I agree with the comments which says your collars is to big. I have one which sit more snuggly around my neck, there is room enough for it to move freely and for the flat of a hand to be inserted between steel and flesh but that is about it, that collar do not restrict my movement in the least and also the weight gets less noticeable as it rests more naturally at the base of the neck. Off course since your Master want the size you have it is the right size for you, but others might not have...
@Venefica82 the problems you have described if they get a more fitting size.Also I must say that your collar look very pretty on you. I also have to add that these collars are great jewelry even outside of a BDSM setting, they just look so classy.
Also, I don't go to yoga class, but I run, swim, lift weights, everything with it on. It's only an issue when I jump really, and I tend to wear a scarf when I do that. :)
i think your collar is too big, it shouldn't sit on your collar bones, is should sit just above, that way it wouldn't affect your movements.......take it from someone who also wears one 24/7 :)
@mrslouise24 The only movement it really affects is when both my arms are above my head. Master wanted it to be this size, so this is the size I has. :)
I understand the issues you are having with the collar sitting on your collarbone. I would highly suggest an sm-factory Heaven's Hell collar. It does not sit on the collar bone and fits much tighter than the one you have... and is very comfortable to wear 24/7..
i wear two Eternity collars and the D&O ring, and have since i remarried my Master, Husband, & Owner five years ago. (we were separated for 9 years). Both collars are permanently attached as He! replaced the allen screw with stainless steel rivets that were peened into place. Only way to remove the collars is to cut them of. After five years (a) they have become as much a part of me as my arms, legs, and boobs! and (b) since i wear them all the time in public, they seem to go unnoticed!
@Trayceg Is not that being one's own person to live the lifestyle that make one happy even if that means being the property of someone else? I am not saying a BDSM lifestyle is suited for everyone, but it is a desirable way of life for many and then following those passions is as much freedom any anything else.
@Venefica82: Thank you. I -choose- to be in my BDSM relationship; I am -free- to do so. I'm grateful that you appreciate, and can convey, this to others!
i have a collar from eternity collars that was given to me by my Goddess/Wife. the allan screw has been slipping and has fallen out twice in the last month. Goddess and i are discussing krazy glue to keep it in. i wear mine at all time 24/7 to ren faires, conventions and my photoshoots as i'm a pro photographer.
i have a couple questions however as of right now my Goddess just got home from a meeting and i need to rub her feet and get her dinner.
That would be really sexy if it were 316stainless welded on. There is another girl with bracelets welded on and the thought of that is exciting. The bracelets are easy you just put tour arm level in a pan of water with just the crack sticking out for the welder to get to.
You know, it took me 5 years to earn this collar, so don't feel bad! :) Yeah, I have a pair of ears I wear in public. It's not these, the ones I wear in public are hot pink leopard. :)
You hair is getting to be quite adorable dear, very cute! I know you prefer bald, but this looks good on you too! ^.^ Great vid, good info, keep it up!
XDD. I <3 ur eternity collar! I WAITED FOREVER TO SEE IT. I remember when i first watched ur vlog saying it had come in the mail but u couldn't oppen it. i was like 'urge get married already so i can see it!' and it was worth it. its very beautiful and looks beautiful on u.
I do understand the flexibility thing tho. I stick 2 felt/leather collars for now [with no tag obviously cos im unowned] but i dont think id want a steel collor until i get married. thx for the info tho! good vid as always
Aww, thank you sweetie. :) Yeah, I was dying to see it too! You know, I have never really liked the look of steel collars. I wasn't expecting something this elegant. I wasn't even sure it was going to be steel.. Only that he was going to get me a forever collar. But it sure has grown on me, and I am in love with it now. :))
Ring of Steel collar 3//8 inch. I love it and it is very heavy.
DaddysLilSlave 2 days ago
ur a lil young for that dont u think?
HalfBreedAmaya18 1 month ago
Does the ring on the front jingle as ypu walk; looks like it makes for some tethering up occasionally?
OstrogothRome 7 months ago
@OstrogothRome Hi there! It doesn't really jingle as I walk, but it does as I crawl. :) And it does make for some great tethering. :)
faete31 7 months ago
I agree with the comments which says your collars is to big. I have one which sit more snuggly around my neck, there is room enough for it to move freely and for the flat of a hand to be inserted between steel and flesh but that is about it, that collar do not restrict my movement in the least and also the weight gets less noticeable as it rests more naturally at the base of the neck. Off course since your Master want the size you have it is the right size for you, but others might not have...
Venefica82 10 months ago
@Venefica82 the problems you have described if they get a more fitting size.Also I must say that your collar look very pretty on you. I also have to add that these collars are great jewelry even outside of a BDSM setting, they just look so classy.
Venefica82 10 months ago
how do you wear it to yoga class or to work?
Commonsense11111 10 months ago
@Commonsense11111 I work from home, so that's not an issue for me.
Also, I don't go to yoga class, but I run, swim, lift weights, everything with it on. It's only an issue when I jump really, and I tend to wear a scarf when I do that. :)
faete31 10 months ago
@faete31 how about the supermarket?, or shopping for clothes?
Commonsense11111 10 months ago
@Commonsense11111 It has never come off except for an xray a few times, and when I had to fly once.
faete31 10 months ago
i think your collar is too big, it shouldn't sit on your collar bones, is should sit just above, that way it wouldn't affect your movements.......take it from someone who also wears one 24/7 :)
mrslouise24 11 months ago
@mrslouise24 The only movement it really affects is when both my arms are above my head. Master wanted it to be this size, so this is the size I has. :)
faete31 11 months ago
i have the same cat ears! except mine are blue :D
strippersandhomework 11 months ago
try loctite. It should work without damaging anything.
markfostersmith 1 year ago
I understand the issues you are having with the collar sitting on your collarbone. I would highly suggest an sm-factory Heaven's Hell collar. It does not sit on the collar bone and fits much tighter than the one you have... and is very comfortable to wear 24/7..
jillianlen 1 year ago
i wear two Eternity collars and the D&O ring, and have since i remarried my Master, Husband, & Owner five years ago. (we were separated for 9 years). Both collars are permanently attached as He! replaced the allen screw with stainless steel rivets that were peened into place. Only way to remove the collars is to cut them of. After five years (a) they have become as much a part of me as my arms, legs, and boobs! and (b) since i wear them all the time in public, they seem to go unnoticed!
slavesusan59 1 year ago
I understand that this is a lifestyle thing but ///you wouldnt catch me with this crap on my neck ...I am my own person not someones property!
Trayceg 1 year ago
@Trayceg Is not that being one's own person to live the lifestyle that make one happy even if that means being the property of someone else? I am not saying a BDSM lifestyle is suited for everyone, but it is a desirable way of life for many and then following those passions is as much freedom any anything else.
Venefica82 10 months ago
@Venefica82: Thank you. I -choose- to be in my BDSM relationship; I am -free- to do so. I'm grateful that you appreciate, and can convey, this to others!
GreenRad2012 5 months ago
i think your collar needs to be tighter
matthusher 2 years ago
i have a collar from eternity collars that was given to me by my Goddess/Wife. the allan screw has been slipping and has fallen out twice in the last month. Goddess and i are discussing krazy glue to keep it in. i wear mine at all time 24/7 to ren faires, conventions and my photoshoots as i'm a pro photographer.
i have a couple questions however as of right now my Goddess just got home from a meeting and i need to rub her feet and get her dinner.
MixingBowlStudios 2 years ago
The allan screw falls out on mine too sometimes. I think it has happened twice in the past year. We just keep screwing it back in.
faete31 2 years ago
use a product called "Lock Tight" available at hardware/Auto stores. Its a liquid and designed for keeping screws in place.
Moray747 1 year ago
@Moray747 This type of product is commonly known as "Thread lock".
MrSonicAdvance 1 year ago
@MixingBowlStudios It can be just that the screw is old and worn, it might be as simple as replacing the screw with a new one.
Venefica82 10 months ago
I love steel :) It looks great.
casketcrewchick 2 years ago
That would be really sexy if it were 316stainless welded on. There is another girl with bracelets welded on and the thought of that is exciting. The bracelets are easy you just put tour arm level in a pan of water with just the crack sticking out for the welder to get to.
calif92627 3 years ago
It looks like you need a smaller collar and then you would have fewer problems. Otherwise, it looks nice.
kiokdok 3 years ago
Lol! Well, I have my good days and my bad. Like anyone. Be gentle with yourself. You're just starting out. You'll get better and better with time. :)
faete31 3 years ago
Hey sweets,
You know, it took me 5 years to earn this collar, so don't feel bad! :) Yeah, I have a pair of ears I wear in public. It's not these, the ones I wear in public are hot pink leopard. :)
faete31 3 years ago
You hair is getting to be quite adorable dear, very cute! I know you prefer bald, but this looks good on you too! ^.^ Great vid, good info, keep it up!
Spyke1985 3 years ago
Thanks, I really appreciate that. :)
faete31 3 years ago
A steel collar must _suck_ in sauna. I remember how my lip ring would get freaking hot in there.
Peikko 3 years ago
Ooh! I didn't even think of that. Master loves hot tubs. I will have to be careful on our next vacation. :)
faete31 3 years ago
XDD. I <3 ur eternity collar! I WAITED FOREVER TO SEE IT. I remember when i first watched ur vlog saying it had come in the mail but u couldn't oppen it. i was like 'urge get married already so i can see it!' and it was worth it. its very beautiful and looks beautiful on u.
I do understand the flexibility thing tho. I stick 2 felt/leather collars for now [with no tag obviously cos im unowned] but i dont think id want a steel collor until i get married. thx for the info tho! good vid as always
RejectedFreak 3 years ago
Aww, thank you sweetie. :) Yeah, I was dying to see it too! You know, I have never really liked the look of steel collars. I wasn't expecting something this elegant. I wasn't even sure it was going to be steel.. Only that he was going to get me a forever collar. But it sure has grown on me, and I am in love with it now. :))
faete31 3 years ago