"Most people don't choose their partner, they settle for one" - sorely true. The alternative for most is loneliness, especially in old age. A simplistic "change your look" etc etc only applies if you have sufficient potential AND realistic expectations. But if you're not with someone 'special' to you, then you're unfulfilled as a human being & misery can set in. It's nowhere near as easy to succeed as pop psychologists suggest, though much of the wisdom here is worth listening to anyway.
"Most people don't choose their partner, they settle for one" - sorely true. The alternative for most is loneliness, especially in old age. A simplistic "change your look" etc etc only applies if you have sufficient potential AND realistic expectations. But if you're not with someone 'special' to you, then you're unfulfilled as a human being & misery can set in. It's nowhere near as easy to succeed as pop psychologists suggest, though much of the wisdom here is worth listening to anyway.
bookmanza 4 years ago
Be cool
satanrocks668 4 years ago