also its sucks that society tells women that you cant buy a car, house, big bed or be happy until you find a man... or he finds you. "happily single" also means i am happy with God's gift of life. doesnt mean we dont want love. it means im happy. just happy.
I've never heard a woman say she doesn't want love. women say they prefer to be single because of the lack of love in every relationship they have. men who just want to control women. women want independence and don't want a man coming in and taking over their life. when women say "i don't need no man" they actually mean they need no dominance in their life, they're not saying they don't want love. single women want love, but it just seems like a fantasy, so they give up on love.
Why the focus on single women, especially with all of these single MEN out there. Quite a few......check out the stats for some of these online dating sites.
@Creditgirl2020 Absolutely... I was going to say the same exact thing! There are quite a few quality men out here that are single. It would be pretty cool if askdedan did a blog on that!!
Im saying this because what IF A WOMAN JUST CHOOSE TO NOT HAVE A MAN SHOULD SHE BE MISERABLE? now answer that question lol.. on the other end some women pretend, well that's their choice as well.. YOU DIG.
ALSO, technically you are single if you are not MARRIED... LOL END OF STORY, so one can be indeed happy single, finding a men is not the ultimate life goal because marriage isn't for everyone...it's the truth not everyone CAN HANDLE IT.. or are near ready..for that.. there's god, always thyself,family and friends and then a man.. having that mate is just an extra plus that's all
OH, i knew that god has blessed the face of this earth with amazing men, and i was able to acknowlege what a men can most deff bring me to the table and appreciated it from the beginning...that's why now i am blessed with the men i have..SO TRUE.......
BW need to seek out the type of man that suites them, instead of trying to be chang to suite a man. BM are typically dominant. That means, that to be w/a BM you must submit. If you are a dominant BW, then you might need to seek out a non-BM, b/c BM are reared to be dominant over their women. This kid speaks from his limited experience,& narrow view of the Black segment. But there is an entire world that BW need to access to find their mate; or settle for suffering in submission w/a BM.
We tend to jump head first into situations just to escape the shame of being viewed as "single" , it actually gives us time to reflect on who we are, what we really want, less likely cling to people, out of fear of abandonment.. If women expect to find a meaningful, stable relationship, and maintain it, they must establish strong core self, from which to base their values and expectations, so they're secure their needs are being fully met.
I think your them song is very good and your advice is grate. Now if only BM/BW will heed you advice maybe just maybe all this silliness will cease. We have to realize we are all we have all of these outside influences tearing apart the black family........ Wake up folks.
I dont need no man
latroywifey 2 months ago
also its sucks that society tells women that you cant buy a car, house, big bed or be happy until you find a man... or he finds you. "happily single" also means i am happy with God's gift of life. doesnt mean we dont want love. it means im happy. just happy.
knottrippin1 2 months ago
if a woman says she wants to be single indefinitely that's her nice coded way of saying that she doesn't want you.
knottrippin1 2 months ago
I've never heard a woman say she doesn't want love. women say they prefer to be single because of the lack of love in every relationship they have. men who just want to control women. women want independence and don't want a man coming in and taking over their life. when women say "i don't need no man" they actually mean they need no dominance in their life, they're not saying they don't want love. single women want love, but it just seems like a fantasy, so they give up on love.
hot6235 3 months ago
Why the focus on single women, especially with all of these single MEN out there. Quite a few......check out the stats for some of these online dating sites.
Creditgirl2020 4 months ago
@Creditgirl2020 Absolutely... I was going to say the same exact thing! There are quite a few quality men out here that are single. It would be pretty cool if askdedan did a blog on that!!
elperez33 4 months ago
thank you!!!!
hulkandsuperman 6 months ago
god ain't gonna ever give you what you can't handle ;) mk im done now lmao
licialicous 8 months ago
Im saying this because what IF A WOMAN JUST CHOOSE TO NOT HAVE A MAN SHOULD SHE BE MISERABLE? now answer that question lol.. on the other end some women pretend, well that's their choice as well.. YOU DIG.
licialicous 8 months ago
ALSO, technically you are single if you are not MARRIED... LOL END OF STORY, so one can be indeed happy single, finding a men is not the ultimate life goal because marriage isn't for everyone...it's the truth not everyone CAN HANDLE IT.. or are near ready..for that.. there's god, always thyself,family and friends and then a man.. having that mate is just an extra plus that's all
licialicous 8 months ago
@licialicous lol good luck with that philosophy
psychmaj323 3 weeks ago
@psychmaj323 get a fucking life, chien d'homme.
licialicous 3 weeks ago
@licialicous i've got one! lol. -.-
psychmaj323 3 weeks ago
@psychmaj323 oh vraiment?
licialicous 3 weeks ago
OH, i knew that god has blessed the face of this earth with amazing men, and i was able to acknowlege what a men can most deff bring me to the table and appreciated it from the beginning...that's why now i am blessed with the men i have..SO TRUE.......
licialicous 8 months ago
BW need to seek out the type of man that suites them, instead of trying to be chang to suite a man. BM are typically dominant. That means, that to be w/a BM you must submit. If you are a dominant BW, then you might need to seek out a non-BM, b/c BM are reared to be dominant over their women. This kid speaks from his limited experience,& narrow view of the Black segment. But there is an entire world that BW need to access to find their mate; or settle for suffering in submission w/a BM.
alecniles 1 year ago
We tend to jump head first into situations just to escape the shame of being viewed as "single" , it actually gives us time to reflect on who we are, what we really want, less likely cling to people, out of fear of abandonment.. If women expect to find a meaningful, stable relationship, and maintain it, they must establish strong core self, from which to base their values and expectations, so they're secure their needs are being fully met.
0VacantxWonderland0 1 year ago 2
@0VacantxWonderland0 I compeletely agree with you!!!
05Godschild 1 year ago
thats me! and i am far from being succesful
zappy158 1 year ago
Tight theme song man!
producer4real 1 year ago 6
I think your them song is very good and your advice is grate. Now if only BM/BW will heed you advice maybe just maybe all this silliness will cease. We have to realize we are all we have all of these outside influences tearing apart the black family........ Wake up folks.
maann36 1 year ago