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  • Its called goddess worship. Its the same thing thats done in england whereas you serve the queen. What do you think the statue of liberty represents? Freedom? Bullshit!! Goddess worship is Goddess worship. Its a spirit in this country thats influencing it. In the bible the woman is always manipulated and chosen by the serpent of temptation.

  • Why the loud music

  • Or maybe, the white women are smart about it. When they leave they leave with half of the black mans money, sometimes more....

  • Then let that nigga leave. Black men and white women marriages have the highest divorce rate. What that means is white women get sick of nigga shut too...they just take longer then black women to wise up.

  • @AnythingForSasuke SOUND LIKE A BUNCH OF ANGRY BLACK WOMEN. NOT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR ACTIONS AND THE DECISIONS THEY MAKE IN LIFE. TYPICAL! ALL THE BLACK MAN'S FAULT.

  • If you don't like black women, don't date black women.

  • willie lynch and his ilk are bloody misogynist PRICKS, any black man that doesn't agree on equality of the sexes is the biggest hypocrite on this earth.

  • The truth hurts black man. Stand up and take back your woman and your rightful place on this Earth. All these hateful videos and jelousy of black women disgust me.

  • great video lets get our black women back to respecting there back kings we need you.......bless up

  • As a member of the human race, I approach finding a woman like I would buying a car; even though I'm born in America, I will not hesitate to buy foreign if I hear a lot of complaints about american brands. I have no loyalty to any "brand" since at the end of the day their only loyalty is to my money. Maybe black women are a brand that simply can't compete with the competition. It also seems that Asian women are kicking white women's asses lately so don't feel bad..

  • Why you played that horrible music over the video? I couldn't hear much.

  • BIGGEST ISSUE IS THAT THE WOMEN HAVE LOST CONNECTION TO THE DIVINE SO CAN'T TEACH HER KIDS TO GET IN CONTACT WITH THE DIVINE...SO NOT ENOUGH HAVE THE KNOWLEDGE OF THE DIVINE AND WE ALL SUFFERING....however this is all apart of this cycle.....it will change one day

  • Interesting video, the only problem is The Willie Lynch letter was a hoax. It wasn't written in the 1700's, it was written in the 20th century , most likely by a black man. The Letter uses several words and phrases that weren't coined until the 20th century.

  • You mean Perish right? Not Parish...

  • I think you are trying to get across a very important message here which is great. However, I cannot imagine any reason why a music soundtrack was added to this video and so loud and irritating that one can hardly hear some of what's being said. Anyway, thanks for the info

  • mostly blcks start de wich race shud i date,id rather mrry a strng woman dan a desprate blck girl lol its not de race, if ur wif dosnt stress u it aint cus she wite its jus persnality lol any1 cn be strong and black women r just famus for it. its not that black women are 2 stressful it black men r 2 weak, in tribes men had mor dan 1 wife bt no probs cus dey wer strong, i lyk weak women, so wat, i also lyk children and babies, i just like having somtin to protect lol black women, b hll 2 ur men!

  • Instead of complaining go ahead and wait for white men with higher incomes to ask them for dates. I bet their not being asked. But if they are, date the white men and live happily ever after.

  • U know Black men could just stop whining and rather than blame the White man or Black Women for every problems in their life, they could stop dealing drugs, fathering babies they abandon, etc and rather, go to school better their lives and show Black Woman they are equals. rather they want educated black Women to settle for any black man even the ones in d ghetto. how many Successful Black men do u see dating a girl from the ghetto or settle for less? many abandon Black Women to date non-Blacks

  • men don't care about intelligence, they only want a female that will have SEX with them on a regular basis, cook, clean, iron their clothes, and do laundry..........If a female has a career that demands a lot from her, how is she going to have time to do her so called wifely duties?

  • These are some uppity black women who think men are insecure and so called intimidated. We black men ARE NOT INTIMIDATED. If these wack ass black women could think then maybe they could see that black men just dont know how to deal with the issue of a woman bein the breadwinner. That comes down to communication

  • I AM SORRY FOR MY TYPO MISTAKES.

  • NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN WITH HIGHER EDUCATION ARE SNOBBY OR MEAN.

    IN FACT I KNOW OF A FEW SUCH BLACK WOMEN WHO HAVE GONE OUT OF THEIR WAY TO HELP BLACK MEN AND WOMEN TO GAIN BETTER OPPORTUNITIES IN THE JOB AND EDUCATIONAL MARKETS BEFORE THIS PRESENT ECONOMICAL CRISIS. AND BY THE WAY MY FATHER TAUGHT ME ; AS WELL AS MY BROTHERS TO BE INDEPENDENT BY WORKING.. MY FATHER WAS BOTH FATHER AN D MOTHER AT A POINT IN MY LIFE BECAUSE MY MOTHER BECAME VERY ILL. ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT THE SAME.

  • I wish the phenomenon will come soon.

  • I wish the

  • It's all about the numbers. Black women outnumber black men in this country by a lot point black. No need for put downs, pontification, or stereotypes. It's a numbers game.

    Black women need to be more open to dating outside of their race or ethnicity.

  • I am so sick of sorry ass negroes denegrating women because they ain't shit.....get a life

  • @NatTurnerIsAlive, Is racism, name calling, threatening, and stereotyping the only thing you can do? Now that's not smart.

    Anybody can be smart regardless of race or gender. In your case? nope

  • @NatTurnerIsAlive oooh a spanking sounds good:)

  • @NatTurnerIsAlive, So you admit you beat women? This is very disturbing your bigotry is driven you mad

  • @NatTurnerIsAlive women hurt men. Period. I'm sure you can find millions of stories of women who've been hurt by men too, starting way back to their fathers. The difference is, we don't whine about it. We see it as aprt of life. Pain is part of life. Don't punish everyone you meet and every possible relationship because you've been hurt in the past. It's childish.

  • This whole "I'M A STRONG BLACK WOMEN" thing is getting tired. As a black man, I dont want a "STRONG" women. I want a SOFT black women. Beautiful, sensuous, smart yet not domanant. sexy yet not ho'ish. I want conton candy, not a candy cane. I want a soft spoken black women not a football coach. I want to sleep next to a pillow, not a rock. I want soft feminine, not angry feminist. As a black man, I will always love sistas (my mom, sisters, cousins) I just have male standards. Is that so bad?

  • @rjhome1 it's so sad that men like you never seem to meet women like me lol

  • @rjhome1... I hear where you're coming from. Men are attracted to femininity. The "Strong Black Woman" thing was born out of necessity, not to be boastful, proud, overbearing, controlling, etc. When Black women say that what they really mean is that "As a Black women I have it hard in society, but I will persevere as my foremothers endured. I don't have time to "faint" or wait to be rescued, because that valiant knight may never come." A BW can be what you described and strong at the same time.

  • Oh, and, by the way, black men ARE intimidated by a black woman's success. Before, when I wasn't as active online, I would have disagreed. But, the more I study bm (while they're annonymous online), I see it is the honest truth. Black men do not like hearing that bw are better off financially. In fact, they are jealous of our success.

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  • This is why I can not fucking stand niggas. Now, I see why so many black women kicking dust back at em' and running outside their race. I FINALLY get it. It's too much work to please a black man. It's like a gotdamn-fucking job! Any little thing you do wrong, you're automatically judged and shunned by them. You have to be Ms.Perfect all day everyday. I'm tired, I'm tired, I'M TIRED!!!

  • I am so fucking SICK of these ultiimatums from sorry ass black men!!! LEAVE US. I DON'T GIVE A FUCK! Why should we submit to a fucking loser without a gotdamn JOB? To top it off, even when you do have a job, you're stingy as all hell. so, FUCK YOU AND GOOD BYE. PEACE, BITCH!

  • I have made up in my mind a long time ago that as BW, I can do everything right somebody will always find something wrong with me. So, I GAVE UP on trying to be something/someone other than what God made me and styarting doing for me. If anybody has a problem with me wanting the best for me, f*ck em'. Why should BW continue to be pround/supportive of others and their success but BW SHOULD NOT receive the same from others?

  • Sistas? Niggas? All they do is hold the real black man and woman back. They stereotype them in a bad way with their way of acting and talking, aks, nigga, shit this that, you know what I am saying?

  • @NatTurnerIsAlive I'm a Black American man and I agree with you.

  • BW need to quite stressing about marriage because 50% of marriages end in divorce any damn way. If so and so are married now, stats show that they may not be for long and please believe divorces get ugly. If a man is the only thing missing in your life and the cause for all your discontent then you are ungrateful for everything God has blessed you with. Cherish all of your relationships! Pray about it, relax and let him work!

  • Education is key in order for BP to better their situations. I don't have a problem with men who might not achieve or have yet to achieve a extremely high level of success though I have always set my financial goals high.However there is absolutely no way I will give anyone dominance over my life! I will gladly walk side by side with my mate but submission is not a word that belongs an any ones vocabulary! I'm a lead (correctly),follow,or get the hell out the way type sister,and thats just fine.

  • THE KEY iZ 2 LET UR MATE BALANCE YOUR OTHER HALF, THE MALE HALF MUSS BALANCE THE FEMALE HALF & ViCE VERSA

  • @NatTurnerIsAlive

    I see no problems with dark skin dominican men and women. I see no problem with dark skin Aboriginal men and women in Australia, i see no problem between dark skin brazillian men and women, and I see no problem between negro males and females on the continent of africa.

    so its not a skin color thing, its a culture thing. and its only a aberration of this middle class american black culture.

  • No none of them haven't been married but they {not all}fuck and create alot of babies with multiple baby daddies.

  • @mightyblack1 Get some statistics to back up your comment, please?

  • @myladymya I'm telling off some now ,sorry if you don't like it.

  • I wonder why we never talk about what got African americans to this point, white men not all helped our race get to this disstructable state and some are still doing this to black people

  • Black women should better themselves there's nothing wrong with that but when they start thinking that they are better than the black man,htne it cause a problem.Alot of us as black men have to step our game up and that's a true reality because the white man,the white woman and now the black woman have become our new competitor instead our partner.Lord if they get a Master's Degree no matter what the black man status is,he's gonna have a problem with this sista.

  • @mightyblack1

    This topic covers alot of in-depth dimensions, you have the fact that white men are playing the black women as a pawn, to work in their favor, then you have a psychosomatic conscious that going to school for years an years, an getting a piece of paper makes you special, or somewhat of a pick because you were able to go to class an past tests. What black women need to understand is that mating an relationships have no test no clear cut definitive answer nor have they any control.

  • @mightyblack1

    What black women have to understand is that you are dealing with nature, dont matter what degrees nor how much you have attained. The nature of a man is different, an the differences are that a man in his natural essence. Is the the BOSS. The KING or the LEAD. That position is handed through biology through GOD himself, from that hard job an differences men usually die earlier than women.

  • @lawani2k guys need to quit complaing about gold digging and making women work, otherwise, we'll get the money our self and be our own Boss. if a Woman can take care of her self, what would be the point for submitting. I feel that if a man don't come along when i'm down and out and in need of a man but when i get myself together and he finally comes along, what makes you think i want one then. men need to quit being selfish, stingy, careless and quit begging real women for sex

  • @mightyblack1

    Yet basically these women half way got it, if they just submit to the men like they do their boss at work or professor in college probably a white male or female. They would excel just like they do in their studies an career.

  • @lawani2k you're right

  • @lawani2k How can a BW submit to a man who doesn't posess leadership qualities? A woman can't submit to a man just because. He has to provide something and not necessarily money but perhaps spiritual, intellectual, emotional, and physical support. Otherwise, why would a woman be with a man besides to have sex? Yes, submit to authority not just to a penis.

  • @lawani2k Many women don't submit to a black man because she doesn't see them as leaders. I LOVE black men and I WANT and NEED to submit to them, because it is a natural role for me as a woman to submit to her but.... BUT, I would be a FOOL to submit to a man who is not psychologically and mentally strong enough to protect and provide for me. I cannot put my life in a man's hands when I do not trust his strength of character or his decision-making skills.

  • @mightyblack1 A BW's educational level does not make her feel or think that she is better than a BM, considering she is more likely to date one who is also educated. The reason for this is because educated ppl tend to socialize in the same circles (i.e. college, professional events and organizations, workplace). Also, some BM find it intimidating to date or marry a woman who has more education than he does. Some even go as far as to try to belittle her to make up for his own insecurity.

  • @freetobemenoapology this stuff needs to stop on both sides.

  • @mightyblack1 I find it funny, they have 3 fat, ugly black women complaining about being single and saying men are intimidated by them, LOL. Those chicks are ugly, their education and income are IRRELEVANT

  • The lady with the braids and black on,actually believes her own bs. She is convinced that BM are "intimidated by her success & education",NO,they are leery of getting involved w/ a hardheaded woman that cant be told anything bc she has degrees that get mentioned whenever a argument happens.

  • Alot of you black women have wrote us off but your punk baby daddy can come hit anytime even if he has a wife at home or your gay girl friend will put your man out of the picture.

  • People can hear better without the background music.

  • Sista if you made this video why the FUCK DID YOU PUT MUSIC OVER THIS INFORMATION?

    IGNORANT MUSIC OVER WORDS OF WISDOM? REDO THIS FUCKING VIDEO.

  • Man fuk black women, they can take their white education and go suck a white dick. They could careless about the black community, these selfish bitches only out for themselves so fuck em.

  • @NYDASH28 hard as it is,shit I have to agree just listen to these sistas in this clip and they refuse to summit to us any way but they might for the thug type dude.They do not respect us unless we paid and driving nice cars and wearing suits like this white devil.You never hear women of other races saying that they don't need they're men but you will black owmen say that shit all the time.

  • @mightyblack1 Dog to be honesty with you,i really do not care what bw are into these days anyway, because we all know they are attracted to trash and garbage because they themselves are exactly that, trash and garbage. I just got to say to my brothers out there is to do u man, try get a job, if already have a job,just make as much money as possible, save your money and take care of yourself first before anything else. We cannot rely on bw u got to rely on yourself n those who are willing to help

  • @NYDASH28 you got a strong point and you're right we have to save our grip and take of ourselves.

  • @mightyblack1 you wont hear them women complain about they're husbands cheat on them but in the eyes of black men, the black woman not suppose to complain either

  • lawani are you saying Black women should not have a job?

  • @TrynaGetBacToMyLuv

    Not at all

    Black women need to except that having a good job nor education is good but that doesn't mean that its gonna guarantee a man nor happiness.

    Men don't care about what women make or have we are more physical an visual.

    Only in America that you have women only black women that have a complex about have a piece of paper with their name on it an a job.

    Please who cares that's not going to guarantee a relationship nor a successful marriage.

  • @lawani2k The last part of your statement is not really accurate b/c the average black man wants his woman to work, even after having a baby. In today's economy I rarely hear any man, especially a brother say that he doesn't care about what a woman makes or what she has. The average black man wants to see a woman, especially a black woman makin that money....

  • @TrynaGetBacToMyLuv

    To get a degree is alot of driving an parking riding buses, sitting an chairs listening to lectures studying passing tests reading an writing.

    To get a job is even easier especially with prior experience.

    Having a relationship with a man is a problem for black women, because its no set formula its simple but not quite.

    Its actually out of your control because the man has to choose you, and you have to attract him.

  • @TrynaGetBacToMyLuv

    With money an materialism you attract only male prostitutes.

    Real men that want you for you don't care what you got in your bank an on your wall.

    They care about the heaven between your legs an that brain on top of your head an the physical appearance that god bless you with.

  • @lawani2k It seems like you are stereotyping Black women with careers saying they think they are superior to Black men.

  • @TrynaGetBacToMyLuv NO THEY SHOULDN'T TRY TO OUT MAN THE MAN WHEN SISTAS GET THEM DEGREES THEN THEY REALLY START PUTTING US DOWN

  • @TrynaGetBacToMyLuv Ignore them, many are ignorant n biased

  • Lawani2k, what makes Black Men superior? the boss? learn how to spell b4 u criticize Black Woman. its spelt "perish" and not "parish." obviously being a Black Man u are biased n cant c the double standard. while blaming black Women for dating intelligent people, have u bothered to blame the Black man who when successful does same? at least Black Women still wanna date Black men! stop sprouting nonsense

  • A lot of these single educated black women are overweight and not very attractive. Please stop using the intimidation card. No one is intimidated by you.

  • @youcantakeapunch You must live in the back woods somewhere...

  • you're right black mother during slavery should have raise their sons to be the warriors there were in Africa; With fear we were part of the demise; Now our males of today could careless of redemption and chivarly for his women folk or his children;

  • your asking for us to return to submission of slavery; you can be submissive to your mate and some mates can be very abusive and domineering; I don't think is the answer, I think men and women should be submissive to Yah, (God)

  • Great video, but the music gets in the way, you should get rid of the music.

  • This video is giving understanding why the black family is breaking up. Thats no good.

  • the primary reason black men dont want to be with a black woman is because they are too abrasive( they falsely call it "being strong") & black women too often try to be domineering & denifrating to their men. they try to emotionally emasculate their men, rather than doing what Jesus commands them to do in His Holy word, which is submit. MANY( NOT all) black women boss their men around like dogs & only want them around to use as a human ATM

  • @dxsmackdown8 That's not on the black woman thats on the black man because as you said MANY not all bw have this mentality. So if a black man chooses not to be with a black women b/c of what MANY do instead of ALL(all is more than many), then that's his problem. I've been with nothing but black men and I've had some good experiences and some bad ones, but just b/c I had SOME bad experiences doesn't mean that I'm going to use that against ALL black men. BM need to stop coppin' out straight up!!!

  • That's very good.

  • black women's minds are so screwed up how you going to be submissive to another man(white men) that don't even like nor respect you nappy headed hoes as he calls you and lets not forget raped you how you have the upmost respect for him right and not only NOT respect your men but trash him dawg him "fuck you nigga you aint shit" and black women before you start writing me comments w/ your typical "nahh ahh" "bm do this" "ww do that" think to yourself you know what I'm writing applies ONLY to bw

  • @Washanen07 LMAO-I'm a black woman and I say the same thing about black men that put white women on pedalstals and trash black women after that same white woman accused you of raping her and stealing and had you lynched, castrated and burned alive. BLACK folks minds are screwed up period. The same way black women worship white men is the same way black men worship white women....no reply nescessary....

  • @iluvruffryderz<<sista please, that comment was wrote months ago, let it go..stop bringing up old stuff, I found a different perspective of life now which differs since last comment, let it go..

  • @Washanen07 Good for you, glad to see that you've had a change of heart, unfortunately there's still alot of Blacks out in the world that think the way you used to so......

  • @iluvruffryderz<<um hum right..black women are always right after all huh!???

  • @Washanen07 LMAOOO, your words not mine, I can take it or leave it....good luck

  • @iluvruffryderz ALL black women are perfect little angels that shit roses not 1 single black woman like thugs, pimps, & players, not 1 black female sports a blonde weave, or weave in general, ALL bw get married to good men instead of thug hoodlums NOT 1 single black woman is loud mouthed, rude, and obnixious towards others right!?

  • @Washanen07 OMG. I joined this website roughly 8-10 days ago and you people are fuckin animals no wonder Blacks are so fuckin far behind in this society. I read and watch some of the vids and comments you people post and you people are fuckin nuts. I don't even see how some of you can sleep with yourself at night. How do you live with yourself everyday knowing that you really think the way you do omg you people.....

  • @iluvruffryderz<<the comment was written months ago, can you buy a watch for the millineum...

  • Yes your right, most black men I dated I could not stand them to arogant for me, most BM are not down to earth and have to much pride for no reason. Bm also are sex addicts and will screw a hole in the wall, thats why most don't like marriage because less BM means more black women to screw and they feel BW options are limited so they sleep around and play house. American BM are not seriouse about the home and family relations like black women.

  • black women just need to date each other and go lesbian, be like ELLEN on American idol and leave Black men alone,Black women just want to cry cry cry , play the victim have their 5 kids with3 men ,and cry cry some more, leave us black men alone go lessy or get you a white man.

  • it boils down to committing to God first, marriage, and then submission to one another than everything else will fall in place. A women does not submit to her boyfriend or baby daddy so marriage is a big issue in the black community that needs to be resolved if black men wants women to submit they must be married first. How can we solve the problem of so many BM wanting a woman to submit before marriage? How do we get more black men to marry so BW can submit to them?

  • Whashanen07, and Becky is not dropping billy for tyron as well. 63% of black men are single compared to white men who are only 40% single. And I feel that black women should date who ever they please. And the bible teaches us to submit to one another, not only the women submits.

  • @blissfullyme1980

    well we cant really count white men.... EVERYONE wants a white man. hell even I would date one.

    but when you compare black men to everyone else black men shine.

    Black men have the highest rate of interracial marriages. less of us are married because a lot of us are brainwashed to "HAVE TO" try to date "one of our own"

    and the relationships dont work out.

    but sadly, it is a CULTURAL problem. Black men and women of this generation just dont match

  • @kraiden3 I agree there's a great problem, the video shows how it was manufacture To overlook that truth is to deny our state as a people. The negative result of slavery; the present educational system is designed to provoke "Black" male to revolt & self-destruct; The solution is simple, just as hate's diabolical plan has divide and conquer us, so will love repair us. It's not about what best for you or me as a person, but what is best for our People (our children’s children). Seek God, is love

  • yeah, you dont wanna "parish"

    dumb fucking coons

  • black women always blaming black men for everything dont take responsiblity for nothing just continue kissing that white ass sistas hes not dropping blond haired becky for hoodrat shaniqua

  • It's proof to me that your another ghetto one who never leaves his block. I don't associate with ghetto people-only online Your blanket lstatement based on BET is one shared by typical American bm who have failed looking for a scapegoat to blame American bw are not all shaped and act in one way. illogical. I'm not American and thank goodness - you people fuck it up for the rest of us.

  • Kraiden- so you are claiming to have travelled to every single American city and have men every single black woman and every single bw in America is a ghetto mean bitch. Ok cool. Nice to see you do t watch too much tv and haven't the least bit of education. Every single bm in America is a thug who is gonna land in jail. There you go.

  • you have to go larger than just "black"

    as black is a skin color. in Nigeria...... women dont cus their men out in the mall. dont wag a finger in a mans face in public or disrespect him like he is a punk in public.

    the same can NOT be said for american black women.

    so its not a skin color thing, its an american cultural thing. There are tons of omorosa type sistas out there, which is good for our advancement as a race but bad for our home lives and relationships.

  • Its funny that you people assume that im referring to leaving anything but the american confused independent black men predator. the black woman of AMERICA. Not all black women in america are in this state of mind. Any man with balls will stand on his square and get respect naturally. I never had any problems with black women respecting me. I dont take that bs.

  • Black women have failed to lead!!! How can she brag that she's more educated, yet her own sons now wear sagging pants and are a mockery of black manhood! It is indeed Willie Lynch repeating itself!!!

    This is an excellent video! Black women control billions yet has not shown any leadership whatsoever. She just brags, brags, brags....instead of build, build, build!

    Every black movement has been started by black men; while black women have more babies, at younger age, by different "baby daddies!"

  • I am a living example of this.

    I was the oh so rare MIDDLE CLASS black child of the 80's

    my middle class parents divorced and sis and I were raised by mum.

    Mom made sure I cooked and cleaned because "no woman is gonna take care of you" and sis got sent to prep school, leadership training camp ect ect because "she wont need to rely on no MAN to take care of her"

    Now? Im a happy house husband and my sis is a strong business woman. imagine if we raised BOTH boys and girls to be strong AND loving

  • black men may have started the civil rights movement (is that true) but black women kept it going ...this is what is not advertised. and also during slavery eras- it was mainly bw who created organizations and clubs to further free their people. i suggest reading more books on black american literature geared towards gender- specifically cause your getting it all wrong,

    plus w/o sojourner and harriet being some of our stepping stones- many would have still been slaves a while longer

  • plus phyillis wheatley- a black woman in the 1700's was the FIRST BLACK AUTHOR. of both genders! these are things you need to know! she spoke several languages including english- fluently! this black woman you put down has fought with you over and over again and now you bash her? some of our greatest writers- zora neale hurston, lorraine hansberry, toni morrison, maya angelou, nicci giovanni- all bw who fought for blacks almost more than they breathed! ever today we have bw creating...

  • creating and funding buildings, orgs and businesses geared to the advancement of all of us...if you put your pride down you would be able to see that. but no- you dont allow it. you dismiss her hard work. you belittle her. why? cause you feel unmanned..but you dont realize you did it all on your own. you didnt try hard enough or at all. you gave up. you misused her on the street as well. and now you want ot bash her? even though she is progressing and you decided not to? wha????

  • I hope all the black men go over to all the other colors of women and go to them and get all the submissiveness they're looking for from them. I swear to you. Best of luck.

  • This is part of the reason we don't respect our women now !! This ignorance shouldn't have even came out your mouth .

    I believe in my sisters as lots of us still do but this is not returned .

    You are supposed to SUBMIT (IT DOESN'T MEAN SLAVERY )

    Look at what yall submit to now and days !!

  • Not ignorance. Just indifference. Please go to others with my blessing.

  • Nah, ignorance as I honestly stated . I love you no matter what though sis !!

  • No it's OK you don't have to feel like you have to love anyone. Seriously.

  • I didn't mean that sarcastically or feel that I have to, I feel that we all should love each other ., naturally .

  • we already have.....

    been this way for over a decade and a half.

    we wish you luck as well, we are having fun with our white (90's) Spanish (late 90's early 00's) and now asian or native NON AMERICAN, african women.

  • @kraiden3 Have all the fun you can. I for one will wish you the best with that.

  • well it seems to be working out very VERY well for us.

    Black men have the highest interactial marriage rate of any male in the united states, that is something to be VERY proud about that we can build homes and happy families. so sistas are doing better than in the education and money department and black men excel at love and happiness... so thats why we dont make good couples for eachother but I am damn proud of what you guys can do on your own ... which is what 80% of you are

  • Please go and get your love and happiness and never look back, and I mean don't ever look back. Not for organizing any protests and marches when any black man whether he's rich, poor, famous or unknown gets arrested or beaten up by the police, or gets a slightly longer sentence in prison than a white man, don't look back when you need help or advice in the office where you work not even if your head knocks against any ceilings that are real or otherwise imagined.

  • I'm sure that the source of your love & happiness should be more than equipped to help you and to speak out for you publicly on your behalf.

  • shes happy im happy, and the italian mami i had before her was happy and I was happy.

    I actually went out of my way and stepped over a lot of GOOD and great women of other cultures in a blind attempt to try and be more "down" and have a sista for a wife. but after spending time with my own family and surfing the dating pool I started to deduce that our current generation make great "friends" for each other, but what each of our spirits are made up of is not healthy "love wise" for us

  • You're probably right about that.

  • t lets talk about us actual marriable type black men.

    what makes us happy = kids, laughing, relaxing and peach and quiet without rocking the boat and without lots of stress.

    what makes the black middle class woman happy is education , career, success, goals.

    The black male is passive

    the white male is Aggressive

    the black female is aggressive

    the white female is passive

    our personality type dosent mesh well with what lack American are like. so its best to stay far far away romantically

  • That's fine with me.

  • kraiden excuse me but black men also do have one of the highest rates in divorce in ir. bw have one of the highest...i think your getting it wrong

    plus most blacks are together - only in america are we fronting on each other so much

    love and happiness over education are you sure? maybe not so much with bm but with non bm we have all that and more...doesnt sound like bw are the major problem to me.....possibly if bm tried harder and quit wasting time....? who knows!

  • oh please do no tmix skin color with ethnicity.

    black women from other parts of the world are actually the best thing since sliced bread for american black men.

    but AMERICAN black women are at this time the worst possible thing for a middle class black man to be with because our upbringing and what we want dosent mesh with theirs.

    i agree with you that only in america do we have this problem, i may have to make a video about it

  • @kraiden3 Black women in america and beyond a re the best thing for black men. Its like and outfit you don't were a  gucci shirt and and coogi pants that is ok but not best. The first chick i poked was a white chick and i aint been back since, its kinda funny but true. Black women meet my needs and desires alot more than other women. As we speak im in the works of marrying a black women. Not the case in some of you that just making videos and comments and just hate bw.

  • @kraiden3 I just know what the problem is and the problem like my first video starts and home and the solution is the same. You can help change the upbringing problem by having a huxtable family yourself, and even if you are the only balanced family on your block its going to be children and even adults looking at your family as a template or example.

  • NO.... sadly you and i disagree.

    black women and black american men are a HORRIBLE match for eachother. in thi sgeneration we just have different spirits and want different things and it brings us further apart as a culture to keep trying to force us together.

    I cant speak for the poor/lower class/Hood black americans as I dont know their life, but the middle class blacks are at best a 3rd option for love and family.

    the ONLY thing we have in common is skin color and church.

  • @kraiden3 Maybe you are just the horrible match for anyone. Ever considered that?

  • @dambbaby1814

    I thought about that as I was writing my article about dating...

    I thought perhaps I was the problem.

    But as I looked around at all the other middle class raised black male friends and family I had, I noticed they were having the same experiences. And noticed female members of my family (all middle class) had the same outlook.

    So as I did more research I noticed as a general (not an absolute) this is our current situation. Black women are a HORRID match for black men.

  • @kraiden3 Curious, what are the wants of black women and how do they differ from "middle class" black men?

  • @myladymya

    simple happiness and enjoyment on a small scale.

    most of the brothas i know or went to school with.... once again speaking only of us middle class....we just want a simple life and a happy and quiet household.

    my sister and all her friends will SAY they want the same things, but their focus in life is more the education, the career and the condo/acquisition of achievements and assets to set them apart from normal women.

    your focus cant be both, thats why its called a FOCUS.

  • @kraiden3 Thanks, for giving me an answer. You have valid points but in our society women are evolving and going into directions that may lead to a successful life in society and are building their social status without having marry in order to climb the ladder. We know that people are much more shallow nowadays and relationships don't last, plus there is no guarantee that a man will take of a woman anymore, no matter how many great qualities and characteristics she may have.

  • @kraiden3 Black men have more options than ever before and there is a lot of competition out there 2 win their hearts. We all know when a man wants something he goes and takes it so a black woman can only do so much to win the man over. There are not enough black men for every woman and that's a fact. Even less for those who are eligible. We know that black woman are on the bottom of the racial hierarchy but it won't get better if black men keep putting black woman down. We all need 2 stop.

  • @myladymya

    the problem is by their own devices though. I am very VERY tired of the "oh my gawd theres not enough black men because they are all dead or in jail" theory. Look i dont know where you grew up, but I grew up in jersey suburbs... a third of my graduating class was black. yes contraty to popular belief not all black people live in and are from the hood and anyone else who isnt from the hood is like "carlton". theres PLENTY of middle class negros who never go to jail.

  • @kraiden3 Just know that I love you as a human being and you are still a direct reflection of myself. I believe in the universal law of likeness attracting likeness, so no one is to blame for our own environment. Negative is negative, even if it's said in an intelligent way. The same as for hate! Same rule applies. Let's not hate...

  • @myladymya

    hey love is love , science is science. this is anthropological interpretation.

    but know that I have had this conversation a thousand times with a thousand sistas and once you put science behind my views it devolves from science into a flame fest.

    but my opinion  stands. Todays middle class black woman (I dont give a crap about upper class and hood black women) are what is destroying the whole "love thang" our culture used to have. ......(continued)

  • @myladymya

    I have seen more middle class black couples break up during this recession than I care to mention.

    in NONE of the cases did the black man DIE or GO TO JAIL... or "run off with a white woman" as most would claim. but in most of them devolved into the educated working wife/girlfriend getting upset, angry and hostile at her husband and boyfriend over rough times. can you imagine your grandmother getting mad and leaving grandad over "ROUGH TIMES" !!?!?!? we need to fix this mentality

  • the truth about the black women check of Thugt1cian on you tube if you dare

  • (uwandimepic92) you say BM became "white washed & week" are you refering to educated BM who try harder for BW but, are rejected by BW for a thug? you say "other races have it together" there is a direct link between womens choise of partners & the success of her race, we should both now question what is it that women of other races are doing right that BW are doing wrong to make mixed children of educated BM our future. every race & type of BM lives because of BW (the most powerful humans)

  • Absolutely right....the phenomenom is the Bible...because at the end of the day it spells it all out.

  • bye leave..most black women dont want your asses...most of you are a waste of time..

  • They like alot of women on planet earth are magnetized to the black man. Even tiger was smashing so black women. They not that stupid.....

  • If most black women don't want me that is ok. God wants me. I still love you. And yes i brought God into it. Look if they don't want me that is ok they can go date someone who is so called on their level and they will find that evry race of man has problems. All men have wicked ways or thaughts because we are born in sin. Who cares about race. I am not going to be offended because a black woman dates a white man. There bigger things to worry about.

  • well u should tell that to the coon who made this video..any successfuck black woman who isnt ghetto..aka having 90 kids..uneducated hideous or overweight...dont give a rats ass about a man dating white women,..do yall fail to realize that black men are the least acomplished least attractive men on this earth..WHITE MEN run this world..while all yall do is run yall mouths and the streets..who the hell wants that?

  • Well maybe you are right! As a black man i know we have problems. But alot of us that really try that really try to overcome our own problems go unnoticed. I do love you and i need you to believe in me no matter what. I need all of you. That is just the way GOD made us. So if noone else will admit it i will.

  • @LovinHimIzEasy the least accomplished?? Black men need to start getting off their asses and do something about it then. People, men and women, need to stop blaming others for there own damn actions. Living in this world is tough whether you're a man/woman or black/white. At first you don't succeed, try again.

  • @scorpiobaby90 Yes, we all have a sob story but please let's not discredit the personal hardships brought about through race. Its tough out there for black men and women but as far as dating the black man is accepted and celebrated amoung all races. Plus, us women have to wait to be chosen by a man who wants to do more than have sex with us to fufill some black girl fantasy. Most women want to be married.

  • @myladymya I'm not discrediting personal hardships but don't place blame on everyone because of that. That's like if I break up with a black man and I say all black men do this, that and the other. It's not true because not all of them are like that. It irks me when some Black men talk so bad about Black women as a whole when they haven't came across every single one.

  • @scorpiobaby90 I agree, and thanks for your comment.

  • @myladymya you're welcome I'm just tired of Some black people doing the "woe is me" crap at some point we're going to face hardships and bitching & blaming others about it isn't gonna make it easy. We have to take a stand. Life isn't easy regardless of race nor gender.

  • @scorpiobaby90 Well, we can start by not complaining about it but doing something constructive with our words of advice. I don't see how tearing a group of people down because they are flawed just like everyone else will make a difference. Negative attitudes are like viruses of the mind and it spreads quickly from person to person. Be positive and surround yourself with more positive people and maybe your outlook will change. It all starts with you.

  • @scorpiobaby90 Tell me, what does life not being easy for anyone has to do with what we are talking about? That comment has notthing to do w/ the black community and to me I feel that your comment trivializes what is the real point of our discussion. So what everyone experiences hardships. I'm talking about those who have hardships because of their race and sex. Although, the black race has managed to get through tougher times so anything is possible. We'll be okay.

  • as a BM, me & many BM would suport any BW trying to achive. BM have protected BW for millions of years & now money & a weave show just how shalow BW are. they want kids for a thug but, want an educated BM to help her. there are a lot of good BM but, they all got wise to BW, yall stupid shalow asses. if BW can do better with other races befor these men get wise, keep walking & don't look back.

  • You made and exact point, the bw who look down at regular black males or lames they say, get knocked up ram sacked f**ked and left to the roadside and then they want leroy kent with a cape and glasses to take his suit off and glasses and save them with his job and steady income and time. Being that he is not locked up and he is available and or even married. I will not accept this

  • SHUT UP.

  • Hmm i think black women should do the same also..beacuse like black men we held it down for black men as well for millions of years but now bm are nothing more than the white man's bitch...and became very white washed and weak. Yes keep walking and on;t look back we don't need you...we didn't when they sold your asses off to other masters and left us to fend by ourselves and we did very well Besides other races of men have it together in comparison. So leave mixed children will be our future

  • (uwandimepic92) you say BM became "white washed & weak" are you refering to educated BM who try harder for BW but, are rejected by BW for a thug? you say "other races have it together" there is a direct link between womans choise of partners & the success of her race. we should both now question what is it that women of other races are doing right that BW are doing wrong to make mixed children of educated BM our future. every race & type of BM lives beacause of BW the (most powerful humans)

  • (uw92) it is not inportant that i am right, what is more inportant is that you & BW undersand that the power of choise is 90% female. there is (natural selection) (selective breading) & (female selection) these factors have shaped all life on earth, GOOD or BAD. & only BW can deside which typ of BM (lives on) or (dies out). BW power without responcibility is never a good thing. over millions of years BW desided the typ of BM we have today. change is so slow we can't see it. i hope you get it.

  • It is all a big waste of time. It si not about race. This a trick by the devil and when i say devil i am talking about the actual spirit not a white man. This is a trick to distract us from cleaning ourselves spiritually and when God returns we wount be ready. I as a black man am not scared of women with education. I use motivation to help me. But JESUS searches the heart not the color or the education. Just because i am educated don't mean i love you or GOD.

  • Exactly just because you're educated doesn't mean we have to love you and you're God either.

  • Every man has problems. Black men are not the only one with problems. This intire country is messed up because of men of all colors. I do love you and every other black woman. I would die for yall. But i have my own sins to atone for also i am not perfect. i have hurt some women in my days. But in my heart i am sorry. I don't want to be who i once was. But what about the women who have hurt me?

  • I think you miss understood part of my statement. When i said that my education does not mean i love you or God i was saying that education tells you nothing about a man's heart. I know of many educated men who treat their women like trash. I do love you. I love a black woman down to the crust of her eyes. My point is just that black men ain't the only men or people for that matter with problems. But i do love you. If i hate you i hate my mother.

  • Im sorry but bros just gonna go out the country, if i had my passport i would have been overseas by now. But its alot of sisters that are capable to me in this country, im good maybe down south though.