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  • Thank you for all the info-- I am new to the life, but! I have always had this in me. You are a great girl/person to do this! Keep it real.

  • I have a ballgag which has a wiffle ball with holes in it. I got this because my slave has very bady sinuses and has a hard time breathing through his nose. This gag is wonderful as he can breath through it.

    Duct tape is great just remember to NEVER cover the nose. If you cover the nose and the mouth you will soon have a dead sub :-(

    A pair of panties shoved into the mouth is a great gag. I use it on my slave sometimes.

  • Awesome, absolutely awesome. I'm speechless.

  • how do you personally get "gagged" or use it as a gag if it just sits between your teeth and isnt being held on by anything? if thats all your using why just just bite down o a pencil or a pen?

  • I've never tried duct tape, but I've tried brown tape(not sure of the name) over cloth/pantie gags...and to me it doesn't hurt that much, if at all...but that's just me...plus you can write on top of them with a sharpie...so fun!!

  • Gags are by far my favorite part of bondage, and since the danger of asphyxiation is great, I've done a lot of testing. The wiffle ball gag is indeed cheap and easy, and the safest type of gag, marginally. My only problem is that I've had girlfriends who could chew into them. Rubber ball gags are expensive, and the taste of rubber kinda ruins it. I once made a ball gag using a cord and a thick (yet not too big) round sponge-like ball. It had no bad taste and it even the drool.

  • Pretty and Professional! Nice!

  • umm yeah i am with everyone on that.. i dont think the metal will be to good on your teeth.. u can use cloth to cant you? and plus your other normal gags as u have mentioned....

  • This is the first time I've commented on a video... but I just had to say, metal on teeth seems like a dangerous idea. Horses don't have back teeth... chipping... yeah.

  • my GF loves using dirty socks (knee high, slouch, tube, cheerleader, ect...)on me, but with her she just likes a cloth cleave-gag on her, why?

  • i think the best gag to youse on your girlfriend is a cloth its the most comitibule for her but the sexiest is a ball gag

  • One tip on cloth gags (including panties) is to ensure that they between the teeth and behind your cheeks. This helps keeps the cloth from decending into your throat. Also, I'd avoid using tape to keep them in (although it looks hot) but if you were to use tape use wide electrical tape in place of duct tape for all of my bondage needs. I only use duct tape for indirect bondage reasons.

  • hole gag.. wiffle ball.

    Horse metal bit goes BEHIND the teeth in a horse. Tact Shops have rubber now.

    getting personal, what do you think of harness ballgags?

    penis (aka cock gags) should be no longer than 1--1.5" soft leather, etc.

    keys. grrr. noooo! IF your dom(inatrix) isn't attentive knowing how you SHOULD (worst case), then they shouldn't be given your "consent" and literally your life. (seriously.. f them off)

  • yes i know where they go.. i still like metal.

    i have never tried a harness gag as if i gag too much i vomit, and not having control of that makes me nervous. penis gags, same thing.. i gag too much.

    i think that keys are a good thing, and a lot of people as attentive as they are may miss somethings sometimes.

    extra precautions are not a bad idea.

  • oh, you do. I was wondering why you presented in your teeth and it might be safer & more comfortable behind the teeth. Rubber (which you never mentioned) would be safer in the teeth - rubber in teeth is nice. So, why do you hate rubber bits? BTW, keys to your car, house? For new relationships or beginners, a run thru would be safer. As a dominate, learning our failures before we go full speed is the best "extra precaution(s)".

  • because in humans you can't put the bit behind the teeth.. the jaw isn't set up the same way.

    i'm not a big rubber fan.. i have recently tried a leather bit... i also have a small mouth and a lot of gags won't fit properly.

  • Then, in your case, a woman that vomits off cue (no offense, just given info) your choices would be like: a) cock o-ring gag (it props mouth open) , b) wiffle (holes) ball, horsey bit (mental), cleave gag (cloth pulled behind teeth & tied). Would you recommend rubber balls and bit gags? Oh, could the taste of ballgags make you vomit sick?

  • Gags and people with breathing probs like Asthma ? ? ? I guess that is a very big No NO

  • i would say just be more cautious than people without breathing issues or steer clear of it. that is for people on a personal level to deceide their comfort zone. with asthma i'd make sure there was an inhaler nearby and make sure the safe word/item is in hand.

  • Thanks for some of you tips. This all very easy to explain to my gf . We just gotten from a normal big ball-gag to a small one for her. Myself i gag already on my tong. only can have the ball-gag

  • *smiles* glad to help

  • droolin soooo hot

  • I think the little swiss cheese balls you're talking about are golf practice balls. Fairly small, if i remember right, though. One that i've had some success with is a stress ball, with a hole poked through the middle of it.

    They're kinda weird though, cos you can close your jaw, but they'll try and force it back open. Very soft and springy. One concern (that i found tonight) is that they can, after a while, be bitten through, which raises choking hazard concerns.

  • Hi, i am looking for some more gag Shows... Maybe a Drooling Example ?

  • Your videos to date have been well done - keep up the good work. In keeping with the thought of putting inexpensive items to BDSM use, you might consider using a piece of foam tubing of the kind commonly used to insulate pipes in colder climates as padding over a hard bit gag. Its extremely cheap and can help avoid damage to the teeth should the sub bite down hard on an otherwise unyielding gag

  • As usual, very informative. Thanks so much for sharing with us. I've only recently gotten into BDSM so I'm pretty green with this stuff.

  • well then you are my target audience... especially if you are approaching from the Dom aspect. :)

  • I am.

    Well, usually... as I'm sure you've encountered before, there are exceptions.

  • How ironic, the best talk of all is on gags. Very enjoyable; wish I could have met alyssium 30 years ago. What a time saver. Quite a lady.

  • you should totaly do a make your own bdsm stuff blog or show :) You have some great money saving ideas. I adore the non typical bondage equipment.

  • lol i thought that's what i was doing? :)

  • I preffer ring gags than dildo gags...and never on her back...kneeling is better...also I use to use her mouth as a crop holder....less stressing during the first sessions.

    deep troath it requires a lot of relaxing and time..never be in a rush or the experience will be painful for the sub and frustrating for the Partner

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