Just wanted to say I this was one of first video of yours that I'd seen. I'd been going through a really hard break(my first one from a relationship that lasted 18months), and this helped me a lot. You were totally right! There's always another boyfriend and he always going to feel like 'the one' and a hundred times better then you're ex. I felt like I'll never find anyone else and I totally did that crazy stalker thing with fb and phone calls. But once I just accepted it and removed all contac
So I've loved your make up videos, I love your hair videos and now I absolutely adore you for listening to country music. Rascal Flatts are amazing, and I adore that song too :)
No person can make you happy. You can't find happiness in a person. You have to learn what makes you happy on your own before you can make anyone else happy. The right person could come along and if you're miserable you might scare them off and never realize they were the one for you. ...I hope that advice can help someone...
I'm still friends with my ex and she started dating a guy not even a day after we broke up and we're still friends and idk what to do. Someone help? :/
I have this boy in my life, that is the EAXCT match to what you say about the right one. I am not kidding, everything just popped inside of me the first time I saw him. He truly is the right one, yet he doesnt even know me. He barely even know I exist.And I am suffocating underneath this pain of loving him, and my need for touching him, my desire to feel him...
I'm going through a breakup I was with my bf for nearly 5 months before he decided to tell me he was still in love with his ex Thanx for the advice :)
Kandee, I can't thank you enough for making this video! I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years and I've been so brokenhearted over it. You definitely hit it on the nose with everything! I've been blaming myself for the past couple days, feeling guilty that I let go of the "perfect" person. I had to realize that he truly wasnt the right one. I just need to be strong because the "right" one is out there somewhere! Thanks so much! I'll be watching this every day til I'm strong again. :)
you are just something else girl....thankyou SO much for this video I feel so much better... I am not dealing with a breakup, but feeling very lonely and hopeless that the right man is out there for me. You are such a beautiful person inside and out.
Thanks for this video, Kandee! I just found out my husband of five years has been having multiple affairs since the day we were married. I am filing for divorce next week and I am so devastated. Luckily there are no children involved but it doesn't make it any easier. I know I am doing the right thing and your video helped me mess that I deserve better.
The boy I'm in love with just rejected me, he didn't feel the same way.. I couldn't think of any other place to go than here, to watch Kandee tell me that there will be someone out there for me, someone that will love me back.. Thank you Kandee <3
my boyfriend of 3 years just broke up with me out of the blue last night- we had some problems like money issues but nothing major. he said he needed to be on his own and get his life together and that he wasnt "mentally or emotionally in this relationship anymoe." i am so devastated- and i have been a kandee fan for YEARS of her makeup tutorials, i am SOOOO happy that you have this video kandee- in my time of darkest saddest you make me feel like things WILL move on for me
The sad this is, he was my perfect guy. He loved me with everything he had and was so loving towards me and kind. He hated guys that were 4.24 - 4.34 and he was everything Kandee describes at 4.37 - 4.43 ... this is why it's so hard for me to move on. He never EVER did anything to hurt me. It's been 2 weeks and i'm still in shock. I thought he loved me.
I LOVE Kandee. she is so inspirational and whenever I watch her videos I feel less worthless . she is goregous and smart and funny and has kids by 3 different dads (which means a lot to me because I do too and I get a lot of crap for it) yet still has an amzing outlook on life and herself which helps make me realize that life isnt over for me and that everythign can and will be ok if i make it.
I love you so much kandee, you always make me feel better. I don't even know how you seem like such a friend to so many people when most of us don't even know you. But you are so warm and sweet, and I'm so glad that your a part of my world. I'm one of your biggest fans <3.
thank you, kandee! i was feeling bad the whole day until i found this video. now, my goal for 2012 is to make myself a better person for that someone that's meant for me.. thanks again. this video made my day!
Kandee...I love pretty much all of your videos, but this one is still my favorite. I've commented before, but I come back to this video because it's so touching.
Thank you again for giving me hope and making me not feel so alone. You're amazing!
Tears fall from my eyes while im watching your video kandee, i just broke up with my 4yrs bf! He cheated me a lot and i always forgive him, because he always promise that he will do everything just to make our relationship work again, But i cant trust him anymore, i have always this doubt that maybe he is with another girl, maybe he lies again . i just cant trust him again :( i still love him but i need to let him go, i want to move on,i want to be happy again :( Thankyou kandee
No I'm a guy too and this video has helped me, gender doesn't matter there are moronic girls out there trampling over good guys. But as the beautiful lady says, there is someone out there that will appreciate you and you need to make space for them.
thank u mme and my bf broke up yesterday because he wanted to get his stufff together and he wanted to ge on the right track and he wanted me to do he same and countine our lives and maybe one day i could see hi agian but yeah i was devisatated and heart broken after what you just said it made me feel a lot better.
@1950sjennyholly Exact same thing with mine. he had "too much on his mind" and wanted to date later. A waited a whole frikn month on him, no texts or anything, and asked him if we were over for good. He said the exact same thing again. I waited one more week and told him I was moving on, and what he did was awful. All he said was "K". This sucks even more, because he was my bestfriend.
@peashooter96 thats messed up ;( like we where together for 2 years and 3 months also he was my frist boyfreind u know? so he said he always be there and blah blah but i still talk to him like i do to my freinds its alil werid at frist then i was fine u know he wants to get life togerther and he wants me to explore more and have more fun i do have fun just he wants me to experiance more things in life. like now i feel better that i can stilll talk to him but what ur ex did was awful :( im sorry
i had this bf that kept flirting with other girls. so i broke up with him but my heart is broken cause he got over me within a minute. i actually started cutting myself cause i thought there was something wrong with me.... and now he likes my bff and she likes him -.- fml
@MsFRITO123 Hey there... I read your post, and I don't know you, but if you like, I can be a good listener. My girlfriend dumped my ass about 2 weeks ago, and I feel like I shouldn't go on... But I have a little boy to look after. And if I die, then my child will be a bastard. You're human, and I'm human, we need ppl to talk to sometimes. I don't have many friends. If you'd like to chat some time, I'm hear to vent too. God knows I need it.
kandee, thank you so much! this is exactly what i needed to hear. i was in a horrible mood all day until i watched this video. i'm now sitting here laughing to myself and wondering why i wasted so much time on someone who didn't have the time of day for me. you give me hope to know that someone better will come along, and the strength to push through the rough time i'm having. i've gotten through so many things during my life; i guess i just needed the reminder that i can still do it. much love!
Kandee,thank you so much for this video. I just broke up with a boyfriend recently. He had cheated on me several times,but me believing in working things out,and i forgave him every time. I watched this video and it gave me such confidence to get over him. Now I'm HAPPILY single,and loving it! Keep making the amazing videos! ~Maegan.
Kandee Less than a year ago, I had a MAJOR crush on one of the most popular guys in school. Well like lots of other girls, I drew a picture of me and him together. In a matter of minutes, I had to go take medication. And he saw it. I got so depressed that I wouldnt speak, or eat. Today I have several scars on my wrist and a scar of the word NICK carved into my leg. Thanks to you Kandee, I'm not afraid to love anymore! Thank you.
Kandee, I watch your video two years ago when I first broke up with a guy who was my first everything because he cheated on me, and I was devastated at the time. I was watching this and crying at the same time. But you helped me get through it. I'm now married with the love of my love and he's treating me so well. I just wanted to let you know that you help people more than you think you do :)
Kandee, I watch your video two years ago when I first broke up with a guy who was my first everything, and I was devastated at the time. I was watching this and crying at the same time. But you helped me get through it. I'm now married with the love of my love and he's treating me so well. I just wanted to let you know that you help people more than you think you do :)
Thank you so much i have come out of a relationship 6 months ago with my one year old sons dad and he is into heavy drugs and doesn't seem to want to change i thought he had got clean but he hadn't he was just lying the whole time to me staying out late sometimes not coming back for days on end and this video helped me see it does get better, and soon i will find the man for me
haha. I'm much older than you and I still have those thoughts....hahah. I wish I saw this video 3 months ago! I'm all better now. If anyone is reading this and your going through a hard time know that you will feel better and you'll look back and think...what the heck was I thinking? Thank you Kandee...you are helping people and giving such good and healthy and realistic advice! Love it! xox
Thank you sooooooo much! I was in a relationship with a guy for 3 years and he ignored me and flirted with other girls all the time and when i told him it hurt me he would give me silly excuses. He just didnt want to be loyal and committed but wanted to keep me as a safety net perhaps. And I did so many things for him, learned his mother laguage to show him i loved him, woke up at 5am to talk to him cause of the time difference etc. Thank you for posting this
You are sooo awesome!! I myself have been through a few rough times but still listening to you has made me look at life sooo much more clear. I love especially how spiritual you are. I love how you have been trusting in GOD to direct your path also. That is wonderful!! XOXOXOX
i loved this video, but my boyfriend was absolutely perfect, total opposite of all those things, cherished me, but still, he broke up with me, hearing you say all those things made me wonder why suck a perfect guy broke up with me.
kandee, i have a 10 month old daughter with him, i dont know if im strong enough to do this by myself. i love him with all my heart but he doesnt love me anymore. hes always looking at other girls and it breaks my heart because i would never do that to him. i dont know what to do. because these problems seem really grown and serious, i just dont wanna make the wrong decisions. PLEASE GET BACK TO ME ON FACEBOOK i need someone to talk to who can relate with the baby daddy drama. :(
I just watched a video your sister put up and then I came back and watched this. You two always know how to make my day. I am an only child & you two are like my older sisters that I look up to and admire so much!! :) For the past few years you have always been there and I have never made a comment haha...so I wanted to tell you now how much I appreciate your videos :) Thanks kandee.
"you dont wanna be with someone that is mean, that makes fun of you, that puts you down, that talks about liking other girls, talks about strip clubs" that is my boyfriend right now... bleh its not that simple breaking up with someone. i wish you were my big sister so you could shake me and tell me to break up with him all ready and then help me burn the pictures. thank you anyway (:
thank you very much!!! this video gave me hope! now i have the power to continua in my life! thank youuu!!! thank you so much! thank you for posting this! t:lucke from finland (: you're the best!
After watching this video I have a feeling of what I did wrong in my last relationship, and yea im a boy and yeah I am still obsessed with her. Feeling like a f*cking scum right now
After watching this video I have a feeling of what I did wrong in my last relationship, and yea im a boy and yeah I am still obsessed with her. Feeling like a fucking scum right now
I really appreciated this video, its so hard going through a break up and this video helped me so much. I did the pros/cons list and it made me realize it wasn't worth it to be so miserable. Thank you Kandee!
Hi Kandee My name is Brooke .I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years a couple days ago. I've had my heart broken many times before .My heart is breaking right now but, I know it will get better slowly day by day .Thanks for your advice your advice it you were very inspiring .
I watched this for the first time a few months ago when I decided i needed to break up with my boyfriend and because of your advice Kandee I was able to continue with my decision. You words have helped heal my hurting heart and I can never thank you enough for that! Thank you so much!!!!
I only turn to your videos when I need help. I'm broken into pieces right now. Me and him have a daughter together he's cheated in me before but I have such a huge heart that I forgave him. I been used stepped on and the whole nine yards. He has changed so much and has nothing but when hE had me hE pushed me away. Thank yu kandee. This us by far I've if the hardest days ever.
Right to the point. I was with what I thought was the perfect woman for 9 years 350 days so call it ten years. I am in so much pain now. She told me she just doesn't love me anymore ain't that some crap. But this video was great Thank you beautiful.
from the bottom of my heart thank you so much for this. some days i get so sad and feel so hopeless because i still havent gotten over my breakup and i just replay your words in my head and it really lifts my spirits
Thank yoiu Kandee! You are so candid and real. I found you because I just uploaded the first of a video documentary about my friend Erik who is going through a break up. I thought it would help other people who are going through one too. I am going to watch some of your other videos now on make up!! Fun!! Thanks!!! (Oh, mine is called, Erik's Journey)
oh my god you totally got the point! i am surviving from my breakup...and i am doing exactly all those stupid and crazy you have mentioned, i guess you really did changed my mind a little bit:) thanks so much x
wow when you listed the things that you shouldn't have in a boyfriend, it matched all the things my bf does. he's mean, he makes fun of me, he puts me down (he swears he's joking) he tells me other girls are hot. i have no idea why i'm with him. i should really leave him now.
I saw this video when it first came out & it gave me the strength to break up with my emotionally abusive boyfriend. It was EXTREMELY hard to leave him because I just wanted to help him but in the end, he wasn't going to change. This video inspired me to look for someone who treated me with respect & nothing but love & I found him & just recently got engaged!! & I owe it all to YOU! Thank you a million times over...you're truly inspiring!
when me and my boyfriend broke up, i was devisated i woud ring him so it would go to vocemail just to hear his voice, and after watching your video you taught me a lot of things about myself thankyou
so what do you do when you do find that someone that lights up your world, that knows what you mean without you saying a word, that seems to be your match? we broke up, and he can't tell me why. he brought out the best in me, but our responsibilities left us heading in different directions. what do you do?
"Look what weirdo-mess they turned out to be" BUAHAHAHAHAH, my ex is in the psych-ward after 3 years of being apart he started stalking me and ended up getting committed...xD
I lost my BF because I was stupid. I lost a wonderful guy... we were engaged and had a 7 year relationship. Now he is with another girl. I hope he is happy... I feel very sad :(
I live with my BF, he cheated once and I forgave him, but I still feel traumatized and can't recover that trust. Today, I found text msgs from another girl :( I feel horrible, can't stop crying and don't know how to end this relationship because I love him so much :'(
I seriously watch this video everyday to remind myself why I'm doing the things that I'm doing and why I need to keep strong and not look back. Thank you so much Kandee :)
And she went berserk on me because her best friend found out that we broke up when I asked that friend how my ex was doing, which kind of tipped off the fact that something was wrong become I don't normally talk to her a lot. That was stupid on my part but I was truly worried about her....
Im a guy and I feel soo much feelings, pain, but I do not find any guy who would have the same situation I have. 2 years of relationship living 2gether --> crying like a girl, no appetize , no sleep....
@Jonnylovely100webde Bro I feel your pain, My gf broke up with me a few months ago and I have been feeling like shit ever since. Treated her with love and respect; I would never even raise my voice, let alone yell at her and one day she just called it quits, just because there was "too much pressure in her lives right now".
@Shao001 My guy lives in another state and he yells at me on the phone everyday...he says if I don't move in with him by September that he's gonna get rid of me :(
Hey, bud. I am a guy and in the situation. I feel your pain. It's been 4 months since my cheating ex and I broke up. Yesterday I saw her at a 5k run with another guy. Guess what...it wasn't the guy she cheated on me with but a brand new guy. what a s**t. Some girls are like that....they will never find true happiness. My advice is to keep strong...keep busy and self-respect.
@MrHiepnotic yea it real sucks. My deepest condolences ,too ,manye ! I think its the western girls ( or those who grow up here). Most of them are way too much egoistic. They only think of being free and checkin out new things. The principle of freedom is only what they follow. There is no balance , like freedom and also being settled down. Therefore they dont have empathy which is damn important for being in a relationship.
Its been 3 weeks, I got over her slightly. Damn nightmares!
MY EX BOYFRIEND I GAVE TO HIM EVERYTHING MY LOVE I LIVED WITH ME BECAUSE HE HAS NOWHERE TO GO AND ALL THAT TIME I DIDN T KNOW THAT HE HAD ANOTHER GIRL GOING OUT WITH I TOLD HIM TO GO AWAY I WAS SO DEPRESSED AFTER THAT
I was broken up with yesterday... we were together for 2 years and he did it out of the blue :( I've never felt so broken... thank you Kandee, for being such a beautiful person and for helping me through this horrible time. Love you xo
i broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half, and my world revolved around him. i felt fine, like it was for the better. but that was a month ago. i feel horrible!
i went through a break up where a guy cheated and all i could think was 'was i not enough for this guy? we live together but you have to cheat?!' come to find out that he was dating 3 girls all at the same time. those people are going to have to pay for what they do one day
i have been with my fiance for 5 years we have a 2 year old together and we lost the "spark" last night she told me she dont love me and that she's stuck with me she is the only thing ive ever known as of now we are still together, but for how long? shits stressful. that and we live together
For anyone who is missing their ex lover and going through a hard time with their breakup, I'd recommend that you check out the "ex back system" from..
Breakups2Makeups (dot) com
The advice in there helped me get through a really hard time in my life.
Just wanted to say I this was one of first video of yours that I'd seen. I'd been going through a really hard break(my first one from a relationship that lasted 18months), and this helped me a lot. You were totally right! There's always another boyfriend and he always going to feel like 'the one' and a hundred times better then you're ex. I felt like I'll never find anyone else and I totally did that crazy stalker thing with fb and phone calls. But once I just accepted it and removed all contac
missomg2121 1 week ago
gosh i thought you were tiffany in this video =P
themonstera 1 week ago
So I've loved your make up videos, I love your hair videos and now I absolutely adore you for listening to country music. Rascal Flatts are amazing, and I adore that song too :)
kylarosee 1 week ago
Thank u :)
xrmb777x 1 week ago
I wish my ex boyfriend was an asshole, maybe it would be easier to let it go ;x :D
sugarhooney 2 weeks ago
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sugarhooney 2 weeks ago
No person can make you happy. You can't find happiness in a person. You have to learn what makes you happy on your own before you can make anyone else happy. The right person could come along and if you're miserable you might scare them off and never realize they were the one for you. ...I hope that advice can help someone...
ladyssnape 2 weeks ago
I'm still friends with my ex and she started dating a guy not even a day after we broke up and we're still friends and idk what to do. Someone help? :/
XxobscurexX777 2 weeks ago
this has helped me so much. I want to truly thank you -3 you're beautiful inside and out :)
kaitlynkho5 3 weeks ago
I met my ex boyfriend because I added him on Facebook because he looked cute. Lol we dated for 6 months
mydogmiley 3 weeks ago
What happens if the guy wants to be "friends" for now since they live far away??
peacelovemakeup93 4 weeks ago
Kandee you just made me cry...
I have this boy in my life, that is the EAXCT match to what you say about the right one. I am not kidding, everything just popped inside of me the first time I saw him. He truly is the right one, yet he doesnt even know me. He barely even know I exist.And I am suffocating underneath this pain of loving him, and my need for touching him, my desire to feel him...
I don't know what to do...
Please Kandee help <3
MissAngelzide 1 month ago
That was his favorite song :,(
I'm going through a breakup I was with my bf for nearly 5 months before he decided to tell me he was still in love with his ex Thanx for the advice :)
MegaALLCAPSRAGE 1 month ago
Kandee, I can't thank you enough for making this video! I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years and I've been so brokenhearted over it. You definitely hit it on the nose with everything! I've been blaming myself for the past couple days, feeling guilty that I let go of the "perfect" person. I had to realize that he truly wasnt the right one. I just need to be strong because the "right" one is out there somewhere! Thanks so much! I'll be watching this every day til I'm strong again. :)
macdaddymaddeh 1 month ago
As long as you stay with mister wrong , mister right cant find you !!! Love that quote
Rtyuii79 1 month ago in playlist More videos from kandeejohnson
you are just something else girl....thankyou SO much for this video I feel so much better... I am not dealing with a breakup, but feeling very lonely and hopeless that the right man is out there for me. You are such a beautiful person inside and out.
Pamure8 1 month ago
P.S. your cheekbones are INCREDIBLE.
charmsz566 1 month ago
I am going thru a breakup right now, THANK YOU for this!!
charmsz566 1 month ago
*see
shadowylady25 1 month ago
Thanks for this video, Kandee! I just found out my husband of five years has been having multiple affairs since the day we were married. I am filing for divorce next week and I am so devastated. Luckily there are no children involved but it doesn't make it any easier. I know I am doing the right thing and your video helped me mess that I deserve better.
shadowylady25 1 month ago
The boy I'm in love with just rejected me, he didn't feel the same way.. I couldn't think of any other place to go than here, to watch Kandee tell me that there will be someone out there for me, someone that will love me back.. Thank you Kandee <3
minuteofdecay00 1 month ago
Omg! Thank you so much for this video. I needed it
freshkickz24 1 month ago
my boyfriend of 3 years just broke up with me out of the blue last night- we had some problems like money issues but nothing major. he said he needed to be on his own and get his life together and that he wasnt "mentally or emotionally in this relationship anymoe." i am so devastated- and i have been a kandee fan for YEARS of her makeup tutorials, i am SOOOO happy that you have this video kandee- in my time of darkest saddest you make me feel like things WILL move on for me
aligenny 1 month ago
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sugarhooney 1 month ago
Thank you for this video Kandee. I'm not even going through a break up and this really touched me. I can't wait until you find your prince <3
ohsomeanjanine 1 month ago
The sad this is, he was my perfect guy. He loved me with everything he had and was so loving towards me and kind. He hated guys that were 4.24 - 4.34 and he was everything Kandee describes at 4.37 - 4.43 ... this is why it's so hard for me to move on. He never EVER did anything to hurt me. It's been 2 weeks and i'm still in shock. I thought he loved me.
Nicolaalaa93 1 month ago
but she was the best thing i ever had :-(
jtspiky 2 months ago
I cried.
but I appreciate this.
Blackskittles09 2 months ago
I love the song your talking about- bless the broken road by rascal flatts :) thank you kandee I needed this
torytory28 2 months ago
i cried watching this....
kandee, you're honestly sooooo inspiring.
sandyxo18 2 months ago
I reallllllly wish I'd discovered this video a month ago...before I decided it was a "good" idea to call my ex :-/
He has a new gf, now everytime I look in the mirror I see the ForeverAlone meme looking ack at me lol
TheMsLoso 2 months ago
I LOVE Kandee. she is so inspirational and whenever I watch her videos I feel less worthless . she is goregous and smart and funny and has kids by 3 different dads (which means a lot to me because I do too and I get a lot of crap for it) yet still has an amzing outlook on life and herself which helps make me realize that life isnt over for me and that everythign can and will be ok if i make it.
xxVIXx1 2 months ago
This is my second time watching this video. I swear, guys can be dicks.
Donavon55 2 months ago
If a man acts like a penis. It's because he is trying to make up for the one.
alotus9 2 months ago
I like to think about the perfect guy and what i want from them. But theres none out there ;(
bexyboo33 2 months ago
seriously love you! i'm not even in a broken up situation but i still love this... & maybe someday i'll need it :)
lovexlaine 2 months ago
I watch this every time i go through these kinda situation. Youre so inspiring!
igotawesomeness 2 months ago
I love you so much kandee, you always make me feel better. I don't even know how you seem like such a friend to so many people when most of us don't even know you. But you are so warm and sweet, and I'm so glad that your a part of my world. I'm one of your biggest fans <3.
LadyBonnieLass 2 months ago in playlist More videos from kandeejohnson
thank you, kandee! i was feeling bad the whole day until i found this video. now, my goal for 2012 is to make myself a better person for that someone that's meant for me.. thanks again. this video made my day!
szasheeberry 2 months ago
Kandee...I love pretty much all of your videos, but this one is still my favorite. I've commented before, but I come back to this video because it's so touching.
Thank you again for giving me hope and making me not feel so alone. You're amazing!
twizzlerbaby2 2 months ago
i just got broken up with so hopefully this will help me :/
brave2011girl 2 months ago
Tears fall from my eyes while im watching your video kandee, i just broke up with my 4yrs bf! He cheated me a lot and i always forgive him, because he always promise that he will do everything just to make our relationship work again, But i cant trust him anymore, i have always this doubt that maybe he is with another girl, maybe he lies again . i just cant trust him again :( i still love him but i need to let him go, i want to move on,i want to be happy again :( Thankyou kandee
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einarbolafsson 2 months ago
No I'm a guy too and this video has helped me, gender doesn't matter there are moronic girls out there trampling over good guys. But as the beautiful lady says, there is someone out there that will appreciate you and you need to make space for them.
semaproductions 2 months ago
thank u mme and my bf broke up yesterday because he wanted to get his stufff together and he wanted to ge on the right track and he wanted me to do he same and countine our lives and maybe one day i could see hi agian but yeah i was devisatated and heart broken after what you just said it made me feel a lot better.
1950sjennyholly 2 months ago
@1950sjennyholly Exact same thing with mine. he had "too much on his mind" and wanted to date later. A waited a whole frikn month on him, no texts or anything, and asked him if we were over for good. He said the exact same thing again. I waited one more week and told him I was moving on, and what he did was awful. All he said was "K". This sucks even more, because he was my bestfriend.
peashooter96 2 months ago
@peashooter96 thats messed up ;( like we where together for 2 years and 3 months also he was my frist boyfreind u know? so he said he always be there and blah blah but i still talk to him like i do to my freinds its alil werid at frist then i was fine u know he wants to get life togerther and he wants me to explore more and have more fun i do have fun just he wants me to experiance more things in life. like now i feel better that i can stilll talk to him but what ur ex did was awful :( im sorry
1950sjennyholly 2 months ago
there is no one waiting for me; they are all assholes and selfish. There are no enough men either.
claudiamarin77 2 months ago in playlist Favorite videos
@KendeeJhonson you are so pretty!
savannahmusiclife 2 months ago
I love this. At 40, I only wish I had learned these lessons earlier in my life.
lhicks1354 2 months ago
i had this bf that kept flirting with other girls. so i broke up with him but my heart is broken cause he got over me within a minute. i actually started cutting myself cause i thought there was something wrong with me.... and now he likes my bff and she likes him -.- fml
MsFRITO123 2 months ago
@MsFRITO123 Hey there... I read your post, and I don't know you, but if you like, I can be a good listener. My girlfriend dumped my ass about 2 weeks ago, and I feel like I shouldn't go on... But I have a little boy to look after. And if I die, then my child will be a bastard. You're human, and I'm human, we need ppl to talk to sometimes. I don't have many friends. If you'd like to chat some time, I'm hear to vent too. God knows I need it.
streak418 2 months ago
Damn... preach on... Are you single?
Nyte167 2 months ago
This is perfect! Exactly what I tell all my friends. It's hard to follow your own advice when you break up. But this is perfect.
lamomarissaeli 2 months ago
kandee, thank you so much! this is exactly what i needed to hear. i was in a horrible mood all day until i watched this video. i'm now sitting here laughing to myself and wondering why i wasted so much time on someone who didn't have the time of day for me. you give me hope to know that someone better will come along, and the strength to push through the rough time i'm having. i've gotten through so many things during my life; i guess i just needed the reminder that i can still do it. much love!
carlyborror 2 months ago in playlist inspiration
Kandee,thank you so much for this video. I just broke up with a boyfriend recently. He had cheated on me several times,but me believing in working things out,and i forgave him every time. I watched this video and it gave me such confidence to get over him. Now I'm HAPPILY single,and loving it! Keep making the amazing videos! ~Maegan.
left4dead2baby 3 months ago
my bf cheated on me!! not but 2 times!!! but i thought i just wasnt pretty enough but it was just him!! n im still not over him but im trying!!
theKari1661 3 months ago
Kandee Less than a year ago, I had a MAJOR crush on one of the most popular guys in school. Well like lots of other girls, I drew a picture of me and him together. In a matter of minutes, I had to go take medication. And he saw it. I got so depressed that I wouldnt speak, or eat. Today I have several scars on my wrist and a scar of the word NICK carved into my leg. Thanks to you Kandee, I'm not afraid to love anymore! Thank you.
Your Loyal Fan, Hailey.
livieluloo 3 months ago
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Kandee, I watch your video two years ago when I first broke up with a guy who was my first everything because he cheated on me, and I was devastated at the time. I was watching this and crying at the same time. But you helped me get through it. I'm now married with the love of my love and he's treating me so well. I just wanted to let you know that you help people more than you think you do :)
0920jenny 3 months ago
Kandee, I watch your video two years ago when I first broke up with a guy who was my first everything, and I was devastated at the time. I was watching this and crying at the same time. But you helped me get through it. I'm now married with the love of my love and he's treating me so well. I just wanted to let you know that you help people more than you think you do :)
0920jenny 3 months ago
When we were born we were given:
2 eyes 2 see
2 ears 2 hear
2 hands 2 touch
2 legs 2 walk
But why only 1 heart?
Because the other one was given 2 someone else to come and find you<3
iluvaduband1d 3 months ago
Thank you so much i have come out of a relationship 6 months ago with my one year old sons dad and he is into heavy drugs and doesn't seem to want to change i thought he had got clean but he hadn't he was just lying the whole time to me staying out late sometimes not coming back for days on end and this video helped me see it does get better, and soon i will find the man for me
saz16989 3 months ago
this is some of the best break-up advice i've ever heard
this can make anybody going through a break-up feel better, however the break-up happened.
Frilleon 3 months ago
haha. I'm much older than you and I still have those thoughts....hahah. I wish I saw this video 3 months ago! I'm all better now. If anyone is reading this and your going through a hard time know that you will feel better and you'll look back and think...what the heck was I thinking? Thank you Kandee...you are helping people and giving such good and healthy and realistic advice! Love it! xox
annstehr 3 months ago
See when you say think of that perfect future person, I can only think of her...
themanthelegendary 3 months ago
I have to watch this everyday.
NatalieJ429 3 months ago 46
Thank you sooooooo much! I was in a relationship with a guy for 3 years and he ignored me and flirted with other girls all the time and when i told him it hurt me he would give me silly excuses. He just didnt want to be loyal and committed but wanted to keep me as a safety net perhaps. And I did so many things for him, learned his mother laguage to show him i loved him, woke up at 5am to talk to him cause of the time difference etc. Thank you for posting this
florentia04 4 months ago
"look what weirdo mess THEY turned out to be!" lol :D
xbriannaxbananax 4 months ago
You are sooo awesome!! I myself have been through a few rough times but still listening to you has made me look at life sooo much more clear. I love especially how spiritual you are. I love how you have been trusting in GOD to direct your path also. That is wonderful!! XOXOXOX
traceyfaz 4 months ago
Im so glad I watched this video. You're a sweetheart and this video is so helpful to me.
reneshia2005 4 months ago
Is it bad that I'm a boy and I used this video to help me get over te break up from my gf?
deathrifle 4 months ago 31
@deathrifle nope
azianluvbug000 4 months ago
@deathrifle No, Not at all <3 good luck I am having a VERY hard time getting over mine :(
MaineGirl81 3 months ago
@deathrifle wouldnt worry bout it if i were you =)
XyliaTaffan 2 months ago
@deathrifle Not bad at all :p, heartbreak is universal.
LadyBonnieLass 2 months ago in playlist More videos from kandeejohnson
@deathrifle nooooo :)
harleydamakeupartist 2 months ago
@deathrifle absolutely not!
neveradullmoment6 1 week ago
Thank you so much kandee. You are my inspiration
ashley13824 4 months ago
Thank you so much .....
killjoyserj 4 months ago
yeah
live2break1 4 months ago
thank you !
pinkslipperz16 4 months ago
i watch this video a lot. it makes me feel better
cartrice2010 4 months ago 2
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love this video. i watch it so many times everyday and it makes me feel so much better about myself. i wish i had a friend like you
kurfffa 4 months ago
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kurfffa 4 months ago
You have helped me so much. And its still hard but you have made it 10 times less hard. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
beautygeek5516 4 months ago 2
you're such a sweet heart.
thank you!
kurfffa 4 months ago
I have so much depression from breakups but this video actually put a huge smile on my face.
ashley13824 4 months ago
thanks great advice :)
jeremyb361 5 months ago
Kandee, you're such an amazing woman. Thank you for all of this...everything you said is so true..and I'm over 30! These things happen to all ages :(
mybeautifulbailey 5 months ago
i LOVE this video .. it made me soo happy . it filled me up with so much love and joy . thank you kandee you are wonderful !.. :)xoxo
libslovesyou 5 months ago
aww thank you for posting this I'm getting over a guy. So I will focus on building my confidence and then think about what I truly want. :)
queenmother123 5 months ago
I love you!! :D You helped me a lot, thank you so much.
silverrock936 5 months ago
NO BRAIN! {cute liddo puty face}
god i love her <3
TheCristyroo 5 months ago
i loved this video, but my boyfriend was absolutely perfect, total opposite of all those things, cherished me, but still, he broke up with me, hearing you say all those things made me wonder why suck a perfect guy broke up with me.
aznfan1981 5 months ago
Kandee you are so beautiful and amazing! I could listen to you all day
misscleoannemichels 5 months ago
Kandee Johnson you are my role model! <3
mizzsweethart 5 months ago
kandee, i have a 10 month old daughter with him, i dont know if im strong enough to do this by myself. i love him with all my heart but he doesnt love me anymore. hes always looking at other girls and it breaks my heart because i would never do that to him. i dont know what to do. because these problems seem really grown and serious, i just dont wanna make the wrong decisions. PLEASE GET BACK TO ME ON FACEBOOK i need someone to talk to who can relate with the baby daddy drama. :(
JAHNESSAmadness 5 months ago
I cannot even tell you how much this video means to me! I love you Kandee! Thank you so much!
Krisztixx 5 months ago
I just watched a video your sister put up and then I came back and watched this. You two always know how to make my day. I am an only child & you two are like my older sisters that I look up to and admire so much!! :) For the past few years you have always been there and I have never made a comment haha...so I wanted to tell you now how much I appreciate your videos :) Thanks kandee.
jAlexisg234 5 months ago
Kandee you made my heart smile with this video :) <3 I love you.
kbeautyx0 5 months ago
"you dont wanna be with someone that is mean, that makes fun of you, that puts you down, that talks about liking other girls, talks about strip clubs" that is my boyfriend right now... bleh its not that simple breaking up with someone. i wish you were my big sister so you could shake me and tell me to break up with him all ready and then help me burn the pictures. thank you anyway (:
a7x1afi2 5 months ago
thank you very much!!! this video gave me hope! now i have the power to continua in my life! thank youuu!!! thank you so much! thank you for posting this! t:lucke from finland (: you're the best!
meteosaur24 5 months ago
Now I know what I've done wrong.. I'm a boy
ZooliXx 5 months ago
After watching this video I have a feeling of what I did wrong in my last relationship, and yea im a boy and yeah I am still obsessed with her. Feeling like a f*cking scum right now
ZooliXx 5 months ago
After watching this video I have a feeling of what I did wrong in my last relationship, and yea im a boy and yeah I am still obsessed with her. Feeling like a fucking scum right now
ZooliXx 5 months ago
I really appreciated this video, its so hard going through a break up and this video helped me so much. I did the pros/cons list and it made me realize it wasn't worth it to be so miserable. Thank you Kandee!
GoGoTT86 5 months ago
ineeded thiss glad ifound it:) thanks kandee yur amazing! *hugs youu
jaayylovee123 5 months ago
wow, she is foxy
nhhs8 5 months ago
Hi Kandee My name is Brooke .I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years a couple days ago. I've had my heart broken many times before .My heart is breaking right now but, I know it will get better slowly day by day .Thanks for your advice your advice it you were very inspiring .
TheBne123456 5 months ago
I watched this for the first time a few months ago when I decided i needed to break up with my boyfriend and because of your advice Kandee I was able to continue with my decision. You words have helped heal my hurting heart and I can never thank you enough for that! Thank you so much!!!!
dawlphinbri 5 months ago in playlist inspiration
I only turn to your videos when I need help. I'm broken into pieces right now. Me and him have a daughter together he's cheated in me before but I have such a huge heart that I forgave him. I been used stepped on and the whole nine yards. He has changed so much and has nothing but when hE had me hE pushed me away. Thank yu kandee. This us by far I've if the hardest days ever.
TheDeez415 5 months ago
@TheDeez415 keep your head up I'm in it to
krisandolga94 5 months ago
Right to the point. I was with what I thought was the perfect woman for 9 years 350 days so call it ten years. I am in so much pain now. She told me she just doesn't love me anymore ain't that some crap. But this video was great Thank you beautiful.
krisandolga94 5 months ago
@krisandolga94 thank you.. you keep your head up as well. times are tough but they dont last forever.
TheDeez415 5 months ago
from the bottom of my heart thank you so much for this. some days i get so sad and feel so hopeless because i still havent gotten over my breakup and i just replay your words in my head and it really lifts my spirits
BlondieBeanz 6 months ago
Thank yoiu Kandee! You are so candid and real. I found you because I just uploaded the first of a video documentary about my friend Erik who is going through a break up. I thought it would help other people who are going through one too. I am going to watch some of your other videos now on make up!! Fun!! Thanks!!! (Oh, mine is called, Erik's Journey)
kamaranmann 6 months ago
Your video helped so much, thank you for sharing your wisdom
coryc77 6 months ago
The end made me cry. I love you Kandee!!! <3
amarchie6 6 months ago
thank you so much for this video, Im going through a break-up right now, this has helped alot :)
Sondice 6 months ago
oh my god you totally got the point! i am surviving from my breakup...and i am doing exactly all those stupid and crazy you have mentioned, i guess you really did changed my mind a little bit:) thanks so much x
renee0807 6 months ago
This video changed my life 2 years ago!
abiteofcupcake 6 months ago
aww kandee, ur just an amazing person, inside and out. the guy who gets u is probably the luckiest person ever. God bless!
Moviegurl15 6 months ago
@RainbowMonkey43 hells ya you should!
14bribrianna 6 months ago
wow when you listed the things that you shouldn't have in a boyfriend, it matched all the things my bf does. he's mean, he makes fun of me, he puts me down (he swears he's joking) he tells me other girls are hot. i have no idea why i'm with him. i should really leave him now.
RainbowMonkey43 6 months ago
This helped me get through a recent break-up with my bf. Thank you!!!
Donavon55 6 months ago
very comforting video.....
madeinjapan99 6 months ago
I saw this video when it first came out & it gave me the strength to break up with my emotionally abusive boyfriend. It was EXTREMELY hard to leave him because I just wanted to help him but in the end, he wasn't going to change. This video inspired me to look for someone who treated me with respect & nothing but love & I found him & just recently got engaged!! & I owe it all to YOU! Thank you a million times over...you're truly inspiring!
braziliangirl231 6 months ago
i am dying inside knowing that i'm not with my boyfriend for 2 years anymore. I miss him so much :(
TeenDream8 6 months ago
@TeenDream8 =( I'm sorry.
VanillaSspice 6 months ago
Thank you sooo Much!!! :)
jatj922 6 months ago
This was worth listening too. Lol Girl I l0ve your style!!
LaWanda2013 6 months ago
I AM FUCKING DYING :(((
GadTheCelavi 6 months ago
when me and my boyfriend broke up, i was devisated i woud ring him so it would go to vocemail just to hear his voice, and after watching your video you taught me a lot of things about myself thankyou
misssophiabush1 6 months ago
...I hate to say it, but it sounds like Kandee has a rather shallow taste in men...
1092jniufvhorh 6 months ago
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so what do you do when you do find that someone that lights up your world, that knows what you mean without you saying a word, that seems to be your match? we broke up, and he can't tell me why. he brought out the best in me, but our responsibilities left us heading in different directions. what do you do?
ashleyvampireheart 6 months ago
"Look what weirdo-mess they turned out to be" BUAHAHAHAHAH, my ex is in the psych-ward after 3 years of being apart he started stalking me and ended up getting committed...xD
Opheliac666 6 months ago
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Opheliac666 6 months ago
Your words comfort my heart. thank you. At least I am not feeling that I am dealing with this alone.
madeinjapan99 6 months ago
Thank you
douglaschew 6 months ago
I lost my BF because I was stupid. I lost a wonderful guy... we were engaged and had a 7 year relationship. Now he is with another girl. I hope he is happy... I feel very sad :(
endromuria 6 months ago
I live with my BF, he cheated once and I forgave him, but I still feel traumatized and can't recover that trust. Today, I found text msgs from another girl :( I feel horrible, can't stop crying and don't know how to end this relationship because I love him so much :'(
ninadechiwawa 6 months ago
@dancergirly013 me too
erikFKNgram 6 months ago
I seriously watch this video everyday to remind myself why I'm doing the things that I'm doing and why I need to keep strong and not look back. Thank you so much Kandee :)
wittyjulia 6 months ago
And she went berserk on me because her best friend found out that we broke up when I asked that friend how my ex was doing, which kind of tipped off the fact that something was wrong become I don't normally talk to her a lot. That was stupid on my part but I was truly worried about her....
Now she wouldn't even talk to me anymore.
Shao001 6 months ago
i just broke up with my boyfriend and went straight to this video.
dancergirly013 7 months ago
Im a guy and I feel soo much feelings, pain, but I do not find any guy who would have the same situation I have. 2 years of relationship living 2gether --> crying like a girl, no appetize , no sleep....
Can you also help me too ?
Jonnylovely100webde 7 months ago
@Jonnylovely100webde Bro I feel your pain, My gf broke up with me a few months ago and I have been feeling like shit ever since. Treated her with love and respect; I would never even raise my voice, let alone yell at her and one day she just called it quits, just because there was "too much pressure in her lives right now".
Shao001 6 months ago
@Shao001 My guy lives in another state and he yells at me on the phone everyday...he says if I don't move in with him by September that he's gonna get rid of me :(
skarvika 6 months ago
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Hey, bud. I am a guy and in the situation. I feel your pain. It's been 4 months since my cheating ex and I broke up. Yesterday I saw her at a 5k run with another guy. Guess what...it wasn't the guy she cheated on me with but a brand new guy. what a s**t. Some girls are like that....they will never find true happiness. My advice is to keep strong...keep busy and self-respect.
MrHiepnotic 6 months ago
@MrHiepnotic yea it real sucks. My deepest condolences ,too ,manye ! I think its the western girls ( or those who grow up here). Most of them are way too much egoistic. They only think of being free and checkin out new things. The principle of freedom is only what they follow. There is no balance , like freedom and also being settled down. Therefore they dont have empathy which is damn important for being in a relationship.
Its been 3 weeks, I got over her slightly. Damn nightmares!
Jonnylovely100webde 6 months ago
MY EX BOYFRIEND I GAVE TO HIM EVERYTHING MY LOVE I LIVED WITH ME BECAUSE HE HAS NOWHERE TO GO AND ALL THAT TIME I DIDN T KNOW THAT HE HAD ANOTHER GIRL GOING OUT WITH I TOLD HIM TO GO AWAY I WAS SO DEPRESSED AFTER THAT
praga2018 7 months ago
have LOOK IN MY HOTO OF MY YOUTUBE BLOG ) :)I MADE A RING FLOWER
praga2018 7 months ago
I FEEL VERY HAPPY KANDEE WHEN I WALTCH VIDEOS I START TO DO A LOT OF THINGS RINGS ETC
praga2018 7 months ago
me i LOVED SOMEONE ELSE TOO MUCH AND AT THE END HE WAS SHEETTING ON ME WITH ONOTHER GIRL ( WHEN I KNEW IT I WAS SO DEPRESSED:(
praga2018 7 months ago
I LOVE THE FREAK OUT OF YOU :P XDDDDDD <333333
addacupofLIFEandLOVE 7 months ago
7:18 :D ... by the way this helped a lot! thank you so much! :*
kalle45699 7 months ago
You made me feel so much better girl. Thank you so much.
TheSeoulSis 7 months ago
I was broken up with yesterday... we were together for 2 years and he did it out of the blue :( I've never felt so broken... thank you Kandee, for being such a beautiful person and for helping me through this horrible time. Love you xo
TheElyzabethe 7 months ago
4:37 :)
My5Monkeys 7 months ago
i broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half, and my world revolved around him. i felt fine, like it was for the better. but that was a month ago. i feel horrible!
JaimeJo622 7 months ago
kandee. <3 you make me feel happier about myself and my life.
HerCandySh0p 7 months ago
watching this video really helped dry my tears. you're wonderful, from the bottom of my heart-thanks <3
XThePaleEnchantressX 7 months ago
i went through a break up where a guy cheated and all i could think was 'was i not enough for this guy? we live together but you have to cheat?!' come to find out that he was dating 3 girls all at the same time. those people are going to have to pay for what they do one day
skittles52us 7 months ago
@skittles52us I had an ex gf like that..hopefully they get what they deserve
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PurpleRosa7 7 months ago
i have been with my fiance for 5 years we have a 2 year old together and we lost the "spark" last night she told me she dont love me and that she's stuck with me she is the only thing ive ever known as of now we are still together, but for how long? shits stressful. that and we live together
417coty 7 months ago
Thank you.
Crgwal 7 months ago
you remind me of my older cousin callie, watching your show is like the closest thing to hanging out with her.
blackewolfe1 7 months ago
Guy number two sounds like a winner.
2DoubleLove 7 months ago
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MMArtist99 8 months ago