more. It shows you have spirit. And if you have taken a neg badly before, either it was a really bad one or you have low self esteem.

[potmonkey26]

Pointless- complete repeat like ever video this idiotic marketer produces for us

[Morgan5436]

I think Truth is missing alot of the point that Mystries teaching is geared to. Turth advises you to dress more stylish, get more personality and grow a set, etc. Well that's pretty much what Mystery is teaching he just puts it in a step by step manual. A lot of guys have no idea how to get to know a woman and let's face it them are better at social skills than most guys are.

[TruthIsSexier]

Hey Morgan, I honestly wish that were true. If Misery was just teaching that, it would be great. But that is not the case at all, and what is inexcusable is that he knows most guys just want a girlfriend, and the attitude he promotes including the use of insults (negs as he calls them) and triggering jealousy in women will only DESTROY any chance for trust that a quality woman would expect and deserves.

[Morgan5436]

Hey Truth. I understand your belief that his teaching about "negs" and jealousy triggering destroying trust. However at the moment you first meet a woaman she knows nothing about you and won't trust you anyway. Most of his tactics are merely ways of meeting and attracting them and most of it is done playfully. You won't still be gaming once you begin regualr dating however, most would not reach dating without social skills which is the foundation of his method.

[TruthIsSexier]

The idea of a woman automatically not trusting you is different than her needing to be "gamed". After all, you both don't know each other, and so neither of you can trust each other, but you don't need HER to neg YOU for you to trust her, right? Also, building in jealousy plotlines is not playful, and sets up a terrible foundation for the future.

[Gurare2]

As I already said, most of the people you meet in clubs like the ones you always see in mystery's vid's aren't going for long term anyway and tehy know that.

Jealousy plotlines are not playfull and they don't build up a good foundation and shouldn't be based on that, I agree.

[IWArdias]

I don't think Mystery is a god. Or J-Dog, or Matador, or Lovedrop or Style, or any mPUA. But I must say, they know what they're doing. And they more than likely have a bigger and happier social circle than any of us here. More than likely, but not definately. Still, I do love the guys, they helped me get out of my fears and go for it. Read 'The Game' again. And really look at Style from a before/ after point of view.

[TruthIsSexier]

Happier social circle? Let's see now, Mystery acknowledges he has serious depression issues, his "friends" screwed him over and tortured him by screwing his girl, many of the "seduction community" gurus have serious issues that make them miserable, (detailed in "The Game"), and Courtney Love is also miserable in the book as well. And that's just the stuff that these guys ADMIT to.

[TruthIsSexier]

Forgot to also mention that Mystery apparently was an a-hole to many of his students who are "gurus" now as well, doing things like trying to "steal" their girls. (How anyone would even want trashy girls like that is beyond me, but still, these social circle friends are the LAST thing that could be associated with happiness.)

[IWArdias]

Personally, I know from experience that just going up to a girl and 'being yourself' does not work, at first. Games are played to give a guy a chance to talk to the girl and 'be yourself' after you've developed some sort of relationship. Hells, it better than going up and asking her if she wants her bed rocked...

[IWArdias]

I can tell you without any doubt that this whole 'game' thing does work. And why? Because it dosen't turn you into a player, it's gives you what Mystery calls a 'social skill-set'. Is it better to go out not knowing how to talk to women, and being rejected, or learning how to make yourself more interesting, not by lying, but by being an individual?

[TruthIsSexier]

I assure you, it does not work, but since you BELIEVED that he gave you some magic tactic, you finally got yourself out there to chat with women and relax. Had you believed in the advice of a fortune cookie that told you to go chat up a girl, you'd get the same result. Is using insults or "negs" as he calls them, is triggering "jealousy plotlines" being an individual? Nope, clearly it isn't.

[IWArdias]

Ok, I'm not really sure if people are getting this whole thing. No, dressing like an idiot does not make you attractive, that's not the point. Dressing the way you want, and what actually suits you, makes you attractive. But for god's sake dress with a bit of style and unique-ness.

[kalikhalid06]

so if i dress up like mystery and look like someone in a harry potter book i will get laid? i guess women like fantasy sex, or harry potter..

[TruthIsSexier]

Yes! I applaud you for standing up to the clowns here who like to bully anyone here who actually has intelligence and logic. Bravo!

[kjbmurray]

Whoa TruthIsSexier! You are definately writing in the feminine style. The point form attack reeks of an angry ex-girlfriend. Don't worry, you'll get over it eventually. Mystery's stuff must really work based on your reaction.

[TruthIsSexier]

Yes, more and more ad hominem style, zero logic style comments from the peanut gallery, who clearly are the ones who give the thumbs up or thumbs down comments around here. Perhaps your logic also includes things like horoscopes, superstition, and WWE wrestling as "logic" and facts. I love how everyone who is brainwashed and who has no real girlfriend instead interprets any comment that does not support their delusions as coming from "an angry girlfriend" lol.

[TruthIsSexier]

Just like somehow Mystery "owned" Conan to these fools, when clearly Conan DEMOLISHED him. But oh yeah, Conan O'Brien must also be some "fool" compared to the "god" created by these WWE types who worship some guy who promises to get them laid. When you really get laid for real, you stop needing to create delusions and heroes out of clowns who who wear strange furry hats and paint their nails black.

[kjbmurray]

Awesome! Double qualification from TIS. "Ad hominem", what is this? Too complicated for my 500 word vocabulary. There is no God of anything. And what the the hell is WWE? I didn't see that acronym in Mystery's book.

[dolfan19]

Wow, Truth...You don't sound like a jealous ex-girlfriend at all...Lol. It's been my experience that when spends as much time as you just did (aorund 20 mins?) dogging someone, they either have jealousy issues, or just happen to be the competition. So, where do you fit in?

[TruthIsSexier]

I fit in the Truth section. I shall explain this concept to you: Right now, what you are doing is known as an "ad hominem" attack, which is something people use when they have nothing of actual truth to say. When people can't attack the logic of the person, because the logic is so strong, they instead create an "ad hominem" attack. By the way, if you had a real girlfriend, you'd know everything I say here is true.

[TruthIsSexier]

But hey, if anyone thinks that dressing like a queer and acting like a player is the way to get a great woman in his life, that's definitely his choice and I won't stop them.

-From Your Friendly Neighborhood Spider-Man, Catching Villains Everywhere

[InfinityCartier]

See, it's not about A great woman, it's about great WOMEN.

And what logical fallacy does homophobia fall under, I wonder.

[TruthIsSexier]

And if you want a woman to respect you, then find a woman worth respecting, and show her some respect. And remember, if you seek out women who play games, and you play games, you will only get back games, and you will then end up hating women, and thinking that all women "play games".

[TruthIsSexier]

Also, fix up yourself to look as good as possible, grow some balls and confidence, go to the mall and get some half-decent clothing that shows some basic sense of style, (if you don't know, then ask an attractive girl who works at the store for advice on what to wear, and ask her also which other stores would be helpful), and give a woman a compliment if she deserves it.

[TruthIsSexier]

So, my advice to you is to develop your personality as much as possible, be more fun to hang around with, get rid of your desperation if you have any, and raise your standards of character and personality for yourself and for the people you hang out with, including the women you decide to spend time with.

[TruthIsSexier]

Neil Strauss (the author of the funny book called "The Game" already had several bestselling books and was already into the Hollywood scene and rock'n'roll scene regularly interviewing guys like Motley Crew. And still got no girls. But Neil's problem was he came across like an absolute geek. Once he got rid of the that, he had some chance, but ruined it all with any woman of quality by acting like a player, which is really not what women want, but these guys will never admit to that.

[TruthIsSexier]

Guys, if you are looking for sex, then all you need to do is find some easy women. Hang out a nightclubs, where you can find a decent percentage of women who are looking for a one night stand. A one night stand is not a big deal these days to get for a guy or a girl, there are plenty of women like that, it's a very low emotional investment on her part.

[TruthIsSexier]

This is VERY different than a girl investing her full emotions in you big time. This is also known as having a real relationship and real girlfriend.

[TruthIsSexier]

But I guess in a shallow community, you can expect shallow friendships.

Oh, can you say "The Game"? It's actually funny, becaues if you can see through all the lies, and half-truths, you'll see that basically most of these "get laid" experts are totally hateful toward each other but put on a "we are all friends to the end" and "bros before hos" act to help sell their crap.

[TruthIsSexier]

4. What's really pathetic is that Mystery, even with his years of experience as a magician and being "entertaining", and with not being ugly, and with all his years of "pick-up mastery" couldn't even achieve what the REGULAR joe-blow could on his own,

(yes, regular guys get laid believe it or not!) as Mystery's "great" girlfriend cheated on him faster than you can say "wtf". Oh yes, and with his "best friend" as well. Yes, these guys are all great "friends" with each other.

[TruthIsSexier]

3. And Mystery had his girlfriend cheat on him, he even admits it in the book written by his "great" student Neil Strauss. All these guys call themselves the "greatest pickup artist on earth" but I guess ego blinds logic as it's similar to religion and everyone thinks theirs is the best.

[TruthIsSexier]

2. In fact, the "great" Neil Strauss who supposedly is the "world's greatest pick up artist" had his nice girlfriend decide that Robbie Williams was better than him. Just look up Lisa Leveridge and Robbie Williams.

(Continued)

[TruthIsSexier]

I promise you that these guys are full of it. But anybody can just say that, it's something else to prove it, right? So here we go:

1. The fact is, if a guy does not have any looks, or any height, or any wealth, he WILL have a tougher time getting girls. He will have an ESPECIALLY tough time keeping a girlfriend if he not only does not have looks,

height, or wealth, but in addition acts like a "player" with her.

More comments to follow, as youtube gives me a limit of 500 characters.

[TruthIsSexier]

This message is not meant to be disempowering, in fact it is the opposite, as a lot of guys who think they can't get a quality woman into their life, CAN actually get a quality woman, but they will NOT get her if they play the general types of games that are advocated by these clowns in the video.

[BoomSelekta]

ASSHOLES

[TJMares]

Just getting into the game me and my mate r doing it and i'm excited to be able to see just how easy it is to just be comfortable to open sets and keep building your game so u can pick and choose the HOTTEST girl and know for sure you'll go home with her... ALWAYS DHV your friends cause they are gonna help you become attractive to others by helping your game... THANKS MIKE!!!

[Rtv03]

No matter how long i've been tracking Mystery, i can't stop staring at that silly hat wich suits him fukking awesome.

Mikey, i'm loving the blog and the gifts yer sharing with the rest of us.

Haters only hate cuz this game has become fair on both side of the sexes.

[domokell89]

ya man this is all textbook stuff and the best thing is that it keeps evolving and it is so grate this is wy i love the game

thx mike

[kjbmurray]

Kinda cool rule of thumb: ALWAYS DHV yourself and members of your group. It can be easy to deviate from this, chicks sometimes try to set you up to DLV your friends or yourself.

Overly drunk girl = Unattractive he he he! Like the one who fell off my lap trying to give me a lap dance at the Company X-Mas party.

[ligyro]

is this a joke? hahaha

[wildeyn123]

Very nice - thanks Mike! Like the example of the accomplishment intro from Mystery.

[niklaspoulsen]

thanks mike

[Fireheat]

Nice!! ^^

[muelmuel]

interisting!