Tips to Overcoming Approach Anxiety

[Mufufuf]

I dig this info very much! I think it makes so much sense.

However, one of my biggest issues is the fear that people around me is going to hear me talking to the woman i'm approaching. I feel like I have to control the sorrounding environment or else people will laugh at me and scrutinize me for looking nervous or being turned down.. This is not common sense I know, but does anyone have any tips on how to handle this issue?

[Spider58x]

how come women never have to approach men?

[MrZerlex]

@Spider58x Woman approach men,... they really do. If they think its worth it.

[splancher318]

suit up

[MyWaySendit]

i guarantee she hasnt given a bj in over 5 years and it was prolly some hot guy she didnt even know not her b/f

[johnnystaccata]

Uhm, trogolodyte ...cave man . . .gottafinda' woman, gottafinda' woman, gottafinda' woman,.... c'mere... walk up and grab her by the hair ... one of the butt sisters . . .yeahhhh

[Cap285]

All I hear is nails on a chalk board.

[infowazz]

you addressed the major point of energy projection. i think women are naturally much more intuitive due to evolution. it's a necessary tool for protection and procreation.

create a positive and inviting energy before you approach a woman, and make sure its real. be happy, carefree. be someone that would be fun to be around.

[silbanis]

Despite what others may claim,women ARE bothered by men

approaching them.Unless you are their physical & intellectual

ideal you are an annoyance;a fly that's buzzing around their

heads that they can't get rid of.

If you doubt my claim, try this.Start asking random women

for the time of day. Then note how many abrupt & curt

respsonses you get.Along with the occasional eye-roll.

[infowazz]

@silbanis asking for the time of day is annoying no matter who you are. women pick up vibes off people much more than guys do so if you have a creep or desperate vibe they pick that up. they are more intuitive by nature because they are the ones who ultimately decide whether things go forward. that is evolution.

having your mindset automatically works against you. its defeatist and not good.

[DominicanRegulator]

Drop dead gorgeous.

[tonyblackops]

I tried to approach a woman then I took an arrow to the knee

[TheFirstNeuron]

@tonyblackops That means she likes you dude

[infowazz]

@tonyblackops and another original quote

[Lastixen]

so you sayng "come and talk to me...ho cares i forgot you enyway" no big deal ...so what s the point then

[Lrdvltr]

1:24 you can't generalize everyone though. Some women are naturally bitches and will get upset if any man that isn't black approaches them.

[infowazz]

@Lrdvltr depends where you are and the kind of women. go somewhere that isn't like that. if the club scene is full of those chicks than go somewhere else. grocery stores are actually a good spot believe it or not.

[amandaannepowers]

great tips - good for both men and woman. i know a lot of us have this even if we are the most outgoing person. i actually found it in the playlist that has a bunch of other educational vids on relationship and intimacy (search eroticflow i think). information on relationships/dating is something that we all can use!

[tomcat624u]

SHE IS EXACTLY RIGHT....BUT, THATS WHAT THEY EXPECT SO, DO WHAT THEY DON'T EXPECT AND IGNORE THEIR ARROGANT ASSES HAHAHAHAHA WOMEN THATTHINK THEY LOOK GOOD CAN'T STAND TO BE IGNORED HAHAHA I COULD GO ON, BUT I WANT HAHAHA

[tomcat624u]

DEANNA,IS THAT A WIG?

[Deejeezy405]

This is like the 3rd video I've seen from this woman and I would rock her fucking world. I love older women that are confident and sexy as hell. Only problem that I have with women is that they talk too fucking much. Shut the fuck up already. When I'm quiet, it's not because I'm shy, it's because I'm chillin. I don't want to fucking talk. If I'm watching the basketball game, that's all I want to do. I don't want to talk about clothes and shit. Damn, that's my biggest pet peeve. LOL.

[HomicidalDavid]

@Deejeezy405 Right on brother -- sometimes it's best to be chill and quieter than talking a mile a minute.

[Deejeezy405]

@HomicidalDavid Exactly. I mean, obviously you have to talk to a woman in order to pick her up--unless you are an extremely attractive male that gets approached, which certainly isn't me--and if you are somewhat attractive (groomed, look healthy, not dressed like a bum, nice teeth), you can pick up just about any chick....of course, attitude is more important (confidence, laid-back, humor, "alpha male") but when it comes to looks, they're not as important as people think.

[aztec2085]

deanna first of all you are beatifull i had a question about girls behavior why do some girls as your walking by face to face cover there face with there hand and look away but as soon as the person passes them they turn around to look at the guy almost tripping or falling does this mean she likes the guy or what?

[themrhot92]

ur eyes......wow...blowing me off.....

[KassanovaUK]

You get to the point and speak with great clarity. Thank you for the advice. This vid should have more hits. Hope you keep up the great work :)