Married Men dating Single Women

[nkrumabyrd]

Polygyny should be considered.

[loveacarrot]

youre right, don't trust it. This exact same thing happend to me except luckily I didn't get involved with him, I think it's a common line that married men use to sleep with single women.

[hamishde123]

good christian or religious women aren't whores, most women are very insecure tarts

[freaknasty209]

single women date married men because women ain't bout shit, it's true the man is also wrong, but at the same time men don't bitch and complain about it and don't care who knows except their wives for obvious reasons, women like to put on the facade that they're so respectful towards themselves and when they can't keep it up any longer and get exposed there inlies a problem, when they knew of the impending doom from the jump, concerning your friend mind your business,that's her descion .

[bestchiina]

i'm involved with a married man right now. don't ever be opened minded to something you stand against, just the same, don't be so shallow to something you don't understand. he to was separated when i got with him. i didn't plan on loving him. five months of waking up beside someone that treats you like a queen and looks great doing it is hard to turn your back on. he went back to his wife. it broke me down. him, his family and his friends told me that hes leaving his wife. lol funny. stay tuned

[VirgoDar]

It sounds like your friend's man was upfront with her in the begining before things got really serious with them so...I don't really see anything wrong with that. As long as he's not still living with his wife, he has a right to move on. As does the wife. Divorces can take a while to handle, but usually way before then the emotional and sexual relationship has ended. I'm just sayin...

[lilshortay1723]

some divorces can take several years and time does not freeze so do you expect them to stay single and just give up on love or relationships? i think if its something that comes out in the beginning before a new relationship starts there is no problem unless he/she is misleading and trying to get back with there partner

[MissBelleMuse]

I totally agree with your comment. It took my uncle 3.5 years to get divorced from a woman he was only married to for 1year. It took almost a year to locate her, then she missed court dates claiming she was ill, next she contested every single thing he proposed. Really it was a mess. Life must go. For the record this woman is a Good Christian Woman. She attends church regularly but he didn't want to serve her divorce papers there out of respect but, eventually she left him no choice.

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[kenya73]

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[troublet1969]

I have to say that as a married man of 21 years that my marriage has had its challenges and it has been the grace of God that has kept us together and nothing short of that....that being said, I know that many of us men are not being obedient to the scriptures and to liberties with single women or other married women is just sin....flat out. It may sound judgemental but the first responsibilty is to try to save your marriage and not to try starting a new one when you haven't been released,.

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[TheCashistrash]

Frankly your friend was being stupid. When dating someone the first thing a woman should ask are you married? Do you have a girlfriend? Do you have children? Do you have a job? does not take more than 30 seconds. Your video should be Single women dating Married men. There are plenty of quality single men but for some reason women like to chase married guys.

[glamdiva510]

@TheCashistrash

Not to crash the comment but what if the loser doesn't tell the truth and say they are single but REALLY are married. So then that takes the mess to a whole new level. Its time to start hiring Private Investigators now! Cause all of these married men aint telling the truth from day one. Its sick!

Dont be blind thinking its the women who are in the wrong. Yes they are the accomplice if they continue to date that man. But its the MEN who break the vows they make to their wives.

[iambery]

women like to chase married man because they think that they are better than his wife and know how to treat him well which she will make the biggest mistake of her life. If he get her than he will treat her the same way he did to his wife. Women are stupid that's why girl always get use.

[misteeq64]

Separated does not equal single thank you .This man other life is not even over and he is already jumping into another relationship .Your friend is just the rebound ,this individual is just using her .

[Atrizzo]

Men/women should handle their business as far as getting a divorce BEFORE they try to meet other people. They dont think about the consequences. It's much deeper than whats on the surface. Men/women, if you find yourself in a situation whereas you didnt know the true at the beginning but you eventually find out........RUn and DONT look back!

[b4202i]

Amen, my sister. As Christians, we should be straying from this practice. True, it works both ways. Women are doing it too. We need to be strong and hold onto God's unchanging hand to WAIT until God brings us a mate. The secular world would say once the decision has been made in their hearts to leave their spouse, then they are free to date again. But we know better. Amen.

Rev. Michael Groner

[Anamnestic]

I wondered the same thing myself. My now ex husband exposed me to this new practice. It equals singles when you don't care. Most of the times people who do this kinds stuff..are the reason why their marriage didn't work.

Ladies be careful!

[Conduit13C]

marriage don't work in today's society, something else needs to be put in it's place.

[TheFlutevisions]

He should have told her from the beginning. The relationship still has to remain

He should have told her from the very start about his situation. If he's separated from his wive there shouldn't be any thing wrong with a platonic friendship if they both agree on It.

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[torrid426]

In the eves of god ( If you believe in that sort of thing ) there is no divorce. I n the eyes of the law in California it starts when you file articles of separation. Then you have 6 months thats right SIX MONTHS for layers to dig their claws in and encourage a legal battle.

[manweller1]

I would tell this young woman to bounce right now. I don't like the sound of this guy.

[atlasshrugged2u]

I wouldn't mess with him even after his divorce let alone before?...He's already a liar by not being up front about his "situation"in the first place.

[Drrck11]

.I understand what youre saying, but I think you need to look at it realistically. Just because youre a Christian doesnt mean you have live like a monk or hermit. In many scenarios, youll find people who are separated and dating. Mostly because theyre in the process of getting a divorce and have no intention of reconciling. What you need to understand is that its not about a piece of paper that says youre married or divorced, but two people who enjoy each others company.

[newcoyote]

Since when does Christianity know anything about morality? That is just about the worst place to get it.

[101unique]

it's just wrong in his behalf and he knows what he's doing

[PlanetAbiola]

Interesting!

[LuvemOrLeavem]

I think that this very common that people that are separated feel that this is "nearly divorced" and that they are free to date. Of course they do tell the people they're dating that they are actually divorced, not "nearly divorced" so they know this is wrong.

Good for your friend for being troubled by this, because no good can come from staying in a relationship with a man who doesn't distinguish between separated and divorced.

[mrsweets269]

Its simple, shes still married and hes not LOL.

[Machelle3200]

it's just some men out there that just wanna victimize women for their own selfish pleasures...in this day and age it's just dangerous to date..the world is getting filled with more and more liars and manipulators waiting to pounce..i hope that sister got out of that situation..

[ilovetheUC]

This is simply another example of a decreasing sense of accountability among people. It's all about doing whatever you want to do, never mind the consequences not only for you, but to other people involved.

[lookatmenow100]

Why even get married? If you can't be serious before why get married? See couples like that mess up the real reason why God made marriage. And then some of these married women like to say that single women want their men..What's going on?

[kompalover]

the whole monogamous sheebang is not working period. A man must have than one woman that s the only solution to all these lies and games. Make polygamy legal.

[blakboiami]

Definitely an interesting topic. More complex than people know.

Papers SHOULD be signed, but the thing is: when people marry -- before god, a (wo)man of god presides over the nuptials. The papers signed are for LEGAL purposes (i.e. for the state). When people divorce, papers are signed (for the state), but I've not heard of a person of god presiding over a divorce so that it is "voided" in the eyes of god.

There is no separation of church and state, which leads to other issues

fyi- Im Single

[2telldatruth]

blakboiami: Right ON! Judges may cut the natural tie/papers but WHO can cut the spiritual 1. What God has joined together let not man put asunder. Moses (judge) granted a writ. JESUS said from the beginning it was not so CHRISTIANS! Read the entire dialog in Matthew 19. the? Jesus was asked was a trap. Fornication: sex b4 marriage/she was not a virgin thus another mans wife. 1Cor7:10-11, 25-27 Paul made clear the words of himself (Judge) and the words of the Lord(Let not man or wife depart)

[blakboiami]

wow...lol

Honestly, i'm not a religious person. So, I wasn't speaking with the concepts of knowledge to support my words. I just strongly believe that whatever your beliefs are, individuals should do logical things that support it.

There are A LOT of other issues that need to be considered when talking about legal vs. spiritual marriage in any nation (OTHER religions, sexual orientation, etc.).

Legal divorce does not = spiritual divorce. Likewise legal marriage does not = spiritual marriage

[BiGMANJOE32]

@2telldatruth Right on Im slowly coming back to this fiath you would not believe the fools who believe they can get a divorce for adultery lol

[Chocobear97]

Single doesn't equal Seperated... period. If you are seperated you are still married I believe that all options to keep that marriage together need to be exhausted b/4 divorcing. Once divorce is final then you are free to pursue another relationship... I believe there should be some down-time b/4 you pursue that next relationship.

[apostledonaldt]

This is a great issue to raise because it is a surpressed problem all across this country. Both men and women are guilty and need to learn another way to deal with the backlashing pains of a dispelled marriage. See then that the whole intent of the devil is to make you an adulterer because he knows Christ said "Whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." Protect yourself, the Holy Ghost is able to keep you when you get lonely, He will hold you all night and you won't feel guilty in the morning.

[Haha145]

Sometimes couple are in so much pain being together, that their running to anything to ease that pain.

Handle your business first and then God can bless whatever new relationship he has for you.