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  • this young man is an amazing human being

  • Thanky you for telling your story, youre a amazing person, i respect your watch at all, You looks so fowerful, wish you all all best for your way, my friend, your a great example for who fear and feel alone.

  • you inspire me with your bravery and ability to sucssed in a difficult enviorment, so i thank staying strong :)

  • At least you have amazing skin.

  • Three people have no hearts.

  • I want to give you the biggest hug. stay strong!

  • You have pretty blue oceanic eyes O_O

  • If I ever adopt a baby boy, I'm naming him after you :)

  • I don't understand? How do you throw away your son, and say, you're a christian? It boggles the mind.

  • your biological family doesn't deserve to know you!

  • Thats why religon SUCKS! All religons talk shit about Gays.

  • @JRCoolDude412 not necessarily true Im very religious but i am gay and although it does make references to homosexuals in the bible it doesn't mean that they are what God believes. I know that God made me this way because i have a higher purpose then being made fun of and ridiculed.

  • *squishes you in hug*

  • I WANNA HUG YOU SO MUCH NOW !!

  • You're strong. I'm proud of you. <3

  • i clicked on the video thinking it was a guy...then i thought it was a girl....but it turns out it is a guyyy!!!

  • I am so proud of you for being so strong and dealing with this as well as you did. You seem to bounce back pretty quickly, and that's amazing. I wish you the best in life, and I'm happy you found a famliy! :)

  • i think u are very strong and the heck with the people who are supposed to love u. theyre dumb and youre not.

  • lol, i thought you were a lesbian at first.

  • It pisses me off so much that people are stupid enough to think that being gay is wrong and a choice

  • Dude, you are a survivor! Wow. And congrats and best wishes with your fiancee!

  • you rock! you have faced a whole lot of ugly from a never-ending parade of stupid and you have made it through like a warrior! army officers could get a couple of strength lessons from you, not to mention all the dumbass assholes who troll on youtube pages calling people gay as if it were an insult. Keep being the inspiration you are!

  • I am proud of you! You are a true inspiration! Thank you for sharing this with all of us. Best of luck!

  • I love his name!

  • You rule man !

  • I think if you would have been my son...I wonder have guessed..

  • awwwwwwwwwwww

  • aww Tobias, you are definitley someone that any person gay or straight or Bi can look up too. You seem like such a strong nice guy! <3

  • much <3 blogsblogs4god.blogspot.com/20­11/11/m4m.html

  • As a 70 year old I do not understand how you knew at 12 years old that you were gay. When I was twelve I had no idea what sex was and was more interseted in toys and playing with my friends. I sympathise with what you have gone through and I wish you well.

  • @Duncanish41 children are being sexualized earlier because of many thing, mainly cause subhuman races mature earlier and the jewish media promotes it, along with faggotry. looks like you've lived most of your life maybe you can do something useful like that elderly man who shot that nigger in the holohoax museum just before he croaked.

  • @AX364552025434755 "durhurhurhur I'm an idiot who wants attention, please notice how I'm trolling and trying to be cool and get attention durhurhur"

    Fuck off.

  • kyyyyaaa!!! ur so cute i luv ur eyes! btw you seem like a very strong person! ;D

  • I love you.

  • His parents should watch the movie, ''Prayers for Bobby'' and realize how great their son is. all the best<3

  • @ando1135 roll ur eyes talk your shit jealous bitches make me sick.

  • Your story..... your story is.... wow.

    That was just so intence and I thought my life was tough....

    You seem like an amazing person.

    I would love to speak to you some day.

  • all i can say is wow... you're truly amazing...

  • @hershys911 Thank you :) You are amazing as well! :)

  • Tobias , you have gorgoues eyes ! And you are amazing !

  • Without knowing your whole story, If you were thrown out of you home, I think your biological parents should be tossed behind bars for child neglect. This type of behavior is unacceptable, and frankly I am a little shocked that the State didn't step in and press charges themselves. You are an incredible person for having the positive outlook you do, and it shows that you have been blessed with other gifts like courage and fortitude in spades. Brava!

  • First let me say you r amazing. That being said I was heartbroken with your story, I am straight married with two kids I believe in god, but I have lots of gay friends my kids r raised knowing there is nothing wrong with this...i would never turn my back on my child for bring gay, I believe god made u this way and he loves u no matter what..i guess I just want u to know that there are alot of people like me who love and accept u..

  • You must hate your parents I would if mine threw me out for being gay although my parents are accepted toward my homo sexuality

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  • You are such a brave person Tobias, you have has such a tough life from such a young age, I feel like a lot of people would become bitter, but you seem to have a good outlook on life still =) And congradulations on the engagement!!

  • Respect dude XD tobias lol remindes me of oz :p

  • Tobias, you have very beautiful eyes!

  • just ... wow

  • Round of apluas!! What an inspiration !!

  • Wow! You sound amazingly content after enduring such a troubled childhood. Wonderful strength of character.

  • I am sorry to hear about your suffering for your orientation. I am glad you were able to win over your difficulties and you are in college. I wish you a happy fulfilled life. You are very cutely sweet.

    Be strong and continue to enjoy life. Thanks to Davie that I got to learn about you!

  • This is an amazing story. So happy to see that Tobias didnt let this make him a bitter person. It takes a strong person to push hard to get to where they need to be. Best of luck.

  • Wayyy inspiring. You're amazing.

  • Oh, and you have amazing eyes

  • You are incredibly strong. When you said you were engaged I almost teared up, im so happy for you. Please never stop believing in yourself.

  • Gotta love Michigan. I just recently came out to all of my family members, your a huge inspiration. Way to be, Tobias.

  • Thank you so much for sharing. You have a much bigger extended family than you realize. All the best......

  • MICHIGAN!!!! :D I'm from there toooooo

  • You are so brave. Sooo admirable. I aspire to be more like you. <3 Thank you for being you.

  • you amazing person

  • I admire your courage. I wish I have that strength.

  • bravo tobias..bravo and congrats on your engagement

  • Oh my goodness, Tobias, you're one of the strongest people i've ever encountered.

    You're so inspiring.

    Stay Strong.

    <3

  • As a Catholic, you biological family is the antithisis of being a follower of God. I can't imagine throwing out my own child for being gay. If I ever have kids and one is gay that's still my child. That being said, I think you're an anazing person and stay strong.

  • You are great Tobias! Keep on Smiling :)

  • Dude, just gotta put this one out there; Youre amazing. The amount of strength and courage that you posses is really inspiring. Just goes to show that yes, our past helps define who we are today, but you always have the choice to create your own future. Thanks for sharing your story :)

  • You are a good guy. Glad to hear things are getting better for you

    Best wishes for a wonderful life. Hope all goes OK with partner

  • All the best, i admire you x Dorethey

  • You are so inspiring. I really admire you for being strong. Best of luck with everything <3

  • Without knowing you personally, I have so much admiration and respect for you and your journey. Strength is defined by you and your story. Staying the course of being true with yourself is one of the hardest commitments in life. THANK YOU. THANK YOU for sharing.

  • You are a very inspiring and strong person. :] I hope the best for you and your partner!

  • You are an incredibly amazing and strong young guy! You are truly an inspiration. Thank you so much for sharing. :)

  • We've spoken before! You're a wonderful inspiration and thank you so much for sharing such a strong story! Best of wishes, MSD.

  • congratulations!!! :D

  • I practically do not comment on ANY videos at all. But yours, now that's something else. You really did something which not many people would ever do in their life. Good job for keeping strong and not giving up. You're surely someone who is admirable.

    Ps. I went to WMU as well. :) Good luck and all the best there! Hope you do well.

  • Your awesome!! =)

  • I am incredibly inspired by your strength of character, and .inspired by what you've overcome and achieved.

  • Tobias; you are an amazing and inspirational young man with an incredible depth of courage and forgiveness. I am sure you will succeed in everything you attempt in your life. I wish you nothing but joy for the rest of your life.

  • <3 is all i have to say(:

  • Cheers to you, Tobias!! You are, indeed, an inspiration for me. Thank you for telling your story!!

  • Love is love. Why it should be specific to a particular gender is beyond me. But I would much rather receive love and understanding from a mind as open and forgiving as yours.

  • I was so happy when I heard you say that you're engaged after all that painful and arduous journey that you've went through and it's just so happy to know that you're happy and finally out of that family that doesn't acknowledge you. Thank you for sharing your story with us and I wish good luck and happiness to you and your fiance :)

  • Kalamazoo... that's close to here :O by the way, you're amazing

  • Tobias you are a big inspiration thank you so much for making this video you have so much courage and you have given me so much courage i want one day to be like you! <3

  • Boi I'm proud of u!!!

  • Tobias. I. LOVE. YOU. <3

  • You are soooo brave! I love you!

  • i love tobias <3

  • :'D you are such an inspiration!

  • BRAVO!

  • I'm just basically in love with this kid can I just hug you please

  • I'm so happy that you pulled through that unimaginable time in your life. I know issues with you family still remain unresolved as this video would seem to indicate, but what they did was not only unforgivable; but criminal. I'm pretty sure your parents could go to jail for what they did to you. You are a very strong individual and I wish nothing but the best for you in your future. :)

  • I would have loved to adopt you if I was old enough back then. Lol. I have two daughters that are lesbian and bisexual. And I could not be more proud of them. I am lesbian myself with bi ways kinda. So that helps to understand my children. I wish you many happy days.

  • Congratulations on finding love.

  • hope u and ur fiance have a nice wedding

  • you are so strong and i just hope that you live a great live because you deserve it. <3

  • Keep that strength and determination! You're a credit to yourself!

    I can't even put in to words, what I think about parents that would throw their own child (literally a child) out on the streets.

  • Your an amazing strong person!!

  • Your so correct in naming the egg and sperm donors just biological parents. It's so sad to see religion be so closed minded and needing to change people to fit their need. Keep up the good work you have done an amazing job raising your self. Keep strong.

  • Religion, the poison pill of society!

  • luvya toby! hey gurl gey!

  • my best wishes to you.... an a biggggggg hugggggg! takes a lot of balls to go through everything you did. much love. take care

  • I saw you mentioned on Davey Wavey. Your parents are your family in name only. You have a much bigger and a more accepting family here.Bravo to you for becoming the young man you are.

  • Their decision, their choice, their loss,Tobias and if you haven't already, you will need to grieve that loss. Through no fault of your own you lost the family you were born into and that is a sad thing.

    However, you aren't alone anymore and your 'new family' will help you move forward into the better life you are creating for yourself. Best of luck in all you do!

  • Thanks for sharing your story. I can't even begin to understand what you have been through. You are a true champion! I wish you all the best in your life.

  • You Rock!

  • Wow, you're so strong.

  • I'm so glad you made it through all of that and have found friends and new family that loves you!!! *huge virtual hug*! the strength you have is so clear, you can see it in your eyes.

  • Wait, did you run away or did your family kick you out? Isn't it illegal to abandon a 12-year-old child??

  • i am so proud of you, love

  • Thank you for your courage. Marcel In NH

  • I have one thing to say to you, talk to your parents, try and make them understand, don't let one part of your life be festered, it will affect the rest of it. you will so regret Tobias not making the effort , your life will be so much richer and complete to achieve that massive bridge building exercise. They may not want to talk to you, but write to them I guarantee they will read your letters. But should anything happen any of they your pain will not be as great. Davey sent me here by the way

  • I love how he referes to them as his " bioloicgal family " beacause family is anywhere or anyone who loves you and cares about you its not just who you mother and father is

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  • We're here for you! ^_^

  • Very uplifting and positive story. It is sad that your family uses religion as a tool for hate instead of love. People that posture like that invalidate their beliefs/morals when they try to justify hate. 

  • You're a very strong individual. Never lose that quality

  • omg i live in michigan also!!!

  • @BrighterThanYours Me too! Woo-hooooo

  • wow! i cant believe your family would do that to you! You were so young. You are an amazing young man :)

  • Tobias, your awesome !! all the greatest to you and your fiance ! cheers from GR ~

  • You are NEVER alone cos were are all here for you. LOVE YOU!

  • Wow I can't even imagine having to deal with being thrown to the streets at such a young age. You are a truly strong person and very inspiring. :)

  • Very inspiring!! Stay strong.

  • you're so awesome Tobias, and no one can change that =^.^=

  • You are a hero my friend ~ Your a survivor ~ I'm so proud of you

    I'm so glad that you've done the right things for yourself to be where

    You are today ~ Your 3 min story had me in tears ~ I would just love

    to give you a big hug ~ Your a better human being than any bigot will

    Ever be ~ Always believe that My friend! -gary <3 Much Love Indeed!

  • WAY TO BE BRAVE!!!

  • Omg this was so adorable, he is so cute and seems so nice. :)

  • I admire you for your courage and bravery! You are awesome, and I wish you all the best and happiness!

  • hi tobias, thank you for sharing your story, it is obviously a very moving one. my only coment would be that i don't see anything complex or complicated : it is on the contrary very simple. you have suffered, and probably still suffering, a very bad case of abuse, of hate, of denying your right to be a loved human being. this kind of story overturns my stomach. i don't know who or what we must thank for, that kept you alive. and i hope he/it still has you under his/its gard. hugs, from France.

  • @rissenbeck i think he just meant it was complicated because he moved around a lot in foster care, but he didn't go into the details of that and kept it short

  • YOU ROCK DUDE

  • I feel very sorry for your family. You are obviously an incredibly strong young man and deserve to be loved for all that you are. I've come to realize that the family that is most important is the one that you choose and build, not the one that you're born into. I wish you nothing but happiness.

  • What your family did is not only wrong, it's illegal. It's called child endangerment and neglect. You're probably better off from getting away from them but your parents should have been arrested and prosecuted. I wish you the best as you move forward Tobias.

  • Wow, such a touching story! Congrats on your engagement!

  • Tobias, you are a VERY brave young man, and I admire you greatly!

  • Be comforted in the knowledge that "what goes around, comes around"

  • I freakin love you your my inspiration <3

  • You are so awesome and I wish you all the best Tobias... Lot of hugs for you...

  • You are beautiful inside and out. I'm so happy for you. All good fortune on you and your love! I just turned 20 and I'm still stuck in my religious family's house and so I admire your bravery!

  • I wanna just hug you. Thank you for sharing your story. The value of a person is so important and precious :)

  • Amazing story.

  • Congrats on your engagement! You're amazing. :)

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    @mikemeisme

    It also roused my anger to hear that you were out on the streets a 13 year old boy! "Caro Tobias Ragazzo Dolce", that's "Dear Tobias Sweetie Boy", I hope and pray that you are by now realizing that you are indeed a "Child of G-D" , and loved by him unconditionally?

  • @OutStories

    @mikemeisme

    And this is coming from Bobby Griffiths' (Prayers for Bobby) old lover/boyfriend "Blaine" here, who went on to study "Theology" , and will go " Head to Head" with anyone who would dare to tell you otherwise! I'm so proud of the brave, strong, "Out" and committed young man that you've become Tobias ""Ragazzo Bello e Dolce"!!!

    Blaine

  • What is wrong with them? If they cannot love their son for who he is, then they are not parents, just merely the people who gave life to him. Religion is brainwashing, contradictory, and somewhat evil in most cases. A book is telling people that they are not allowed to accept their own child. Wow, why is this considered "holy?"

  • YOU KICK ASS

  • Hey everyone! I'm so happy that Davey Wavey actually put my story out there! If you'd like to watch the full coming out story it's on my channel, but remember: It's who you are, and who you decide to make your family that matters. I have my own support, my own family tht I've created. :)

  • Wow. I'm so impressed that you went through all that crap but didn't let it even slow you down. You actually graduated a year early and went to college! You're quite an inspiration. *Virtual hugs*

  • You are a little hero, you are :-)

  • i want to give you a big hug so bad ...i will never understand how an "individual " will let his 12 yrs old kid out of the house..i cant even call them humans or even more parents...but you should always know that there are people out there from all over the world that they dont even know you but still love you !!! ( i hope one time you will share your full story ) lots of love

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