Nice GuYs finish last but they finish. Appreciate the feed back. I do gotta say this though.it may take a "Man" to " Man up" but it takes an even Greater man to Man down or step back when he knows enough. Thanks Chantel,keep up the good work, clue these little boys in. Truly.
Protection? So the woman thinks that if I'm able to kick her ass(or convince her that I can), then she'll think I can kick a man's ass and therefore FEEL protected? Did I get that right?
The biology of nice guys /vs alpha males is well documented in several species. The alpha male is a gene provider ,and females in their years of peak sexual attarctiveness generally compete to host the children of alpha males. After Their peak period,they prefer beta males to help nurture the offspring of the alpha males,who have long left to impregnate other females in their prime years. Its cruel,but its a biological law.
@jeetendrag10acc2 Thats why the rock star who punches her in the face will always be more desirable than the accountant who makes her breakfast in the morning ........so...just make sure you google "asset protection" about hiding your hard earned property,then you get married. Don;t be the loser who pays for the "hoe who pretends to be loving wife".
Relationships are challenged by circumstances and social influences. They fail if they are not managed with care and consideration of the other person's feelings. The mismanagement of these relationships ultimately bring grief and pain to all the people involved. Seek to manage your relationships with care and consideration of the other person's needs. Recognize that sometimes you cannot repair the errors of your past; however today is the first day of the rest of your life.~Ervin Jackson, PhD
You are exactly correct.. The men that learn this will be dating. That is the point. its not right, its not fun, its not normal from a guys point of view, yet, if one does what she is saying, they will have a date. I have been around women practicing, ITs interesting. She is right, One has to show himself, cannot hold it in. One must show her , play her tests, be alpha. A man must grow up and except life the way it is.. Or, no dating..
As a Real Man I can tell you that any woman that doesn't have enough discernment in her spirit to know that you're a good pick isn't worth your time. These type of women "mostly American women" lack any kind've real character and you eventually learn down the road that they're not worth your time. Yeah I can exhibit a bad attitude&money around these women. But instead I've always chosen to flaunt humility because it always manages to root out that real exterior motive that a lot of women have.
Nice guys and pushovers are to different things. I love nice guys because they are sweet and they're gentlemen and they actually care about you and LOVE you. What girls doesn't want that? Why would a girl rather be abused than be treated right? Nice guys can treat you better than " bad boys" and protect u to. But it depends on who I run in to.
alright, well i know this is your opinions and stuff, but i have a lady, who loves me for me, and im one of the nice guys, not all girls have the same opinions on guys you dumbass, my girls hot as hell, and way better looking than you, and she looked at this video, and said she wanted to punch your teeth out, not all woman want this bullshit, so stop talking for everone, SO FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!
As long a the retarded logic mentioned in this video goes on so will go on the process of being cheated on, used, and women wondering why I can't find a "good guy".
Women like you are delusional; it takes a strong man to not get into any BS and treat someone with respect and handle his business as a man spirtually,emotionally, and financially. Ask them women on the tv show Snapped if they could handle their non-pushover man cause he skated out on them with multiple women and in the end, it didn't work out to well. Blame yourself towards the end of your life when you're that old grandma in the rocking chair with nobody cause you chased all nice men away.
The biology of nice guys /vs alpha males is well documented in several species. The alpha male is a gene provider ,and females in their years of peak sexual attarctiveness generally compete to host the children of alpha males. After Their peak period,they prefer beta males to help nurture the offspring of the alpha males,who have long left to impregnate other females in their prime years. Its cruel,but its a biological law.
the guys who are getting offended over this video who claim they are nice guys are actually assholes, or either they are nice guys who got no self esteem at all because any man who is confident in himself would not be getting so upset over this video
@buckda54 actually you are not making any sense. If she is speaking the truth about reality, How can it be bullshit? is it because you are too afraid to handle the truth so therefore you think it's bullshit?
She is a female and speaking from a female stand point. Are you a male? because if you are male then you can't possibly think like a lady. So although you have an opinion it is not at all valid in this argument.
So sit down and stop misterpreting knowledge which you are unware of.
@verrrr1 Im saying its bullshit because the truth is something that shouldnt even have to happen...people using what she saying as an excuse which is the truth are really insecure and cant handle generosity...but when they go back to their old ways then its comfortable for them to complain again...
you know what is so funny? all this lame comment from the socalled nice guys who says they are nice guys. A lot of you guys who gave a responds to this video and are getting offended actually you are acting like assholes. And just because a girl doesnt want a guy who is too nice, it doesnt mean she wants a thug who will beat up on her.
Why so angry? what is wrong with a woman wanting a guy with a backbone? some of you sicken me
I do not think many women would know what to do with a man they crave for so much for such a man. A man that know how to look after her and do the right thing and treat her with respect and value her opinions and make a difference in her life. it my be boring to her but its the right way. women don't like men like me I am weak for being to nice. ihey are chatting B.S and think they know what they want.
LOL basically this woman said women are weak and lazy, and I guess them being lazy is apart of their weakness, so they need someone to take care of their weak asses, then on top of being weak they are too stupid, which I guess is also an extension of how weak and pathetic they are, to figure out what kind of man will actually take care of their weak asses, lol wow
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
its tiring trying to be a manly man so you can get the woman. my advise is to be yourself. If she don't like you, she can go fuck herself. Most women just want attention. Stop giving it to her. And don't put you happiness in someone elses hand. It works for me
@buckda54 this true: my friend is hindu,like me,he married a christian woman, and he tells me she is like a fairy . he never ceases to tell me how lucky he is to have been her sweetheart.
Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).
I'll give you some advice right now..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out lol
Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the info.
Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).
I'll give you some advice right now..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com
Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha
Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the wealth
Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did). I'll give you some advice right now..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com
Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha
Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the wealth.
its good to see being nice dont get u no where really every man is gonna protect tha woman they love, and do the best they can to protect th without them questioning ur manhood, its very true though u cant give ur heart to a woman not 100% its better to not show emotion and be single never tell them thing in life that have hurt u, at least i know why there are so many thugs and typical black men look at how the beautiful black women think of us, they wonder why we end up dogs, but god bless
I am finally soo satisfied with finishing last..LOL..matter of fact if nice guys finishes last these niggas don't finish at all. Nice guys don't finish last, they finish strong. Remember the race is given to those who endure till the end. Revelation 3:10 Because you have kept the word of my patience, I also will keep you from the hour of temptation, which shall come on all the world, to try them that dwell on the earth.
Wan't to know why the world does not like or respect nice guys. John 15:19 If you were of the world, the world would love his own: but because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Nice guys don't lust after a woman who does not see your self worth.Revelations 22:11 He who does wrong let him do more wrong; he who is filthy let him be more filthy; he who is righteous let him be more righteous;he who is set apart let him be more setapart
We wan't our women back, Beyonce!! We wan't our women back, Rihanna!!! I wan't those afro centric features not the white woman features. I don't care what this wicked world may say about you so called "black women." You are beautiful, please give us back our sisters.
See as a brother seeking righteousness I don't want a woman that I have to argue with all the time. I don't want that Independent woman, that doesn't even make sense, how are we supposed to be in a relationship and you are independent of me. I don't want a sister who feels like her natural hair texture is not acceptable so she changes it. I wan't my sista back not the white woman. I want to reach over and feel your hair texture not the white womans. I love you and miss you as you were.
Most men who women perceive to be "nice guys" were raised by old fashioned women. Real women, not the Beyonce fake Rihanna type woman we see today. See they cooked, cleaned, were righteously submissive and obeyed their husbands. We saw this growing up and we though that they were the best thing since sliced bread. But see this was before the whole independent woman, feminist woman movement thing happened. I'm only 27 and I know the value of that "old school" woman.
See I don't wan't a sexually experienced women with kids, I wan't a woman like me. Now I can choose..lolol...that's soo funny to me when I think about it.
It's sad because I see all of these women that settled for the thug or bad guy in high school now single parents and on their own. I see all these guys I went to high school with struggling to pay child support or not paying at all. These men and women are still falling for the same thing. See, The Most High looks out for his own. I know my self worth and will no longer settle. These women try to talk to me now and when I turn them down they say that I have changed, their right in an aspect
I'm a virgin, I was raised by my mom and dad to respect and honor women and wait until marriage. When I went to school with this attitude I was ran over. I then started to loose my self confidence because I thought something was wrong with me. My mom seemed to prepair me for a woman that no longer seemed to be in existence. I now thank my parents so much. I thought something was wrong with me but I now know the Most High was protecting me from this crap
I have changed, I have matured from a nice boy to a grown man seeking righteousness in ever aspect of his life. I went from a boy not sure of his self worth to a Man who now can fully see and love himself for who he is. I look at some of them that I used to love and still do with kids and struggling and all I can say is I would of loved for those kids to be mine. I would of loved them and never ran off on you and our family. But all I can think is you should of loved me and apreciated me then
Most women don't know what they want,and are way too confused.I laugh because they all say that they want a good man,and when they find a nice man with good character they say they want something more.
So what good does it do me when i am patient,sensitive,work hard,save,stay faithfull,follow the rules and have good character when a woman will take a bad boy type of man.
Women are so contradicting they say they don't want a man who is a push over but in the same breath they say they don't want a man to be controlling or mean to them well here is a wake up call. You got to be a little mean and little controlling to not be a push over and I'm not talking about beat your ass mean or tie you to the table controlling. some of you women need to see nice guys as Clark Kent someone who is nice to you all the time but when it comes to work and paying bills and taking
I love my nice boys and my nice girls! Please, don't get me wrong: But some "nice guys" are also not half as nice in real life as they believe themselves to be. Plus, some can also come off way too clingy or needy, or even outright crude and horny (thanks to thinly veiled come-ons amidst conversation). Some can also get a little scary as far as their eagerness for physical affection goes... And that overt air of desperation can be pretty intimidating, & isn't attractive on either gender.
Hey Chauntel, I really enjoy all your videos they're helpful in everyway and funny lol. I agree to your comments on this video but I think that nice guys finish last because they are NON liars and therefore they tell you everything and its not exciting.
@nfiniti ur right, I'm not speaking for everyone just some girls who I know that feel that way. I like open communication but I can see where a relationship can get boring if everyone confesses their skeletons in their closets. It doesnt cross the line becuz u know u lie!...Everyone lies ;). there u go
Many in our society today see meekness and humility as a sign of weakness. Forgetting this is the very nature of jesus christ himself. I would dare not define him as such. if a man is too confident it may be the drugs talking. They tend to put you in a state of...I don't care. A wise man considers his steps...but a fool jumps right in.
Okay I may only be 14 but this chick makes some good points act as a bad boy and you will win now... I myself am not a bad boy I'm ugly and date hot chicks.. Witch can be bad but if your havin problems hit me up on skype skillessgrandpa101 is my name but other than me getting off topic I'm in ROTC to become a navy seal there for I poses? Qualitys that girls want for you nice guys out ther all ya gota do is act bad and get the girl then show the true side of you girls do NOT like liars DO NOT LI
Nice guys finish last?? OK tell it to Will Smith, back in the late 80's he dated Cheryl James aka Salt from Salt & Pepa, she dumped him, she said he was too nice. Look at him now a multi-millionaire while she is a fucking hip-hop has been who prolly don't have two dimes to rub together. Keep believing that BS. Success is the best form of revenge.
Lord. It takes a man to know how to b a man not a woman. No disrespect but how can any woman define me? It can't happen cause every woman thinks different. This woman is lost in my opinion. Way off point.
@askchauntel This is so wrong. What's wrong with being polite some of these females are messed up. I am a Christian and I am a follower of Jesus. I can protect myself and a girl too. I do speak my own opinions and stuff. I am masculine and why should i be someone i am not. I am confident in myself. Women are just superficial.
American women are just confused drama queens .. too much reality TV lol. They live for drama. Date Immigrant Women .. problem solved (laughs). After dating I/R for years as well as women from Europe, Africa, South America .. go with the Internationals lol. They aren't drama sponges, they can cook, they are sweet, and they aren't balancing their time between you and their Facebook/Cell Phone addiction (laughs). Ah did I mention they can cook? (laughs).
@MichaelPAUSA Yeah and a lot of airheaded American women hate nerdy guys, but love their inventions like cellphones, facebook and some computers. If it wasn't for nerdy guys they would drive themselves loco. lol
@MichaelPAUSA yes date the internationals but dont marry and most importantly dont bring them to feminised western countries or you will have a problem on your hands. I have an example of an african chick dating this irish dude, knowing she's isn't the only one but still banging him anyway thinking that she's going to tame him!
Nice guys always finish first...when the woman is 45, used up and on welfare with 6 kids (all from different dads). THEN she'll realize she's done with the jerks and want a nice sugar dad...uh, I mean nice guy.
So...hang in there, nice guys...your time will come!
Y'al wanna know somethin real fucked up? A lot of women will date a jackass, and not just once but repeatedly. They know that these guys they date are truly fucked up in the head, but they still pursue these assholes anyway. Then when all their relationships blow up in their face, they become bitter and starting talking about all men are pigs and scum. Don't listen to some of these crazy women. If you nice a guy, continue to be a nice guy and eventually the right woman will come along.
I think the word "nice" should really be replaced with "needy & insecure" typical "nice" guys are desperate for the girl to like them which kills attraction - it's intresting how a lot of "bad boys" also suffer from low self esteem, when you feel powerless you resort to control and domination, as a way to compensate. - I agree with you tho a man should be able to stand his ground and not fall to pieces just because a girl pushed his buttons
Honestly, who says that nice guys finish last? That to me sounds like a saying that holds absolutely no water. I myself am not a "bad boy" but still have a great girl. I would say that it comes down to just choosing a girl that responds to your personality. It's also important to look into the kind of girls "bad boys" attract, I myself would probably not get along with these types of women, but I'm speculating, I honestly don't know. There is no definitive answer to this, but thats life
this is all bullsh*t. women don't determine what is to be a man. the man has to determine that for himself. the reason nice guys like me finish last is NOT because we are push overs. it is not because we do not have an "opinion." it is not because we cannot protect women either (im a black belt in ju-jitsu, judo, and shotokan karate and a national competitor). popular culture has made it so that nice people are by definition unattractive. it is not "sexy" in this day and age to be nice.
Listen,there's grey areas to this.I am a"nice guy" I am a Catholic youth leader,I am respectful to everyone, I care about my girl,but I'm also a MMA fighter and confident in myself.You don't have to be a JERK to be confident, or weak to be kind, most girls mistake arrogence for confidence.Idiots from school walk in the MMA gym all badass and leave tail between their legs,cause I'm Catholic doesn't mean I can't hit hard.I respect everyone,including myself,THAT'S what girls want, ask my gf =)
people this girl just want to be famous,but here is my advice for u to keep a relationship,be a player even tho ur not pretend to be girls like that,they say oh i dont want players fuckk that they do, act like u the man that know evrything if she do something wrong tell her in her face dont show to much interest and let her call u and tell her something cute every month (anniversary) if you follow these things you will keep any relationship with even a miss universe type of girl
u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
When a girl tells a man he is a nice guy that is her way of telling him that she is about to use him and only wants him for a friend to do things she can't do,and nothing else.I've learned that if a woman tells me i'm a nice guy i turn around run like hell the other way.I don't trust em.
too bad being an aloof incensitive, rude, stuck on himself, self centered ass doesnt in any way mean a guy is going to have backbone or have their back, be able to protect them or anything like that.
i now this is gonna shock most of the women on the planet and i want you women out there to take a deep breath and prepare for this cuz i'm gonna freak you out and please don't go crazy or die because of the shock but............I'm a Nice guy and I'm NO pushover......fucking amazing isn't it??......yes ladies its true......a nice guy doesn't mean he's a pushover or a wimp or a pussy or he can't protect you and other shit like that..........females, women of the planet earth....wake up!!!!!!!!
Its like this with me...FUCK a bitch cause 9 times outta 10 she aint worth it bein' wit anyway lmao. Most of the time they aint got nothing but want a man with something. What kind of shit is that. Girls that are like that are hoodrats/street hoes and I DO NOT fuck with them...PERIOD. A nice guy like me wants a nice girl....Like me lol
It's all a matter of attention. The more a person gets the further their head goes up their ass. This is the case for a lot of women,being approached day in day out being told their beautiful by total strangers and getting ahead simply because of how she looks creates a self absorbed monster. As soon as some guy comes along and treats.her like she.doesn't exist she craves his attention. It's pathetic but quite simple to understand really.
To all the Brothers...Stop worrying about why silly women like Bad Boys! Get your education,stack your paper and live your life. Women who talk all the security,protection B.S will come crawling back at 30 hoping to find a nice guy and settle down. That's when you take her and slut her out just like Lil Jon Jon & Black did! Women who think being BAD is good are worthless. She will teach your sons to be a mangina and your daughters to be stupid like her. It's best you leave them to her own kind!
Women buy a gun, guns stand up for you, controlling, if you have psychological problems like that time of the month. when she says do this, men hear blah blah, when she has a gun and men hear she a pyschooooo bitch don't kill me. I don't like bitches I pay so they shut up and fuck.
@askchauntel Hey chauntel I have spoken to you before for some advice but I have another question for you...What kind of guy would you rather go out with? A nice guy with no back bone who can't protect you or a hard thug who beats and desrespects you? Your answer has to be ONE OR THE OTHER not neither one or both. No pun intended.
You are so beautiful and i can tell that you are one smart girl! Everything that you say is very informative! Keep smiling girl! Your smile is what makes you shine!
Idk what yall talking about....... cause always save the best for last.... nice guy here.... i don't mind telling a female my views... if she don't like it.... oh well... ok miss chauntel... why do females stay in a relationship knowing they getting treated bad?
To continue my last comment, yes, that includes all the supposedly well-adjusted females, as well. A girl doesn't have to be white trash or ghetto garbage to do this kind of shit.
Like I said, if she's DELIBERATELY pushing you to the point of anger, for the SOLE PURPOSE of seeing whether you have a backbone, you don't need her. Life itself will bring enough drama into your life, you don't need a girl adding to the mix to pacify her insecurities.
@sigmaK9 u must be talking about some psycho females, i dump them n the garbage soon as they cross my path. sometimes they try to be sneaky but i always figure their crazy azzez out. life is too damn short for somebody elses one life to live or general hospital....good comment sigmak9
Don't go for a girl who INSISTS on pushing your buttons to see how far she can go with you. If the only way a girl can feel secure is to abuse you until you can't take it anymore, that means she' got more issues than National Geographic and she's gonna lay them all on your doorstep sooner or later.
Nice guys show backbone when they are pissed "HIGHLY" lol how I know that is because for the last 25 years,I was one.Even when we show backbone a woman still dont appreciate us. Women of this era and time likes the scumbags,why for scumbags is the" LIK" Thats the style I guess haha...As for me I agree with you,ASKChauntel.You and a guy by the name of RANDY ORTON ive herd said that this year and its true.Nice guys does finish last,so Ive made it my will to destroy that part of me.No Nice Guy
Look men why put up with all the American women crap they give us men .
I was craped on lied to robbed and cheated on so much I decide to go to Eastern Europe to find a women .
I now have more sweet lady's ready to be my wife than I know what to do with.
Non of my girlfriends wants to come to the U.S that is perfect, they are all old world old school women that cook and take care of the family first then daddy better ready for some serious bed romping and affection at night from these women !
wow seriosly a backbone? about i bet 80% of nice guys have a backbone. i think that most nice guys have a back bone in which that they have confidence for themselves, others and aint afraid of things, people or new ideas and ignore the petty shit that peers create with them. girls ARE attracted to those things back bone protection bla bla bla but the core of this is that jerks show those traits on the outside which attracts wemon instantly. OK nice guys have these traits its just inside them.
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What's another year or two while you are getting your life together?
I can truly say that most American women are like that and it is very hard to find someone intelligent that knows what they want. Why not go for foreign women? They, for the most part, are still smart enough to keep their legs closed to anyone but the person they care about.
Fellow good/nice guys, you have to understand and learn your worth (it is a lot). Don't settle for less! You deserve much better! :)
If you are going to get together with a girl that acts of impulse and insticnt, you might as well go marry that monkey in a zoo or go find that bitch on heat roaming through the streets. THAT, good/nice guys, is what makes better genes. The ones that still act on instinct and impulse are simply degenerates deevolving, or in actuality making our gene pool weak. You do not need that. Besides, you have already waited for 8-10 years for that good woman...
I deserve someone who 1) is not someone's sloppy 30ths or 40ths, 2) have intellect and don't go off on instinct and impulses like an animal in heat on the jungle, 3) that can take care of themselves and 4) be adventurous. Everything else is negotiable.
That whole alpha male atraction is true but it shows how degenerate of a person such woman is. We did not become the most dominant species of the world by instinct or impulse; we became such by INTELLECT: the ability to learn and reason.
For the first time in my life, I truly know, now, what my worth is and I am quite proud of myself for being that guy. Not because some bitch in heat who bangs any wannabe bad ass tells me to stay like that, no. (They tell us that because, once they are past their most attractive years, they want to settle down since they get tired of that life).
I have been taking inventory. I am in the US Marines, 24 years old, I only had sex 3 times in my life (so I am still very fresh), I will start attending college again on March 3rd, I will be an aprentince computer networking for Coca Cola which would mean I will have a great job that pays 65 thousand a year waiting for me in 3 years or so.
There is no such thing as perfect...but there are limits. I have been labeled for most of my life as the good/nice guy (they really are the same thing; whores and sluts simply perverted the former to have an excuse to keep being what they are). Don't confuse us with the needy or the desperate, please.
i agree with everything you said in this video it makes perfect since but you basicly said a woman wants to be put in her place and protected i understand that even the earth has feminine and masculine duality scientifically speaking but much like the rotation of the earth so does these relationships with the same outcome everytime with so many women its a cycle if you want a man to put you in your place and control you its extremely easy to fall into the he cheated/beated category
so telling a woman I care will cost me a life time of heartbreak and loneliness, self pity, and destruction of my confidence and all this because I said that I care about her, I have feelings for her. so I am less of a man because I admit that I am capable of looking deeper into a woman more than tits and asses, for this reason I am not a man. this is B.S. I more man than you think
@President1st dude, straight women dont want pussies, if they did, they would be lesbians .. this may not sound politically correct or whatever, but you spilling your guts out to a woman and saying things about how not being with her will make you all depressed with heart break and shit will make you look like a weak, limp dick, soft wuss .. that shit will not get you laid unless you find a girl who is just as insecure as you ... strap on a pair, grow a back bone and live life!
@andretheking86 since I live in the real world, Real men don't get pussy for being a gentleman i discovered this a long time ago if you are boy with attidue and still be a gentleman, then women will respect me and accept me as I am just like I accepted her as she is. a woman don't have no right to tell me How I should be a Man shes not GOD Who does she think she is . women are only special the eyes of the beholder. and learn't from this along ago
@President1st im not sure exactly what youre saying,but i think i might get the point .. dont put women on some pedestal as if they are special b/c they are not, they are human just like you and me lol .. only treat the one girl you really love special once you have them hooked or else they will think you're clingy and needy and thats never attractive
The truth is women dont know what they want bc they dont actually use their OWN brains when they "think" about something. All they do is collage bad advice & commercials together and call that a "thought".The TRUE key to dealing w/ women is to NOT give a flying fuck what they "think" or "want", as it is subject to change in 5 mins.It's far better to concentrate on things that actually matter,like gettin money!! Stay Stingy!! lol
Also, on a subconscious level, we are looking for mates we can procreate with. "Nice guys" subconsciously (chemical signalling) are letting women know they aren't the most desirable seed donors to commence a healthy family. During our hunter-gatherer days, being passive could get you either killed, or starving. The more dominant a person was, the better chance they had at survival, so natural selection, survival of the fittest, made it to where women want dominant, aggressive and confident men
There's science behind what you are saying.. "Nice guys" exhibit beta male traits, and beta males come last throughout the animal kingdom, and humans are no exception. A lot of "bad boys" exhibit alpha male characteristics, and alpha males always come first throughout the animal kingdom, again humans are no exception. Alpha male dominance also releases pheromones, sexual signaling, and can grow a womans brain, via neurogenesis
@JLuvs0fficial This shit only happens in America and may be other western nations like the UK, Australia, and Canada. Women in other countries are the complete opposite of these so called American women. I tell you what, it has to do with feminism. Coz now women think that they can be like men by fucking around in their youth and hoping to get married in their forties. Go to other countries and see if that bad boy shit works there. it's only in America so don't generalize all women wanting thugs
Nice GuYs finish last but they finish. Appreciate the feed back. I do gotta say this though.it may take a "Man" to " Man up" but it takes an even Greater man to Man down or step back when he knows enough. Thanks Chantel,keep up the good work, clue these little boys in. Truly.
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relationshipadvices 6 days ago
Protection? So the woman thinks that if I'm able to kick her ass(or convince her that I can), then she'll think I can kick a man's ass and therefore FEEL protected? Did I get that right?
charlieup2 2 weeks ago
I bet if the guy has a lot of money she would ignore all that shit.
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The biology of nice guys /vs alpha males is well documented in several species. The alpha male is a gene provider ,and females in their years of peak sexual attarctiveness generally compete to host the children of alpha males. After Their peak period,they prefer beta males to help nurture the offspring of the alpha males,who have long left to impregnate other females in their prime years. Its cruel,but its a biological law.
jeetendrag10acc2 3 weeks ago
@jeetendrag10acc2 Thats why the rock star who punches her in the face will always be more desirable than the accountant who makes her breakfast in the morning ........so...just make sure you google "asset protection" about hiding your hard earned property,then you get married. Don;t be the loser who pays for the "hoe who pretends to be loving wife".
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TheErvinjackson 1 month ago
You are exactly correct.. The men that learn this will be dating. That is the point. its not right, its not fun, its not normal from a guys point of view, yet, if one does what she is saying, they will have a date. I have been around women practicing, ITs interesting. She is right, One has to show himself, cannot hold it in. One must show her , play her tests, be alpha. A man must grow up and except life the way it is.. Or, no dating..
TheOmnicell 1 month ago
As a Real Man I can tell you that any woman that doesn't have enough discernment in her spirit to know that you're a good pick isn't worth your time. These type of women "mostly American women" lack any kind've real character and you eventually learn down the road that they're not worth your time. Yeah I can exhibit a bad attitude&money around these women. But instead I've always chosen to flaunt humility because it always manages to root out that real exterior motive that a lot of women have.
theright1allthetime 1 month ago
Nice guys and pushovers are to different things. I love nice guys because they are sweet and they're gentlemen and they actually care about you and LOVE you. What girls doesn't want that? Why would a girl rather be abused than be treated right? Nice guys can treat you better than " bad boys" and protect u to. But it depends on who I run in to.
sexxyswag 1 month ago
alright, well i know this is your opinions and stuff, but i have a lady, who loves me for me, and im one of the nice guys, not all girls have the same opinions on guys you dumbass, my girls hot as hell, and way better looking than you, and she looked at this video, and said she wanted to punch your teeth out, not all woman want this bullshit, so stop talking for everone, SO FUCK YOU!!!!!!!!!
Theman29445 1 month ago
I tuned Chauntel out after SAFTEY....it's S-A-F-E-T-Y!! Is that backbone enough for you?
caranprop 1 month ago
As long a the retarded logic mentioned in this video goes on so will go on the process of being cheated on, used, and women wondering why I can't find a "good guy".
bigguy228 2 months ago
Nice Guys just have to be up front with what it is they want point blank
AVTRU1 2 months ago
NICE GUY LIKE SLUTS SO THEY GET MAD WHEN THEY GET PLAYED LIKE A TRICK
DSPENCE1986 2 months ago in playlist nice guys finish last
Women like you are delusional; it takes a strong man to not get into any BS and treat someone with respect and handle his business as a man spirtually,emotionally, and financially. Ask them women on the tv show Snapped if they could handle their non-pushover man cause he skated out on them with multiple women and in the end, it didn't work out to well. Blame yourself towards the end of your life when you're that old grandma in the rocking chair with nobody cause you chased all nice men away.
freeloaderking 2 months ago
Decent men are highly masculine and aren't stupid. They are also virtuous, some which is sadly lacking in our society today.
spellbreakerko 2 months ago
ummm...how did your nice guy finish last?
NinjaCentral313 3 months ago
how he will protect you while hes an asshole
QaisRAK 3 months ago
The biology of nice guys /vs alpha males is well documented in several species. The alpha male is a gene provider ,and females in their years of peak sexual attarctiveness generally compete to host the children of alpha males. After Their peak period,they prefer beta males to help nurture the offspring of the alpha males,who have long left to impregnate other females in their prime years. Its cruel,but its a biological law.
jeetendrag10acc2 3 months ago in playlist nice guys finish last
the guys who are getting offended over this video who claim they are nice guys are actually assholes, or either they are nice guys who got no self esteem at all because any man who is confident in himself would not be getting so upset over this video
verrrr1 4 months ago
@verrrr1 They're not liking this video because of the bullshit she is saying...
buckda54 3 weeks ago
@buckda54 just because you do not agree with her doesnt mean she is speaking bullshit. Truth hurts sometimes
verrrr1 3 weeks ago
@verrrr1 It doesn't mean the truth isn't bullshit either..
buckda54 3 weeks ago
@buckda54 actually you are not making any sense. If she is speaking the truth about reality, How can it be bullshit? is it because you are too afraid to handle the truth so therefore you think it's bullshit?
She is a female and speaking from a female stand point. Are you a male? because if you are male then you can't possibly think like a lady. So although you have an opinion it is not at all valid in this argument.
So sit down and stop misterpreting knowledge which you are unware of.
verrrr1 3 weeks ago
@verrrr1 Im saying its bullshit because the truth is something that shouldnt even have to happen...people using what she saying as an excuse which is the truth are really insecure and cant handle generosity...but when they go back to their old ways then its comfortable for them to complain again...
buckda54 3 weeks ago
@buckda54 LOL the truth is something which shouldn't happen? well it happens and it's life.
When you said early that what she is saying is bullshit, you know full well that you disregarded what she said as the truth.
You implied that she did not have her facts together. Now all of a sudden you are eating your words and you sound confused.
verrrr1 3 weeks ago
@verrrr1 No... I meant what I said when I said the truth was bullshit....
buckda54 3 weeks ago
you know what is so funny? all this lame comment from the socalled nice guys who says they are nice guys. A lot of you guys who gave a responds to this video and are getting offended actually you are acting like assholes. And just because a girl doesnt want a guy who is too nice, it doesnt mean she wants a thug who will beat up on her.
Why so angry? what is wrong with a woman wanting a guy with a backbone? some of you sicken me
verrrr1 4 months ago
Little girl........you and most american women need serious proffesional, psychological help........your.bi-polar to the max........YOU POOR BABY !!!
dumptech 4 months ago
@dumptech shut up
DavDBeats 2 months ago
Idon't think women look for bad guys they want a strong man its not like they wake up going i wanna get the shit beat outta me
93tilinfinity610 5 months ago
its either woman dont know wat the fuck they want or they want EVERYTHING in a fucking hand basket
Thesniperseth 5 months ago in playlist nice guys finish last
Bottom line. Women like you dont know a shit what they want.
lukaqota 5 months ago
.....if these commenters are the nice guys then I'd HATE to be with a bad guy! XD
fearlesslittlewoman 5 months ago
I do not think many women would know what to do with a man they crave for so much for such a man. A man that know how to look after her and do the right thing and treat her with respect and value her opinions and make a difference in her life. it my be boring to her but its the right way. women don't like men like me I am weak for being to nice. ihey are chatting B.S and think they know what they want.
President1st 5 months ago
LOL basically this woman said women are weak and lazy, and I guess them being lazy is apart of their weakness, so they need someone to take care of their weak asses, then on top of being weak they are too stupid, which I guess is also an extension of how weak and pathetic they are, to figure out what kind of man will actually take care of their weak asses, lol wow
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MMArtist99 6 months ago
America woman are stupid fellas!! Who cares what woman want anyway.
MrPrettyBoyChina 6 months ago
its tiring trying to be a manly man so you can get the woman. my advise is to be yourself. If she don't like you, she can go fuck herself. Most women just want attention. Stop giving it to her. And don't put you happiness in someone elses hand. It works for me
thagod2e 6 months ago
PLEASE GUYS WHATEVER YOU DO DONT LISTEN TO THIS, WOMEN IN AMERICA FOR THE MOST PART ARE RUINED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
legendarygospel 7 months ago
Females who think like this will never grow up..
To all the good dudes out there, find yourself a christian woman, thats the only way you want have to hear this bull...
buckda54 7 months ago 8
@buckda54 this true: my friend is hindu,like me,he married a christian woman, and he tells me she is like a fairy . he never ceases to tell me how lucky he is to have been her sweetheart.
jeetendrag10acc2 3 weeks ago
@jeetendrag10acc2 Thats all it takes. No drama, no bull. Just excitement and satisfaction with some fun professionally.
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Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).
I'll give you some advice right now..
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FreeOnlineWorkouts 7 months ago
Another dumb bitch who will be chasing a nice guy when she is 35.
southc81 7 months ago 9
@southc81 You should watch Your mouth about how you talk to my fiance chump!!! I'm pretty sure you just hatin cuzz she got on your head!!!!!!!!!!!!
DavDBeats 2 months ago
im feelin you too freak .....really thank you.......
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Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did).
I'll give you some advice right now..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com
Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha
Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the wealth
MMArtist99 7 months ago
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Guys,
Getting girls doesn't have to be difficult (I used to think it did). I'll give you some advice right now..
Step 1: Go to MackMethods(dot)com
Step 2: Order the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use it and laugh at how easy girls are to figure out haha
Seriously, that program has changed my life. I probably shouldn't even be mentioning it because I don't want a bunch of other guys out there running the same "game" but whatever, I'm in a good mood today so I'll share the wealth.
UFCFights11 7 months ago
how do you look for protection if the guy is beating you dummy!!you want a dick head I would love to put some meat down your throat!!!
YNGdeacon 8 months ago
If you broke! Then this applies! If you got money then this does not apply! Very simple case closed!!!
cmv707 8 months ago
Did i I forget to mention twitter?-Another thing created by nerds that ditsy females are sooo obsessed about...
jumpa305 8 months ago in playlist nice guys finish last
u fine
TheDarkHadoken 8 months ago
its good to see being nice dont get u no where really every man is gonna protect tha woman they love, and do the best they can to protect th without them questioning ur manhood, its very true though u cant give ur heart to a woman not 100% its better to not show emotion and be single never tell them thing in life that have hurt u, at least i know why there are so many thugs and typical black men look at how the beautiful black women think of us, they wonder why we end up dogs, but god bless
Dreadd313 8 months ago
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I am finally soo satisfied with finishing last..LOL..matter of fact if nice guys finishes last these niggas don't finish at all. Nice guys don't finish last, they finish strong. Remember the race is given to those who endure till the end. Revelation 3:10 Because you have kept the word of my patience, I also will keep you from the hour of temptation, which shall come on all the world, to try them that dwell on the earth.
YahcobYsrael 8 months ago
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Wan't to know why the world does not like or respect nice guys. John 15:19 If you were of the world, the world would love his own: but because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. Nice guys don't lust after a woman who does not see your self worth.Revelations 22:11 He who does wrong let him do more wrong; he who is filthy let him be more filthy; he who is righteous let him be more righteous;he who is set apart let him be more setapart
YahcobYsrael 8 months ago
We wan't our women back, Beyonce!! We wan't our women back, Rihanna!!! I wan't those afro centric features not the white woman features. I don't care what this wicked world may say about you so called "black women." You are beautiful, please give us back our sisters.
YahcobYsrael 8 months ago
See as a brother seeking righteousness I don't want a woman that I have to argue with all the time. I don't want that Independent woman, that doesn't even make sense, how are we supposed to be in a relationship and you are independent of me. I don't want a sister who feels like her natural hair texture is not acceptable so she changes it. I wan't my sista back not the white woman. I want to reach over and feel your hair texture not the white womans. I love you and miss you as you were.
YahcobYsrael 8 months ago
Most men who women perceive to be "nice guys" were raised by old fashioned women. Real women, not the Beyonce fake Rihanna type woman we see today. See they cooked, cleaned, were righteously submissive and obeyed their husbands. We saw this growing up and we though that they were the best thing since sliced bread. But see this was before the whole independent woman, feminist woman movement thing happened. I'm only 27 and I know the value of that "old school" woman.
YahcobYsrael 8 months ago
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See I don't wan't a sexually experienced women with kids, I wan't a woman like me. Now I can choose..lolol...that's soo funny to me when I think about it.
YahcobYsrael 8 months ago
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It's sad because I see all of these women that settled for the thug or bad guy in high school now single parents and on their own. I see all these guys I went to high school with struggling to pay child support or not paying at all. These men and women are still falling for the same thing. See, The Most High looks out for his own. I know my self worth and will no longer settle. These women try to talk to me now and when I turn them down they say that I have changed, their right in an aspect
YahcobYsrael 8 months ago
I'm a virgin, I was raised by my mom and dad to respect and honor women and wait until marriage. When I went to school with this attitude I was ran over. I then started to loose my self confidence because I thought something was wrong with me. My mom seemed to prepair me for a woman that no longer seemed to be in existence. I now thank my parents so much. I thought something was wrong with me but I now know the Most High was protecting me from this crap
YahcobYsrael 8 months ago
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I have changed, I have matured from a nice boy to a grown man seeking righteousness in ever aspect of his life. I went from a boy not sure of his self worth to a Man who now can fully see and love himself for who he is. I look at some of them that I used to love and still do with kids and struggling and all I can say is I would of loved for those kids to be mine. I would of loved them and never ran off on you and our family. But all I can think is you should of loved me and apreciated me then
YahcobYsrael 8 months ago
Most women don't know what they want,and are way too confused.I laugh because they all say that they want a good man,and when they find a nice man with good character they say they want something more.
sammys70 8 months ago
So what good does it do me when i am patient,sensitive,work hard,save,stay faithfull,follow the rules and have good character when a woman will take a bad boy type of man.
sammys70 8 months ago
Nice misspelling of the word "safety". Totally giving men a reason to take african american women seriously. LOL!
HardforJesus 8 months ago
Care of the kids they are superman
dmtrssngltn 8 months ago
Women are so contradicting they say they don't want a man who is a push over but in the same breath they say they don't want a man to be controlling or mean to them well here is a wake up call. You got to be a little mean and little controlling to not be a push over and I'm not talking about beat your ass mean or tie you to the table controlling. some of you women need to see nice guys as Clark Kent someone who is nice to you all the time but when it comes to work and paying bills and taking
dmtrssngltn 8 months ago
I love my nice boys and my nice girls! Please, don't get me wrong: But some "nice guys" are also not half as nice in real life as they believe themselves to be. Plus, some can also come off way too clingy or needy, or even outright crude and horny (thanks to thinly veiled come-ons amidst conversation). Some can also get a little scary as far as their eagerness for physical affection goes... And that overt air of desperation can be pretty intimidating, & isn't attractive on either gender.
renaessance 9 months ago
Nice guys finish last! Yeah...if your an immature woman.
newj34 9 months ago
Hey Chauntel, I really enjoy all your videos they're helpful in everyway and funny lol. I agree to your comments on this video but I think that nice guys finish last because they are NON liars and therefore they tell you everything and its not exciting.
prettypink2100 9 months ago
@prettypink2100 so you want us to lie??? and when does the lying cross the line??
nfiniti 2 months ago
@nfiniti ur right, I'm not speaking for everyone just some girls who I know that feel that way. I like open communication but I can see where a relationship can get boring if everyone confesses their skeletons in their closets. It doesnt cross the line becuz u know u lie!...Everyone lies ;). there u go
prettypink2100 2 months ago
you're a good singer :P
Peanut14741 9 months ago
This video is stupid as fuck, because she can't speak for different kinds of women
RussiaTodayBrainWash 9 months ago
this is why they're so fucking annoying...always wanting to talk, laugh and be happy....it's kinda fake
RussiaTodayBrainWash 9 months ago
Many in our society today see meekness and humility as a sign of weakness. Forgetting this is the very nature of jesus christ himself. I would dare not define him as such. if a man is too confident it may be the drugs talking. They tend to put you in a state of...I don't care. A wise man considers his steps...but a fool jumps right in.
newj34 9 months ago
Okay I may only be 14 but this chick makes some good points act as a bad boy and you will win now... I myself am not a bad boy I'm ugly and date hot chicks.. Witch can be bad but if your havin problems hit me up on skype skillessgrandpa101 is my name but other than me getting off topic I'm in ROTC to become a navy seal there for I poses? Qualitys that girls want for you nice guys out ther all ya gota do is act bad and get the girl then show the true side of you girls do NOT like liars DO NOT LI
xhalotroubles 9 months ago
Nice guys finish last?? OK tell it to Will Smith, back in the late 80's he dated Cheryl James aka Salt from Salt & Pepa, she dumped him, she said he was too nice. Look at him now a multi-millionaire while she is a fucking hip-hop has been who prolly don't have two dimes to rub together. Keep believing that BS. Success is the best form of revenge.
GarwinEugeneW 9 months ago 3
do you guys want control or not...i'm confused???
TheAinzlee 9 months ago
Thanks for the video i just made a web-site so people could talk about this.
cherrylife1000 9 months ago
lol,this is news to me
CanvasLife 9 months ago
Lord. It takes a man to know how to b a man not a woman. No disrespect but how can any woman define me? It can't happen cause every woman thinks different. This woman is lost in my opinion. Way off point.
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MrAlexahankrj 10 months ago
@askchauntel This is so wrong. What's wrong with being polite some of these females are messed up. I am a Christian and I am a follower of Jesus. I can protect myself and a girl too. I do speak my own opinions and stuff. I am masculine and why should i be someone i am not. I am confident in myself. Women are just superficial.
Reminiscent1989 10 months ago
Nice smile, great lips.
ewjomega 10 months ago
All I get from this is... Women are unintelligent... I don't believe this to be true so I must be missing the message...
jbriggs06 10 months ago
American women are just confused drama queens .. too much reality TV lol. They live for drama. Date Immigrant Women .. problem solved (laughs). After dating I/R for years as well as women from Europe, Africa, South America .. go with the Internationals lol. They aren't drama sponges, they can cook, they are sweet, and they aren't balancing their time between you and their Facebook/Cell Phone addiction (laughs). Ah did I mention they can cook? (laughs).
MichaelPAUSA 10 months ago 22
@MichaelPAUSA Yeah and a lot of airheaded American women hate nerdy guys, but love their inventions like cellphones, facebook and some computers. If it wasn't for nerdy guys they would drive themselves loco. lol
jumpa305 8 months ago in playlist nice guys finish last
@MichaelPAUSA yes date the internationals but dont marry and most importantly dont bring them to feminised western countries or you will have a problem on your hands. I have an example of an african chick dating this irish dude, knowing she's isn't the only one but still banging him anyway thinking that she's going to tame him!
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MichaelPAUSA 10 months ago
Nice guys always finish first...when the woman is 45, used up and on welfare with 6 kids (all from different dads). THEN she'll realize she's done with the jerks and want a nice sugar dad...uh, I mean nice guy.
So...hang in there, nice guys...your time will come!
RLove99 10 months ago
you know why bad boys get most of the girls coz SHIT attracts FLIES
110301839 10 months ago 3
Y'al wanna know somethin real fucked up? A lot of women will date a jackass, and not just once but repeatedly. They know that these guys they date are truly fucked up in the head, but they still pursue these assholes anyway. Then when all their relationships blow up in their face, they become bitter and starting talking about all men are pigs and scum. Don't listen to some of these crazy women. If you nice a guy, continue to be a nice guy and eventually the right woman will come along.
citizenofus513 10 months ago
@citizenofus513 i agree but i dont want no big girl tho
amcbride86 10 months ago
Hard to take your advice seriously when you start the video with an awkward circus song TAH TAHDADA DERRRP
theICE23 10 months ago
I think the word "nice" should really be replaced with "needy & insecure" typical "nice" guys are desperate for the girl to like them which kills attraction - it's intresting how a lot of "bad boys" also suffer from low self esteem, when you feel powerless you resort to control and domination, as a way to compensate. - I agree with you tho a man should be able to stand his ground and not fall to pieces just because a girl pushed his buttons
80mthomas 10 months ago
@80mthomas
well said
lukki7ster 10 months ago
Honestly, who says that nice guys finish last? That to me sounds like a saying that holds absolutely no water. I myself am not a "bad boy" but still have a great girl. I would say that it comes down to just choosing a girl that responds to your personality. It's also important to look into the kind of girls "bad boys" attract, I myself would probably not get along with these types of women, but I'm speculating, I honestly don't know. There is no definitive answer to this, but thats life
ForgeofSouls 10 months ago
this is all bullsh*t. women don't determine what is to be a man. the man has to determine that for himself. the reason nice guys like me finish last is NOT because we are push overs. it is not because we do not have an "opinion." it is not because we cannot protect women either (im a black belt in ju-jitsu, judo, and shotokan karate and a national competitor). popular culture has made it so that nice people are by definition unattractive. it is not "sexy" in this day and age to be nice.
pliskin67 10 months ago
I'm no nice guy, but I have little time for "girls", maybe I'm too busy getting my stuff together to pay attention to women.
scrateshooter 10 months ago
Listen,there's grey areas to this.I am a"nice guy" I am a Catholic youth leader,I am respectful to everyone, I care about my girl,but I'm also a MMA fighter and confident in myself.You don't have to be a JERK to be confident, or weak to be kind, most girls mistake arrogence for confidence.Idiots from school walk in the MMA gym all badass and leave tail between their legs,cause I'm Catholic doesn't mean I can't hit hard.I respect everyone,including myself,THAT'S what girls want, ask my gf =)
GuamKomudo 11 months ago
people this girl just want to be famous,but here is my advice for u to keep a relationship,be a player even tho ur not pretend to be girls like that,they say oh i dont want players fuckk that they do, act like u the man that know evrything if she do something wrong tell her in her face dont show to much interest and let her call u and tell her something cute every month (anniversary) if you follow these things you will keep any relationship with even a miss universe type of girl
TheCangri37 11 months ago
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u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
ChrisYoungGunn 11 months ago
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u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
ChrisYoungGunn 11 months ago
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u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
ChrisYoungGunn 11 months ago
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u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
ChrisYoungGunn 11 months ago
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u got a point. its not always about a girl being dumb and that she doesnt want to be treated right. like u said, it all about having a backbone and as a man its infuriating to see a man being walked all over period, not just with women so i agree 100%.
ChrisYoungGunn 11 months ago
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ChrisYoungGunn 11 months ago
When a girl tells a man he is a nice guy that is her way of telling him that she is about to use him and only wants him for a friend to do things she can't do,and nothing else.I've learned that if a woman tells me i'm a nice guy i turn around run like hell the other way.I don't trust em.
sammys70 11 months ago
Get to the point quicker and save the plugs for your show towards the end for better viewing retention.
MrVeesworld 11 months ago
too bad being an aloof incensitive, rude, stuck on himself, self centered ass doesnt in any way mean a guy is going to have backbone or have their back, be able to protect them or anything like that.
rehsa2194 11 months ago
Couldn't listen to the whole thing. tooo rambly.
sistagyrl1 11 months ago
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i now this is gonna shock most of the women on the planet and i want you women out there to take a deep breath and prepare for this cuz i'm gonna freak you out and please don't go crazy or die because of the shock but............I'm a Nice guy and I'm NO pushover......fucking amazing isn't it??......yes ladies its true......a nice guy doesn't mean he's a pushover or a wimp or a pussy or he can't protect you and other shit like that..........females, women of the planet earth....wake up!!!!!!!!
21iunie 1 year ago
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21iunie 1 year ago
Its like this with me...FUCK a bitch cause 9 times outta 10 she aint worth it bein' wit anyway lmao. Most of the time they aint got nothing but want a man with something. What kind of shit is that. Girls that are like that are hoodrats/street hoes and I DO NOT fuck with them...PERIOD. A nice guy like me wants a nice girl....Like me lol
MrFuckyall39 1 year ago
It's all a matter of attention. The more a person gets the further their head goes up their ass. This is the case for a lot of women,being approached day in day out being told their beautiful by total strangers and getting ahead simply because of how she looks creates a self absorbed monster. As soon as some guy comes along and treats.her like she.doesn't exist she craves his attention. It's pathetic but quite simple to understand really.
riceburnagtv 1 year ago
To all the Brothers...Stop worrying about why silly women like Bad Boys! Get your education,stack your paper and live your life. Women who talk all the security,protection B.S will come crawling back at 30 hoping to find a nice guy and settle down. That's when you take her and slut her out just like Lil Jon Jon & Black did! Women who think being BAD is good are worthless. She will teach your sons to be a mangina and your daughters to be stupid like her. It's best you leave them to her own kind!
Wisebrother78 1 year ago 2
a nice guy has all of those things.
DaeDae980 1 year ago
Women buy a gun, guns stand up for you, controlling, if you have psychological problems like that time of the month. when she says do this, men hear blah blah, when she has a gun and men hear she a pyschooooo bitch don't kill me. I don't like bitches I pay so they shut up and fuck.
shredabilly13 1 year ago
bah @ playing games. Girls, SAVE IT. lol
BeginnningoftheEnd 1 year ago
Thx Chauntel, I just got PLAYED for offering on the first date. Dam. But thx.
dupree82 1 year ago
@dupree82 oh u dont want to do
askchauntel 1 year ago
@dupree82 oh you dont want to do that
askchauntel 1 year ago
Think I'm gonna make a video response because I have a lot ot say about this.
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
@BBYoungLady i look forward to it
askchauntel 1 year ago
@askchauntel alright just done it :)
BBYoungLady 1 year ago
@askchauntel Hey chauntel I have spoken to you before for some advice but I have another question for you...What kind of guy would you rather go out with? A nice guy with no back bone who can't protect you or a hard thug who beats and desrespects you? Your answer has to be ONE OR THE OTHER not neither one or both. No pun intended.
jumpa305 8 months ago in playlist nice guys finish last
You are so beautiful and i can tell that you are one smart girl! Everything that you say is very informative! Keep smiling girl! Your smile is what makes you shine!
PhamsterTheHamster 1 year ago
Bad Boys = Attractive &/or Rich !
Nice Guy = Nothing to offer !
mba2ceo 1 year ago
Bad Boys = Attractive &/or Rich !
mba2ceo 1 year ago
Idk what yall talking about....... cause always save the best for last.... nice guy here.... i don't mind telling a female my views... if she don't like it.... oh well... ok miss chauntel... why do females stay in a relationship knowing they getting treated bad?
kidnateboy 1 year ago 8
@kidnateboy I am not hating on Chauntel , but you gotta point there...
jumpa305 8 months ago in playlist nice guys finish last
Lol in other words Be a MAN not a sqaure.
youngd2008 1 year ago
To continue my last comment, yes, that includes all the supposedly well-adjusted females, as well. A girl doesn't have to be white trash or ghetto garbage to do this kind of shit.
Like I said, if she's DELIBERATELY pushing you to the point of anger, for the SOLE PURPOSE of seeing whether you have a backbone, you don't need her. Life itself will bring enough drama into your life, you don't need a girl adding to the mix to pacify her insecurities.
Get the hell away, gentlemen.
sigmaK9 1 year ago
@sigmaK9 u must be talking about some psycho females, i dump them n the garbage soon as they cross my path. sometimes they try to be sneaky but i always figure their crazy azzez out. life is too damn short for somebody elses one life to live or general hospital....good comment sigmak9
wakeen01 1 year ago
I got some advice for the gentlemen.
Don't go for a girl who INSISTS on pushing your buttons to see how far she can go with you. If the only way a girl can feel secure is to abuse you until you can't take it anymore, that means she' got more issues than National Geographic and she's gonna lay them all on your doorstep sooner or later.
Get the fuck away.
sigmaK9 1 year ago 2
Nice guys show backbone when they are pissed "HIGHLY" lol how I know that is because for the last 25 years,I was one.Even when we show backbone a woman still dont appreciate us. Women of this era and time likes the scumbags,why for scumbags is the" LIK" Thats the style I guess haha...As for me I agree with you,ASKChauntel.You and a guy by the name of RANDY ORTON ive herd said that this year and its true.Nice guys does finish last,so Ive made it my will to destroy that part of me.No Nice Guy
AlphaLocks 1 year ago
Look men why put up with all the American women crap they give us men .
I was craped on lied to robbed and cheated on so much I decide to go to Eastern Europe to find a women .
I now have more sweet lady's ready to be my wife than I know what to do with.
Non of my girlfriends wants to come to the U.S that is perfect, they are all old world old school women that cook and take care of the family first then daddy better ready for some serious bed romping and affection at night from these women !
Moldovawineimporter 1 year ago
wow seriosly a backbone? about i bet 80% of nice guys have a backbone. i think that most nice guys have a back bone in which that they have confidence for themselves, others and aint afraid of things, people or new ideas and ignore the petty shit that peers create with them. girls ARE attracted to those things back bone protection bla bla bla but the core of this is that jerks show those traits on the outside which attracts wemon instantly. OK nice guys have these traits its just inside them.
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kelleregnercks 1 year ago
What's another year or two while you are getting your life together?
I can truly say that most American women are like that and it is very hard to find someone intelligent that knows what they want. Why not go for foreign women? They, for the most part, are still smart enough to keep their legs closed to anyone but the person they care about.
Fellow good/nice guys, you have to understand and learn your worth (it is a lot). Don't settle for less! You deserve much better! :)
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
If you are going to get together with a girl that acts of impulse and insticnt, you might as well go marry that monkey in a zoo or go find that bitch on heat roaming through the streets. THAT, good/nice guys, is what makes better genes. The ones that still act on instinct and impulse are simply degenerates deevolving, or in actuality making our gene pool weak. You do not need that. Besides, you have already waited for 8-10 years for that good woman...
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
I deserve someone who 1) is not someone's sloppy 30ths or 40ths, 2) have intellect and don't go off on instinct and impulses like an animal in heat on the jungle, 3) that can take care of themselves and 4) be adventurous. Everything else is negotiable.
That whole alpha male atraction is true but it shows how degenerate of a person such woman is. We did not become the most dominant species of the world by instinct or impulse; we became such by INTELLECT: the ability to learn and reason.
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
For the first time in my life, I truly know, now, what my worth is and I am quite proud of myself for being that guy. Not because some bitch in heat who bangs any wannabe bad ass tells me to stay like that, no. (They tell us that because, once they are past their most attractive years, they want to settle down since they get tired of that life).
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
I have been taking inventory. I am in the US Marines, 24 years old, I only had sex 3 times in my life (so I am still very fresh), I will start attending college again on March 3rd, I will be an aprentince computer networking for Coca Cola which would mean I will have a great job that pays 65 thousand a year waiting for me in 3 years or so.
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
There is no such thing as perfect...but there are limits. I have been labeled for most of my life as the good/nice guy (they really are the same thing; whores and sluts simply perverted the former to have an excuse to keep being what they are). Don't confuse us with the needy or the desperate, please.
JamenSomasu1986 1 year ago
i agree with everything you said in this video it makes perfect since but you basicly said a woman wants to be put in her place and protected i understand that even the earth has feminine and masculine duality scientifically speaking but much like the rotation of the earth so does these relationships with the same outcome everytime with so many women its a cycle if you want a man to put you in your place and control you its extremely easy to fall into the he cheated/beated category
free2fleewithme 1 year ago
so telling a woman I care will cost me a life time of heartbreak and loneliness, self pity, and destruction of my confidence and all this because I said that I care about her, I have feelings for her. so I am less of a man because I admit that I am capable of looking deeper into a woman more than tits and asses, for this reason I am not a man. this is B.S. I more man than you think
President1st 1 year ago
@President1st dude, straight women dont want pussies, if they did, they would be lesbians .. this may not sound politically correct or whatever, but you spilling your guts out to a woman and saying things about how not being with her will make you all depressed with heart break and shit will make you look like a weak, limp dick, soft wuss .. that shit will not get you laid unless you find a girl who is just as insecure as you ... strap on a pair, grow a back bone and live life!
just sayin'
andretheking86 1 year ago 2
@andretheking86 since I live in the real world, Real men don't get pussy for being a gentleman i discovered this a long time ago if you are boy with attidue and still be a gentleman, then women will respect me and accept me as I am just like I accepted her as she is. a woman don't have no right to tell me How I should be a Man shes not GOD Who does she think she is . women are only special the eyes of the beholder. and learn't from this along ago
President1st 1 year ago
@President1st im not sure exactly what youre saying,but i think i might get the point .. dont put women on some pedestal as if they are special b/c they are not, they are human just like you and me lol .. only treat the one girl you really love special once you have them hooked or else they will think you're clingy and needy and thats never attractive
andretheking86 1 year ago
The truth is women dont know what they want bc they dont actually use their OWN brains when they "think" about something. All they do is collage bad advice & commercials together and call that a "thought".The TRUE key to dealing w/ women is to NOT give a flying fuck what they "think" or "want", as it is subject to change in 5 mins.It's far better to concentrate on things that actually matter,like gettin money!! Stay Stingy!! lol
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madisonajulianalue 1 year ago
i need help on how get a girlfriend can u help i tired of being single i am a nice guy !
MrMattclark1979 1 year ago
Also, on a subconscious level, we are looking for mates we can procreate with. "Nice guys" subconsciously (chemical signalling) are letting women know they aren't the most desirable seed donors to commence a healthy family. During our hunter-gatherer days, being passive could get you either killed, or starving. The more dominant a person was, the better chance they had at survival, so natural selection, survival of the fittest, made it to where women want dominant, aggressive and confident men
JLuvs0fficial 1 year ago 2
@JLuvs0fficial "so natural selection, survival of the fittest, made it to where women want dominant, aggressive and confident men"
True ,but women still find a way to screw that up too!! They LOVE to sabotage their own happiness.
ReadyRedd123 1 year ago
@JLuvs0fficial so why do they come back begging for the nice guy to marry them in their 30's and 40's since a nice guy is considered weak
110301839 11 months ago
There's science behind what you are saying.. "Nice guys" exhibit beta male traits, and beta males come last throughout the animal kingdom, and humans are no exception. A lot of "bad boys" exhibit alpha male characteristics, and alpha males always come first throughout the animal kingdom, again humans are no exception. Alpha male dominance also releases pheromones, sexual signaling, and can grow a womans brain, via neurogenesis
JLuvs0fficial 1 year ago 2
@JLuvs0fficial This shit only happens in America and may be other western nations like the UK, Australia, and Canada. Women in other countries are the complete opposite of these so called American women. I tell you what, it has to do with feminism. Coz now women think that they can be like men by fucking around in their youth and hoping to get married in their forties. Go to other countries and see if that bad boy shit works there. it's only in America so don't generalize all women wanting thugs
110301839 11 months ago
women will never change, they always choose guys that treat them like shit,
President1st 1 year ago