You dumbass, I've been with the same man for six years. So we all want to know are you that ugly you can't put a picture up of yourself on your channel? Get a grip cunt... lol
Are you sure it's the "independence" that brothas are "intimidated" by?
Arrogance in a woman is a turn off for me. Men don't want a woman who will look down on them. It's not the success itself that is the problem it is the ATTITUDE that sometimes can accompany it.
If you used to the finer things and I can't provide those for you and you are ok with that then no problem. However if you claim that I am less of a man because of this, then we have an issue. See where I'm going?
College degrees are like assholes, everybody has one.
Men are not turned off by successful women, they are turned of by arrogant women who have to tout their so-called "success" around in light of their bad attitudes, lack of personality, and horrible social/dating skills. Check your foul attitudes and bravado (and the bragging) and maybe someone might be able to stand you so-called "independent women" types.
Btw: Your friend is a simp and a female ass kisser.
Also, before any other women posts, and try to twist the words of what the men have posted. nobody is saying that a man wants a woman to be home barefoot and pregnant, we all know in todays economic times and cost of living it takes 2 incomes. when a man finds the traits he wants in a woman, AND she has a good job, her own house, car....etc
THATS AN ADDED BONUS OR ICING ON THE CAKE, BUT ITS NOT ONE OF THE TOP PRIORITIES ON A MAN'S LIST OF QUALITIES HE LOOKING FOR IN A MATE!!!!!
Black men want successful women, most men want successful women. The problem is that the majority of successful black women are just not attractive. And black women think that being successful means that they can be fat and unattractive and expect a good looking black man.
unfortunatley this doesnt sit well with most women because they dont really enjoy being housemaids as much as they enjoy pursuing their dreams - & most of the time this is more important than simply attracting men who want women washing, ironing, cleaning & breeding.
i too would love a "sanctuary" to come home too, & be waited on eagerly by a (essentially) personal slave - we can all dare to dream.
i think we need to move on from the 'roles' of another time period.
And the mistake a lot of BW make is they think what attracts a woman to a man (again his material possessions which BW will dress it up and call it providing, stability.....etc.) Also attracts a man to a woman, so a lot of women who might have a degree, a career, her Own car and house cant figure out why they are not being chosen as mates. Well a confident
Secure man isn't attracted to a woman's material possessions.
Let me give my 2cents although it will echo the same sentiments as a couple of brothas who previous responded
A lot of BW call it intimidation, well those are from insecure brothas. The secure successful
Brothas are turned off by so-called "Independent" BW because the things women put emphasis on (material possessions) as far as the qualities she deems she wants in a mate, are not the same qualities BM deems he wants in a mate.
Your success, your education, your accolades, DOES NOT MATTER
Its what you are as a person, and if you got an over-inflated ego from the accolades, and you try and lord over a man about them, and use them as reasons why you dont have that feminine, supportive, friendly disposition, then guess what, I need not be bothered with you, you will only bring me a headache
Being sucessful dont matter, being a bitch and having a 'tude because of it does
Look, it's pretty simple, successful/strong/independent women simply don't fill the bill for true, decent, got-it-together men, period point blank. Excluding the simps, wimps, thugs, and manginas; hardworking, stable men'x ideal woman who's a good wife, good lover, good friend, good mother; what aspect of any of that does an "independent" woman bring to the table. Really though, what could possibly be the lure? Your money? What? Plus, YOU'RE INDEPENDENT! What does it matter anyway? Right??
STRONG WOMEN are essential today BECAUSE MEN HAVE ABDICATED THEIR LEADERSHIP ROLES! Who in their right minds desire a weak woman?
princeeverlove 2 years ago
ms piggy wants to know why men dont want her? How bout putting the cake and cookies down....
Maquiame 3 years ago
You dumbass, I've been with the same man for six years. So we all want to know are you that ugly you can't put a picture up of yourself on your channel? Get a grip cunt... lol
ZETAZEN 3 years ago
Are you sure it's the "independence" that brothas are "intimidated" by?
Arrogance in a woman is a turn off for me. Men don't want a woman who will look down on them. It's not the success itself that is the problem it is the ATTITUDE that sometimes can accompany it.
If you used to the finer things and I can't provide those for you and you are ok with that then no problem. However if you claim that I am less of a man because of this, then we have an issue. See where I'm going?
dealmaker007 3 years ago 3
Bullllll shit!!!!!
College degrees are like assholes, everybody has one.
Men are not turned off by successful women, they are turned of by arrogant women who have to tout their so-called "success" around in light of their bad attitudes, lack of personality, and horrible social/dating skills. Check your foul attitudes and bravado (and the bragging) and maybe someone might be able to stand you so-called "independent women" types.
Btw: Your friend is a simp and a female ass kisser.
ironroad18 3 years ago 6
Also, before any other women posts, and try to twist the words of what the men have posted. nobody is saying that a man wants a woman to be home barefoot and pregnant, we all know in todays economic times and cost of living it takes 2 incomes. when a man finds the traits he wants in a woman, AND she has a good job, her own house, car....etc
THATS AN ADDED BONUS OR ICING ON THE CAKE, BUT ITS NOT ONE OF THE TOP PRIORITIES ON A MAN'S LIST OF QUALITIES HE LOOKING FOR IN A MATE!!!!!
cnell25 3 years ago 7
Black men want successful women, most men want successful women. The problem is that the majority of successful black women are just not attractive. And black women think that being successful means that they can be fat and unattractive and expect a good looking black man.
realtrend 3 years ago 7
Most men are not intimidated by a successful woman....
They're turned off with the arrogant, "I'm better than you" attitude a lot of these "successful, independent" women have. PERIOD.
DaGrimm1 3 years ago 7
cont:
What attracts a man to a
Woman is her nurturing side, her personality, her attitude, the ability to take care of a family
Including taking care of her husband. And making home a sanctuary for a man to come home to
But let's face it, a lot of BW today just don't have those traits and they use there material
Possession to overcompensate for those shortcoming.
cnell25 3 years ago 7
unfortunatley this doesnt sit well with most women because they dont really enjoy being housemaids as much as they enjoy pursuing their dreams - & most of the time this is more important than simply attracting men who want women washing, ironing, cleaning & breeding.
i too would love a "sanctuary" to come home too, & be waited on eagerly by a (essentially) personal slave - we can all dare to dream.
i think we need to move on from the 'roles' of another time period.
hotchicken360 2 years ago
cont:
And the mistake a lot of BW make is they think what attracts a woman to a man (again his material possessions which BW will dress it up and call it providing, stability.....etc.) Also attracts a man to a woman, so a lot of women who might have a degree, a career, her Own car and house cant figure out why they are not being chosen as mates. Well a confident
Secure man isn't attracted to a woman's material possessions.
cnell25 3 years ago 6
Let me give my 2cents although it will echo the same sentiments as a couple of brothas who previous responded
A lot of BW call it intimidation, well those are from insecure brothas. The secure successful
Brothas are turned off by so-called "Independent" BW because the things women put emphasis on (material possessions) as far as the qualities she deems she wants in a mate, are not the same qualities BM deems he wants in a mate.
cnell25 3 years ago 6
How many time does this has to be said
Your success, your education, your accolades, DOES NOT MATTER
Its what you are as a person, and if you got an over-inflated ego from the accolades, and you try and lord over a man about them, and use them as reasons why you dont have that feminine, supportive, friendly disposition, then guess what, I need not be bothered with you, you will only bring me a headache
Being sucessful dont matter, being a bitch and having a 'tude because of it does
DigitalKieran 3 years ago 6
Look, it's pretty simple, successful/strong/independent women simply don't fill the bill for true, decent, got-it-together men, period point blank. Excluding the simps, wimps, thugs, and manginas; hardworking, stable men'x ideal woman who's a good wife, good lover, good friend, good mother; what aspect of any of that does an "independent" woman bring to the table. Really though, what could possibly be the lure? Your money? What? Plus, YOU'RE INDEPENDENT! What does it matter anyway? Right??
bronx0347 3 years ago 5
Men scared of successful women? Not me. because successful women turn me on. But men have their egos.
EastAtlantaBoy2 4 years ago
That's a boy.
manifestmoney 4 years ago
Thats a weak man, point blank period
juiceegapeach 4 years ago