He is right that a man should keep away from a woman who "acts like she is doing you a favor by talking to you". Of course, not all women who have been treated badly do that. And I'd like to add that not all guys who have been treated badly do that either. If somebody has been treated badly and does not trust the risk posed, exacerbated by the conditions of society (e.g. like rape laws or family laws etc) then, if they choose to be single and avoid any sex or relationships, I respect that logic.
Innocent until proven guilty. Something to think about both ways. But one thing’s for sure – if she spends the night rejecting your advances and complaining about her ex-boyfriend(s) then run away.
There are too many women who would chop guys to pieces before saying hello!!! This has nothing to do with insecurity or guilt. Most women today CAN'T STAND MEN and see men as the enemy.
All the "rah rah" speeches in the world will NEVER change that one fact of life. It's too f***ing hopeless.
that's almost completly correct. one point: women want to make sure sexual drive isn't so strong as to override her need for acceptance, her person, complete. you have to get to know the woman (a good woman) before she'll open her heart to you and allow you in fully, and yes sex also comes with that acceptance.
"You have heard it said, 'Do not commit adultery'. I tell you that any man who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery in his heart".
Why would I EVER be GUILTY about trying to approach or date a female. This guy is certainly gay !!! If a woman hates men she is the one with the problem. Duhh !!!
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
Sometimes, women do not want to small talk with guys and want to be left alone. Get the hint and get out of our space. Some don't know when to recognize that. It does not mean we have been traumatized at one point....sometimes we want to be buy ourselves no matter who approaches us. So he's right, get the hint quickly.
@thoooooorpin69 Good example. Your snooty, angry attitude from your past experiences with guys bothering you is making you act bitchy on here. And you're angrily telling us guys on here to "get a hint" as if we're all just like the guys that bother you, and we need this advice from you, when in reality most guys with sense avoid girls with unapproachable attitudes. It'd make more sense if you went to a video with douche bags filled in the comment section and said this.
@thoooooorpin69 The traumatized girls he's talking about don't know what they want, they can be hot and cold. One second everything's clicking and they show interest, the next they get annoyed with you. And yes they make you feel guilty for being interested in them and being interested in sex from them because they assume sex is all you want from them. As if you're some sex hungry dog "like all men".
The reason I'm insecure, is because this girl I really like used to chat with me and even flirt with me alot. Were both new in school. But it seems that suddenly she realized she all the guys like her and she always hangs out with other guys and is friendly to them. And when I try to talk to her NOW, shes alot colder to me than all the other guys
@BrutalEST96 Its been a month,maybe too late.but for future,get a couple of female friends to hang out with. your crush will notice you with other women.
@rocknrolldaddio Well, she still does talk with me, but yeah, she is kinda popular with the boys. I'm currently trying to get over her, but it's kinda hard and I'm still not sure if she likes me or not, plus since I'm new to the school, it will be even harder to find a new girl.
The opposite is also true. I got into a little thing with a traumatized guy and he made me feel guilty about wanting a guy or wanting to be with a guy....like there's a little voice at the back at my head screaming "how dare you"...
Many people, because they have such limited options, find themselves in marriages and relationships with someone they neither feel close nor attracted to. People who are unattractive and ill-adept at socializing quite often are in relationships by default with someone not of their choosing because the alternative is to face a lifetime of loneliness. And they resign themselves to whatever is available out of the fear of being alone.
damn I guess I gets no love :/ lol. definitely cautious and jaded but ''acting like I'm doing you favor by talking to you" sounds like some other chick
I agree with what you are saying, but, I think it's pretty justified that women begin to feel a little bitter after being hurt many times. It's hard for any human being to get past that. I also believe it's crucial that people need to be happy with themselves before even considering dating, because if you are looking for someone to make you happy, you will undoubtedly be disappointed.
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@SuperPrincess0411 he's not saying they don't deserve male attention, he's just saying that for their own sake they should avoid them if they want a happy relationship with someone, & he's right.
the fact is people want to be around people who are happy & accepting - not those who are depressed & negative towards certain people.
the same goes for girls - you don't want to date someone with baggage. & if you have baggage you need to sort yourself out before inviting anyone else into your life
Men feel guitly over women's emotional baggage? Commonly? Thats a new one for me. Yes, I can see how either partner constantly dragging old pain into a new relationship is going to emotionaly damage the new partner. For men who find themselves in this alot, the answer is: note the signs and break the cycle.The same advice the abused and wronged need to follow. Find what works by not repeating what didn't.
there was this girl i saw at school i instantly loved her she sw me too she smiled at me and she liked me too but i never asked her out cuz i didnt know how to handle the situation cuz it felt weird approaching her while she was talking to her friends and now she will be changing schools and i will never see her again I FUCKED UP MY WHOLE LIFE !!!! ; ( ;( ;(
PPL SEEM TO FORGET THE BIGGEST ADVICE OF ALL! LISTENING TO THEIR OWN FUCKING HEART, no one can tell you how to live your life but you, i once heard something once which all lot of you self-conscious dudes need to learn WE ARE ONLY BORN WITH 2 FEARS: THE FEAR OF LOUD NOISE, AND the fear of falling. Every other fear that we have, we're taught, don't think like it's inevitable it's in NO one's nature that they are self conscious or they can't talk to women!
@SuperPrincess0411 I agree, just bc a woman has been abused and is 'damaged goods', doesnt make her any less desirable or lovable. Hopefully women that have been abused become smarter and raise her standards. This does not mean she is 'distant', she is just trying to do better than in the past. Shame on this guy, he puts abused women in a 'box' that he thinks should be thrown in the river and forgotten. This guy lost my respect and women out there shouldnt be with him, at least i wouldnt.
Great advice arkady. To add - women who have this history and jaded views of men are also more likely to dump lots of their insecurities and past trauma on you and expect you to "fix her" to make her feel good. My best friend tried doing this to a very damaged girl, and he went through a lot of pain (including pain in the break-up). Point is - don't be an emotional tampon to women, it just lowers you and you don't have to deal with that - she has to deal with that. If she doesn't, no one can.
So, you're saying, when a woman doesn't want to get laid and used for sex that it's okay to just kick her to the curb and make her feel horrible for wanting to wait a little. Such a typical manwhore thing to say. That's awful. Like if you agree.
@yellowbanana159 that's not what he said at all. Try listening instead of projecting. This guy has some of the best advice I have heard. If I were a man I would take his advice. As a woman I would totally date him.
I think he's right. Know this girl who had her boyfriend cheat on her like a few months before I met her. She was very scared of getting close to me so she avoided it at times, but then ran after me. I was really nice and waited for her to make up her mind. She decided she would go out with me, but her grand father died and a week after that, she just went out with another guy. It damn hurts and if only I knew.. I would have avoided so much trouble.
What about if its the dam fken opposite i been cheated on twice by the girl i thought was my life and the one. fken cheated on me we where together for 4 years u know her answer to all that SHE WAS STUPID lol she lied to me so many times even on the smallest things.!!! What are u doing babe?? answer: just woke up.... when she actually woke up 2 hours ago really now..!! Trying to see if it works out with this girl i met i dont feel insecure with her but other girls its like bla...
@SuperPrincess0411 I think what he's saying is that women who are hurt to the point of automatic distrust of men (or those who seem to be) may not be the best person to date. Especially for those of us who aren't that good at approaching and interacting with women to begin with. He's not saying they don't deserve attention. He's saying we (awkward/unconfident men) should avoid them for the sake of both of our respective mental health issues.
The problem is those women dont appreciate that you are nice to them. They are always suspicious and there is no chance of a normal relationship with them. Why should a nice guy waste time with them and suffer when nothing is coming of it? At the end he will come out of it depressed and more insecure. Life is short , we cant be wasting our time with people who dont appreciate us, not just women.
I think he got it all wrong..the men's greatest source of insecurity with women isn't guilt.. the men's greatest source of insecurity is height..... short guys are the most insecure around women... their height. and the fact that short guys can't hide their height..because its noticeable..
@SuperPrincess0411 I agree with this. If all men were to think like this, then all the previously emotionally abused women would have nowhere to go. They would basically be rejected by every other guy they would meet on their way, making their dating lives even more difficult. I would personally find it difficult to be with such a woman, of course, but if I fall flat for a woman who's past with men have not been so successful, the least I can do is try and convince her that there exist good men
Yea, but if you waste many years and you get nowhere, are you going to get those years back? At the end she may have not changed at all and still is bitter. I have sometimes seen guys married to these women and then the divorce..just a downward spiral. Women need to make better dating choices.
@Errol246 Alright, you go and waste your life trying to convince such a woman that good guys exist... It's like trying to convince someone who thinks the Earth is flat that the Earth is round...
This is so true. Women who think the worst avout men due to previous experiences is wrong. Just because 1 or a few guys do whatever they did to abuse women, does not mean that all men are like that. This is what's known as a generalization or part-to-whole fallicy.
that sux, most women who have jaded views didn't start out that way, they became that way by giving losers a chance, by being open, friendly and approachable...one can only take so much, but i guess thats probably something to talk to my therapist about lol
@superprincess this is advice for men, I'm sure, superprincess, that you could find a female speaker saying similar things about abusive men (stay away waste of time) I.E, abused women have crystalised mindsets that attract them to abusive men, that we (non-abusive men) shouldn't ruin ourselves, feeling riddled with guilt, when in fact the girl needs to sort out her emotional issues first before entering the dating scene, and we shouldn't have to go down with them.
@Wmagic1990 I agree with you all the way. Double standards are ridiculous and it is never a good idea to get into a relationship thinking you can 'save' someone. He is not saying battered women are not worthy of love, they just need to figure their stuff out in order to approach relationships in a healthy way.
I am a woman, every guy have been cheating on me in my life, Im dating a guy and I love him but cant trust him because every single sighn that he might cheat makes me freak out and act wrong towards him....he always get angry and tells me that he don't need to be with woman like me...I know guys cheated on me coz I was too naive and stupid.... I wont loose him and want to trust him....and think he is good guy but I still have at the back of my head no he is a cheater....how to trust again?
@osobaneznama It's hard, really hard. Especially with a guy that doesn't reassure you. A genuinely good guy that loves you would try to help you with your insecurities and comfort you, but do not accuse him of cheating even remotely without proof. I also suggest counseling as well. I know one of my first boyfriends I was deeply in love with betrayed my trust, dumping me with no warning whatsoever and not even telling me why. Not letting it affect future relationship is a regular battle.
Stay away from women with a horrible past? Bad idea. In most cases, you are further fueling their insecurities if it is clear that men are purposely alienating them. Then they are going to further criticize and scrutinize themselves, further lowering their self-esteem and the worse part yet is, some women are androphobes and in order to break out of this fear of men they NEED to be around them and have strong relationships or friendships with them!
As usual arkady, very well articulated. There could be another source for these womens' "bitchy" behavior- justification of their inability to maintain a relationship; probably due to psychological problems.
Ok I find this hilarious... Yes, girls do like a good strong strapping guy. But the ability to show that you have issues and you are willing to show guilt is a sign that you are mature and "human" not a "beast". So being able to show your problems, in a way that won't show to the girl that you aren't that guy who's there to sap what kindness is available to you is a sign of good interaction!
Kayenne is so right, I think you have to re do this one, because you are very wrong, it is about building trust and there wouldn't be women left because the majority of them have been through this kind of experience. Trust is the number one issue and money, in a relationship, mostly honesty an trust, and the fact is men lie so much to get their way, we both genders, need to become more educated about this, men need to stop lying!
friends, women want ultimately one thing and that one thing mainly..... the upgrade...
Think about the people you know, the women that had shown interest in you and you will see that is the base principle. They confuse the feeling of admiration with love.
Good advice there sizzle chest. I always take the path of less resistance. How many girls have missed the opportunity of a great life with me because they played hard to get.
Recap: Stay away form dumb bitches.I agree.I really hate that I love you, I love you not attitude woman have. With the friends i know We always love each other even I were mad at each other and we don't leave around unfinished business. Woman have tried to create this mind control factor that we must uphold, well I dont but. Truth is thy have no power unless they are equals, and most times the girls that cant hold a real conversation tend to use mind games to assert there contrived authority.
In this capitalist society it is impossible to trust women. 90% will cheat on you no matter how good you are. Love is gone. It is not only sexual relationships that have suffered with this capitalist culture disguised as 'open-mindedness,' it is also normal friendship. There is no more loyalty, dignity, honesty, decency.. etc. Relationships are now only based on money, social power, and sex. People call me backwards for saying these facts so I have given up in giving advice to people.
90% is an unrealistic statistic...Don't blame the capitalist society, blame the pathetic media. There are a lot of people with traditional values who still believe in waiting until after marriage to be intimate. It's the one-sided and close-minded media that is creating skewed ideas of what relationships should be.
Waiting is what allows for the deeper feelings of loyalty and love because if you wait until after you are married, it is because you have found someone who is your very best friend. Your thinking is not backwards at all.
I stopped approaching women when I sat down and added it all up: A maid, weekly hooker, egg donor/surrogate mother and a chef; will cost me less than a wife.
Good video. The problem is that 99% of women are like this. Hence practically speaking, if a guy treats a woman bad or like she is not worthy of his attention, he tends to often get better behaviour from the woman.
Negative people will never pull you up, they will only pull you down. Not all women with traumatic experiences end up negative but the ones who do should be avoided. Its our responsibility to become whole as a person and then we can become whole with others. This is what counseling is for. It is not our job to do emotional tooth extraction.
Negative people will never pull you up, they will only pull you down. Not all women with traumatic experiences end up negative but the ones who do should be avoided. Its our responsibility to become whole as a person and then we can become whole with others. This is what counseling is for. It is not our job to do emotional tooth extraction on women.
Male can be heartless to make a woman hurt and not be accountable. I was mentally abused by one of them, I still love men but I refuse to deal with his BS
the biggest insecurity is the fear of rejection. some women are mean but some aren't. give it a chance and it could be worth it. i don't necessarily think you should run away the moment any hint of rejection arises. i dated a few guys because i was impressed by their persistance. i've also persistantly pursued and it paid off.
@theamazingsupergirl - Ha! Chasing men persistently paid off for you? What a shock! And you dated guys purely because you were impressed by their persistence? That is pathetic. Did you tell THEM that you were only dating them because they were trying hard? Are you still with them? No. So what good was that for them or yourself?
Maybe you should leave men to advise about dating women - after all, what experience of YOU got about dating women?
@KeldorDAntrell Yes, it's paid off. I've gotten to know some great people that I wouldn't have if I had run away. As with anything, if you want something you have to go after it. Dating is dating. It isn't marriage. And yes, I've dated guys because they were persistant and it's not pathetic. After seeing how much energy they put into getting me, I was impressed. It made me realize how much they liked me. And yes..I DID tell them I dated them because they tried so hard. Why not?
@theamazingsupergirl, You make me laugh. "If you want something in life you have to go after it"! That doesn't fit with the fact that most women don't do the asking out. They paint their nails, etc., wear skimpy outfits, WAIT for the offers to come in, & then choose from the men who do all the chasing. You proved that with your own words - but fail to recognise it when you say such rubbish as "If I had run away".
@KeldorDAntrell interesting that i don't paint my nail or wear skimpy outfits. they just attract the wrong men and that's not what i'm after. i've asked several guys out so it's not as if i have no experience of feeling both sides. it's all about confidence. you just don't understand what women see as stability. if you're american, you know good and well that men pursue. also, it's prevalent in many other cultures. you can bash me all you want but i'm a woman and i know what women want.
@theamazingsupergirl, You're a stupid idiot. You try to tell me that what I believe about women from my own experience is wrong but that what you believe about them from your own experience is correct. What arrogance! You can only speak for, & of, yourself.
As one with decades of experience of trying to understand women I have concluded that they DON'T know what they want & all your claptrap won't change my mind about it.
@theamazingsupergirl, "Interesting that I don't paint my nail..." Easily said. Women are inordinately vain & make enormous effort over their appearance, as everyone knows & I think you're a liar. Statistics show that on average women spend £100,000 in a lifetime on beauty products.
I never said men don't pursue so don't try to imply that I did.
If I can bash you all I want then: you're an idiot who should stop pretending to be an expert on women just because you are one.
@theamazingsupergirl, Why not tell them you only went out with them because they were persistent? You seriously don't know, do you - that shows how stupid you are. You should go out with someone because of their good values and decency, not because they were persistent. To be told I was dated without any thought for the personal qualities I might have to offer would just reveal to me what a dimwit the woman was.
@KeldorDAntrell i understand what you're saying. i obviously wouldn't go out with someone who didn't have similar values and decency as i do. for you to say i'm stupid is childish. women don't like childish men.
@theamazingsupergirl, Saying you're stupid can be interpreted as childish *by an idiot like you* but that's because of your stupidity. In fact, it takes intelligence to recognise an idiotic argument & children do not typically have fully developed critical faculties. Again, you show yourself to be a fool. Then, your comment about women not liking 'childish' men is equally stupid because only an idiot says that which goes without saying.
@KeldorDAntrell And.......I know a lot about dating women. I'm a woman. I have had many, many conversations with other women about dating. I have guy friends who date women. If a guy wants to learn how to date women they should get advice from a woman. I seriously, seriously, seriously hope guys aren't taking the advice you give in your videos.
@ooomf44 Cool...I'm glad to see you're looking for real advice. Obviously the best advice on how to get the girl you want would come from a girl. Girls are the ones who make the choice to go out with him or not. Send me a private message and I'll give you any advice you'd like. Whatever you do, don't listen to this guy.
@theamazingsupergirl, Clearly you're looking to pass yourself as a dating expert - EXACTLY AS THIS GUY HERE IS DOING. But what training have you had? None. You've said you know better than this guy because of your gender! Dating knowledge - *any* knowledge - is not determined by gender, you TOWERING CRETIN.
And what insurance do you offer if some guy follows your advice & things go wrong? None.
@theamazingsupergirl, Being a woman means you know NOTHING about what men experience from women. Your female friends merely tell you what they *think* they know, speaking theoretically. On the actual field of play, they *react*, usually with their gonads; & they select the owrst men, time & again. A 'bad' man is far sexier to them than a good man (the type often labelled 'square'). The latter is the man they later choose as a husband, to provide the stable home for the baby she had with the bad.
@KeldorDAntrell lastly, as you said, it's funny how you just keep on messaging me. it's ridiculous you're getting so upset about what i've said. once again, i'm a woman and you're a man. i know what woman want. why? because, as i said, i'm a woman.i love what VWYL900802 said. she clearly knows what's going on and many have given her a thumbs up.
@theamazingsupergirl, a 'thumbs up' doesn't qualify a comment as having any particular merit, thicky. It is easier to be a stupid moron like you than it is to be intelligent and learned.
Your comment that you know what women want because you are a woman is MONUMENTAL STUPIDITY. Does having a vagina make you a gynaecologist? Does being married make one a marriage guidance expert? Does having kids make one an expert parent? You're embarrassing.
@theamazingsupergirl, it's not ridiculous to speak out against an idiot who is trying to pass herself off as an expert when she's not one. You've set yourself up here in opposition to a dating guru who is putting out a message FOR MEN, to help them. What is *your* agenda? Why are you so bothered by him that you slag him off & offer advice to guys yourself? What training have you had to give out advice? What insurance do you offer if those who follow your advice go wrong? Answers: NONE.
It doesnt help that psychologists say Men cheat--BECAUSE THEY CAN....if they feel they can get away with it they'll do it....Women cheat when their relationship isnt fullfilling their emotional needs. Cheating sux no matter what...but it feels like "good" men are FEW and FAR between.
@lisa171717 I agree! I've had guys treat me badly, does that mean I need to be stayed away from? When the guy I'm in love with now and I first started talking again(we're old friends), his kindness confused me, though, to be honest. I wasn't used to it, and started second guessing everything he said. I've learned that he really is a great guy, and he is patient with me being this way.
@SlaughterMezz What about with androphobia? It's usually caused when women are raped. Should they be avoided? Should they be rejected just because something traumatic? If a guy did that, then they really don't deserve that, or any other woman.
Yeah, especially when you haven't been used that toothbrush lately. Making a good first impression is pretty helpful in trying to establish a relation. so remember guys, oral hygiene is your friend ;)
Very interesting take on this. Usually I'm the one moaning about all my encounters with guys who REALLY just seemed to want sex and nothing more. I've been left hurt and 'traumatized,' lol. Well, after listening to a few of these videos, it's made me realize that I need to give a guy I'm interested a chance or two....hmmmm.
A woman like he's talking about SHOULD be avoided. I have been hurt by women in the past, but i dont go around assuming the worst of every woman who approaches me.
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this guy is dumb and seems ignorant. Poor way of explaining- nothing to do with guilt, it's called fear of rejection.
Also stay away from women who have been through bad experiences?? You truly are out of your mind- these women might have been unlucky. These women infact deserve more of a chance to get to know, and a good guy should understand what they've been through and probably unravel a great woman under the hurt and wall she's put up.
Sorry to counter your argument but this guy has a point. Dumb is too strong a word, and yes, men should keep away from your kind. You've been down thumbed coz this is the attitude that he's talking about Miss-groovy-baby-my-ass!
Ok....I'm sorry to say to everyone but LUST is natural. I mean do you think woman NEVER lust? I mean lets be honest what do you think is the "attraction" that "oh she's going to have the mother of my children?" or that "he looks like he can take care of my family"? That's not what I think of when I see a guy I'm attracted to, the first things I think of are all physical, not emotionally, BUT if you fall IN -LOVE that is a different story, it's deeper than attraction. More meaningful.
Dating should be fun and exciting--not an endurance challenge. A woman should never dictate your happiness. Unless you're married, the moment a relationship becomes a strain or pain . . . move on. There are plenty of emotionally stable and fun women out there. Even some who have normal relationships with their mothers. Go figure. Find them.
so in other words every woman who has been hurt deserves to be alone? is this what you ment by this video? so because i have been abused and cheated on, i am to always be alone. why don't you give the advise of biging true to and not injuring a woman for fun, instead of just avoiding those who have been hurt: which just causes more pain and distrust for her. because men treated me poorly i do not deserve love?
He is right that a man should keep away from a woman who "acts like she is doing you a favor by talking to you". Of course, not all women who have been treated badly do that. And I'd like to add that not all guys who have been treated badly do that either. If somebody has been treated badly and does not trust the risk posed, exacerbated by the conditions of society (e.g. like rape laws or family laws etc) then, if they choose to be single and avoid any sex or relationships, I respect that logic.
TableWolfMusic 2 weeks ago
Where can you meet woman that are genuine?
seekperfection 2 weeks ago
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jment34 1 month ago
@jment34 "I've only ever gone out with bad men because of my daddy issues and ignored all the good ones, therefore all men are bad"
LTBL88 1 month ago 2
Amen, brother.
RobAzula 1 month ago
Innocent until proven guilty. Something to think about both ways. But one thing’s for sure – if she spends the night rejecting your advances and complaining about her ex-boyfriend(s) then run away.
lawshorizon 1 month ago
i say its FEAR not Guilt
TheIntunecatu 2 months ago
@TheIntunecatu I would guess the argument may be that that fear is what sprouts from feeling guilty felt in an environment where men may be punished.
dreamcore 1 month ago
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Arkady, THIS IS BS!!!
There are too many women who would chop guys to pieces before saying hello!!! This has nothing to do with insecurity or guilt. Most women today CAN'T STAND MEN and see men as the enemy.
All the "rah rah" speeches in the world will NEVER change that one fact of life. It's too f***ing hopeless.
ECO473 2 months ago
I can't stop watching your vids. Good precise advice
Rodinho1994 2 months ago
I never really thought about it, but this “emotional garbage recycling” by a woman would account for some of my experiences. Thanks for the insight.
lawshorizon 2 months ago
Good video! Some experiences can improve confidence while others can inhibit it.
lawshorizon 2 months ago
that's almost completly correct. one point: women want to make sure sexual drive isn't so strong as to override her need for acceptance, her person, complete. you have to get to know the woman (a good woman) before she'll open her heart to you and allow you in fully, and yes sex also comes with that acceptance.
Robb9096 2 months ago 2
my biggest insecurity with women is that im overweight lol
tahshin1601 3 months ago
God I need money for this. ffs a students life...
Georgeqaws 3 months ago
feeling guilty for wanting a woman?...r u catholic??
MsRitaJane 3 months ago
this guy is really really making sense here...
babanachiket 4 months ago
"You have heard it said, 'Do not commit adultery'. I tell you that any man who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery in his heart".
Matthew 5:27
bg11215 4 months ago
Why would I EVER be GUILTY about trying to approach or date a female. This guy is certainly gay !!! If a woman hates men she is the one with the problem. Duhh !!!
arelius1971 4 months ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
BillTheTrainer 4 months ago
Sometimes, women do not want to small talk with guys and want to be left alone. Get the hint and get out of our space. Some don't know when to recognize that. It does not mean we have been traumatized at one point....sometimes we want to be buy ourselves no matter who approaches us. So he's right, get the hint quickly.
thoooooorpin69 4 months ago
@thoooooorpin69 Good example. Your snooty, angry attitude from your past experiences with guys bothering you is making you act bitchy on here. And you're angrily telling us guys on here to "get a hint" as if we're all just like the guys that bother you, and we need this advice from you, when in reality most guys with sense avoid girls with unapproachable attitudes. It'd make more sense if you went to a video with douche bags filled in the comment section and said this.
mike12jrw1111113 4 weeks ago
@thoooooorpin69 The traumatized girls he's talking about don't know what they want, they can be hot and cold. One second everything's clicking and they show interest, the next they get annoyed with you. And yes they make you feel guilty for being interested in them and being interested in sex from them because they assume sex is all you want from them. As if you're some sex hungry dog "like all men".
mike12jrw1111113 4 weeks ago
nice, so find a woman with no baggage? keep trying.
THEOogalieBoogalie 4 months ago
The reason I'm insecure, is because this girl I really like used to chat with me and even flirt with me alot. Were both new in school. But it seems that suddenly she realized she all the guys like her and she always hangs out with other guys and is friendly to them. And when I try to talk to her NOW, shes alot colder to me than all the other guys
BrutalEST96 5 months ago
@BrutalEST96 Its been a month,maybe too late.but for future,get a couple of female friends to hang out with. your crush will notice you with other women.
rocknrolldaddio 3 months ago
@rocknrolldaddio Well, she still does talk with me, but yeah, she is kinda popular with the boys. I'm currently trying to get over her, but it's kinda hard and I'm still not sure if she likes me or not, plus since I'm new to the school, it will be even harder to find a new girl.
BrutalEST96 3 months ago
The opposite is also true. I got into a little thing with a traumatized guy and he made me feel guilty about wanting a guy or wanting to be with a guy....like there's a little voice at the back at my head screaming "how dare you"...
wild4winter 5 months ago
Many people, because they have such limited options, find themselves in marriages and relationships with someone they neither feel close nor attracted to. People who are unattractive and ill-adept at socializing quite often are in relationships by default with someone not of their choosing because the alternative is to face a lifetime of loneliness. And they resign themselves to whatever is available out of the fear of being alone.
mrsolofeo 5 months ago
damn I guess I gets no love :/ lol. definitely cautious and jaded but ''acting like I'm doing you favor by talking to you" sounds like some other chick
TXejas19 6 months ago
I agree with what you are saying, but, I think it's pretty justified that women begin to feel a little bitter after being hurt many times. It's hard for any human being to get past that. I also believe it's crucial that people need to be happy with themselves before even considering dating, because if you are looking for someone to make you happy, you will undoubtedly be disappointed.
meggiemeg86 6 months ago
Your advice is very rational. Ever read Ayn Rand?
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Lexiemellow44 6 months ago
@SuperPrincess0411 he's not saying they don't deserve male attention, he's just saying that for their own sake they should avoid them if they want a happy relationship with someone, & he's right.
the fact is people want to be around people who are happy & accepting - not those who are depressed & negative towards certain people.
the same goes for girls - you don't want to date someone with baggage. & if you have baggage you need to sort yourself out before inviting anyone else into your life
TheBgoz 6 months ago
Men feel guitly over women's emotional baggage? Commonly? Thats a new one for me. Yes, I can see how either partner constantly dragging old pain into a new relationship is going to emotionaly damage the new partner. For men who find themselves in this alot, the answer is: note the signs and break the cycle.The same advice the abused and wronged need to follow. Find what works by not repeating what didn't.
twinroselake 7 months ago
If girls stayed away from guys who distrust women or think the majority of women aren't worth much then girls who have to go gay or share guys.
udolipixie 7 months ago
Right on target, dude. Well done.
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agony202 8 months ago
PPL SEEM TO FORGET THE BIGGEST ADVICE OF ALL! LISTENING TO THEIR OWN FUCKING HEART, no one can tell you how to live your life but you, i once heard something once which all lot of you self-conscious dudes need to learn WE ARE ONLY BORN WITH 2 FEARS: THE FEAR OF LOUD NOISE, AND the fear of falling. Every other fear that we have, we're taught, don't think like it's inevitable it's in NO one's nature that they are self conscious or they can't talk to women!
Adjei88 8 months ago
@SuperPrincess0411 I agree, just bc a woman has been abused and is 'damaged goods', doesnt make her any less desirable or lovable. Hopefully women that have been abused become smarter and raise her standards. This does not mean she is 'distant', she is just trying to do better than in the past. Shame on this guy, he puts abused women in a 'box' that he thinks should be thrown in the river and forgotten. This guy lost my respect and women out there shouldnt be with him, at least i wouldnt.
79agp 10 months ago
he absolutely right
boahplayer 10 months ago
Great advice arkady. To add - women who have this history and jaded views of men are also more likely to dump lots of their insecurities and past trauma on you and expect you to "fix her" to make her feel good. My best friend tried doing this to a very damaged girl, and he went through a lot of pain (including pain in the break-up). Point is - don't be an emotional tampon to women, it just lowers you and you don't have to deal with that - she has to deal with that. If she doesn't, no one can.
BohemianAsh 10 months ago
So, you're saying, when a woman doesn't want to get laid and used for sex that it's okay to just kick her to the curb and make her feel horrible for wanting to wait a little. Such a typical manwhore thing to say. That's awful. Like if you agree.
yellowbanana159 10 months ago
@yellowbanana159 that's not what he said at all. Try listening instead of projecting. This guy has some of the best advice I have heard. If I were a man I would take his advice. As a woman I would totally date him.
misstafuri 9 months ago
I think he's right. Know this girl who had her boyfriend cheat on her like a few months before I met her. She was very scared of getting close to me so she avoided it at times, but then ran after me. I was really nice and waited for her to make up her mind. She decided she would go out with me, but her grand father died and a week after that, she just went out with another guy. It damn hurts and if only I knew.. I would have avoided so much trouble.
ivanlagrossemoule 10 months ago
What about if its the dam fken opposite i been cheated on twice by the girl i thought was my life and the one. fken cheated on me we where together for 4 years u know her answer to all that SHE WAS STUPID lol she lied to me so many times even on the smallest things.!!! What are u doing babe?? answer: just woke up.... when she actually woke up 2 hours ago really now..!! Trying to see if it works out with this girl i met i dont feel insecure with her but other girls its like bla...
juju1006539 10 months ago
If she AINT gonna give you Pussy, RUN AWAY SON!!!
setstunapiitown 11 months ago
in life there are many hardships that one indures but love is a reword for the good hearted
gigoe2584 11 months ago
bro... I wish I would have seen this video a few years ago. lol. good stuff, keep it up!
mysticangel17 11 months ago
@SuperPrincess0411 I think what he's saying is that women who are hurt to the point of automatic distrust of men (or those who seem to be) may not be the best person to date. Especially for those of us who aren't that good at approaching and interacting with women to begin with. He's not saying they don't deserve attention. He's saying we (awkward/unconfident men) should avoid them for the sake of both of our respective mental health issues.
bgiv2010 11 months ago 10
...you're better off masturbating.... you can have it as tight as you want and you don't have to buy them a drink...
ARDUNNO 11 months ago
What`s with the Transylvanian accent?
haroldmoya 11 months ago
Also what has the guy done to deserve torture by mentally damaged women? Why does he have to clean up the shit the woman did other guys..
dreamerstays 11 months ago
@SuperPrincess0411 @SuperPrincess0411
The problem is those women dont appreciate that you are nice to them. They are always suspicious and there is no chance of a normal relationship with them. Why should a nice guy waste time with them and suffer when nothing is coming of it? At the end he will come out of it depressed and more insecure. Life is short , we cant be wasting our time with people who dont appreciate us, not just women.
dreamerstays 11 months ago
I think he got it all wrong..the men's greatest source of insecurity with women isn't guilt.. the men's greatest source of insecurity is height..... short guys are the most insecure around women... their height. and the fact that short guys can't hide their height..because its noticeable..
sonicchaos37 11 months ago
@SuperPrincess0411 I agree with this. If all men were to think like this, then all the previously emotionally abused women would have nowhere to go. They would basically be rejected by every other guy they would meet on their way, making their dating lives even more difficult. I would personally find it difficult to be with such a woman, of course, but if I fall flat for a woman who's past with men have not been so successful, the least I can do is try and convince her that there exist good men
Errol246 1 year ago 2
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Yea, but if you waste many years and you get nowhere, are you going to get those years back? At the end she may have not changed at all and still is bitter. I have sometimes seen guys married to these women and then the divorce..just a downward spiral. Women need to make better dating choices.
dreamerstays 11 months ago
@Errol246 That's a lot of effort for someone who subconsciously doesn't like/trust you.
bgiv2010 11 months ago
@Errol246 Alright, you go and waste your life trying to convince such a woman that good guys exist... It's like trying to convince someone who thinks the Earth is flat that the Earth is round...
Quartrez 3 weeks ago
This is so true. Women who think the worst avout men due to previous experiences is wrong. Just because 1 or a few guys do whatever they did to abuse women, does not mean that all men are like that. This is what's known as a generalization or part-to-whole fallicy.
samweller96 1 year ago
that sux, most women who have jaded views didn't start out that way, they became that way by giving losers a chance, by being open, friendly and approachable...one can only take so much, but i guess thats probably something to talk to my therapist about lol
MLaBoo481 1 year ago
Totally agree, stay away from the very emotionally battered and insecure women. They are train wrecks and will drag you down too.
TheRussianGlory 1 year ago
@superprincess this is advice for men, I'm sure, superprincess, that you could find a female speaker saying similar things about abusive men (stay away waste of time) I.E, abused women have crystalised mindsets that attract them to abusive men, that we (non-abusive men) shouldn't ruin ourselves, feeling riddled with guilt, when in fact the girl needs to sort out her emotional issues first before entering the dating scene, and we shouldn't have to go down with them.
Wmagic1990 1 year ago 41
@Wmagic1990 I agree with you all the way. Double standards are ridiculous and it is never a good idea to get into a relationship thinking you can 'save' someone. He is not saying battered women are not worthy of love, they just need to figure their stuff out in order to approach relationships in a healthy way.
misstafuri 9 months ago
it should exist an alarm,saying you go away you jerk,i must find and buy it
MyDreamside 1 year ago
Dude, you are a blessing in the flesh, thank you so much for your advice.
CHE129 1 year ago
Wow, you definitely got my sitiuation figured out spot on! Do you have a gf?
coppersulphate002 1 year ago
I am a woman, every guy have been cheating on me in my life, Im dating a guy and I love him but cant trust him because every single sighn that he might cheat makes me freak out and act wrong towards him....he always get angry and tells me that he don't need to be with woman like me...I know guys cheated on me coz I was too naive and stupid.... I wont loose him and want to trust him....and think he is good guy but I still have at the back of my head no he is a cheater....how to trust again?
osobaneznama 1 year ago
@osobaneznama It's hard, really hard. Especially with a guy that doesn't reassure you. A genuinely good guy that loves you would try to help you with your insecurities and comfort you, but do not accuse him of cheating even remotely without proof. I also suggest counseling as well. I know one of my first boyfriends I was deeply in love with betrayed my trust, dumping me with no warning whatsoever and not even telling me why. Not letting it affect future relationship is a regular battle.
MysteryChocolate 1 year ago
In soviet Russia car drives you!
sam2stu 1 year ago
i can see the guy behind you in the mirror video taping you lol
MrVader9000 1 year ago
women are very difficult, in life, they can make u feel like shit, keep away from those types, just a pointer guys lol.
MrCassanova08 1 year ago
sure dude blame it on the woman!!!!!
kokai83 1 year ago
Stay away from women with a horrible past? Bad idea. In most cases, you are further fueling their insecurities if it is clear that men are purposely alienating them. Then they are going to further criticize and scrutinize themselves, further lowering their self-esteem and the worse part yet is, some women are androphobes and in order to break out of this fear of men they NEED to be around them and have strong relationships or friendships with them!
lovelyladynostalgic 1 year ago
good video
SillyWiskerz 1 year ago
wrong, the source is fear of being rejected
car137215 1 year ago
@car137215 correct
knuckles6008 1 year ago
read about personality disorders and avoid those women that have them. play at your own risk with these types.
screentake01 1 year ago
As usual arkady, very well articulated. There could be another source for these womens' "bitchy" behavior- justification of their inability to maintain a relationship; probably due to psychological problems.
hindflight 1 year ago
Ok I find this hilarious... Yes, girls do like a good strong strapping guy. But the ability to show that you have issues and you are willing to show guilt is a sign that you are mature and "human" not a "beast". So being able to show your problems, in a way that won't show to the girl that you aren't that guy who's there to sap what kindness is available to you is a sign of good interaction!
MsxMisunderstood 1 year ago
What? They want us to look. If he's feeling guilty, then he really is insecure.
superseit82 1 year ago
i think men are wonderful ;D
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DORIANJUST 1 year ago
Well fuck... My mum is one of these women. Men are evil...blah blah blah...Your father is an asshole...blah blah blah.
Rastafirez 1 year ago
the greatest insecurity in a man isn't guilt at all... the greatest insecurity is height..
sonicchaos37 1 year ago 2
Kayenne is so right, I think you have to re do this one, because you are very wrong, it is about building trust and there wouldn't be women left because the majority of them have been through this kind of experience. Trust is the number one issue and money, in a relationship, mostly honesty an trust, and the fact is men lie so much to get their way, we both genders, need to become more educated about this, men need to stop lying!
Bebeches 1 year ago
friends, women want ultimately one thing and that one thing mainly..... the upgrade...
Think about the people you know, the women that had shown interest in you and you will see that is the base principle. They confuse the feeling of admiration with love.
paradigmmaker 1 year ago
Good advice there sizzle chest. I always take the path of less resistance. How many girls have missed the opportunity of a great life with me because they played hard to get.
FreeBlago1 1 year ago
u mean girls who have been hurt dont deserve men?
monswat 1 year ago
@monswat only if they don't give them a chance
Izeroth1 1 year ago
Recap: Stay away form dumb bitches.I agree.I really hate that I love you, I love you not attitude woman have. With the friends i know We always love each other even I were mad at each other and we don't leave around unfinished business. Woman have tried to create this mind control factor that we must uphold, well I dont but. Truth is thy have no power unless they are equals, and most times the girls that cant hold a real conversation tend to use mind games to assert there contrived authority.
luminarification 1 year ago
In this capitalist society it is impossible to trust women. 90% will cheat on you no matter how good you are. Love is gone. It is not only sexual relationships that have suffered with this capitalist culture disguised as 'open-mindedness,' it is also normal friendship. There is no more loyalty, dignity, honesty, decency.. etc. Relationships are now only based on money, social power, and sex. People call me backwards for saying these facts so I have given up in giving advice to people.
msc722 1 year ago
@msc722 you hang around the wrong people lol and i have a feeling that those assumptions are from past experiences... dont give up , keep on trying
jaziscool 1 year ago
@msc722
90% is an unrealistic statistic...Don't blame the capitalist society, blame the pathetic media. There are a lot of people with traditional values who still believe in waiting until after marriage to be intimate. It's the one-sided and close-minded media that is creating skewed ideas of what relationships should be.
cristwizzle 1 year ago
Waiting is what allows for the deeper feelings of loyalty and love because if you wait until after you are married, it is because you have found someone who is your very best friend. Your thinking is not backwards at all.
cristwizzle 1 year ago
wow this guy has the best info!!! that happed to me yesterday
Cat6768 1 year ago
I stopped approaching women when I sat down and added it all up: A maid, weekly hooker, egg donor/surrogate mother and a chef; will cost me less than a wife.
mumbles005 1 year ago 2
Good video. The problem is that 99% of women are like this. Hence practically speaking, if a guy treats a woman bad or like she is not worthy of his attention, he tends to often get better behaviour from the woman.
beewardrobe 1 year ago
Yeah! We guys do that anyway.
kos66t 1 year ago
You're a god! This video really opened my eyes.
Mindstryke 1 year ago
Guard Your Heart!
Negative people will never pull you up, they will only pull you down. Not all women with traumatic experiences end up negative but the ones who do should be avoided. Its our responsibility to become whole as a person and then we can become whole with others. This is what counseling is for. It is not our job to do emotional tooth extraction.
StupidLoudAudio 1 year ago
@StupidLoudAudio affirmative
sagilady52 1 year ago
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Guard Your Heart!
Negative people will never pull you up, they will only pull you down. Not all women with traumatic experiences end up negative but the ones who do should be avoided. Its our responsibility to become whole as a person and then we can become whole with others. This is what counseling is for. It is not our job to do emotional tooth extraction on women.
StupidLoudAudio 1 year ago
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StupidLoudAudio 1 year ago
oh yeah hats off arkady!!!honesty trust and respect three simple rules
joshuadiesel 1 year ago
Male can be heartless to make a woman hurt and not be accountable. I was mentally abused by one of them, I still love men but I refuse to deal with his BS
crpdm1965 1 year ago
@crpdm1965 Oh you're a poor creature. Women are not angels either.
kos66t 1 year ago
the biggest insecurity is the fear of rejection. some women are mean but some aren't. give it a chance and it could be worth it. i don't necessarily think you should run away the moment any hint of rejection arises. i dated a few guys because i was impressed by their persistance. i've also persistantly pursued and it paid off.
theamazingsupergirl 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl - Ha! Chasing men persistently paid off for you? What a shock! And you dated guys purely because you were impressed by their persistence? That is pathetic. Did you tell THEM that you were only dating them because they were trying hard? Are you still with them? No. So what good was that for them or yourself?
Maybe you should leave men to advise about dating women - after all, what experience of YOU got about dating women?
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@KeldorDAntrell Yes, it's paid off. I've gotten to know some great people that I wouldn't have if I had run away. As with anything, if you want something you have to go after it. Dating is dating. It isn't marriage. And yes, I've dated guys because they were persistant and it's not pathetic. After seeing how much energy they put into getting me, I was impressed. It made me realize how much they liked me. And yes..I DID tell them I dated them because they tried so hard. Why not?
theamazingsupergirl 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl, You make me laugh. "If you want something in life you have to go after it"! That doesn't fit with the fact that most women don't do the asking out. They paint their nails, etc., wear skimpy outfits, WAIT for the offers to come in, & then choose from the men who do all the chasing. You proved that with your own words - but fail to recognise it when you say such rubbish as "If I had run away".
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@KeldorDAntrell interesting that i don't paint my nail or wear skimpy outfits. they just attract the wrong men and that's not what i'm after. i've asked several guys out so it's not as if i have no experience of feeling both sides. it's all about confidence. you just don't understand what women see as stability. if you're american, you know good and well that men pursue. also, it's prevalent in many other cultures. you can bash me all you want but i'm a woman and i know what women want.
theamazingsupergirl 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl, You're a stupid idiot. You try to tell me that what I believe about women from my own experience is wrong but that what you believe about them from your own experience is correct. What arrogance! You can only speak for, & of, yourself.
As one with decades of experience of trying to understand women I have concluded that they DON'T know what they want & all your claptrap won't change my mind about it.
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl, "Interesting that I don't paint my nail..." Easily said. Women are inordinately vain & make enormous effort over their appearance, as everyone knows & I think you're a liar. Statistics show that on average women spend £100,000 in a lifetime on beauty products.
I never said men don't pursue so don't try to imply that I did.
If I can bash you all I want then: you're an idiot who should stop pretending to be an expert on women just because you are one.
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl, Why not tell them you only went out with them because they were persistent? You seriously don't know, do you - that shows how stupid you are. You should go out with someone because of their good values and decency, not because they were persistent. To be told I was dated without any thought for the personal qualities I might have to offer would just reveal to me what a dimwit the woman was.
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@KeldorDAntrell i understand what you're saying. i obviously wouldn't go out with someone who didn't have similar values and decency as i do. for you to say i'm stupid is childish. women don't like childish men.
theamazingsupergirl 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl, Saying you're stupid can be interpreted as childish *by an idiot like you* but that's because of your stupidity. In fact, it takes intelligence to recognise an idiotic argument & children do not typically have fully developed critical faculties. Again, you show yourself to be a fool. Then, your comment about women not liking 'childish' men is equally stupid because only an idiot says that which goes without saying.
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@KeldorDAntrell And.......I know a lot about dating women. I'm a woman. I have had many, many conversations with other women about dating. I have guy friends who date women. If a guy wants to learn how to date women they should get advice from a woman. I seriously, seriously, seriously hope guys aren't taking the advice you give in your videos.
theamazingsupergirl 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl need a little help here. how d'you strike conversations with a woman you don't know?
ooomf44 1 year ago
@ooomf44 Cool...I'm glad to see you're looking for real advice. Obviously the best advice on how to get the girl you want would come from a girl. Girls are the ones who make the choice to go out with him or not. Send me a private message and I'll give you any advice you'd like. Whatever you do, don't listen to this guy.
theamazingsupergirl 1 year ago
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KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl, Clearly you're looking to pass yourself as a dating expert - EXACTLY AS THIS GUY HERE IS DOING. But what training have you had? None. You've said you know better than this guy because of your gender! Dating knowledge - *any* knowledge - is not determined by gender, you TOWERING CRETIN.
And what insurance do you offer if some guy follows your advice & things go wrong? None.
What is your agenda?
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@KeldorDAntrell Just leave her be, her peanut sized brain can't handle your precise arguement. Very well said, I solute you for owning her sir.
1337Noobtuber 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl, Being a woman means you know NOTHING about what men experience from women. Your female friends merely tell you what they *think* they know, speaking theoretically. On the actual field of play, they *react*, usually with their gonads; & they select the owrst men, time & again. A 'bad' man is far sexier to them than a good man (the type often labelled 'square'). The latter is the man they later choose as a husband, to provide the stable home for the baby she had with the bad.
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl, Lastly, your idiocy is further revealed by your thinking that I give advice here in videos. I DON'T.
You really should try harder to understand what is going on before you open your mouth about it.
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
@KeldorDAntrell lastly, as you said, it's funny how you just keep on messaging me. it's ridiculous you're getting so upset about what i've said. once again, i'm a woman and you're a man. i know what woman want. why? because, as i said, i'm a woman.i love what VWYL900802 said. she clearly knows what's going on and many have given her a thumbs up.
theamazingsupergirl 1 year ago
@theamazingsupergirl, a 'thumbs up' doesn't qualify a comment as having any particular merit, thicky. It is easier to be a stupid moron like you than it is to be intelligent and learned.
Your comment that you know what women want because you are a woman is MONUMENTAL STUPIDITY. Does having a vagina make you a gynaecologist? Does being married make one a marriage guidance expert? Does having kids make one an expert parent? You're embarrassing.
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago 2
@theamazingsupergirl, it's not ridiculous to speak out against an idiot who is trying to pass herself off as an expert when she's not one. You've set yourself up here in opposition to a dating guru who is putting out a message FOR MEN, to help them. What is *your* agenda? Why are you so bothered by him that you slag him off & offer advice to guys yourself? What training have you had to give out advice? What insurance do you offer if those who follow your advice go wrong? Answers: NONE.
KeldorDAntrell 1 year ago
It doesnt help that psychologists say Men cheat--BECAUSE THEY CAN....if they feel they can get away with it they'll do it....Women cheat when their relationship isnt fullfilling their emotional needs. Cheating sux no matter what...but it feels like "good" men are FEW and FAR between.
Tokidoki4Me 1 year ago
@lisa171717 I agree! I've had guys treat me badly, does that mean I need to be stayed away from? When the guy I'm in love with now and I first started talking again(we're old friends), his kindness confused me, though, to be honest. I wasn't used to it, and started second guessing everything he said. I've learned that he really is a great guy, and he is patient with me being this way.
Daikiirai 1 year ago
@Daikiirai If you are acting like some sort of a mental case then yeah.
SlaughterMezz 1 year ago
@SlaughterMezz What about with androphobia? It's usually caused when women are raped. Should they be avoided? Should they be rejected just because something traumatic? If a guy did that, then they really don't deserve that, or any other woman.
Daikiirai 1 year ago
I believe one of the biggest insecurity's in us guys is how the girl is going to react to our smile.
TheNight3434 1 year ago
@TheNight3434
Yeah, especially when you haven't been used that toothbrush lately. Making a good first impression is pretty helpful in trying to establish a relation. so remember guys, oral hygiene is your friend ;)
wwwggxcom 1 year ago
Very interesting take on this. Usually I'm the one moaning about all my encounters with guys who REALLY just seemed to want sex and nothing more. I've been left hurt and 'traumatized,' lol. Well, after listening to a few of these videos, it's made me realize that I need to give a guy I'm interested a chance or two....hmmmm.
lusciousphilippa 1 year ago
VERY NIIIIICE!
RyonIsKey 1 year ago
See, I wish a girl I dated had a troubled past...we get so much in common.
CPenha 1 year ago 8
@CPenha LOL.. some of us do, including me, man. But it gets better. Time spent with any woman can be enjoyable.
jasperpaws24 1 year ago
@CPenha man up nigga!
rupin 1 year ago
this guy looks at me a lot, and he looks at my dad too. i think that this is what he feels... guilt
why else would he stare at my dad all weird anyway?
xoxomystyle 1 year ago
A woman like he's talking about SHOULD be avoided. I have been hurt by women in the past, but i dont go around assuming the worst of every woman who approaches me.
luvluvluvluvluvlove 1 year ago
well your in for a fun life.
luvluvluvluvluvlove 1 year ago
First impressions are the most important.
It's called attraction. There's nothing wrong with anyone I don't care who u are.
All women have diffrent tastes, if ALL women liked just one type of personality they ALL would be driving the same cars.
Know who you are first, be honest with yourself. Ask yourself " what do I want?"
lonestargun 1 year ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
this guy is dumb and seems ignorant. Poor way of explaining- nothing to do with guilt, it's called fear of rejection.
Also stay away from women who have been through bad experiences?? You truly are out of your mind- these women might have been unlucky. These women infact deserve more of a chance to get to know, and a good guy should understand what they've been through and probably unravel a great woman under the hurt and wall she's put up.
groovybaby33 2 years ago
Sorry to counter your argument but this guy has a point. Dumb is too strong a word, and yes, men should keep away from your kind. You've been down thumbed coz this is the attitude that he's talking about Miss-groovy-baby-my-ass!
MzeeMoja1 1 year ago
well it's clear to see the simple-minded cannot handle it!
groovybaby33 1 year ago
Ok....I'm sorry to say to everyone but LUST is natural. I mean do you think woman NEVER lust? I mean lets be honest what do you think is the "attraction" that "oh she's going to have the mother of my children?" or that "he looks like he can take care of my family"? That's not what I think of when I see a guy I'm attracted to, the first things I think of are all physical, not emotionally, BUT if you fall IN -LOVE that is a different story, it's deeper than attraction. More meaningful.
darlingangel4ever200 2 years ago
First thing you think of is deep dicking? That's interesting. I thought that women only lusted after cars, jobs, and haircuts.
philnoll 2 years ago
You're right about everything you said.
nightstash1 2 years ago
this guys a fucking lawyer i wouldnt believe a fucking word that comes outta his mouth.
hulk90000 2 years ago
You nailed me again. Man you're kickin' ass! good stuff
Apsu72 2 years ago
lust IS wrong
theazn07 2 years ago
@theazn07
lust is the reason you were born
homer091 2 years ago
r u fcking stupid? "lust" is uncontrolled or illicit sexual desire. LOVE is how i was born.
of course, i can only speak for myself tho. iunno bout ur parents
theazn07 2 years ago 4
i was born b/c the condom broke
oopalonga 2 years ago
@theazn07 lust isn't wrong, it's a natural feeling
Trillian1982 2 years ago
of course it's natural, but that doesn't mean it's all good
theazn07 2 years ago
excellent advise mainly for teen girls who think we all are going to rape them.
boliboy2299 2 years ago 16
@boliboy2299 The average dude goes about day by day waiting for sex to happen. The sex offender goes out and MAKES it happen! :P
NakedMileDan 1 year ago
Dating should be fun and exciting--not an endurance challenge. A woman should never dictate your happiness. Unless you're married, the moment a relationship becomes a strain or pain . . . move on. There are plenty of emotionally stable and fun women out there. Even some who have normal relationships with their mothers. Go figure. Find them.
JRFrancisco20088 2 years ago
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JRFrancisco20088 2 years ago
listen to ur self. u are saying dump the girl b4 u get to meet her. If she is out on a date wit u, that mean SHE LIKES U. reeree
danielledfm 2 years ago
word
kiljoe 2 years ago
@nudedelight i think u only need to be honest in front of women. what makes her desirable? think of it that way....
VWYL900802 2 years ago
good stuff bro
whyeff21 2 years ago
so in other words every woman who has been hurt deserves to be alone? is this what you ment by this video? so because i have been abused and cheated on, i am to always be alone. why don't you give the advise of biging true to and not injuring a woman for fun, instead of just avoiding those who have been hurt: which just causes more pain and distrust for her. because men treated me poorly i do not deserve love?
Mother4always 2 years ago