Im on the same boat as you are hon. I am going on my third month trying and its frustrating. But I can't imagine losing a baby though. Please take time for yourself, relax your mind and leave it all in God's hands. His answer to your prayer can be one of these three: 1. Yes 2. Not yet. 3. I have something better in mind. Keep us posted!! ;-)
Good luck I know it is a crazy rollarcoaster ride at times. It took my body a while to get back to my normal after Tina and I's second loss. I hope your body works right for you. Good luck.
have you been taking soy isoflavones this cycle? my last cycle was 65 days and I had to take provera to bring on AF, so starting cd 5 I will be starting my first round of soy this cycle. anyway goodluck FX that you get your BFP soon!
@horttech Yes i did take the soy, cycle days 2-6 like i did last time when i conceived. It's just not helping this time around. When i miscarry my cycles are thrown way off & thats what's happening unfortunately. But it will happen when its meant to:). Hope the soy works for you though!
Ugh. Mines all jacked up also. Soooo frustrated. BUT...I'm just going to have SEX everyday starting 10 days after period for 8 days. That should cover my fertile window and catch my ovulation and give me a few days after!!! Hope it works. Healthy men produce sperm fast. So I guess just start BD like its a second job.lol.
@besthusbandpedro LOL! I think you definitely will have your fertile window covered for sure! We plan on having sex every night for the next few nights at least but were just not going to force it if one of us is to tired or what not like we normally would in the past.
With my PCOS this is a normal thing for me. I don't know if I had ever had a normal one ever. We have been trying for 2 years on Jan. I feel your frustrations.
@Singer1939 Aw im sorry hun:(...It sucks not knowing what your body is going to do every cycle. It makes TTC that much more difficult. You cant help but get angry at your own body & it stress's you out. You think your doc. will put you on Clomid to help with that?
@Singer1939 Have you thought about soy isoflavones by chance? They say its supposed to work like clomid? I wonder how much clomid is if you dont have Insurance? I dont have insurance yet until Jan. when my husband add's me on through his work cuz thats when enrollment opens back up. If my cycles continue to be like this im going to seek clomid.
sweety, i think that is the best thing u can do..just ignore your cycle. i have irregular periods too and i find when i put to much concentration on my body.... i stress myself out hence, a long cycle. take the time out to do a detox or something to restart and boost ur body and also do those smoothies and raw, fresh juices. trust me ur body will respond so good to it. good luck to u.
Sorry you are frustrated. But you are right, it WILL happen when it's suppose to. There is a time and a place for everything and only God knows the time.
Sounds like you need a break for a bit! After I lost mine at almost 3 months I found I needed more time. I took 3 months off and just focused on being healthy.
@faylew1012 Yeah im just not going to put so much effort into TTC now that i see my body is not going back to where it used to be. Its something i should have expected cuz this is exactly what happened last time. Were not going to 100% stop trying but just whatever happens happens & if its meant to be then it will :) Being healthy for you & your future baby is the best thing you can do!
@MUSleger yes you're absolutely right & that's how I feel. Just wanna put a stop to it before it makes me to upset & stress's me out. That's the last thing I wanna do. It's not gonna help to feel depressed about it so just taken a break for a bit & w/e happens, happens! :)
Sometimes it is nice to just take a break from the whole process, even if it's just through a cycle. Hang in there. Sorry to hear you're having a tough time.
Just a question? Do you test more then 1 time a day? Because there has been times where I will get a positive late at night and nothing in the morning? I hope you get your BFP this cycle.
I totally understand your frustration. I too have been using OPK's this month but since my miscarriage my cycles have been crazy. Leaving in God's hands is def. the best thing. I'm not going to obsess about it like you had said in a previous video. Wishing you the best of luck this month and pray you get your BFP!
Im on the same boat as you are hon. I am going on my third month trying and its frustrating. But I can't imagine losing a baby though. Please take time for yourself, relax your mind and leave it all in God's hands. His answer to your prayer can be one of these three: 1. Yes 2. Not yet. 3. I have something better in mind. Keep us posted!! ;-)
calicea2008 2 months ago
Good luck I know it is a crazy rollarcoaster ride at times. It took my body a while to get back to my normal after Tina and I's second loss. I hope your body works right for you. Good luck.
ABaby4OurHome 2 months ago
I hated that! I was like that until clomid. I hope you I soon and that you get pregnant with a sticky baby!
CreatingFamilyCode 2 months ago
have you been taking soy isoflavones this cycle? my last cycle was 65 days and I had to take provera to bring on AF, so starting cd 5 I will be starting my first round of soy this cycle. anyway goodluck FX that you get your BFP soon!
horttech 2 months ago
@horttech Yes i did take the soy, cycle days 2-6 like i did last time when i conceived. It's just not helping this time around. When i miscarry my cycles are thrown way off & thats what's happening unfortunately. But it will happen when its meant to:). Hope the soy works for you though!
MammaJ55 2 months ago
Just BD every other day the rest of this week and you will know you did what you can. FX :)))
KeishyTTCforbaby1 2 months ago
@KeishyTTCforbaby1 Yeah were just having sex whenever we feel up to it. Whatever is meant to be will be :)
MammaJ55 2 months ago
Ugh. Mines all jacked up also. Soooo frustrated. BUT...I'm just going to have SEX everyday starting 10 days after period for 8 days. That should cover my fertile window and catch my ovulation and give me a few days after!!! Hope it works. Healthy men produce sperm fast. So I guess just start BD like its a second job.lol.
besthusbandpedro 2 months ago
@besthusbandpedro LOL! I think you definitely will have your fertile window covered for sure! We plan on having sex every night for the next few nights at least but were just not going to force it if one of us is to tired or what not like we normally would in the past.
MammaJ55 2 months ago
With my PCOS this is a normal thing for me. I don't know if I had ever had a normal one ever. We have been trying for 2 years on Jan. I feel your frustrations.
Singer1939 2 months ago
@Singer1939 Aw im sorry hun:(...It sucks not knowing what your body is going to do every cycle. It makes TTC that much more difficult. You cant help but get angry at your own body & it stress's you out. You think your doc. will put you on Clomid to help with that?
MammaJ55 2 months ago
@MammaJ55 That was my next step but unforeseen things have happen and we lost our insurance. I am so frustrated.
Singer1939 2 months ago
@Singer1939 Have you thought about soy isoflavones by chance? They say its supposed to work like clomid? I wonder how much clomid is if you dont have Insurance? I dont have insurance yet until Jan. when my husband add's me on through his work cuz thats when enrollment opens back up. If my cycles continue to be like this im going to seek clomid.
MammaJ55 2 months ago
@MammaJ55 I have never heard of soy isoflavones? What is it? Is it something over the counter?
Singer1939 2 months ago
sweety, i think that is the best thing u can do..just ignore your cycle. i have irregular periods too and i find when i put to much concentration on my body.... i stress myself out hence, a long cycle. take the time out to do a detox or something to restart and boost ur body and also do those smoothies and raw, fresh juices. trust me ur body will respond so good to it. good luck to u.
brownmolasses 2 months ago
@brownmolasses Thank you hun:) Ive been meaning to buy a blender so i can start making some smoothies. My mom always tells me how delicious they are.
MammaJ55 2 months ago
Sorry you are frustrated. But you are right, it WILL happen when it's suppose to. There is a time and a place for everything and only God knows the time.
carlynicoleelliotte 2 months ago
@carlynicoleelliotte Yes you are right:) thank you!
MammaJ55 2 months ago
Sounds like you need a break for a bit! After I lost mine at almost 3 months I found I needed more time. I took 3 months off and just focused on being healthy.
faylew1012 2 months ago
@faylew1012 Yeah im just not going to put so much effort into TTC now that i see my body is not going back to where it used to be. Its something i should have expected cuz this is exactly what happened last time. Were not going to 100% stop trying but just whatever happens happens & if its meant to be then it will :) Being healthy for you & your future baby is the best thing you can do!
MammaJ55 2 months ago
@MammaJ55.....don't worry maybe your body is playing tricks on you....it will happen when you least expect it.
Ariesldy84 2 months ago
ugh. that is frustrating. Well i am sending prayers your way!!
jlynne1818 2 months ago
@jlynne1818 Thank you sweetie!
MammaJ55 2 months ago
@MUSleger yes you're absolutely right & that's how I feel. Just wanna put a stop to it before it makes me to upset & stress's me out. That's the last thing I wanna do. It's not gonna help to feel depressed about it so just taken a break for a bit & w/e happens, happens! :)
MammaJ55 2 months ago
Sometimes it is nice to just take a break from the whole process, even if it's just through a cycle. Hang in there. Sorry to hear you're having a tough time.
MUSleger 2 months ago
@melissaphelps25 o yes I test probably more than I should. About 3 times a day & today they have all been like the one I showed in this vid.
MammaJ55 2 months ago
Just a question? Do you test more then 1 time a day? Because there has been times where I will get a positive late at night and nothing in the morning? I hope you get your BFP this cycle.
melissaphelps25 2 months ago
good luck! i hope you guys get your BFP soon!!
lilrascal121 2 months ago
My cycles very from 30 days to 110...
loopi76 2 months ago
I totally understand your frustration. I too have been using OPK's this month but since my miscarriage my cycles have been crazy. Leaving in God's hands is def. the best thing. I'm not going to obsess about it like you had said in a previous video. Wishing you the best of luck this month and pray you get your BFP!
mrspunkapoo 2 months ago