Thugblamers & Pussybeggers Thats What Their Called???

[dopewords]

so good black men are tellin women before they get soultrained that they should get with a good man and stop trippin on how his approach was. ya know, women are like fuckin babies sometimes and no i'm not mad or bitter just frustrated. it's like "here we are now, entertain us" and we not your fuckin court jesters, if i'm smart but slow to show my wit, that doesn't make me a lame. the world is real and black women better wake up cause them other women don't think i'm too lame. c'mon ladies

[dopewords]

dope vid. i agree with alot of your points. but i'm going to say one thing that i haven't heard many say and that is that most good black men tell the women that they are good black men because they tired of having to play second fuckin fiddle to thugs who use their tried but true relentless non creative bullshit game and women don't make a man wait for anything and so as long as he tickles her entertainment bone he makes it in,cut her up and dips out and we come along and its too late cont'd

[sillygoose544]

Many young women don't use logic when it comes to relationships. When they meet a sexually established man, real or precieved, they don't think "This guy fucks and dumps women. He'll do the same to me. I should leave his vicinity!" They think "He fucks and dumps women. But I think I can change that and make him stay, because he arouses me!" That last sentence was meant to be incoherent.

To be fair, men are similar, but more it's more about looks.

[srhabb]

Bottom line is a huge majority of women are very unaccountable for the shit they do because everything is based on emotion and self-motivated interest. Ask any woman what they want out of a relationship and the many of the first things they will say have nothing to do with building and giving into the relationship. It will be all self interest. Most women have a checklist of what they want from a man never once thinking or caring about about what they will bring to the table.

[TheTruthBearer1]

@HEAVENLYTRUTH1 Well some black men ARE thugs. Some black men ARE gangbangers. Some black men ARE deadbeat fathers. They need to be identified and shamed for their actions. We can't afford to care about what white america will think of us if we do.

[King100ZL]

thanks for the video my friend. I really dont understand why some black women complain about finding a good black man, but when they see a good black man they see him as "nerdy" or "a man with no swagg". so why complain about "not finding a good black men" when you are not interested in dating the good smart black men?

[airwar1990]

I love how when ever black men voice their oponion about the poor choices black women make and how the poor coices hurt the black coommunity we are accused of "whinning." and were mad we "can't get pussy." but if we don't say anything and don't care we are accused of not caring about the black community. BTW gangsta rap culture is what makes whites call every black man they see a thug. I don't care if BW don't pick me I just don't want them to bring abunch of kids in this world with no dads..

[EnkiEntertainment]

I do not claim to be a thug, and don't want to be labled a thug. I am tired of black people with this mind set that we have to have attitudes and talk loud to be a real black person, we need to act like adults and leave the kid mentality back in elementary school. Grow up, I am a man I will defend mine when it calls for it but senseless violence and loud talking make you a fool.

[airwar1990]

@HEAVENLYTRUTH1

how do you think black men should address this problem of black women getting with deadbeats? I notice a lot of black women are attracted to and CHOOSE thugs,losers,deadbeats,and just men with no ambition in life other than sex. Am I a thugblamer/pussy beggar for that?! even if we DON'T call them thugs white people will still see them that way. Maybe men like myself should just not say anything and let these women fuck their lives up in peace how bout that?

[devoutman]

Wow.... This begging will get you mistreatment.

You are wrong to study the actions of BAD men. I say that because you are focused on men that are deadbeats. If you are focused on doing good by a woman, then JUST do you!

Women that are getting bad treatment from their men are deserving of these men. It is these men that make you stand OUT LIKE A STAR.

Just do you bruh... and YOU WILL WIN. Pussy-beggars are real. You should NOT put yourself with them.

[gwynplane723]

You can thank people like Thugtician who popularized those idiotic terms. It's basically a very bitchmade form of trying to discredit the credibility of the one who's simply pointing out a very apparent trend.

[The10men]

The only people that are catching hell from this pussybegging/thugblaming fiasco are the positive black men on the tube. Last time i checked, the "pussy beggers" were the guys that couldn't stand dudes like me. "The playa types".They would do anything to get into a girl drawers, and sadly they would succeed. Maybe its just me.

[loccmonster008]

dude stop fuckin and you'll see what he talking about you lame to the game you gonna learn the hard way dude

[macadon]

Sorry about the late response: in reference to your comment beginning with "not doing what he is supposed to do" Honestly that can be said the same about men who say their doing their job but lying about it. You have men who wanna step up & those who don't wanna claim the role of a father. People's word are no longer their bond anymore because they wanna look like angels in the situation.

[harkying99]

@macadon People's word is no good because they were never taught the outdated concept of honor.There was a time when someone was willing to take an L without pulling guns.Or they said what they ment and ment what they said.I count you among the honorable so I say we are an extinct breed.

[macadon]

Whether he is a thug or not if he doesn't do what hes suppose to do when she had his baby he needs to step up. He could have pulled out when they had sex if hes not the type that's ready for kids or don't have sex. Just the same as she shouldn't have sex when she didn't prepare in having a affair.

[younggenius83]

I think the term "thug" is used too loosely. I think he's trying to say a man who doesn't have his stuff together, not necessarily a thug.

It's more of womens negative behavior and how their choices affect the community.

[macadon]

Honestly it trivial to label other men as thugblamers & pussybeggers as it is when blackmen label other men as thugs and tell women to make better choices in who they get involve with. I mean their could be middle easterns who want to expose other terrorists but can't because of fear & intimation, Just like how the "no snitching campaign" was enforce to not expose those who commit crimes in the black communities.

[macadon]

A black man has the opportunity to no longer live a lifestyle that damages the black community. That in itself is black on black hatred. Hes worst then the men who call out these black men as thugs, hoodlums or whatever. All of us are labeled by our actions that we take. I can not label a man a saint when he rob, kill, distribute drugs to his own people. If women get with no good dudes who don't take responsibility for their actions then yes she could have done better, and been more careful.

[macadon]

I disagree, If telling her she is incapable of conducting herself properly that is telling her that she is irresponsible when it come to men. Thats like going to the store & picking a rotten apple from a good apple then u eat it & get sick, well that person is responsible for getting themselves sick because of the choice they made. So when they complain about getting sick, you tell them well maybe if you make better decision on the type of apples you should eat then you wouldn't get sick.

[macadon]

Not all the time, You hold a woman responsible for her actions when u have a man who wanna handle their responsibility but the woman narrow down the option on how the man should care for the child. When u have men who don't wanna handle their role its because of the woman poor choice, & telling her she could have done better. All men & women are not angels so in different scenarios someone will be blamed. We cannot sit here and not put the man at fault in some situations.

[macadon]

Continue: So if she choose the type of man she wanna be with, its on her. Its not about men blaming other men for the sake of saying "give me a chance" Its a matter of making a choice that will be beneficial for you. So I disagree because in a sense you are holding them responsible.

[macadon]

But we get bad press because there are black men who commit crimes, who do hurt others. Their are big brother type programs who try to help these brothas but you can't help them if they don't want to seek help. We categorize ourselves because of the actions we take. If you make a choice that will cause some difficulty in your life you are at fault because of the choices you made. Whether its a person, occupation, or a goal. In life their are options. you are responsible for your own path

[KidBrotherIsWatching]

Don't expect your explanation to change the way the idiots think, mac, because you're making too dambed much sense.

[edupbeat]

ok, here goes, I've been watching vids about the demise of bm/bw where I've seen your logic as well as others. thugblammers r basically blaming the individual, not the system. the counter 2 that is don't blame the individual blame the system ( i. e. the feminist mvt that put these bitches delusional thought process in place ). I honestly, support the latter BUT, i feel so called "pussybeggers" pain lol, as well, holla!

[BruhMan09]

The "Thugblamer" and "Pussybegger" label are terms IRRESPONSIBLE black men use to justify their wrongdoing(s)

[macadon]

Yes there are some guaranteed pussybeggers But I'm only hearing one definition of it. And the ones who are being accused because they have a genuine concern have to defend themselves. Because like you said there are pussbeggers who will use what I've said as a defense but also the accusers will accuse any man who remotely speak against the no good niggas who treat women like shit, there's a concern and wanna prove women wrong. They will be labeled because of what it has been define as on YT.

[macadon]

But that also depends on how many of them whine and are against interracial dating then complain about who the women chose. You can't pinpoint the percentage. And we are not in these brothas lives who are accused of being thugblamers, pussybeggers. They have reasons we can't put them in a catogeory

based off of assumptions.

[UltraDOG17]

excuses are excuses

[irondrumwork09]

DAMN niggas are stupid ass hell if a respectful, responsible BM is calld this shit! & what gets me is that they are calld thugblamers but what are the women calld when they bitch about their baby daddy not being shit?

& they r called pussybeggers, ok if all the "good BM" are with WW & other races, dont they have pussies? so why would they beg for it when they can get it from other women witout the BS?

i just think this is another example of how this BW who say this shit jus talk out their ass!

[gemini19662007]

Now that's the truth irondrumwork09

[BruhMan09]

Solid video Mac!!!! I totally agree with you the terms, "Thugblamers" and "Pussybeggers" are nothing more than SHAMING TACTICS insecure men use to feel superior

[chenderson30]

And to add to what nothing5630 said,Its funny how were the Pussybeggers and Thugblamers,But when they get used by these men they look for us to help raise their kids,Instead of going after the man who got them pregnant.

[nothing5630]

I never care when a women is with a no good thug that treats her wrong. I dont feel its my responsibility as a good man to save her. Remember -- women are "equal to me"n right? Shes a big girl she can save herself. I wouldnt touch a female that I know has been with a bum.

The kids that are birthed by these animals are the only ones I feel sorry for.

These BW use terms like pussy beggars and thug blamers to deflect responsibility. Instead of actually stopping dating trash they defelect.

[nothing5630]

Solid video.

The type of black women that is on the "there are no good black men" train I would never touch anyway.

The type of black woman that would mess with a bum or thug is no where near good enough for me.

Also, make a women actually EARN your respect. To many guys will kiss a girls ass because she is attactive. Make her prove she is worth a damn besides whats on the outside.

By the way -- the pussybeggar/thug blamer comments are used to deflect responsibility. Simple as that.

[TheNewUSB]

good video

[justalittlebiased]

great point of view on this issue!