How to forgive and love yourself

[girlwithadirtymind80]

I half love myself at the moment. Going through a Dark Night of The Soul and depression is very deep within me, but I try to forgive and surrender every night. I felt emptiness for the first time, and you are right...it was the Holy Spirit and I have never felt more alive. I wish I had this feeling forever.

[SuperNIGHTHUNTER1]

Thank you In Lak' ech

[Phoenixkc27]

From inside of me thank you.

[chefjimmie1]

Forgiveness outside of that which belongs to Jesus Christ is futile. It may feel good and it may even be what is right and desirable here and now but it is as empty as the promises of Satan. There is an evil spirit afoot in these very last days saying that everybody need only love each other and forgive each other and life will be wonderful because all is one. This is a teaching from the pit of Hell. Any teaching that does not have Jesus Christ at it's very source is false and dangerous.

[girlwithadirtymind80]

@chefjimmie1 I don't agree with you. If you continue to live with fear inside your heart you will continue to fight and judge others. Instead, just let it go. Forgive others and yourself for continuing to believe something that is holding you back. Satan is not real, he is man made. Humanity is to blame for the world as it is. OUR thoughts create this world and ego must become the slave not the superior. Organised religion has one purpose - to stop humanity from growing into its true source.

[chefjimmie1]

@girlwithadirtymind80 You're welcome to disagree with me but I must point out that I am not afraid of anything. I have the opposite of fear in my heart which is peace and that peace comes from the ONE who created me. He is a person and He created each of us in His image. We have forsaken Him in this country for the last 40 years and the results are staggering. The greatest lie that Satan ever told was that he doesn't exist. People believe him but it isn't true. He is as real as you or me

[Risingkiwi]

thank you. for a while I was trapped in a cycle of self hatred, and it seems that im beginning to break it after hearing this.

[itsonlyme137]

there is only forgiveness that one can find for ones self.If you accept anothers evil into your life and forgive that, then this is wrong

[ESOTERICALADEPT]

Lol, I remember my first "FORGIVING" of my enemy whom I wanted to kill along with his family line, the "hate" and "animosity" felt wickedly good, BUT when I was told there's a trippy-type of power that eliminates that "wicked good" feeling and replaces it with a higher form of CLARITY, which filters out alot of sub-crap emotions/feelings and other negativities, I HAD TO TRY IT, JUST FOR AN EXPERIENCE!! AND IT FRICKIN WORKS!

1) Acknowledge

2) Forgive

3) Appreciate

4) Love & Accept

[VickieChampion]

I enjoyed how well you verbalized the importance of forgiveness. It's sad that most people don’t realize by not forgiving themselves they set the example for others not to forgive themselves, basically helping the cycle to continue.

[opendtuning]

if You gain in the virtue of Humility then forgiveness becomes easier.

[opendtuning]

forgiveness can be a process that one goes through. It can take time, "If I can't forgive, then how can I be forgiven"...

[devilpupbear09]

what if it's not in your nature to forgive?

[beats299]

@devilpupbear09 don't force yourself to forgive. forgiveness comes when you are truly ready to give up the fight against what happened. namaste

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[steviebkhall]

What is prison ? A lack of . self . and the only way to find it - is in a cell -and they will help you _ Hungry? We need a million politiicians to listen to100 philosophers. Then listen I think you are great . Thanks

[LongGLee]

Can you love a bad person ? I need an answer .

[66kaisersoza]

You will find. Even if you dont believe half the things you say that it will have a beneficial effect. Relax, dont force it, just say it in certain situations. Confidence really does breed confidence. Good luck guys :)

[66kaisersoza]

People usually hurt themselves with negative thoughts. Such as, im ugly, im stupid, i dont fit in etc. I read somewhere that if you write down uoir qualities. What you value in yourself and in others, write them down and read them regularly. such as im kind, im caring, im capable of love, of being loved... It works guys.

[FanyFeeling]

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[GENOMCHAOS]

A couple of weeks ago, I somewhat understood what you were talking about. Now, it's all making sense. When you forgive, you let the body flow once again. You accept every feeling you have. When you accept, you are, and that human side of you that tends to resist, subsides or disappears. I feel free when there is no judgement. It's amazing. It all made sense today. My gratitudes!

[sandrini29]

Inspiring. Because of you, I have learned to forgive so easily.

[SM1135ster]

i forgive this self important jackass setting himself up as a guru

[BackInsight]

Forgive yourself. Forgive what you've done in the past. Then your can move forward. Drop the baggage. Take charge of your own life. Be your own leader.

[MrFan32]

you're right, it's all ego, which is a detriment to our spiritual growth

overcoming one's own ego is the hardest thing to do

[GENOMCHAOS]

@MrFan32 Accept everything, even the bad. That is the first step.

[themovementwithin]

It's The Movement Within! Love to all of you. xoxo

[Rull3n1990]

I've been depressed lately, but at this very moment i feel free. It's as if im watching life from my core instead of seeing it through the eyes of "me". It's very hard to explain but it feel very liberating.

[jawanasai]

thank you :)

[mcjoe20]

i really enjoyed, thanks mr. Burt. God Bless you!

[FGactor]

are you christian burt? are you ? =)

[TheWayshowerTube]

I only not forgive those who have violated my space and energy, next to that I love them like they were my own newborn children.

[hollybee43]

i want to give up all my negativity and i want forgiveness more than anything.

but i become to defensive when threatened. i turn in on myself and spit hatred out of fear even when some are trying to help me. I do not know how to get past this defensiveness and just let down my walls. please help.

[Shortana]

@hollybee43 you are not the hatred and you are not the walls. When you realize this, they vanish.

[SunSurfer777]

@hollybee43 Be gentle with yourself. You are not alone, many are feeling the pressure and tension now. It's good to get into nature whenever possible, standing barefoot on grass to discharge excess electricity and energy is very balancing and (no pun intended) grounding. Find a tree you like and spend a little time in it's field of energy. Allow yourself to (feel/express/swim in) love now. Smile and remember the miracle you are. x ...ps go inside and ask for help from the source, it'll come.

[brookbart]

grace grace and more grace -- I know you burt -- thank you Namaste.

[brookbart]

yes burt ji -- the ego cannot forgive, we are unable to forgive, but when we do it anyway, what are we? <3 beautifully said and I feel your awareness coming through in the simple truth

[pietrrocks]

Look all these people tht say "forgive" yes I can see that but you dont say "how" to do it. For eg if someone has cheated you in the past how do you "love" that person??? So it was their sense of "lack" that took my money, and and and...they have it I dont...tell me how

[eric73martinez]

sir thank you you now just help me get over my last love thank you

[mcindy1130]

it's my first time to watch your vid.

ALLOW THE FEAR AND BE FREE.

thank you for your great teaching ^^

[ooohlaa13]

This is magnificent. As a long time treasurer of ACIM (A Course in Miracles) this is a wonderful reminder of the healing power of forgiveness, and the miracles that occur when you open to this Energy stream. Aloha and Namaste!

[meow0meow7]

i am moving foreward

[theiceman74]

nice



[nir8vana]

Loved this one really, thanks!

[Animetalchick]

You are so inspiring.

[DhaliwalA1]

If you want to accept who you are, then we should not change ourselves. This is your first video I am watching. My question is, why do you shave your beard? Hair is natural and by shaving you are not accepting who you are. Please correct me if I am wrong.

[claudelebel55]

thank you for this

[richard2humphry]

nice

[GolfVictor01]

1:18 "whatever they did, it was there consciousness that did it. It was out of a need,"

[DevaSavant]

This helped me so much, thank you!

[killyourtyrant]

People that post on here without videos don't deserve to be forgiven either apparently.

thanks.

[lenutimor]

this is hard to do...

[kensho3]

Forgiveness must include forgiveness of the self for jumping to conclusions about and persecuting others in one's mind. It's THE practice; to lovingly, gently, compassionately notice when you are inclined to judge your brother.

[atlantoon]

I wonder... If that shirt he is wearing is Rayon? I like it, I wonder where I could get one like it.

[stellapiegirl]

this is beautiful.

[576074]

wow. thank you

[sthirred]

Thanks! You are very helpful!

[sineast]

Wow! I just got high. Thank you, Burt I saw this video earlier, but really got it just now.

[jagara1]

What you say is so true and has reminded me of how I once faced my fears and forgave - the next three weeks were blissful.

Thank you for reminding me about this - it is so important as things are hard at the moment and what you have said reminds me of what is possible :)

[lyntonio]

I love the axe murderer in me.

[mickehill]

hahaha.. funny.

[lyntonio]

All good in theory

[DivineNatureAwakens]

Amazing! Love it the meet your emptiness

[1radstallion]

skipped a lot of steps toward forgiveness.

[alansready]

what says makes so much sense what is your problem

forgiveness gratitude love is what makes people happy

[1radstallion]

common psychology rhetoric.  huge ego. loves to preach. detached from what's real. waste of electricity to watch this.

[Dourdandepp]

In other words he was counterdicting himself, along with entertaining his ego,of thinking he was right .What I'm trying to say is ,what would be the best way to deal with that .With that trapped negative energy in side from the moment of that conforsation before you have repeating and repeating in yr mind and upsetting yourself.

THANK U SO MUCH

[Dourdandepp]

Q: If someone said something to you that was hurtful or unfare.And you felt that impact of the negative feeling within.And you felt that you should of replied better in a way of correcting him with facts.

[mrcuteblackie]

There is a contradiction here. He talks of the holy spirit. Without the holy spirit, there is no God since they are three in one. If there is a God, then why does he require courage of his kids in order to give them the holy spirit? If he requires this courage, then he should have created us with this courage and ability to forgive. Better still, created us in such a way that noone hurts us.

[ZeddZar]

thanks for this

[gangaji1999]

thanks*********

[CherioKy]

Thank you !

[acn10]

This is a Very wise man, glad I found this video

[TadRapidly]

Nice work, Leila. This man is a very kind and effective teacher.

Andrew

[XugaXuga88]

My favorite forgiveness quotes:

"Always forgive other people, for they only did what they knew how to do, given the conditions of their lives"

"Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it."

[XugaXuga88]

Mark Twain-famous American author of Tom Sawyer Adventures

[knci]

i dont understand that... please, please, please explain?

[solboard]

While I have just 'found' you, the words you speak are consistent with other material I learn about the nature of reality. Thank you very much for putting your profound clips on Youtube. You are a genuine teacher.

[miramaze]

This is such an important message and teaching , hard to practice but most liberating.

Another gift from Burt .I'm so happy to be able to see and hear him speak.

What a blessing!

[liquidplastic62]

I felt a great peace just listening to these words. It's as if something very deep inside was making sense of it all. Thankyou

[adaminthenow]

Hi Burt, i'd love 2 be added - ur wisdom is drammatically increasing the pace at which the false self is dying within me, ur helping me reconnect 2 my truest self and i am deeply grateful- THANKYOU :)

[roahboah]

Mr. Harding,

thank you very much for your words.

[wllmn]

Hi Burt,

thanks so much for posting these vids. I'm always looking for good expressions of the truth and you are it! I've seen your name before somewhere, but great to see and hear you teach.

[burtharding]

Thank you for your wonderful comments. We send out free weekly scripts to well over 3,600 subscribers worldwide. Let me know if you'd like to be added.

with love always, Burt

[iam1in1]

@burtharding you're a very good teacher sir. Very wise! :)

[TheLovesoul1]

@burtharding thank u burt.

[bemercifullever]

@wllmn forgive to make space for the grace but not for more and more to forgive and the space is just taken to be emptied in the mind to be ever to forgive, the way of the world getting to know, the space taken with substitute not to forget.