ok. im in a terrible situation then. The girl like sends me short texts, but if i get annoyed and tell her ill talk to her later, SOMETIMES she'll send me huge detailed messages on any subject. And we dnt like near each other so i dont get to see her very much, so everytime before we hang out, she'll act very happy and excited, andd while we're hanging out, she'll give me mixed signals. I like this girl a lot, but i want to know whether she is playing me or not so i can move on. PLEASE HELP!
@XneutralizedX I know how you feel bro. THere is a girl in my class who i really like and we are good friends. Whenever we talk or something she allways smiles and tells me that im funny but im still not sure. And i don't want to fuk up our friendship cuz my best friend and her best friend are together... soo.. im kinda stuck to :P
I have to respectfully disagree with this. It seems like many people think the universal solution is to play hard to get. Maybe a little bit of hard to get is okay but in general I think playing hard to get just confuses things.It's better in the long run to keep things as honest as you can.The main thing is to always respect another person's boundaries and feelings. If someone's going to like you, they'll like you without having to pretend you're not interested, just don't come on too strong.
yea... what if the person is really really shy .... he gave u sign that even ur friends can see and when u try to talk to the person ..... he ran away but continue to give sign .. u never talk to this person . just told a friend to tell him that he is cute !!
Okay Marie I like this guy but I don't know if he like me I tell him "Will you be the One"but he can't hear cause of his friend are really louad and i have some competiton He is the one for me??!!
I don,t agree with ''If this person makes a beeline the other way when you walk by, he's not into you!'' Because I do that when cute guys look at me cauz i'm shy.
what if you get s small conversation going but its almost like your always pushing the conversation but the thing is i realy want to tell her that i love her only thing is i have no self confidence to do so any recommendations anybody?
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there is a guy that I like. He always smiles when he sees me, and offers to walk me home. even gives me a hug sometimes. We talk to hours whenever we see each other. He even shyly stuck his finger into the whip cream of my hot chocolate one time, BUT I have messaged him on Facebook a few times and he has never responded. He asked me for my number but he never called. So I'm super confused. I also found out that he has never had a girlfriend before. could he really be that shy?
Thanks for the advice, but I just needed that because I needed to make sure if the guy I like likes me back so I just found he doesn't :'( And I also found out he likes someone else! Uuuggghhh, how can this get any worse!!??
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
well i go to school and i have 2 packs of rare pencils and a boy has a crush on me... i know becuz he told me and i flurted.... a little...not at him but u know............and i said you do? and he said yes and when he goes to blow his nose (FAKE) he comes to my desk and askes me for a rare pencil and i think hes just saying he has a crush on me to have ALOT of pencils and i already gave him like 40 pencils and i doubt that he has a crush on me what do i do? D=
so i told my crush ilike him but idk how he feels he never texts me and says he doin something but anytime were at this after schoolprogram he always around me not always but yeaand he reallywanted me goon this field trip thing so idid and itwas fun then on fb he posted on my wallhad fun sat and i lost my phonecharger so ill textu from my ipod but he never texte me and he just makes me laugh all da timeandidk how hefeels andeveryone says he likeme but idkand i think he cool with me likin him idk
i have a shout out for help.. so.. HELP! there is this guy and like, he was always mean to me for some reason. and he yelled at me for doing something. our teacher asked us what was wrong with an attitude and i was hurt =( so ever since he started being a little nice kind of still mean and when i would talk to a guy he would stare at me for a while. i mean even when i look at him, he still stares, like... wow. what does that mean? lol.
first girl need to start looking , if a guy start to show a little bit interest on a girl all girls see guy automatically a pedo. Therefore, girl need to start to show interest to guy , and when guy show the interest back. they shouldn escape, or saying that they have fucking bf, or saying that they are lesbian. if you interested a guy, you have to expect that guy can show his interest you back. than dont be fucking bitch , by saying you have a boyfriend and you are lesbian!
omg. i havee a huuge crush on this guy. i never talk in class becuz im shy. but when the teacher calls me he keeps on staring and staring and whenever i past by hi. still staring. i really wanna know if he likes me. cuz i really do D:
OMG I DID IT AGAIN IM SO SORRY!!! well my best guy friend would be the guy I like and well he's really my only guy friend besides this other guys that I'm just friends with but I couldn't talk to him about coz he's so loud. WHY DIDN'T I SAY YES MY LIFE IS AN EMOTIONAL DISASTER!!!
that when he asked me out there was nothing at all written on his hand. do u have any advice 4 that? oh and btw I'm really sorry that I accidentally flagged this as inappropriate I was just on my I touch and I meant to hit comment.
thank u so much so know I know about that! but here's the thing. my friend invented this game yesterday called zap and someone writes on the top of your hand a time and on your palm they write someone's name and you have to ask that person out at that time. but my crush asked me out today and I was really stupid and said nothing and turned around. then he asked this other girl out and she said yes and now they're dating so I'm sorta in an emotional crisis right now. my only thing is thought tha
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
this girl at work keeps asking me to come and hang out with her at her campus, what does it mean? whenever im around she likes to come and talk to me, what do?
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
good video . . . that first scenario is exactly what i do to the guy i do have a crush on though, but i have social anxiety so maybe its different. i've had a crush on the same guy for 5 1/2 years
well what is a guy has a girlfriend and he is kind of flerting and looks @ u and u r beatfriends with his gf and she says can u give me advice on a relain ship what would u do tell her the truth or tell her just say srr and if u tell her the truth and they brake up with u what do u do tell him the truth bout you told he or leave it out pleaz help me
Hello. Sorry for bad English. So, I moved to the new school 5 months ago. There I met very nice girl im very intrested in. So, I keep nice to her, compliment her etc. I remember when he putted new photo to Facebook and I was like shocked, I said "You're very pretty in this photo". Next day in school she said "Please never comment on my photos, ok?". Is this a sign that she DOESN'T like me?
hmm i'd have to agree to disagree. actually, i'd have that same reaction toward girls i like (passing eachother and me not saying a word). of course everyone is different and in my case i've been a social recluse for a good part of my life. shy people can freeze up when they pass by someone they like.
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
This happened over months. This guy I rlly liked and I guess he kinda liked me. But the thing was I was 15 and he was 20 and we somehow started txting and he would text stuff like "your cute" or "your hot' and sometimes well talk on the phone.talked about who we liked and use to. and one night it got heavy and I was with my friends like it was a joke. and he was saying dirty things.my friends told,I got and trouble and he acts like I'm not there anymore
@MissImperfectChick Trust me, you don't wanna be dating a 20 year old if your 15 anyway. Just hang out with dudes your age. And if he's hitting on minors, it probably means he is someone you'll want to avoid
@BrutalEST96 thats what i be tryna say top them girls like why would you want to be with someone like that .. i mean come on he is a chester and nasty
what if you stalked him and he found out :o now things are awkwardand we used to be friends- when I see him in the hall do i ignore him? he sometimes greets me, sometimes pretends he doesn't see me. the problem is we're family friends so sometimes we are forced to get together and talk- doesn't really work out :(
He dates the prettiest girls in the school and he's insanely cool and popular, and funny. i get tongue tied when i talk to him and i just start freaking out and acting weird. please please help me.
my bestfriend is his bestfriend as well, so she knows everything there is to know about him. She said that he liked me at the end of 7th grade. 8th grade has just started for me, and i try to talk to him whenever, at least just a quick convo, i have nooooo clue if he likes me or not, but he keeps flirting with this one other girl. my bestfriend told him that i like him, and he said he wants to focus on football this season which is why hes not dating anyone, but if he was he would consider me.
So theres this guy right, i have the WORLDS BIGGEST CRUSH on him, i try to get over it sometimes but he comes to school lookin all sexy and i cant help it. whenever we talk, it lasts for 5 seconds.
Some guys, especially if shy, do look away when when a girl who has a crush looks at them. I done that when a girl I like looks at me. If I don't look away, my neural net would fry.
Okay, so I really like this guy, and he did the opposite of everything you said except the texting part. I text him quite a bit and at around 11:30-1:30 ish we occasionally txt eachother. I'm so confused! I asked my best guy friend and he said my crush likes me back. But I don't want to get my hope up invade he doesn't. What should I do?! It's so confusing!
If i don't like a girl that has been pretty much stalked me for years, guys like me would like to be nice and not say "I don't like you, move on with your life" but if I see the person that like me I try to have her take a hint by saying "Whatever" or "Okay" and countinue on with my life, most people don't wanna be rude like me but if this girl seriously doens't get it after like 5 years then we tend to get rude, im more patient than some people though as you can probably tell from this.
This guy & I were sending e-mails 2 eachother in facebook & then he just stopped sending e-mails to me. The beginning was great coz I was so happy that we wrote to eachother..! I totally have a crush on him! But now he's not writing anymore..!! I'm going so angry+sad! This vid was a big help!!! thank you soo much.. I have to stop checking/stalking his profile & I have to stop thinking bout him..! there are other guys too!
@miss212AUT The same exact thing happened to me but I'm a guy and the girl just stopped talking to me for absolutely no reason at all. We were getting along just fine and we were talking for quite a while. What the hell is wrong with people?
Also, a little update- I texted her about two days in a row. Since a little less than a week ago, I haven't texted her and she hasn't either- The fact she hasn't started any of the conversations makes me a bit uneasy. Is she not interested? Also, one time she didn't respond until the next morning and she said she fell asleep. That kind of makes me feel a bit better, because that maybe means she stayed up just to text me? i don't know. I'm in a weird situation.
l like this girl i think she likes me but shes taken and i got her phone number we text a lot and we talk a lot at school every time she sees me she says my name what do i do now
I like this guy who has a girlfriend.. He says he wants to break up with her because she gets jealous a lot... but he can't because she will be sweet.. But he texts me 24/7!! He flirts soooo much.. He winks at me.. He will admit to being jealous when i talk about some other guy flirting with me.. Does he like me..? And what to do about the whole girlfriend thing...??? thanks! :) <3
I have a very big crush and we had a really good connection, and he also told me he has a good time with me and then all of a sudden he ignores my messages and calls what does this mean, and I do not want to be the one who is always calling, what does this mean?
Hey, I'm a brand new viewer, and I just got to know the girl I liked yesterday. Yesterday we talked for an hour or so and I got her number (A good sign, I hope) and today we texted for two and a half hours and we really connected and she reached out and really seemed interested. Do you think she likes me, or is starting to?
when ever i am around a crush and they talk to me i get REALLY nervous and i cant look at them and i kindof avoid them but i dont want to im just really shy
I just discovered your videos today and just wanted to say that you give amazing advice :c). You seem to have great people skills and it's so nice of you to help people out. I'm a little shy, and I really like your videos that help with that.
my question is, what if she does things like smile around you gives you eye contact, but constantly tells you your annoying and you need to stop talking? I talk alot and i guess to certain people i'm consitered anoying. But for some reason she always gets happy when shes around me like she dosnt go all insane and start dancing but she lites up and smiles even when i do somthing stupid. She also rights random things on my hand like hi. im so confused because she is so weired and i like her!
wait...what if the guy likes you and...you dont know what to think...like "should i go with him"?or"do i feel the same way about him" ...im just so confused...some one please help!
So if she does play hard to get like is suggested and the guy takes that as "any signal that she's avoiding him" does he also move on? This is somewhat confusing. I agree that smothering someone can run them off but playing hard to get is a turn off too. I like a woman honest but respectful of my space. I tend to be the same way toward them. Most men like no nonsense, not hair flicking, disinterested prissy gazes.
Hi i have a problem its this girl at work she always goes out of her way and says hi to me really loud with a big smile on her face like she wants me badly she even says hi to me when she pulled up with her car and she even gave me that look like shes interested and i've talked to her and the conversation was going really good but then heres the problem she got me jealous when she was flerting with this other guy but on the positive note it looked like she was yelling at him
I need help, I am 14 and i like this guy, he is sweet with me, he actually talks to me we are in track together and at track meets he talks to me. He just seemed interested like full-on. He listens when i talk and he pays attention and has reponses besides, yeah, oh cool, and stuff.But this girl come back from vacationing and she is all over him but he still kinda glances over at me and notices me without her we talk like great friends, but when she's there he will look at me but says nothing...
@OrAnGeMeErKaTs Heres the thing, some guys are desprate enough to go out with girls they don't like. He obviously really likes you but is in a diferent relationship. it's posible that he dosnt want to brake the other girls heart, or he really like both of you but is curently in a relationship with someone else. if they ever brake up, i'm sure he will come crawling to you, and i'm sure if you like him enough youl say yes! hope this helped
Does she treat you differently then other guys? If she says hi to every single guy she sees, then that's a clue. But if she seems to go out of her way to say hi to you, then yes, maybe!
Damond, She probably doesn't know what to say when it comes to texts. And it's hard, because you can't read body language. Try to talk to her face to face if you can. That way you can really tell if she likes you. You said she looks at you a lot. So when you catch her eye, walk up and say hi. That's all you have to do. Let her do the talking and see what happens!
what if she is making signs that she's interested(looks at you when u talk,stares at u,keeps being in the same room as u)and at the same time doesnt give attention to texts(one or 2 word text messages and doesnt respond to them).any ideas?
Ross--You're not doing anything wrong. Talk to this girl a little more than you usually do, not a lot, just a little. So it's not obvious. Try to get to know her better. She will think you are just being friendly. Then you can tell how she is reacting to you, whether or not she likes you. Also, if you don't let your height be a problem it won't be. It's your insecurity that is getting in the way, not your height. Kids are a lot taller these days.
Um..i think im of need of help...Im..well a very very Shy person...
Im 17 and well..im 6foot6...
Girls avoid me because of my height..
But the few that i do talk to..im not sure if they like me or not..I had..a dear freind like me for awhile..and by the time i found out it was to late..and it became weird between us.. As of now..I think a girl likes me..but..not very sure...ive made many mistakes before and try for them to early or to late...
gee thanx i think this girl i like might like me too cuz she makes eye contact when she talks to me,when i talk to some of my friends she starts talkin too,she smiles at me,when she hears me talking about something shes interested in she talk to me,she calls me by my name
Hi Marie, thanks for your help! I'm unbelievably shy when I fancy someone so it will take a lot of courage! I dont actually think the friend is interested but hes the louder of the pair - nice guy but an attention seeker - so he'd still want me to like him if he wasnt interested - if that makes sense?? I really like the other guy so I'll take your advice and let you know what happens! X
ladyxtc--I really think this guy likes you. He all but asked you out when he said you should take him out for a drink. I think he is afraid of rejection. If you do like him, I would ask him to do something casual, like go for coffee, something like that. And could his friend be interested in you as well? Just a thought, because why would he say something negative about his friend, unless he wants to make himself look good. I'm not sure on that. But definitely the other guy likes you!
Also the guys friend told me today he said something quite dirty (sexual) about me, its put me off him a bit but I'm more confused as to why the friend would bother telling me what he said when he knows it would put me off. The friend who I get on with is quite cheeky and flirty, the guy I like is the same with others but around me he is definetly a lot more reserved and has never been overtly flirty - its hard because I think the quiteness means less interest. Just like your honest opinion
Hi, any views on this...I like this guy at work but im so shy when he speaks to me- if he says hi or asks how i am my answers are always short n choppy. I get on better with his friend who has told me he is interested but shy and I should ask him out for a drink - but I dont feel hes interested as apart from a smile here n there he hasnt said anything directly to me. He joked that I should take him out for a drink as he had done me a favour at work but I just dont get "that" feeling from him
DefinedCosmetics--Try comparing how he treats you to how he treats other girls. If he is nicer to you, or you see him perk up when you enter the room, and he doesn't react like that to other girls, he likes you!
ugh, I STILL have a hard time reading this guy. He hasn't done any of the avoiding things you talked about but I can't tell if how he is with me is because he's a nice guy or if there's something there.
EATMYDUST36013--It's completely obvious that she likes you! I don't know what else this poor girl has to do to get your attention! Try approaching her and talking to her more to start.
Continued- she asked me to help her up after track when she bent down becuz she claimed she was stuck and I worked out more than she did and I had no problem. She asked me to pull her up and I grabbed her as if giving her a hug and pulled her straight and I believe it's an excuse to touch me or get held or touched by me I need help there is more but these are hints. She also looks at me when I'm not looking but I'll see her do it from long distance. I appreciate it
I have a huge crush on this girl and I'm wondering if she likes me. She is a really good buddy of mine and I've known her for like 7 years. For the last couple of days or a week she's been hanging close to me talking alot and she has been either grabbing my shirt or my hand and pulling me to talk to her because she is alone and needs me to be close to her. She has been playing around on me like today it was icy and she wanted me pull her with my arm and have her slide on the ice safely I guess.
Abby--I think it's just the opposite. You want to lay low. Don't be too available, and be a little mysterious. I'm serious. It works. You don't want to seem too anxious. Just talk to him enough, but not too much. Let the ball be in his court.
kh--pretend like all that didn't happen. Just talk to her like you would a buddy. Act like nobody knows anyone likes anyone. The two of you are friends, period. Then, there's no awkwardness. And don't hold out any expectation. If it works out, great, If not, you didn't lose anything either.
i have a question you know when you like someone but you dont want them to know you like them unless they like you back but your not sure so maybe when you see them you talk to them but maybe you think you were a little to forward in that conversation so the next time you see them you try to avoid them so that they dont know you like them. well what happens if they like you and do that but you dont know that they like you and because of that you think they arent interested what should you do?
buttercubes--I would be a little hesitant here, especially because he is not sure who he likes! All of a sudden he is not interested in your friend anymore and he likes you. Find out why. And if he changes his mind so fast, and you're just the flavor of the month, he will change his mind again! Remember, demand to be treated the very best. If he isn't treating you well, have nothing to do with him.
heey...theres a guy i like and he talks to me all the time at school and hes always starting converstaions, and my friends are always saying that they think he likes me an i told him i liked him like 3 months ago (over a text because i was really nervous) and he was like oh..ok i like _____ and now he said he doesnt like her anymore and he always sits next to me...he stares at me he make eye contact...but sometimes infront if his friends he would be so mean to me! and i don't cry or anything bu
The PureRedemption--either she likes you and is a little afraid of possibly getting hurt, or she is a game player, it's one or the other. When she asks you where you're going over the weekend, see if she wants to meet up. Then have a conversation with her, and you will know then.
this girl i like, when i told her i liked her she said she didnt like me. then recently she found someone else, but at college i was walking by and she told me to come talk to her do i did. she then told me that she liked me but she didnt want to tell me because she knew i was moving university and didnt want to make it complex. But she keeps asking if im going out at the weekend to the palce shes going etc . does she still like me
Say your name 10 times Say your moms name 5 times Say your crushes name 3 times Next friday you crush will kiss you **post this to 4 other video's or you will have the worst friday ever
@Mrfbenevidez--I would keep it very casual. In fact, don't let her know you are still interested. If you want to call it playing hard to get, that's fine. But think of the reason you broke up. Those problems will still be there if you get back together. If you still want to, reconnect as friends first, and see how that goes. But in the meantime, meet other people! She could be just playing games with you.
My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for a month now. We still talk at work an go eat afterwards sometimes, she knows Im still into her. Sometimes signs show she still likes me and sometimes it seems shes uninterested. What can I do? Play hard to get or keep talking to her and see what happens
My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for a month now. We still talk at work an go eat afterwards sometimes, she knows Im still into her. Sometimes signs show she still likes me and sometimes it seems shes uninterested. What can I do? Play hard to get or keep talking to her and see what happens.
This was me before but now my crush is fine with talking to me! He started talking to me after he figured out I liked him so for short measures, tell the truth to your crush! It helps him know what to think of you!!(:
I actually got lots if good signals from the guy I like. even before I looked at this when i kept thinking "I think he likes me" there was ONE time that I initiated chat with him on Facebook, but he's almost NEVER on chat. he didn't ignore me, log off, or say he had to "go" but gave me a more lengthy message saying that he didn't want to be rude but he was in the middle of a huge paper he had to write. I dunno, for now I'll just be safe and just wait for him to chat with me if he wants to.
mine runs up to me in the hallway but his cousin told him not to like me she is in the same grade as me and him how do i get him not to listen to her???
severe, ask her about how work/school is going. Then say something about your school or work that she can relate to, a bad boss/teacher, tough assignment, something like that. It will get the conversation going. Then ask about her family, does she have siblings, etc, then say something funny about something that happened with your family, you get the idea. The more you find out about her, the more you will have to talk about.
severe, you've got to go with your gut on this. Does she seem to recoil when she sees you, or does her face light up? The fact that she asks you questions back is a really good sign. It means she wants to keep the conversation going. She doesn't want you to leave. Now, if she gave you a one word answer and then left, that is an indication to back off. But it sounds like she is interested, so I would keep coming up to her and if she continues to talk to you, she's probably interested.
@mariedubuque Thank you for the response. I honestly am not sure if she recoils or lights up when she sees me. What I was thinking of doing was just talk to her whenever there's a chance. However, it's a bit difficult when there's not a lot that I could talk to her about since I can't find anything we have in common. Is there any tips you could give me on carrying on a convo with someone you want to find more about, but don't know what to talk about? Please and thank you.
What if I'm always the first one to say "hi" and start the convo? During the convo, I'm the only person that talks and asks questions. She'll answer it, smiles, comments on it, and sometimes asks me questions back. What exactly is going on in her mind? Should I keep saying "hi" when I see her and try to make small talks? Or should I back off? Please help me, and thank you. :)
@musicxoxo96--Instead of just looking at him, actually start a conversation. You won't be coming on too strong at all. Just start talking about something you both have in common, classes, work, same friends, etc. And see where it goes. If he chimes in and seems responsive, have more conversations with him and see what happens! What do you have to lose?
Whenever I look at the guy I like, he always catches me looking at him. I'm not sure if he like me back though. He's really nice to me but I get really shy and nervous around him so sometimes I'll say hi to him and other times I won't. It depends on how confident I'm feeling at the moment. Any tips??
My best friend since my freshman year in high school , now my boyfriend just asked me out, like a 2 weeks ago but somehow i feel like i was just asked out so he can get over is ex that he just had 2 months ago. i mean sure, they only been together for like two weeks but i like him too much just to be his rebound girl...
what if she's married and found out she's prego but I still feel she wants me (after she gave me alot of hints and signals the first term when she didn't know) and I want her but I get the feeling she feels conflicted/gulty and may not be hot for me anymore, but then I will get the feeling she is hot for me sometimes. I'm trying to get over her but the more I try to avoid her the more time I end up spending with her (at school) and I'm feeling really confused about this.
Babe005--I would back off a little. Because if you've liked him for seven months, and nothing has happened, you've got to change your strategy! This may not work either. He could just not be interested. But if you back off, and he sees you socializing with other guys, and generally having fun without him, he could take a second look at you! It may not work. But what do you have to lose?
The guy i like is really really shy, he use to like me but now i dont know anymore, iv liked him for about 7 months and now i dont know what to do. he knows i like him but im starting to think he thinks im getting obsessed, should i give up and back off or should i keep trying?
Webkinzlamb35--Stay friends with him, unless he breaks up with his girlfriend. But don't bad mouth her (I'm sure you're not) because it will just make you look bad. Be nice and polite to him, but not too much so. You don't want to seem over-anxious. And then, hope that he breaks up with her!
HEY! I need help im in middle school and.....well....i like this boy and he is my friend...kinda...and well he has a girlfriend but i get the feeling they dont really like eachother thye just want popularity and i really like him and he atcs like he likes me so......IM SO CONFUSED!
A complicated one. I have been friend's with this girl for years we went to school together now she somtimes helps me with work. We hang out and its boyfriend girlfrind stuff we go to the movies together, go in town together, stuff like that. one big problem she has a boyfriend. BUT she knows he's not good for her i know it and we both say it. I have been in this exate situation befor i didnt say anything turn out she did like me and wanted me to say somthing she ended up with someone eles.
ok. im in a terrible situation then. The girl like sends me short texts, but if i get annoyed and tell her ill talk to her later, SOMETIMES she'll send me huge detailed messages on any subject. And we dnt like near each other so i dont get to see her very much, so everytime before we hang out, she'll act very happy and excited, andd while we're hanging out, she'll give me mixed signals. I like this girl a lot, but i want to know whether she is playing me or not so i can move on. PLEASE HELP!
XneutralizedX 5 days ago
@XneutralizedX I know how you feel bro. THere is a girl in my class who i really like and we are good friends. Whenever we talk or something she allways smiles and tells me that im funny but im still not sure. And i don't want to fuk up our friendship cuz my best friend and her best friend are together... soo.. im kinda stuck to :P
Eren0x 11 hours ago
I have to respectfully disagree with this. It seems like many people think the universal solution is to play hard to get. Maybe a little bit of hard to get is okay but in general I think playing hard to get just confuses things.It's better in the long run to keep things as honest as you can.The main thing is to always respect another person's boundaries and feelings. If someone's going to like you, they'll like you without having to pretend you're not interested, just don't come on too strong.
troydeancarpenter 1 week ago
I love your facial expressions!
rosalielove11 1 week ago
There is this guy and when he is generally a boring perso.
phantomschristine18 1 week ago
what if your crush told you to come back but also told you to stay away from them
prettyPanda5 1 month ago
@prettyPanda5 sign that your crush is not interested in you is true it happen to me tons of times so i ignore it and find someone else.
cresentchen 3 weeks ago
yea... what if the person is really really shy .... he gave u sign that even ur friends can see and when u try to talk to the person ..... he ran away but continue to give sign .. u never talk to this person . just told a friend to tell him that he is cute !!
afrokoneko13 1 month ago
Okay Marie I like this guy but I don't know if he like me I tell him "Will you be the One"but he can't hear cause of his friend are really louad and i have some competiton He is the one for me??!!
Jenny16Hearts 1 month ago
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kkarinaishere 1 month ago
I wish my stalker saw this video
MrBergman7 1 month ago
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Ikr...
crystalfairy12 1 week ago
What happens if you catch your BFF with your crush's jacket? -______- I was so heartbroken at the moment, LOL. ^.^
AnimalCookies105 1 month ago
I don,t agree with ''If this person makes a beeline the other way when you walk by, he's not into you!'' Because I do that when cute guys look at me cauz i'm shy.
Dancingoddess88 1 month ago
what if you get s small conversation going but its almost like your always pushing the conversation but the thing is i realy want to tell her that i love her only thing is i have no self confidence to do so any recommendations anybody?
04ging 1 month ago
if you try to contact him/her and you get no response... (then you know that person is not interested in you)... REALLY?? well thanks...
slamevil85 1 month ago
thats it .. im moving on!
MultiMiro1984 1 month ago
Head*
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vicjustice 1 month ago
I like your videos, but this one is pretty inaccurate. the guy may just be really shy. we're not like girls haha
DanteDevil2727 1 month ago
there is a guy that I like. He always smiles when he sees me, and offers to walk me home. even gives me a hug sometimes. We talk to hours whenever we see each other. He even shyly stuck his finger into the whip cream of my hot chocolate one time, BUT I have messaged him on Facebook a few times and he has never responded. He asked me for my number but he never called. So I'm super confused. I also found out that he has never had a girlfriend before. could he really be that shy?
saloneffects 1 month ago
Thanks for the advice, but I just needed that because I needed to make sure if the guy I like likes me back so I just found he doesn't :'( And I also found out he likes someone else! Uuuggghhh, how can this get any worse!!??
pricy980 2 months ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
MMArtist99 2 months ago
well i go to school and i have 2 packs of rare pencils and a boy has a crush on me... i know becuz he told me and i flurted.... a little...not at him but u know............and i said you do? and he said yes and when he goes to blow his nose (FAKE) he comes to my desk and askes me for a rare pencil and i think hes just saying he has a crush on me to have ALOT of pencils and i already gave him like 40 pencils and i doubt that he has a crush on me what do i do? D=
tigergirl12310 2 months ago
so i told my crush ilike him but idk how he feels he never texts me and says he doin something but anytime were at this after schoolprogram he always around me not always but yeaand he reallywanted me goon this field trip thing so idid and itwas fun then on fb he posted on my wallhad fun sat and i lost my phonecharger so ill textu from my ipod but he never texte me and he just makes me laugh all da timeandidk how hefeels andeveryone says he likeme but idkand i think he cool with me likin him idk
emilyfekete 2 months ago
i have a shout out for help.. so.. HELP! there is this guy and like, he was always mean to me for some reason. and he yelled at me for doing something. our teacher asked us what was wrong with an attitude and i was hurt =( so ever since he started being a little nice kind of still mean and when i would talk to a guy he would stare at me for a while. i mean even when i look at him, he still stares, like... wow. what does that mean? lol.
loverofanimeify 2 months ago
thanks!!
Minxster101 2 months ago
first girl need to start looking , if a guy start to show a little bit interest on a girl all girls see guy automatically a pedo. Therefore, girl need to start to show interest to guy , and when guy show the interest back. they shouldn escape, or saying that they have fucking bf, or saying that they are lesbian. if you interested a guy, you have to expect that guy can show his interest you back. than dont be fucking bitch , by saying you have a boyfriend and you are lesbian!
retsnomonster 2 months ago
what if you talked to her for 5 days straight till early hours of the morning,then all of a sudden does not act as interested?
KiDD275 2 months ago
i love this you are sooo awesome.
phoenix73662 2 months ago
past by him
makeupQUEENforevea 3 months ago
omg. i havee a huuge crush on this guy. i never talk in class becuz im shy. but when the teacher calls me he keeps on staring and staring and whenever i past by hi. still staring. i really wanna know if he likes me. cuz i really do D:
makeupQUEENforevea 3 months ago
OMG I DID IT AGAIN IM SO SORRY!!! well my best guy friend would be the guy I like and well he's really my only guy friend besides this other guys that I'm just friends with but I couldn't talk to him about coz he's so loud. WHY DIDN'T I SAY YES MY LIFE IS AN EMOTIONAL DISASTER!!!
ZeniaDuctTape 3 months ago
that when he asked me out there was nothing at all written on his hand. do u have any advice 4 that? oh and btw I'm really sorry that I accidentally flagged this as inappropriate I was just on my I touch and I meant to hit comment.
ZeniaDuctTape 3 months ago
thank u so much so know I know about that! but here's the thing. my friend invented this game yesterday called zap and someone writes on the top of your hand a time and on your palm they write someone's name and you have to ask that person out at that time. but my crush asked me out today and I was really stupid and said nothing and turned around. then he asked this other girl out and she said yes and now they're dating so I'm sorta in an emotional crisis right now. my only thing is thought tha
ZeniaDuctTape 3 months ago
Shy ppl got it hard like me :(
iloveahsharah 3 months ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
BillTheTrainer 3 months ago
YOUR OLD!!!!!!!!! how about that :)
swagersol 3 months ago
Marie, I tend to act JUST LIKE THAT when around someone I'm interested in. No wonder I'm single. :(
k1tsch83 3 months ago
when i talk nobody ever listens or looks at me anyway. give me something useful!
topperheartramada 4 months ago
this girl at work keeps asking me to come and hang out with her at her campus, what does it mean? whenever im around she likes to come and talk to me, what do?
audiocable 4 months ago
i should have watched this video a month ago
kasra130 4 months ago
I'm shy.. So NO ONE likes me... HElP!
13lebeau 4 months ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box.
Here's what you need to do:
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
MMArtist99 4 months ago
good video . . . that first scenario is exactly what i do to the guy i do have a crush on though, but i have social anxiety so maybe its different. i've had a crush on the same guy for 5 1/2 years
chartreuse1171 4 months ago
well what is a guy has a girlfriend and he is kind of flerting and looks @ u and u r beatfriends with his gf and she says can u give me advice on a relain ship what would u do tell her the truth or tell her just say srr and if u tell her the truth and they brake up with u what do u do tell him the truth bout you told he or leave it out pleaz help me
coolcheyenne4lol 4 months ago
D: i like one of these boy but hes friend like him
IxIRAWRIxI 4 months ago
if a guy "fist bumps" you does that mean he likes you or is he just doing that for fun?
ForeverPerfectTwo 4 months ago
Don't become a stalker o.o
HayaoMiyazaki1fan 4 months ago
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BrutalEST96 5 months ago
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BrutalEST96 5 months ago
Hello. Sorry for bad English. So, I moved to the new school 5 months ago. There I met very nice girl im very intrested in. So, I keep nice to her, compliment her etc. I remember when he putted new photo to Facebook and I was like shocked, I said "You're very pretty in this photo". Next day in school she said "Please never comment on my photos, ok?". Is this a sign that she DOESN'T like me?
NicerBricer 5 months ago
@NicerBricer pretty much.
ForeverPerfectTwo 4 months ago
if he does these things, can you still be friends with him?
XPrincess30 5 months ago in playlist More videos from mariedubuque
hmm i'd have to agree to disagree. actually, i'd have that same reaction toward girls i like (passing eachother and me not saying a word). of course everyone is different and in my case i've been a social recluse for a good part of my life. shy people can freeze up when they pass by someone they like.
zatoichidblind 5 months ago
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Guys,
It's really not hard to pick up girls. You just need to educate yourself and luckily, there's some sick guides out there. "The Game" by Neil Strauss started things off for me and most recently, I've been using the techniques from P.Box
Here's what you need to do
Step 1: Go to MackMethods. com
Step 2: Get the "pandoras box" program
Step 3: Use the tips and blend it in with your own twist
Picking up girls is a skill. Educate yourself and you'll laugh at how easy it is.
MMArtist99 5 months ago
okay I might sound werid, but help me out!
This happened over months. This guy I rlly liked and I guess he kinda liked me. But the thing was I was 15 and he was 20 and we somehow started txting and he would text stuff like "your cute" or "your hot' and sometimes well talk on the phone.talked about who we liked and use to. and one night it got heavy and I was with my friends like it was a joke. and he was saying dirty things.my friends told,I got and trouble and he acts like I'm not there anymore
MissImperfectChick 5 months ago
@MissImperfectChick Trust me, you don't wanna be dating a 20 year old if your 15 anyway. Just hang out with dudes your age. And if he's hitting on minors, it probably means he is someone you'll want to avoid
BrutalEST96 3 months ago
@BrutalEST96 thats what i be tryna say top them girls like why would you want to be with someone like that .. i mean come on he is a chester and nasty
packertrinity 3 months ago
@packertrinity Exactly dude, and he may be a perv if he's hitting on girls that age if he himself is 20
BrutalEST96 3 months ago
so you can't text and be friends? :( if he doesn't reply does that mean you can't even be friends
XPrincess30 5 months ago
what if you stalked him and he found out :o now things are awkwardand we used to be friends- when I see him in the hall do i ignore him? he sometimes greets me, sometimes pretends he doesn't see me. the problem is we're family friends so sometimes we are forced to get together and talk- doesn't really work out :(
XPrincess30 5 months ago
sounds EXACTLY like the guy I like - oh god
XPrincess30 5 months ago
Hey thanks for the tips!! cause i like someone but.....i think they are interested in me!!! :D!
fluffyhamster100 5 months ago
but what if the guy is shy???????????
MRAWESOMEEASB 5 months ago 70
Wow you're old
trollinnrickrollin1 5 months ago
He dates the prettiest girls in the school and he's insanely cool and popular, and funny. i get tongue tied when i talk to him and i just start freaking out and acting weird. please please help me.
winningduh18 5 months ago
my bestfriend is his bestfriend as well, so she knows everything there is to know about him. She said that he liked me at the end of 7th grade. 8th grade has just started for me, and i try to talk to him whenever, at least just a quick convo, i have nooooo clue if he likes me or not, but he keeps flirting with this one other girl. my bestfriend told him that i like him, and he said he wants to focus on football this season which is why hes not dating anyone, but if he was he would consider me.
winningduh18 5 months ago
Pleaaaaaase reply.
So theres this guy right, i have the WORLDS BIGGEST CRUSH on him, i try to get over it sometimes but he comes to school lookin all sexy and i cant help it. whenever we talk, it lasts for 5 seconds.
winningduh18 5 months ago
33,346 people have a crush on somebody Haha
MultiCoolrider 6 months ago 49
@MultiCoolrider u r a dick AND YES I AM MAD BRO
sonic2471 4 days ago
Some guys, especially if shy, do look away when when a girl who has a crush looks at them. I done that when a girl I like looks at me. If I don't look away, my neural net would fry.
Jeorney 6 months ago
Okay, so I really like this guy, and he did the opposite of everything you said except the texting part. I text him quite a bit and at around 11:30-1:30 ish we occasionally txt eachother. I'm so confused! I asked my best guy friend and he said my crush likes me back. But I don't want to get my hope up invade he doesn't. What should I do?! It's so confusing!
1daniluvsmusic 6 months ago
LOOK THEY COULD LIKE YOU AND BE NERVOUS AROUND YOU!!!!!!
animeabsol20 6 months ago
If i don't like a girl that has been pretty much stalked me for years, guys like me would like to be nice and not say "I don't like you, move on with your life" but if I see the person that like me I try to have her take a hint by saying "Whatever" or "Okay" and countinue on with my life, most people don't wanna be rude like me but if this girl seriously doens't get it after like 5 years then we tend to get rude, im more patient than some people though as you can probably tell from this.
IzItDJ 6 months ago
@IzItDJ I do the same! :P
Datguy594Rada 6 months ago
People can b that way if there shy
donkessmellgood 6 months ago
This guy & I were sending e-mails 2 eachother in facebook & then he just stopped sending e-mails to me. The beginning was great coz I was so happy that we wrote to eachother..! I totally have a crush on him! But now he's not writing anymore..!! I'm going so angry+sad! This vid was a big help!!! thank you soo much.. I have to stop checking/stalking his profile & I have to stop thinking bout him..! there are other guys too!
but It's really hard!!! :/ I got it bad!! :/
miss212AUT 6 months ago
@miss212AUT The same exact thing happened to me but I'm a guy and the girl just stopped talking to me for absolutely no reason at all. We were getting along just fine and we were talking for quite a while. What the hell is wrong with people?
atom57 6 months ago
I know right?.. it's just so annoying.. -_-
miss212AUT 6 months ago
man hes still not interested in me :[
TheSerioussam11 6 months ago
Nice vids, but what if signs are cofunsing? she may be somwhat interested? is there such a thing? or is it just black/white? thanks
sirgerry 6 months ago
ewwwwwwwwww
Bobsagot90 6 months ago
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if you are here, they are not interested
dopeasfuckk 7 months ago
Also, a little update- I texted her about two days in a row. Since a little less than a week ago, I haven't texted her and she hasn't either- The fact she hasn't started any of the conversations makes me a bit uneasy. Is she not interested? Also, one time she didn't respond until the next morning and she said she fell asleep. That kind of makes me feel a bit better, because that maybe means she stayed up just to text me? i don't know. I'm in a weird situation.
TedMan55 7 months ago
l like this girl i think she likes me but shes taken and i got her phone number we text a lot and we talk a lot at school every time she sees me she says my name what do i do now
MrReadalot55 7 months ago
thanks:-)
winkyinky123 7 months ago
I like this guy who has a girlfriend.. He says he wants to break up with her because she gets jealous a lot... but he can't because she will be sweet.. But he texts me 24/7!! He flirts soooo much.. He winks at me.. He will admit to being jealous when i talk about some other guy flirting with me.. Does he like me..? And what to do about the whole girlfriend thing...??? thanks! :) <3
chickenchicken7 7 months ago
Ask her out. If she says she is not interested, that will do it.
JeffersonDinedAlone 7 months ago
TedMan--I think she likes you! Otherwise why would she text you for that long. If she weren't interested, she would have said she had to go.
mariedubuque 7 months ago
I have a very big crush and we had a really good connection, and he also told me he has a good time with me and then all of a sudden he ignores my messages and calls what does this mean, and I do not want to be the one who is always calling, what does this mean?
coquinelola98 6 months ago
Hey, I'm a brand new viewer, and I just got to know the girl I liked yesterday. Yesterday we talked for an hour or so and I got her number (A good sign, I hope) and today we texted for two and a half hours and we really connected and she reached out and really seemed interested. Do you think she likes me, or is starting to?
TedMan55 7 months ago
wish i could just go for it life is so short....
Hans1994yout 7 months ago
lol well he DEFINITELY doesn't like me.. :(
Babyennayar 7 months ago
eh this is why i just dont tell my crushed that i like them...
hapibth0pel3ss 7 months ago
THANK YOU xox
plepor 8 months ago
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you shouldnt tell them they arent into them... they culd just be shy..
pieluver102 8 months ago
when ever i am around a crush and they talk to me i get REALLY nervous and i cant look at them and i kindof avoid them but i dont want to im just really shy
kattmittens 8 months ago
I just discovered your videos today and just wanted to say that you give amazing advice :c). You seem to have great people skills and it's so nice of you to help people out. I'm a little shy, and I really like your videos that help with that.
missamitza 8 months ago
my question is, what if she does things like smile around you gives you eye contact, but constantly tells you your annoying and you need to stop talking? I talk alot and i guess to certain people i'm consitered anoying. But for some reason she always gets happy when shes around me like she dosnt go all insane and start dancing but she lites up and smiles even when i do somthing stupid. She also rights random things on my hand like hi. im so confused because she is so weired and i like her!
ihavevideos45 8 months ago
wait...what if the guy likes you and...you dont know what to think...like "should i go with him"?or"do i feel the same way about him" ...im just so confused...some one please help!
memegotbad 8 months ago
hey a married man likes to touch me but he is not interesting in sex!!! is he normal???
ComedianNicky 9 months ago
okay so I like this guy and everytime he talks and I look away... it just gets confusing
smmickie 9 months ago
So if she does play hard to get like is suggested and the guy takes that as "any signal that she's avoiding him" does he also move on? This is somewhat confusing. I agree that smothering someone can run them off but playing hard to get is a turn off too. I like a woman honest but respectful of my space. I tend to be the same way toward them. Most men like no nonsense, not hair flicking, disinterested prissy gazes.
troydeancarpenter 9 months ago
Orangelme--I think he likes you, not the other girl. She is coming on too strong.
mariedubuque 9 months ago
Hi i have a problem its this girl at work she always goes out of her way and says hi to me really loud with a big smile on her face like she wants me badly she even says hi to me when she pulled up with her car and she even gave me that look like shes interested and i've talked to her and the conversation was going really good but then heres the problem she got me jealous when she was flerting with this other guy but on the positive note it looked like she was yelling at him
video082000 3 months ago
can you help me i want to know if she likes me or not
video082000 3 months ago
I need help, I am 14 and i like this guy, he is sweet with me, he actually talks to me we are in track together and at track meets he talks to me. He just seemed interested like full-on. He listens when i talk and he pays attention and has reponses besides, yeah, oh cool, and stuff.But this girl come back from vacationing and she is all over him but he still kinda glances over at me and notices me without her we talk like great friends, but when she's there he will look at me but says nothing...
OrAnGeMeErKaTs 9 months ago
@OrAnGeMeErKaTs Heres the thing, some guys are desprate enough to go out with girls they don't like. He obviously really likes you but is in a diferent relationship. it's posible that he dosnt want to brake the other girls heart, or he really like both of you but is curently in a relationship with someone else. if they ever brake up, i'm sure he will come crawling to you, and i'm sure if you like him enough youl say yes! hope this helped
ihavevideos45 8 months ago
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LiveForArt100 10 months ago
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Kiss ur hand 10x
Say ur crush's name 15x
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Nigiah972 10 months ago
Does she treat you differently then other guys? If she says hi to every single guy she sees, then that's a clue. But if she seems to go out of her way to say hi to you, then yes, maybe!
mariedubuque 10 months ago
the girl i have a crush on is saying hi everytime she sees me but how do i know if shes interested
TheAnimator584 10 months ago
i love you. ive almost watched all your videos
myelim 10 months ago
Damond, She probably doesn't know what to say when it comes to texts. And it's hard, because you can't read body language. Try to talk to her face to face if you can. That way you can really tell if she likes you. You said she looks at you a lot. So when you catch her eye, walk up and say hi. That's all you have to do. Let her do the talking and see what happens!
mariedubuque 10 months ago
a question!
what if she is making signs that she's interested(looks at you when u talk,stares at u,keeps being in the same room as u)and at the same time doesnt give attention to texts(one or 2 word text messages and doesnt respond to them).any ideas?
Damond4153 10 months ago
Ross--You're not doing anything wrong. Talk to this girl a little more than you usually do, not a lot, just a little. So it's not obvious. Try to get to know her better. She will think you are just being friendly. Then you can tell how she is reacting to you, whether or not she likes you. Also, if you don't let your height be a problem it won't be. It's your insecurity that is getting in the way, not your height. Kids are a lot taller these days.
mariedubuque 10 months ago
Um..i think im of need of help...Im..well a very very Shy person...
Im 17 and well..im 6foot6...
Girls avoid me because of my height..
But the few that i do talk to..im not sure if they like me or not..I had..a dear freind like me for awhile..and by the time i found out it was to late..and it became weird between us.. As of now..I think a girl likes me..but..not very sure...ive made many mistakes before and try for them to early or to late...
What am i doing wrong...any advice would help.
rosstheirish 10 months ago
CCLegos--Those are really good signs!
mariedubuque 10 months ago
gee thanx i think this girl i like might like me too cuz she makes eye contact when she talks to me,when i talk to some of my friends she starts talkin too,she smiles at me,when she hears me talking about something shes interested in she talk to me,she calls me by my name
CCLegos 10 months ago
oh my gosh, your sooooo helpful. !!
i mean it :)
your really good for advice :)
xox
binkylicious2011 10 months ago
oh my gosh you look funny when you look down , sideways, and others...LOL
DemSelLOL 10 months ago
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MsKay2015 11 months ago
Hi Marie, thanks for your help! I'm unbelievably shy when I fancy someone so it will take a lot of courage! I dont actually think the friend is interested but hes the louder of the pair - nice guy but an attention seeker - so he'd still want me to like him if he wasnt interested - if that makes sense?? I really like the other guy so I'll take your advice and let you know what happens! X
ladyxtc 11 months ago
ladyxtc--I really think this guy likes you. He all but asked you out when he said you should take him out for a drink. I think he is afraid of rejection. If you do like him, I would ask him to do something casual, like go for coffee, something like that. And could his friend be interested in you as well? Just a thought, because why would he say something negative about his friend, unless he wants to make himself look good. I'm not sure on that. But definitely the other guy likes you!
mariedubuque 11 months ago
Also the guys friend told me today he said something quite dirty (sexual) about me, its put me off him a bit but I'm more confused as to why the friend would bother telling me what he said when he knows it would put me off. The friend who I get on with is quite cheeky and flirty, the guy I like is the same with others but around me he is definetly a lot more reserved and has never been overtly flirty - its hard because I think the quiteness means less interest. Just like your honest opinion
ladyxtc 11 months ago
Hi, any views on this...I like this guy at work but im so shy when he speaks to me- if he says hi or asks how i am my answers are always short n choppy. I get on better with his friend who has told me he is interested but shy and I should ask him out for a drink - but I dont feel hes interested as apart from a smile here n there he hasnt said anything directly to me. He joked that I should take him out for a drink as he had done me a favour at work but I just dont get "that" feeling from him
ladyxtc 11 months ago
DefinedCosmetics--Try comparing how he treats you to how he treats other girls. If he is nicer to you, or you see him perk up when you enter the room, and he doesn't react like that to other girls, he likes you!
mariedubuque 11 months ago
ugh, I STILL have a hard time reading this guy. He hasn't done any of the avoiding things you talked about but I can't tell if how he is with me is because he's a nice guy or if there's something there.
DefinedCosmetics 11 months ago
EATMYDUST36013--It's completely obvious that she likes you! I don't know what else this poor girl has to do to get your attention! Try approaching her and talking to her more to start.
mariedubuque 11 months ago
Continued- she asked me to help her up after track when she bent down becuz she claimed she was stuck and I worked out more than she did and I had no problem. She asked me to pull her up and I grabbed her as if giving her a hug and pulled her straight and I believe it's an excuse to touch me or get held or touched by me I need help there is more but these are hints. She also looks at me when I'm not looking but I'll see her do it from long distance. I appreciate it
EATMYDUST36013 11 months ago
I have a huge crush on this girl and I'm wondering if she likes me. She is a really good buddy of mine and I've known her for like 7 years. For the last couple of days or a week she's been hanging close to me talking alot and she has been either grabbing my shirt or my hand and pulling me to talk to her because she is alone and needs me to be close to her. She has been playing around on me like today it was icy and she wanted me pull her with my arm and have her slide on the ice safely I guess.
EATMYDUST36013 11 months ago
Abby--I think it's just the opposite. You want to lay low. Don't be too available, and be a little mysterious. I'm serious. It works. You don't want to seem too anxious. Just talk to him enough, but not too much. Let the ball be in his court.
mariedubuque 11 months ago
kh--pretend like all that didn't happen. Just talk to her like you would a buddy. Act like nobody knows anyone likes anyone. The two of you are friends, period. Then, there's no awkwardness. And don't hold out any expectation. If it works out, great, If not, you didn't lose anything either.
mariedubuque 11 months ago
i have a question you know when you like someone but you dont want them to know you like them unless they like you back but your not sure so maybe when you see them you talk to them but maybe you think you were a little to forward in that conversation so the next time you see them you try to avoid them so that they dont know you like them. well what happens if they like you and do that but you dont know that they like you and because of that you think they arent interested what should you do?
kh108067 11 months ago
buttercubes--I would be a little hesitant here, especially because he is not sure who he likes! All of a sudden he is not interested in your friend anymore and he likes you. Find out why. And if he changes his mind so fast, and you're just the flavor of the month, he will change his mind again! Remember, demand to be treated the very best. If he isn't treating you well, have nothing to do with him.
mariedubuque 11 months ago
heey...theres a guy i like and he talks to me all the time at school and hes always starting converstaions, and my friends are always saying that they think he likes me an i told him i liked him like 3 months ago (over a text because i was really nervous) and he was like oh..ok i like _____ and now he said he doesnt like her anymore and he always sits next to me...he stares at me he make eye contact...but sometimes infront if his friends he would be so mean to me! and i don't cry or anything bu
buttercubes250ex 11 months ago
The PureRedemption--either she likes you and is a little afraid of possibly getting hurt, or she is a game player, it's one or the other. When she asks you where you're going over the weekend, see if she wants to meet up. Then have a conversation with her, and you will know then.
mariedubuque 11 months ago
this girl i like, when i told her i liked her she said she didnt like me. then recently she found someone else, but at college i was walking by and she told me to come talk to her do i did. she then told me that she liked me but she didnt want to tell me because she knew i was moving university and didnt want to make it complex. But she keeps asking if im going out at the weekend to the palce shes going etc . does she still like me
ThePuresRedemption 11 months ago
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ToaKrulies 11 months ago
I like your advices! Short and simple; no excessive useless information :)
OhYoureAlive 11 months ago
@Mrfbenevidez--I would keep it very casual. In fact, don't let her know you are still interested. If you want to call it playing hard to get, that's fine. But think of the reason you broke up. Those problems will still be there if you get back together. If you still want to, reconnect as friends first, and see how that goes. But in the meantime, meet other people! She could be just playing games with you.
mariedubuque 1 year ago
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My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for a month now. We still talk at work an go eat afterwards sometimes, she knows Im still into her. Sometimes signs show she still likes me and sometimes it seems shes uninterested. What can I do? Play hard to get or keep talking to her and see what happens
MrFbenavidez 1 year ago
My ex girlfriend and I have been broken up for a month now. We still talk at work an go eat afterwards sometimes, she knows Im still into her. Sometimes signs show she still likes me and sometimes it seems shes uninterested. What can I do? Play hard to get or keep talking to her and see what happens.
MrFbenavidez 1 year ago
This was me before but now my crush is fine with talking to me! He started talking to me after he figured out I liked him so for short measures, tell the truth to your crush! It helps him know what to think of you!!(:
Nikyd98 1 year ago
I actually got lots if good signals from the guy I like. even before I looked at this when i kept thinking "I think he likes me" there was ONE time that I initiated chat with him on Facebook, but he's almost NEVER on chat. he didn't ignore me, log off, or say he had to "go" but gave me a more lengthy message saying that he didn't want to be rude but he was in the middle of a huge paper he had to write. I dunno, for now I'll just be safe and just wait for him to chat with me if he wants to.
oOsprinklesOo 1 year ago
mine runs up to me in the hallway but his cousin told him not to like me she is in the same grade as me and him how do i get him not to listen to her???
genesimmons1999 1 year ago
severe, ask her about how work/school is going. Then say something about your school or work that she can relate to, a bad boss/teacher, tough assignment, something like that. It will get the conversation going. Then ask about her family, does she have siblings, etc, then say something funny about something that happened with your family, you get the idea. The more you find out about her, the more you will have to talk about.
mariedubuque 1 year ago
severe, you've got to go with your gut on this. Does she seem to recoil when she sees you, or does her face light up? The fact that she asks you questions back is a really good sign. It means she wants to keep the conversation going. She doesn't want you to leave. Now, if she gave you a one word answer and then left, that is an indication to back off. But it sounds like she is interested, so I would keep coming up to her and if she continues to talk to you, she's probably interested.
mariedubuque 1 year ago
@mariedubuque Thank you for the response. I honestly am not sure if she recoils or lights up when she sees me. What I was thinking of doing was just talk to her whenever there's a chance. However, it's a bit difficult when there's not a lot that I could talk to her about since I can't find anything we have in common. Is there any tips you could give me on carrying on a convo with someone you want to find more about, but don't know what to talk about? Please and thank you.
severebrutalized 1 year ago
What if I'm always the first one to say "hi" and start the convo? During the convo, I'm the only person that talks and asks questions. She'll answer it, smiles, comments on it, and sometimes asks me questions back. What exactly is going on in her mind? Should I keep saying "hi" when I see her and try to make small talks? Or should I back off? Please help me, and thank you. :)
severebrutalized 1 year ago
megiscool--It could be he is trying to hide his insecurity.
mariedubuque 1 year ago
WHAT IF you say hi and he smiles like a retard and says hi but hes trying to be funny?
megiscool511 1 year ago
@musicxoxo96--Instead of just looking at him, actually start a conversation. You won't be coming on too strong at all. Just start talking about something you both have in common, classes, work, same friends, etc. And see where it goes. If he chimes in and seems responsive, have more conversations with him and see what happens! What do you have to lose?
mariedubuque 1 year ago
Whenever I look at the guy I like, he always catches me looking at him. I'm not sure if he like me back though. He's really nice to me but I get really shy and nervous around him so sometimes I'll say hi to him and other times I won't. It depends on how confident I'm feeling at the moment. Any tips??
musicxoxo96 1 year ago
My best friend since my freshman year in high school , now my boyfriend just asked me out, like a 2 weeks ago but somehow i feel like i was just asked out so he can get over is ex that he just had 2 months ago. i mean sure, they only been together for like two weeks but i like him too much just to be his rebound girl...
animefangurl01 1 year ago
@Matilke1--You've got to avoid this woman. It will only lead to heart ache if you don't.
mariedubuque 1 year ago
what if she's married and found out she's prego but I still feel she wants me (after she gave me alot of hints and signals the first term when she didn't know) and I want her but I get the feeling she feels conflicted/gulty and may not be hot for me anymore, but then I will get the feeling she is hot for me sometimes. I'm trying to get over her but the more I try to avoid her the more time I end up spending with her (at school) and I'm feeling really confused about this.
Matlike1 1 year ago
this is so helpful
JAMbannana 1 year ago
Babe005--I would back off a little. Because if you've liked him for seven months, and nothing has happened, you've got to change your strategy! This may not work either. He could just not be interested. But if you back off, and he sees you socializing with other guys, and generally having fun without him, he could take a second look at you! It may not work. But what do you have to lose?
mariedubuque 1 year ago
The guy i like is really really shy, he use to like me but now i dont know anymore, iv liked him for about 7 months and now i dont know what to do. he knows i like him but im starting to think he thinks im getting obsessed, should i give up and back off or should i keep trying?
BabeDG5 1 year ago
Webkinzlamb35--Stay friends with him, unless he breaks up with his girlfriend. But don't bad mouth her (I'm sure you're not) because it will just make you look bad. Be nice and polite to him, but not too much so. You don't want to seem over-anxious. And then, hope that he breaks up with her!
mariedubuque 1 year ago
HEY! I need help im in middle school and.....well....i like this boy and he is my friend...kinda...and well he has a girlfriend but i get the feeling they dont really like eachother thye just want popularity and i really like him and he atcs like he likes me so......IM SO CONFUSED!
Webkinzlamb35 1 year ago
A complicated one. I have been friend's with this girl for years we went to school together now she somtimes helps me with work. We hang out and its boyfriend girlfrind stuff we go to the movies together, go in town together, stuff like that. one big problem she has a boyfriend. BUT she knows he's not good for her i know it and we both say it. I have been in this exate situation befor i didnt say anything turn out she did like me and wanted me to say somthing she ended up with someone eles.
magicboyb 1 year ago
Hi mam do you have facebook orsomething? i really really like your messages! :)
LoveFromBelgium 1 year ago