Text Monster - Girlfriend's Story - That's Not Cool

[GabriSTFU]

C. Something might be bothering him,So just ask and understand.

[dirtyskrillex]

c....... But just leave him alone for a little while. He might not want to talk at that moment, you might be a little too obsessed with talking to him.

[frizzlesthekitten]

c.....just ask him whats going on

[334jjj]

ask what's going on.

[mikufan12]

It always happens... JUST confront him and ask him what's going on and maybe you will feel less stressed out.

[JobiWonKinobi1]

C would be the most diplomatic answer, but just remember that whatever he says he's not trying to attack you, he is just telling you how he feels.

[cody10ha]

B would be counterproductive wouldn't it?

[sailors08]

@cody10ha

lol yes, yes it would

[HeavyMetal982]

B Fo Sho

[Maycat55]

All you need to do is give him some space, maybe stop texting him every 5 seconds. I mean, guys are mean, but think of him in your place.

[singerdancerfreak123]

good.

[TheLizMonster]

advice to all singles: BE VERY PICKY. you'll never get what you want if you don't...and never settle for less. if you hate jerks...then stop going out with them. find someone you're actually into befoe you start dating. never jump into a relationship without actually knowing the person.

[MsTerrificTyra]

I really don't like it when GF's break up with their BF's because of something so stupid.

[imdnewitjurks]

My bf well nw ex bf he hurt me emotionally he ended up telling me tht if he comferts me then he would be babysitting meand tht waz the last straw for me! I cant take jurks like that anymore i am dne wit jurks and nxt one tht starts acting like a jurk towards me im going to dump him asap!!!!!!

[xXxEmOScEnEBiTcHxXx]

dur it's c

[bonguppy]

I always would pick C. but I wonder if its cuz I'm too clingy. When i realize I've become clingy- I feel the relationship is already ruined forever and I am lost.

[bekiesdead]

well people do Not like to be smothered with text mesageges ask him what is going on

[EvilGothicJenn]

Unless you text as much as my only girl friend does.... "Are you ok?" "come outside" "hey, whats up?" every 2 min, I'd say cheating. Lol. Or at work. XD

[angelmasacer]

i have the same situation as her except she only hangs out with guys so its ten times worse

[InfernoProj]

Of course he's cheating on you.

[hotbabiboo]

C defininately. A sometimes can be true though if ur not messaging him alot..

[Justheretocomment91]

Why don't they have one with a guy as the text monster? My ex boyfriend was always texting me =/

[HUGEnarutofreak]

c...

[hottarru]

dude, take it from me. i used to be like that until my guy dumped me. now i dont get why girls do that. trust me your not worried your clingy and obsessive. give him some space and things will work out better

and you should also talk to him more. but in person

[16TimTam]

give the guy some space!!!!

[iamsouljagirl]

c yall sould be able to talk about itt andd thee girll shouldd bee able to expres their feelings about the relationship and if the guy and girl can do that that is a good relationship and you should hold on to that because it is really hard to find a relationship that good in this world;;

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[iamsouljagirl]

i think c cuzz if yall cann workk it outt andd talkk aboutt whatt iss goingg onn togetherr itt iss aa good relationshipp andd itt iss reallyy hardd too findd onee off thosee inn thiss worlddd;;;

[amander1011]

c beause u should ask him because u might lose him

[kaiseelynn]

This helps alot....Now im just hunna wait for him to text me.

[lunababy143]

C he's a guy and guys ignore people lmao but theres a limit to how much you text so kinda just chill if he doesnt text back then oh well wait for him to come to you

[imdone189]

I really think you people need to stop paying attention to the grammar and more on what the video is trying to tell you.

[MrSeanthompson6p]

lol

[krazyandy17]

Is she pushy or is she just high maintenance?

[Iamreallycoolful11]

CATS!!!!

[strawbarikari]

I'm extremely disturbed by the horrible grammar in this clip...is it really necessary to dumb down the kids watching this? (I axed him? I hope she meant she ASK-ed him, as axing him would mean a felony...)

[actionvixen]

It's not grammar, it's pronunciation, everyone has different accents. duh.

[xXMusicIsLifeXx123]

talk to the guy about it; dont just accuse things of the boyfriend.

[bbaileyable]

I know. I know this guy who blows up my every form of communication and IM MARRIED. Its really rediculous.

[alisonk04]

this is SO SEXIST!!! If I don't learn to control myself, my only friends will be my cats.?! WAHAT IS THAT!!!! UGH. Patriarchy, 9 zillion, women's movement, negative 8.9999 zillion

[Muzicandluv]

u need to talk to him about it, and if u do especially dont do it over text. someone in a good relationship knows the levels of privacy and where to draw the line wen they need to.

[Stormibabyy]

well considering im a paranoid person if i were upset i would pick A but then get over it in 10 seconds because i know my boyfriend isnt like that and hes my brother best friend and just an all around sweet guy,

i just used to have bad paranoia issues and thankfully he understood that.

[Tzadkiel111]

She is a good girl, you leave her alone. She is just a bit needy. We all know someone like that! THE IMPORTANT THING IS LEARNING 2 COMMUNICATEZ0r.

[gabbyyOx5]

ok i deffinately dont have her problem!!! desperate to be loved much???

[bookcreator]

Ugh... I'd hate to be her girlfriend...

[StayBeastinxMeagxHay]

im not exactly sure what i am. like me and my boyfriend both constantly text eachother. but when he stops texting me i dont text anymore. when i stop texting him he keeps texting me. and when i do it to him it makes him mad. is he obsessive? or just worried. and why would it make him mad if i do it when he does the same thing?

[StayBeastinxMeagxHay]

well i really like my boyfriend. and i text him because hes with his friends a lot and girls i dont know, and it makes me feel like he still knows im there and makes me feel like he wouldnt flurt with other girls. im not obsessive. i mean when he doesnt text back i dont keep texting. but i always want to because i feel like i cant trust him. how can i stop feeling this way?

[tigerlilymemoirs]

I would just stop texting him so much. I mean, he is with his friends and having a good time, so I would just lay off. He probably doesn't want to look whipped,either, which is totally understandable.

[choukitsune46]

just be honest with your man. that's the ONLY way to go

[bestlisever]

Wheel, printing press, telephone, internet.

This collection of work responds to our generation’s all-consuming communication climate. The degradation of dialogue dilutes down to digits.

[bestlisever]

Wheel, printing press, telephone, internet.

This collection of work responds to our generation’s all-consuming communication climate. The degradation of dialogue dilutes down to digits.

[Lordizzleee]

I think if your man annoys you, than you can find better. The one guy I never grow tired of is the one I stuck with and am happy with, they gotta be smart, plus you two have to be able to learn and grow from one another.

[toresanignog]

I think that you need to relax on this. You are becoming too dependent on him and your pushing him away, if you really want this to work you shouldn't accuse him of things he most likely isn't doing. How would you feel if he accused you of those things? Give him some space, before you push him to far.

[peachesz94]

text sum friendszx &&talk to them

[ashleysan93]

C but if you think he's cheating then he probably is.

[bludy9]

I think, why my bf broke up with me cuz i was the one txting him not him txting me..

and he broke up with me cause he said I deserve better? I was just happy with him. im so confused and hurt

[kaliiii18]

want fries ith that?

[xSONxOFxCALIFAS]

he was cheating on you

[LiveItUp18]

What's with the whole texting craze anyway?

It's so non-emotional and unnecessary.

I'd rather talk on the phone for ten minutes.

I only like texting to get a short message across without the hassle of calling or interrupting what I'm doing

--which is once in a while.

I need my guy to give me spaceee!

[peterpanxpenguin]

my bf is very clingy. he smothers me A LOT. he's ALWAYS next to me at practice and i can never just talk to friends without him being next to me. it was ok at first but now its little annoying.i mean i like him and all but he just doesn't give me my space.its been 2 months.even with the text if i dont text him back he keeps sending the same one over again or asking if im there or how come im not answering back. till i reply back. it gets aggrevating. i still like him cause he really kind. idk??

[Alexzandria13]

the only thing me and my boyfriend can do is text, since we see each other maybe once every few weeks. i am very clingy, and text him often, but he is clingy too, and texts back quickly. when i need my rare but precious space, i say what i'm doing that requires no interruption, and he does the same thing. what people need to do is find someone they can be with who shares your cling level, and is respectful to your space.

[atucker5573]

i cant do any of that bc my bf never gives me the chance to talk i dont even text him that much then when he says i can text him he dosnt text back then when i tell him we need to talk he always says hes with friends and then i just call him more and more i dont know what to do

[uhxlixsa]

...There was "D"?

Hmm, I didn't see it.

=T

[uhxlixsa]

Umm, caspugui. Why would you even go back out with him if he cheated on you? My friend kept going back out with her ex and he always kept her heartbroken. Thing is, he was actually cheating on her the whole time.

[caspugui]

ive done c and he sed that as long as i didnt text so much he'd answer and we made that our agreement but even tho i text him waaay less now he still doest answer. he used to cheat on me and back then the only time he wudnt answer is wen he was with the other girl.....can u blame me for getting a little upset??

[emogirl78]

i would say C,once u talk to him and find out wats going on,maybe u'll understand,sometimes things pop up

[AOviatt18]

these are cool vids! Thanks guys!!

[carolinaide]

I haven't talked to my boyfriend in like, two weeks now. He ignores me. I don't even smother him.

[Stars4rmKB]

OMG...im dealing with the same thing right now..]=

did you ever tlk to him?? i tried contacting him myself..cuz i usualli wait for him to txt first, and he never replied.

after i few days i started tlking to some ppl, and i found out tht he tlks to lke a bunch of girls, and he's totalli after sex..

[carolinaide]

NO. I just text dumped him in the end, cause I deserve better than a guy who doesn't reply to my messages. A guy who really likes you will treat you right...

[hayleysevenfoldA7X]

i'm with c.

[hootenhuggybear]

B all the way! I'll hit him in his grill for lying to mami! and he'll cry but oh well....

[LittleMissBeccaMae]

C all the way!

[soccerdivaoxox]

umm c all the way but guys are stupid so he might be cheating cuz thts what happened to one of my friends

[soccerdivaoxox]

c all the way

[falgoo13]

I hate when guys do that!

Even when I do text my boyfriend asking him if he wants space he won't een an swer we haven't talked since the last time we saw each other which was about...a week ago.

Am i being to smothering?

[dallasbrookeburton]

dude you guys need to make T shirts!!!

[Saralilah07]

when he texts/calls, just ignore him back. haha. see if he likes it. XD

[laureno28]

im gonna go with C (but i like the idea of B) haha

[Sonnybubble]

My boyfriend is doing that and there is no talking to him.

[MyUnfamous]

I dont wana tell that to my gf,I just... u know;Dont wana hurt her feelings,or make her change her mind,gladly,it happens sometimes...

[pbotfalconONPS3]

VV()()7! B FTW! ( VV()()7 is WOOT )

[WBaby1221]

Not gonna lie, I'm a fan of B smash his phone. Lol.

[Shammon35]

B its more violent lol

[selinaval64]

uggghh thats whats happening with me lol

werid.

[MDogg84Fire]

he's not sayin that u cant date when ur a teenager he is sayin that they dont even sound like they are even 10 yet

[xoxlizbeth]

All these guys saying they r to young to date... how old do u think they are? teenagers can date if they want to. u probably did it to

[type1motor]

I agree people are way to into phones and texting and twitter and all this. remember when we didnt have this stuff. People had relationships just fine. If you couldnt get a hold of someone oh well thats how it was people missed each other more cuz the talking was not so in your face. This whole thing is crazy. Wish more people saw this to see whats up.

[SaintsRowExtra]

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[Bmaster1001]

CC

C

 CC

[kaighnyne]

D too young to date. all the kids that do these vids sound WAY too young.

[Gael4ce]

Again, the correct answer is D. Stop dating. You are too immature and needy to be in a relationship and will only succeed in driving men away from you.

[Mochafrozen]

B! CHOOSE B NOW! D:<

[mrbigchiefreefer]

i think its a little awkward that people are this into phones computers and what else lifes to short to waste your life with this calm down enjoy whats happening and do something constructive not destructive

[bluegurl4justices]

i think c is better its more better b/c 2 find out then break up wit him

[jegaggin]

Sending comment...

[jegaggin]

WOW

[CatieAbbieYo]

talk talk talk. Ive been on that side of it. We talked about it. and everything is all good. we have been going steady for a while now. He just said he needed some time to chill. I let him have it. Told him to text me when he was done. He always did(:

[HeartBrokenByHim]

C. this could be the end of the relationship... im sorry to say, but maybe he's not that into u anymore.. just remember, he's just a guy and there are plenty of fish in the sea :)

[MrGhostyProductions]

B I mean hello?!?!?

[etniesr4posers1]

How about you grow up?

[evitaduh]

siii

[Koreyy69]

C (:

[KillMeNoun]

OMG! DO C!

[RegretedMemories]

I think you should pick c it's the best way don't jump to conclusions because in the end it might be true or not be either way without you talking first and jumping ot them it's going ot hurt either way in the end.

[omgitsnikkie]

C duhh

[rhonjr]

If it bothered him so much, then he should have talked to her about it before he got to the lying stage.

[Hailya]

@c10204 - Actually, you don't know that. Me and my boyfriend communicate just fine.

[eldiablosic6sic]

this video is so lame...but funnyy....i hate it when girls smother meh :T

[c10204]

A and B, I know you wouldn't choose C.

If you could actually communicate and have a little self confidence you wouldn't be dating in the first place.

[Acousticmusic899]

yeah you cant be creepin

[singergurl31497]

C please communication is the key!

[xXiknowurfatexX]

B!!!!!!!

[joelover1995]

CCCC

[TheInsaneSinger]

Dude, definitely C. People need their space, and it always makes me cringe when I hear how obsessively clingy girls are to their boyfriends because I was once like that. It's a bad idea. You don't need to be included in every aspect of his life, but communication is key. Just talk to him and see what's really happening. Also, try texting a little LESS. It might help.

[iTALiAxOrANia]

even if yr bf says hes not cheating on you , you never will kno if hes jus lying to you cause hes scared.

[PRhunny47]

c...just talk to him, ppl need space too 

[ilovealex183]

ahhh i did that! i feel so stalker-ish~

[lotusfae]

Sending comment...

[lotusfae]

I'm really glad these videos exist. I had a friend in high school who was always over-texting her boyfriends and then didn't understand when they told her to back off.

[navacrush17]

omg. this is so weird. i would have just talked to him about it.

[imeverythingurnot]

omq that kinda sounds like me. reactions and even the way she talks lol. only i usually say hes cheatinq on me. break up with him. this showed me maybe i should just back off a little

[magicalonionofwar11]

I think the form of art you use in these videos are great and really help get the point across. 

[ataillan]

great video!