i've been goin out with my girlfriend for over a year..it has been the most magical year of my life...until she told me shes been cheating on me...o god that hurt...i felt exactly like this guy on the video..we broke up since and it hurt me every second since...fuck and we planned to get married too:(
thats sad but i think ive been hurt more i was dating my bf 4 so long and we was engaged and then he was in a car crush and died i got so depressed i cut R.I.P B.I. in my wrist and a bunch of otehr cuts around it i miss him so much *crys*
Can you guys see this other MusicVideo about Alcoholism I posted? It's in Youtube High Defintion with full stereo sound & Has honors already + It's very touching and Moving..
/watch?v=aiJ-_DyGIM8
it's the latest video in my channel,I think you will like it.
PLease Post a comment there of what you think of it
To the surferchic and who else, this is youtube and your arguing over something on a comment wall, do you not see something wrong with that. Its the least bit mature and almost pathatic. This is where you comment the video not your personal problems, we all have them so dont give your "woahs Me story" on youtube, please. By the way your telling people to stay out of your conversation when obviously your making it public by posting it on the internet,ha.wow.
people can post whatever they want on here. like you said, its youtube. doesn't mean you have to read it. and if you don't like it, then wow, don't read it then. you just contradicted yourself also. btw, please don't comment me back cause i'm seriously done with all of this.
Smart ass? You said you wished you could drink yourself to death, yet you have kids? You have so much more in the world that most others and all you can do is winge about drinking youself to death.
i saw him in concert last night and when he sang this song there was an awesome hologram of allison and everybody thought it was real for like the first 2 minutes of the song, lol, it was cool
oh wow artemis and bel, notice that the same people keep making mine -4, people stop getting in the conversation. its none of your business and also, you don't even know what i'm arguing about. unless you read from the beginning which i doubt any of you did. so deal with your own lives and don't comment about mine.
Okay this is it. U wanna have a conversation MAIL THE PERSON NOT WASTE THE COMMENTS ON THE VIDEO!!! u don't want people reading your conversation? THEN MAIL THE PERSON YOUR TALKING @ !!!!
i wasn't looking to have a conversation, it just turned out that way. well, why are you wasting your comments on this video and why are you bothering to read other peoples comments anyways? and no, i don't want to know where bel lives or have him know where i live. you'll just have to get over it
haha you're so lame, didn't i already tell you that? so don't copy my comebacks. and also, don't comment this back bc i'm sick of coming back to this page
This song speaks to the romantic side of me, and makes me think of me and my love, really have to fight against the tears every time I hear it.. GREAT SONG!
Hey...sut the fuck up will ya!!!! im a gothic girl but i was born and raised in southern maryland you got somthing to say say it to my horses ass!!!! you dont know shit of us amaricans!!!!
whoa, rskank shut the fuck up! devils is right, you don't know shit about americans! and who the hell cares if devils is goth shut the hell up, i'm not goth but i'm still american. born and raised. you don't have to bring americans into this. also, if you don't like the vid. gtfo this page and don't comment back!
reminds me of my best friend's mom. She drank herself to death, and whiskey was often her weapon of choice. My friend listens to this a lot because it reminds her of her mom.
i started crying when i first heard this song, it has a deep meaning to it, i ended up crying myself to sleep when i heard this. hell, even metalheads like me have a soft side for country too....
As I was saying, I dont complain, I deal, but I have learned to accsept it and live with the fact I am........alone, but all the death and missing pices of my life really made me stronger, like not having my father there with me, thanks to him I am twice as strong as I thought.
It makes me really happy that you were able to make the decision to fight and survive to come out the other side stronger than you were. Dealing is one of the hardest things to do when you arent ready for it and you end up a different person because of it.
This is a real video it has touched my life so much. I lived this for about a year I lost EVERYTHING! But as they say what doesnt kill you; hurts like hell!!!! NO not really it makes you STRONGER and I have made through it because of all those who love me. Thank you!!!!!
4. then paste this to 4 other video's, if you do this your crush will kiss you on the nearest friday! But if you read this and did not paste this, then you will have very bad luck and ur dad might lose his job
TORTURE!! This is arguably the SADDEST and most heart wrenching song I've EVER heard! Wow! Don't get me wrong, it's unparralled in the way it moves you, but my God, could someone write a sadder song? I'm going to learn to play this. Who's the writer, Shakespear?! sheesh.
this kinda stuff happpens all the time to people in the marines and army, and its sad, because they dont deserve it and their lives are ruined just because their lovers wanted a good time.
what are you talking about tryx...? people cheat all over the world, whether its a free nation or not. some places you can be married to like, 7 people. this song shows the hurting of a broken heart. oh and yeah, you are free to sleep around but thats not the point.
yeah but come on sleeping round is not the same and havin 7 husbands or wifes is stupied. my fiance cheated on me so i guess i see this in a differnt perspective.
to all those 16 year olds...yeah your too young to fall in love, because if thats how you respond to it, your too young, if your not mature enough to handle it, your too young. No matter what you feel, how you reacted just shows your not ready for the real world of relationships. Thats for all the kids that killed themselves, because they failed at being adults, because they were still kids.
indeed i am emotionally immature. and i have handled this in the worst way possible. i am getting help. and dont worry bout anything cauise this will never happen to me again...i wont get that close. i already know i dont want kids and i plan to be in themilitary so i guess that is fuine...as fpr alex, he is a waste ofmy time and i dont need him
Well hopefully the comradery of the military will help in your recovery and make you stronger. If not then oh well at least you finally did something to try.
i hope it doesn't offend you that i'm disregarding this... i'm too busy with my drug induced raping and all so you know how that goes...it's pretty much a full time job. (We get great health benefits now)
wow. i must have hit a nerve, you won't drop the whole raping thing will you?
and what you just wrote wasn't mean really, it was just funny. thanks for making me laugh. seriously. and ok fine so maybe that kid meant more to you, but that still doesn't make up for the fact of you kind of attacking people for being depressed. so what if there depression was stupid for a reason. it doesn't mean you had to comment it.
As for the whole I apparently rape women using drugs and then lose a child being funny to you that's fine just know that yeah someone accusing me of that does kind of hit a nerve but i guess im just old fashioned that way.But then again maybe i'm not the "cold-hearted" one here afer all and I never said it was supposed to be mean. "so what if there depression was stupid for a reason. it doesn't mean you had to comment it. " So you agree that a lot of resons were in fact stupid...
god im sick of arguing with you. it only hits a nerve with you because you know its true. if someone said that about me id just be like um ok, all sarcasticly. well too bad it was, so think before you speak/type. yeah, SOME reasons were stupid but so what? that wasn't my point. you're getting off topic
That wasn't off topic at all. It proves that you agree with me on some level. If not what point were you tryng to make with that? I'm also glad you would handle that situation much better than I would but you haven't gone through it and hopefully never will because it doesn't ever go away. You are trying to argue with me about something you don't understand. You are only 14 years old and have a lot of learning and experience to go through before you can hold a good point against what i said.
in your opinion you weren't. my point was that you were being a jerk when you didn't need to be. how the hell do you know i'm 14? yeah right, age doesn't matter anyways, look at all those kids in the holocaust that survived, you wouldn't be able to say any of what you just said to them. so age doesn't matter and you don't know what i've already been through.
Age matters a lot when it comes to talking about life experiences you havent been through yet. (You said it yourself you've never been through depression) Your example isn't even relevant and if it had anything to do with me being a jerk, your holocaust example would work against you being as how the majority of survivors aren't the nicest people because of what they went through.
sorry for commenting so much but ok i forgot to say something. country music, or the singer is usually trying to tell a story, one that relates to life, or that persons life personally, but not always. this song relates to life so that might be why people on here are telling they're stories. instead of getting mad at them, have a heart and be sympathetic. its hard going through something like that
Relating to such a depressing song is bad news in the first place not to mention using youtube as an emotional outlet in the hopes that by putting a depressing enough story up no one will rip on it. Go talk to a family member or a medical professional about your problems. Not the youtube community. (Especially when its so dumb like that guy who tried to overdose on advil)
sure its bad news but so many ppl have problms, maybe this is their only way out. maybe ppl dont wanna talk 2 sum1 face 2 face or sumthi. i mean me personally, id feel uncomfortable talkin 2 a therapist if i was goin thru sumthin like this & itd help just 2 write a lil sumthin on here. & its ppls choice 2 read it. & shutup about the advil, i know a guy tht tried 2 do tht 2. i guess when ur rele depressed u cant think straight. idk ive nvr been rele depressed so i dont rele have the answers.
Of course you would feel uncomfortable but how is that any worse than the depression you are feeling now? Try acting like an adult and finding a constructive way to solve your problems instead of finding more excuses for yourself and why people should feel bad for you. Also it's spelled really not rele retard
You want me to spell everything perfectly? i will, i was just trying to fit it all in! There's a limit of 500 words. Also, I don't know, I'm not depressed. And these people aren't trying to make others feel bad for them, they're just relating! How many times have I told you that already? (& if you hadn't noticed, rele, takes up less space than really does) Also didn't I just tell you you don't think straight so acting like an adult might not be the first idea that pops into the persons head.
Wow that whole statement was couldn't have been more contradictory if Bush said it himself. You have no way to relate to anything these people have said but apparently you know so much about how they think when they go through something like this? Go read a book if you can... it's rele worth it
or maybe it means i understand people more than you do? ever thought of that. no, of course you didn't. you seem too close minded or whatever. read a book? um, actually that wouldn't help you understand it fully, you have to go through it to totally understand it. but maybe if you'd read a book i wouldn't have to explain all this to you. and the whole 'rele' part is old and immature. so grow up
"i understand people more than you do?...you have to go through it to totally understand it." But haven't gone through anything like this, you said it yourself, and actually yes there are certain books that will give you ideas on coping with depression, loss, and a lot of other things. Me telling you that you dont know what you're talking about doesn't make me close minded at all just more informed.
ha you wish. thats your opinion. it makes you close minded and just a jerk if you tell people they're idiots and that they SHOULD kill themselves. yeah so maybe you should read a little.
What would reading do to convince me that people who try to commit suicide aren't idiots? If people want to kill themselves then go ahead as long as they realize that it's an idiotic thing to do and a cowards way out but more power to them if they choose it in the end it's all on their head anyway. You're going in circles kiddo.
i already told you you don't think straight! maybe you did, but not EVERYONE does. ok fine, its a cowards way out, but who cares, they don't. so you think you're all big and tough, whatever, not everyone takes it like you do. i'm going in circles? ha, then if i am you are too. and just because i'm 14 does not mean i'm young. DON'T call me kiddo
Being 14 does mean you're young. An with you being as young and inexperienced as you so clearly display I will openly refer to you as kiddo, tiger, champ, or any other title I see fit to employ. So what are you just arguing because you hate being proven wrong or what?
oh yeah and probably the only reason i have like, -4 is because the same people have read this or just a few people are because they're too bored with their own lives they have to get into others. either way i don't care what people on here think. this is youtube.
and you already know what i'm arguing about. you're the one who just keeps getting off topic
This is getting rediculous. Surfer, yes Bel has an extremely gritty disposition but from what he has dealt with its entirely understandable. What you have to understand is that a lot of kids going through depression could benefit considerably if they take what he has said and made some decisions. It is something that forces you to grow up and I know I wish I would have had the same solution when my sister was killed a few years back. Cut him a break with the whole rape thing will ya...
Bel not everyone responds well to such an abrasive point of view. its a sensitive topic that is hard to fully understand unless you have been there. You are both arguing over different sides of the same coin. She may only be 14 and not have any experience with what she's talking about but at least she still cares as much as you about the topic to argue for this long. Stop messing with her. it's not her fault she's young.
porthos you're making me sound like i'm a freakin little kid. i understand the topic just as much as he does even if i haven't gone through it. i've seen it happen so don't take my age to mean i'm little and immature.
why are you reading our conversation if you think its so ridiculous? but not everyone thinks like he does. maybe, what he's saying to them might just push them over the edge. ok it could get some people back on track but bel's convinced i guess that everyone can fight in that same way when they can't. i only said it once, then i tried to stop it and he dragged it on. anyways, you're in this conversation...why?
Probably because he sees (just as much as the other people who gave you negative comment scores) how much of an idiot you are being. Stop being so defensive and immature.
people are just trying to relate to it, and its nice when you find someone that you know partly feels your pain or can relate to you in some way. i think thats why people told the stories but i'm not completely sure. it helps you deal with the pain when you know you're not alone.
i feel your pain guys. i was in love with a guy for 3 years, he finally got us together and then he cheated on me, i started being a drug abuser and alcoholic, i destroyed my insides, just last year he commited suicide and i blame my self im so upset
no he missed me i took him back again and it made me happy his family didnt think i was good and that ticked him off and then he killed himself its a long story
Don't blame yourself for him being screwed up in the head (sounds like you weren't really top priority in his book anyway from the whole "him cheating" thing). Blame yourself for making such a retarded decision to turn to drug abuse and alcoholism in order to solve your problems.
I'm 16 and i was in love with a girl for 3 years untill her brother got high and blamed her for it. i havent seen her since cuz she moved away and i dont know wer too. I miss her so much that i got drunk and tried to overdose on advil. it didnt work but i forgot about her for about a minute then i cried my self to sleep. your song reminds me of her. thank you.
you want me to stop being nice to people? not gonna happen so stfu. i'm being nice to people, trying to support them to get them to get help and trying to get them to ignore you while you just keep replying, making an ass out of yourself in the process. you know, even if your not depressed, people don't necessarily like others being jerks to them. i'm surprised you even got someone to have a kid w/u. or maybe you drugged them. who knows, all i know is you're being a little know it all jerk
Ok so now we've resorted to calling me a rapist... that's fine because none of your other arguments are very smart either. What you are doing is not "being nice" what you are doing is filling people here who have major psychological issues with the false justification that what they did is ok as long as they tried to get help.
um...did i say i have the greatest comebacks? no, so quit putting words in my mouth. and hey, your arguments aren't so smart either. it goes both ways you know. i never said what they did was ok! all i'm trying to do is get them to get help, you're doing the same thing but you're being a jerk also. me, just take out the jerk part and we do the same thing.
I didn't put words in your mouth at all. You did all that yourself which only justifies your immaturity as an inexperienced little girl. While my arguments deal with facts and experience yours are mainly dealing with the ethics of my cut and dried attitude. You can't make someone become not depressed anymore with nice words. You have to make them realize that they should cut the shit and make some decisions on where they want to be. The more you wait the worse off you are.
im not about to say your to young...i was 16 and in love to i was for 3 years and now im in the same boat...if anything i would actualy ask for help... but i dont knwo where to turn.
i dont believe in god so that rules out spirit. my paents died awhile ago. my siblings are all gone, friends dont egt it, i cant get real help cause i cant afford it, as for family, i have none. you are right i am a waste of a human...and i failed cause something held me back everytime. im doing better now and it is comforting to know that someone shares the pain...if you dont like what i have to say then leave me be and go on with your life...best wishes
panda, that person doesn't deserve your wishes. he/she was totally rude to you. you can always talk to your school counselor though, or parents of friends maybe?
meh school counselors already think to put me up in some assylum place and i refuse to do that so if i keep my mouth shut ill be fine. im rrecovering alcoholic...recovering. i got help, myself. the only person that can help me that i can rely on is myself. isee i have issues and i deal with them now instead of running. thank you for the support. as for parents, they dided, and as for friends...no...thank you.
i wish you all best of luck and don pray for me cause god is no loner alive in my heart. i dont blame him i just dont believe is all. i wish help to us all and strength to meagadeth575. my bro is in war. thank you for serving this country...
you know what panda, thank you brother. i do know your pain. except for parents being dead, but i do know the pain of not having them there to help, and i know even better what it is to have no friends there as well. strength to you dear friend *hug*
im 16 years old and a recovering alcoholic. im addicted to painkillers and im bipolar. the only thing i love in this world left me for some bitch. i got drunk every night the last 9 months to this osng not caring if i lived or died. i attempted suicide so much but i always passed out befor ei could. finally i got help. if you plan to reply to this dont tell me im too young to know love. trust me im not. he is still there, in my head.
So let me get this straight... you even failed at killing yourself? That's just embarassing. Why don't you try again because by everything you've written so far makes you seem like an awfully good waste of brain cells. 16 or not, getting that screwed up over a relationship not working out makes you a complete waste of a human being and a complete idiot.
bel...u r a waste of human being if u think so bc ur obviously so cold hearted&u cant understand any1. U need 2 think'wow mayb this person has feelings & if i say these things 2 sum1 tht is alredy depressed might just make thm feel evn worse, especially if tht person is tryin 2 recover!' in the vid guy/girl get drunk many times u can get drunk & thn ur body passes out whthr u want it 2 or not. its not pandas fault he/she couldn't kill 'emself. u shuld b glad tht theres hope panda can get help
really does mean a lot that you are a human being and feel for me. thank you very much for that. i will be fine in time, just giveme time. im working on picking myself up and smacking myself in the face for the idiot ive been. he is worthless to me now so i will move on with my life and hopefully do grea things someday.
It's not a question of me being cold hearted or not. Everyone has their problems even me for example (My child was killed and i'm only 21) do I go around posting my misery for eveyone to see? Hell no. I got back up and made something of myself to be proud of. Lets face it- you are either smart enough to handle them or you aren't end of story. Any technicalities you bring into this situation are just excuses.
you don't post it for everyone to see because you've already gotten help! these people haven't. well good for you but don't call people on here idiots and that you think they should've succeeded in killing themselves. saying that makes you cold hearted. or maybe its not a question of smarts, its of time. not everyone has the will power to right away get help.
When you go through something traumatic it never goes away. It can only be covered up so why sit there with an open emotional wound? Your choices in the situation are- Get help or die essentially. If people are so stupid as to try and take the latter choice then so be it but get it over with so no one has to listen to you complain how you've got the worst problems ever especially on a country music video comment wall
The whole jerk thing is irrelevent. The point is that a lot of these people need a wake up call and sometimes the only way to make them step back and think is to be rough and sometimes rude. They are used to hearing sympathy and I speak from experience when something so much as little as a rude comment can piss someone off enough that it gives them the strength and attitude they need to show the world what they're made of and fight back.
There's nothing wrong with being nice every once in a while but it this situation a different tool is needed to motivate the person. When you've got nothing left to live for, a little motivation is more precious than anything else to get your life back and established again.
in this situation? this is more than one situation. yeah, motivation, so be like 'um, don't end your life, your life will get better if you go to a therapist' but you would probably tell the person 'you're weak, you don't deserve to live'
Love this song
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exes25kug 6 months ago
Two thumbs up"
MrSkunk14 7 months ago
same old story
MrSkunk14 7 months ago
One of the most beautiful songs I've ever heard!
willalwayslovefood 8 months ago
my tears are falling
how sad_
loi898 1 year ago
I guess i have some goth in my blood because i love this song.
dawolfdawg 4 years ago
this song really
hits home for me.
XoXomegs92XoXo 4 years ago
omg this song is sooooo sad! But it is incredable... so sad... :'(
Starfiz88 4 years ago 2
ı've benn in this situation..and everytime i listen this song.ı remember that day..
efeozat 4 years ago 3
ive been with my girl thick and thin never once have we decieved each other... This is an amazing song.
bloodthreat 4 years ago 2
i've been goin out with my girlfriend for over a year..it has been the most magical year of my life...until she told me shes been cheating on me...o god that hurt...i felt exactly like this guy on the video..we broke up since and it hurt me every second since...fuck and we planned to get married too:(
chiefmaskwa 4 years ago 5
wow that suks im sry and i feel 4 u my botfriend cheated on me and we had been dating 4 1 year and 3 months so sad
Kenna21495 4 years ago
thats sad but i think ive been hurt more i was dating my bf 4 so long and we was engaged and then he was in a car crush and died i got so depressed i cut R.I.P B.I. in my wrist and a bunch of otehr cuts around it i miss him so much *crys*
kikyo120000000000 4 years ago
Can you guys see this other MusicVideo about Alcoholism I posted? It's in Youtube High Defintion with full stereo sound & Has honors already + It's very touching and Moving..
/watch?v=aiJ-_DyGIM8
it's the latest video in my channel,I think you will like it.
PLease Post a comment there of what you think of it
:)
Thanks,
Jayson
boyfriendable 4 years ago
the first time i heard this song i cried like a baby
sheenabeena1 4 years ago 6
how cud that chick cheat on him
MegynluvsMac 4 years ago
i just criiiiiiiied me eyes out. wow
candaceke 4 years ago 8
Such a sad but moving song.
Casperluffy 4 years ago 6
he shouls have shot that guy in the dick!!
ramses86 4 years ago
its very meaningful, im a guy and i still get a weird feeling in my stomach GREAT VIDEO.
unks101 4 years ago 3
everytime ı listen this song,ı cry..
efeozat 4 years ago
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he should of whooped that nigga on the spot
i3bet 4 years ago
omg i like this song so much it makes tear drop from my eyes very emotional and sad..
sexytm01 4 years ago 3
Brad Paisley puts out some of the best songs
MICHAELLEEKLINE 4 years ago
i love this song sooooo f**kin muchh
babeeygurlHOTT 4 years ago
i meant hell ya as n i luv this song
lol
saraisenhour 4 years ago
This video is awsome and has gotten my through some weard times, thakyou for posting it!
bpaigem110 4 years ago
It's sad how people have to cheat and drink and just ruin their lives.
oceannelsie 4 years ago
I found this song because of a Stargate Jack/Sam fanfic...
its beautiful, tragic...and yet hope that even in death you can still get your 'happily ever after'...
thank you for posting this incredible song.
Aertyn 4 years ago
good
omarovich18 4 years ago
I wish i could drink my pain away and turn up with no misery....to be happy
Brandino941 4 years ago
To the surferchic and who else, this is youtube and your arguing over something on a comment wall, do you not see something wrong with that. Its the least bit mature and almost pathatic. This is where you comment the video not your personal problems, we all have them so dont give your "woahs Me story" on youtube, please. By the way your telling people to stay out of your conversation when obviously your making it public by posting it on the internet,ha.wow.
=]
iwish56 4 years ago
people can post whatever they want on here. like you said, its youtube. doesn't mean you have to read it. and if you don't like it, then wow, don't read it then. you just contradicted yourself also. btw, please don't comment me back cause i'm seriously done with all of this.
surferchic28 4 years ago
u tell it how it is
lol
saraisenhour 4 years ago
this song made me tear up alot i liove it
saraisenhour 4 years ago
my god i love this song sooo much! and such a beautiful clip... very emotional... i no wat he has been thru!
is tht a true story??
baylea07 4 years ago
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I love this song and video. Wish I could drink myself to death...
heatherranae811 4 years ago
hey dont say that.ur 2 awsome 2 die
saraisenhour 4 years ago
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please don't do that
artemisfowlfreak9023 4 years ago
Whats stopping you?
lewishoad 4 years ago
my kids, smart ass
heatherranae811 4 years ago
Smart ass? You said you wished you could drink yourself to death, yet you have kids? You have so much more in the world that most others and all you can do is winge about drinking youself to death.
Thats being ungrateful, smart ass
lewishoad 4 years ago
YEAH EH!
i seen him on sept 21... and like, it looked SO real. i relaly thought allison was there.
hahahahahah
but the concert was AMAZING x 94586946794567892365938465983469583469583469
18haley18 4 years ago
this is sooooo sad i cryed and cryed i know what he feels like i cut myself to try to get rid of the pain stupid right
herrera345676 4 years ago
i saw him in concert last night and when he sang this song there was an awesome hologram of allison and everybody thought it was real for like the first 2 minutes of the song, lol, it was cool
Xcrywolf3x6X 4 years ago
This song is sad and beautiful.
choochoo2me 4 years ago
this song is beautiful and it is the only country song i will listen to.
ncklbkfn 4 years ago
Really a beautiful song, and clip.
Txx
jOhchan 4 years ago
Dude I almost cried...
RememberXthisXname 4 years ago
oh wow artemis and bel, notice that the same people keep making mine -4, people stop getting in the conversation. its none of your business and also, you don't even know what i'm arguing about. unless you read from the beginning which i doubt any of you did. so deal with your own lives and don't comment about mine.
surferchic28 4 years ago
Okay this is it. U wanna have a conversation MAIL THE PERSON NOT WASTE THE COMMENTS ON THE VIDEO!!! u don't want people reading your conversation? THEN MAIL THE PERSON YOUR TALKING @ !!!!
artemisfowlfreak9023 4 years ago
i wasn't looking to have a conversation, it just turned out that way. well, why are you wasting your comments on this video and why are you bothering to read other peoples comments anyways? and no, i don't want to know where bel lives or have him know where i live. you'll just have to get over it
surferchic28 4 years ago
yea i am kinda already so just get a life loser
artemisfowlfreak9023 4 years ago
haha you're so lame, didn't i already tell you that? so don't copy my comebacks. and also, don't comment this back bc i'm sick of coming back to this page
surferchic28 4 years ago
man i hate that women because she cheated on him like my uncles ex wife the same thing happened i is sooo sad :(
nejisgirl552 4 years ago 2
i know,why cant people find one person?
DemondFireDragon23 4 years ago
Omg, I dunno what it is about the video. I can't watch it withoug crying. And the little girl at the end. wow.
SarahKanoewai 4 years ago 4
omg this song make me cry
nejisgirl552 4 years ago
Great song!!! but sad=(
reitzy94 4 years ago
i [] dis song but its so sad =[
brelovespetz 4 years ago
[] i luv this song but its so sad =( []
brelovespetz 4 years ago
lol
kimhalliwell 4 years ago
This song speaks to the romantic side of me, and makes me think of me and my love, really have to fight against the tears every time I hear it.. GREAT SONG!
mikk3n 4 years ago
this song is sooooo good. i cry like everytime i see the video! <3
anewlifeshehasfound6 4 years ago
=)))) go go skateriris
SabbatXXXX 4 years ago
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Haha, this video is so cheesy! You Americans really know the "art" of melodrama..
rataskanken2 4 years ago
how is it cheesy? and i'm canadian and i say his video is great!
inlove006 4 years ago
hell ya
lol
saraisenhour 4 years ago
Hey...sut the fuck up will ya!!!! im a gothic girl but i was born and raised in southern maryland you got somthing to say say it to my horses ass!!!! you dont know shit of us amaricans!!!!
devilslittlegirl101 4 years ago
...why is it relevant that you are a gothic girl?
rataskanken2 4 years ago
whoa, rskank shut the fuck up! devils is right, you don't know shit about americans! and who the hell cares if devils is goth shut the hell up, i'm not goth but i'm still american. born and raised. you don't have to bring americans into this. also, if you don't like the vid. gtfo this page and don't comment back!
surferchic28 4 years ago
reminds me of my best friend's mom. She drank herself to death, and whiskey was often her weapon of choice. My friend listens to this a lot because it reminds her of her mom.
princesslaura2384 4 years ago
This song makes me cry.. it is my favourite song of all time! It has so much emotion!
inlove006 4 years ago
i started crying when i first heard this song, it has a deep meaning to it, i ended up crying myself to sleep when i heard this. hell, even metalheads like me have a soft side for country too....
Kirara9245 4 years ago
i love this song
babelove20 4 years ago
this is one of my all time favorite songs...it's so sad but is honestly such a good song it's so meaningful and deep i just love it
mariocart23 4 years ago
As I was saying, I dont complain, I deal, but I have learned to accsept it and live with the fact I am........alone, but all the death and missing pices of my life really made me stronger, like not having my father there with me, thanks to him I am twice as strong as I thought.
Kelby90210 4 years ago
It makes me really happy that you were able to make the decision to fight and survive to come out the other side stronger than you were. Dealing is one of the hardest things to do when you arent ready for it and you end up a different person because of it.
belerophon17 4 years ago
Yea, belrophon17, your right I lost everything and I was forgotten, but
Kelby90210 4 years ago
This song is of da hook it's so sad but happy in a weird way
babelove20 4 years ago
at the moment this is rly helping me this song
nimontron 4 years ago
This is a real video it has touched my life so much. I lived this for about a year I lost EVERYTHING! But as they say what doesnt kill you; hurts like hell!!!! NO not really it makes you STRONGER and I have made through it because of all those who love me. Thank you!!!!!
luvinlife2themax 4 years ago
when i first heard that song i wept like a mad man :P no kidding, i was falling apart
kathrinnn 4 years ago
This song is so sad!
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hmiller45705 4 years ago
TORTURE!! This is arguably the SADDEST and most heart wrenching song I've EVER heard! Wow! Don't get me wrong, it's unparralled in the way it moves you, but my God, could someone write a sadder song? I'm going to learn to play this. Who's the writer, Shakespear?! sheesh.
rapsucks1776 4 years ago
this kinda stuff happpens all the time to people in the marines and army, and its sad, because they dont deserve it and their lives are ruined just because their lovers wanted a good time.
cutiewittabooty3 4 years ago
I totally agree with you. Sometimes it can also go the other way around too which happened to a close friend of mine. It seriously sucks.
belerophon17 4 years ago
yeah, it does. sucks that people cheat.
surferchic28 4 years ago
this shows u what really does happen in what we call a "free nation" what free to sleep around?.
tryxntrouble 4 years ago
what are you talking about tryx...? people cheat all over the world, whether its a free nation or not. some places you can be married to like, 7 people. this song shows the hurting of a broken heart. oh and yeah, you are free to sleep around but thats not the point.
surferchic28 4 years ago
yeah but come on sleeping round is not the same and havin 7 husbands or wifes is stupied. my fiance cheated on me so i guess i see this in a differnt perspective.
tryxntrouble 4 years ago
Panda you could always talk to God about your problems He'll always be there for you. anyway really good song!
chipy212 4 years ago 2
to all those 16 year olds...yeah your too young to fall in love, because if thats how you respond to it, your too young, if your not mature enough to handle it, your too young. No matter what you feel, how you reacted just shows your not ready for the real world of relationships. Thats for all the kids that killed themselves, because they failed at being adults, because they were still kids.
DarkDain 4 years ago
indeed i am emotionally immature. and i have handled this in the worst way possible. i am getting help. and dont worry bout anything cauise this will never happen to me again...i wont get that close. i already know i dont want kids and i plan to be in themilitary so i guess that is fuine...as fpr alex, he is a waste ofmy time and i dont need him
panda9291 4 years ago
Well hopefully the comradery of the military will help in your recovery and make you stronger. If not then oh well at least you finally did something to try.
belerophon17 4 years ago
See bel? Now you sound nice.
Best wishes panda!
And yeah I agree with you DarkD
surferchic28 4 years ago
i hope it doesn't offend you that i'm disregarding this... i'm too busy with my drug induced raping and all so you know how that goes...it's pretty much a full time job. (We get great health benefits now)
belerophon17 4 years ago
wow. i must have hit a nerve, you won't drop the whole raping thing will you?
and what you just wrote wasn't mean really, it was just funny. thanks for making me laugh. seriously. and ok fine so maybe that kid meant more to you, but that still doesn't make up for the fact of you kind of attacking people for being depressed. so what if there depression was stupid for a reason. it doesn't mean you had to comment it.
surferchic28 4 years ago
As for the whole I apparently rape women using drugs and then lose a child being funny to you that's fine just know that yeah someone accusing me of that does kind of hit a nerve but i guess im just old fashioned that way.But then again maybe i'm not the "cold-hearted" one here afer all and I never said it was supposed to be mean. "so what if there depression was stupid for a reason. it doesn't mean you had to comment it. " So you agree that a lot of resons were in fact stupid...
belerophon17 4 years ago
god im sick of arguing with you. it only hits a nerve with you because you know its true. if someone said that about me id just be like um ok, all sarcasticly. well too bad it was, so think before you speak/type. yeah, SOME reasons were stupid but so what? that wasn't my point. you're getting off topic
surferchic28 4 years ago
That wasn't off topic at all. It proves that you agree with me on some level. If not what point were you tryng to make with that? I'm also glad you would handle that situation much better than I would but you haven't gone through it and hopefully never will because it doesn't ever go away. You are trying to argue with me about something you don't understand. You are only 14 years old and have a lot of learning and experience to go through before you can hold a good point against what i said.
belerophon17 4 years ago
in your opinion you weren't. my point was that you were being a jerk when you didn't need to be. how the hell do you know i'm 14? yeah right, age doesn't matter anyways, look at all those kids in the holocaust that survived, you wouldn't be able to say any of what you just said to them. so age doesn't matter and you don't know what i've already been through.
surferchic28 4 years ago
retarded example
artemisfowlfreak9023 4 years ago
stfu. anyways, i can see you're not jewish. and get out of this conversation
surferchic28 4 years ago
i kno how you feel i'm 14 too and no one takes me seriously!
mkmarie200 4 years ago
aw im sorry. people take me seriously, but not on here. like in life but yeah. haha not on here.
surferchic28 4 years ago
Age matters a lot when it comes to talking about life experiences you havent been through yet. (You said it yourself you've never been through depression) Your example isn't even relevant and if it had anything to do with me being a jerk, your holocaust example would work against you being as how the majority of survivors aren't the nicest people because of what they went through.
belerophon17 4 years ago
that is deep but evever stop to think that they were failing cause the people round them didnt care. not to everyone but to most.
tryxntrouble 4 years ago
this are responses to the comments three weeks ago
tryxntrouble 4 years ago
sorry for commenting so much but ok i forgot to say something. country music, or the singer is usually trying to tell a story, one that relates to life, or that persons life personally, but not always. this song relates to life so that might be why people on here are telling they're stories. instead of getting mad at them, have a heart and be sympathetic. its hard going through something like that
surferchic28 4 years ago
Relating to such a depressing song is bad news in the first place not to mention using youtube as an emotional outlet in the hopes that by putting a depressing enough story up no one will rip on it. Go talk to a family member or a medical professional about your problems. Not the youtube community. (Especially when its so dumb like that guy who tried to overdose on advil)
Everyone has their problems
belerophon17 4 years ago
sure its bad news but so many ppl have problms, maybe this is their only way out. maybe ppl dont wanna talk 2 sum1 face 2 face or sumthi. i mean me personally, id feel uncomfortable talkin 2 a therapist if i was goin thru sumthin like this & itd help just 2 write a lil sumthin on here. & its ppls choice 2 read it. & shutup about the advil, i know a guy tht tried 2 do tht 2. i guess when ur rele depressed u cant think straight. idk ive nvr been rele depressed so i dont rele have the answers.
surferchic28 4 years ago
Of course you would feel uncomfortable but how is that any worse than the depression you are feeling now? Try acting like an adult and finding a constructive way to solve your problems instead of finding more excuses for yourself and why people should feel bad for you. Also it's spelled really not rele retard
belerophon17 4 years ago
You want me to spell everything perfectly? i will, i was just trying to fit it all in! There's a limit of 500 words. Also, I don't know, I'm not depressed. And these people aren't trying to make others feel bad for them, they're just relating! How many times have I told you that already? (& if you hadn't noticed, rele, takes up less space than really does) Also didn't I just tell you you don't think straight so acting like an adult might not be the first idea that pops into the persons head.
surferchic28 4 years ago
Wow that whole statement was couldn't have been more contradictory if Bush said it himself. You have no way to relate to anything these people have said but apparently you know so much about how they think when they go through something like this? Go read a book if you can... it's rele worth it
belerophon17 4 years ago
or maybe it means i understand people more than you do? ever thought of that. no, of course you didn't. you seem too close minded or whatever. read a book? um, actually that wouldn't help you understand it fully, you have to go through it to totally understand it. but maybe if you'd read a book i wouldn't have to explain all this to you. and the whole 'rele' part is old and immature. so grow up
surferchic28 4 years ago
"i understand people more than you do?...you have to go through it to totally understand it." But haven't gone through anything like this, you said it yourself, and actually yes there are certain books that will give you ideas on coping with depression, loss, and a lot of other things. Me telling you that you dont know what you're talking about doesn't make me close minded at all just more informed.
belerophon17 4 years ago
ha you wish. thats your opinion. it makes you close minded and just a jerk if you tell people they're idiots and that they SHOULD kill themselves. yeah so maybe you should read a little.
surferchic28 4 years ago
What would reading do to convince me that people who try to commit suicide aren't idiots? If people want to kill themselves then go ahead as long as they realize that it's an idiotic thing to do and a cowards way out but more power to them if they choose it in the end it's all on their head anyway. You're going in circles kiddo.
belerophon17 4 years ago
i already told you you don't think straight! maybe you did, but not EVERYONE does. ok fine, its a cowards way out, but who cares, they don't. so you think you're all big and tough, whatever, not everyone takes it like you do. i'm going in circles? ha, then if i am you are too. and just because i'm 14 does not mean i'm young. DON'T call me kiddo
surferchic28 4 years ago
Being 14 does mean you're young. An with you being as young and inexperienced as you so clearly display I will openly refer to you as kiddo, tiger, champ, or any other title I see fit to employ. So what are you just arguing because you hate being proven wrong or what?
belerophon17 4 years ago
oh yeah and probably the only reason i have like, -4 is because the same people have read this or just a few people are because they're too bored with their own lives they have to get into others. either way i don't care what people on here think. this is youtube.
and you already know what i'm arguing about. you're the one who just keeps getting off topic
surferchic28 4 years ago
This is getting rediculous. Surfer, yes Bel has an extremely gritty disposition but from what he has dealt with its entirely understandable. What you have to understand is that a lot of kids going through depression could benefit considerably if they take what he has said and made some decisions. It is something that forces you to grow up and I know I wish I would have had the same solution when my sister was killed a few years back. Cut him a break with the whole rape thing will ya...
porthos1380 4 years ago
Bel not everyone responds well to such an abrasive point of view. its a sensitive topic that is hard to fully understand unless you have been there. You are both arguing over different sides of the same coin. She may only be 14 and not have any experience with what she's talking about but at least she still cares as much as you about the topic to argue for this long. Stop messing with her. it's not her fault she's young.
porthos1380 4 years ago
You're both right to an extent and you are both wrong to an extent. Let it go.
porthos1380 4 years ago
porthos you're making me sound like i'm a freakin little kid. i understand the topic just as much as he does even if i haven't gone through it. i've seen it happen so don't take my age to mean i'm little and immature.
surferchic28 4 years ago
why are you reading our conversation if you think its so ridiculous? but not everyone thinks like he does. maybe, what he's saying to them might just push them over the edge. ok it could get some people back on track but bel's convinced i guess that everyone can fight in that same way when they can't. i only said it once, then i tried to stop it and he dragged it on. anyways, you're in this conversation...why?
surferchic28 4 years ago
omg reply enough on this video??? scammer much
artemisfowlfreak9023 4 years ago
Probably because he sees (just as much as the other people who gave you negative comment scores) how much of an idiot you are being. Stop being so defensive and immature.
belerophon17 4 years ago
i'm not. you started this whole thing. all i ever said was stop being a jerk and you led it into all of this. so no way was any of this my fault.
surferchic28 4 years ago
i just like the song im not messed up like all the other people
morsno54 4 years ago
being sad or depressed doesn't mean you're messup up
surferchic28 4 years ago
no but trying to kill yourself does
belerophon17 4 years ago
omg people, seriously. stop with the sad stories and listen to the song.
xDeaRxAmbellinAx 4 years ago
you dont have to read them...it isnt my fault that i leave a comment that can relate. you dont have to read it
panda9291 4 years ago
people are just trying to relate to it, and its nice when you find someone that you know partly feels your pain or can relate to you in some way. i think thats why people told the stories but i'm not completely sure. it helps you deal with the pain when you know you're not alone.
surferchic28 4 years ago
i cryed so much this is just so sad and true!
deppgirl123 4 years ago
i feel your pain guys. i was in love with a guy for 3 years, he finally got us together and then he cheated on me, i started being a drug abuser and alcoholic, i destroyed my insides, just last year he commited suicide and i blame my self im so upset
joelover101 4 years ago
wait, so why'd he commit suicide? did you leave him after he cheated on you?
surferchic28 4 years ago
no he missed me i took him back again and it made me happy his family didnt think i was good and that ticked him off and then he killed himself its a long story
joelover101 4 years ago
Don't blame yourself for him being screwed up in the head (sounds like you weren't really top priority in his book anyway from the whole "him cheating" thing). Blame yourself for making such a retarded decision to turn to drug abuse and alcoholism in order to solve your problems.
belerophon17 4 years ago
I'm 16 and i was in love with a girl for 3 years untill her brother got high and blamed her for it. i havent seen her since cuz she moved away and i dont know wer too. I miss her so much that i got drunk and tried to overdose on advil. it didnt work but i forgot about her for about a minute then i cried my self to sleep. your song reminds me of her. thank you.
Tidusengel 4 years ago
Advil??? What were you like immune to headaches for a week or two? Way to waste good meds by being an idiot. Mom and Dad should be proud.
belerophon17 4 years ago
shut up ur mean
surferchic28 4 years ago
get a brain and stop coddling people who obviously need professional help
belerophon17 4 years ago
you want me to stop being nice to people? not gonna happen so stfu. i'm being nice to people, trying to support them to get them to get help and trying to get them to ignore you while you just keep replying, making an ass out of yourself in the process. you know, even if your not depressed, people don't necessarily like others being jerks to them. i'm surprised you even got someone to have a kid w/u. or maybe you drugged them. who knows, all i know is you're being a little know it all jerk
surferchic28 4 years ago
Ok so now we've resorted to calling me a rapist... that's fine because none of your other arguments are very smart either. What you are doing is not "being nice" what you are doing is filling people here who have major psychological issues with the false justification that what they did is ok as long as they tried to get help.
belerophon17 4 years ago
um...did i say i have the greatest comebacks? no, so quit putting words in my mouth. and hey, your arguments aren't so smart either. it goes both ways you know. i never said what they did was ok! all i'm trying to do is get them to get help, you're doing the same thing but you're being a jerk also. me, just take out the jerk part and we do the same thing.
surferchic28 4 years ago
I didn't put words in your mouth at all. You did all that yourself which only justifies your immaturity as an inexperienced little girl. While my arguments deal with facts and experience yours are mainly dealing with the ethics of my cut and dried attitude. You can't make someone become not depressed anymore with nice words. You have to make them realize that they should cut the shit and make some decisions on where they want to be. The more you wait the worse off you are.
belerophon17 4 years ago
im not about to say your to young...i was 16 and in love to i was for 3 years and now im in the same boat...if anything i would actualy ask for help... but i dont knwo where to turn.
mandm0821 4 years ago
how about family, a medical professional, a friend, a sibling, a complete stranger, a spiritual leader so on so forth
belerophon17 4 years ago
i dont believe in god so that rules out spirit. my paents died awhile ago. my siblings are all gone, friends dont egt it, i cant get real help cause i cant afford it, as for family, i have none. you are right i am a waste of a human...and i failed cause something held me back everytime. im doing better now and it is comforting to know that someone shares the pain...if you dont like what i have to say then leave me be and go on with your life...best wishes
panda9291 4 years ago
panda, that person doesn't deserve your wishes. he/she was totally rude to you. you can always talk to your school counselor though, or parents of friends maybe?
surferchic28 4 years ago
meh school counselors already think to put me up in some assylum place and i refuse to do that so if i keep my mouth shut ill be fine. im rrecovering alcoholic...recovering. i got help, myself. the only person that can help me that i can rely on is myself. isee i have issues and i deal with them now instead of running. thank you for the support. as for parents, they dided, and as for friends...no...thank you.
panda9291 4 years ago
i wish you all best of luck and don pray for me cause god is no loner alive in my heart. i dont blame him i just dont believe is all. i wish help to us all and strength to meagadeth575. my bro is in war. thank you for serving this country...
panda9291 4 years ago
i wish you luck and that you'll be...happier and move on! my brothers in the army too...thanks to everyone for serving this country!
surferchic28 4 years ago
you know what panda, thank you brother. i do know your pain. except for parents being dead, but i do know the pain of not having them there to help, and i know even better what it is to have no friends there as well. strength to you dear friend *hug*
megadeth575 4 years ago
im 16 years old and a recovering alcoholic. im addicted to painkillers and im bipolar. the only thing i love in this world left me for some bitch. i got drunk every night the last 9 months to this osng not caring if i lived or died. i attempted suicide so much but i always passed out befor ei could. finally i got help. if you plan to reply to this dont tell me im too young to know love. trust me im not. he is still there, in my head.
panda9291 4 years ago
So let me get this straight... you even failed at killing yourself? That's just embarassing. Why don't you try again because by everything you've written so far makes you seem like an awfully good waste of brain cells. 16 or not, getting that screwed up over a relationship not working out makes you a complete waste of a human being and a complete idiot.
belerophon17 4 years ago
bel...u r a waste of human being if u think so bc ur obviously so cold hearted&u cant understand any1. U need 2 think'wow mayb this person has feelings & if i say these things 2 sum1 tht is alredy depressed might just make thm feel evn worse, especially if tht person is tryin 2 recover!' in the vid guy/girl get drunk many times u can get drunk & thn ur body passes out whthr u want it 2 or not. its not pandas fault he/she couldn't kill 'emself. u shuld b glad tht theres hope panda can get help
surferchic28 4 years ago
really does mean a lot that you are a human being and feel for me. thank you very much for that. i will be fine in time, just giveme time. im working on picking myself up and smacking myself in the face for the idiot ive been. he is worthless to me now so i will move on with my life and hopefully do grea things someday.
panda9291 4 years ago
It's not a question of me being cold hearted or not. Everyone has their problems even me for example (My child was killed and i'm only 21) do I go around posting my misery for eveyone to see? Hell no. I got back up and made something of myself to be proud of. Lets face it- you are either smart enough to handle them or you aren't end of story. Any technicalities you bring into this situation are just excuses.
belerophon17 4 years ago
you don't post it for everyone to see because you've already gotten help! these people haven't. well good for you but don't call people on here idiots and that you think they should've succeeded in killing themselves. saying that makes you cold hearted. or maybe its not a question of smarts, its of time. not everyone has the will power to right away get help.
surferchic28 4 years ago
When you go through something traumatic it never goes away. It can only be covered up so why sit there with an open emotional wound? Your choices in the situation are- Get help or die essentially. If people are so stupid as to try and take the latter choice then so be it but get it over with so no one has to listen to you complain how you've got the worst problems ever especially on a country music video comment wall
belerophon17 4 years ago
ok so you kinda make sense there but you still didn't have to be a jerk
surferchic28 4 years ago
The whole jerk thing is irrelevent. The point is that a lot of these people need a wake up call and sometimes the only way to make them step back and think is to be rough and sometimes rude. They are used to hearing sympathy and I speak from experience when something so much as little as a rude comment can piss someone off enough that it gives them the strength and attitude they need to show the world what they're made of and fight back.
belerophon17 4 years ago
There's nothing wrong with being nice every once in a while but it this situation a different tool is needed to motivate the person. When you've got nothing left to live for, a little motivation is more precious than anything else to get your life back and established again.
belerophon17 4 years ago
in this situation? this is more than one situation. yeah, motivation, so be like 'um, don't end your life, your life will get better if you go to a therapist' but you would probably tell the person 'you're weak, you don't deserve to live'
surferchic28 4 years ago