You are just talking about sadness, and it has nothing to do with real clinical depression, real depression is feeling sad for 6 months or one or two years with no aparent reason, even if you have a great job and a beutiful wife and children, you can suffer for clinical depression, so you have no reason to feel bad but your brain doesnt work well and you just feel sad, thats why depression is treated with medication. Only people who suffer with REAL CLINICAL DEPRESSION knows the hell it is.
@oscaedo You can just go ahead and shut your mouth before you go around ASSUMING things, I suffered for YEARS of depression and still get spells here and there, but by making positive changes in your life you can fight back against it and improve your quality of life. If you wanna sit there and think you are worse off then everyone else just because you would prefer to stay medicated and not try to improve your situation then do so... mocking others will only make enemies
@oscaedo real clinical depression does not exist. other than ADD/ADHD, it is the biggest BULLSHIT disorder in the DSM. After studying neurology for the last 5 years i can confidently say that the "abnormalities" in your brain that cause depression are 100% normal and your brain will eventually level out the balance of neurotransmitters. Ironically, anti-depressants are the only thing that can damage your brain in ways that disable you from feeling happiness.
@oscaedo im not saying some people arent more depressed than others, but i am saying that you have no right to assume your in more pain then this man. Would you tell the kids in Africa who have had their arms and legs cut off and dont even have enough money for a wheelchair that their not depressed? sure they're not diagnosed with clinical depression because they are stronger and more RESILIENT than most of us fortunate enough to own a computer. Stop bitching and start living
I can't do anything right, ever since I was young I've been fucking everything up. Whether it's literally breaking things, ruining relationships; just making bad decisions in general. I've had plenty of moments where I thought I could do something, and every one ended badly. I don't exist to do anything other than fuck up. I quit school and now I'm alone, I can't take the GED because I struggle with math, it's almost like I have cognitive issues with numbers and equations.
@wollclark You are not ready to die, you are ready for help!
I had to drop out of school twice because of my life situations but managed to Graduate when I was 20. I also had problems with math and had to take 5 math courses over grade 11 and 12. Anything is possible if you want it bad enough and believe in yourself. Honestly if I can do it, anybody can! I use to destroy my life too, relationships and anything else... then it was time to change. It is well worth it in the end :D
God Bless you, The world needs more people like you!! God Help us all!! Keep doing your great work and never stop!! There is always ight at the end of the tunnel no matter how dark the tunnel may be, you just have to know and trust in your heart that there is light and a beautiful light for that matter, at the end of the tunnel.
This man is inspirational! He helped me with this video and today I'm helping others! if I can do it guys and girls...... so can you!!!!! I believe in all of you!!!!
Hey man. I think its great you posted this. Its inspiring to know that people have got through depression. I've had it for about 4 years now and its just getting worse by the day. I try so hard to get out, keep busy, do the things i love and enjoy (well used to anyway) but it just does nothing. It makes me wonder if i have permanent brain damage or something because nothing seems to work. Had you ever thought that it might be something other than depression that makes you feel this way?
I just need to know that it is depression so i can know whether im wasting my time. I've seen 3 seperate doctors and they are all equally useless. One prescribed me Prozac which i have not yet taken and dont intend to. If i go out and really try my hardest to enjoy myself, will i begin to generally feel better and enjoy the simple things. Like listening to a song i used to love and enjoying it again. I know this may all sound weird but honestly i am so desperate now...
@ClaudeMcBanister first and foremost it does not sound weird, I know where you are coming from. I think it takes something new to jump start your interest and emotions and it could be anything from a new friend to something as small as a good movie. I tried so many things over the years while relying on comedy movies to get me through. Then one day I met a truly inspiring friend that was really into church and God and my interest grew and I became more at peace. You just gotta find yours :)
its only gotten worse, and im probably doing worse every day. I dont have anything to be passionate about... i dread going to skool every day, just becuase i have pure hatred for me there. i lost every interest i had! no one has noticed or given a fuck! i just want help! either that, or suicide. i cant change anything, caz people make decisions for me all the time and i have no choice. you are very true. there is no point in living a pointless existence. so y the fuck am i still here?!?!
@awsomenator1 Have you talked to your parents at all? It could be an awkward conversation at first but they need to know how you feel so that they understand and can help. You definitely need to talk to someone close to you who will know the life situation that you are in. Please don't try suicide... it is definitely not worth it and life gets so much better. Sometimes changing schools or a new friend can help. Add me to facebook if is easier and you would like to chat on there.
Wow man, I've been a hole since 2005, never thought I would run across this video tonight. Cried for the 1st time in years. I always wanted to be a motivational speaker for troubled youth, I myself went from an 8th grade education to making close to 200k a year in sales only to walk from the job based on my ethics....now I work a blue collar job and feel like I was placed back where people think I belong based on my education, or lack of. whatever....feels like I've been in this slump forever.
Wow man, I've been a hole since 2005, never thought I would run across this video tonight. Cried for the 1st time in years. I always wanted to be a motivational speaker for troubled youth, I myself went from an 8th grade education to making close to 200k a year in sales only to walk from the job based on my ethics....now I work a blue collar job and feel like I was placed back where people think I belong based on my education, or lack of. whatever....feels like I've been in this slump forever.
My depression is because my life is changing too fast and cant get where i want in a way that is beyond my control, i believe thats true with alot of poeple
@SDTV11433 If things are changing is a good thing but if they are changing too fast as in bad things then the best thing you can do is find a positive thing that you want and steer towards that
@77niranjan Thanks Buddy! It's a great feeling to know that I can help others that are going through or have gone through the same things as I have. Keep on smiling and doing what you love!
Everyone has problems but you just can't change it most of the time it is not your choice the way things turned out.I am 18 6 foot 5 with ptsd/adhd/agoriphobia/severe social anxiety which factors in with ptsd/agori and scoliosis.I also have eczema which there is no cure for and it is also a psychological problem also imagine feeling a million bees stinging you all over your body with poison ivy on top of that with scoliosis and being alone for the rest of your life because of extreme fear....
@legend1617 No offense but it's easier to use your faults as reasoning not to truly live your life. No one is 'perfect' and we all have our issues, I have bad social anxiety my best friend has scoliosis so I know what both of those are about. It's easy to feel sorry for yourself and hide and play video games all day... but when you truly try to get out and do what you love... you will love yourself more and love life. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE
Hey. I was just watching videos bored on YouTube and I came across this. This is by far one the the best most reasonful and inspirational videos I've seen thanks man. You really helped me.
I don't agree with some of the things you mentioned. You made it seem like every problem in life has a simple solution. "You don't like something about your life? Change it."
Well, often times it's hard to change a bad situation. And some things are beyond one's control. And when one suffers from depression, it's hard to wake up each day and try to look at the bright side of things, especially when bad things outweigh the good things in one's life.
@spiralshaman I understand where you are coming from however choosing not to focus on the bad things is a simple choice that comes easier with practice. Changing situations are tough too but with each change they become easier and easier. It's better to find things and do things that are going to make you happy rather than continue in a depressive state. All great things in life take hard work, but small steps set you on your way.
@haseygawa it may not be simple but it's a lot easier once you set your mind to change rather than say it's impossible and keep wishing things were different and do nothing about it
@kingles23 i didnt't say it's impossible?just saying i agree with what he say's, that im in the same boat as him. It's not that simple to just "do" something about some situations. my family abonded me you might have a hard time grasping that because maybe your family have never abonded you. We all only understand things in life, that we experience ourselves.
@TheDarrenJordan To be perfectly honest my family left me as well, I was in foster homes from age 12-16 then I was on my own after my mom passed away because that made me an orphin and could no longer stay in foster homes. I can relate to most terrible things people go through, but I've decided to make the best of what ever situations I am left in.
Thanks for the video msg...I have some of the "what if" running through my head often...and it make me depress because I choose the wrong option in the "what if"...I keep wishing I could go back in time and change my choice..but that is not possible...How u deal with that?
@bren5209 If I've learned anything, it's that you can't change the past. So if you make the wrong choice just remember it for next time and hopefully you can make a better judgement next time. As for the worrying 'what if'... I basically got sick and tired of not enjoying life and just started getting out there and doing things and trying not to judge myself
@eiobeautiful I agree, and I know what it's like to want to just stay in where no one can bother me, but you end up missing out on life. Even if it's just an hour or two a day, it really helps to get out of the house
My compliments!!! You should be proud of yourself for your wise and cherrishing words!!! I recognized myself in many of the things you said. I've been suffering from depression for years and have started to deal with it recently... an ordeal, needless to say. But I hope to get out of it. Good man!!! Dan, from Italy
It can be the toughest goal to chase at times but it is truly worth it when you start to feel more centered and happy with everything in your life. I wish you the best buddy!
me 2 im popular have a bf and friends everything perfect. thts wat pep think. my life crazy my bestfriend moved my grades crazy and cheer everyday ima kill
I feel the same way, depression has drained me and has left me paralized in a way that I have to force myself to talk and move my arms, and I'm crying out people no one is there for me.
@emscott32 Depression can make you become self sufficient. in fact the only way to be happy again is to find a way to do it cuz no one will do it for you
I hate it when I have a crush someone. That is usually why I get depressed because I always want what I can't have and my mind goes allover the place.
I know exactly how you feel but what I learned when I got tired of the "what ifs" running through my head is that if you just take a chance you find out if they are the one for you, if they are FANTASTIC! If not... then there is always someone new coming around the corner.
everything isnt changeable. my girlfriend who i thought was my soulmate and my everything told me i wasnt good enough, that i made her depressed in our relationship, that i let her down and that i wasnt the boyfriend she wanted. theres no way to change that and its caused me so much depression and im starting to scare myself and im at the dead end...
I've been there... sounds like she was too lazy to help and just wants everything handed to her on a silver plate... she will learn that life is not like that and that anything worth having is worthing earning and fighting for. You are better off without her and will find someone truly special when you are not looking and least expect it to happen, THAT I can promise you.
That was a very uplifting video. I've been feeling like my life doesn't count for anything lately and I've been really struggling. It helped make me think a little. It's great that you are doing better. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you for your message. I have been feeling like nobody wants me around. My family never asks me to do anything with them, or go anywhere with them. It's like I don't exist. It seems like everybody gangs up on me. I feel like a loser lately. Don't know what else to do.
I find the biggest obsticle that I had to over come was my own negativity and always hiding away from everyone. I wanted things to change but the only way things will improve is that if we go out and make change happen for ourselves. If your family doesn't ask you to join them, ask them if you can join them or get out and try something new on your own or with friends... it iwll definitely help.
Im 14 and im already thinking of suicide, i feel like everyone hates me, and i feel always like theres no point to life, i have also thought of killing people, i cant stop the thoughts, please HELP!
I know where you are coming from lil buddy, I have been there. It gets a lot better... more so than you can ever dream of. Its hard not to feel all those things at times. The first step is finding things that you love to do that can take your mind off things. Just worry about you and making yourself happy and the world around you will get better. This I promise you. Have faith and get out there and make your life fun. Take a chance! Feel free to Msg me if u ever need to talk.
Thanks man, ill message you if i ever need help, if you only knew what iv been through already in my life, you would understand why im already suicidal, thanks, ill think about what you said.
One thing that helped keep me upbeat is knowing that things could always be worse no matter what... so we have to appreciate every good thing in our lives... and more will follow!
Thank you for the video m8.... made me have tears run but you made some points that opened my eyes! I am in that place where I think all those stupid thoughts.... So thanks for the video that made me see it from a different angle
Thank you for watching it. It's a tough road when you are reaching the bottom of the barrel but there are ways around that my friend. One thing I did recently was read "The Secret". It was pretty amazing and it may be a good start for you. Never give up! Take care of yourself Jakob
yea i live wit my brother and father. get told by my bro almost everyday im worthless and pathetic. except for the days he acts like nothing happen. when i picture myself in the future. its just me a girlfriend and new friends. no one else. no brother no mother and no father. i became depressed when i was about 13. haven't gone to school since i wish i knew what was wrong.there's gotta be someone who knows how i feel.
Sounds like you already know what you have to do... Start over and find a new place to live, meet new people and just suround yourself with positive people that are there for you. The toughest part is on you and following through with getting what you need most.
hi I don't know you, I didn't even know I was subscribed to you or why. This video is interesting and I checked out your other videos and I noticed that you have marathon running videos. Training for a marathon is actually a cure for depression, with this goal gives you determination and a reason to carry on. Sharing your feelings this way is going to help a lot of people even if they don't say thank you
I realized over time this very same thing, the more active I became and made myself become the happy and more care free I began to feel. More people need to learn this and get more movement in their lives to help benefit it :)
I've thought of suicide once upon a time. But I thought to my self...
If I'm dead, I won't be able to point and laugh at the people that have made my life a living hell when THEY go thru something. But then again, if I point and laugh at them, I'm just as bad as they are. Suicide is an auto-win for all the ugly people in the world.
I always look forward to your vids man, you're the best!!!
Oh how nice! I liked you video! People seem so unable to understand how a depressed person feels like. They go on with stupid prompts like "Get a life, moron!", "Only cowards commit suicide" and the rest without considering that the person feels like a moron, a coward, a fag, a nothing, so there's no reason for him to consume any oxygen.
Only words from those who have been through depression is of any worth - others, even if they mean good with their "insults", cannot offer much.
Very true, in life you can't walk a mile in someone elses shoes until you put those suckers on. We always need to try and understand where someone is coming from rather than judging without compassion.
You are just talking about sadness, and it has nothing to do with real clinical depression, real depression is feeling sad for 6 months or one or two years with no aparent reason, even if you have a great job and a beutiful wife and children, you can suffer for clinical depression, so you have no reason to feel bad but your brain doesnt work well and you just feel sad, thats why depression is treated with medication. Only people who suffer with REAL CLINICAL DEPRESSION knows the hell it is.
oscaedo 4 months ago
@oscaedo You can just go ahead and shut your mouth before you go around ASSUMING things, I suffered for YEARS of depression and still get spells here and there, but by making positive changes in your life you can fight back against it and improve your quality of life. If you wanna sit there and think you are worse off then everyone else just because you would prefer to stay medicated and not try to improve your situation then do so... mocking others will only make enemies
kingles23 4 months ago
@oscaedo real clinical depression does not exist. other than ADD/ADHD, it is the biggest BULLSHIT disorder in the DSM. After studying neurology for the last 5 years i can confidently say that the "abnormalities" in your brain that cause depression are 100% normal and your brain will eventually level out the balance of neurotransmitters. Ironically, anti-depressants are the only thing that can damage your brain in ways that disable you from feeling happiness.
yamahaing7737 3 weeks ago
@oscaedo im not saying some people arent more depressed than others, but i am saying that you have no right to assume your in more pain then this man. Would you tell the kids in Africa who have had their arms and legs cut off and dont even have enough money for a wheelchair that their not depressed? sure they're not diagnosed with clinical depression because they are stronger and more RESILIENT than most of us fortunate enough to own a computer. Stop bitching and start living
yamahaing7737 3 weeks ago 2
Very inspirational video..i never thought about change in the way you described it..it helped alot thank you.
TheAlienskum 8 months ago
@TheAlienskum ANything is possible if you want it bad enough, just remember that ;)
kingles23 8 months ago
I can't do anything right, ever since I was young I've been fucking everything up. Whether it's literally breaking things, ruining relationships; just making bad decisions in general. I've had plenty of moments where I thought I could do something, and every one ended badly. I don't exist to do anything other than fuck up. I quit school and now I'm alone, I can't take the GED because I struggle with math, it's almost like I have cognitive issues with numbers and equations.
I'm ready to die.
wollclark 9 months ago
@wollclark You are not ready to die, you are ready for help!
I had to drop out of school twice because of my life situations but managed to Graduate when I was 20. I also had problems with math and had to take 5 math courses over grade 11 and 12. Anything is possible if you want it bad enough and believe in yourself. Honestly if I can do it, anybody can! I use to destroy my life too, relationships and anything else... then it was time to change. It is well worth it in the end :D
kingles23 9 months ago
Thanks bro, I needed that
bweewp 10 months ago
God Bless you, The world needs more people like you!! God Help us all!! Keep doing your great work and never stop!! There is always ight at the end of the tunnel no matter how dark the tunnel may be, you just have to know and trust in your heart that there is light and a beautiful light for that matter, at the end of the tunnel.
xhemexx 10 months ago
This man is inspirational! He helped me with this video and today I'm helping others! if I can do it guys and girls...... so can you!!!!! I believe in all of you!!!!
All the Love from Denmark!
Jakob
Blayros 11 months ago 3
@Blayros Thanks Jakob! :D I am so glad you gotter done! PUMPED FOR YA!
kingles23 11 months ago
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TheMajicmirra 11 months ago
Hey man. I think its great you posted this. Its inspiring to know that people have got through depression. I've had it for about 4 years now and its just getting worse by the day. I try so hard to get out, keep busy, do the things i love and enjoy (well used to anyway) but it just does nothing. It makes me wonder if i have permanent brain damage or something because nothing seems to work. Had you ever thought that it might be something other than depression that makes you feel this way?
ClaudeMcBanister 1 year ago
I just need to know that it is depression so i can know whether im wasting my time. I've seen 3 seperate doctors and they are all equally useless. One prescribed me Prozac which i have not yet taken and dont intend to. If i go out and really try my hardest to enjoy myself, will i begin to generally feel better and enjoy the simple things. Like listening to a song i used to love and enjoying it again. I know this may all sound weird but honestly i am so desperate now...
ClaudeMcBanister 1 year ago
@ClaudeMcBanister first and foremost it does not sound weird, I know where you are coming from. I think it takes something new to jump start your interest and emotions and it could be anything from a new friend to something as small as a good movie. I tried so many things over the years while relying on comedy movies to get me through. Then one day I met a truly inspiring friend that was really into church and God and my interest grew and I became more at peace. You just gotta find yours :)
kingles23 1 year ago
its only gotten worse, and im probably doing worse every day. I dont have anything to be passionate about... i dread going to skool every day, just becuase i have pure hatred for me there. i lost every interest i had! no one has noticed or given a fuck! i just want help! either that, or suicide. i cant change anything, caz people make decisions for me all the time and i have no choice. you are very true. there is no point in living a pointless existence. so y the fuck am i still here?!?!
awsomenator1 1 year ago
@awsomenator1 Have you talked to your parents at all? It could be an awkward conversation at first but they need to know how you feel so that they understand and can help. You definitely need to talk to someone close to you who will know the life situation that you are in. Please don't try suicide... it is definitely not worth it and life gets so much better. Sometimes changing schools or a new friend can help. Add me to facebook if is easier and you would like to chat on there.
kingles23 1 year ago
nice video
arumseed 1 year ago
Thanks a lot.
You saved my life...This makes you a hero you know...
EpicButtSecks 1 year ago 2
Thanks!
pinonoir302 1 year ago 2
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stevenschnare 1 year ago
Thanks man
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Wow man, I've been a hole since 2005, never thought I would run across this video tonight. Cried for the 1st time in years. I always wanted to be a motivational speaker for troubled youth, I myself went from an 8th grade education to making close to 200k a year in sales only to walk from the job based on my ethics....now I work a blue collar job and feel like I was placed back where people think I belong based on my education, or lack of. whatever....feels like I've been in this slump forever.
genoahart 1 year ago
Wow man, I've been a hole since 2005, never thought I would run across this video tonight. Cried for the 1st time in years. I always wanted to be a motivational speaker for troubled youth, I myself went from an 8th grade education to making close to 200k a year in sales only to walk from the job based on my ethics....now I work a blue collar job and feel like I was placed back where people think I belong based on my education, or lack of. whatever....feels like I've been in this slump forever.
genoahart 1 year ago
@genoahart Never give up buddy, stay strong!
kingles23 1 year ago
your the man
SSj3Ninja 1 year ago
My depression is because my life is changing too fast and cant get where i want in a way that is beyond my control, i believe thats true with alot of poeple
SDTV11433 1 year ago
@SDTV11433 If things are changing is a good thing but if they are changing too fast as in bad things then the best thing you can do is find a positive thing that you want and steer towards that
kingles23 1 year ago
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77niranjan 1 year ago 4
@77niranjan Thanks Buddy! It's a great feeling to know that I can help others that are going through or have gone through the same things as I have. Keep on smiling and doing what you love!
kingles23 1 year ago
Everyone has problems but you just can't change it most of the time it is not your choice the way things turned out.I am 18 6 foot 5 with ptsd/adhd/agoriphobia/severe social anxiety which factors in with ptsd/agori and scoliosis.I also have eczema which there is no cure for and it is also a psychological problem also imagine feeling a million bees stinging you all over your body with poison ivy on top of that with scoliosis and being alone for the rest of your life because of extreme fear....
legend1617 1 year ago
@legend1617 No offense but it's easier to use your faults as reasoning not to truly live your life. No one is 'perfect' and we all have our issues, I have bad social anxiety my best friend has scoliosis so I know what both of those are about. It's easy to feel sorry for yourself and hide and play video games all day... but when you truly try to get out and do what you love... you will love yourself more and love life. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE
kingles23 1 year ago
Hey. I was just watching videos bored on YouTube and I came across this. This is by far one the the best most reasonful and inspirational videos I've seen thanks man. You really helped me.
lennyguitar03 1 year ago
@lennyguitar03 Thanks Buddy! I really appreciate that :D
kingles23 1 year ago
Hmmm...
I don't agree with some of the things you mentioned. You made it seem like every problem in life has a simple solution. "You don't like something about your life? Change it."
Well, often times it's hard to change a bad situation. And some things are beyond one's control. And when one suffers from depression, it's hard to wake up each day and try to look at the bright side of things, especially when bad things outweigh the good things in one's life.
spiralshaman 1 year ago
@spiralshaman I understand where you are coming from however choosing not to focus on the bad things is a simple choice that comes easier with practice. Changing situations are tough too but with each change they become easier and easier. It's better to find things and do things that are going to make you happy rather than continue in a depressive state. All great things in life take hard work, but small steps set you on your way.
kingles23 1 year ago
@spiralshaman
i agree. "you don't like something about your life? change it?" it's not that simple. not that easy. when your family abandons you, it's not simple.
haseygawa 1 year ago
@haseygawa it may not be simple but it's a lot easier once you set your mind to change rather than say it's impossible and keep wishing things were different and do nothing about it
kingles23 1 year ago
@haseygawa yeah i am in exactly the same boat as you friend
TheDarrenJordan 1 year ago
@TheDarrenJordan change starts with you, if you say it's impossible... then it will be for you
kingles23 1 year ago
@kingles23 i didnt't say it's impossible?just saying i agree with what he say's, that im in the same boat as him. It's not that simple to just "do" something about some situations. my family abonded me you might have a hard time grasping that because maybe your family have never abonded you. We all only understand things in life, that we experience ourselves.
TheDarrenJordan 1 year ago
@TheDarrenJordan To be perfectly honest my family left me as well, I was in foster homes from age 12-16 then I was on my own after my mom passed away because that made me an orphin and could no longer stay in foster homes. I can relate to most terrible things people go through, but I've decided to make the best of what ever situations I am left in.
kingles23 1 year ago
@kingles23 wow man im sorry to hear that. It's good your stronger will minded than others, keep up the optimism!
TheDarrenJordan 1 year ago
Thanks for the video msg...I have some of the "what if" running through my head often...and it make me depress because I choose the wrong option in the "what if"...I keep wishing I could go back in time and change my choice..but that is not possible...How u deal with that?
bren5209 1 year ago
@bren5209 If I've learned anything, it's that you can't change the past. So if you make the wrong choice just remember it for next time and hopefully you can make a better judgement next time. As for the worrying 'what if'... I basically got sick and tired of not enjoying life and just started getting out there and doing things and trying not to judge myself
kingles23 1 year ago
Depression is so real.***I do not leave my home.***
eiobeautiful 1 year ago 2
You should do your best to get out and enjoy what you can, staying inside by yourself will only make things harder as time goes by
kingles23 1 year ago
Thank you for your comment. Sometime I want to get out, but I feel so safe at home. Thanks.***
eiobeautiful 1 year ago
@eiobeautiful I agree, and I know what it's like to want to just stay in where no one can bother me, but you end up missing out on life. Even if it's just an hour or two a day, it really helps to get out of the house
kingles23 1 year ago
I am sorry that I took so long. I will try to go out, maybe an hour. Maybe.***I hope you are doing fine.?***
eiobeautiful 1 year ago
Thanks for this.
govtime 2 years ago
@govtime NP :)
kingles23 1 year ago
Great video!
hididdlyho82 2 years ago
@hididdlyho82 Thanks! I just hope it helps someone
kingles23 1 year ago
My compliments!!! You should be proud of yourself for your wise and cherrishing words!!! I recognized myself in many of the things you said. I've been suffering from depression for years and have started to deal with it recently... an ordeal, needless to say. But I hope to get out of it. Good man!!! Dan, from Italy
LOD72KL 2 years ago
It can be the toughest goal to chase at times but it is truly worth it when you start to feel more centered and happy with everything in your life. I wish you the best buddy!
kingles23 2 years ago
Hey Bro, your the Best Man...
janwubey 2 years ago 8
im in a very depressed state at the moment i cant even move or do anything..im crying out for help....
sukiesoya 2 years ago 2
me 2 im popular have a bf and friends everything perfect. thts wat pep think. my life crazy my bestfriend moved my grades crazy and cheer everyday ima kill
11freakshow 2 years ago
Life is never perfect for anyone... but you can make it happier by just focusing on the positives and not allowing the crappy things to get to you.
kingles23 2 years ago
I feel the same way, depression has drained me and has left me paralized in a way that I have to force myself to talk and move my arms, and I'm crying out people no one is there for me.
emscott32 2 years ago
@emscott32 Depression can make you become self sufficient. in fact the only way to be happy again is to find a way to do it cuz no one will do it for you
kingles23 1 year ago
thank you so much. :)
I realize most of my depression patterns comes from not willing to change or actually do something about it. Well I hope I can change that.
take care man!
hishamoody 2 years ago
I hate it when I have a crush someone. That is usually why I get depressed because I always want what I can't have and my mind goes allover the place.
speaker3600 2 years ago
I know exactly how you feel but what I learned when I got tired of the "what ifs" running through my head is that if you just take a chance you find out if they are the one for you, if they are FANTASTIC! If not... then there is always someone new coming around the corner.
kingles23 2 years ago
everything isnt changeable. my girlfriend who i thought was my soulmate and my everything told me i wasnt good enough, that i made her depressed in our relationship, that i let her down and that i wasnt the boyfriend she wanted. theres no way to change that and its caused me so much depression and im starting to scare myself and im at the dead end...
DragonScape911 2 years ago
I've been there... sounds like she was too lazy to help and just wants everything handed to her on a silver plate... she will learn that life is not like that and that anything worth having is worthing earning and fighting for. You are better off without her and will find someone truly special when you are not looking and least expect it to happen, THAT I can promise you.
kingles23 2 years ago
That was a very uplifting video. I've been feeling like my life doesn't count for anything lately and I've been really struggling. It helped make me think a little. It's great that you are doing better. Thanks for sharing.
kattiequeen 2 years ago
You have to find something that you like or want to do that will give you that sense of power and show you that you DO matter!
kingles23 2 years ago
Thank you for your message. I have been feeling like nobody wants me around. My family never asks me to do anything with them, or go anywhere with them. It's like I don't exist. It seems like everybody gangs up on me. I feel like a loser lately. Don't know what else to do.
cmbtravelagent 2 years ago
I find the biggest obsticle that I had to over come was my own negativity and always hiding away from everyone. I wanted things to change but the only way things will improve is that if we go out and make change happen for ourselves. If your family doesn't ask you to join them, ask them if you can join them or get out and try something new on your own or with friends... it iwll definitely help.
kingles23 2 years ago
very heartfelt video. thank you
astrolabe1976 2 years ago
Im 14 and im already thinking of suicide, i feel like everyone hates me, and i feel always like theres no point to life, i have also thought of killing people, i cant stop the thoughts, please HELP!
corrosivegamer 2 years ago
I know where you are coming from lil buddy, I have been there. It gets a lot better... more so than you can ever dream of. Its hard not to feel all those things at times. The first step is finding things that you love to do that can take your mind off things. Just worry about you and making yourself happy and the world around you will get better. This I promise you. Have faith and get out there and make your life fun. Take a chance! Feel free to Msg me if u ever need to talk.
kingles23 2 years ago
Thanks man, ill message you if i ever need help, if you only knew what iv been through already in my life, you would understand why im already suicidal, thanks, ill think about what you said.
corrosivegamer 2 years ago
One thing that helped keep me upbeat is knowing that things could always be worse no matter what... so we have to appreciate every good thing in our lives... and more will follow!
kingles23 2 years ago
Thank you for the video m8.... made me have tears run but you made some points that opened my eyes! I am in that place where I think all those stupid thoughts.... So thanks for the video that made me see it from a different angle
all the best from Denmark!
Jakob
Blayros 3 years ago
Thank you for watching it. It's a tough road when you are reaching the bottom of the barrel but there are ways around that my friend. One thing I did recently was read "The Secret". It was pretty amazing and it may be a good start for you. Never give up! Take care of yourself Jakob
kingles23 3 years ago
I will deffo look into that.... I am trying to climb the ladder but still seem to go one step up and slide down two.... I add'ed you :) thx m8
Blayros 3 years ago
yea i live wit my brother and father. get told by my bro almost everyday im worthless and pathetic. except for the days he acts like nothing happen. when i picture myself in the future. its just me a girlfriend and new friends. no one else. no brother no mother and no father. i became depressed when i was about 13. haven't gone to school since i wish i knew what was wrong.there's gotta be someone who knows how i feel.
DAMOCLIES 3 years ago
Sounds like you already know what you have to do... Start over and find a new place to live, meet new people and just suround yourself with positive people that are there for you. The toughest part is on you and following through with getting what you need most.
kingles23 3 years ago
my best friend just committed suicide =(
*sighs*
HoldOnTightHun 3 years ago
I am very sorry to hear that :( *BEAR HUG*
kingles23 3 years ago
Thanks
i have no one to really hug me or nean on at home for this
so that ment a lot
HoldOnTightHun 3 years ago
When I feel really down and no one is around I watch a lot of the free hugs videos, they help make me smile. Its not much but it helps.
kingles23 3 years ago
ha well i will take up the idea =)
thanks
HoldOnTightHun 3 years ago
hi I don't know you, I didn't even know I was subscribed to you or why. This video is interesting and I checked out your other videos and I noticed that you have marathon running videos. Training for a marathon is actually a cure for depression, with this goal gives you determination and a reason to carry on. Sharing your feelings this way is going to help a lot of people even if they don't say thank you
YFM 3 years ago
I realized over time this very same thing, the more active I became and made myself become the happy and more care free I began to feel. More people need to learn this and get more movement in their lives to help benefit it :)
kingles23 3 years ago
I've thought of suicide once upon a time. But I thought to my self...
If I'm dead, I won't be able to point and laugh at the people that have made my life a living hell when THEY go thru something. But then again, if I point and laugh at them, I'm just as bad as they are. Suicide is an auto-win for all the ugly people in the world.
I always look forward to your vids man, you're the best!!!
Cheers!
-Leo
s2uirr3l 3 years ago
I believe in karma, so even when I laugh at someone else... I know sooner or later I will get mine. Trial and error... the only way to learn ;)
kingles23 3 years ago
Oh how nice! I liked you video! People seem so unable to understand how a depressed person feels like. They go on with stupid prompts like "Get a life, moron!", "Only cowards commit suicide" and the rest without considering that the person feels like a moron, a coward, a fag, a nothing, so there's no reason for him to consume any oxygen.
Only words from those who have been through depression is of any worth - others, even if they mean good with their "insults", cannot offer much.
seth669669 3 years ago
Very true, in life you can't walk a mile in someone elses shoes until you put those suckers on. We always need to try and understand where someone is coming from rather than judging without compassion.
kingles23 3 years ago
way to go ... I've done a number of vids on this topic!
well done!
NewWarriorMan 3 years ago
It's a Great topic to cover my friend.
kingles23 3 years ago