tthat def wasnt too deep..i say the SAME stuff and my hubby thinks im a wacko..lol..however. atleast show us her cute little pajamas and shoes. LOL>>> love u shira!
I understand you. I personally have so many friend who put pics of their baby (newborns) on the web and I feel its wrong. I will be giving birth in june and I don't believe it's safe to put pics of your baby on the web simply because of how people are and that it's none of their business.
You have an awesome personality and a beautiful outlook on life. Your reasoning makes complete sense. Congratulations btw. Angelis is a beautiful name :-) x
I COMPLETELY understand what you are saying! You are speaking real TRUTH! That's why I love your videos...you are open minded for sure.I have two "evil eye" bracelets and I'm going to post a mirror as well now. It took me 3mos to post pictures of my baby on FB and even now I have very few up and I don't like people sharing pictures of him with others that I don't know. A mother's love is fierce and that energy is capable of ANYTHING, especially when it comes to protecting! xo
I completely agree and respect your decision to not show your baby.... I do feel that a lot of people get caught-up in this whole YT shit.... I think some things (Kids) should be kept private!
I understand and appreciate you're explaining your reasoning...BUT...that's your baby and your call. If anyone has a problem with that then they just have a problem. You have to follow your intuition. We (some of us) love you guys and will continue to lift u up in prayer!
TheBronzeGoddess on YouTube prayed for you and I just wanted to send my love and prayers your way. May Peace, blessings, and an abundance of joy fill your life and your precious daughter. Stay positive!! xoxo
I was so excited Shira, when I heard you were having a baby, I have been watching/inspired by your videos since well I think the beginning of you being on youtube. I am so happy for you . I wish you and your baby girl such blessings. You have always been such a blessing to me. love ya girl
Believe me, all mother know how deeply you feel about your baby! And we do get that feeling beginning in the womb. It is the weirdest thing. You feel SO fiercely about that love that you would protect your baby in any way and at all costs. I totally understand. Congrats and many good wishes!
I understand why.u don't want to show ur baby. I also suffer with depression so I can definitely relate to u on that. Just know u have loyal subbies out here that love and support u. Blessings.
Girl please you do not have to explain to anyone why you dont want to show your little one. You are the mom and you must do whats best for your child the opinions of a bunch of strangers does not even matter. For those of us that love you all we really care about is your health and the baby getting here and being healthy as well.
I completely understand your decision to keep baby off camera. As parents our first responsibility is to protect and guide our child--not the entertainment of others. Many blessings for gu both.
you are right because it has happened to me when I was a baby and still to this day..I am haitian and I understand.. my life is WWIII..I am always in constant battle for everything I want/ need...God is good and never changes...he keeps his promises.
evil eye exists as a concept in romania too. people put red bands on their kids so they can't be "bewitched" in the sense of becoming the object of other people's negative energies/jealousy etc
I definitely know what you're talking about and I agree; negative energy can harm ppl. Sending positive vibes your way!!!! :0) Have a safe delivery Shira!
ohhh im so upset i missed the baby daddy video and that you aren't showing the baby. but i completely understand ..some people just like to be hateful. but congrats on the baby,continue to stay positive and best wishes to you and for baby daddy as well. much love shira:)
I totally support your decision. I never post my child in any of my videos, even peripherally. I have safety concerns putting my daughter's image out on the web. I try to protect details of where I live, but still. I'm not judging ppl who do put their kids in videos. To each his own. Take care!
"talking" to you is like "talking" to a best friend whos lived life and doesnt want you to repeat any of her mistakes even if they were minute. I adore you.
Awwww I've been wathcin your vids for quite sometime and was so geeked up about your little one on the way (as if we know each other lol). I'm sad to hear we won't get to see her, but girl I can understand your position. Those people that come looking for you in order to say something negative; their opinions mean nothing (u already know they're bein a-holes!). However it's 1 thing to say it about you, you can handle yourself, but I can see you wanting to protect your child! We love u still!!!
I like you, our beliefs are similar, my mother used to call them psychic attacks! Some people just don't have your best interest at heart, it is what it is, it's up to you to protect yourself and yours. Wishing you health and happiness for the New Year, enjoy your new bundle of love.
I believe in energy, and I respect your decision to protect your baby from negativity. It's sad that we live in a world where we can't put our loved ones-especially our children out there like that without the risk of negative attention and hatred and so on. God bless you, your baby daddy and that beautiful baby.
I would have been so upset if you HAD shown the baby! you are a mother and not an attention whore so thats why you'd be mad. Fuck anybody who thinks otherwise. Great parenting decision!
I just wanted to say i really enjoy watching your videos and am pleased that you will not be showing your baby, you already share so much of yourself with us, you need to keep something for yourself and a prescious new life is to be protected. All i ask is that you keep us updated on her progress, you don't have to have a visual picture of a person in your mind to know how they are doing. All the best on the birth, i know you will be a great mother your daughter has so much to learn from you.
You are so damn intelligent, if you had your own syndicated television show, you will make millions inspiring not only other but yourself day by day. It's not so much that you talk to talk, you speak reality and it's just great. I dont know you at all & I know you have a great heart. They say good things come to those who wait, and your waited now your gift is almost here . :)
I understand. You can be a genuine person, who is not looking to insult anyone, just to share something about yourself, and YT people will tear you up. they twist your words and situations into something that isn't even real. I would never share info about my siginificant other or children on YT either. Some people are nice, but many are very cruel.
Glad you're not showing the baby. I had a gut feeling that you wouldn't. Good call, although you know we would love to see her. Maybe one day...til then, hopefully everyone supports your decision.
Shira it's called the"evil eye" that is not a one cultured thing. As a muslim we also feel that people who are jealous dare I say, can envy you so to the point where it becomes dangerous for you. it's your baby and she is all that matters,you are solely responsible for her well being. Do what YOU feel best!
Oftentimes, we go about the business of our everyday lives acutely aware of things in the natural realm. Sometimes, we forget about things in the spirit realm (energies, principalities, etc). Ephesians 6:12 states "for we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places" Shira i so understand where you are coming from. God is able, and we thank him for wisdom to know this!
I pray in the mighty name of Jesus that any fiery darts sent toward Shira&family be diverted back to the sender, cause her enemies known/unknown to become her footstool. Father, I pray that all spirits unlike you which try to overtake Shira are cancelled out. I loose joy, peace, spritial awareness, focus, happiness,energy, revival, lovingkindness, and favor in Shira's Life. I decree and declare in Jesus name that she will be set free&walk in her deilverance& healing. In Jesus name. AMEN!
Father,God keep Shira and baby girl, hedged-in and protected by the blood of Jesus. Cancel out the assignment of the enemy and those who are doing his bidding knowing/unknowingly.
Shira hunny, ppl talked about Jesus Christ and look how great he is! So ignore ignorance and overlook stupidity! Congrats on the little one and may God continue to bless you and keep you!
I agree with your decision not to show her. Mal de hojo is definitely out there and ppl do it to children all the time. dominicans always have the babys wear an "asabache" (don't know if thats the correct spelling) at all times and if someone is looking at the baby and say "oh how cute or smart" or something without saying god bless her/him, we say "caga pa tu culo" (to ourselves not out loud)
We call that "Bad Eye". It's in a lot of different cultures. I read about it in my Italian class too. It was related to when people say they like something you have and you offer it to them just so they won't bad eye you. But some people think it can cause sickness. That's why I can't post pics of my 14 month old sister on my channel. She has a rare form of leukemia and I wanted to make videos of her progress but I'm worried about people bad eyeing her, so I totally feel you on this.
I understand but a small selfish side of me really wanted to see your precious gift. However, as a mom I understand. I'm just being honest. Many blessings to you, your beautiful girl, yours, and his family.
I totally feel you on this one....some moments and people are precious esp. babies. People are crazy and want to wish bad stuff on you just cause....or some folks are just jealous for whatever their personal issues are. when your daughter can say "mommy I want to be on YT" then that's how it should be. Thx for the awesome vids
nooooo girl u are right!!!! el mal de ojo smh ppl do that to babies which is upsetting. i back yuu up 100% if youu dont wanna show uus what matters to yuu most . take care !!!!!!!!! xoxo
I've been hiding under a rock for a while... I really didn't know you were preggers but CONGRATULATIONS!!! I'm excited for you!!! (I'm such a dork...lol)
You know what....F#$% them A#% People.....I don't think you should put up your baby. I am glad your not going to because of STUPID people...like OMG I had to take a blog comment down on a forum because people think wrong and dont even ask what are your intentions. ITS LIKE PEOPLE WANT YOU TO BE OPEN AND OUT THERE then when you are they have picked out everything wrong....GET A LIFE!!!!
I burn sage frequently. Anytime that I feel like the energy in my house is off, or somebody came to my house and brought something negative with them, and just threw the balance in my house off... Best believe I'm about to start praying and burning sage. And there is no reason to apologize to your viewers for not showing your child. It's your baby, and you have to protect her spiritually as well as physically. Blessings!
Baby's are to open to protect themselves from negative energy. So I understand why you feel this way. But, I'm still going to be very curious what your cute little diva will look like!
first of all, if you only are able to put up a video once a damn year i will be happy! I'm sure the baby will be happy, healthy, and just as beautiful a person as you are! The people here supporting you are in much more of an abundance than the people who are trying to knock you. We love you girl! I'm sending all my happy energies your way!
I get what u're saying 100% ,sad I wont get to see ur beautyful baby girl when she gets here but it cool she's just as beautyful as u(in my mind). I know that may sound crazy because we dont know each other...i just overstand energy,vibes and everything else. U r blessed to become a mom,u're going to love it. :-)
@Sugerfreetv its totally up to u what u choose and I believe you have a good heart and a wonderful spirit. So all the negativity thats going on just be strong and not stress out it not good for u or baby girl. I love your channel and I will continue to support and watch the tip you give. May God continually bless you and yours.
I totally, completely and thoroughly "feel you" for not putting your precious child out there! A good parent protects their child(ren) at all costs and responsible mothers are on guard-duty from conception/pregnancy forward. Your maternal instincts are on point, so trust them and pursue what you believe is best for you and your daughter without question or apology. Also, the best response to "haters" is (your) continued progress. Keep your head up--Mother's Day is just around the corner!
Shira I completely understand you not showing your diva to the world. Take care of you and yours and I'm praying for a healthy and safe delivery. I know you're ready for her to come!!
why do ppl take their time out to talk bad about others.. like they literally TAKE TIME 0UT.. if youre on thier blog being bashed they T00K 0UT TIME to PLAN ... l0l smh.. and then talking negative about your situations -___- ...this really strengthens my heuristics (the stage just before hate) about some ppl.. You not showing your daughter is totally understandable.. ppl are mean as hell >=(
I pray that you have all the blessing in to world. I know that your baby will be the most love girl in the world. For people how wish bad on others it always come back to them. God will bring you through. lol I never comment I enjoy witching. God Love
Im big into energy my cuzin was at my home btw shes a meanie anyways she asked did i need help cooking i kindly said NO i didnt want her bad energy transfered into my food! N i did burn so inscents when she left n i do have a 7 foot mirror at my door
love your videos and your spirit overall...take all the time you need to care for your baby I know she will be something amazing. congrats again and whenever u decide to return I'll be here still supporting your channel no matter what. Sending love, peace, and strength to u and yours : )
Congrats on your little bundle of joy and, also I agree with you 100% do not show your baby on internet you have to protect your baby and, you're not suppose to invite viewers into your life because, it's suppose private you don't even have to explain.
You are a smart and beautiful person to protect the ones you love. It's your life and it's none of anyones business how you handle your life. The one's you love will love you even more. Take care of yourself, your beautiful baby, family and friends. Stay strong, get plenty of sleep and eat right. Keep all things and people around you positive. I believe in Carma, if you send good energy out into the world it will come back to you a thousand times over. Blessings.
I don`t know if this is a tradition in other countries probably it is , but in Mexico we put red thread like a little bracelet in babies to prevent evil eye, this is so real I mean babies get really sick and cry a lot ! I definitely agree with you.
Sometimes people on the YT act like they are crazy and completely detached from all normal human behavior, so I don't blame you. I'm sure your baby is going to be gorgeous, but there will be some fool who will say something inappropriate so don't put yourself out there like that. Tambien, toque la pantalla para que no le pusiera ojo. Felicidades, mamacita!
I'm with you on not showing the baby. I have made a couple preggo videos, but I don't plan on showing my baby. No way! I already feel way too protective for that. If I got one negative comment about the baby I would flip!
@steelepixie I did want to ask if you would be sharing the name of your little one? I've been curious since you made the "I need a name" video. If my little one is a girl her name will be Zahrah. It means "blooming flower; bright flower". Juliette for the middle name, which means "youthful".
:( you should disable the comments and ratings on the vid...newborn baby's look the same for about a split second. I hate that you feel that way but I unfortunately understand b/c some ppl are crazy & get really bold & rude while sitting in front of a computer
Hunny you are making a good choice! Keep your child private! People are nosey and to be truthful they didn't even need to see "baby daddy" because this channel is about you and your awesome personality NOT about everything that should be personal to you....some things should stay private! Ignore those losers!
As a mother of a 2.5 year old baby girl, let me tell you, you cannot imagine the love you will have for her once you hold get in your arms!! It's unreal. You share what you feel comfortable sharing, I have my fam on my channel and even though I get do many positive responses just one can make you question. Congratulations and hold on sister!! Exhaustion like the one you're about to encounter is like no other!!
Girl, that's your baby. You're not obligated to show us at all! But I appreciate you just letting us know in advance. It shocks me that people are dedicating blog posts to putting you down. What freaking losers!!!! Best wishes for you and the baby.
Karma is a busy lady, she'll come back with that negativity on them. it often comes back even stronger that the negativity they put out in the first place. love you <3 fan from norway :D
It's kind of funny because for some reason I never expected you to show the baby... I don't know why. It just never really crossed my mind. I totally don't blame you either. People can be horrible. I don't know if you've ever watched Shaytards but some of the comments people leave towards the kids are just awful. I guess people think because it's online that it's like bashing a character on a TV show, and they forget these are real people.
now i'm confused, i know you're black but i thought u were full blooded dominican like both of your parents were lol not trying to be funny tho. you're always speaking spanish and i thought u mentioned that u were in an old vid .... maybe i'm tripping lol
i am african;nigerian to be exact and i get you.. my mom never tells people she is pregnant even her own kids ...lol...i never understood that when i was younger but now I get!!! the world can be dangerous or is !
@isybabe im nigerian as well and my good friend's mother just had a baby and almost no one knew she was pregnant. lol probably because she was afraid of juju lol
I totally understand where you are coming from. Even though I would love to see your baby, I have watched your channel progress over the years and one thing that has been consistent is that you are about POSITIVE energy. It is unfortunate that people spend their time putting negative energy into the world when they could change that and make it positive. Wishing you all the best in the last stages of your pregnacy.
I totally understand you in this video. My daughter is half Dominican as well, and she had to wear this golden pin with a black bead on it until she was a year old to protect her from negative energy.
Shira, I don't know you but I feel you and I get you. Funny, you say that. I didn't carry pic of son with me. It wasn't because I didn't love him or liked the way he looked. Ppl would look at me sideways and say I wasn't a good mom. I was concerned about the motive behind why ppl wanted to see him. Everyone doesn't mean well or want you to prosper. I like your perspective on this subject. I would have a hussy fit when ppl would rub my belly without permission. Energy ain't nothing to play with.
Congratulations on your baby! I understand why you wouldn't show us your baby because can be mean and it is hurtful sometimes. Idc if we don't get to see the baby because shes your buisness and I all is well! I love you girl!
shira don't worry about what they say about you because you are amazing and I love and enjoy watching God Bless You and the baby and I totally understand why you don't want to show the baby
I respect your decision to do what you feel is right by your child. Anybody who doesn't, that is their problem not yours. We would all love to see the baby but we understand why you wouldn't want to show her. I am 18 weeks with twins and I don't think I'd want my children posted all over the internet. It's a personal decision that every woman has to make.
Shera honey I love how it seems like were (me and you, or you and the other people that watch) having a conversation lol when you ask things like "do you understand what I'm saying?" I answer by shaking my head lol sounds weird but I love that aspect of all your talk videos.
i respect this awesome decision but if you privately care to have a mother group or something im down lol ...my boy is two right now and we need to always stay in touch to raise the next generation right .....all is good and i appreciate your words ...people dont acknowledge the value of their words so they speack non sense ....bla blah ....God bless you and your little girl , may an over load of joy and laughther be spent btw you two .... take care
I totally agree with you about keeping your little one private and off of the internet/YouTube. Happy to see you posting and giving us an update and I'm glad that you are doing well!
sorry to hear that happened to you. but you have every right not to show your child. you even need to put out and excuse. its a shame but unfortunately people like that exist.
shira i understand your saying there is a spiritual world as well as this physical and there are truly evil ppl in the world i know im only posting a few pics of my son once he comes out in april just bc i dont want him all up on fb like that. your lil girl is very lucky to have you as a momma to teach her these crazy thing that actually do exist.
If I made videos on youtube too I would do the same... I'm still skeptical about putting pictures of my son on facebook.. If I do I put them private so only family can see
I absolutely understood everything you said && thing it's a great decision that's you've chosen not to show the baby .. Something's are personal and meant to keep between you and whom ever .. I really loved this video it was to the point where I was talking to the screen lol like yes girl I understand .. Lol
i was with you soon as you said you wouldnt show her.
i think negative energy can come from anywhere. it always makes me uncomfortable when some wants to pray for me or cook for me. they get offended when i ask them not to. but really i dont know what you serve.
I find you inspirational. People are so cruel out there. I absolutey agree with your reasoning for not putting the littleun out there. You certainly shouldn't have to explain yourself either. I'm a midwife and a mother in the UK and I hope all goes well with your delivery of this special girl :)
yes. yess. i kno what you are talking about regarding the energy. it Is truth
eerised227 2 weeks ago
tthat def wasnt too deep..i say the SAME stuff and my hubby thinks im a wacko..lol..however. atleast show us her cute little pajamas and shoes. LOL>>> love u shira!
realfam1969 2 weeks ago
I understand you. I personally have so many friend who put pics of their baby (newborns) on the web and I feel its wrong. I will be giving birth in june and I don't believe it's safe to put pics of your baby on the web simply because of how people are and that it's none of their business.
edvykoi 2 weeks ago
i wish more people would respect their childrens' privacy/innocence on youtube. i totally get it.
thebabymuse 2 weeks ago
BTW totally agree with you about the existence of negative energy - totally
MissSabrinaChristine 2 weeks ago
You have an awesome personality and a beautiful outlook on life. Your reasoning makes complete sense. Congratulations btw. Angelis is a beautiful name :-) x
MissSabrinaChristine 2 weeks ago
I COMPLETELY understand what you are saying! You are speaking real TRUTH! That's why I love your videos...you are open minded for sure.I have two "evil eye" bracelets and I'm going to post a mirror as well now. It took me 3mos to post pictures of my baby on FB and even now I have very few up and I don't like people sharing pictures of him with others that I don't know. A mother's love is fierce and that energy is capable of ANYTHING, especially when it comes to protecting! xo
msmeekavision 3 weeks ago
I completely agree and respect your decision to not show your baby.... I do feel that a lot of people get caught-up in this whole YT shit.... I think some things (Kids) should be kept private!
StryofmyHair 3 weeks ago
I respect you... i respect you... i respect you...
Mingley01 4 weeks ago
that was the bomb diggity!! you are soo candid and I totally got what you were saying! I pray that God keeps you and your baby safe!
southernfriedpeaches 1 month ago
I totally agree with your reasons. You are a very wise person.
berryberry87 1 month ago
I understand and appreciate you're explaining your reasoning...BUT...that's your baby and your call. If anyone has a problem with that then they just have a problem. You have to follow your intuition. We (some of us) love you guys and will continue to lift u up in prayer!
MsUnique82 1 month ago
TheBronzeGoddess on YouTube prayed for you and I just wanted to send my love and prayers your way. May Peace, blessings, and an abundance of joy fill your life and your precious daughter. Stay positive!! xoxo
TheChanaImani 1 month ago
May GOD be with you and may he pour his love out on you and your baby. PEACE and BLESSINGS over your lives. The bronze goddess sent me.
MrsDarkberry 1 month ago
I was so excited Shira, when I heard you were having a baby, I have been watching/inspired by your videos since well I think the beginning of you being on youtube. I am so happy for you . I wish you and your baby girl such blessings. You have always been such a blessing to me. love ya girl
lilymoon0f0 1 month ago
Believe me, all mother know how deeply you feel about your baby! And we do get that feeling beginning in the womb. It is the weirdest thing. You feel SO fiercely about that love that you would protect your baby in any way and at all costs. I totally understand. Congrats and many good wishes!
whateverismyanthem 1 month ago
WOW..I love ur videos..ur so on point abt so many things..I feel like u could b my homegirl..I know ur busy but I would love 2 c more videos!
one2keepitrl 1 month ago
I understand why.u don't want to show ur baby. I also suffer with depression so I can definitely relate to u on that. Just know u have loyal subbies out here that love and support u. Blessings.
beautiijunkii 1 month ago
Girl please you do not have to explain to anyone why you dont want to show your little one. You are the mom and you must do whats best for your child the opinions of a bunch of strangers does not even matter. For those of us that love you all we really care about is your health and the baby getting here and being healthy as well.
lips03 1 month ago
i should do hate that! i wanted to see him! have a wonderful healthy baby! love u! chrissy!
christprp 1 month ago
*you
LovefromChee 1 month ago
I completely understand your decision to keep baby off camera. As parents our first responsibility is to protect and guide our child--not the entertainment of others. Many blessings for gu both.
LovefromChee 1 month ago
you are right because it has happened to me when I was a baby and still to this day..I am haitian and I understand.. my life is WWIII..I am always in constant battle for everything I want/ need...God is good and never changes...he keeps his promises.
CMCFA 1 month ago
good that is good because many people are VERY negative
333ld0 1 month ago
I'm sure you've had you're beautiful baby already so I want to say : Congrats ! Enjoy you beautiful babe and try to get some rest .
1stHumesgirl 1 month ago
i bet she's BEAUTIFUL
ericapopularr 1 month ago in playlist More videos from SugarFreeTV
evil eye exists as a concept in romania too. people put red bands on their kids so they can't be "bewitched" in the sense of becoming the object of other people's negative energies/jealousy etc
rheakurokawa 1 month ago
I definitely know what you're talking about and I agree; negative energy can harm ppl. Sending positive vibes your way!!!! :0) Have a safe delivery Shira!
MzMysty83 1 month ago
beautiful strong woman you are shira.. we love you.. :)
Babylia69 1 month ago
All I want to say nice see you doing fine and the baby bless you love your videos. And I understand so good luck
lovelyhearts15 1 month ago
ohhh im so upset i missed the baby daddy video and that you aren't showing the baby. but i completely understand ..some people just like to be hateful. but congrats on the baby,continue to stay positive and best wishes to you and for baby daddy as well. much love shira:)
southatlantazone3 1 month ago
Congrats on the baby & hope you get over the depression asap! you're a great person
goanerr 1 month ago
I totally support your decision. I never post my child in any of my videos, even peripherally. I have safety concerns putting my daughter's image out on the web. I try to protect details of where I live, but still. I'm not judging ppl who do put their kids in videos. To each his own. Take care!
shivayalovsmakeup 1 month ago
"talking" to you is like "talking" to a best friend whos lived life and doesnt want you to repeat any of her mistakes even if they were minute. I adore you.
MsLouloubelle 1 month ago
Ihope ur baby brings u more joy then shes doing being in ur tummy(: ur going tk be a great. Mom u dnt need a man!;) -33
AngieeBooBearr 1 month ago
Ur videoss are so cool!:) u seem like someone i would be close too!!:D
AngieeBooBearr 1 month ago
Mal de ojo= evil eye :-) hope you have a great birthing experience mamita
hacerican 1 month ago
your decision its completely supported by us!
congrats once again on the baby, im sure she is beautiful!
love you shira!!
cenalover386 1 month ago
Dont show her. we'll survive. But i wish i knew you so i could see!
XtinaLucia 1 month ago
Truly understandable &congrats on you bein a mother!!!!
artistic84chick84 1 month ago
Aww
luvbabycakes1996 1 month ago
Awwww I've been wathcin your vids for quite sometime and was so geeked up about your little one on the way (as if we know each other lol). I'm sad to hear we won't get to see her, but girl I can understand your position. Those people that come looking for you in order to say something negative; their opinions mean nothing (u already know they're bein a-holes!). However it's 1 thing to say it about you, you can handle yourself, but I can see you wanting to protect your child! We love u still!!!
tazialekae 2 months ago in playlist Monthly Updates
They don't like you yet they keep making you relevant so....I called you btw
Syreetafan 2 months ago
I am nodding my head agreeing with you. I appreciate the way you broke it down.
vipbraids 2 months ago
I like you, our beliefs are similar, my mother used to call them psychic attacks! Some people just don't have your best interest at heart, it is what it is, it's up to you to protect yourself and yours. Wishing you health and happiness for the New Year, enjoy your new bundle of love.
Cherokeeutube2 2 months ago
U r alright with me. Take care u and your baby. Be bless
markie19541 2 months ago
i agree with u and respect ur decision
MONIEMAMA 2 months ago
I get it Shira. I'll be a Lioness over my children. Pray against ALL opposition coming against you and all you love in the name of Jesus.
Syreetafan 2 months ago
Don't read blogs about you miserable people love to be
internet thugs.
Syreetafan 2 months ago
@Syreetafan i know girl, sometimes i just be bored and google myself lol... i think everyone is guilty (maybe not everyone lol)
SugarFreeTV 2 months ago
I believe in energy, and I respect your decision to protect your baby from negativity. It's sad that we live in a world where we can't put our loved ones-especially our children out there like that without the risk of negative attention and hatred and so on. God bless you, your baby daddy and that beautiful baby.
stufftoon06 2 months ago
I would have been so upset if you HAD shown the baby! you are a mother and not an attention whore so thats why you'd be mad. Fuck anybody who thinks otherwise. Great parenting decision!
sleepi98 2 months ago
I understand and respect your decision.
msjlynnsmith 2 months ago
Makes perfect sense to me. But you aint waitin for no approval Sweetness.
NaturallyFierceOne 2 months ago
I just wanted to say i really enjoy watching your videos and am pleased that you will not be showing your baby, you already share so much of yourself with us, you need to keep something for yourself and a prescious new life is to be protected. All i ask is that you keep us updated on her progress, you don't have to have a visual picture of a person in your mind to know how they are doing. All the best on the birth, i know you will be a great mother your daughter has so much to learn from you.
MissEnglish2010 2 months ago
You are so damn intelligent, if you had your own syndicated television show, you will make millions inspiring not only other but yourself day by day. It's not so much that you talk to talk, you speak reality and it's just great. I dont know you at all & I know you have a great heart. They say good things come to those who wait, and your waited now your gift is almost here . :)
neverdat1994 2 months ago
@neverdat1994 thanks... so nice of you!
SugarFreeTV 2 months ago
I understand. You can be a genuine person, who is not looking to insult anyone, just to share something about yourself, and YT people will tear you up. they twist your words and situations into something that isn't even real. I would never share info about my siginificant other or children on YT either. Some people are nice, but many are very cruel.
kabrinam 2 months ago
I completely understand your decision in choosing not to show her to the world.
RebirthofMillie 2 months ago
Glad you're not showing the baby. I had a gut feeling that you wouldn't. Good call, although you know we would love to see her. Maybe one day...til then, hopefully everyone supports your decision.
alishamyra 2 months ago
Shira it's called the"evil eye" that is not a one cultured thing. As a muslim we also feel that people who are jealous dare I say, can envy you so to the point where it becomes dangerous for you. it's your baby and she is all that matters,you are solely responsible for her well being. Do what YOU feel best!
keamoussaoui13 2 months ago 6
@keamoussaoui13 what can i say, i am ignorant of that being a worldly thing, but it does make sense that it would pervade multiple cultures :)
SugarFreeTV 2 months ago
You're a genius. Always love hearing your insight on situations.
zziiee 2 months ago
We would've been best friends...transparent, funny, beeat of a different drummer...love it -don't change!
williamsivy 2 months ago
Oftentimes, we go about the business of our everyday lives acutely aware of things in the natural realm. Sometimes, we forget about things in the spirit realm (energies, principalities, etc). Ephesians 6:12 states "for we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places" Shira i so understand where you are coming from. God is able, and we thank him for wisdom to know this!
chinky880 2 months ago 2
I pray in the mighty name of Jesus that any fiery darts sent toward Shira&family be diverted back to the sender, cause her enemies known/unknown to become her footstool. Father, I pray that all spirits unlike you which try to overtake Shira are cancelled out. I loose joy, peace, spritial awareness, focus, happiness,energy, revival, lovingkindness, and favor in Shira's Life. I decree and declare in Jesus name that she will be set free&walk in her deilverance& healing. In Jesus name. AMEN!
chinky880 2 months ago
Father,God keep Shira and baby girl, hedged-in and protected by the blood of Jesus. Cancel out the assignment of the enemy and those who are doing his bidding knowing/unknowingly.
chinky880 2 months ago 17
Shira hunny, ppl talked about Jesus Christ and look how great he is! So ignore ignorance and overlook stupidity! Congrats on the little one and may God continue to bless you and keep you!
latoyaleodivagary 2 months ago 6
@latoyaleodivagary i know that's right, thanks ;)
SugarFreeTV 2 months ago
I agree with your decision not to show her. Mal de hojo is definitely out there and ppl do it to children all the time. dominicans always have the babys wear an "asabache" (don't know if thats the correct spelling) at all times and if someone is looking at the baby and say "oh how cute or smart" or something without saying god bless her/him, we say "caga pa tu culo" (to ourselves not out loud)
BxDesire 2 months ago
We call that "Bad Eye". It's in a lot of different cultures. I read about it in my Italian class too. It was related to when people say they like something you have and you offer it to them just so they won't bad eye you. But some people think it can cause sickness. That's why I can't post pics of my 14 month old sister on my channel. She has a rare form of leukemia and I wanted to make videos of her progress but I'm worried about people bad eyeing her, so I totally feel you on this.
teraterakhan 2 months ago
i understand.. wise decision Shira
leciberlanga 2 months ago
I understand but a small selfish side of me really wanted to see your precious gift. However, as a mom I understand. I'm just being honest. Many blessings to you, your beautiful girl, yours, and his family.
dreazhane 2 months ago 6
@dreazhane i want 2 show her but i feel like it's not my call :(
SugarFreeTV 2 months ago 2
@SugarFreeTV i hear ya. she will be your pride and joy. i understand your apprehension though
acestarone 1 month ago in playlist More videos from SugarFreeTV
i agree with your choices ,
beautynmyheart 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SugarFreeTV
I totally feel you on this one....some moments and people are precious esp. babies. People are crazy and want to wish bad stuff on you just cause....or some folks are just jealous for whatever their personal issues are. when your daughter can say "mommy I want to be on YT" then that's how it should be. Thx for the awesome vids
pynkstarr 2 months ago
Somethings r meant to be private, there's nothing wrong with u not showing the world your family/inner circle.
leneahunts 2 months ago
nooooo girl u are right!!!! el mal de ojo smh ppl do that to babies which is upsetting. i back yuu up 100% if youu dont wanna show uus what matters to yuu most . take care !!!!!!!!! xoxo
juicytuicy 2 months ago
Your sooo groovey!!!
NaturallyJJ 2 months ago
I just started watch your vids in that last few week. Congrats on the having a baby.
TianaSunshine 2 months ago
I've been hiding under a rock for a while... I really didn't know you were preggers but CONGRATULATIONS!!! I'm excited for you!!! (I'm such a dork...lol)
melaniefionafan 2 months ago
You know what....F#$% them A#% People.....I don't think you should put up your baby. I am glad your not going to because of STUPID people...like OMG I had to take a blog comment down on a forum because people think wrong and dont even ask what are your intentions. ITS LIKE PEOPLE WANT YOU TO BE OPEN AND OUT THERE then when you are they have picked out everything wrong....GET A LIFE!!!!
Jolley185 2 months ago
Energy, whether good or bad, never dies. It is transfered from being to being.
chellye12 2 months ago
I burn sage frequently. Anytime that I feel like the energy in my house is off, or somebody came to my house and brought something negative with them, and just threw the balance in my house off... Best believe I'm about to start praying and burning sage. And there is no reason to apologize to your viewers for not showing your child. It's your baby, and you have to protect her spiritually as well as physically. Blessings!
PneumaB 2 months ago
whatchu mean don't make sense? I love my children more than myself and they have saved me from jumping off the ledge many a time.
jjsangel330 2 months ago
how do you ward off the "Evil eye" from others?
passionateberry 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SugarFreeTV
thanks for getting metaphysical...It's strange but I get it...
passionateberry 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SugarFreeTV
you're gonna be an amazing momma :) all the best miss chira
shino889 2 months ago
I understand. Cause if somebody say something you gone have to be like "Come get em. Come get em. Come get these. Come get these damn Debbies." LMBO
ittybitty5609 2 months ago
Baby's are to open to protect themselves from negative energy. So I understand why you feel this way. But, I'm still going to be very curious what your cute little diva will look like!
iVee24 2 months ago
Well let me send my good positive enrgy through to u. DO U FEEL IT DO U FEEL THE JOY!!!!!!!!
Flipsbytch 2 months ago
first of all, if you only are able to put up a video once a damn year i will be happy! I'm sure the baby will be happy, healthy, and just as beautiful a person as you are! The people here supporting you are in much more of an abundance than the people who are trying to knock you. We love you girl! I'm sending all my happy energies your way!
imlovingattention 2 months ago
I get what u're saying 100% ,sad I wont get to see ur beautyful baby girl when she gets here but it cool she's just as beautyful as u(in my mind). I know that may sound crazy because we dont know each other...i just overstand energy,vibes and everything else. U r blessed to become a mom,u're going to love it. :-)
TheAnitagjanuary 2 months ago
hmm.I've never heard of the mirror concept...that's interesting! I should do that
lisauhqt 2 months ago
I understand, you are totally right! People can be so damn mean, baby doesn't need that shit so early in her life.
jadakiss228 2 months ago
@Sugerfreetv its totally up to u what u choose and I believe you have a good heart and a wonderful spirit. So all the negativity thats going on just be strong and not stress out it not good for u or baby girl. I love your channel and I will continue to support and watch the tip you give. May God continually bless you and yours.
Mrsboyd1986 2 months ago
dont listen to all those rude comments shira and yes i do agree with your decision of not showing your baby i would do the same!
xoxLatinaLovexox 2 months ago
I understand....will you tell us the name you choose?
BeeNaturalMe 2 months ago
Protect your family, that's what momma do best! Best Wishes :D
CFrohman 2 months ago
AHHHH! Shira! Oh how I've missed you :)
Precilla14 2 months ago
I totally, completely and thoroughly "feel you" for not putting your precious child out there! A good parent protects their child(ren) at all costs and responsible mothers are on guard-duty from conception/pregnancy forward. Your maternal instincts are on point, so trust them and pursue what you believe is best for you and your daughter without question or apology. Also, the best response to "haters" is (your) continued progress. Keep your head up--Mother's Day is just around the corner!
tjbarrett3000 2 months ago 10
I totally agree with your decision not to show your baby. I know she'll be beautiful, though. I'm sooooo excited Shira!
nhandi93 2 months ago 17
sound like haters to me.....word of advice get a life all the haters on here
MonteGreatfromGOD 2 months ago
I agree with your statement abt energy....the positive and the neg. I support your decisions not to show pics of your baby.
kymkurly 2 months ago
Shira I completely understand you not showing your diva to the world. Take care of you and yours and I'm praying for a healthy and safe delivery. I know you're ready for her to come!!
uabgurl205 2 months ago
why do ppl take their time out to talk bad about others.. like they literally TAKE TIME 0UT.. if youre on thier blog being bashed they T00K 0UT TIME to PLAN ... l0l smh.. and then talking negative about your situations -___- ...this really strengthens my heuristics (the stage just before hate) about some ppl.. You not showing your daughter is totally understandable.. ppl are mean as hell >=(
MrsNattaly 2 months ago
I pray that you have all the blessing in to world. I know that your baby will be the most love girl in the world. For people how wish bad on others it always come back to them. God will bring you through. lol I never comment I enjoy witching. God Love
JiyahTrueJuice 2 months ago
You're going to be a great mom.
lepetitecherie 2 months ago
i get it.. in the Caribbean we call it "bad eye"
FrankieSee 2 months ago
i understand..
MsJay48 2 months ago
:)
StrictlyScorpio 2 months ago
Im big into energy my cuzin was at my home btw shes a meanie anyways she asked did i need help cooking i kindly said NO i didnt want her bad energy transfered into my food! N i did burn so inscents when she left n i do have a 7 foot mirror at my door
prettypuffprincess 2 months ago
4:20...SCREAMING! that is so something I would do to express myself! Anywho, do what you have to do momma! God bless you!
indialatrece25 2 months ago
love your videos and your spirit overall...take all the time you need to care for your baby I know she will be something amazing. congrats again and whenever u decide to return I'll be here still supporting your channel no matter what. Sending love, peace, and strength to u and yours : )
simplym348 2 months ago
awww I was looking forward to seeing the little cutie pie! Congrats and enjoy your bundle of joy
lboogie2679 2 months ago
Congrats on your little bundle of joy and, also I agree with you 100% do not show your baby on internet you have to protect your baby and, you're not suppose to invite viewers into your life because, it's suppose private you don't even have to explain.
acbills83 2 months ago
You are a smart and beautiful person to protect the ones you love. It's your life and it's none of anyones business how you handle your life. The one's you love will love you even more. Take care of yourself, your beautiful baby, family and friends. Stay strong, get plenty of sleep and eat right. Keep all things and people around you positive. I believe in Carma, if you send good energy out into the world it will come back to you a thousand times over. Blessings.
mattiesmith1 2 months ago
Congrats on the little one! She can be a mini diva :)
fabbkmom901 2 months ago
I don`t know if this is a tradition in other countries probably it is , but in Mexico we put red thread like a little bracelet in babies to prevent evil eye, this is so real I mean babies get really sick and cry a lot ! I definitely agree with you.
Medusa1985 2 months ago
@Medusa1985 really? They get sick?
iVee24 2 months ago
Sometimes people on the YT act like they are crazy and completely detached from all normal human behavior, so I don't blame you. I'm sure your baby is going to be gorgeous, but there will be some fool who will say something inappropriate so don't put yourself out there like that. Tambien, toque la pantalla para que no le pusiera ojo. Felicidades, mamacita!
glitterandglueforyou 2 months ago
I agree that you shouldnt show your baby...I wouldnt either:)
tashatasha77 2 months ago
Sooo agree with you on keeping your precious child private!! ;)
Boyhead1973 2 months ago
I'm with you on not showing the baby. I have made a couple preggo videos, but I don't plan on showing my baby. No way! I already feel way too protective for that. If I got one negative comment about the baby I would flip!
steelepixie 2 months ago
@steelepixie I did want to ask if you would be sharing the name of your little one? I've been curious since you made the "I need a name" video. If my little one is a girl her name will be Zahrah. It means "blooming flower; bright flower". Juliette for the middle name, which means "youthful".
steelepixie 2 months ago
Congrats on the little one!!!!!!!!!!!
dhaggans18 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SugarFreeTV
Congratulations!!...Happy New Year!.. and I hope you are feeling the Good energy I'm sending to you, GOD Bless you and yours..
CoilsandKinks 2 months ago
I totally agree with you showing your baby off!
latricesawyer07 2 months ago
Love Your Videos Much Love
TheGongLee 2 months ago
How old are you????? If you dont mind me asking.
LuzzyDatGurlRobyn 2 months ago
Why i am i talking to her during this whole vid....Like we having a real conversations.(spiritually we are)..
LOL!!
LOVE THAT WOMAN
afor0902 2 months ago
:( you should disable the comments and ratings on the vid...newborn baby's look the same for about a split second. I hate that you feel that way but I unfortunately understand b/c some ppl are crazy & get really bold & rude while sitting in front of a computer
MamacitaNatural 2 months ago
awwww now im sad i really wanted to see the little one =[..but i do respect ur choice
ALLABOUTLiLi 2 months ago
Hunny you are making a good choice! Keep your child private! People are nosey and to be truthful they didn't even need to see "baby daddy" because this channel is about you and your awesome personality NOT about everything that should be personal to you....some things should stay private! Ignore those losers!
Asanderson1213 2 months ago
people need to get a life. You have a private life for a reason so tell them to suck it!
ThisAintCamiIsIT 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SugarFreeTV
I totally get where your coming from.
19Brooklyn84 2 months ago
I totally understand and totally agree. I love your channel
gonatonmay52009 2 months ago
As a mother of a 2.5 year old baby girl, let me tell you, you cannot imagine the love you will have for her once you hold get in your arms!! It's unreal. You share what you feel comfortable sharing, I have my fam on my channel and even though I get do many positive responses just one can make you question. Congratulations and hold on sister!! Exhaustion like the one you're about to encounter is like no other!!
shortysgs03 2 months ago
Girl, that's your baby. You're not obligated to show us at all! But I appreciate you just letting us know in advance. It shocks me that people are dedicating blog posts to putting you down. What freaking losers!!!! Best wishes for you and the baby.
basbleupeaunoire 2 months ago
Karma is a busy lady, she'll come back with that negativity on them. it often comes back even stronger that the negativity they put out in the first place. love you <3 fan from norway :D
ILovesCupcakeses 2 months ago
Who would say something bad about you, You are so amazing.
Daethaqt3000 2 months ago
It's kind of funny because for some reason I never expected you to show the baby... I don't know why. It just never really crossed my mind. I totally don't blame you either. People can be horrible. I don't know if you've ever watched Shaytards but some of the comments people leave towards the kids are just awful. I guess people think because it's online that it's like bashing a character on a TV show, and they forget these are real people.
Heather063 2 months ago
I get u gurl. I totally love u, respect u, love your decision, respect your decision, keep your head up n stay strong!!!!!!
kikishav08 2 months ago
now i'm confused, i know you're black but i thought u were full blooded dominican like both of your parents were lol not trying to be funny tho. you're always speaking spanish and i thought u mentioned that u were in an old vid .... maybe i'm tripping lol
cherryz88 2 months ago
i am african;nigerian to be exact and i get you.. my mom never tells people she is pregnant even her own kids ...lol...i never understood that when i was younger but now I get!!! the world can be dangerous or is !
isybabe 2 months ago
@isybabe im nigerian as well and my good friend's mother just had a baby and almost no one knew she was pregnant. lol probably because she was afraid of juju lol
dyschickaqt 2 months ago
I totally understand where you are coming from. Even though I would love to see your baby, I have watched your channel progress over the years and one thing that has been consistent is that you are about POSITIVE energy. It is unfortunate that people spend their time putting negative energy into the world when they could change that and make it positive. Wishing you all the best in the last stages of your pregnacy.
mariahcar23 2 months ago
I totally understand you in this video. My daughter is half Dominican as well, and she had to wear this golden pin with a black bead on it until she was a year old to protect her from negative energy.
Msbakermaker 2 months ago
Shira, I don't know you but I feel you and I get you. Funny, you say that. I didn't carry pic of son with me. It wasn't because I didn't love him or liked the way he looked. Ppl would look at me sideways and say I wasn't a good mom. I was concerned about the motive behind why ppl wanted to see him. Everyone doesn't mean well or want you to prosper. I like your perspective on this subject. I would have a hussy fit when ppl would rub my belly without permission. Energy ain't nothing to play with.
zheahra 2 months ago
Congratulations on your baby! I understand why you wouldn't show us your baby because can be mean and it is hurtful sometimes. Idc if we don't get to see the baby because shes your buisness and I all is well! I love you girl!
AznBarbieNath 2 months ago
shira don't worry about what they say about you because you are amazing and I love and enjoy watching God Bless You and the baby and I totally understand why you don't want to show the baby
h4lyf 2 months ago
I respect your decision to do what you feel is right by your child. Anybody who doesn't, that is their problem not yours. We would all love to see the baby but we understand why you wouldn't want to show her. I am 18 weeks with twins and I don't think I'd want my children posted all over the internet. It's a personal decision that every woman has to make.
LeavingForVenus 2 months ago
Shera honey I love how it seems like were (me and you, or you and the other people that watch) having a conversation lol when you ask things like "do you understand what I'm saying?" I answer by shaking my head lol sounds weird but I love that aspect of all your talk videos.
Lissie122 2 months ago
i respect this awesome decision but if you privately care to have a mother group or something im down lol ...my boy is two right now and we need to always stay in touch to raise the next generation right .....all is good and i appreciate your words ...people dont acknowledge the value of their words so they speack non sense ....bla blah ....God bless you and your little girl , may an over load of joy and laughther be spent btw you two .... take care
millyt86 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SugarFreeTV
When I watch you I think of blessing and prosperity coming your way love you Shira!!!
aphrodite1521 2 months ago
I totally agree with you about keeping your little one private and off of the internet/YouTube. Happy to see you posting and giving us an update and I'm glad that you are doing well!
BougiePeople 2 months ago
I agree with you completely on this!
lushevans 2 months ago
sorry to hear that happened to you. but you have every right not to show your child. you even need to put out and excuse. its a shame but unfortunately people like that exist.
aylix89 2 months ago in playlist More videos from SugarFreeTV
shira i understand your saying there is a spiritual world as well as this physical and there are truly evil ppl in the world i know im only posting a few pics of my son once he comes out in april just bc i dont want him all up on fb like that. your lil girl is very lucky to have you as a momma to teach her these crazy thing that actually do exist.
sheishell88 2 months ago
OMG i am so glad you are back !!!! you are amazing <3
DIRTYL00KS 2 months ago
If I made videos on youtube too I would do the same... I'm still skeptical about putting pictures of my son on facebook.. If I do I put them private so only family can see
laqueron 2 months ago
I absolutely understood everything you said && thing it's a great decision that's you've chosen not to show the baby .. Something's are personal and meant to keep between you and whom ever .. I really loved this video it was to the point where I was talking to the screen lol like yes girl I understand .. Lol
bresoflii09 2 months ago
Miss you. Trust, delight and rest.
nomakeupcutie 2 months ago
i was with you soon as you said you wouldnt show her.
i think negative energy can come from anywhere. it always makes me uncomfortable when some wants to pray for me or cook for me. they get offended when i ask them not to. but really i dont know what you serve.
torinakins 2 months ago
Awww! I would love to see her beautiful self one day but I totally understand what u mean Shira. Keep that baby safe! The world is effed up.
toastEDmrshmello09 2 months ago
I understand where you are coming from.
glndcpr 2 months ago
I find you inspirational. People are so cruel out there. I absolutey agree with your reasoning for not putting the littleun out there. You certainly shouldn't have to explain yourself either. I'm a midwife and a mother in the UK and I hope all goes well with your delivery of this special girl :)
Chelly1M 2 months ago
I'd have to hunt down anyone who said anything ugly about your daughter.
nutz4beauty 2 months ago
Don't show your baby. And people shouldn't ask you to do so.
nopeceun 2 months ago