@blackbutterfly38 Yeah so did I. I was dealing with a man who told me who he was and what he wanted up front and I thought that he would eventually change his mind but he didn't. I wasted 21 months of my life on him that I will NEVER get back. Now I've decided to be alone because I don't want to make the same mistakes again.
This man told her from the door what he wanted but she didn't want to listen. When she could have been with someone who wanted those things she felt that she could change him and it didn't. She would not listen to me or to anyone that told her the truth; that he never lied to you. You can save yourself a lot of heartache if you just listen.
Shay you are so right. The same thing happened to a friend of mine. She went into a relationship with a professional man that said he didn't want any children and or to get married from the start. My friend, of course, thinks that she is going to change him with her sunshine and all of her love. It didn't work. 6-7 years down the line she is upset that he doesn't want to get married or have any kids. She was heartbroken and finally ended the relationship.
i love your videos so much...i have a question....is there something wrong with someone when they only like to tease and flirt but can never ssem to fall for anyone?? please reply, love you'z :)
...you're right my girlfriend was married~husband didn't want anymore children~of course she got pregnant~and he divorced her...but the kicker is~he is raising the child~but he will have nothing 2 do with her
@melanin12345....I want to hear this answer from her too! I am moving there in two weeks! Its a great place for urban professionals and anyone wanting to be in the beauty or music industry.....
@UrbanBeauty1000 - Hi UrbanBeauty! Thanks for sharing....I am so stuck between decisions at this point. I would like to throw caution to the wind and pack up and go (with a job offer first of course lol!) but i am not sure!! What helped you decide? Good luck to you!
@melanin12345 ....chello, I am really tired of my surroundings. I hate to leave every time I visit(over 10years now). I see so many people that I know that just pack up and move and they all seem fine with a select few who are just lazy people in general......I love the laid back vibe with the city feel just blocks away. If you are not happy in your current situation then just go!!!! You are not banned from your original city if you wanna come back....lol...I hope this helps.
@melanin12345 My only question to you is why are you moving with your "fiance" instead of waiting to move when he is your husband. I ask that with love because ya'll know how I feel about the live together thing but to live together and move is a big stressor on a relationship and a big risk. Just be careful:)
ok I love it.."arizona sunshine"...
TheComeBackGirl 6 months ago
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Can you do a how to get over your first love and first everything video? please???
inulove90 6 months ago
Can you do a how to get over your first love and first everything video?
lewej424 6 months ago 2
Enough with this diva crap. Do you ppl even know what a diva is? It's a female Goddess.
Blake472 6 months ago
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Dosunty 6 months ago
haha, i live in Arizona, thats awesome, ur amazing, and thanks so much:)
Shaylo33 6 months ago
I'm glad that I learned this while still in my early 20's!
MelzBelz05 6 months ago
@blackbutterfly38 Yeah so did I. I was dealing with a man who told me who he was and what he wanted up front and I thought that he would eventually change his mind but he didn't. I wasted 21 months of my life on him that I will NEVER get back. Now I've decided to be alone because I don't want to make the same mistakes again.
shae1178 6 months ago
shay u are too funny what the hell is a damn arizona sunshine??! LOLLL
sseungslee 6 months ago
This man told her from the door what he wanted but she didn't want to listen. When she could have been with someone who wanted those things she felt that she could change him and it didn't. She would not listen to me or to anyone that told her the truth; that he never lied to you. You can save yourself a lot of heartache if you just listen.
brnize1969 6 months ago
Shay you are so right. The same thing happened to a friend of mine. She went into a relationship with a professional man that said he didn't want any children and or to get married from the start. My friend, of course, thinks that she is going to change him with her sunshine and all of her love. It didn't work. 6-7 years down the line she is upset that he doesn't want to get married or have any kids. She was heartbroken and finally ended the relationship.
brnize1969 6 months ago
i'm 45 now and i tell all my younger girl friends the same thing. You speak the truth xx
spookyboo22 6 months ago
the girl like the feeling of wanting what she cant have
madant22 6 months ago
i love your videos so much...i have a question....is there something wrong with someone when they only like to tease and flirt but can never ssem to fall for anyone?? please reply, love you'z :)
LenkeH 6 months ago
...you're right my girlfriend was married~husband didn't want anymore children~of course she got pregnant~and he divorced her...but the kicker is~he is raising the child~but he will have nothing 2 do with her
NappyNaturally 6 months ago
Hi Shay! I love your hair!! Quick question, I am considering moving to Atlanta...is that a great idea...I am coming with my fiance.....
melanin12345 6 months ago
@melanin12345....I want to hear this answer from her too! I am moving there in two weeks! Its a great place for urban professionals and anyone wanting to be in the beauty or music industry.....
UrbanBeauty1000 6 months ago
@UrbanBeauty1000 - Hi UrbanBeauty! Thanks for sharing....I am so stuck between decisions at this point. I would like to throw caution to the wind and pack up and go (with a job offer first of course lol!) but i am not sure!! What helped you decide? Good luck to you!
melanin12345 6 months ago
@melanin12345 ....chello, I am really tired of my surroundings. I hate to leave every time I visit(over 10years now). I see so many people that I know that just pack up and move and they all seem fine with a select few who are just lazy people in general......I love the laid back vibe with the city feel just blocks away. If you are not happy in your current situation then just go!!!! You are not banned from your original city if you wanna come back....lol...I hope this helps.
UrbanBeauty1000 6 months ago
@melanin12345 @UrbanBeauty1000 Atlanta is a wonderful place to live. I LOVE it and refuse to move anywhere else.
@melanin12345 My only question to you is why are you moving with your "fiance" instead of waiting to move when he is your husband. I ask that with love because ya'll know how I feel about the live together thing but to live together and move is a big stressor on a relationship and a big risk. Just be careful:)
With Love,
Shay Your Date Diva
lovein30days 6 months ago 2
@lovein30days - Thank you Shay!! I have your book and I enjoy it...very on-point! Why do you love Atlanta so much relative to othe places?
melanin12345 6 months ago
@lovein30days - Thank you Shay!! I have your book and I enjoy it...very on-point! Why do you love Atlanta so much relative to othe places?
My fiance and I discussed getting married first so that should be ok...we will see ;)
melanin12345 6 months ago