wonderful movie. Everything is superb, the movie looks so official and the contents are just amazing. kudos to the actors, director, production team, great job.
Justus Esiri...this man is pure gold. No regular director can get this talent. And Stephanie Okereke, who is in high demand now. And I like her hair, it's more natural. This reminds me of a 2000 movie, old good movies.
well even girls from the cities also know that the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. Problem with most educated women is employing a househelp to do the househld chores, Im educated as well but that will never happen in my house..i was married to take care of my husband (and him also to take care of me) and not someone to take care of him...be it educated or not we should always stick to some of our traditions
i agree. i will cook everything in my own kitchen myself. and if i just needed a house help for any other thing..like cleaning a large house or running errands when busy, i will hire a young and able bodied BOY.
It is something of an amusement that educated working men expect their educated working wives to do the cooking & sort the dishes & make sure the home is in order, when both the man & woman have had a long day at work ... This "way to a man's heart" thing disappears quickly when such a family moves to, say, Europe, where the realities of life means the man also has to help out. Not helping out with home chores diminishes a man; it's a remnant of the "I pay the bills" mentality; &, it's foolish.
true, but in african culture where d man is head of household, tradition usually takes part n a marriage whether it b in europe, usa, africa or asia. So all that 50/50 stuff doesnt always fly wit african men. But i agree that a man should take equal care of his wife n be great as husband as well- NOT a one way street type thing. A man will usually stay where hes happy n well taken care of whether it be in d kitchen, bedroom or elsewhere. thats where that whole "way to a mans heart" comes from. .
The change in the economic realities of the late 20th & 21st centuriesmeans that women have to work as hard as men to meet the economic demands of the family. The old model is based on the assumption of a full-time housewife; things aren't ever as simple as that anymore. I've no problem with all the ways to a man's heart: either through his stomach, or someplace lower, but: we must talk about the way to the woman's heart (after the wedding, eh). Real men help out at home, in Africa & elsewhere.
awesome! I feel sorry for pple who ignore actual experiences. and try to rationalize and explain away every thing by fine sounding logic. I am a living testimony. compassionate men who are indeed educated need not be told to be actively involved in the runnings of the home. women who av accepted the master -servant relationship status of marriage will not see anything wrong no matter how u try to explain it to them. diff strokes
its not even about master servant- its about knowing what it means to be a woman and knowing what it means to be a man as defined by God. We come and adopt all this western BS and then end up with a divorce rate as high as them because everyone wears the pants in the house. Everyone is master when God says the greatest one is the one who serves. What a mess!
wow! Awesome. u've said it all. that reality hit me and my hubby too. in my home there is no woman's chores and the sort, we do it all it is who ever is freer. imagine coming home with a new born baby, no mother or relatives to tell u what how when. I was so sick , my hubby had to step up seriously to his game. cooking cleaning waking up to feed baby, u name it. it made us very close and securely bonded. pple cling to the same so called trdditns that leave strains in their relationship.
this is just a fiction writting by some one like u ....u can do the same too...u will never know the value of what u have until u lose it....kudos guys..........to all ladies open ya eyes
Women all over the world need to be independent. Imagine either being the "property" of your husband, dumped by him and crawling back to live with your parents.
@mokamoka79 My aunt would have hurt this man long ago. As soon as he said he was tired of the marriage she would have said okay. See ya! I mean seriously she's responsible for all the bad things that have happened to him? LOL As if he doesn't make his own decisions. Please she should have checked out of that house as soon as he started acting a fool.
@jcchick19 I looks like those weaves (no offense) that are touted as being human hair and then you have it on for a week or two and it clumps up no matter what you do. You end up paying 60 or more for some so-called real hair or high quality when it's crap. Plus there was an actress (can't remember) who; that stated that filmmakers will throw on weaves so they don't have to deal with hair. I'd rather deal with it; than having it look a hot mess. LOL
lol i agree he has okay close and she just looking homeless wit messed up hair ugly clothes like wtf???odd couple
ddmyers11 8 months ago
how dare he say to her 'you don't even have a child'.....i hate it when husbands blame their wives for not having a child it's stupid
iMSoFlyiBlowMyMind 1 year ago
i dnt believe any woman is barring or wateva...i bellieve dt sum men are wack on bed
pacalyte 1 year ago
DAYUMM that guy is a DOUCHE! i hate thim!!!
Tenchijk 1 year ago
so true,no inlaw respects a woman who do not treasure her own family;
underdblood 1 year ago
i love justus esiri
irene9031991 1 year ago
This guy is inhuman!
MrBumbummcb 1 year ago
very very nice movie, the sound, actors, the story well done...
boukantier 1 year ago
wonderful movie. Everything is superb, the movie looks so official and the contents are just amazing. kudos to the actors, director, production team, great job.
eularine 2 years ago
Justus Esiri...this man is pure gold. No regular director can get this talent. And Stephanie Okereke, who is in high demand now. And I like her hair, it's more natural. This reminds me of a 2000 movie, old good movies.
hot2dmax 2 years ago
I am in love with this director and the soundtrack. The camera is perfect. This movie is so perfect and realistic.
hot2dmax 2 years ago
good movie so far.. i just wish there wasnt such a lag with the voice
lanre00 2 years ago
i like the father he is a good actor
mpendwaa 2 years ago
well even girls from the cities also know that the way to a mans heart is through his stomach. Problem with most educated women is employing a househelp to do the househld chores, Im educated as well but that will never happen in my house..i was married to take care of my husband (and him also to take care of me) and not someone to take care of him...be it educated or not we should always stick to some of our traditions
Pea85ce 3 years ago
i agree. i will cook everything in my own kitchen myself. and if i just needed a house help for any other thing..like cleaning a large house or running errands when busy, i will hire a young and able bodied BOY.
RosyBabe2022 2 years ago 4
It is something of an amusement that educated working men expect their educated working wives to do the cooking & sort the dishes & make sure the home is in order, when both the man & woman have had a long day at work ... This "way to a man's heart" thing disappears quickly when such a family moves to, say, Europe, where the realities of life means the man also has to help out. Not helping out with home chores diminishes a man; it's a remnant of the "I pay the bills" mentality; &, it's foolish.
Avonido 2 years ago 7
true, but in african culture where d man is head of household, tradition usually takes part n a marriage whether it b in europe, usa, africa or asia. So all that 50/50 stuff doesnt always fly wit african men. But i agree that a man should take equal care of his wife n be great as husband as well- NOT a one way street type thing. A man will usually stay where hes happy n well taken care of whether it be in d kitchen, bedroom or elsewhere. thats where that whole "way to a mans heart" comes from. .
RosyBabe2022 2 years ago
The change in the economic realities of the late 20th & 21st centuriesmeans that women have to work as hard as men to meet the economic demands of the family. The old model is based on the assumption of a full-time housewife; things aren't ever as simple as that anymore. I've no problem with all the ways to a man's heart: either through his stomach, or someplace lower, but: we must talk about the way to the woman's heart (after the wedding, eh). Real men help out at home, in Africa & elsewhere.
Avonido 2 years ago 5
awesome! I feel sorry for pple who ignore actual experiences. and try to rationalize and explain away every thing by fine sounding logic. I am a living testimony. compassionate men who are indeed educated need not be told to be actively involved in the runnings of the home. women who av accepted the master -servant relationship status of marriage will not see anything wrong no matter how u try to explain it to them. diff strokes
anikelove 2 years ago
its not even about master servant- its about knowing what it means to be a woman and knowing what it means to be a man as defined by God. We come and adopt all this western BS and then end up with a divorce rate as high as them because everyone wears the pants in the house. Everyone is master when God says the greatest one is the one who serves. What a mess!
royalstarr1 2 years ago
wow! Awesome. u've said it all. that reality hit me and my hubby too. in my home there is no woman's chores and the sort, we do it all it is who ever is freer. imagine coming home with a new born baby, no mother or relatives to tell u what how when. I was so sick , my hubby had to step up seriously to his game. cooking cleaning waking up to feed baby, u name it. it made us very close and securely bonded. pple cling to the same so called trdditns that leave strains in their relationship.
anikelove 2 years ago
this is just a fiction writting by some one like u ....u can do the same too...u will never know the value of what u have until u lose it....kudos guys..........to all ladies open ya eyes
paulakinyemithomson 3 years ago
Abeg, wat does "SITANDA" mean?
hottangel 3 years ago 4
this thing is out of sync mehn. thanks anyway ;-)
hyper10shun 3 years ago
thanks too...the sync is not good at all
taosikoya 3 years ago
Women all over the world need to be independent. Imagine either being the "property" of your husband, dumped by him and crawling back to live with your parents.
mokamoka79 3 years ago 14
true
labermon 3 years ago 3
eye 10 that!
maryray10 3 years ago
@mokamoka79 My aunt would have hurt this man long ago. As soon as he said he was tired of the marriage she would have said okay. See ya! I mean seriously she's responsible for all the bad things that have happened to him? LOL As if he doesn't make his own decisions. Please she should have checked out of that house as soon as he started acting a fool.
TVwriter23 1 year ago
@mokamoka79 fuck womans
veryfuck 9 months ago
i love stephanie!She is so good in her acting.
cinongo 3 years ago 8
whats with the crazy hair?
spicyladyb 3 years ago 4
chai na waa ooo
zinnymg 3 years ago
i tink she is supose 2 be a vilage gal in da city
icucominhere 3 years ago 3
Village girls r supposed 2 b trained in cooking b/c d fastest way 2 a man's heart is thru his stomach
ogboeleti 3 years ago
lol..village gurls tend to cook better dan dem city babes....trust
debadgirl 3 years ago
What is up with that hair? At least run a comb through it
jcchick19 4 years ago 15
@jcchick19 I looks like those weaves (no offense) that are touted as being human hair and then you have it on for a week or two and it clumps up no matter what you do. You end up paying 60 or more for some so-called real hair or high quality when it's crap. Plus there was an actress (can't remember) who; that stated that filmmakers will throw on weaves so they don't have to deal with hair. I'd rather deal with it; than having it look a hot mess. LOL
TVwriter23 1 year ago
@jcchick19 that's the point the husband was trying to make, that the wife doesn't seem to put an effort into how she looks.
tinatendi 5 months ago