Bullies and haters: What's done in the dark always come to light

[Aloebunny]

Some people are just the devil!

[zam123786]

You are an AMAZING, AMAZING person!

Just Incredible, with an Extremely Beautiful soul, it makes me teary eyed

I'm so happy you exist, Cindy!

[natigurl97]

Hi girly, I wouldn't let them get to you, I would block those people if at all possible. I am new to youtube, and am also nervous about video blogging. I tell myself that there may be a few that poke fun, becaust they are losers...but I also tell myself that whatever I have to say is better off being said as theraputic, and as a hobby and personal interest. I may be helping someone else like you have inspired me. You never know who you are helping. Those kind of people will always exist.

[djampersand]

I am just reviewing this video. Listen PRINCESS, its all about OUR focus. We live in a world of positive and negative. Whatever energy is prominent in our lives is what will catapult us to success or death. I know you know which one is better. I received this one from your previous posts:

Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambition.

Small people always do that, but the really great

make you believe you can be great.

Mark Twain

Haters = great MOTIVATORS!

[ChangingChristie]

It honestly makes me sick to find out someone would make fun of such a tragedy! Then again, it makes me very happy to see that you are keeping your head up. I know how being bullied is, I was once a victim also. I couldn't agree with you more about every single thing you said in this video! Stay strong and never give up! You are a wonderful person, don't let others tell you different!

[michelle432110]

wow i cant believe some dick heads said that dont worry i'm 14 tooo trying to loose weight pla help me i want to hear someones oppinion i wateched ur vids and i was inspired but i could'nt :) high skewl is a time for people to shine i wanna help ??! plz :) and dont listen to these ass holes when soemtin happenes to them they iwll no god bless her :`)

[iiJatt]

You inspire me. Stay focused!

[iiJatt]

Cindy, I am here for you. That is so sick for people to mock your mothers death. Her death was not in vain. She would be very proud of you! Love you heaps!

[Kristengetshealthy1]

Stay strong. You are so above the immaturity people spew on here.

[naomithecandlegirl]

SOrry that you had to go through that. It might be some careless kids, all high and ran across your vids during their dumb time. But even if the person(s) is/are sober they're not in their right mind.

[ReeAmor]

Some people are just plain mean. Ignore them. Continue focusing on losing weight and focus on your goals.

[MsJo155]

Hey girl. I dont make videos myself but I needed to just tell you that you are amazing. Your videos were the first videos i watched when I started about a year ago. I thought it amazing how positive you were and focused on losing that weight! Even when you gained weight back I love how real you were in letting us all know. i respect your honesty cuz its real life our weight goes up and down its how we deal with it that makes a difference and shows true character.

[hollisterrbabex3]

Your beautiful inside and out and i wish i were as half as amazing as you are. and you look so cute with your glasses!

[DaphMaddie]

I am sorry that this happen to you. I watch peoples videos and respect their views and advice, even though I do not make videos myself. Keep on making great videos! Take care and stay strong.

[Chub2Babe]

You were so cute when you were little. Ignore the haters and bullies. You are better than that. Power to you Cindy. I have always loved you. You were one of my inspirations 2 years ago to lose weight. :)

[gbyeFAThelloFIT]

Cindy, your personality is SO rare to find and you are truly beautiful inside and out. You have inspired me beyond than what I can ever say with words and because of YOU I am becoming a happier, healthier me. I appreciate Y.O.U, Cindy and I've been watching you from the beginning (not sure if you knew that) and I'm blessed to have met you, even if it is through video. I know you can do this and you are such a strong person. Keep it up and never lose sight of what truly counts in life!

[drulady]

Continue to do you, you are fab! Love that u keep it real....

[fillupthesky]

hi Cindy- i'm sorry that someone would do that to you, just to be spiteful and just plain awful. keep your head up and focus on your family and friends. i'm sure your mom is proud of you, for rising above this.

xoxo

[HIMAY10NENCE]

I know how u feel . The same thing has happened to me . Be strong sis, we love u girl

[catalot]

Cindy, these pitiful people (haters) are only looking for attention, and negative behavior is the easiest way to get it. The best way to deal with them is to act as if they don't exist. Remember, too, these people are very few in number compared to the many who applaud you! You are doing great. Love yourself and smile!

[losingtheweightt]

i saw u on tv! i am very proud od u!

[folsombarbie]

Just saw you on tv (We TV).... So inspired by your story. Congratulations on your weight loss success

[kamcclary]

Cindy, you make positive videos and share openly and honestly. I appreciate your insights and I lift you up in prayer not to let the haters stop you from your mission in life. Continue to let your light shine, getting healthy and striving toward your goals!

[puresouleternal]

Bullies are creeps that are actually targeting people in cruel ways in a desperate/pathetic attempt to acquire SOME validation. Actually, the only powerful person is the one being harrassed and basically a bully is just is trying to steal that power by taking jabs at the vulnerabilities of those with amazing strength

(which they obviously totally lack). All that will be achieved by dwelling on such immature behavior is UNNECESSARY angst, rather than empowerment, which isn't good at all.

[ManiacPower]

Cindy I came across your videos a while back... you are normally such a happy, jovial person but when you were getting upset in this video it really made me sad. We all know you are an honest, hard working and sweet person don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If you have haters then you must be doing something right as people only hate people because of jealousy and their lack of self esteem. Your mother would be very proud of you. God Bless and Love from the United Kingdom xxxx

[dina81]

Cindy, you are a HUGE inspiration to me and countless others and to think that someone would actually stoop as low as to make fun of your mother's death sickens me so much that there are no words to describe it. You are a beautiful person, inside and out, and have a wonderful light about you that shines through to most of us and you always put a smile on my face when I watch your videos. Your Mom would be so proud of your progress and your beautiful spirit.

[Jen01tx]

One thing I've noticed is that a lot of the bullies on youtube are hiding their true identities. If you go to their page it will be empty or they will have an avatar in the place of their real face. Most of these people are struggling to achieve acceptance too, that is why they come on here and put people down in order to get some validation. IGNORE THEM. The attention is ultimately what they want.

[Moonlah]

It doesn't matter what word you use to describe these people, the point is - they're all a bunch of low life idiots that have nothing but time on their hands. YOU however are someone who is going places in life, who has goals, who is kind and loving - and that's something no one can take away from you. Remember, these people didn't know your Mom - so their words are meaningless and pointless. YOU knew her and you were the lucky one to have had her in your life. You win in the end. :-)

[MyHoolaa]

Totally not trolling here...just thought I'd share that it'd be INSANELY cute if you were to tuck your hair behind your ears periodically in future videos:D

[lightontheturn]

love is on your side and always will be___ because you are loveable.

[rgchrono]

don't use the word hater.... that is an ignorant word that stupid people use, and you are not a part of that group. Get a new word and just called them another word, losers, idiots, low lives . etc.etc. The word hater is just full of stupidity and foolishness, that more educated people should not use it. Just my 2 cents

[jaggededgeely]

how could anyone even go there???? ur awesome & we love you! u will always have love around u! haters will be consumed with hate!

[chunkyhoney78]

I'm sorry ppl have 2 b so mean. Don't worry ur a great person n always will b I love watching ur videos.<3

[ANGIEfromAtoZ]

i love your vids and i think your a great inspiration

[ytrap2007]

(((((Cindy))))) I wish I could give you a hug right now because I was so sad that some person could be so cruel and heartless. I am so upset that there are people who could be so horrible. You were a really cute kid! My experience with bully's is that they will find anything to pick on. I went to school with a girl who had a last name of brown. I mean, who cares, that is not horrible, but these mean kids tormented her so much that she started skipping school. I am so sorry about this!

Rebecca

[concedenothing]

The haters have obviously hurt you from this video. If another attack is to come from one of the haters, I hope you can brush it off and keep it moving, wasting no time on what should truly not matter.

[LOVINGB4LIFE]

Misery loves company fatty2slim! we <3 u continue 2 b a Blessing!!!

[HealthfulGlow]

Cindy,

For the most part I ignore bullies/haters. But because they are indeed relentless...there has been a few occasions where I have responded to them as well. Each time I regretted it though...not so much because of what I said to them...but the "time" I wasted on them. I much rather invest my precious time in loving myself and others. “Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it.”

- Martin Luther King, Jr.

[TheRawWeigh]

Cindy, my first instinct is to pound these cockroaches into a mushy brown paste, but...on second thought, I think that the way you handled this situation is ultimately best (to respond with dignity and class). What's REALLY SAD is that these are not just random trolls, but "adults" in the YT WLC on their own weight loss journeys claiming that they are here to support others. Ohhh... how fortunate they all are that you didn't call them out by name!!

[nosrep09]

awww *HUGS* I can tell you have nothing but good intentions, screw the haters!

[upsidedowntopsyturvy]

Aww Cindy We love you girl. You're a constant support ! Not bragging but I have derived so much optimism from you which has helped me not only to get my weight down but also changed the way i looked at myself .I am a much more positive person cindy thank to you for the motivation, and constant hope that yes it's possible. You're an amazing person stay the way you are ! Much love :)

[brokenangel1085]

Cindy- I have been a subscriber for about ayear now. Your an inspriation to me. It just breaks my heart that people would come on here sit behind their little computer and talk smack about you. We support you 100 %.

[EdWont]

Cindy, don't feed the trolls. The internet is a scary place, full of empty people who try to get a rise out of others so they can feel something. Don't acknowledge them. You're taking steps to better yourself. Focus on YOUR progress. Keep calm, and carry on.

[fatty2slim]

@EdWont you are right :-) these are nobodys and I will stay focused on the positive in my life <3

[fatty2slim]

@choosing2lose Thank you, you are right :-) anyone who bullies should be ignored and they are miserable people.

[chubbi44]

OMG!!! are you serious, someone made a joke out of your mom's death????!!!! it's some sad, sick, pathetic people in this world...I know it's hard but continue to make your videos and ignore these bitter, nasty individuals...their negative comments will come back to haunt them in their personal life...

[fatty2slim]

@chubbi44 I agree, these people really need to focus and becoming a better peron. Perhaps if they were not so focused on hating ppl they may reach their goals too. I will ignore them and I want to thank you for being encouraging <3

[claudianow]

Its so hard to deal with regrets when loved ones pass, but rather than wishing your mom had seen you do more videos, you must try to focus on the fact that your mom saw your first video and knew the power of her encouragement.

[fatty2slim]

@claudianow awww, you are right <3 Thanks for the sweet comment, I will keep it close to my heart (hugz)

[sal909]

girl dont listen to all the haters! I wish I had the courage you have for making these vids and going foward with your weight loss plan, I have began n gave up many times it is hard and I really do wish I had the courage to do some vids like you are... I am sure they help in your journey.... Sal

[fatty2slim]

@sal909 you should make videos too :-) its nice to have kind, supportive people in the weight loss community.

[Mar00nDawta]

I thought I heard wrong when you said '' making fun of my mom's death'' so I had to rewind. I cannot believe it!

How insensitive!

[fatty2slim]

@Mar00nDawta I’m surprised as well; I can’t believe people resort to this. I’m not going to lose focus on the positive people in my life (Hugz) thank you

[manycheesecakes]

good for you! you go girl xx

[fatty2slim]

@manycheesecakes thank you so much :-)

[vlo83]

In life, think of mean people like sand paper. They may scratch you and hurt you, but in the end, you come out smooth and polished and the mean person is just worn and ugly. I feel sorry for these people. You are are AWESOME =)

[fatty2slim]

@vlo83 That is the perfect analogy :-) I feel sorry for them too.

Thank you so much for all your support.  <3

[soon2bfit]

You only have haters when you're doing something right. You cannot please everyone no matter how hard you try. As heartfelt as I found this video, 7 people disliked it. That just goes to show. Just let the good outweigh the bad and keep doing what you're doing.

[fatty2slim]

@soon2bfit you are so right :-) thank you for this, it is true.  This really helps me a lot <3

[lunarain19]

You are awesome! Don't let those people hurt you. Some people act like they have no soul and its really strange how people can be so cold. But they are. And you just gotta keep your head up, and I see thats what you are doing. You are a VERY strong girl. I can tell just from watching you. Keep going hun, you are doing great! :)

[fatty2slim]

@lunarain19 Thank you :-) I can't believe people can be so cold as if they don't have a heart. I'm going to focus on the positive and reach my goal, especially with the kind support you have give me. <3

[ocs874]

omg I am sick to my stomach that someone can make fun of your mom like that. keep your head up honey...you will get the last laugh. what goes around come around, and karma is a bitch. the haters will get theres in the end. be positive!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[fatty2slim]

@ocs874 my friend said the exact same thing, it made her sick to hear that. Thank you for the comment and being here for me (hugz)

[hildir]

for some people hating and making fun of people is kind of a sport it is sick and messed up and so are they ......I have given up trying to understand why they are that way ....it is a major problem in schools and in our society as a whole......stay strong and focused Cindy you are loved an appreciated by many and you have helped a lot of us by sharing ......we need you ......mean people will always be a problem for all of us don't let them get the best they love it when they hit a nerve.

[fatty2slim]

@hildir thank you, as always you are so kind :-) I need to stop analyzing their behavior and why they act this way. I love all of you too <3 you are amazing and I'm glad to know genuine people like yourself (Hugz)

[Ambiepants08]

Forgive the idiots who are trying to hurt you. You are the sweetest person on Youtube. Anybody who could be nasty to you no doubt would also kick puppies for fun. I would feel sorry for them because you have to wonder who in their life has talked that way to them, know what I mean? {{Hugs}}

[fatty2slim]

@Ambiepants08 you make a good point, who in their lives taught them to be this way. Its so sad and I hope they get help for it soon. Thanks for being supportive (hugz)

[LADIEDON]

I'm sorry Cindy for the ppl who say those horrible things... PRAY for them, they may be hurting just like u said ... PRAYER is more powerful that we can imagine...keep doing greAt .... I'm rooting for u...GOOOOO CINDY!!!

PS U HAVE A KINDA HEART SHOW IT TO THE PPL WHO ARE HEARTLESS MAYBE THEY R CRYING OUT FOR HELP!!!!

[fatty2slim]

@LADIEDON I agree,  these people are heartless and are crying out for help. It can't be a good way to live a life. I appreciate all of your kindness and support <3

[loly5471]

Cindy you don't have to listen to anyone honey. You are the best! You are our # 1 person in youtube and you keep it up. They are too many idiots out there. You have all of us that care for you and you are so important to us baby. I lost 94lbs thanks to you and your videos. I met you at a time of my live I was desperate and you made it happen for me. We all love you and need you here!!!

[fatty2slim]

@loly5471 first off, I was to congratulate you on your weight loss :-) 94 pounds in amazing. Thank you, this is very encouraging. I need and love all of you too (hugz)

[DollDisasterx]

I cannot believe how shallow and rude people can be, my goodness.

Keep your head up!

[fatty2slim]

@DollDisasterx I know, it is surprising. Thank you for your very nice comment <3

[UniversityofMe101]

Honestly, I don't understand how anyone could even think to say something negative to a person as beautiful and positive as you.

[fatty2slim]

@UniversityofMe101 awww, thank you for always being so encouraging, positive and supportive. You are so sweet <3 (hugz) 

[Provysjourney]

Thanks so much for this video, Cindy. Keep your focus on your goals rather than these people that make rude, hurtful comments. I love watching your videos - they are very helpful & inspiring. Please ignore the mean comments & concentrate on the good ones. Don't let them run you off!

[fatty2slim]

@Provysjourney This is perfectly said <3 I will continue to focus on my goals and make them a reality. Thank you for the encouragement.

[fatty2slim]

@ScreamingInAPaperCup thank you, you're so sweet <3 I'm so happy I received this comment :-)

[fatty2slim]

@gabyteaparty I can’t believe it either. I'm so sorry about your loss, I know exactly how you feel (hugz)

[MYSTIQUE5044]

You're doing a great job and those haters and bullies are terrible! Keep on being positive you!

[fatty2slim]

@MYSTIQUE5044 this is so sweet :-) and you're right about the "no heart" haters. (hugz)

[timeIezz]

thank you, cindy!

many youtubers dissapear from youtube because of haters and bullies. its really sad because youtubers have more supporters than haters, and yet the nasty comments have more power than the encouraging ones. THANK YOU, for addressing these trolls, and letting them know that you are not going anywhere, and you are staying here for us, your supporters! im sure your mom is very proud of you, for sticking to your heart.

[fatty2slim]

@timeIezz You are absolutely right :-) It's really important to concentrate on the supporters, not haters. I’m sticking to my heart; these people can't force me off of here. I appreciate your wonderful comment. (hugz)

[JumokeTV]

Don't shed a tear for a hater.. Your a amazing and real person! Keep your head up and keep moving forward.. Sometimes people have no life so they must troll online.. Forget those peeps :D

[fatty2slim]

@JumokeTV you are so right not to shed a tear over a hater :-) This is a very nice comment. They don't have lives lol <3

[iamadumpling]

wow I can't believe someone did that, that's messed up, but keep moving on, you are a great person~erica

[fatty2slim]

@iamadumpling I'm definitely going to keep making videos, they can’t stop me <3 thank you for all your support.

[150memyselfandi]

I am shocked and appalled at what has been happening !

(hugs ) to you Cindy and know you are loved !

[fatty2slim]

@150memyselfandi awww, thank you so much, I'm surprised myself. (hugz)

[sarahscott888]

You made me cry! You are such a darling person and a strong soul. That picture of you as a child - that child was precious and so CUTE! Haters have both emotional and mental problems. It is hard to do, but just feel sorry for them and ignore them. U r doing great!

[fatty2slim]

@sarahscott888 I agree, I need to ignore them. Thanks for the sweet comment about the photo, I think I was 10 years old :-)

[lucidparody]

Love it

[fatty2slim]

@lucidparody thanks :)

[cafeconlechegrl]

Omg Cindy..i cant believe this happened..We love you Cindy.. I honestly think that you should start approving the comments because their are too many low lifes..The reason I say this is because in the last month I noticed that their is particular channels that people proclaim that they are haters and their mission is too make fun of people videos..i actually read this on their profile info..is disturbing..Godbless you and your family.. I Rebuke you Satan..Go back to your hole..

[fatty2slim]

@cafeconlechegrl wow, that is disturbing and heart less. I didn't even realize people like this existed. Thank you for supporting me <3

[educatemotivate]

God Bless you now and always! You are very inspiring.

[fatty2slim]

@educatemotivate thank you soooo much :-) 

[orlsrr]

Hugs to you!!

[fatty2slim]

@orlsrr awww, thank you :-)

[Crystal110987]

Good for you girl! Dont let them bother you! Like you said.. those who put that much into bullying dont have lives. I sent you a friend request on Fb..crystal mullins :) 

[fatty2slim]

@Crystal110987 I wish they would go find a life lol :-) I will accept it now, thank you so much

[fatty2slim]

@MrViolentlyHappy No, I haven't but I do think it’s a good idea. Thank you so much <3

[0SwissMiss0]

You have the power Cindy...don't let people ever dim your light, you are very positive and an inspiration!

[fatty2slim]

@0SwissMiss0 You are so right, this is perfectly said :-) thank you for this

[fatty2slim]

@MrViolentlyHappy I agree, its hard to believe some of them are my age. Thank you for the support <3

[taytay2befit]

you go cindy i love ur positive additude....you will you can do this i wish you much success...you rock girl...

[fatty2slim]

@taytay2befit awww, thank you :-) you are so sweet <3

[blakkandi]

I'm so sorry this happened to you

[fatty2slim]

@blakkandi thank you so much :-)

[sarahince27]

Do you have a website? I would love to send you a facebook friend request. You have helped me so much within the last year! I am struggling to lose 50 pounds. I had my gallbladder removed in 2006 and the end results has been a slow metabolic rate. I seem to keep weight on now even though I work out a lot and keep calories down. I am going to keep trying though. I plan on going to the doctor to get a blood work up.

[fatty2slim]

@sarahince27 I do have a facebook page. Its on my fatty2slim channel page. I'm going for my blood work next week as well. It really helps to know where I am medically. Thank you for your comment (hugz)

[sarahince27]

I love you Cindy! Don't let these people bother you. You are beautiful and I love your videos. Keep making videos and block people who are mean.

[fatty2slim]

@sarahince27 thank you, I agree about blocking them, they are mean.  Thanks for your support (hugz)

[RunRoseRun]

Talking about your mom! That was low even for haters!! Scum!!! Keep it up, Cindy. Your subscribers love you and support you all the way!!!!!!!

[fatty2slim]

@RunRoseRun thank you, I love you too <3 it is low and surprising. They don't have a heart. (hugz)

[jeninky1969]

you are a inspiration and keep up the good work!

[fatty2slim]

@jeninky1969 thank you so much <3

[LondonFalling]

Oh my goodness, I can't believe people actually behave that way. That's absolutely disgusting and disappointing to know that people can be so heartless and pathetic.

Unfortunately, people show their true colors behind the safe anonymity of the computer screen. I hope you know that it's a reflection of themselves and their own issues and negativity. People who are genuinely happy with themselves and their life don't waste their time being bullies.

Hopefully they grow up and get it together

[fatty2slim]

@LondonFalling I agree 100%, it is disgusting behavior and they are heart less. Your support helps me so much <3 It's a great feeling to know there is good people like you in this world.

[ua2011]

You are such a strong and beautiful person. Those haters are pathetic, despicable, and insignificant.  I wish you all the best! God Bless :o)

[fatty2slim]

@ua2011 I appreciate all of your support; I'm confused as to why someone would do this. I needed to get it out there and I’m ready to focus on the positive things. (hugz)

[diggs1976]

Ahh, you were the cutest little girl. Much love and peace to you.

[fatty2slim]

@diggs1976 thank you so much <3 love and peace to you too (hugz)

[Seedcovers]

Someone else that I watch on youtube has been bullied off of youtube, just yesterday, what a shame! Don't let them run you off, they are very hurt and in inner turmoil themselves and wont to make others life miserable.

[fatty2slim]

@Seedcovers thank you Sandra, these people really have no life or heart. It makes me wonder if love is missing from their lives. You have been a wonderful friend and I'm so glad to know you (hugz)

[weightlosejill]

My brother died in 2006 I feel for you.  Why would anyone do those things. Whats wrong with haters brains.

[fatty2slim]

@weightlosejill I'm so sorry, I know what you are going through. Hugz to you and your family.

[lylygirlygirl]

it's so cruel to make fun of other people feelings, and yes they will face many situatons that will make them regret being so bad, believe in Karma.

[fatty2slim]

@lylygirlygirl I am with you, it is very cruel. I'm strong and I have to remember who it's coming from. Thank you so much <3

[hodgrix]

thats fucked up that they would bring your mom into it. its just bad karma for them and crossing the line

[fatty2slim]

@hodgrix I agree, I'm still in shock someone could do that. Thanks for everything <3

[GenevieveDosSantos]

Your video touched me Cindy. I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother, but I'm sure you know that she would be so proud of you for not letting the haters of the world get you down and stop you from living your life. I'm sending you lots of YouTube love, girl. Keep the videos coming.

[fatty2slim]

@GenevieveDosSantos awww, you're so sweet. I promise I will keep making videos :-) thank you for all your support (hugz) 

[olanderolive]

WE LOVE YOU CINDY!

HATERS GO TO HELL

[fatty2slim]

@olanderolive thank you, love you too <3

[jshel37]

@olanderolive you said that right

[lylygirlygirl]

ur such a strong person, if there's any moment when u feel down plz dont harm urself overeating. wish u the best allways.

[fatty2slim]

@lylygirlygirl thank you :-) I wont over eat, nothing can stop my from reaching my health goals.

[athomas1124]

I wish you all the blessings in the world.

[fatty2slim]

@athomas1124 thank you so much (Hugz)