Ugly Duckling Syndrome (A message)

[NexoPablo]

sofine

[smileyisuglyhorse]

WHAT are you talking about the pictures of you are pretty.

[shangita1988]

Wow you remind me of me and my hear it was horrible whe i grew older my mom couldnt handle it so she brushed it until it poofed. Until one day i got a perm and that ruined my hair. How did you transition youre hair ?



[shangita1988]

Wow you remind me of me and my hear it was horrible whe i grew older my mom couldnt handle it so she brushed it until it poofed. Until one day i got a perm and that ruined my hair. How did you transition youre hair ?

[sadieviction]

Thanks for the advice. I'm going through a lot of psychological bullying at the moment, but I do ignore it, even though it does really effect me.

[Raphaelx2ily]

LOL. I had picks that look like that! They got lost in transit when I moved, but I so get the puffy hair & being flat chested thing. I was actually lucky to start growing boobs in the 10th grade, but now I wish they'd stop. Went from a 32 A to a 44 DD in 6 years. So not fun :(

[smurfsgot1]

i thought i was the only personthat used this term,wow,small world

[kyzmet123]

Your hair was beautiful!! I always wanted hair like yours when I was younger.

[proverb311031]

being bright and cute, is never a bad thing, knowing as much as you can just means that you will one day be a knowledgeable leader

[TOMisNOTfunny]

You were a sexy little kid, idk what you were thinking

[MrMartinas89]

@TOMisNOTfunny pervert!

[TOMisNOTfunny]

@MrMartinas89 more like sex addict combined with a little alcoholism, top that all off with a hardcore meth addiction and we have what some queers call a pervert

[MCLambDahling3000]

So, if you got your hair relaxed (perm), then, did you cut it and then grow it all back?

[MrRYANHAYES78]

VERY CUTE YOUNG LADY...

[jon2xu]

Hey nobody"s ugly.

[xxXXXNataj4Jam3sxxXX]

ahahahha i went thru this too.. ur my youtube twin.. we go thru like the same stuff ahahaha i may make a video like this..

but 16.. i wish.. ive had my since the typial 12.. it RUINED my life.. but since u were late.. does that mean later menopause???????

[nerdygrl64]

Honey you were a cute little girl and there is nothing wrong with being a nerd. Those nerds who studied and worked hard have jobs (and high paying at that), run the country, invent technology, write amazing books, give the news on tv, etc. Junior high is hard for everyone, believe me, you should have seen me at school when i was in middle school. Your middle school sounded terribel though. I just had image issues, no one outwardly made fun of me. Wonderful video though

[TheXander360]

love the vid but maybe turn the music down

[TheXander360]

fuck you

[bigshiz]

you was adorable then, and cute now .

[trinidadrrc]

If Sade and Maya produced a child with a hint of emo, it would be you.  Hugs

[QuanSai]

lol  You're right.

[TonyaTko]

Cute vid!

and girl there was nothing wrong with your hair that some water and grease couldnt fix :=P

-Tko

[QuanSai]

U L T R A S H E E N !

[TheXander360]

i think it looked fine lol

[GeasyBag]

go out more lmao

[shygirl4eva1]

You were so cute :D you werent an ugly duckling at all :)

[TheGolden73]

What a lovely young lady.

[SalyaCC]

Aw ; ; Thats so sad.

Your pictures werent even bad.

I guess people have diff opinions.

Lovely one.

[Joramboo]

ur hair looked just fine. Nice fro.. When u got a fro u need to be proud of dat. I think its one of the nicest hairdo's there is

[HighZombiesRule]

Bewbs plz.

[balletnow]

You are soo adorable and you were then:) Your a doll:) I used to straighten my hair too much and now my natural cures have gone away a little, so i wish I still had hair like yours

[titoferni29]

Girl, You are paranoid, you were adorable then and now too! I like your photos, don't be so mean to yourself!

[benympls]

You were a really cute little kid! Even the hair!

(well i agree the 9 year old pic wasnt the greatest but they just got you at a bad angle/moment). Arggh. i wish kids would be easier on themselves. But yea nerds kick ass and i hope your still a nerd... after all now its the cool thing to be.

[Silkspine]

Aww isn't she a peach! IMO, some of the sweetest, most beautiful people are often those that did not always have everything so easy! Having everything come easy is not always a good thing especially later on in life when inevitably the going *does* get tough at some stage. Two quotes I like 1) What doesn't kill you makes you stronger 2) Beauty without discretion is like a gold ring through the nose of a pig.

[CosmoGurlLuvsBeauty]

lolz n the pic 4rm when u were 9 u looked like the boy zero from that movie holes

[mewpie123]

yeah im goin into 8th this year

the A-hole rich kids hate my hair im gettin sick of it there always badgering me to straighten it and stuff :(

[BTownzBoss08]

If you lik your hair how it is than keep it that way...Dont let those igrnorant kids mak u someone that ur not.

[Darkkorners]

I dont know but you a bad mamma jamma now sista...

[idunnosia]

ok black girls is in my list

[therealoliviaj]

OMG I FEEL UR PAIN!!!

people are sooo mean!!!

[SinSeared]

Dont gas yourself up. You're not too hot today.

[Mille23e]

This girl is so beautiful INSIDE and OUT what is her name and where is she from? Girls probably was hating on her because she was beautiful. She's intelligent, loving, and just extremely attractive. Stay beautiful especially on the INSIDE, looks fade away but a loving heart is eternal.

[darknesswithinu]

aww! i had this when i was younger too....i hated secondary school..... lol

[KAW1495]

I am biracial and have hair like you. i want to now what you use in your hair cuz my hair always ets so fizzy and ouffy after a while and i don't want to straighten it any more i just want to wear my real hair. help please i love your hair i want it

[xSsj3Sasukex]

Are you serious?

You were/are Hot...

D:

[punkkkkin]

U ARE NOT & NEVER HAVE BEEN and ugly duckling. You are very pretty. I know kids can be cruel but you are very pretty and you are right, it does get better for young people who are going through rough times. Good Vid!

[xMyaxMassacrex]

This was a great vid dude and I always thought you had the prettiest hair ever since we first met way back when on the playground :) I would kill for hair like yours

[illuded]

How did you fix your hair? I have annoying poffy hair :(

[HAITIANGROUND]

poor baby............damn now i feel realy bad T^T

[Mupe1]

Your right. Don't put yourself down in life. I Get It.

[oreoolivia]

i fell you!

[snorlax140]

You look cute

[psychoscribe13]

I like the vid quality. It adds a certain surrealistic quality.

[dbadmus]

Damn its been a minute since I saw this lil girls video/account. I'm surprised she's still around and even more surprised that her vid quality is still just as crappy.

Would her all 417 subscribers donate $1 each that she stop putting you guys through hell?

[psychoscribe13]

You were cute. Especially with the braces:)

[crazybigyo]

bully's just want attention. or they get beaten at home.

[iloveporsha18]

people always make fun of the pretty people in middle school, or of the people that turned out really pretty. people alwaysss use2 make fun of me and when i see them now, they are look ridicoulous (cant spell) but i know xactly how u feel, and ur beautifuL!!

[9885585855]

i so feel you middleschool was a headach

[dreamerbre]

right...

[LittleMonster18]

cute! and the hair is gorgeous. I would kill to have curls like yours (NO KIDDING!)

[visculent]

ohh and in re: to this vid, the best thing i'll say is, 1. don't take it peronsal any longer (b/c it has more to do with other peoples emotional garbage than you) 2.) the more you let go of the pain of past, the more love for yourself you can have in the now. 3.) you are way to f** amazingly beautiful to to be tripping about any of this shit. then again, props for getting it out, you're on the way to "release".

much love!

[visculent]

hey -- i saw your other video on your hair, i'm so suprised all these bi-racial women don't know about it... if you really want the best product,for your exact hair type, there is this french product line.. it's called Kérastase. it will rocks your pants off and do wonders to your hair. for real!

[Wiseguy455]

I made a video about my high school experience too.

I like the points you made in this video.

[Wiseguy455]

I think in my case, High School was worse for me than Middle School was. I don't really remember much suffering in m. school. As the kids got older, that's when they drank more and shit. I wasn't a big drinker or partier so I got made fun of.

I remember in high school I was so miserable I wanted to drop out and join the army.

I'm doing good now though, I'm in college.

But yea, middle school and high school are such concrete environments, not much room for independence.

[kwrwade]

really awesome video, i think everyone has a bit of a tough time in school eventually, i know i did sometimes, but like you said, life gets better, and college years are awesome.lol so... that should be something to look forward to, for younger viewers. when i was in middle school, especially the first two years its was difficult for various reasons, 8th grade was awesome though, aww..the middle school memories.lol

take care, nerds rock!! lol

[hotfuzzfan08]

i was ugly in middle school and got picked on too then high school came it kicked ass it was a complete change i got popular not that is what its all about but like gets better once u get away from all those imature assholes

[jennipoo55]

bumblebee! i completely hated middle school because i was picked on alot too! it really does get better...esp after high school. college is when u get to refine yourself. i feel like a late bloomer mentally because my parents were way too overprotective.

anywho love your videos...you should think about making "Ugly Duckling Syndrome" into a series. i bet a lot of ppl can relate =]

[WWAHP]

There's nothing wrong with those early pictures of you, your hair is fine, and you were never an ugly duckling. I'm glad you got pass the teasing, and like is good for you now.

[Anniebear561]

You're right life definitely does get better after school. I got made fun of and I let it affect my schoolwork and I suffered for that. I felt stuck in high school like I couldn't change. Now that I'm out of school I feel like I can do w/e I wanna do. I'm in college now and I just made honor roll last semester. Holla!!!

~Anne

[JaneyfromKorea]

oh! and ps i emailed two of my high school bullies, and they BOTH apologized and said they didnt know what they did affected me like that. i was shocked! but relieved too

[JaneyfromKorea]

i think late bloomers are cooler! ;)

thanks for the vid and the soothingggg music.

now you are a beautiful young girl. with character!

[maxout2009]

Most of it was just YOUR thoughts feelings and beliefs about yourself. The teasing comes from not showing an outward self-confidence in yourself. Other children see this and tend to tease. Now as your older I hope you are beyond the self hating.

[ShaneM686]

While you were a cute kid:) You have definitely blossomed into an extremely beautiful young woman, and you're so nice and interesting, those are the 2 main reasons I watch your vids.

I also grew up really fast around 6-7th grade and since I was bigger than a lot of kids, I stuck up for a lot of kids who were picked on. I still do the same, being nice to other people... stick up and help where I can... so much hatred and anger in this world, I want to do my part to make the place a bit nicer

[ShaneM686]

<3 Bumblebee... I was a nerdy jock i guess in grade school. This allowed me to mediate different groups of people and have diverse friends, which helped me have multiple perspectives and a better understanding of not just the social atmosphere at the time, but people in general.

I haven't changed much, still a philosophizing, physical/outdoorsie, read books, practice yoga, meat head in the gym, conversationalist, part partier, part loner.

Most people want the same things... you have to remember

[chaniee]

This is a great video because I can relate to what you're talking about. I HATED middle school so much, I was so depressed then because people would always make fun of me and call me ugly... and I still have low self esteem from it =/ But it does get better, people don't mess with me anymore.

Oh and yay I'm a nerd! xD

[tiffdjones]

lovely video! great advice. i think you were (and still are) adorable and i even liked the hair :)

thanks for sharing!

[phantomscarz]

i loved the video but it reminded me of how much i hate school

[phantomscarz]

by the way

you should get on blogtv and go live sometimes

[MassZombicide]

I don't think it gets better but I do like when the bullied retaliate rather than killing themselves, it makes it all worth it.

[TylerDaMan52306]

Amen!! I have too many middle school horror stories!!