when i am at school i feel like i am in a prison in my body, never being able to come out. I don't want to be shy at all. I am perfectly fine at home. It is only when I'm at school I am shy.
Shyness comes from insecurity. Try exposing yourself little by little to things that make you anxious at school. If speaking out in class makes you anxious, do it until the anxiety is gone. then try something else. keep doing this and you will see that you will become secure and your shyness will lift
Instant Shyness cure? Well, if most outgoing people aren't so damn stubborn and not think of themselves way too much and reach out and be friends with shy people and make them feel comfortable in social settings, the world would be a better place, but nope!!! This world is too damn stubborn still and these really outgoing pricks will make fun of shy people and ridicule them...overcoming shyness is a long process, and it's not instant.
I'm having trouble introducing myself to people in groups. Since I'm in highschool, it is'nt likely that you can find someone who is'nt with a group of friends. There is this girl that wants me to talk to her, but it's awkward for me because she is always around her friends. I feel that if I were to talk to her, I would have to introduce myself to her friends as well. I have her phone number but it would make me feel like less of a person to have a friendly realationship with her over the phone.
I understand why you would think you are less of a person to have a relationship over the phone when you could do it in person. However, allow yourself to ease into the face to face by first calling on the phone. when you feel comfortable then you can talk face to face. That is what millions of people do with online dating, so you are not alone, good luck
lol, I do watch the videos, sorry again that I wasn't more clear ; I uploaded a new video called video 27 (corrected), please take a look at that one. I will be deleting this video in a week
Thanks a lot for this video. I used to be pretty shy because of stuff that happened in school, but I've learned to overcome it in the later years of high school and college, however I'm still a little shy, but only when it comes to talking to girls I like, but I really feel like I am getting over it. Something that is making the situation even more interesting is the girl that I like is shy as well. Thanks again for the video.
i admit the process did start when i was young.i got in a fight with this kid in my neighborhood one day, eventualy we stoped and we made up...but the next day i didnt come outside because i was embarassed thinking i lost the fight and thought my friends would make fun of me. so as days went by I stayed in the house not living my childhood,and by the time i was in middle school,i was so shy that couldnt say a simple 'hi" but now im 17 and still trying to shake off that feeling,
You still are quit young. The importance of your age is how long are you going to allow what happened to you in the past effect you today? I know people in their 40s and 50s that never got over something like this. You are lucky, it's been a shorter time. So put yourself out there and make an effort to make new friends.
I'm shy. I have to fight the negativity and inhibitions inside my head everyday, because shy is not something I want to be. So I always try to act the part of confidence. And it's worked slowly, meeting more people, gaining more friends, but I confess that the shyness has never truly disappeared yet. I still have internal inhibitions here n there stemming from shyness, or days when I just don't want to be around people. And days that I do. Keep fighting i guess...
Congratulations. I think you are doing real well, remember that it probably took you your whole life to make you shy, it may take some time to undo the lack of confidence. Keep it up.
if you are shy you have to think what is going to happen if you talk and if you talk you just going to bee COOL!!! and don't worry if you say something wrong because everybody makes mistakes. and why ? because we are HUMANS!!!
Some interesting insights, he helps you to understand shyness, though he doesn't have any recommendations for changing it. I guess you need to go to therapy.
Well, if you accept yourself, then you won't be as worried about being social, because you accept how you are and even if someone decides they don't like you, it won't matter as much.
Baby steps people. just get out of it, this is coming from someone who is shy.
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AwwwMuffinz 11 months ago
when i am at school i feel like i am in a prison in my body, never being able to come out. I don't want to be shy at all. I am perfectly fine at home. It is only when I'm at school I am shy.
Hummers222 1 year ago
@Hummers222
Shyness comes from insecurity. Try exposing yourself little by little to things that make you anxious at school. If speaking out in class makes you anxious, do it until the anxiety is gone. then try something else. keep doing this and you will see that you will become secure and your shyness will lift
mizike1122 1 year ago
Instant Shyness cure? Well, if most outgoing people aren't so damn stubborn and not think of themselves way too much and reach out and be friends with shy people and make them feel comfortable in social settings, the world would be a better place, but nope!!! This world is too damn stubborn still and these really outgoing pricks will make fun of shy people and ridicule them...overcoming shyness is a long process, and it's not instant.
EricSchwin22 1 year ago
thanks for giving this very helpful video i feel more confident now about myself now that i watched this
potatoeization 2 years ago
Thank you
mizike1122 2 years ago
I'm having trouble introducing myself to people in groups. Since I'm in highschool, it is'nt likely that you can find someone who is'nt with a group of friends. There is this girl that wants me to talk to her, but it's awkward for me because she is always around her friends. I feel that if I were to talk to her, I would have to introduce myself to her friends as well. I have her phone number but it would make me feel like less of a person to have a friendly realationship with her over the phone.
MHarley93 2 years ago
@MHarley93
I understand why you would think you are less of a person to have a relationship over the phone when you could do it in person. However, allow yourself to ease into the face to face by first calling on the phone. when you feel comfortable then you can talk face to face. That is what millions of people do with online dating, so you are not alone, good luck
mizike1122 2 years ago
Right on target. But how do we overcome it?
SiliconBlake 2 years ago
by exposing yourself, overcome the uncomfortable feeling of socializing in large groups by exposing your self to large groups
mizike1122 2 years ago
your great, thank you for the video :)
dtk4lyf 2 years ago
Where is the end of the video?
ikemkrueger 2 years ago
a corrected video is up, sorry
mizike1122 2 years ago
The end is still missing.. :S Watch the video yourself!
ikemkrueger 2 years ago
lol, I do watch the videos, sorry again that I wasn't more clear ; I uploaded a new video called video 27 (corrected), please take a look at that one. I will be deleting this video in a week
mizike1122 2 years ago
Thanks. :)
ikemkrueger 2 years ago
Thanks a lot for this video. I used to be pretty shy because of stuff that happened in school, but I've learned to overcome it in the later years of high school and college, however I'm still a little shy, but only when it comes to talking to girls I like, but I really feel like I am getting over it. Something that is making the situation even more interesting is the girl that I like is shy as well. Thanks again for the video.
Shortmandesigner 2 years ago 2
i admit the process did start when i was young.i got in a fight with this kid in my neighborhood one day, eventualy we stoped and we made up...but the next day i didnt come outside because i was embarassed thinking i lost the fight and thought my friends would make fun of me. so as days went by I stayed in the house not living my childhood,and by the time i was in middle school,i was so shy that couldnt say a simple 'hi" but now im 17 and still trying to shake off that feeling,
k4g7 3 years ago
You still are quit young. The importance of your age is how long are you going to allow what happened to you in the past effect you today? I know people in their 40s and 50s that never got over something like this. You are lucky, it's been a shorter time. So put yourself out there and make an effort to make new friends.
mizike1122 3 years ago
Having both anxiety and depression can be tough to get through on your own, it might be a good idea to seek professional help.
mizike1122 3 years ago
I'm shy. I have to fight the negativity and inhibitions inside my head everyday, because shy is not something I want to be. So I always try to act the part of confidence. And it's worked slowly, meeting more people, gaining more friends, but I confess that the shyness has never truly disappeared yet. I still have internal inhibitions here n there stemming from shyness, or days when I just don't want to be around people. And days that I do. Keep fighting i guess...
Boltfiger 3 years ago 7
Congratulations. I think you are doing real well, remember that it probably took you your whole life to make you shy, it may take some time to undo the lack of confidence. Keep it up.
mizike1122 3 years ago
i'm shy but i'm fighting agaist shyness
if you are shy you have to think what is going to happen if you talk and if you talk you just going to bee COOL!!! and don't worry if you say something wrong because everybody makes mistakes. and why ? because we are HUMANS!!!
alaindiazaran 3 years ago 5
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i don't think he has any friends himself
tractorash 3 years ago
He looks camera shy
bell8703 3 years ago
Some interesting insights, he helps you to understand shyness, though he doesn't have any recommendations for changing it. I guess you need to go to therapy.
dayviewing 3 years ago
Well, if you accept yourself, then you won't be as worried about being social, because you accept how you are and even if someone decides they don't like you, it won't matter as much.
holyjesus 3 years ago