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  • I wish you were my daughter-in-law!! My son married this woman right before he went back to Afghanistan, I have spoken to her ONLY once, and I could tell my son MADE her speak to me....Since then, she has never spoken to me again...So, come on, it goes both ways..But you seem like the kind of D-I-L I would have loved to have!!!

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  • I was with my x 4 11yrs..His mom never said anything 2 me personally but she said stuff 2 her son who would tell me. What I did was let it b known that I'm with ur son not the family..I'm grown n I dont ask yal 4 nothin. I'm goin respect u cuz I wouldnt want nobody 2 disrespect my mom but what we do aint got nothin 2 do with u. When u had ur man how much of that advice that u give him did u use n ur own relationship? Apparently none cuz u lonely n by yaself. I'm sorry I'm just blunt.. real rap

  • YOU ARE SO REAL.....THERE NEEDS TO BE MORE REAL WOMEN LIKE YOU!

  • I JUST LOVE YOU !

  • mother in laws are Bitches.. dont ever bring yourself to her low level.

  • love it mama

    

  • Your videos are looooong but i always watch the whole thing. Certain parts really make me laugh because we think the exact same way!!

  • Exactly what i was looking for

  • Love the earrings... I have them in Blue!!!

  • I'm a man. My mother doesn't bothers us, my wifes mother does. She tries to control what i say, how i say it and how i discipline my 2 sons. She tried to tell me when to marry my wife, now my wife is starting to act like her mother.

  • You look gorgeous

  • youre right but theres a tiny little prblem, i have asked her why she doesnt like me and oh my God! She became NASTY, i mean, calling me names, making gestures I myself have never seen in my life but were extremelly vulgar! My mouth fell down to the floor, I mean she is like 60 yrs. old!

  • and my mother in law live with me for two years and you see what can happen she got cussed out....but now she knows her place and i wont take her shit so now we are good friends

  • hey girl...i just started watching you and i really enjoy all your videos...but this one right here i had the same problem....but with me i kept telling my man to tell his mother she needed to back off and mind her own bussiness and to know her place but he never did....so she went has far has to tell him i was cheating on him...needless to say i cussed her ass out like no one ever has...i felt bad but she got my point and yes me and my man broke up for a while but he knew she had it coming...

  • love the advice! i've been dealing with the mother in law junk for years! and i got it worse cause she lives in the house with us!!!! i'm praying that she will soon find her own place and move out! i need that room for my littlest child there isno more room for her.

  • my ex mother in law use to do me like that...and it do hurts but when the husband don't stand up to the mother it is always going to be some bullshit...You have to move on and live your life and love yourself and your children

  • That's a STEPHANIE wig. Girl pray for the mother-in-law and keep it pushin. Some people are just nasty and bitter. She could just be mad that you 'took her son'. Some women are just like that...and make HIM get HER in check

  • Truth 2... As my granny would say. I think she trying u. Stand up for urself. Nobody else will if u don't.

  • I have the SAME thing! My mother in law has hated me since day 1! I have NEVER done anything to hurt her or my husband's sister, yet they think I am just the scum of the Earth!

    I can't change them or how they feel about me :(

    All I can do is control the way I feel about myself.

    I have a 7 year old with Autism from a previous marriage and my brother, who also has Autism, lives with us too.

    You're a good mother and a good woman, don't let her get the best of you! :)

    God Bless!

  • i'm dealing with the same shit....except we live right next door to mom i just got out of the hospital from stress....

  • Muchlove You are sooo right. I am so glad you brought this too light. You are soo right. Not only are you his wife, a grown woman, you are his partner in life, raising children, holding your household together. You deserve respect and need to demand it. I had a similar situation and did not address the problem initially. It ended in a all out blow out., which I was not glad about. However, my husband had my back and believe you me she now knows what boundaries not to cross.!

  • I'm so glad I don't have any sons.

  • But she did learn. We get along just fine now. Hell, we even buddies.....ummm hmmmmm....

  • Oh and yes, like almondy said below -- I used to beg my husband to put his bitch ass mother on a leash - and yes, I actually used those exact words in the company of other people, and his punk ass wouldn't do shit. So that's why I had to tell her ass off in that now infamous 4 page single spaced letter when I went off on her ass and told her every little thing she ever did that pissed me off and dissed me for no reason. I tried and tried to get along with her; but she had to learn the hard way

  • I then went to law school and moved her beloved only child son, my husband, and her only grandbabies clear across the country and didn't speak to the witch for years until her mother died. She learned though. I didn't cuss her in the now infamous letter but she shows me nothing but respect now because she knows that I am not the one to try. I'm a grown ass woman. Stand up for yourself and check your MIL. My great grandma always used to say, "You teach people how to treat you." Think about it.

  • I been married 15 years now. After the birth of my second son 11 years ago, I found out my first son was autistic. My MIL was always undercover rude to me and I took the shit because I wanted to respect my elders. But when I sensed that she was slighting my eldest child becuase I thought he had a diagnosis of autism, I blasted her ass in a letter that documented everything she had ever pissed me off about from the time we met until then. She didn't refute a damn thing either. cont. above..

  • I had a similar experience with my mother in-law at first. But you see, I'm a lot like you. I don't hold back and had to put the bitc...woman in her place a couple of times.So now, we have no problems getting along. She may still not like me, but she don't fuck with me like she used to. Anyway, I hold the young lady's husband partly responsible for that shit. His punk ass needs to stand up to his mother and respectfully tell her that he does not appreciate how she treats his...period!

  • Great advice. You look so beautiful muchlove.

  • I like your veiws on this topic. I was dealing with this myself earlier this year but I wasn't married to the guy but we were going to get married. We well I decided to break things off because he couldn't think for himself. He let his mom doing the thinking for him. I felt like I was marrying his mom and not him.

  • @sharmika04 you did the right thing my sister

  • You need your own show Wendy Williams cant touch you girl!!

  • I just love you you just tell it like it is, I Totally agree with you!

  • I just love you you really tell it like it is!!!!! I totally agree with you.

  • I am so glad I get along with my Baby's father mother. She is like a second mother to me. She can't wait until we are married.

  • Your very pretty. 

  • muchlove I love you for that comment "grab ya aprin and the yeast rolls" omg im was on the floor rolling...you are so real i love it...blessings always...

  • You are so funny:) you are awesome!!!!!!!!!! You handle the real talk:)

  • you look lovely yellow is ur color!!!

  • U LOOK FANTASTIC! THIS COLOR LOOKS GOOD ON YOU & THE HAIR WITH THE FLOWER IS REALLY YOUTHFUL..GREAT ADVICE I HAD THE SAME PROBLEM & DEALT WITH IT THE WAY U TOLD HER..BELIEVE ME I HAD NO MORE PROBLEMS :)

  • @NevaehsMakeup thank you my sister how are you

  • You look so pretty!!

  • I feel as tho i haven't watched yuh videos in a while..im slackin..cuz u crazyy girl...in a qood way..lol

  • Mommas Boy! ugh! You really need to put her in her place ask her i did n some mothers are just full of it i was with my X for 11yrs n his family never liked me n i kept on being with him until i got fed up of no family ties. Now my mother in law is GREAT! We r twins at heart n I wouldnt replace her for nothing. Life is too short not to be happy. Get at your husband first than if it doesnt work ask her whats the deal? God bless!

  • great advice...i will just ignore the hell out of her...and the best thing me and my husband have done for our marriage was move...out of the state...

  • Love the Makeupp!!!

  • MUCHLOVE... was that a plastic cup I just saw you drinking out of?? LOL...(remember YOU MIGHT BE A HOOD RAT IF???) I'm just messing with you girl I know you're not a hood rat but I just fell out laughing when I saw you take a swig from that cup...LOL!!!

    Love the advice on this vid by the way......take care!

  • @speshalkaye lol yes it is i am getto

  • Girl U & I have the same story! My grandmother on my dad's side never liked my mom...I think mother's can really be out of pocket. Dont get me wrong there's some wives/gfs that Im sure some in-laws just wanna whip ass! In this case I just think the mother is just pure & divine jealous!

  • You look really pretty.. I'm loving the eye make up & the hair.

  • Like it was said you bring SOMETHING ELSE to the table.....I feel you ...she deserves respect if she gives it ... But pay her NO ATTENTION smile and be as nice as you can be .....it will kill her more! I married a mommas boy well grannys boy and we had to lay it out there.... I had to address the fact of him calling her for EVERYTHING and her needing him for the simplest shit....BUT my mother always said if he dont respect his mother he wont respect you either....

  • well I have been through this..she is going to have learn to ignore or don't just be bothered with her. It is hard but her husband is going to have to help out with the situation.

  • Thank you so much Much Love

  • i dont do MIL's. They dont fuck with me cause i will come out the bag on their ass. My ex husband momma was something else and so was i lol.I dont care for MIL. My new MIL always call him for money or some shit and my hubby lets her ass know you got to consult the wife. Whatever she says goes.When she calls my phone i know she wants something cause she know my hubby aint gettn that shit. She knows if she dont have a relationship with me he aint fooling with her. She hates it. i lmao

  • my mother in law lives directly across the street. And i think i see her maybe 3 times a week, for the rest she does not bother us although sometimes she acts a little bit crazy lol. For the rest she is a good person she has just paid for our hotel room for 4 days, our dinner and anything else we wanted on our recent trip. Good luck to everyone else out there with MIL's!

  • I had mother in law drama when I WAS married to my EX husband. She lived up the street! When I tell you that she knew when my bills were do & I couldn't write a check w/o her knowledge, I am NOT playing. My ex husband was a mama's boy & couldn't stand up to her. I had to put my foot down and tell them BOTH that I am the MRS & QUEEN in MY house. She was never rude & disrespectful but overbearing. Once I laid the law, it was like a new found respect ALL across the board.

  • Great video

  • Stop gracing her with your presence and MOVE! (if you can). LOL! You're married to her son not her and you don't have to go around for her abuse. I know that she is his mom but turth be told he is going to have to make a choice eventually. I have been there and done that. He(my hubby) made a choice and when it became clear to his family and mom she changed because she wanted her son in her life and she loves our kids and didn't want to lose them. STAY Strong!

  • @andrea112973 Thank you sooo much we are saving to move now.

  • For one I say don't worry about the mother-in-law your not married to her and your married to her son so here approval isn't needed on anything. And plus your hubby should step in tell his mother that your disrespecting his wife. If that fails then you give her a few choice words in the most respectful way of course. And just keep your distance because trust she's not stressing out about you and you shouldn't be stressing about her

  • I think the first mistake was moving that cloe tohismother! I fell she need a women 2 women with his mother2. I fell once you speak with her leave it there and if she still fell the same way love her from afar!

  • Sadly, after 8 years, it is doubtful Mommy will change -- she may, but she needs to set her boundaries and make sure her hubby stands by her on that.

    Love that Lemon/Lime Look on you!

  • Been there, done that. I am quick to clip my MIL at the knees when she wanders into 'dumb shit' territory. I'm respectful, but I my tolerance is low for her over some stunts she has pulled in the past. She now lives 600+ miles away and I LOVE IT!!!

  • I been in that situation, All she gotta do is put her in her place 1 time..Let her know that she's a woman too and she deserve respect. Once she see that you won't tolerate it she will back off..Put here in her place...Talk to your husband and let him know you don't like what's going on..It' time for him to move on..Not to say say abandon his mama, but at least give his wife some respect..I know my in-laws don't like me ,but who cares..It makes me be me all the more...

  • My God! I can relate to this story and you great advice!!! My husband and I have been married for four years and have known each other for eight. His mother had a serious problem with me but I always the mentality that I'm not fucking her! I didn't do a damn thing to try and please her and I think that bothered her more than anything. We're cool now but that didn't happen until I told her ass off RESPECTFULLY. It also helped that she knew I was crazy enough to not let her see her grandkids! LOL!

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  • wow diva ou look freakin hot!!

  • He needs to cut the cord between him and his mother. It's fine if she doesn't like the lady he is married to but she needs to have a valid reason. If it's just because then his mother has issues that should be discussed between the three of them.

  • Hello Muchlove I'm a new subscriber and loving the videos. I also love the wig reviews. I love a good "girlfriend" (wig) Great advice, we teach people how to treat us. You are right she should pull her to the side and have what i like to call is A Grownup Conversation. and I would have one with my husband as well especially if she disrespects you in front of her.

  • Muchlove you look so pretty, all festive and all. gone girl.. It is nothing like being married to the man you love and having the best mama in law, buuuut sometimes that is not the case. Hubby need to talk to mama explain to her that he is married and she needs to respect that and his wife. The Wife needs to continue to respect mama inlaw and figure out a way to get along or maybe establish a relationship so that her husband would not be caught in between. I know it is easier said than done.

  • Hey mama - I agree with you on all points. thanks so much for being you -

    because of it you always make my day! Love and hugs, Miguel Mwah :O)

  • Me and My husband have each others back so we don't have the drama. I respect my mother in law and he respects my mother but if anything goes down we are there for each other

  • Yellow really compliments your skin tone. I love the flower accent.

  • Hey much luv! Girl I love the look. Im so jealous of that hair that you have in your hair but girl you SHAPE!

    Mother in laws. Wheew. Been though that crap ~ugh~

    Sometimes the mothers or grandmothers can be like that.

    But hunny it does not matter what she thinks. So she can be mad all she wants lmao. There is a saying that you have to Give respect to reccive respect. If she dont like you and she s saying all this mean rude stuff then she can take her but else where.

  • Great advice!! you look so pretty in yellow. My mother in law disowned her son when he married me (we are an interacial couple) I still tried to be th bigger person and get to know her, but she didn't have anything to say, so I said I tried and moved on. Been together 7 years and going strong...Thank goodness she lives in Flordia!!

  • great advice and you look so pretty in the yellow.

  • hers its just 2 blocks away try to have her live right upstairs from you..its just feeling like you have a omen on your life..i feel like im cursed but im moving soon so it will be free at last from the hell lady i know what shes coming from i just dont listen to her i act like she is death in the ears..lmao

  • I agree. Dont even play that game with his mother. Ask her why she says what she says. Get it right out front. If she will not do that,stay away from her.

  • Good advice.

  • To pretty you are! love you my girl!

  • good advice

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