I too am a non-op transsexual, but I don't like that term, since it has SEX in it. I refer to myself as a transgendered woman, or transwoman. "Sex Change" is the stuff of headlines, but a man has to be intersexed to actually change sex. For the most part, it's all cosmetic surgery...everyone needs to carefully pick surgeries anyway. I will soon be starting my sixth year going full-time. My wife died last year, so I am dating. I like women only; hormones do not affect my orientation.
Ok so if you want sex change like male to female then will you be a complete female after the sex change? Or will you have a body of a female but a voice of a man? And how much does these surgeries cost?
I'm gay but I love my penis and I wouldn't change it for anything in the world because it's just part of me because I'm a man not a woman. I love being gay and I love being a man =) because I just born like that and I love it =)
You are a very, very inteligent girl. I have paid attention to all your arguments. I find you smart and gorgeous, and I sweare to God, I am 100% straight. Your lifestory and childhood really impressed me. I find you very sensitive. All good things from Eastern Europe.
well respect u opinion but u cant say how feel after the cirgury dont speak for the other ones just because u lesbian dont pretend every one is the same most change sex because like man
Why is it that most non-trans people see trans-people of nothing more than sex objects? Trans-people are people. Transsexualism is a dysphoria which is the opposite of a euphoria and referred to as Gender Dysphoria. It has nothing to do with sex or a perversion!
TrannyGirl15 is doing a great service by documenting her life and educating all of us. Listen to her and learn something. I would recommend that everyone get to know a trans person. Chances are you already do and don't know it.
This is so eminently sensible and right. This speaks to a fascinating generation gap, but the younger TS people are right— maybe we had to have people who grew up in a more tolerant age to see this clearly, when the stigma wasn't so bad and there wasn't the same sense of a state of siege. But right, it's neurology, not urology. (This is not to say there still aren't plenty of bad actors who are prejudiced!)
Maybe it's the generation that I live in, but I never look at the penis as a male organ. I never look down and think, 'this is the thing that marks me as a boy'... maybe as a ladyboi... but that's only when I'm being objectified for fun with my girlfriend.
Surgery doesn't make you a womon, (while necessary for some) your brain does. I cry and wish I could spend 20 K on having my height reduced so I totally understand the need that some trans womyn have to have vaginaplasty.
I totally agree with you. In fact it's the same I feel. I haven't transitioned yet, but if I did I would be in a similar scenario as yours. Although I do notice I have discontent for my genitalia, or at the very least, indifference, SRS would not define for me what it would mean to experience this consciousness as a woman, it doesn't mean it's out of the question, just not the main objective.
Well, thanks for speaking out about this, I think it is important that MTF realise that surgery is not the only option and not the most important part of transition. In my eyes, self acceptance is probably what matters most.
@TrannyGirl15 "If someone wants to have a sex change, it doesn't affect you in any way." Well, unless they have sex with me, pretending to be an actual woman. To me, and most people (mostly men), that's basically rape. And of course these shemales won't admit they're actually a man, cause that would drastically lower their chances of "getting any", ergo, IT'S RAPE! This is why SRS should be illegal, and the fact that it isn't is sickening. THEIR victims are the real victims here!
@TrannyGirl15 I TOTALLY agree with "to each their own..." The only thing is I've known so many transsexuals who were gaming SSI/disability that pays for their hormones, doctor bills, etc. As a male-to-female who has always worked - and in incredibly low-paying jobs - this tactic has even bothered me.
Moi aussi je suis *androgyne*, je ne pourrai jamais être un homme complet, je suis entre les deux (mais homme à la base), ces un problème hormonal. Je ne pourrais jamais faire disparaitre ma taille fine et mes hanches, ma gynécomastie je peux faire une opération,, mais ces tout ce que je peux faire,, quand les hormone femelles sont aller trop loin on ne peut pas revenir en arrière. J'espère que tu as bien réfléchit avant :)
I am really transfixed by you. There are very few people with male parts that don't only think through that. You seem very comfortable not coming from that attitude. I feel this is a really good quality. Do female hormones make you feel more sensitive? Can you still have relationships with men, or have you given them up all together?
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@TrannyGirl15 If a pedophile (who feels that he was born a child (lul) yadda yadda yadda) could operate himself into looking like a child and then have sex with other children, is that okay? Because it really is THE EXACT SAME THING AS A SEX CHANGE! If you disagree, please tell me how it's any different.
TBS, I truly respect the situation these people are in and totally sympathize. But a sex is only solving a problem with a problem. I respect u for not doing it, and Izzard is my nr1 comedian:)
So you don't consider yourseld a lesbian? I do understand you point, but I would wanted to change my sex. even if I don't set my sexuality (with men or women)
I think you are wonderful, intelligent.... beautiful,classy, that is a woman to me, i am a "born woman" and am totally jealous of your confidence and strength......Bravo Madame!!!!
I think that you are right. it is all about reaching or not that point in your life where going back is really something you consider. However I also think that if you are a woman you do not think about having erections.
Another thing to point out is that some Trans may not want to go to that extent, what they're comfortable with is for them to decide like you've said before... there is -no- rule book on what someone has to be. Some are comfrotable with their penis but not comfortable being a man physically... you also just said a large part of it, SRS isn't (to some) real for them, to them it isnt what they want.
Whoah... You're right... the people who pressure you to get an SRS if you're a trans woman reduce womanhood and femininity to a hole in the crotch... Those bastards ò.ó
Tg15- Good for you! As long as you have a partner comfortable with the situation, I think that's cool! I could get used to a girlfriend like that!! A beautiful friend, and ...benefits, too! Best wishes, always!
at the beginning of this video, i had no idea what you're talking about, i didn't quite understant what you mean.
i i totally get it, i was convinced you're going to have the operation b-coz post opp mtf's say they now feel complete. like this is thw way they were supposed to be.
but after watching this, i get it in a different way.
I do not understand how a pre-op TS can talk about having a "lesbian sex"? A lesbian is a woman who likes other women and women do not have penis. How is it possible to have a "lesbian sex" still using a penis? Some lesbians use dildos, to penetrate vagina from inside to get more pleasure but they still do not want a penis. If a girl wants it then she is bisexual. I think the problem with TS-s is that they want so badly to be a woman in every way, they make this things up to justify themselves.
I've spoken to lesbians who enjoy penetrative sex. I think it's a natural thing for a female to desire, regardless of her orientation. But anyways, it's pretty simple, anything a genetic woman can do to another woman, a male-to-female transsexual can do as well ;)
Thanks! You are incrdibly sexy and so intelligent on these complex issues. I am (i feel) a very small minority of men that lust after sexy women and find that trans girls are more sexy than genetic girls... and when I am with a girl (t or G) i am much more excited when the girl has a functioning cock.
I agree with you. It's not a vagina that makes you a woman. I have a few tg m to f friends and I totally think of them as female because their thought process is that of a woman's and you say things to them that only a female would understand and they totally completely understand. I also think people should stop with the whole gay issue. When you think about it...you're attracted to the person....not whether they have a penis or a vagina. People just concentrate way too much on that now days.
Although i believe you are a transexual as you are still contemplating Surgery, however we shouldn't confuse Transexuals with Transgenderists, If you don't know already a Transgenderist is a post op male to female or female to male, who will never and never wants to have SRS, They love their sexual organ and never will consider SRS. People confuse transexuals and transgenderists all the time, i just thought the diffrences must be stated.
That isn't true. It never becomes self lubrating. Even the beste operation in sie World. There could be a little lubrication, but you will always need antoher lubricant for sexual intercourse. It's not a problem for me.... i'm postop.
thing that has just demolished their house and left them with nothing or caused a head on collision with a school bus and killed 20 kids... guess those arn't mistakes either. Must have been their time.
Why don't they just do the transplant of real vagina for sex change like they do with real organs?
I don't get why they use some of the penis to turn it in to vagina instead of transplant for FTM sex change? , they have it worst then MTF in this case.
Sonnydey i guess you just don't get it. Currentley it's not possible to do a tanspland of that nature. If you could you would pretty much end with the same result as a current GRS surgery. a lot of transwemon choose not to go for it because a Womb and overies do not come in the package.
IF god never fails and everything is his doing, when a catostrophic event happens that kills thousands of people that must be his doing. I find it amusing in that case people are preying for help to the same
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I believe there is one God and millions of demons in our universe. All the diseases and disasters come from devil, its there ideas and they ask God to let them to do that. All God does is just rarely let demons to cause diseases and disaster because people sin against God too much. And the seemly random disasters happening are because its all devils ideas and devils actions and not Gods.
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But I do agree that nothing happens if God does not allow. But Its people going against God and there own afterlife.
If we have laws and nothing would happen if we broke some or even all of them, then crime rate would go through the roof and then most people would be bad people instead of the other way around.
I am post-op and since my surgery I have had no problem with lubrication and many other MTF's that I have spoken to have told me that they have no problems as well, so yes, the neo-vagina can, in MOST cases lubricate itself... Also, in case you were not aware of it, womb transplants are just a few years away(this I learned from a surgeon.
You need to learn the proper terminology. TS women like you don't have penises. You have ladysticks. And there is nothing masculine about a ladystick. In fact, a ladystick is one of the most feminine parts of a transsexual woman. Why some TS women would want to cut off their ladystick is beyond me.
Plus, when a TS woman gets her ladystick cut off, she will no longer be able to enjoy sex. Her sex life will be destroyed. TS women that claim to still have orgasms after surgery are full of shit.
Erm, clearly, you would prefer that TS women keep their penis (that *is* what it's called), but you are misinformed. It seems most TS women are, in fact, able to reach orgasm after SRS.
For One it's Called a Penis. Some people may shoose to refer to it as a Ladystick as you called it but the anatomicaly correct term is penis and will stay that way wether its a Sis gender man or a trans woman. GRS is not simply just cutting it off. Most of the Penis is used in the Surgery to For the Vagina and other Female anatomy. There are many documented cases known in the medical field with Trans wemon still having orgasms and multipule at that, Try to know what your talking about.
okay my words are not pointless first of all. And you need to watch what you say to your viewers.Because you know they could give you some good advice one day
I'm pretty sure she's trying to say that you should say what exactly you disagree with, rather than just "I disagree." If all you say is "I disagree," she has no idea what you disagree with, and she can't exactly gather any advice from your comment.
I simply don't like pointless comments. Someone telling me they disagree doesn't mean much here, considering the video is 18 minutes long, and they could have disagreed with many things. I simply want people to elaborate more.
I am straight and I have to admit that; you really look good. Anyways, it may not matter what I think to you, but all I can say is. Do whatever is necessary to make yourself feel better. After all, it is your live and it is your prerogative. Don't let people get to you... Cheers.
i have both sides i have a feminine side to me i love to shop lol and alot of other things like that i mean yeah i maybe a guy but i can't help but to want my feminine side to be shown........i can't help that i was born a male and to tell you the truth i dont really want to be a male.........thats why i have been thinking about changing my body just like you have done just idk if its right for me......
lol it doesn't really matter if you have a penis or not your really good looking the way you are and if people can't except the way you are then they just understand the woman you really are.....
If an MTF gets an orchiectomy and stops at that, is that pre-op, post-op, post-pre-op, pre-post-op, or non-op? Why are we being pushed into getting neo-vaginas when there are other options that allow us to change our legal papers and to speed up the bodily feminization process. I agree, getting a neo-vagina doesn't make you any more or less of the woman than you already are. So many TS's get orchiectomies nowadays and stop there, and they are happy with that choice.
This is a great video! Transition is definitely a deep and complex processes with so many significant elements and it really does serve the transgendered community to think broadly about the individual transition without spending so much time thinking about how people have sex. No woman wants to be known for what she does in the bedroom and how she does that, but rather for what she accomplishes in the world and how she impacts her relationships! I'm so glad you posted such a lovely video :D
Wow, I think your approach and life outlook make so much sense. I think it is so positive that you are rational about surgery; why would anyone want to give up a functional organ? I am a gay male and I love my penis, but if I had a vagina instead I would certainly do my best to love it (don't think it would be hard). You've obviously looked deep within yourself and decided what really makes you feel like a woman, and it's not a mutilated vagina, Bravo. You deserve a satisfying sex life too.
Very good video. As a post op M-F I knew I could only love a woman but believed I was a "pseudo" lesbian and tried unsuccessfully to assimilate in that community. It didn't work,I didn't belong ,it wasn't me, and I wasn't them. I long for a naturally born female companion and will regret forever not seeing my own children.
Transiition isn't something you try on to see if its right for you or if you like it. Anyone in transition should already have a diagnosis of GID if you dont then that was your first mistake go back to step one ( Counseling )and get one. then there won't be any doubt if transition and surgery is the right thing to do..........
I'm sic of people thinking transition is some do it yorself project .
What exactly do you think the "real-life test" is? Trying it to see if it's right for you. Because that's the only way you'll ever be absolutely certain.
Whether or not you proceed with your transition may well be the most important decision you ever have to take. If you'd rather have someone else make that decision for you, well, that's your choice.
There always has been being trapped in the wrong body isnt as rare as you would think.. Just some are to scared to say they are actually girl or boys wich ever the situation is.. =) x
I'ts Transsexuals. with a "S" to mean more then one.
It's not a sad thing. I'm sorry if i offend any religious people who read and watch these vlogs but God is not infallible.
In my mind he made a mistake making me a genetic male. I'm only really now realising this mistake in my mid 20s and would have loved to have realy allowed myself to see it earlier in my life but igess better now then never.
I would never say that God is not infallible, because that is what I see everyday.
I really think that some people get to live many lives here on earth and that there sex sometimes change before there are born in this world again and that depends on there own soul (maybe they wanted to be different). People make mistakes not God. But I do think that they lived a very happy life as an opposite sex in there past life. And serious regret for TS when they have changed is only 1 to 2%.
That means God never fails. And that's what I meant. People can make mistakes, but I believe that there own subconscious and also there higher self ( beyond subconscious) does not make mistakes or just the ones no human can ever notice.
so you are telling me that you are not wholly sure about what you are doing and you do not consider the sex operation because you MIGHT change idea one day and decide to come back to be the male you used to be?please with all the respect tell me i didn't caught the point
You hit the nail on the head! I feel that you just need to be you! I applaude your choice. By the way you are looking so beautiful everytime you put a new video on! Hugs, Michelle
I love your videos. You are so intelligent, articulate, and make great points that I also agree with. I've tried to explain my identity in very similar ways. You are a great person! :)
What's most important is that YOU make the right decisions for YOU. I knew what I wanted and went after it, but you are your own person with different wants and desires. It's your happiness at stake, not mine (that's my job). Here in the US life can be very complicated for someone who is a "non-op" (my health insurance became virtually worthless during transition), yet even that is not a good reason for SRS. Only WANTiNG SRS is a good reason to have it. Christina
As a Post Op, I agree. I have seen so many people go all out for SRS due to TS Peer group pressure and it is so wrong to make your choice that way. I had it to feel 'Complete', to feel that I wasn't trying to fool the public anymore by hiding that what I was alas, born with. But that was my choice to have it. SRS is for the choice of the individual and no one should interfere in another's transition.
"Complete" described my feelings also. I did hate my genitals, but that doesn't make me right & anyone else wrong. I believe that too many TG have bought into society's belief that we must all be the same; they want us all in the same box. The other danger, which was touched on in the video, is reversing surgery. When, because of pressure or ignorance, someone makes a "mistake" the media jumps all over that, offering it as proof that we're crazy. It makes life harder for those who follow.
Well, that is true. As soon as someone shows a hint of regret, the media and the 'Feminist Writers of the 'worse kind' come out of the woodwork and start spreading the word of warning - which is mildly amusing since they don't know a damned thing about us. Julie Bindel was a prize idiot when it came to writing about the transsexual. Not as if I feel a butch 'dyke' would know much about us, apart from what she'd seen in her bars like CD or Drag Queens. This video did make many good points.
Julie Bindel is a political lesbian not a real lesbian. She also claims that being a lesbian is a choice, it was a choice for her but is not for most lesbians. Most lesbian feminists are fake, they choose to be lesbians because they do not want to be with men. Not because they are into women. They use the LGBT community as a place to shout from, while dividing it up at the same time.
I couldn't agree more. People like Bindel have caused quite a rift. Mind you, I have come across this gay guy called Zipster whom feels 'we' are jumping on the backs of Gays and their Prides. Its amazing how so wrong they judge.
Thank you for sharing your feelings...You really hit the nail on the head...I struggle with the same feelings...I have many TG friends that always ask me "what are you waiting for?" as if I'm not TG if I'm not ready to spend my savings to be what they think I need to be...I'm happy where I am now....your a dear. :)
@73r352 AFAIR Lilli Elbe received female reproductive organs by transplantation, but died from complications. I think uterine transplants have been carried out twice in history, with the last one surviving a full menstrual period before it had to be removed because of clotting in one of the supplying arteries.
It's just not here yet, but when/if it is, I hope we can use stem cells to actually grow those organs, because I would rather not.
1) Wait for a donor to be available, and God knows how long that would take with all the infertile genetic women around. Not sure transsexuals would get priority!
2) Take anti-rejection medication for the rest of my life, or the entire pregnancy.
"The uterine transplant was reported March 7 in the International Journal of Gynecology and Obstetrics. It was performed on April 6, 2000, by researchers at the King Fahad Hospital and Research Center in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia. ... the transplanted uterus responded well and exhibited normal menstrual bleeding following hormonal therapy. But it had to be removed 99 days after implantation because of ... formation of clots in the blood vessels supplying the transplanted uterus." (WebMD Health News)
"In 1930 Elbe went to Germany for surgery, which was only in an experimental state at the time. A series of five operations were carried out over a period of two years ...
The second operation was to remove the penis, and transplant ovaries, which were taken from a 26-year-old woman. ...
Elbe died in 1931, due to complications three months after her fifth and last operation. ... the transplantation of a uterus. Her cause of death is believed to have been transplant rejection." (Wikipedia)
Good video, it's good to see the topic on different sides. SRS is not for everyone, and it really comes down to what makes you happy. I've had SRS and I'm very happy with it, but I know ppl who haven't and don't want it, which is perfectly fine.
Good for you. SRS is dangerous and overrated. After all the surgery it will never be an actual organ just an interpretation of one. I personally couldn't go through with it. Plus its not guaranteed that it will even feel right. I would love to have the ability to actually have a a true female anatomy, but medical science just isn't there yet. I totally agree with everything you said. I don't think I would pass as well as you but what's in my pants is not other people's concern.
i feel as a ts after a year of Hormones that I dont focus on my surgery i havew far too many other things to do. hair removal is a bitch now and breast implants are on thier way... I do want a vagina tho...i live by the beach and it would be nice to wear a bathing suit... and not have to worry about it. only thing is is i feel what relationship will i have i will have to still be proud of ts's and so it will always be apart of my life...would be nice to not deal with it anymore tho...
I think there is only one rule and that is, stick to what makes you happy. I'm really not into definitions of TG/TS/TV or whatever. Personally, I would want a vagina, and I really don't care about that piece of skin that is blurping out. But I know, I am not in the situation like some are. I already have children. I hate these erections but also would like to being able to have orgasms. So, if ot were up to me, I had it removed tomorrow, but social circumstances prevent this for the time being.
I agree with you, take your time to take a decision. And if you eventually find out that you don't want to have SRS, that's fine, too. There are still too many people out there who rush transgender into surgery...
Thanks for explaining this topic. I do not ever want to cut mine off. I am female whether I have a penis or vagina. One thing I've learned about people and acceptance. No matter how open minded a person can be, he/she will always have reservasion about something. I don't hate my penis and in fact, I kinda like it especially when I'm with a woman who doesn't mind being with another woman like me who just happens to have a penis.
I really like your perspective on this. Getting a sex-change operation is a decision that shouldn't be taken lightly, and really, all that matters is that you and your partner are happy with the way things are. I'm probably biased against SRS, though, since I only realized what it meant to be transgender after I learned about intersexuality and decided that genital surgery is a really big deal (and shouldn't be forced on kids by their parents, and losing the ability to orgasm is NOT worth it).
hun why should you have to explain why it should be ok to be non op! my goodness your a person just like me and the asshole next door! :) but some people are ignorant about these things, it just makes me dumbfounded that some peopel would think this is their buisness! people make me mad :(
I'm wondeing if you are not attached to a cliche, stereotypical image of women. It seems to me that in today's society the day-to-day differences between guys and girls are less and less obvious. Girls tend to be more boyish, at least in attitude and guys seem to go more towards the metrosexual type. You can be trendy and elegant as a guy or butch as a girl. It seems a bit of a contradiction to me to be uncomfortable with the rest of your body but comfortable with your genitalia...
Another imformative video, As i am a non op TS i can relate to what you are saying. AND yes there are lots of TS who get tunnel vision and i think alot are also think that by getting SRS that all the hatred will magically wash away. But even a POst OP TS can still be discriminated and read as much as any pre-ops. BUt i also think that it is a matter of finding a comfort zone for yourself is most important
I don't get why cisgendered people are so obsessed with transgendered people's bits, so much that I'm almost upset that you discuss it in so much detail instead of just saying "GET A LIFE AND QUIT ASKING ME ABOUT MY BITS!!!"
I really don't like to think about it myself even, for the reasons you discuss. Since it's not a possibility for me now, but might be a few years in the future, why try to figure it out when so much can change between now and then?
I say go all the way or not at all. I mean you have breast now and you went through alot to get those and look the female type with HRT. If you are in self doubt just stop it now freeze your sperm get with your lady friend and do whatever.
You sure do confuse me. Not your preference but your identity
Did not mean to offend you Tgirl 15, I have been a faithful subscriber but you can sure confuse the heck out of some people who are in the middle of transitioning.
Do you want to be fem or masc is my question? I mean you can reply to me privately on my channel if you want.
The TG/TS community is all you have my love, what else would you have with out us?
I agree SRS is a choice, and one you should think about very carefully, however, if you are truly female brain-wise, then male genitals should feel incongruous. Whether or not a person has an anatomically correct vagina, the fact remains that women don't have penises.
Re: legality - unless you have an F on your birth certificate, be prepared to go to male lock-up if you're convicted of a crime. That seems relevant to me. And having a penis in a public female restroom is asking for trouble,
There are a lot of reasons why a trans person elects not to have surgery. A huge number of trans men don't even consider it. Deciding against SRS does not make you any less of the sex you identify with.
Also, regarding the restroom issue, if no
one sees it, then it's none of their business. I've never once seen anyone's genitalia in a ladies' room.
That doesn't mean it hasn't happened. Picture a mom and her small child who innocently pushes a stall door open as the trans person is getting up. Granted it's unlikely, but were it to happen, it could mean arrest, humiliation, and a public court date, a fine or jail time. How about showers & changing rooms at the gym?
If one wishes to be labeled "trans" forever, that's fine. Surgery is what puts these potential problems to bed, and allows one safe access to the private parts of female society.
AFAIK. You can't get arrested for that in Canada. And so what, you'd avoid going full-time, stick to the male bathrooms until you're post-op? What a great idea...
i wish that there were common bathrooms, like sure have the male/female but why can't there be a bathroom that anyone can go in? like not just for transexuals but who is to say that i feel the need or want to use a womans bathroom?
How do you feel about newborns born with ambiguous genitalia. Currently most doctors immediately perform surgery to "correct" the genitalia to look like one or the other and tell the parents to socially raise that child as such.
I think they should just leave it and let the child develop on their own and let them decide and maybe give them a gender neutral name, and love them unconditionally however they develop. What are your thoughts? Would you make a video?
Its like you have the Canadian version of my brain. I'm thoroughly enjoying being at peace with myself. So much so that I can withstand the entire world's pressure for me to conform. I will not be limited by society's poorly conceived notions of gender. I have approached srs as all other decisions-a choice with ad/dis/vantages. There's no perfect choice ("magic potion") and therefore no perfect decision. And if I ever do decide to have surgery I'll know it is the right thing for me.
oh i'm sorry, i typed that message before watching your entire video ;)
well it would be cool to hear anything from you though xxx
TyronePerri 5 months ago
hi there, wow you're great and beautyfull!
just don't mind the sex change issue so much...
i mean, personally i think more important is having surgery (or other things) done i the face...
you allways see someone's face, so i just personally want to add my face before anything xxx
TyronePerri 5 months ago
I think you are beautiful don't let anyone tell you any different! much <3
dracheumarmen 8 months ago
I too am a non-op transsexual, but I don't like that term, since it has SEX in it. I refer to myself as a transgendered woman, or transwoman. "Sex Change" is the stuff of headlines, but a man has to be intersexed to actually change sex. For the most part, it's all cosmetic surgery...everyone needs to carefully pick surgeries anyway. I will soon be starting my sixth year going full-time. My wife died last year, so I am dating. I like women only; hormones do not affect my orientation.
romanatg 9 months ago
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KeersK1990 9 months ago
Cool :)
KeersK1990 9 months ago
Hi
Usually I only watch videos and don't comment them, but now - I really LOVE your video!
You're very smart and sensitive.
I like your thinking and gratulations with find the right girl for you.
It sounds like you're great person and as I can see on the other your videos - youre' beautiful woman too :)
Thanks for the video!
Good luck with everything!
greenwhisper 10 months ago
this video is so great!
thans un for opening my eyes (:
I'm not sure if I want SRS just because I'm not 100% about it.
and Im so fucking happy seeing a well your type of transexuals (:
it realy brodent my horisons and ..well thank you <3
*Hugs<3
Ladypurpulhair 10 months ago
You go girl!
tvaddict69 11 months ago
Ok so if you want sex change like male to female then will you be a complete female after the sex change? Or will you have a body of a female but a voice of a man? And how much does these surgeries cost?
deokha 1 year ago
Can a man who has the sex change operation still have an orgasm??
CelestialWoodway 1 year ago
@CelestialWoodway no they cant.
they feel nothing.
MARTINLARSENFOX 1 year ago
@MARTINLARSENFOX not true
LauraBaker94 10 months ago
I want to be a woman now.
VideoGamePresident 1 year ago
why did you want te be a female?
themanovsroypr 1 year ago
I'm gay but I love my penis and I wouldn't change it for anything in the world because it's just part of me because I'm a man not a woman. I love being gay and I love being a man =) because I just born like that and I love it =)
SomePinkGirl 1 year ago
You are a very, very inteligent girl. I have paid attention to all your arguments. I find you smart and gorgeous, and I sweare to God, I am 100% straight. Your lifestory and childhood really impressed me. I find you very sensitive. All good things from Eastern Europe.
putzmeister1000 1 year ago
@putzmeister1000 same
bait28 1 year ago
well respect u opinion but u cant say how feel after the cirgury dont speak for the other ones just because u lesbian dont pretend every one is the same most change sex because like man
sashadjyemaya 1 year ago
Why is it that most non-trans people see trans-people of nothing more than sex objects? Trans-people are people. Transsexualism is a dysphoria which is the opposite of a euphoria and referred to as Gender Dysphoria. It has nothing to do with sex or a perversion!
TrannyGirl15 is doing a great service by documenting her life and educating all of us. Listen to her and learn something. I would recommend that everyone get to know a trans person. Chances are you already do and don't know it.
xcheryl123 1 year ago
This is so eminently sensible and right. This speaks to a fascinating generation gap, but the younger TS people are right— maybe we had to have people who grew up in a more tolerant age to see this clearly, when the stigma wasn't so bad and there wasn't the same sense of a state of siege. But right, it's neurology, not urology. (This is not to say there still aren't plenty of bad actors who are prejudiced!)
Adkts 1 year ago
Very logical.. sounds as if you have doubts about your eventual gender
farharbour 1 year ago
Maybe it's the generation that I live in, but I never look at the penis as a male organ. I never look down and think, 'this is the thing that marks me as a boy'... maybe as a ladyboi... but that's only when I'm being objectified for fun with my girlfriend.
Surgery doesn't make you a womon, (while necessary for some) your brain does. I cry and wish I could spend 20 K on having my height reduced so I totally understand the need that some trans womyn have to have vaginaplasty.
valeriereified 1 year ago
theare are nothing to woory about it :) bleave me
evryone can tke hem way and this is you way
so, dont listen for any one how wanna make you feal bad :)
thanks so mach
nunu1871 1 year ago
I totally agree with you. In fact it's the same I feel. I haven't transitioned yet, but if I did I would be in a similar scenario as yours. Although I do notice I have discontent for my genitalia, or at the very least, indifference, SRS would not define for me what it would mean to experience this consciousness as a woman, it doesn't mean it's out of the question, just not the main objective.
whoisarethusa 1 year ago
Well, thanks for speaking out about this, I think it is important that MTF realise that surgery is not the only option and not the most important part of transition. In my eyes, self acceptance is probably what matters most.
georgesabitpol 1 year ago
I am so happy for you.
jalasmith 1 year ago
gurl your fabulous! thanks for posting this ^_^
sctthffmn 1 year ago
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stupid idea to have a sex change
Fr3shB0iii 1 year ago
To each their own. If someone wants to have a sex change, it doesn't affect you in any way. Live and let live.
TrannyGirl15 1 year ago 8
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@TrannyGirl15 "If someone wants to have a sex change, it doesn't affect you in any way." Well, unless they have sex with me, pretending to be an actual woman. To me, and most people (mostly men), that's basically rape. And of course these shemales won't admit they're actually a man, cause that would drastically lower their chances of "getting any", ergo, IT'S RAPE! This is why SRS should be illegal, and the fact that it isn't is sickening. THEIR victims are the real victims here!
leirgauk 1 year ago
@TrannyGirl15 I TOTALLY agree with "to each their own..." The only thing is I've known so many transsexuals who were gaming SSI/disability that pays for their hormones, doctor bills, etc. As a male-to-female who has always worked - and in incredibly low-paying jobs - this tactic has even bothered me.
littlecasino60 1 year ago
you look feminine!
tramyyhoney 1 year ago
Moi aussi je suis *androgyne*, je ne pourrai jamais être un homme complet, je suis entre les deux (mais homme à la base), ces un problème hormonal. Je ne pourrais jamais faire disparaitre ma taille fine et mes hanches, ma gynécomastie je peux faire une opération,, mais ces tout ce que je peux faire,, quand les hormone femelles sont aller trop loin on ne peut pas revenir en arrière. J'espère que tu as bien réfléchit avant :)
TarjaKingdom2012 1 year ago
I am really transfixed by you. There are very few people with male parts that don't only think through that. You seem very comfortable not coming from that attitude. I feel this is a really good quality. Do female hormones make you feel more sensitive? Can you still have relationships with men, or have you given them up all together?
laurakaufman1 1 year ago
More sensitive, maybe a bit. As far as relationships go, I've never been with a man. Not interested, I like girls.
TrannyGirl15 1 year ago
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@TrannyGirl15 If a pedophile (who feels that he was born a child (lul) yadda yadda yadda) could operate himself into looking like a child and then have sex with other children, is that okay? Because it really is THE EXACT SAME THING AS A SEX CHANGE! If you disagree, please tell me how it's any different.
TBS, I truly respect the situation these people are in and totally sympathize. But a sex is only solving a problem with a problem. I respect u for not doing it, and Izzard is my nr1 comedian:)
leirgauk 1 year ago
@leirgauk
1. Sex changes have nothing to do with sexual orientation or sexual activity.
2. Transsexuals don't want to turn into the object of their sexual attraction.
3. You seem to be assuming that all FTM transsexuals have sex with unknowing men.
4. Unknowing men don't find themselves mentally scarred for life.
5. Everyone was *born* a child.
6. Nobody wants children to be having sex, not even with other children...
7. You're comparing child abuse with consensual sex between adults.
TrannyGirl15 1 year ago 9
@leirgauk Children shouldnt be having sex under any circumstances
MissAimee85 10 months ago
@TrannyGirl15
So you don't consider yourseld a lesbian? I do understand you point, but I would wanted to change my sex. even if I don't set my sexuality (with men or women)
saemikneu 1 year ago
what hormones can feminize you an yet you can stay hard?
lavenderlarue 1 year ago
I talk about that in other videos about hormones.
TrannyGirl15 1 year ago
@lavenderlarue My experience has been all of them... but then, spiro for 7 months, provera and estrogen for 1 probably isn't conclusive.
valeriereified 1 year ago
I think you are wonderful, intelligent.... beautiful,classy, that is a woman to me, i am a "born woman" and am totally jealous of your confidence and strength......Bravo Madame!!!!
Trayceg 1 year ago
I think that you are right. it is all about reaching or not that point in your life where going back is really something you consider. However I also think that if you are a woman you do not think about having erections.
nichirenista 1 year ago
Another thing to point out is that some Trans may not want to go to that extent, what they're comfortable with is for them to decide like you've said before... there is -no- rule book on what someone has to be. Some are comfrotable with their penis but not comfortable being a man physically... you also just said a large part of it, SRS isn't (to some) real for them, to them it isnt what they want.
BloodyHarrow 1 year ago
I think you are a wonderfull Woman, and I like your views as they make more sence than most.
As they say "you can.nt please everyone so you have got to please yourself"...
I wish you happiness and a wonderfull life...
Be good....;.-)
amandetful 1 year ago
You are so kewl~
KeersK1990 2 years ago
wow. it was so very interesting and really helped me a lot to understand transgenders.
wish you and your girlfriend all the best:)
micelka 2 years ago
And one last question....is it possible to change your voice? Because if you want to be viewed as a women in society...
MsSeverusSnapexoxo 2 years ago
I have no problem being "viewed as woman in society" as is, for your information.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
Well sorry then, but please tell me, what's your background? Did I guess correct? German?
MsSeverusSnapexoxo 2 years ago
No, I'm French Canadian.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
Whoah... You're right... the people who pressure you to get an SRS if you're a trans woman reduce womanhood and femininity to a hole in the crotch... Those bastards ò.ó
janeyanna 2 years ago
great video
Hanna640 2 years ago
That fucking ticking is annoying.
MelancholyLeaf 2 years ago
It's called a clock.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
congrats :D
for me i kinda wanna be a male ._. but I'm not too sure D:
but that's just me :P Well as long as you are fully confident and comfortable :)
hope you get a boyfriend soon ;D
Riolugia 2 years ago
Tg15- Good for you! As long as you have a partner comfortable with the situation, I think that's cool! I could get used to a girlfriend like that!! A beautiful friend, and ...benefits, too! Best wishes, always!
Patriotgal1 2 years ago
i just have one question are you against to people who had the surgery or are you against sex reassignment surgery?
jaymie213 2 years ago
Neither. Watch the video.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
wat??? u have a gf?
so ur not into men?
hero69er 2 years ago
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waitingtolive 2 years ago
at the beginning of this video, i had no idea what you're talking about, i didn't quite understant what you mean.
i i totally get it, i was convinced you're going to have the operation b-coz post opp mtf's say they now feel complete. like this is thw way they were supposed to be.
but after watching this, i get it in a different way.
thank you for this.
Bette22222 2 years ago
I do not understand how a pre-op TS can talk about having a "lesbian sex"? A lesbian is a woman who likes other women and women do not have penis. How is it possible to have a "lesbian sex" still using a penis? Some lesbians use dildos, to penetrate vagina from inside to get more pleasure but they still do not want a penis. If a girl wants it then she is bisexual. I think the problem with TS-s is that they want so badly to be a woman in every way, they make this things up to justify themselves.
passionata20 2 years ago
I've spoken to lesbians who enjoy penetrative sex. I think it's a natural thing for a female to desire, regardless of her orientation. But anyways, it's pretty simple, anything a genetic woman can do to another woman, a male-to-female transsexual can do as well ;)
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
You are an incredble woman! Thanks so much for sharing your experiences...I learned a lot.
diversekayaker 2 years ago
What an informative and enlightening video! I had never thought of most of the points that you make about not having surgery.
You are performing a wonderful service in educating the general public about trans phenomena. Thank you!
Macmadgram 2 years ago
Yea it should be respected. There's people that are born with male a nd female parts. So I undertand this makes alot of sense.
soni408 2 years ago
ha..i laughd so hard on the 'cut your own penis'
moomoo1852 2 years ago
Thanks! You are incrdibly sexy and so intelligent on these complex issues. I am (i feel) a very small minority of men that lust after sexy women and find that trans girls are more sexy than genetic girls... and when I am with a girl (t or G) i am much more excited when the girl has a functioning cock.
Mapssouth 2 years ago
u r a pervert loooooooool
Gregthemessiah 2 years ago
I agree with you. It's not a vagina that makes you a woman. I have a few tg m to f friends and I totally think of them as female because their thought process is that of a woman's and you say things to them that only a female would understand and they totally completely understand. I also think people should stop with the whole gay issue. When you think about it...you're attracted to the person....not whether they have a penis or a vagina. People just concentrate way too much on that now days.
appalonia77 2 years ago 2
I completely agree
I am a pre-op FtM transexual
and I will consider myself post-op after I get top surgery
I NEVER plan on having bottom surgery
because it is SO unperfected, a lot of guys can't orgasm
even now I consider myself fully male, even though I have a really really hard time passing
and I consider myself a gay man, I am just a "catcher" and not a "pitcher" thats all ^.<
I don't think that makes me any less of a man
I love you sweetie <3
Konverse13 2 years ago
Briliant. Very informative, rational, structural and to the point. Thank you :)
Maybe that's part of the attraction, having a male-mind.
superdiza 2 years ago
Although i believe you are a transexual as you are still contemplating Surgery, however we shouldn't confuse Transexuals with Transgenderists, If you don't know already a Transgenderist is a post op male to female or female to male, who will never and never wants to have SRS, They love their sexual organ and never will consider SRS. People confuse transexuals and transgenderists all the time, i just thought the diffrences must be stated.
Good Luck hun Your Doing Great!
xx
Elle
LaFondaBHH 2 years ago
Some surgeons can actual help make a male to female transexual to become self lubricated, it all depends on who you have surgery with.
LaFondaBHH 2 years ago
i heard from a transitioning transsexual(not sure if shes post op or not), that it becomes self-lubricating after a year or two.
mynameisaraw 2 years ago
That isn't true. It never becomes self lubrating. Even the beste operation in sie World. There could be a little lubrication, but you will always need antoher lubricant for sexual intercourse. It's not a problem for me.... i'm postop.
Dawni 2 years ago
i just remembered she was post-op that either means that its just not self lubricating for you or she lied :\
mynameisaraw 2 years ago
thing that has just demolished their house and left them with nothing or caused a head on collision with a school bus and killed 20 kids... guess those arn't mistakes either. Must have been their time.
Callabris 2 years ago
Why don't they just do the transplant of real vagina for sex change like they do with real organs?
I don't get why they use some of the penis to turn it in to vagina instead of transplant for FTM sex change? , they have it worst then MTF in this case.
sonnydey 2 years ago
Sonnydey i guess you just don't get it. Currentley it's not possible to do a tanspland of that nature. If you could you would pretty much end with the same result as a current GRS surgery. a lot of transwemon choose not to go for it because a Womb and overies do not come in the package.
IF god never fails and everything is his doing, when a catostrophic event happens that kills thousands of people that must be his doing. I find it amusing in that case people are preying for help to the same
Callabris 2 years ago
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I believe there is one God and millions of demons in our universe. All the diseases and disasters come from devil, its there ideas and they ask God to let them to do that. All God does is just rarely let demons to cause diseases and disaster because people sin against God too much. And the seemly random disasters happening are because its all devils ideas and devils actions and not Gods.
sonnydey 2 years ago
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But I do agree that nothing happens if God does not allow. But Its people going against God and there own afterlife.
If we have laws and nothing would happen if we broke some or even all of them, then crime rate would go through the roof and then most people would be bad people instead of the other way around.
sonnydey 2 years ago
hahaha, fuck yer god
devaloki 2 years ago 2
I am post-op and since my surgery I have had no problem with lubrication and many other MTF's that I have spoken to have told me that they have no problems as well, so yes, the neo-vagina can, in MOST cases lubricate itself... Also, in case you were not aware of it, womb transplants are just a few years away(this I learned from a surgeon.
waterlord74 2 years ago
Before commenting on something you obviously don't. Atleast do some actual research first please.
Callabris 2 years ago
You need to learn the proper terminology. TS women like you don't have penises. You have ladysticks. And there is nothing masculine about a ladystick. In fact, a ladystick is one of the most feminine parts of a transsexual woman. Why some TS women would want to cut off their ladystick is beyond me.
Plus, when a TS woman gets her ladystick cut off, she will no longer be able to enjoy sex. Her sex life will be destroyed. TS women that claim to still have orgasms after surgery are full of shit.
TSWomenAreRealWomen 2 years ago
Erm, clearly, you would prefer that TS women keep their penis (that *is* what it's called), but you are misinformed. It seems most TS women are, in fact, able to reach orgasm after SRS.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
For One it's Called a Penis. Some people may shoose to refer to it as a Ladystick as you called it but the anatomicaly correct term is penis and will stay that way wether its a Sis gender man or a trans woman. GRS is not simply just cutting it off. Most of the Penis is used in the Surgery to For the Vagina and other Female anatomy. There are many documented cases known in the medical field with Trans wemon still having orgasms and multipule at that, Try to know what your talking about.
Callabris 2 years ago
Orgasms happen in the brain. Even people with spinal injuries can re-train their brains to experience orgasms.
NorthBayNicole 2 years ago 2
Wow... I can't agree with you anymore on this... I share the exact same view. It's like you were speaking exactly what I'm thinking in my mind!
I obviously would want a vagina, but the pain of surgery, and the incomplete result that you get makes me wonder... why? Is it worth it?
ashley4623 2 years ago 8
Your shirt is sooo cute :) I'm a TS too. =] Good luck with all you do! ^___^
GamerGirlAdrianna 2 years ago 6
okay my words are not pointless first of all. And you need to watch what you say to your viewers.Because you know they could give you some good advice one day
krazime92 2 years ago
I'm pretty sure she's trying to say that you should say what exactly you disagree with, rather than just "I disagree." If all you say is "I disagree," she has no idea what you disagree with, and she can't exactly gather any advice from your comment.
mycharlesmonroe 2 years ago
maybe u should calm down a bit...okay and rethink ur attutide on people...dang..im just like u
krazime92 2 years ago
I simply don't like pointless comments. Someone telling me they disagree doesn't mean much here, considering the video is 18 minutes long, and they could have disagreed with many things. I simply want people to elaborate more.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
u knw u dont have to be so rude about it
krazime92 2 years ago
Well then, next time, perhaps you would care to expand on how, why, and what you disagree with.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
i kinda disagree with you...
krazime92 2 years ago
That's your problem.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
I am straight and I have to admit that; you really look good. Anyways, it may not matter what I think to you, but all I can say is. Do whatever is necessary to make yourself feel better. After all, it is your live and it is your prerogative. Don't let people get to you... Cheers.
elpatriotaLX 2 years ago 2
i have both sides i have a feminine side to me i love to shop lol and alot of other things like that i mean yeah i maybe a guy but i can't help but to want my feminine side to be shown........i can't help that i was born a male and to tell you the truth i dont really want to be a male.........thats why i have been thinking about changing my body just like you have done just idk if its right for me......
69sorrow69 2 years ago
lol it doesn't really matter if you have a penis or not your really good looking the way you are and if people can't except the way you are then they just understand the woman you really are.....
69sorrow69 2 years ago
If an MTF gets an orchiectomy and stops at that, is that pre-op, post-op, post-pre-op, pre-post-op, or non-op? Why are we being pushed into getting neo-vaginas when there are other options that allow us to change our legal papers and to speed up the bodily feminization process. I agree, getting a neo-vagina doesn't make you any more or less of the woman than you already are. So many TS's get orchiectomies nowadays and stop there, and they are happy with that choice.
shmeel1977 2 years ago
This is a great video! Transition is definitely a deep and complex processes with so many significant elements and it really does serve the transgendered community to think broadly about the individual transition without spending so much time thinking about how people have sex. No woman wants to be known for what she does in the bedroom and how she does that, but rather for what she accomplishes in the world and how she impacts her relationships! I'm so glad you posted such a lovely video :D
sishmael 2 years ago 2
Wow, I think your approach and life outlook make so much sense. I think it is so positive that you are rational about surgery; why would anyone want to give up a functional organ? I am a gay male and I love my penis, but if I had a vagina instead I would certainly do my best to love it (don't think it would be hard). You've obviously looked deep within yourself and decided what really makes you feel like a woman, and it's not a mutilated vagina, Bravo. You deserve a satisfying sex life too.
Waxinggibbous1 2 years ago
Very good video. As a post op M-F I knew I could only love a woman but believed I was a "pseudo" lesbian and tried unsuccessfully to assimilate in that community. It didn't work,I didn't belong ,it wasn't me, and I wasn't them. I long for a naturally born female companion and will regret forever not seeing my own children.
megaciti 2 years ago 2
This video is so amazing
FurtherSee 2 years ago 2
Transiition isn't something you try on to see if its right for you or if you like it. Anyone in transition should already have a diagnosis of GID if you dont then that was your first mistake go back to step one ( Counseling )and get one. then there won't be any doubt if transition and surgery is the right thing to do..........
I'm sic of people thinking transition is some do it yorself project .
Brandi
sweetbrandigirl 2 years ago
What exactly do you think the "real-life test" is? Trying it to see if it's right for you. Because that's the only way you'll ever be absolutely certain.
Whether or not you proceed with your transition may well be the most important decision you ever have to take. If you'd rather have someone else make that decision for you, well, that's your choice.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
why there are so many transexual now. damned sad.
on9hockeu 2 years ago
There always has been being trapped in the wrong body isnt as rare as you would think.. Just some are to scared to say they are actually girl or boys wich ever the situation is.. =) x
xXFusionGurlXx 2 years ago
I'ts Transsexuals. with a "S" to mean more then one.
It's not a sad thing. I'm sorry if i offend any religious people who read and watch these vlogs but God is not infallible.
In my mind he made a mistake making me a genetic male. I'm only really now realising this mistake in my mid 20s and would have loved to have realy allowed myself to see it earlier in my life but igess better now then never.
Callabris 2 years ago
I would never say that God is not infallible, because that is what I see everyday.
I really think that some people get to live many lives here on earth and that there sex sometimes change before there are born in this world again and that depends on there own soul (maybe they wanted to be different). People make mistakes not God. But I do think that they lived a very happy life as an opposite sex in there past life. And serious regret for TS when they have changed is only 1 to 2%.
sonnydey 2 years ago
You just contradicted yourself. You say god insn't infallible but then you say it's people making the mistakes not god.
So wich is it. If god doesn't make mistakes would that make Him/her Infallible.
Callabris 2 years ago
I used : I would NEVER say that...
got that :)
That means God never fails. And that's what I meant. People can make mistakes, but I believe that there own subconscious and also there higher self ( beyond subconscious) does not make mistakes or just the ones no human can ever notice.
sonnydey 2 years ago
so you are telling me that you are not wholly sure about what you are doing and you do not consider the sex operation because you MIGHT change idea one day and decide to come back to be the male you used to be?please with all the respect tell me i didn't caught the point
Eyan14 2 years ago
Yeah you didn't get the point, so watch the video again and learn to listen.
Just in case you miss it again, the point goes as follows: "live and let live".
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
You hit the nail on the head! I feel that you just need to be you! I applaude your choice. By the way you are looking so beautiful everytime you put a new video on! Hugs, Michelle
VSMichelle 2 years ago
nice top u look good
konark19 2 years ago
I love your videos. You are so intelligent, articulate, and make great points that I also agree with. I've tried to explain my identity in very similar ways. You are a great person! :)
Hisrevenge 2 years ago
you are the most beatiful transgender what my see
fabinesta 2 years ago
In don't hate my genitals either :P
great video!
HillaryTS 2 years ago
What's most important is that YOU make the right decisions for YOU. I knew what I wanted and went after it, but you are your own person with different wants and desires. It's your happiness at stake, not mine (that's my job). Here in the US life can be very complicated for someone who is a "non-op" (my health insurance became virtually worthless during transition), yet even that is not a good reason for SRS. Only WANTiNG SRS is a good reason to have it. Christina
meldenphire 2 years ago 2
As a Post Op, I agree. I have seen so many people go all out for SRS due to TS Peer group pressure and it is so wrong to make your choice that way. I had it to feel 'Complete', to feel that I wasn't trying to fool the public anymore by hiding that what I was alas, born with. But that was my choice to have it. SRS is for the choice of the individual and no one should interfere in another's transition.
amygurl63 2 years ago
"Complete" described my feelings also. I did hate my genitals, but that doesn't make me right & anyone else wrong. I believe that too many TG have bought into society's belief that we must all be the same; they want us all in the same box. The other danger, which was touched on in the video, is reversing surgery. When, because of pressure or ignorance, someone makes a "mistake" the media jumps all over that, offering it as proof that we're crazy. It makes life harder for those who follow.
meldenphire 2 years ago
Well, that is true. As soon as someone shows a hint of regret, the media and the 'Feminist Writers of the 'worse kind' come out of the woodwork and start spreading the word of warning - which is mildly amusing since they don't know a damned thing about us. Julie Bindel was a prize idiot when it came to writing about the transsexual. Not as if I feel a butch 'dyke' would know much about us, apart from what she'd seen in her bars like CD or Drag Queens. This video did make many good points.
amygurl63 2 years ago
Julie Bindel is a political lesbian not a real lesbian. She also claims that being a lesbian is a choice, it was a choice for her but is not for most lesbians. Most lesbian feminists are fake, they choose to be lesbians because they do not want to be with men. Not because they are into women. They use the LGBT community as a place to shout from, while dividing it up at the same time.
Andr0medaM31 2 years ago
I couldn't agree more. People like Bindel have caused quite a rift. Mind you, I have come across this gay guy called Zipster whom feels 'we' are jumping on the backs of Gays and their Prides. Its amazing how so wrong they judge.
amygurl63 2 years ago
Thank you for sharing your feelings...You really hit the nail on the head...I struggle with the same feelings...I have many TG friends that always ask me "what are you waiting for?" as if I'm not TG if I'm not ready to spend my savings to be what they think I need to be...I'm happy where I am now....your a dear. :)
nataliegirl17 2 years ago
@73r352 AFAIR Lilli Elbe received female reproductive organs by transplantation, but died from complications. I think uterine transplants have been carried out twice in history, with the last one surviving a full menstrual period before it had to be removed because of clotting in one of the supplying arteries.
TenderGenderBender 2 years ago
It's just not here yet, but when/if it is, I hope we can use stem cells to actually grow those organs, because I would rather not.
1) Wait for a donor to be available, and God knows how long that would take with all the infertile genetic women around. Not sure transsexuals would get priority!
2) Take anti-rejection medication for the rest of my life, or the entire pregnancy.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
"The uterine transplant was reported March 7 in the International Journal of Gynecology and Obstetrics. It was performed on April 6, 2000, by researchers at the King Fahad Hospital and Research Center in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia. ... the transplanted uterus responded well and exhibited normal menstrual bleeding following hormonal therapy. But it had to be removed 99 days after implantation because of ... formation of clots in the blood vessels supplying the transplanted uterus." (WebMD Health News)
TenderGenderBender 2 years ago
"In 1930 Elbe went to Germany for surgery, which was only in an experimental state at the time. A series of five operations were carried out over a period of two years ...
The second operation was to remove the penis, and transplant ovaries, which were taken from a 26-year-old woman. ...
Elbe died in 1931, due to complications three months after her fifth and last operation. ... the transplantation of a uterus. Her cause of death is believed to have been transplant rejection." (Wikipedia)
TenderGenderBender 2 years ago
I realy like the shirt that you are wearing.
MrAgmoore 2 years ago
LOL: What could you call Andy Dick if he had a sex change?
A Dick without a dick!
inrtwd 2 years ago
I agree with you 100% on SRS! Top surgery is one thing.. bottom thing is another.
xlilbutchboix 2 years ago
Good video, it's good to see the topic on different sides. SRS is not for everyone, and it really comes down to what makes you happy. I've had SRS and I'm very happy with it, but I know ppl who haven't and don't want it, which is perfectly fine.
gothique11 2 years ago
i dont remember what its called
but u can actualy get a
vagina utero tubes and ovaries
transplanted
73r352 2 years ago
did you someone come home at the end of the video? hehehe
KrisMTL 2 years ago
you are cool.
TGBrooklyn 2 years ago
Good for you. SRS is dangerous and overrated. After all the surgery it will never be an actual organ just an interpretation of one. I personally couldn't go through with it. Plus its not guaranteed that it will even feel right. I would love to have the ability to actually have a a true female anatomy, but medical science just isn't there yet. I totally agree with everything you said. I don't think I would pass as well as you but what's in my pants is not other people's concern.
kindaananomally 2 years ago
i feel as a ts after a year of Hormones that I dont focus on my surgery i havew far too many other things to do. hair removal is a bitch now and breast implants are on thier way... I do want a vagina tho...i live by the beach and it would be nice to wear a bathing suit... and not have to worry about it. only thing is is i feel what relationship will i have i will have to still be proud of ts's and so it will always be apart of my life...would be nice to not deal with it anymore tho...
Fiorwestcoast 2 years ago
I think there is only one rule and that is, stick to what makes you happy. I'm really not into definitions of TG/TS/TV or whatever. Personally, I would want a vagina, and I really don't care about that piece of skin that is blurping out. But I know, I am not in the situation like some are. I already have children. I hate these erections but also would like to being able to have orgasms. So, if ot were up to me, I had it removed tomorrow, but social circumstances prevent this for the time being.
Chloe000001 2 years ago
I agree with you, take your time to take a decision. And if you eventually find out that you don't want to have SRS, that's fine, too. There are still too many people out there who rush transgender into surgery...
TransgenderChannel 2 years ago 2
Thanks for explaining this topic. I do not ever want to cut mine off. I am female whether I have a penis or vagina. One thing I've learned about people and acceptance. No matter how open minded a person can be, he/she will always have reservasion about something. I don't hate my penis and in fact, I kinda like it especially when I'm with a woman who doesn't mind being with another woman like me who just happens to have a penis.
anosiya 2 years ago
Maybe we can start a new category called:
"Q-op Transsexual".
shawncg1 2 years ago
i love your top!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
noalg 2 years ago
I really like your perspective on this. Getting a sex-change operation is a decision that shouldn't be taken lightly, and really, all that matters is that you and your partner are happy with the way things are. I'm probably biased against SRS, though, since I only realized what it meant to be transgender after I learned about intersexuality and decided that genital surgery is a really big deal (and shouldn't be forced on kids by their parents, and losing the ability to orgasm is NOT worth it).
shadowflower44 2 years ago
hun why should you have to explain why it should be ok to be non op! my goodness your a person just like me and the asshole next door! :) but some people are ignorant about these things, it just makes me dumbfounded that some peopel would think this is their buisness! people make me mad :(
berryblitz07 2 years ago
I'm wondeing if you are not attached to a cliche, stereotypical image of women. It seems to me that in today's society the day-to-day differences between guys and girls are less and less obvious. Girls tend to be more boyish, at least in attitude and guys seem to go more towards the metrosexual type. You can be trendy and elegant as a guy or butch as a girl. It seems a bit of a contradiction to me to be uncomfortable with the rest of your body but comfortable with your genitalia...
possumus3 2 years ago
i totally agree i don't plan on getting srs surgery i've been transitioned now for about 4 years. I would say that i am non op as well
roseblossoms00 2 years ago
Another imformative video, As i am a non op TS i can relate to what you are saying. AND yes there are lots of TS who get tunnel vision and i think alot are also think that by getting SRS that all the hatred will magically wash away. But even a POst OP TS can still be discriminated and read as much as any pre-ops. BUt i also think that it is a matter of finding a comfort zone for yourself is most important
Blondets1 2 years ago
I don't get why cisgendered people are so obsessed with transgendered people's bits, so much that I'm almost upset that you discuss it in so much detail instead of just saying "GET A LIFE AND QUIT ASKING ME ABOUT MY BITS!!!"
I really don't like to think about it myself even, for the reasons you discuss. Since it's not a possibility for me now, but might be a few years in the future, why try to figure it out when so much can change between now and then?
aenoether 2 years ago
I say go all the way or not at all. I mean you have breast now and you went through alot to get those and look the female type with HRT. If you are in self doubt just stop it now freeze your sperm get with your lady friend and do whatever.
You sure do confuse me. Not your preference but your identity
Jensagirl 2 years ago
I do what makes me comfortable. I'm not in the habit of letting society, the trans community, or you tell me what I can or can't do.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
Did not mean to offend you Tgirl 15, I have been a faithful subscriber but you can sure confuse the heck out of some people who are in the middle of transitioning.
Do you want to be fem or masc is my question? I mean you can reply to me privately on my channel if you want.
The TG/TS community is all you have my love, what else would you have with out us?
I still will remain a faithful suber to ya okay
Jensagirl 2 years ago
As I said before, I do what makes me comfortable. I'm not looking to masculinize my body, that should be pretty obvious.
I don't quite understand why so many other transsexuals seem to be concerned about my genitals. They are none of your business.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
I agree SRS is a choice, and one you should think about very carefully, however, if you are truly female brain-wise, then male genitals should feel incongruous. Whether or not a person has an anatomically correct vagina, the fact remains that women don't have penises.
Re: legality - unless you have an F on your birth certificate, be prepared to go to male lock-up if you're convicted of a crime. That seems relevant to me. And having a penis in a public female restroom is asking for trouble,
Erica2Lives 2 years ago
There are a lot of reasons why a trans person elects not to have surgery. A huge number of trans men don't even consider it. Deciding against SRS does not make you any less of the sex you identify with.
Also, regarding the restroom issue, if no
one sees it, then it's none of their business. I've never once seen anyone's genitalia in a ladies' room.
JulieADriver 2 years ago
That doesn't mean it hasn't happened. Picture a mom and her small child who innocently pushes a stall door open as the trans person is getting up. Granted it's unlikely, but were it to happen, it could mean arrest, humiliation, and a public court date, a fine or jail time. How about showers & changing rooms at the gym?
If one wishes to be labeled "trans" forever, that's fine. Surgery is what puts these potential problems to bed, and allows one safe access to the private parts of female society.
Erica2Lives 2 years ago
AFAIK. You can't get arrested for that in Canada. And so what, you'd avoid going full-time, stick to the male bathrooms until you're post-op? What a great idea...
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
i wish that there were common bathrooms, like sure have the male/female but why can't there be a bathroom that anyone can go in? like not just for transexuals but who is to say that i feel the need or want to use a womans bathroom?
berryblitz07 2 years ago
How do you feel about newborns born with ambiguous genitalia. Currently most doctors immediately perform surgery to "correct" the genitalia to look like one or the other and tell the parents to socially raise that child as such.
I think they should just leave it and let the child develop on their own and let them decide and maybe give them a gender neutral name, and love them unconditionally however they develop. What are your thoughts? Would you make a video?
juliaormond 2 years ago 2
Never mind the first two questions you answered them in the video (I posted too soon).
juliaormond 2 years ago
Its like you have the Canadian version of my brain. I'm thoroughly enjoying being at peace with myself. So much so that I can withstand the entire world's pressure for me to conform. I will not be limited by society's poorly conceived notions of gender. I have approached srs as all other decisions-a choice with ad/dis/vantages. There's no perfect choice ("magic potion") and therefore no perfect decision. And if I ever do decide to have surgery I'll know it is the right thing for me.
shawncg1 2 years ago 3
How do you feel about your vaginal intercourse with your partner using a male organ when you so badly want to be a woman? Is it weird?
How do you tuck yourself when you are wearing tight jeans?
Mind you I understand these are really personal questions and you don't have to answer them unless you feel comfortable.
juliaormond 2 years ago
1. Not really, penises evolved for that purpose, and since I'm not weirded out by mine, I can enjoy its use.
2. The same way every other transsexual does. Tight underwear or a gaff.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
What does "gaff" mean? I found wery weird ,not applicable to this situation meaning, in my dictionary.
franzevna 2 years ago
It's a thong, slightly wider than usual, meant to help tuck and hide male genitals.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago
Do you just delete my other 4 comments?
Alax817 2 years ago
Don't post a long monologue in the comments. If you feel like doing so, it's a sign you should be making a video response instead.
TrannyGirl15 2 years ago