How would u get help if u knew that if something didnt happen soon u would commit suicide? Believe me I've tried every possible way to stop but I can't! I honestly don't have any idea of what to do???
Thank u SO much I'm 12 and yes it is VERY hard I'm not proud 2 say this,but I made my biggest and deepest cut today and it is finally getting 2 my diet a feel like I'm fat and I weigh,like, 89lbs. I need help and I can't do it and I can almost NEVER feel God by my side help me please and btw I LOVE the video -3
Its hard. I've tried but failed to stop. I've told my parents but they don't care. They think I do it cause I want sex but they couldn't be more wrong. They refuse to listen or even let me talk to someone who will. I felt even more alone at that point. Now I am lost & don't know what to do. I still cut. Help anyone ?
ive been free from SH in like maybe 2 months and then i couldnt stand on my legs anymore, so i started again, and i cant stop myself, anyone that can help me? plz!
Well i thought i would of gotten better by now but ive been cutting myself about 4 years now.... :/ i stopped for a lil while but now im doing it again... i know theres ways to stop and that it hurts u and the ones around u but people think its easy.... its not like i can wish for the urge to cut myself to be gone forever but its not that easy... it will never be that easy ..
today she a year clean but she fell like she want to go back sometime i know she done so well to get to where she is today but her mate are still doing it there telling her asking questions and always send her picture of it could you give me something to keep her on the right path thank you
I self harm and I have cut myself since I was 12. The longer you do it, the longer it takes to stop. Those of you who want to "Just try it," don't. That's how everyone starts .I'm struggling to stop now after 4 years. I've been hospitalized a countless number of times, and have needed blood transfusions. So never ever "just ty it" it is an addiction that overpowers your life.
You're an inspirational person, writing these to help people who need it the most. I used to self harm, major depression, and I know what its like. But i just want to say to everyone out there, as long as you can work through the urges, and just take it one step at a time, its possible to stop, and keep going leading a happy life. If you're knocked down 10 times, come back up smiling 11. Nothing feels better. If any need a talk, give me a shout :) x
Hey, i've self harmed for the past year and it got really bad until i came up with a way of stopping it, and as long as you just keep reading you can walk away from that blade.
Simply as you're about to cut, say your wrist for example, imagine that you were about to cut your best friends wrist or your mom or your dad's or just someone that you hold close to your heart, and think how lucky you are to have that amazing person in your life. And it will immediately put you off.
Thank you sooo...much for sharing this, i came out to a friend yesterday and another today, found out 1 of them is an ex self harmer, and they both want me to stop and it will just make things worse, i am and ex / restarted/ i want to stop self harmer <3
I've been cutting since 2009, I used to cut atleast 3 times every week and today I have been 91 days without cutting! Woooot! Wouldn't have gotten this far without my family and friends <3
@1238sara I went about 120 days without cutting when I used to almost everyday. I guess I just put my mind to other things whenever I was tempted like running or journaling. Journalling helps a lot! I have cut since though, it is incredibly hard to stop completely but I still have hope, you just have to believe in yourself.
I used to cut, but I struggles with it everyday not too.i also suffer with depression so I know it's hard. I've come close to going back, but it takes everything not to, but I always get out of it, and I hope you're doing better&are having an easier time stopping!
@xKTlicious can you help mee? u seem to have alot of self-control and i would like to ask like how deep should the cuts be? i dont want to pop an artery but then again I do want to cut. what should i cut with? what if your scared? when do you do it? thanks.
My slitting is starting to get out of hand, its got to the point where i'm going over the same slits, so they're gettin deeper and i've even started on my vains. I've tryed everything in the video & more but nothings worked, Any other advice you could give?
i am 13 now and have been self harming since i was 9 and i have been trying to stop since i was 11 but another tip is when you feel the urge to self harm go to the bathroom and take a SUPER freaking cold shower it pinches but it does not leave marks (unlease your in there to long you will get a rash) i do this every day to help me (this is stopid but what i do is i make my dog or cat made make them bite or scratch me so i feel the pain and i can also get away with it )
@zahvatchikKryeig if u try and stop u can i did it when i was 10 to 12 and i just stop just hang whith friends walk your dog insted of leting it bite or scratch u i stoped by just having fun enjoy life and stop
hey... im 15 ... ive been cutting myself since i was like 13..... its been getting worse over the years.... first it started with like five little cuts.,.... now its more than 20!!!! but the worse thing is that i not only cut myself when something getts me really angry or sad but now im cutting myself cuz its kinds fun and i enjoy the pain!!!! something iz really wrong with me!!! if u wanna no my life story juss message me!!! HELP!!!
i done self harm some of the people i know i trust i told because keep it all in dose not help last year i deiced i would try go a hole year clean i am but it good but i have still go people around me doing it dose not help find something that will help u music or anything but cutting
I am 12 and I have started cutting. It was only twice but with a sharp pair of scissors. No blood but scratch marks that burn. This video made me cry again. Not with pain this time, but with joy and realization of stopping the act of cutting. Thank you. :')
I am an on/off self harmer. Some days things are so bad I cut like crazy. But other days I can live without cutting. But I found the butterfly project helped for part of it. I was clean for 59 days. Then i screwed it up and started cutting again. Anyone needs a chat, message me. I'm here-3
The last 50 seconds meant the world to me. I'm 12 and I'm a cutter. I've been trying to stop for a while but the urge is just so strong it's hard to fight. The thing with me is I don't like talking to people about my probblems, instead I write them down in my journal. The only person I can really talk to is my brother who is always there for me. I love u zack
look every1 who is self harming I have stopped and I no it's hard it took me 8 months to be 3 weeks blade sober so if any one needs some1 to talk to apt let there feelings out to or just some moral support email me at tjaeschke737@hotmail.com :)
i might not have stopped but this video got me to at least stop carrying one around with me. thanks, good luck to those who are still struggling like myself
im 16 and i have been selfharming since i was 15 i dont know what to do my mum thinks im geting better but im only geting worse i feel like i need to self harm and its all started since my dad contacted me
please can someone tell me whats happening almost every day whenever i feel like im nothing compared to my brothers i go to my room and hit myself with something heavy and i dunno why but i cant stop please tell me whats happning am i a selfharmer?
It's so hard to stop...my life is so hard. Ever since 2nd grade I've been bullied...and had friend troubles...my parents are always mean to me....nothing takes away my pain better than cutting
you are one amazing person thankyou so much and to all of you out there who self harm we can do this! WE ARE STRONGER THAN A STUPID BIT OR METAL OR WHATEVER. THEY ARE OBJECTS WE ARE PEOPLE !!!!!!!!
Thank you a lot, didnt know i would actually find a video about it on the web, I tried to kill myself infront of my school last week and i have cuts all up me and i almost slit my throat, i was told to leave and i was taken to the doctors and hospital all though i refused to go and im not sure if i should do it again, although i am really not feeling so good and i really not sure if i can go one more month ='l thanks for the video will help a lot.
@FunnyRandom001-if they offer you counselling then take them up on the offer..you might be suprized how much it can help..go for a coupla weeks n if you don't feel its helping you then quit. ps if you ever need to talk mail me or the person who made this, it helps to talk to someone who knows exactly why and what for without needing to ask. i'll be more than happy to talk about anything.nothing shocks me and i've probably been done felt and thought everything your feeling right now.stay strong x
I really like this video. But it's easier said then done. If your writing or just listening to music it makes you depressed. Everything makes you depressed when your harming yourself. I've been for 5 years and i cant stop. I do all these things- nothing helps. Its just a disease that has to stay with you forever.
just bear in mind that God made you and is within you. If you hurt yourself, you're hurting Him too. If you don't really want to hurt HIm, then stop :)
i managed a whole 2 months, then i went and ruined it on the way to see my counsellor and now i have to start again get though as many weeks as i can so i can finally forget.
I've been going through depression, and have been self harming for a while. I've been trying to stop, but have never been given the advice I needed. I think your tips are what I need to stop once and for all. Thanks. =]
@sammiGxx Sam, this girl Tara, has helped me so much. And I think you should talk to her about your problems coz she's so friendly and helpful :) xoxo
This helped me a LOT! I used all your tips! and now I can proudly say I don't cut, and I don't have ANY urges anymore! Thank you SO much! you are AMAZING!! ♥
Thank you. I needed that. I've been fighting an urge all day. I'm still struggling, but this is certainly the best SH vid on youtube I've found. Thank you. xxxxx
this is going to sound really stupid, but this video stoppedme self harming. the point of not being judged affected me, and the tips got me through, the diary&the music/walking, it all worked, i appreciate this loads. thankyou, all the love i have, Evilroman1
I stopped self harming a while ago, but sometimes it's hard not to relapse. This video gave me hope, to know that I can get through the difficulties in life. Thank you. :)
great video!I suffer from depression but i dont self harm myself so i cant really give advice, but I hope you and everyone else can overcome and get better!
I hope you see my comment...
707kristen 20 hours ago
I wanna stop and this video helps alot I watch it everyday thank you so much...
707kristen 20 hours ago
How would u get help if u knew that if something didnt happen soon u would commit suicide? Believe me I've tried every possible way to stop but I can't! I honestly don't have any idea of what to do???
dolphinteamash 1 day ago
Thank u SO much I'm 12 and yes it is VERY hard I'm not proud 2 say this,but I made my biggest and deepest cut today and it is finally getting 2 my diet a feel like I'm fat and I weigh,like, 89lbs. I need help and I can't do it and I can almost NEVER feel God by my side help me please and btw I LOVE the video -3
pinkypink133 2 days ago
Its hard. I've tried but failed to stop. I've told my parents but they don't care. They think I do it cause I want sex but they couldn't be more wrong. They refuse to listen or even let me talk to someone who will. I felt even more alone at that point. Now I am lost & don't know what to do. I still cut. Help anyone ?
UnbrokenGirl15 1 week ago
@UnbrokenGirl15 I can see if I can help if you want?
theultimateemogirls 1 week ago
Really need help with this proublem
1238sara 1 week ago
i need help with this need a chat
1238sara 1 week ago
I think they should teach people about self harm in school. If i knew it was addictive dont think i wouldve started
SuperUltraDeltaTron 2 weeks ago
I fell like cutting
1238sara 2 weeks ago
a year n 42 days clean but sometime fell like doing it
1238sara 2 weeks ago
I love you too<33 :')
MissVidsnMusic 2 weeks ago
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1238sara 2 weeks ago
3:06 - 3:17 -3 thnxxxxxxx
SummerQ123 3 weeks ago
ive been free from SH in like maybe 2 months and then i couldnt stand on my legs anymore, so i started again, and i cant stop myself, anyone that can help me? plz!
Dixxiehp 1 month ago
@Dixxiehp I can. Message me if you want to talk or get help. Don't be afraid to write, really, I'll be pleased if you answer. I'll be waiting! *hugs*
Bloomka96 1 week ago in playlist Uploaded videos
I self harm when my dads away, when the cat goes away the mouse will cut.
suziesusen 1 month ago
Well i thought i would of gotten better by now but ive been cutting myself about 4 years now.... :/ i stopped for a lil while but now im doing it again... i know theres ways to stop and that it hurts u and the ones around u but people think its easy.... its not like i can wish for the urge to cut myself to be gone forever but its not that easy... it will never be that easy ..
MeAndMyShityLaptop 1 month ago
Thank you
GABCONNOR 1 month ago
today she a year clean but she fell like she want to go back sometime i know she done so well to get to where she is today but her mate are still doing it there telling her asking questions and always send her picture of it could you give me something to keep her on the right path thank you
1238sara 2 months ago
I self harm and I have cut myself since I was 12. The longer you do it, the longer it takes to stop. Those of you who want to "Just try it," don't. That's how everyone starts .I'm struggling to stop now after 4 years. I've been hospitalized a countless number of times, and have needed blood transfusions. So never ever "just ty it" it is an addiction that overpowers your life.
cantfindmyplace 2 months ago
You're an inspirational person, writing these to help people who need it the most. I used to self harm, major depression, and I know what its like. But i just want to say to everyone out there, as long as you can work through the urges, and just take it one step at a time, its possible to stop, and keep going leading a happy life. If you're knocked down 10 times, come back up smiling 11. Nothing feels better. If any need a talk, give me a shout :) x
TheMeganLucy 2 months ago
"I LOVE YOU"
Made me cry ='(
OMG! I love you -3
Thanks alot for the support :') -3
barbiecadence 3 months ago
im 12 and cut and do other things im trying to stop but i just cant...i just cant
chaosrenome 3 months ago
Hey, i've self harmed for the past year and it got really bad until i came up with a way of stopping it, and as long as you just keep reading you can walk away from that blade.
Simply as you're about to cut, say your wrist for example, imagine that you were about to cut your best friends wrist or your mom or your dad's or just someone that you hold close to your heart, and think how lucky you are to have that amazing person in your life. And it will immediately put you off.
It can always get
AMYCAK35 3 months ago
Hard to do
dippy2703 3 months ago
i use silly putty or clay any thing to occupy my hands till the urge passes
beamchick3 3 months ago
Thank you sooo...much for sharing this, i came out to a friend yesterday and another today, found out 1 of them is an ex self harmer, and they both want me to stop and it will just make things worse, i am and ex / restarted/ i want to stop self harmer <3
roxyrubbus 4 months ago
I've been cutting since 2009, I used to cut atleast 3 times every week and today I have been 91 days without cutting! Woooot! Wouldn't have gotten this far without my family and friends <3
Brontz1997 5 months ago
@Brontz1997 how did you get thought this
do u still think about it
1238sara 1 month ago
@1238sara I went about 120 days without cutting when I used to almost everyday. I guess I just put my mind to other things whenever I was tempted like running or journaling. Journalling helps a lot! I have cut since though, it is incredibly hard to stop completely but I still have hope, you just have to believe in yourself.
Brontz1997 1 month ago
You sound a lot like a friend I have! This video brought me to tears because I struggle with self harm too. You are amazing. I lobe you too -3
Goingunder817 5 months ago
sorry, but those reason aren't good enough for me :(
deadbabyfromspace 6 months ago
Xofalsesmilesox there is a place in heaven for people like you
DChafin72 6 months ago
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XxXAloneEmoXxX 6 months ago
I used to cut, but I struggles with it everyday not too.i also suffer with depression so I know it's hard. I've come close to going back, but it takes everything not to, but I always get out of it, and I hope you're doing better&are having an easier time stopping!
xoH4yl3yT4ty4n4xo 6 months ago
I cried when I watched this -3 I'm struggling with cutting too, and trying to stop.
MyMelody6 7 months ago
Its sad but true
trappedsoul131 7 months ago
@xKTlicious can you help mee? u seem to have alot of self-control and i would like to ask like how deep should the cuts be? i dont want to pop an artery but then again I do want to cut. what should i cut with? what if your scared? when do you do it? thanks.
-katherine
KatherineUSA 7 months ago
My slitting is starting to get out of hand, its got to the point where i'm going over the same slits, so they're gettin deeper and i've even started on my vains. I've tryed everything in the video & more but nothings worked, Any other advice you could give?
XcheekybeccaX 7 months ago
i am 13 now and have been self harming since i was 9 and i have been trying to stop since i was 11 but another tip is when you feel the urge to self harm go to the bathroom and take a SUPER freaking cold shower it pinches but it does not leave marks (unlease your in there to long you will get a rash) i do this every day to help me (this is stopid but what i do is i make my dog or cat made make them bite or scratch me so i feel the pain and i can also get away with it )
zahvatchikKryeig 8 months ago
@zahvatchikKryeig if u try and stop u can i did it when i was 10 to 12 and i just stop just hang whith friends walk your dog insted of leting it bite or scratch u i stoped by just having fun enjoy life and stop
GOSMDME 7 months ago
@GOSMDME hmm ill try but with me im not sure about that
zahvatchikKryeig 7 months ago
hey... im 15 ... ive been cutting myself since i was like 13..... its been getting worse over the years.... first it started with like five little cuts.,.... now its more than 20!!!! but the worse thing is that i not only cut myself when something getts me really angry or sad but now im cutting myself cuz its kinds fun and i enjoy the pain!!!! something iz really wrong with me!!! if u wanna no my life story juss message me!!! HELP!!!
MeAndMyShityLaptop 8 months ago
@MeAndMyShityLaptop
i done self harm some of the people i know i trust i told because keep it all in dose not help last year i deiced i would try go a hole year clean i am but it good but i have still go people around me doing it dose not help find something that will help u music or anything but cutting
1238sara 2 months ago
@MeAndMyShityLaptop
hello i used to self harm but i have stop
1238sara 1 month ago
I am 12 and I have started cutting. It was only twice but with a sharp pair of scissors. No blood but scratch marks that burn. This video made me cry again. Not with pain this time, but with joy and realization of stopping the act of cutting. Thank you. :')
19puppy 8 months ago
I am an on/off self harmer. Some days things are so bad I cut like crazy. But other days I can live without cutting. But I found the butterfly project helped for part of it. I was clean for 59 days. Then i screwed it up and started cutting again. Anyone needs a chat, message me. I'm here-3
underwaterollie 8 months ago
@underwaterollie
hello
how did you mange to stay clean
1238sara 1 month ago
The last 50 seconds meant the world to me. I'm 12 and I'm a cutter. I've been trying to stop for a while but the urge is just so strong it's hard to fight. The thing with me is I don't like talking to people about my probblems, instead I write them down in my journal. The only person I can really talk to is my brother who is always there for me. I love u zack
megadoodle456 8 months ago
I'm only 11 ... and i get bullied in skool im also a girl and i feel dissapointed in myself .. but ill try to stop .
AleynaRox 8 months ago
@ ThePlanetChild yes u r a self harmer but u can stop I believe I u and plz stop cause it will just get worse
mboobar5 8 months ago
Thank's that helped!x
Beiberloverr6 8 months ago
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look every1 who is self harming I have stopped and I no it's hard it took me 8 months to be 3 weeks blade sober so if any one needs some1 to talk to apt let there feelings out to or just some moral support email me at tjaeschke737@hotmail.com :)
som3rand0mguy27 8 months ago
i might not have stopped but this video got me to at least stop carrying one around with me. thanks, good luck to those who are still struggling like myself
sceneginger013 9 months ago
im 16 and i have been selfharming since i was 15 i dont know what to do my mum thinks im geting better but im only geting worse i feel like i need to self harm and its all started since my dad contacted me
gosslindrive 9 months ago
I'm clear for 17 days but it's like years! I wish I didn't make that first cut... I thought it will be much easier to stop! It isn't...
If you feel alone or don't know what to do, write to me. I'll be waiting!
xoxox
Bloomka96 9 months ago
i've only stopped for a 2 weeks time, then started again.
it doesn't help that my mom wants to move us across the state. :'(
JacobBlackBarkBark 9 months ago
please can someone tell me whats happening almost every day whenever i feel like im nothing compared to my brothers i go to my room and hit myself with something heavy and i dunno why but i cant stop please tell me whats happning am i a selfharmer?
ThePlanetchild 9 months ago
beautifully done :)
i always thank the videos like this with no triggers there needs to be more of them :)
i hope that you are recovering well and if your not i hope that you find the strength soon to try again :)
i've suffered from this torment for nearly twelve years and am just getting over my last relapse .....av nearly done half a year now tho :)
another method which has helped me a lot is learning to play piano...or any instrument i could see working....keeps your head n hands busy...x
kim6dubz6dem6truth86 9 months ago
Song?
drummer159753 9 months ago
This video actually made me cry xx
j03lyxx 10 months ago
Thank you very much you really made me cry (with joy I'm so touched)
skakid1998 10 months ago
It's so hard to stop...my life is so hard. Ever since 2nd grade I've been bullied...and had friend troubles...my parents are always mean to me....nothing takes away my pain better than cutting
sophiatastic101 10 months ago
you are one amazing person thankyou so much and to all of you out there who self harm we can do this! WE ARE STRONGER THAN A STUPID BIT OR METAL OR WHATEVER. THEY ARE OBJECTS WE ARE PEOPLE !!!!!!!!
TheKkiirrsstty 10 months ago
Are you...god ?
MrAwkwardFace 10 months ago
Thank you so much. I am really grateful, and it feels good to know people who care enough to make this.
bellybuttonsloveme 10 months ago
Thank you
jayrassic101 11 months ago
Thank you a lot, didnt know i would actually find a video about it on the web, I tried to kill myself infront of my school last week and i have cuts all up me and i almost slit my throat, i was told to leave and i was taken to the doctors and hospital all though i refused to go and im not sure if i should do it again, although i am really not feeling so good and i really not sure if i can go one more month ='l thanks for the video will help a lot.
FunnyRandom001 11 months ago
@FunnyRandom001-if they offer you counselling then take them up on the offer..you might be suprized how much it can help..go for a coupla weeks n if you don't feel its helping you then quit. ps if you ever need to talk mail me or the person who made this, it helps to talk to someone who knows exactly why and what for without needing to ask. i'll be more than happy to talk about anything.nothing shocks me and i've probably been done felt and thought everything your feeling right now.stay strong x
kim6dubz6dem6truth86 9 months ago
Thank you.
HHanelore 11 months ago
ive been in a hospital cause of my cutting help me stop
emmadude33 1 year ago
I really like this video. But it's easier said then done. If your writing or just listening to music it makes you depressed. Everything makes you depressed when your harming yourself. I've been for 5 years and i cant stop. I do all these things- nothing helps. Its just a disease that has to stay with you forever.
TheHeavilyBroken 1 year ago
just bear in mind that God made you and is within you. If you hurt yourself, you're hurting Him too. If you don't really want to hurt HIm, then stop :)
blui354 1 year ago
It's actually really helpful if you just draw red lines with a pen.. it's not as effective as cutting but you'll be satisfied.
PopinCandyz 1 year ago
Thank you soo much for this video... It's really made me determined to stop cutting.Thank you xx XD
MidnightHunter97 1 year ago
i managed a whole 2 months, then i went and ruined it on the way to see my counsellor and now i have to start again get though as many weeks as i can so i can finally forget.
deadyeeeyyy 1 year ago
I've been going through depression, and have been self harming for a while. I've been trying to stop, but have never been given the advice I needed. I think your tips are what I need to stop once and for all. Thanks. =]
xx
sammiGxx 1 year ago
@sammiGxx Sam, this girl Tara, has helped me so much. And I think you should talk to her about your problems coz she's so friendly and helpful :) xoxo
joliefan9 1 year ago
This helped me a LOT! I used all your tips! and now I can proudly say I don't cut, and I don't have ANY urges anymore! Thank you SO much! you are AMAZING!! ♥
risycat 1 year ago
Thank you. I needed that. I've been fighting an urge all day. I'm still struggling, but this is certainly the best SH vid on youtube I've found. Thank you. xxxxx
luvTaylorS4eva 1 year ago
this is going to sound really stupid, but this video stoppedme self harming. the point of not being judged affected me, and the tips got me through, the diary&the music/walking, it all worked, i appreciate this loads. thankyou, all the love i have, Evilroman1
evilroman1 1 year ago
@evilroman1 - Thank you so much for your comment, I'm so happy my video helped ..this comment made my day! Good job on stopping :)
xoFalseSmilesox 1 year ago
Good Job on the video. I do cut myself and I am trying to stop it and I am also getting help for it tomorrow. You have so good advices.
Kaylafraser 2 years ago
Thank you for your comment, I'm glad you like it (:
xoFalseSmilesox 2 years ago
Thanks you for uploading this :)
DevaSavant 2 years ago
I stopped self harming a while ago, but sometimes it's hard not to relapse. This video gave me hope, to know that I can get through the difficulties in life. Thank you. :)
jacobtaylor17 2 years ago
Thats great that youve stopped self harming... youre so strong. Glad you like the video :)
xoFalseSmilesox 2 years ago
great video!I suffer from depression but i dont self harm myself so i cant really give advice, but I hope you and everyone else can overcome and get better!
jmeb17 2 years ago
Thank you :)
xox
xoFalseSmilesox 2 years ago