You are like a parallel me. Your words are very beautiful! :*)
And yeah, I also wish, I'd live in a world, where everyone loves each other unconditionally.
People you only know a little are to you like you are not even a human being, they want in their reality. They are like: "Okay, there's that guy, but why do I care? He's just some person."
Hi, Rob, I feel and know where you are coming from. I always try to connect with others, especially those less fortunate and in need. I think it all boils down to is this...Who am I responsible for? Am I my brother's keeper? Also, this...Who loves me as well? If they don't love me, that doesn't help me love others who need my love. Also, do I love myself? Am I going to take care of myself so that I can actually take care of others?
you are a real star..you love and we all love this is so important to us its nice to be given the shove to make us remember this. I am sooo like you I am a nurse and I do the same with everyone i know..Wouldn't it be nice if we all loved each other this way??????
I too have longed to be in a world where everyone and everything coincide harmoniously with unconditional love. For now, I think we can work as beacons, emitting our love and light to everything outside of ourselves to cultivate this type of place...right here, right now. That is the first step. Peace brother.
The last line in your video really hit me...'as long as I am in this world, I will never fit in.' I have felt that way my whole life up until recently. Major shifts and insights have helped me to grasp my reality..to break through my misery. I understand how you feel.
You shouldn't use the word "God" because when you name an entity you imply that you can have control over it and invoke the idea of it at will. So there are karmic consequences to using it.
This is why some people refer to "God" as The One. Because it implies that we know it is "there" but we can't grasp it because of our limited mind.
I understand what you're saying. The term "God" conjures up so many different images for so many different people. When I use it, however, it is not intended as a name, or any proper noun whatsoever. To me, the word "God" is perfectly synonymous to the words "Life" and "the Universe." It's the totality of all that exists within the physical universe and the primal essense from the the universe emerges. The unknowable. For me, it's a word, not a name. I hope this makes sense.Thanks again. ~Rob
Yes, I agree. The lady who posted the comment below you was also born in 1970. In asian cultures, we are the "Year of the Dog." We are loyal and faithful to others, sometimes even in the midst of abuse. We accept the world and are perplexed when others are not accepting of ourselves. The year of the Dog has a powerfully loving compassionate energy to it. ~Rob Cutter
Rob, you keep loving people the way you do...unconditionaly. It's a good way to be. Society is wrong in programing people to think they have to love one person more then the other because they are related or whatever thier reasoning may be.
When I was about nine my cousin asked me who I loved more, her, or my cat Sassy. I paused for a moment and she became ever so angry with me! I'll never forget it. Well, I think it's quite noble to say one loves one's pet as much as one loves family!
Rob you are right. I found this out for myself as you did with a question placed to my mother as I knelt by her chair. I asked her if she would love me even if I was not her's. She said no, of course not. The world in general is that way and separated. To the world it is natural to be exclusive and love needing a reason. I am hopeful as you are that when we are gone we can once more experience no separation and exist within the all inclusive, love - since we love here it is there also.
I agree you can feel altruistic love toward all and you're right it's not the norm, but there are others out there like you, its a matter of raising the consciousness of the base culture. You are not alone in this perspective though, you are just more actualized as a being of light.
We are mammals on earth so we are wired with limbic systems. These limbic systems kind of tap into other people's limbic systems in an intricate dance of interconnectedness, depending on the frequency of our interaction the bond can become greater, that's why with family and friends its closer due to this frequency of interaction, its called "limbic resonance" and its scientifically proven to be an aspect of our biology.
I do believe he is right Rob. Funny how the word love makes some uncomfortable. It is due to the vibration/frequency we are sending out and unconditional love is exactly what you say...same for everyone. Although being monogamous doesn't have to be monotonous, most people will stagnate in a relationship and vibrate towards others who share the same light/frequency at the level that you are. You are blessed and special to me. Love hearing your thoughts. Light and love, Nancy
love is just a word (the messenger in the matrix) its a feeling that is hard to manage toward those we are attach too because when we spend a certain amount of time and share certain feeling and emotion toward each other this in return creat the love feeling depending on how much this person mean to you , ive got married toward a woman i tought i live now i notice that im the only one in the relation that have love , s i understand how you feel to a certain level
Oh shoot, I forgot to ask you this. Would you love a lover the same as another person? Like if you were in a monogamous relationship, does that mean you would love another in the same way you love the person in the monoganmous relationship with?
Good question.I have been in a monogamous relationship (an eight year marriage --which was just as monotonous as it was monogamous). You may find this unbelievable,but it's true: my ex-wife is the only person I've ever had a sexual relationship with --I know, too much info. lol :-/ but even during such an exclusive relationship my love for others: colleagues,friends, students, my children was --and is--the same.There's not a one amoung them that I wouldn't give my life for in a heartbeat.Truly.
Rob, Why aren't you in a relationship? It can be so wonderful!! I mean I am going to my my brother's (gay friends) 25th anniversary party! They are quite happy. I mean, maybe you don't have to have sex if you don't want to, but just to share that type of love is so wonderful and shouldn't be monotonous. I hope you find your soul mate, and soon!
Being in an intimate relationship just isn't part of my life-plan. I was onced married, and that is enough. It was also enough for me to fully accept the fact that I'm gay. I've never been in a gay relationship, not even a casual one, and there are some out there who would try to argue that this means I'm not gay at all. But I know I am. I do know what it means to TRULY Love another soul, though. I know what it feels like. I have felt its depths. For that, I will eternally be grateful.
my husband did the same as you and i love him like a brother..he is a fantasic dad and i will always adore him..i have so much respect for you and what you teach here.
No, YOU DO fit in! All of us on the same wave length love the same way you do! Sometimes people are careful because if they use the word love, they may be considered stalkers etc... I knew I loved you like a bro early but was afraid to sign love. You're very special and you are correct about one thing, lots of love is conditional and that is sad. You bring up a good point though, what a smart 5 year old you were!
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artugert 8 months ago
You can't stop people being able to be friends.
SabretoothSnowMan 8 months ago
You have a right to love who you want to love! I don't care what your philosophy is behind it, who cares.
But don't expect people to understand you.
SabretoothSnowMan 8 months ago
I totally relate to what you said here. I feel the same way.
8bitSLiVeR 1 year ago
I love listening to you Rob
Wingedmagician 1 year ago
Hearing you talk, is like hearing myself talk.
You are like a parallel me. Your words are very beautiful! :*)
And yeah, I also wish, I'd live in a world, where everyone loves each other unconditionally.
People you only know a little are to you like you are not even a human being, they want in their reality. They are like: "Okay, there's that guy, but why do I care? He's just some person."
Where's the love?
We are all ONE!
you are truly a very very wise soul, my friend!
MiSha400 1 year ago
Hi, Rob, I feel and know where you are coming from. I always try to connect with others, especially those less fortunate and in need. I think it all boils down to is this...Who am I responsible for? Am I my brother's keeper? Also, this...Who loves me as well? If they don't love me, that doesn't help me love others who need my love. Also, do I love myself? Am I going to take care of myself so that I can actually take care of others?
bloodandbones9 2 years ago
I'm the same...
Archangel4726 2 years ago
i love you. i am very appreciative and proud of your enlightened and evolved soul :)
WHERESMYPOT 2 years ago
you are a real star..you love and we all love this is so important to us its nice to be given the shove to make us remember this. I am sooo like you I am a nurse and I do the same with everyone i know..Wouldn't it be nice if we all loved each other this way??????
Storm xxxxxxxxx
TheStormdancer 2 years ago
I too have longed to be in a world where everyone and everything coincide harmoniously with unconditional love. For now, I think we can work as beacons, emitting our love and light to everything outside of ourselves to cultivate this type of place...right here, right now. That is the first step. Peace brother.
iamsoohappy 2 years ago
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iamsoohappy 2 years ago
The last line in your video really hit me...'as long as I am in this world, I will never fit in.' I have felt that way my whole life up until recently. Major shifts and insights have helped me to grasp my reality..to break through my misery. I understand how you feel.
iamsoohappy 2 years ago 2
You're a very good teacher.
Some advice though...
You shouldn't use the word "God" because when you name an entity you imply that you can have control over it and invoke the idea of it at will. So there are karmic consequences to using it.
This is why some people refer to "God" as The One. Because it implies that we know it is "there" but we can't grasp it because of our limited mind.
Anyway...
lol
VerilyWeird 3 years ago
I understand what you're saying. The term "God" conjures up so many different images for so many different people. When I use it, however, it is not intended as a name, or any proper noun whatsoever. To me, the word "God" is perfectly synonymous to the words "Life" and "the Universe." It's the totality of all that exists within the physical universe and the primal essense from the the universe emerges. The unknowable. For me, it's a word, not a name. I hope this makes sense.Thanks again. ~Rob
Angeldeluz1970 3 years ago
amazing, I understand you! Call me superstitious but I think it has something to do with those of us born in 1970.
songs4cf 3 years ago
Yes, I agree. The lady who posted the comment below you was also born in 1970. In asian cultures, we are the "Year of the Dog." We are loyal and faithful to others, sometimes even in the midst of abuse. We accept the world and are perplexed when others are not accepting of ourselves. The year of the Dog has a powerfully loving compassionate energy to it. ~Rob Cutter
Angeldeluz1970 3 years ago
Rob, you keep loving people the way you do...unconditionaly. It's a good way to be. Society is wrong in programing people to think they have to love one person more then the other because they are related or whatever thier reasoning may be.
Just4wsmeyer 3 years ago
When I was about nine my cousin asked me who I loved more, her, or my cat Sassy. I paused for a moment and she became ever so angry with me! I'll never forget it. Well, I think it's quite noble to say one loves one's pet as much as one loves family!
~:The Ruby Hydra:~
rubyhydra 3 years ago
So true, Mooingcow understands this all too well, as you do.
Angeldeluz1970 3 years ago
Rob you are right. I found this out for myself as you did with a question placed to my mother as I knelt by her chair. I asked her if she would love me even if I was not her's. She said no, of course not. The world in general is that way and separated. To the world it is natural to be exclusive and love needing a reason. I am hopeful as you are that when we are gone we can once more experience no separation and exist within the all inclusive, love - since we love here it is there also.
mehet08 3 years ago
I agree you can feel altruistic love toward all and you're right it's not the norm, but there are others out there like you, its a matter of raising the consciousness of the base culture. You are not alone in this perspective though, you are just more actualized as a being of light.
nagualspirit 3 years ago
We are mammals on earth so we are wired with limbic systems. These limbic systems kind of tap into other people's limbic systems in an intricate dance of interconnectedness, depending on the frequency of our interaction the bond can become greater, that's why with family and friends its closer due to this frequency of interaction, its called "limbic resonance" and its scientifically proven to be an aspect of our biology.
nagualspirit 3 years ago
Hey Seth. Thanks for the info. I'm interested but a little ambiguous about what you're saying here. Tell me more. ~Rob
Angeldeluz1970 3 years ago
I do believe he is right Rob. Funny how the word love makes some uncomfortable. It is due to the vibration/frequency we are sending out and unconditional love is exactly what you say...same for everyone. Although being monogamous doesn't have to be monotonous, most people will stagnate in a relationship and vibrate towards others who share the same light/frequency at the level that you are. You are blessed and special to me. Love hearing your thoughts. Light and love, Nancy
iamyourmuse 3 years ago
love is just a word (the messenger in the matrix) its a feeling that is hard to manage toward those we are attach too because when we spend a certain amount of time and share certain feeling and emotion toward each other this in return creat the love feeling depending on how much this person mean to you , ive got married toward a woman i tought i live now i notice that im the only one in the relation that have love , s i understand how you feel to a certain level
cheers
your bud Dr Z
deadz74 3 years ago
Oh shoot, I forgot to ask you this. Would you love a lover the same as another person? Like if you were in a monogamous relationship, does that mean you would love another in the same way you love the person in the monoganmous relationship with?
moooingcow 3 years ago
Good question.I have been in a monogamous relationship (an eight year marriage --which was just as monotonous as it was monogamous). You may find this unbelievable,but it's true: my ex-wife is the only person I've ever had a sexual relationship with --I know, too much info. lol :-/ but even during such an exclusive relationship my love for others: colleagues,friends, students, my children was --and is--the same.There's not a one amoung them that I wouldn't give my life for in a heartbeat.Truly.
Angeldeluz1970 3 years ago
Rob, Why aren't you in a relationship? It can be so wonderful!! I mean I am going to my my brother's (gay friends) 25th anniversary party! They are quite happy. I mean, maybe you don't have to have sex if you don't want to, but just to share that type of love is so wonderful and shouldn't be monotonous. I hope you find your soul mate, and soon!
moooingcow 3 years ago
Being in an intimate relationship just isn't part of my life-plan. I was onced married, and that is enough. It was also enough for me to fully accept the fact that I'm gay. I've never been in a gay relationship, not even a casual one, and there are some out there who would try to argue that this means I'm not gay at all. But I know I am. I do know what it means to TRULY Love another soul, though. I know what it feels like. I have felt its depths. For that, I will eternally be grateful.
~Rob
Angeldeluz1970 3 years ago
Oh darn it Rob, just wrote you a letter before I saw this. I got understand. I'm a little slow sometimes!
moooingcow 3 years ago
:-) No problem.
Angeldeluz1970 3 years ago
my husband did the same as you and i love him like a brother..he is a fantasic dad and i will always adore him..i have so much respect for you and what you teach here.
Storm xxxxxxxxx
TheStormdancer 2 years ago
No, YOU DO fit in! All of us on the same wave length love the same way you do! Sometimes people are careful because if they use the word love, they may be considered stalkers etc... I knew I loved you like a bro early but was afraid to sign love. You're very special and you are correct about one thing, lots of love is conditional and that is sad. You bring up a good point though, what a smart 5 year old you were!
moooingcow 3 years ago
totally understand and it is sad that I do
Marc in NYC
silentfades 3 years ago