Can Sexual Abstinence REALLY Work for You?

[smexytbone]

I think waiting for marriage is cool and everything but honestly unless your in a serious relationship and both of you have been TESTED for STD's then it isn't going to matter. Just because you now have a ring and a paper doesn't make the consequences of your fooling around days suddenly disappear...

[storm012345]

He examined my crotch and sack and told me nothing to worry about as I don't have any symptoms. But, I was scared like hell. So, guys and girls, you know what you need to do. Be careful. Don't jump into sex on first date. Know the person first. Do ask if he/she has STD. Nothing to be ashamed of that talk. If you are absitinent and waiting to get married. Its really nice of you, but don't ever regret your decision. Peace out!

[storm012345]

I waited for 30 years. 30 freaking years, not because I didn't want to but because I never had the courage. Finally, had sex with a girl with whom I went out on a date. But, sex was nothing special. Didn't feel anything at all. May be due to chronic masturbation. Then I got really scared, thinking I have contracted an STD. I went to an ER to get myself tested. Can you believe that shit? Yes, I did. Doctor,said you waited a long time!

[theboombody]

Even though I'm a two time world abstinence champion, I don't think abstinence is all that important. Of course I don't think sex is all that important either. I mostly side with people that want to be abstinent though because society puts too much importance it put on sex like it's the only thing that matters. Life has a lot of variety, and a lot of G-rated Shock Value.

[alexc475]

you dont need to have sex to prove you love a person, because all you need from that person is to know she/he will be there for you till the end of time, till you die and will always bring your mood up when your sad, depressed, someone who will help you with any troubles, Someone who doesnt care about sexuality just about you.

[d3rfliw]

just fuck already!

if u aren't married after dating and not fucking for 2 years either u aren't gonna get married or u aren't gonna get fucked after marriage.

u haven't gotten laid for years, guess what's gonna happen after u get married?

u're gonna fuck the shit outta her. u're gonna fuck her so hard that she'll have trouble walking the next day for like 2 years. this ain't good. u dont want ur wife to be limping every day.

[txmcxlx]

I'm not a teen but last week I picked up a security guard who didn't have sex in a long time. He tore off his clothes and dove into the bed and fucked me over and over again. Like a horse. I was filled up, torn up, and sticky with loads of cum. I'm 20.

[PeacefulSin93]

If people really think that abstinence is a good thing, then let me ask you this: Would you buy a car without taking it for a test drive? Exactly.

[MrDamien1976]

I would buy a car if I studied it, got to know it's history, and knew that this car would be capable of standing the test of time and is dependable. If you have no experience with sex then you won't have to compare sexual pleasure to other sexual encounters. Sex then can be an great way to explore, get freaky even.

[MrDamien1976]

But if your always thinking that the grass is greener on the other side because you created a pattern of sex, split, sex, split, then how can you fully enjoy the experience. Remember we are creatures of habit. When we're young we want all the rights, but none of the responsibility. For those of you that like to FUCK, knock yourself out, just be prepared to take your licks with the sticks. I've done my share of fuckin and had nothin but problems from it!!!

[Cheenjoo]

@PeacefulSin93 If our bodies were cars I can understand that but they're not. Our bodies are more precious than metal. Use another analogy.

[cutiepie1995lol]

@PeacefulSin93 but would you buy a car with a bunch of miles on it??

[turfwerks1]

@cutiepie1995lol I sure would if it was a GMC 2500 with a Duramax in it. A awesome truck with some get up and go. I don't mind a girl like that as well.

[lordblasfhemy]

During the middle ages sex was illegal accept for one month out of the year a church rule how would you married people have liked that. and if you got knocked up outside that period you got punished. to hell with the churches thought it is a great brainwashing destroyer from the middle east.

[txmcxlx]

This didn't work for my mom. She started fucking when she was fourteen and fucked a cop in HS. It was okay because he was a cop - and married.

[cavsgirl13]

I just think that if you do wait to have sex until you're married it makes everything a lot less complicated.

[asfaloth12]

I agree. It certainly gives you less to worry about (pregnancy, STDs, etc).

You can easily live without it :)

[blaaschenter]

To me, sex is a very important part of any healthy relationship. I seriously don't know if I'm ever going to be married. But if I do, I absolutely want to know if the sex with my future wife is good. If it's not, marriage is going to fail!

[lindsey2021]

Alot of people mistake healthy sexuality for promiscuity. While I personally encourage sex after marriage, if you are going to have sex before marriage it need to be with a long term partner and not with random people and most of all you should be responsible. I personally value sex as sacred and dont believe in bedding different men by the time I AM married.

[jewisba]

i just gang banged 3 random girls....it was sweet

[Tavereen]

Why?

[jewisba]

Tavereen r u the only sane person in this fucken world, mate i with u, these people are srsly brain fucked, analy

[6sully8391]

xfrenzy07, people who have sex before marriage are perfectly intelligent. Marriage is an artificial institution, one that's failing. We are sexual animals, and we should embrace sexuality, and that can be done responsibly, you can have control over your body and have sex before marriage. But I'm sorry your religious views have obviously encouraged you to be prejudice and judgmental.

[theboombody]

Is the family an artificial institution as well?

[xfrenzy07]

Sex, sex is for the intellegent. It's to reproduce and start a family with the one you love the most. People that have sex when their not married are not intellegent because they do not have self control over their own body . Well thats my opinion and im a Catholic by the way.

[charismaticace]

Intimacy doesn't come from physical contact, it's emotional. Here's an idea - talk to your partner, get to know them.

[texasroseingeorgia]

Just because someone is not a virgin when they get married does not mean that they are terrible. What IS important, is not giving it up to EVERY guy/girl you go on a date with. A person should at least wait until they are have a good solid relationship before delving into sexual things. If you are promiscuous, THATS when problems begin, even if you are careful.

[redrose2313]

I am a virgin and practicing abstinence. It can work if you really want to. I am almost 19. And I have had boyfriends, we just know when to stop.

[jewisba]

fucks wrong with u

[redrose2313]

Nothing. I don't see a point in going out and having sex with a ton of guys. I am saving myself for the person who loves me enough to wait. Plus I am so young, if something did go wrong i wouldn't be ready. I am being responsible. You have your beliefs and I have mine. Plus I have been sexually abused 6 times.

[jewisba]

watever

[WISEGUY50505]

From a guy who practices abstinence (believe me, I know my kind is going extinct) it really is the right way to go. There's no point in having sex with every person that you go out with, because then you've basically established that you are nothing more than a piece of meat, and that you can't handle a meaningful relationship, so you have to rely on biological traits simply to keep one. This doesn't mean you can't have desires, but seriously! Grow a pair but don't show it to everyone...

[redrose2313]

That's awesome!! Keep your head up, you have a good head on your shoulders. I wish there were more "men" like you. Not boys. Men!! Very wise words :)

[charismaticace]

Good man, glad to know I'm not the only one!

[Tavereen]

There is nothing wrong with choosing to have sex, just like there's nothing wrong with choosing not to have sex. What's wrong is forcing your beliefs on others, especially children.

[Tavereen]

There's nothing wrong with her, she just doesn't want to have sex. Nothing wrong with that.

[Dancing88Mike]

Good for you I'm 21 and never been kissed its not a big deal I'm saving it so good for you. People like you in me are like a diamond in the ruff in this deplorable society we live in today

[redrose2313]

I 100% agree. When you go out and have sex with multiple people it loses intimacy. I mean how would you feel knowing your future husband or wife is doing like 10 other people before they gets to you? I want my husband to have EVERYTHING of me. Not just a part. Good for you!!!!! :D

[jewisba]

thats the dumbest thing i ever ever ever read, fuck, grow a brain and get a grip, its the 21 century man!

[Dancing88Mike]

What does living in the 21st century have to do with anything. I think you just have a lot of anger issues. From your comments I serioiusly doubt your 20. I'm blocking you so have a nice day.

[theboombody]

Ah, people just haven't seen my cool abstinence promotion video yet. That will bring change and hope, just like our president predicted.

[AntiSexualPower]

I love abstinence & religion.

why dont we be friends?

[jewisba]

can i be ur friend

[HerzAusStein6]

so, it's ok for them to use fingers but not really doing it?:))))) i'm so fed up with all kinds of hypocrits and the "we know when to stop" line.

[txmcxlx]

Ass fucking is okay.

[gatewaynoble]

slippage lol

[kaygirl7]

communication and trust-the key to every relationship.

[UltimateGoalOfLife]

I wrote a book about relationship and marriage in a way different than how must people woud argue it. I hope some of you would evaluate my book: The Ultimate Goal of Life: Sacred Genetic Code Theory. Thank you.

[p1gta1p]

Abstinence has worked out for me. I prefer to remain asexual, even if I was married.

[talan7887]

Gods is there to advise us and guide us but not impose values to which we are in contradiction!

Laisse les gens faire leurs choix!

Let peoples makes their choices!

And a last thing The condom is tested and appouvé by Gods!

[joaovrsa]

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[gotssdam]

it is natural as you want it to be. It has worked for me and i am almost 21. I have had sexual intimacy with out having sex.

[Jeremyguru]

You had sexual intimacy without having sex? How?

[Xycopixie]

Cuddling ^_^!

[theboombody]

Porn? Does that count?

[13buthead]

thats kinda sad =(

[Acidpunk101]

Seriously, dan and jenn, what a kickass idea, this is the kinda thing people need, keep it up, you have my own personal high 5 :P

[Jacob951]

This whole abstinence thing sounds good in theory, but it just isn't natural... which is why it almost never works.

[theboombody]

Nah, abstinence only doesn't work because people are following the hype. Nothing but viagra commercials on TV. Abstinence is a lot cooler than people think it is. Although it does limit a small part of life's behavior, it provides an incredible amount of opportunity. Watch my abstinence video. I think you'll find it most unique.

[HerzAusStein6]

No. What incredible amount of opportuiny, le'ts be serious. Abstinence from 18+ just shows an incredible fear of true life. I don't understand those who are in a relationship and say they love their partner, but don't want to do it. Physical contact is the most intimate way of love.

[theboombody]

Abstinence shows a fear of true life? I lived on a deserted island for 7 years. That's not fearing true life. And what do I need relationships for? I'm a champion. I've got gold.

[HerzAusStein6]

i think you're just schizophrenic.

[theboombody]

I think so too, but it's fun. I've always had a good time being abstinent.

[kapsakorsten]

sex is fun too

[txmcxlx]

Right, I like to fuck.

[alexc475]

@HerzAusStein6 sometimes you just dont think your mentally ready even if you are physically matured, all though physical contact is a great way to show love i prefer to know theres someone there who cares about me till i die then someone who just touches me and fucks me all day just to screw me in the future in life

[smexytbone]

@Jacob951 Uhh it works. And there are many people where it has worked for them. Just because YOU think it isn't natural doesn't mean we have to act like animals.

[DanAndJenn]

What is the right reason to choose abstinence? If you've never had sex, how do you define the boundaries of sexual activity? If you've agreed not to have sex, is it possible to still have sexual intimacy?

[jiujitsuboy]

Sexual abstinence is a source of power. Just as resisting temptation or conquering addiction it is exactly the same level of mastery over the human body and mind. As a boy I foresaw not to sleep with unintelligent sluts, as a man I hate a lot of women, not all, and justifiable so. Women and men who are obsessed with sex are in a sense emotionally weak. Sex is natural but the cultivation of energy from abstinence can give you a level of superiority noticeable by all, a strong man can be abstinent

[iltns22]

@jiujitsuboy man i love your words!!