Wronged!?

[philipsmovies]

When someone is wronged their ego is deflated and they feel small depending on how they have been wronged. They then feel that they should respond..You have an excellent attitude.

[Loreleila]

Thanks Philip.

[Edmundo400]

I think when we feel 'wronged'.....perhaps, 'accused,' then it's best to see we have indeed been 'wronged' and then look for the way we might have been wrong! It will never be quite in the way, or as magnified as the antagonist presented it. The 'wrong' then, might miraculously become right for us ;)

That's my philosophy and I await someone to make sense of it, lol......

[Loreleila]

Sorry Ed, this slipped through the net. I think I understand what you mean.

[F00dTube]

The second group are very clumsy, usually they begin their video stating that: "this is a pwing video!". The third group are just going allout ballistic there is no lit and no valve, they diffuse their own argument. The latter two groups tend to get abusive once they feel they have absolutely nothing valueable to say. That's when the crusades start. PS cathy don't let them(whoever) get to you, some people think their job is to be a total dick, sometimes it is.

[Loreleila]

Thanks for the thoughts and the ps. I'll be fine, I just can't perch where I am for as long as I thought I'd be able to. Yes, sometimes it is peoples jobs to be idiots. Nudges come in many forms.

[F00dTube]

Limiting this comment to this phenomenon on yt, I think there are three discernible groups: you have people that can actually make quite convincing points; then there are people who have adopted it as a meme because it works; and then you have people that assume this is the way to talk to eachother. The first group are able to make very intelligent arguments and express themselves truthfully because they accurately translate from their emotions placing well timed emphasis.

[hellavadeal]

agree

[phekwig]

I'm with you on this topic, Cathy... I think it takes most people a long time to learn that they don't need to justify and defend the box that they have been crammed into, whether it is by their own choice or someone else's that they are still in it...

I'm convinced that people get argumentative as soon as their judgement is questioned probably because they themselves are on the brink of questioning their own judgement...

[Loreleila]

You could be right. Or that they have long refused to question their own judgement, maybe because it never was theirs, just something they were told.

[silverfoxcondor46]

I like how you approached this topic. You made me stop and ponder this.

I don't think people are trying to be helpful when they spout off...I think it is more of a release of frustration that in real life they are not able to get it out because of keep in line with social civility (manners).

[Loreleila]

Thanks, I'm glad.

You're probably right.

[popebenadict16]

what do think is freedom?

[Loreleila]

Nothing left to lose. Or in the moment. Or a state of mind. Or a whole host of other things. Why do you ask?

[popebenadict16]

well it has to be defined.

[Kabuki0009]

Sadly selfishness is a big piece of the human condition 80% of the world's resources used by just 20% of the world's population, and it just goes on and on the more you look into it *****stars; )

[Loreleila]

It does. I don't feel theres anything wrong with selfishness as long as one is aware of the fact we are all interrelated so we need to act responsibly in our own best interests as much as anyone elses.

[Serge165]

Little boxes little boxes la la la la la la la la ~

....I really need to come out with RIFTER, it agrees with you completely, Rheinmaiden

[Loreleila]

Indeed, and I'm glad to hear it. Stupid little boxes.

[czarwright]

you don't want to be full of your self , you can be blinding at times in 16 by 9. Simple Fear of control in the chaos of not understanding. We all have our own paths in life. what is right for you is not always right for others.

Hope all is well =)

[Loreleila]

lol!

Exactly. Things are difficult, but I'll move through them, as ever. Hope you're alright too.

[Boucrate]

So it seem's you're also having the disapearing comments and reply..Pretty weird?!? You know Cathy, religions are so easy target, and it can make you look cool if you attack them lol! But who hate's, is most of the time hurting more himself then the person he aim's is hate towards..And as you well know that's no belief, just basic psycology.

Well will see if my comment survive lol!

[Loreleila]

Very weird. There's a certain irony, since they've changed my channel page without my say so for their 'new and improved' one, without my agreement. Yet they can't even keep comments here. It's all a bit of a shambles really. I've been wronged I tell you, wronged! lol

I totally agree with you that generally the hater hurts himself far more than those it's aimed at. Shame those who do it don't see that.

Thanks for the comment, even though this action will probably now remove it....

[lapislazuline]

i like the small video size,it,s like a picture

in a frame....and it,s fun reading your comments on invisible comments...what

did stuart say?

[Loreleila]

Thanks. Hang on, let me go an check in my mail...

First he said:

i think its vital the will is imposed.x

Then he said:

how you do bring that about i dont.

[lapislazuline]

hmmm.....sounds cryptic

[Loreleila]

Too cryptic for me I'm afraid. I'm a simple girl I am. :P

[Loreleila]

God only knows. It's been doing this for days. It's infuriating.

[Loreleila]

This is the sort of honesty I respect most.

[rozeboosje]

"isms" can be very useful to paint broad outlines. Sadly, many people don't stop there and they identify individuals by the "isms" they use for themselves. I for one have no problem with calling myself an "atheist", and it's not my problem if somebody hearing that mistakenly believes that they can now read my mind.

[Loreleila]

But nor do you consider everyone who doesn't think exactly as you do, or make the choices that you do a fool. Choosing some broad allegiance can be constructive, creative and helpful. It's only when you consider it the only way to be I'd take issue, or you'd cause real trouble.

[rozeboosje]

Very true that :-)

[Mrwrinkleintime]

... Jumping from one box into another... does not change some people... They are what they are.. Until and unless they realize that caring for others is what its all about... :)

[Loreleila]

I'm with SomethingSeaTrashed on this. It's more about lack of separation than caring for others. Caring, period.

[gratex]

I think the indifference towards "others" is far more damaging than hate of others. It's all under the banner of division in any case.

[Loreleila]

Theres a difference between acceptance and indifference, but it's not always that easy to discern. But as you say, division is the real issue.

[popebenadict16]

how you do bring that about i dont.

[Loreleila]

Stuart, you're not being terribly explicit today. No idea what you mean. lol

[popebenadict16]

i think its vital the will is imposed.x

[Loreleila]

Please expand.

[wolffenhaus]

whenever I have feeling "A" I accept that there is a feeling "B". Then rejoice that I still feel.

[Loreleila]

Indeed. Or "C" or "D", whatever their flavour.

[PhilosopherFresh]

fear grips them

i feel where you are coming from

[Loreleila]

It must.

Thanks. I thought you might.

[EvilBproductions]

think it's a proccess everyone has to go through, some people never make it through...

try adding yt:crop=16:9 to the tags, it might sort out the shrinking problem :)

[Loreleila]

Some people certainly never make it through.

I tried the codey bit but it didn't work. I've changed something on my software inavertantly and I can't work out how to undo it. lol Thanks anyway.

This appears to be in HD. Sometimes mine are and sometimes they aren't, but it's nothing to do with me. I find out when they're uploaded. YT is so weird.