@heidishoshana F spot on!! I love fat girls, I love skinny too but I prefer chubby and I hate who calls me chubby chaser... I mean, WTF, I want to see if there was absolutely no guy who loves chubbies, I wanna see what this girl would be saying, the world is never ever happy, humans will never be grateful for what they get and will always take things for granted and only realize the value of it ones it's no longer there... Some people are destined to be miserable what ever god gives them...
I'm a big girl and know exactly what you mean. I hate the fact that men think that because I am big, that I am desperate and I'll take what I can get. Negative! I also hate the stereo types that big women like guys of ethnicity only. WTF? I am white and my husband of 5 years is white also. I didnt fall for him because of his color or size or anything, I fell for him because I love who he is. I dont see color or weight and neither should anyone else!!! And that was my RANT!!!
Well I admit I'm a chubby chaser. But that doesn't mean that I only like a guy because of his weight. I mean I find large guys really, really attractive but I also like guys with kind personalities. Chubby or skinny it really doesn't matter. Er get what I mean?
@xGrimsDaughterx I totally understand, and I think that's great. I'm not dissing Chubby Chasers. I'm dissing Chubby Chasers who think they should be awarded because they like a certain type of person that may not be normally considered desirable.
Ideally we should all want a partner who appreciates both our appearance and our personality. The reality is that initial attraction is often based on physical characteristics. Hating guys who prefer big girls seems pretty self defeating. They may be initially attracted to you because of your size, but if they seem like decent guys and not social morons give them a chance. Our culture's extremely narrow definition of beauty isn't just hard on big girls, it is hard on the men who love them.
Would you rather a guy like you "despite" your size, as opposed to "because" of your size? It is one or the other.......you just need to come to grips with the fact that your body is part of who you are; you can't penalize a guy for being attracted to you......you can penalize him if it is the ONLY thing about you he's attracted to, though. You are kinda cute, btw.
Damn, this actually opened my mind up to a lot of stuff. Not exactly a chubby chaser though. More into girls that are thick. But whatever. Thanks for this :D
sexual congress is NEVER only based on only liking ppl for themselves. It is based on liking your partner's body. Long term relationships maybe based on WHO u are.
If I want to love you for who you are, I have to consider that your body is also a part of you. I have to admit that I'm physically attracted to women who are chubbier and that's why I will obviously would want to be with them. Then again, if I find her really hot but I discover our personalities don't match I will not date/love her. Also, if I happen to really like her for her personality, but her body is just okay/average, I will still date her. I prefer intellect over body.
It seems like you don't like men approaching you period? well...curvy chasers are here to stay, srry, but you are entitled to your opinion im sure ashley graham would be proud to hear your *rant.*
I agree that guys who like thicker women aren't any more special than guys who like skinny chicks, & that some1 who just goes for chubby chicks without considering anything else but their weight is a fucking pig. But not everyone who goes for the juicier 1s the same tho. Admirers, not fat fetishists, appreciate and accept her body, as part of the whole picture, the way she is. We are all attracted to physical 1st, but it should not be assumed that this is all there is to FA, were jus norml guys.
I like this. I'm a person whos into bigger girls too, but I would never be so picky as to refuse a thinner lady, in the end its more about connecting with a person then finding the body that turns you on the most (although, i find many thin and regular women to be just as cute). Just because you have a preference doesnt mean thats all you should be interested in
I feel wut your saying suge but I still usually only go with big gals they are beutiful and that's wut I like but that don't make me an asshole cuz I like women with a lil meat on they're bones.
Well we all have a "type" and i can respect that. I'm not a small girl. 5'9 180 lbs. but I find it disrespectful if they want to just manhandle me :\ or think cuz im not a size 0 i'll put out that night. fuck them. i'll shove their chubby chasing trophy up their ass
GAH! EXACTLY. AMEN SIS! Seriously. I look at these bbw mags and sites and "movements" and im like, What the shit is this? Exploiting fat women is the same as exploiting and objectifying skinny women. And i completely agree.. As a big girl, you said exactly how i feel. Dont give me the garbage about loving fat girls, and think that will make you instantly attractive to me. Its as unattractive as saying "i only date girls who are a size 4" barf. all of it! LOVE YOU!
I think you may have rushed this a bit. I noticed you just commented saying you really want someone to love you for who you are, and what you look like, but at the end you said "Love me for me. Not my body." There's nothing wrong if you really wanted to that, but know that if you want both, you can get that from someone that identifies themself, physically admires and is attractive to what you look like.
Oh... and some of those guys are socially moronic, but not all of them are. :p
@TheAllArounder Thank you for your comments. I don't script my videos, I just kind of talk so it's easy to not say exactly what I'm thinking. I agree with all the points you put forth. It's not that I don't want to be admired for my body -- I just don't want it to be the only reason.
Also I've met men who "want a trophy" for dating big girls only. I find that offensive. So what you said about admirers admiring everything. That's the way it should be. THANKS!
2. Most people that identify as admiring big women title or not that I know are all about admiring the whole package. Some (And I mean the admirers) even considered it offensive to not admire everything.
Well you might feel I am biased because I'm attracted to big women (And thin women), but I think you might have mixed a few things too fast.
I'll just give you some notes about me as an example:
1. 60% of the battle is personality, and that's PUSHING it. It's generally more. I'd gladly turn someone down I find attractive that I don't get along with.
@heidishoshana I don't think I came across clear. I want a man who loves me AND my fat. Not JUST my fat .... and then my personality and everything else comes second.
@BigIsBeautyProject when someone approaches you in a club... or anywhere else, they are first and foremost attracted to your outward appearance... just because a guy is more attracted to your body type doesn't make him "gross" it makes him attracted to your body type. Maybe the fact that you want someone to love you for you AND your fat is what you meant... but it's not what you said. Everyone wants someone to like them for them... but know that guys who date fat girls are NOT bad people.
@heidishoshana for the record, i am also a fat chick and used to have the same opinion as you... but we can't be offended when a guy wants to like our bodies too, we have to accept that as we accept our own bodies.
I like big gals but I like average size girls too. I like a girl for who she is because there would be no way I'd date her if her pesonalty did not mesh well with me.
It's strange I've never heard it said in this way. It's only ever something I've heard by people being derogatory to a guy who has a bigger partner (still v nasty). Someone aiming to go out with a person with one particular look only is very creepy, definitely.
On the other hand people can't really choose what they find attractive but judging books by covers certainly almost never works out.
I used to work with this guy at my old building and he would wear this shirt when he wasnt working that said I Prefer Bigger Girls. He was definitely a chubby chaser. It was very creepy the way he was around this girl at work named Summer. She was a bigger girl and he would flock over to just be by her. He told me I looked like one of his ex-wives. CREEPY!
I feel like alot of guys who are 'chubby chasers' just think that bigger girls are an easier conquest. There seems to be a misconception that big people have lower self esteem and will be grateful for any attention. SO NOT TRUE!
I like the part where you say "that doesn't make you the saviour of the world because you date fat girls." I've totally run into that before. Also perfect video for Easter I thought, lol. I'd give you two thumbs up but it only lets me do one.
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ThaSpiderInternetsho 3 weeks ago
@heidishoshana F spot on!! I love fat girls, I love skinny too but I prefer chubby and I hate who calls me chubby chaser... I mean, WTF, I want to see if there was absolutely no guy who loves chubbies, I wanna see what this girl would be saying, the world is never ever happy, humans will never be grateful for what they get and will always take things for granted and only realize the value of it ones it's no longer there... Some people are destined to be miserable what ever god gives them...
joxatoni 5 months ago
I'm a big girl and know exactly what you mean. I hate the fact that men think that because I am big, that I am desperate and I'll take what I can get. Negative! I also hate the stereo types that big women like guys of ethnicity only. WTF? I am white and my husband of 5 years is white also. I didnt fall for him because of his color or size or anything, I fell for him because I love who he is. I dont see color or weight and neither should anyone else!!! And that was my RANT!!!
cnojmbg87 5 months ago
@cnojmbg87 I love LOVE love your comment. Thank You! Exactly the point I'm trying to get across.
BigIsBeautyProject 5 months ago
Well I admit I'm a chubby chaser. But that doesn't mean that I only like a guy because of his weight. I mean I find large guys really, really attractive but I also like guys with kind personalities. Chubby or skinny it really doesn't matter. Er get what I mean?
xGrimsDaughterx 6 months ago
@xGrimsDaughterx I totally understand, and I think that's great. I'm not dissing Chubby Chasers. I'm dissing Chubby Chasers who think they should be awarded because they like a certain type of person that may not be normally considered desirable.
BigIsBeautyProject 6 months ago
People are attracted to what they're attracted to. People aren't psychic...we don't know what you are like on "the inside". We figure that out later.
XZaapryca 7 months ago
@heidishoshana the second one :)
william52905 8 months ago
To these men who brag to me that they love big girls, I say - "Whattaya want, an award?!"
tushygalore 8 months ago
RIGHT ON!!! Love me for who I am not what I am!!
PCOStherealdeal 8 months ago
Ideally we should all want a partner who appreciates both our appearance and our personality. The reality is that initial attraction is often based on physical characteristics. Hating guys who prefer big girls seems pretty self defeating. They may be initially attracted to you because of your size, but if they seem like decent guys and not social morons give them a chance. Our culture's extremely narrow definition of beauty isn't just hard on big girls, it is hard on the men who love them.
litmus58 9 months ago 2
i definitely understand where you are coming from. thanks for sharing
SuicidalXlove1 9 months ago
Would you rather a guy like you "despite" your size, as opposed to "because" of your size? It is one or the other.......you just need to come to grips with the fact that your body is part of who you are; you can't penalize a guy for being attracted to you......you can penalize him if it is the ONLY thing about you he's attracted to, though. You are kinda cute, btw.
zpax87 10 months ago
lmao LOVE IT!! this was awesome Two thumbs way up!
SouthernSassyfied 10 months ago
Right on! skinny or fat shouldnt matter (btw you are lovely)
CresentSanctuary 10 months ago
Damn, this actually opened my mind up to a lot of stuff. Not exactly a chubby chaser though. More into girls that are thick. But whatever. Thanks for this :D
felixduhcat89 10 months ago
sexual congress is NEVER only based on only liking ppl for themselves. It is based on liking your partner's body. Long term relationships maybe based on WHO u are.
torresstr8 1 year ago
Personality should be the first thing, but its not. If they are chubby i will chase them. Your hot, smart and chubby. I like :)
bcoorough 1 year ago
If I want to love you for who you are, I have to consider that your body is also a part of you. I have to admit that I'm physically attracted to women who are chubbier and that's why I will obviously would want to be with them. Then again, if I find her really hot but I discover our personalities don't match I will not date/love her. Also, if I happen to really like her for her personality, but her body is just okay/average, I will still date her. I prefer intellect over body.
SesaruMKM 1 year ago
It seems like you don't like men approaching you period? well...curvy chasers are here to stay, srry, but you are entitled to your opinion im sure ashley graham would be proud to hear your *rant.*
JEEminn3000 1 year ago
I agree that guys who like thicker women aren't any more special than guys who like skinny chicks, & that some1 who just goes for chubby chicks without considering anything else but their weight is a fucking pig. But not everyone who goes for the juicier 1s the same tho. Admirers, not fat fetishists, appreciate and accept her body, as part of the whole picture, the way she is. We are all attracted to physical 1st, but it should not be assumed that this is all there is to FA, were jus norml guys.
Zendau007 1 year ago
I like this. I'm a person whos into bigger girls too, but I would never be so picky as to refuse a thinner lady, in the end its more about connecting with a person then finding the body that turns you on the most (although, i find many thin and regular women to be just as cute). Just because you have a preference doesnt mean thats all you should be interested in
LiveUpLink 1 year ago
Love love love this ;)
DameDeluxe 1 year ago
I feel wut your saying suge but I still usually only go with big gals they are beutiful and that's wut I like but that don't make me an asshole cuz I like women with a lil meat on they're bones.
Pnutt5100 1 year ago
Well we all have a "type" and i can respect that. I'm not a small girl. 5'9 180 lbs. but I find it disrespectful if they want to just manhandle me :\ or think cuz im not a size 0 i'll put out that night. fuck them. i'll shove their chubby chasing trophy up their ass
freakinandroid 1 year ago
@freakinandroid I love this comment!!
BigIsBeautyProject 1 year ago
you have to have visual attraction before mental or psychical
janedilldoe 1 year ago
all you chubby chasers you can talk to me =)
janedilldoe 1 year ago
GAH! EXACTLY. AMEN SIS! Seriously. I look at these bbw mags and sites and "movements" and im like, What the shit is this? Exploiting fat women is the same as exploiting and objectifying skinny women. And i completely agree.. As a big girl, you said exactly how i feel. Dont give me the garbage about loving fat girls, and think that will make you instantly attractive to me. Its as unattractive as saying "i only date girls who are a size 4" barf. all of it! LOVE YOU!
Emilykristakap 1 year ago
I think you may have rushed this a bit. I noticed you just commented saying you really want someone to love you for who you are, and what you look like, but at the end you said "Love me for me. Not my body." There's nothing wrong if you really wanted to that, but know that if you want both, you can get that from someone that identifies themself, physically admires and is attractive to what you look like.
Oh... and some of those guys are socially moronic, but not all of them are. :p
TheAllArounder 1 year ago
@TheAllArounder Thank you for your comments. I don't script my videos, I just kind of talk so it's easy to not say exactly what I'm thinking. I agree with all the points you put forth. It's not that I don't want to be admired for my body -- I just don't want it to be the only reason.
Also I've met men who "want a trophy" for dating big girls only. I find that offensive. So what you said about admirers admiring everything. That's the way it should be. THANKS!
BigIsBeautyProject 1 year ago
2. Most people that identify as admiring big women title or not that I know are all about admiring the whole package. Some (And I mean the admirers) even considered it offensive to not admire everything.
TheAllArounder 1 year ago
Well you might feel I am biased because I'm attracted to big women (And thin women), but I think you might have mixed a few things too fast.
I'll just give you some notes about me as an example:
1. 60% of the battle is personality, and that's PUSHING it. It's generally more. I'd gladly turn someone down I find attractive that I don't get along with.
TheAllArounder 1 year ago
@heidishoshana I don't think I came across clear. I want a man who loves me AND my fat. Not JUST my fat .... and then my personality and everything else comes second.
BigIsBeautyProject 1 year ago
@BigIsBeautyProject when someone approaches you in a club... or anywhere else, they are first and foremost attracted to your outward appearance... just because a guy is more attracted to your body type doesn't make him "gross" it makes him attracted to your body type. Maybe the fact that you want someone to love you for you AND your fat is what you meant... but it's not what you said. Everyone wants someone to like them for them... but know that guys who date fat girls are NOT bad people.
heidishoshana 1 year ago
@heidishoshana Well said heidishoshana!
JEEminn3000 1 year ago
@heidishoshana for the record, i am also a fat chick and used to have the same opinion as you... but we can't be offended when a guy wants to like our bodies too, we have to accept that as we accept our own bodies.
heidishoshana 1 year ago
I completely agree with this video!!! Ugh.. I hate chubby chasers too...its like.. there's MORE to me than my "big booty" ugh.. LOL
RiotGrrrlGess 1 year ago
Objectification is still objectification.
I like big gals but I like average size girls too. I like a girl for who she is because there would be no way I'd date her if her pesonalty did not mesh well with me.
MrBadassButch 1 year ago
@MrBadassButch totally spot on im just the same
william52905 8 months ago
good point!:D
loquitapordyankee 1 year ago
I completely agree with you!! couldn't of said it better!
GeekyArt 1 year ago
A-freakin'-men. Couldn't have said it better.
<333
fatgirlwithadream 1 year ago
Ah! I totally get where you're coming from.
I mean people have a type, but that should only go so far.
Samantha... you're pretty fantastic =)
xo
ahhxamy 1 year ago
this sounds SUSPICIOUSLY like a rant.
ArielSabaj 1 year ago
I LOVE YOU.
You make such a good point, nobody could have said it any better.
<3
MissBigBeauty 1 year ago
It's strange I've never heard it said in this way. It's only ever something I've heard by people being derogatory to a guy who has a bigger partner (still v nasty). Someone aiming to go out with a person with one particular look only is very creepy, definitely.
On the other hand people can't really choose what they find attractive but judging books by covers certainly almost never works out.
AlleyBoy81 1 year ago
great <3
onthegoodshiplollie 1 year ago
Exactly!
Nuff said! lol
AndSoShePaints 1 year ago
Exactly!
Nuff said! lol
AndSoShePaints 1 year ago
you. are awesome.
redartist27 1 year ago
I used to work with this guy at my old building and he would wear this shirt when he wasnt working that said I Prefer Bigger Girls. He was definitely a chubby chaser. It was very creepy the way he was around this girl at work named Summer. She was a bigger girl and he would flock over to just be by her. He told me I looked like one of his ex-wives. CREEPY!
caligrl0630 1 year ago
I totally agree, sam! I'm quite tired of being liked for what i am, not who i am.
krysteenahkills 1 year ago
I feel like alot of guys who are 'chubby chasers' just think that bigger girls are an easier conquest. There seems to be a misconception that big people have lower self esteem and will be grateful for any attention. SO NOT TRUE!
tjd2e 1 year ago
Well said. Amen!
Oh, You have gorgeous brown eyes!!! :)
RippledStarr 1 year ago
@RippledStarr Thank you!! You're so kind.
SaithJC 1 year ago
Brought me back to being 15 with the intro music.
whitestripesiluv 1 year ago
@whitestripesiluv I actually liked Ashlee Simpson's music ... it was very "I love myself" kind of music.
SaithJC 1 year ago
Amen, sistah-girl!
ilikepebbles 1 year ago
not only do I like this, I love this. <3
see you on tinychat soon, I hope :]
supbry 1 year ago
So well-spoken! Love this :)
AdamKaoru 1 year ago
YES! i totally agree
vivalaleslo 1 year ago
I like the part where you say "that doesn't make you the saviour of the world because you date fat girls." I've totally run into that before. Also perfect video for Easter I thought, lol. I'd give you two thumbs up but it only lets me do one.
privatelaun 1 year ago