Do you hate being gay?

[hill090887]

What the hell are you saying lol slow down lol

[Wanderslayer]

ja pablo imagine que tu ingles era horrible, pero esta bien

[jeayers86]

It's sad when people dislike themselves, but we have to blame everyone for it. We all have our issues towards people and we need to start recognizing them and realizing that were not so perfect either. While some people may have issues with homosexuality, another person may have issues with overweight people and you have another who has issues with nerdy people. When we feel we aren't accepted by our community for who we are, this starts the process of self-hatred and the desire for change.

[thevera341]

we just have to be ourselfs no matter anything. for example, i can have a romace with a girl but i can have sex whit her cause i cant feel sex atraccion for her, and with men its everything all right but at the end of the day is just funny and i can enjoy all of my days being like that its dificult to live in a society who doesnt understand it but they can fuck himselves i dont care what they think about me :) fingers up bro....

[ichbineincoolcat]

I do hate being bisexual. 

[ichbineincoolcat]

Oh my god, you're so hot.

[Frizzurd]

try having Aspergers syndrome and being gay... i am totally fucked

[gaeel27]

1:38 OH MY GOD!!! UN PRELUDIO A BORN THIS WAY!!!!!! :O

[franky1991]

Are you gay?

[runtubefantasy]

I think everyone should accept who they are. that's the road to happiness. those people who try to tell others what to do are ignorant and just cannot stand when someone is different from them. just cause someone accepts to be gay {or proud] does NOT mean they're going to try to lute others into being like them. that's what those bigots are trying to do,. turn others likes themselves. if they're so afraid of being "turned" gay then maybe they should out out in the wild and get eaten by hyenas

[skipskops]

Well, in my honest opinion I find being gay a burden. I'd much prefer to be a straight guy, and the only reason really for that is because it's easier, it seems a better life style. No homophobia, just "normal" it's hard being gay. Especially when you're like myself just turned 22 (today EKEKEKE) and too afraid to even say anything as you're in a pretty shit condition for your family and friends to dislike you.

Can't fully answer the q with my experience, but I can see it from others. Easily.

[zakh771]

Uuuuuugggghhhh!!!

[HeartSociety]

Awwww, he so cute. He sounds like he's from Australia. Like a Hispanic Australian. They have those right? Anywho, im sure they do...

[TheMannaquin]

i cant say i wanna be straight i prefer being myself

[juliayselvaaimations]

que bien hablas ingles, yo tambien quiero

[passiondeathboy]

Tayara

haha

TYRA

[Wylerkennedy]

Jajaja Tyra? Quieres decir Tyra? Es Tah-y-rah jaja. But good video. Und noch mal, ich werde schlechte Etwasen machen mit dir!

[Marina2791992]

Te has dado cuenta de que gesticulas mucho más con las manos cuando hablas en inglés? A mi también me pasa... siempre hay algo que no termina de salir cuando hablas en otro idioma xD

[tyleristhedevil]

Gays hate being gay cause we lake acceptance in society, many gays are discriminated, and looked upon in society. The lack of rights gays have is a problem, if we had more rights like marriage people in the latest generation and younger will learn to accept love is with the person with your heart, and that marrige embrace love even if both mmebers are ame sex or not.

[CanadienDuck99]

I mean down there -.- lol

[CanadienDuck99]

Wow what's so bad about gay ppl like really ^^^^ comment up there. >:/

[NoLies000]

Everyone is not gay & proud. Many people feel convicted because of their beliefs. It is my opinion that no one should be gay because of my beliefs and because no life can be created from a gay union. Everything about this world is designed to bring forth life. You are clearly a very nice person and I mean you no harm this is just how I feel.

[0253468]

no being gay is awsome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[1malldoc1]

Pablo I really love your accent! Your English if fantasticallt clear. NICE JOB!

[1malldoc1]

You are so nice. I love your accent! Your speach is so distinct. NICE GOING!

[cutelionx]

Well, i love gay parties, but i hate the "gay world" or should i say "the gay village" - some gay behave as if they don't life in the same wold as the straight people.

In the end, the difference between straight people and gay people is something like the colour of your skin or hair.

Okay, i only have straight friends who are female. *lol* but in the end they are all straight and i love them and the straight world (and parties). I even realy think straight guys are really sympathic.

[CrypticArtix]

I work with a couple of guys that all claim to be straight but I have my suspicions when I see some of the things that they do at work sometimes . . . . . . one has to wonder if theres some closet Biness in the atmosphere, hmm . . . . . . interesting to ponder.

[homolover58]

omg yer so cute

[simlover8890]

your hot.

[Vegetarianboi91]

Speaking of dicks My life quote is "Life is like a dick when it gets hard, Fuck it"!!! Yeah thats how I look at life.... and if you thinks thats gay well... I am! (Big surprise huh?) I know...

[zangetsue5150]

are gay people fucked up yes.but tell me this if its not wrong then why do you have to come out of the closet?

[lsbpt89]

Because other people don't think it's ok, although it is... And we are not fucked up (most of us anyway lol)

[ActionBastard85]

Why would you hate liking dick? Everyone knows the dick rocks! The dick is Amazing! Worship and love the dick! This world revolves around dick. lol be proud of the dick!

ALL HAIL THE DICK!

[takeyoudownxxx]

both

[takeyoudownxxx]

well .. I used to hate being gay ..but I was young and I didn't really know anything about anything .. growing up I realized, nothing was wrong with me .. there was something wrong with the people around me. And now I love being gay and finding fun people like you and Deihl on the internet, being good examples for our community. for which I thank you

[zangetsue5150]

@takeyoudownxxx-LMAO! no there's somthing wrong with you.i know your sick and you think its normal,but we strait people are fine.you ignorant asshole

[ryumaricon]

cambia de vaselina tio,te recomiendo alvero del bueno...

[kelydivine]

muy bueno el video pablo,cuesta entender q haya tanta gente tan boba como para criticar la sexualidad de alguien como tú a quien ni siquiera conocen... buena fluidez verbal en inglés dicho sea de paso

[dagoti95]

pon subtitulos in spanish please i don't understand!!

[apukiii]

hi! i understand only a few,can you put in subtitles?? It will be great!! bye pablo!! XXXXX

[cresar]

I don´t know, Something from me does not fit in the gay community. I like men, but I don´t behave like most of the gays.

[jeayers86]

@cresar and all straight people act the same? Do all blondes act dumb? Do all red-heads have a temper? It's this mindset of how a gay person acts that you must get out of and just be who you are. Trying to fit into a box is boring anyway and it's most likely not you.

[cresar]

@jeayers86 That´s right but as far as I am concerned most of the gay people I have met, behave in a wicked way. It is as if they have been restricted, or abused, or I don´t know but I don´t want them to be my friends. Anyway, I am getting into contact with a guy who break that model, thanks to god good gays exist!.

[Frizzurd]

@cresar I do not either, i hate the hedonistic and superficial behavior of gay culture. Isn't it funny how its always the really attractive and flighty types that tell us we need to cheer up?

[cresar]

@Frizzurd Its funny. Somehow, I also hate the stereotypical attractive gay man who in a way tries to create the stereotypical model of gays, not taking into account that there are tastes for all the colours. You are very cute , by the way.

[cresar]

its pretty obvious... it all has to do with social behaviour. Gay manners are related to women from the stereotipical point of view of this fucking society , and its not funny for gays to imitate females. Gays are unique

[miguelmaui24]

are you gay ?

[arolo92]

ha ha is spanishh.. but pablo iu have a good english accent.. where did iu studyy englishh..-myy god xD

..WHat could I do to appear in your vids.. in the comments?? xDxD LoL

[MFHissey13]

is ur accent british or spanish or italian or what? im confused

[JasonGorr]

spanish. Very sexy spanish.

[didibemi]

spanish

[allstargirl93]

y tu eres canario?!:O!

you talk f**kng great!=)

like your videos!

[frenchroolz]

I think the gay community thing is fine. If gay people want to mix with people who share their views and tastes then that's great. Everyone has the right to express their sexuality in whatever way feels natural to them. in some people that may be to not act that feminin and that's also great.

[cathlicscholboy4life]

I don't know what those people are talkin about... your English is great!...and your accent is so cute!!

I love being gay, I just wish other people would be more accepting and didn't think there was something "wrong" with me. I'm just different, and that's okay.

[Neppybutt]

I guess there are as many shallow girls as there are shallow guys. I don't have much choice in the matter of being gay, so just have to sometimes put it aside and just move on. It is not who I am all the time.

[OMGitsaBLAST]

incorrect grammar in the title but it's okay.

and i don't like being gay for the same reason. it's just such a heavily stereotyped trait, and it's something EVERYONE wants to know IMMEDIATELY upon meeting you.

It's not that i'm ashamed, it's that I don't give a big enough fuck to take all the shit that comes with it.

one day i'll get over it.

[DarkTrunksGeorgeSim]

Do you hate being gay?

There, now you can understand it ¬¬

Now say it in spanish, don't cheat and ask someone.

[OMGitsaBLAST]

haha i said it was okay the grammar wasn't perfect! and i said so b/c when i learn new languages I'd prefer if someone told be when i was incorrect so i can improve. i didn't mean it to challenge his intelligence.

"te gusteria gay?" Would you like to be gay.

that's about as good as I can do regarding that.

[DarkTrunksGeorgeSim]

You're sort of right, it's just that pablo has said people whine too much about it.

By the way, the correct way is:

'Te gusta ser gay?'

[IIImike89III]

Grammar in the title is perfect =D

[met9erg3o777]

Are metrosexuals condsidered as gays?

[DanielAvilaAGT]

no, its just the look i guess, people can change their behavior to straight or gay, but gays are the gays who LIKE boys, not the gays who wear pink, get it? lol

[FoxyVideoGirl1]

No. Just Fancy guys.

[alexkiller90210]

oye xke no traduces tus videos en ingles a español? ya en tu otro canal y asi ^__^

[LANCET1000]

You said obviously again lol

[alonelychild]

Well I'm going to tell you a secret, but please promise me you won't tell anybody! I wish I was not gay. Why? It would be a lot easier. But I don't hate being gay, what annoys me is the drama people make out of it.

Gay community? I think it's cool if it wasn't used by other purposes such as politics. This whole ghetto syndrome is fucking bullshit.

[ddb218]

basically how i see it, if i wasnt gay theres a lot of shit i love to do that i couldnt really get away with.

i love to dress my girls.

i love to pee with my girls.

i love to sit around and talk about dicks.

and when theres nothing to talk about with a random stranger, just get really gay and compliment something their wearing..

i think when someones gay, open minded people automatically assume youre open minded as well and they open up easier...

[curtisortega]

her name is tie-ruh-- tie as in "tie your shoes" AND ruh as in "rruuuuuuun betch the faghaters are coming"! (tyra) banks! lmao! girl pablo you crack me up.

[gwabir]

u rock!!

GW

[funnihunni93]

I think that that the gay community gets together and complains about how no one accepts them, when they would be better off leaving their sexuality out of their identity. Not hide it, but not make being gay who they are. They are people with hobbies, and I feel if they concentrate on forming communities around those, they'd be more accepted.

Straight people don't equate their sexual preference with their entire identity. How should it be different for gays? they want equality, right?

[ForeverBestFriends1]

Unless u r gay u dont uderstand in a sense if u dont hav someone way of ppl knowing then it may cause a bigger shock when they find out later and gays dont get together and complain bc most ppl do accept gays well for this generation lol

[conversandonobar]

I guess i can UNDERSTAND why someone would hate to be gay, I mean, it is a straight world after all, and beeing gay can be a problem, even though it shouldn't be.

There was a time when i didn't wanna be gay, cuz the straith world seemed to be easier, but now all this just looks stupid, i guess i love men too much. men <3 yeah, and this comment just made me sound like a total whore.

[Yourx3JustStopped]

Guess what, i've prayed for years to God to make me become straight - I'm still gay. I'm completely FINE with who I am, he made me this way.. (;

[327928]

awesome me 2!!..... ha!! how awesome ...

[odd333]

Amen. 10x over Amen.

[RFryRN]

I think for some gay people, it is comfortable to be around other gay people all the time, "in the scene" because they were under such opression in the closet and hiding from the gay community due to discrimmination. Others may feel very confident in themselves that they don't need other gay people to "help" them become who they are as a gay being in the World. I believe, it all has to do with who you are most comfortable to surrond yourself with.

[kwertie]

I'm glad someone else acts normally about being gay. I talk about my life as normally as possible, to make people feel more at ease with it. Though sometimes it makes people even more uncomfortable. I feel the same as you, if you act normal, maybe people will see you normally. I try not to be so in your face about it, ya know? Great video topic!

[CalebWandering]

gay community is something that was necessary during the era of oppression and hiding. However, as being LGBT becomes more acceptable in the wider culture, the exclusive gay community is no longer necessary, and what was once a good becomes an evil. The community is fragmenting, as it should, since it has already well served its function.

[RFryRN]

I didn't even read your comment before posting mine...sounds alot the same! Great thoughts!

[buttersIL]

Society puts a lot of pressure on individuals to be "normal". It takes a lot of courage, and confidence, to accept yourself and live your life the way you see fit.

P.S., Pablo, you are so freakin' HOT!!!

[TheDevilInYellow]

Probably sosial norms being infused into their minds from childhood... They're being told that homosexuality is wrong, so the start to believe it...

[sxckuku]

God, I love you Pabloooooo

Discrimination is wrong, no matter in what form.

Its warm for the first time in weeks in Britain

<3333333333333333

[Marlonis91]

Those who hate themeselves, they're just gutless, 'cause world is already hard and if you're gay, it's sometimes harder, that's it, they are just weak and unfortunately lost soals. Poor people.

Free 4 u, bye pablo.

Free hug for you.

[kevalenoxx]

Oh MY goodness! I wouldn't change myself for the world! Guy are sexy!!

The gay community on the other hand needs to be fixed. People are starting to hate on each other and its ridiculous!

[awaseniu]

All people should love themselves no matter what their preference.

[boyerjustin]

i'm gay.

i love myself.

[Stephen5000]

I'm gay, but I don't make a big deal out of it and almost never mention it in my videos. It's only a very small part of who I am and doesn't affect my actions or philosophy all that much.

I tend to oppose self-segregation so I'm not in favour of actual gay communities. As the the Youtube gay community, it is nice to see many intelligent gay people having fun together and helping each other out. It's also nice for people who don't see many (open) gay people in real life.

[vanness5]

I moved to San Francisco so that I could be open about who I am. Sure I could have been openly gay in my small town world, but the threat of having my head bashed in was always lingering. I understand that life might have been easier if I had been straight, but alas I am not, and I love being gay! The crazy fantastic events of last night.... ...Wouldnt trade that for the world. : )

Anyhow be proud of who you are is the message. for everything that is reflects how it shall be and must be.

[vanness5]

YES! Exactly 500 character comment! I love that!

[DoongoanF]

I love it, wouldn't change it for the world.

[itsvirin]

i think its from the environment that they grew up in. How people are brought up really affect their views on certain things.

[missmariannemorgan]

I had to click replay for this one! :)

Discrimination, guilt, fear (social stigma) and the whole toxic negation process has some mighty evil roots that just love to team up with the likes of self-hatred. Disregarding our unique selves in any manner is perhaps one of lifes greatest tragedies, which is just no fun!

[BiPoLaRbOyY]

vengo de ver el video y la verdad solo vi el principio y no hay mucho ke decir son 3 personas ke no se aceptan como son por la manera en ke los educaron y por lo ke han vivido creo yo, simplemente es una etapa y acabas aceptandote tal cual eres y amandote o acabas como esos 3 odiandose y llevando una vida patetica

fin del comentario

[Shyguyx12]

I blame the way that some of us are brought up. We are taught that being gay is wrong and it's drilled into our heads. Savaja02 also hit on a good point. Pressure to be "Normal" can freak people out a bit.

Is the gay community important? Heck yeah it is! Without it, we are sunk. We might as well give up the fight, because unless we stick together things won't get any easier.

[PeterJDiLorenzo]

im glad im gay cuz if i wasnt my whole life would be different and i like where i am right now :]

[jeunesseperdue]

i guess "hating to be gay" is not quite the same as "being gay and unhappy with your life." but anyway i think one group of unhappy gays are those in their 30s, 40s or beyond who suddenly find themselves alone, with prospects of finding someone and being happy rapidly decreasing. in the movie "The Object of My Affection," the character Rodney says "Don't fix your life so that you are left alone right when you come to the middle of it."

i'm not whining mind you -- just saying.

[JOmuzik]

The reason for people hating themselves because they're gay is very simple Pablo. It is society's message of homophobia that causes people to dislike their homosexuality. You don't have to look hard to find that message. In my opinion we have to keep fighting for our rights and keep the queer community going strong in order for others to learn to accept and love themselves because nobody else is going to do it.

[Yourx3JustStopped]

I definitely think more people told you to be SEXY than be yourself.

pfttt!

love you pablo xD

[matiou479]

LOOOOOL !!

[KingdomLex]

haha, "I'm going to the bitch"

[JjNjKj15165]

i think the reason whoever this was hates to be gay is maybe someone in their life doesnt approve. or they're surrounded by a community that doesnt approve. and these people who are making this person feel this way should feel awful about themselves. this person didnt choose to be gay they just are. and to that person, they should also accept that fact and embrace it.

[NewJoel17]

pronounced Tie.. like a neck-TIE and RA

[jeremy1350]

Some people suffer from Internalized homophobia. they loathe themselves and want to be different or cured. Some people just hate the life they were born into. Some people are just not comfortable accepting that they might be/or are gay.

Societal pressures and religion have a lot to do with this. A person will never be whole until they learn to love themselves from the inside out.

cheers Pablo

Jeremy in Montreal.

[savaja02]

:D !! First comment :D

i think the main reason why they do it is pressure... pressure from friends, pressure from families, pressure from to many people... everyone just needs to chill out! :)

i think the gay community is vital... without it people would just forget about us and think the "problem" has gone away.... gay killings have risen drastically over the last 2 years and it doesnt seem to be getting better anytime soon...

i dunno man.... all i do know is.. your cute lol :P

[loki4469]

I beg to differ, I think acceptance of being homosexual has gotten much better. I am a generation older then Pablo and we never talked about being gay, I spent a life time in the closet. I would have given anything to have the acceptance and support gay people have today.