Dear TMOT: Role Reversal - Aggressive Women & Immature Men

[MyThoughtsIhave]

Thank you for sharing the personals... Im sorry for your families lost! GOD will take care of his children once they/we go home.

[slimthuggaboy]

good stuff man that was a power punch in the face we as a people need to change..

[alexstormrage]

very touching video.

[tobysoter]

The video is crystal clear.

[WilBarn99]

If you are a true Christain you will not have out of wedlock babies over and over again. If you are a true Christian you will not let your sons walk around with thier drawers hanging(so other will think of them as thugs) or your let daughter your daughter dress like hoochies (so others think of them as tramps).

A religion structure is healthy.

[WilBarn99]

It's not bible thumping...a strong religion belief tends to be a safer lifestyle.

If you are a true Christian you will not be in the clubs or bars to catch Aids or get raped or shot. If you are a true Christian you will not smoke to ruin your lungs and catch Cancer. You will not drink alcohol to destroy your liver if you are a Christian and you will not use crack and destroy your life by forcing people to steal to support the drug habit. Being a true Christian is a safer way to live.

[potterword]

I'm for marry whoever u love; it's not an age or race thing. It is a gender thing however. Unfortunately, these days we have to be clear re: fags n dikes; it's sin - there is no gray line! It's sin!

[potterword]

Furthetmore, lets face facts, looks matter from the very start. Ladies don't want tired old decrepit males. Finally, the $ is a means to an end. These days we r seeing young studs with older women.

[potterword]

It is what it is including all the other things spoken of; it is a correct observation of the slothfulness n subjectivity with no concern for age. Unfortunately this life for males in society is ok.

[potterword]

The convincing is done in the mirror.  u r cool with it, so as i said- that's the way it is with males.

[tmotofga]

I know plenty of women and men who are secure in their grey hair and wear it proudly. You sound as though you may be a youngster caught up in the superficiality of appearance (barring that which is unhealthy of course). It that so?

[potterword]

Thank u i will.

That's the point exactly although the comment wasn't directed to u. Your choice & u have to look at it.

Like it or not it's true...all of the statements.

[tmotofga]

Who are you trying to convince? Me?

There is nothing wrong with my grey hair!

End of Story.

[potterword]

Bottom line males tend to take the easy road.Very, very lazy but still wants to be in control if it'll fly.Abandons kids & simply prefers, pleasure, entertainment,anything selfish over helping others.

[tmotofga]

I am a male and I don't take that view. But, then you already know I am a male.

[potterword]

In a male's view, a lady is to be humble & meek while the males r not to display self control. Frankly, that attitude can be seen physically on males. Fat slobs, unshaven, bad clothes, gray hair, ew.

[tmotofga]

You sound a little crossed. I am proud of my grey hair. Live long enough to enjoy some of your own and then we can have a conversation. Have a good day.

[potterword]

The problem with males is they always want to control both males n ladies. But the ladies is an easier target since males feel they can always tell a woman what to do.This begins with labels.U r wrong

[potterword]

The male enjoys labeling women as nagging, aggressive,etc.The fact is let's look in the mirror and determine a male's numerous problems w/o for once blaming a woman.The tired ego of males r ball-less

[CymroGoch]

@potterword You're insane.

[kitabare76]

Thanks for caring enough to share your story.

[jaj1823]

This is a very deep and important message, but I was hoping for a better answer on the topic of role reversale of aggressive black woman and immature black men

[tmotofga]

I answered it. We teach them if they are willing to listen that there is a better way.

If they are not willing to listen, move on.

The lost has to want to be found. Do not loose sleep over it.

[dscottn101]

That's deep brotha, damn.

[WilBarn99]

A very powerful video.

My brother who has AIDS had to bury his partner of 20 years a year ago. His partner cheated and eventually got infected. Yes...people are still dying of AIDS and they truly do SUFFER. That germ infects every organ in your body and AIDS people can not recieved oragan donations. They will not put or waste a healthy organ into a diseased body.

Many people with AIDS look very healthy...beware of who you get in bed with.

[dealmaker007]

Man a lot of people need to hear this, because a lot of them, both men and women are sitting there doing what they doing and thinking the chickens won't come hope to roost on them. I hope they listen and learn from your message and R.I.P to your two brothers. Thanks for speaking on this topic.

[dealmaker007]

Damn I didn't know it was that many. This is serious!

[peezhead]

This is not a problem with the Black race. It's a problem with the U.S. Blacks. The blacks in Africa, West Indies are good the majority of times.

[PuffyCatTail]

What can we do? The internet can be a powerful tool. The bad part is many people want to watch videos about cute kittens and they don't have much interest in anything else.

The state of TN used to have health care for everyone who didn't have health care. It was great. But, it ended up getting the hatchet except for those that qualify for medicaid. But, trusting your state and trusting the federal government are 2 different things. lol

[PuffyCatTail]

Yes, I know about Margaret Sanger. I saw a movie about her and all they discussed in the movie was her demonization because she wanted birth control available for people. Of course, later I learned the truth about her.

This and other concerns are why all of the citizens of the US should get together for real change. The gov't likes to used divide and conquer so we fight among ourselves and never realize what isactually going on.

I am outraged by what you are telling me. I'd guess there are..

[PuffyCatTail]

many others that don't know and would also be outraged.

[dealmaker007]

Is Sanger the same person who wrote the S.C.U.M. manifesto?

[PuffyCatTail]

No, that was Valerie Solonas and she shot Andy warhol.

[PuffyCatTail]

Yes and since when have we had czars. Where have we heard the term, "Motherland" used.

If I had been one of the, "slow" children, I could have been one of those injected.

I'll bet you are familiar with the Georiga Guidestones. They openly state their plans there.

[sikurzu]

Good intentions my friend. Peace.

[rlbella35]

God bless

[jrscandy]

This vid is awesome deep caring and quite a teaching tool tmot. thanks.............

[tmotofga]

A pleasure. Thank you.

[livinmybestlife]

Great vid. I loss my brother to HIV too. He was only 35.

[Powerpuffgirl08]

Thank you for this video and I am also very sorry for your loss.

God Bless you.

[1sweetcanderella]

You have suffered very heavy losses...

I hope everyone is listening...

There is so much to be learned here... Hugs to you my friend...

[tmotofga]

Thank and everyone else for their thoughts.

[WONDAWOMAN]

Tmot, I decided that I am going to download your videos and make some DVDs and share them with the young people that I love. I tried to tell my grandma how much we need wisdom from those who came before us. But I don't see anyone in the "church" circles doing what you are doing, just in the churches.

It is SO needed and I am grateful for you sharing your views & advice.

[tmotofga]

Please do. Thank you.

[PuffyCatTail]

You have been through a lot and I am so sorry for your loss. I can tell that you loved your brothers very much.

I think that our government released Aids on the black and gay communities. I don't trust out governmenta at all. I know that our government had mentally challenged children injected with radioactive material. This happened years ago in the town that I live in. This info was released by the main stream media. So, I have to wonder what are they up to now.

Take care. :)

[kyates1]

I know your talking about the Tuskegee experiment when the government gave black ppl Syphilis and lied and told them it was a flu shot.

[PuffyCatTail]

Tuskeggee was another atrocity visited on US citizens. Oak Ridge Tn is where the children were injected with radioactive substances. Our fair country has blood on it's hands from it's very beginning. It makes me sick.

[mpenny226]

TMOT I am so sorry about the loss of your brothers. Thank you for your words of wisdom.

[RoninSoul75]

I send my condolences to you and your family in your loss. I appreciate your contributions, TMOT

[LadyMaiwyn]

BTW I am sorry for the loss of your brothers. Much Love. ``Jenna aka Maiwyn (Beloved Music of the Soul)

[IONENABILLION]

Tmot you are so deep!!! That's really sad what happened to your brothers and maybe people will see why your against premarital sex. It's a shame but some people have to learn the hard way as a result of their own stubbornness.

[LadyMaiwyn]

THe main moral and values you speak of in here I agree with, however since I have a different spiritual belief the nitty gritty details are a little different for me. But I agree that everyone as a whole need to wise and be good quality people. Help one another, love one another, stop taking things personally and learn to love everyone for their differences. I dont believe in "gender roles" but only in "human roles".

[tmotofga]

As long as we can live together in peace, I won't argue, fuss or fight. God Bless You.

[bertly71]

The Army taught me that we are all one color, Green. In that lesson, I realized that we are all Americans and should look for what we share in common rather than focus on our differences. Great video and from the heart. Thanks for sharing.

[LadyMaiwyn]

Now its we are all gray, lol. I was in the Army for 2 years active duty. Taught me a lot about myself. Learned things I didnt know I was capiable of. I miss that lifestyle sometimes, but now my children come first with thier disabilities, they need more of my time, the Army can't give me back time with my kids, so thats why I left. Bless you for all that you do. Jenna `aka` Maiwyn (Blessed Music of the Soul)

[bertly71]

Gray is the way theese days and that is not all bad. Grandchildren and Great Grandchildren make old age very enjoyable, regardless of the aches and pains. Thank you for your service.

[JSharmaine]

Thank you borh for your service!

[tmotofga]

Glad to do it in the Service of My God. Thank you for your support.

[magirecords2004]

Real Talk.

Shabbat Shalam,

K.

[goppatriots]

tmotofga video get's 5 Stars. Sorry for you lost.

[BuckFarack]

I am so sorry for your lose.

5 *****

[JSharmaine]

Wooooooo!!!! 5 stars!!!

[carguyinok]

Your videos are wonderful and filled with hart, I always look forward to seeing what topic you have come up with next. I feel that I understand why and please dont think bad of this comment. But, I think your words of wisdom would reach many more people if you would refrain from the issue or topic of color. For me I get ticked off filling out paperwork and being asked race. I just check other and write human. It's 2009 we should be over that by now God bless and have a goodnight.

[JSharmaine]

He specifically talks about the black race because of the issues in our community, but all people can learn from him! He's said that a few times in many of his videos. :)

[tmotofga]

I will always love you.

[carguyinok]

Like I said I do feel that I understand why. I am only making a suggestion for him to be able to reach out and get these words of wisdom out to a lot more people. There are a lot of peolpe out there that hear race being brought up in a video and just close it. That's my only point. I see nothing wrong with it. I am only wishing that more people would listen and learn.

[JSharmaine]

I agree. No hard feelings. :)

[tmotofga]

God Bless You for listening.